While living in the Philippines for almost 13yrs… enjoying a carefree life. The pandemic hits the world and forced me to move back to the USA…Now that the pandemic has been lifted in the Philippines an unexpected situation happened. When I traveled back to the Philippines for the first time in two years, I documented my travel back home to Dumaguete. People were genuinely interested in RAZEL and our story… that’s when I decided to Vlog our life together. A year later the vlogging has evolved to finding ways to help others who are interested in traveling or living in the Philippines…all content are based on our own opinion and experiences… Your comments are always welcome…
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Understand this boys... Money Money Money.... Money Doesn't matter what country you are in ... internet is putting all the women on the same page .. its changing them quickly
Thomas, That sounds scary..thanks for joining us.
Only about 20% of Filipinas are genuinely attracted to older Expats, it’s common sense, they would always prefer Filipinos same culture and they can express same language and interest, you just have to take a risk and trust your gut to find the good desparate ones.
Hmmm 20% that comes out to be around 15millions Filipinas. I like my chances 😃
@@SAMLAMB don’t forget the 15 million includes a large amount of grandmas & kids.😂
Very nice place.
Thanks for joining us Edward. Have a great day.
philippine heaven for men
Yes it is
Are you hungry, Sam? LOL! I love noodles to get by before the real meals.
I was starving hehe
@@SAMLAMB I usually do 2 bowls and that will get me by a long time.
@rabidfarmer9765 😂😂😂
Problem in Philippines and expats as i see it, is that they live in concentrated western bubbles in some citys and places like Cebu Manila Boracay Dumaguete Angeles etc etc.. There u have +1000 men fishing for girls/ladys in the same small online pond. Funny enough the most guys look the same, sandals cargoshorts washed out tshirt ´and different levels of fat and out of shape and bad selfgrooming. And most guys only find scammers "working ladys" or expat butterflies jumping from expat to expat
Most Filipino men would not get serious with Filipinas who work in the bar, have children, and are married. Why would foreigners do such a thing if they want a serious relationship? If a foreigner wishes a Filipina for his wife, choose a decent Filipina. Many decent Filipinas above 30 are available in many government offices -- some are teachers, supervisors, accountants, etc.
That’s great to know Wilfred. Welcome to the channel. You have a great day!
Oh Sam - did I just hear you say you got loose money worth over half mil? LOL! Be careful, man - esp in the PHils.
Uhhh No…. 😎
They actually make 3-speed automatic bikes there. Just shift it thru the gears - no clutch. 90-125cc be plenty.
Thanks Rabid.
My advice is - do not get on a bike unless you are a willing hood ornament. They way they drive there is crazy. They have never heard of turn signals or proper lanes. LOL. They see a free lane and do not care if it is going the opposite direction. Oh come on - you have never driven a clutch?
I have, but I crashed and burned hahaha
@@SAMLAMB Practice on a hill - you will get the idea. LOL. Easy on the bike coz you got the front brake separate. In a clutch car, you gotta be quicker on the clutch if uphill. Not too bad -
@rabidfarmer9765 Rabid, I’m not going anywhere near a clutch. 😁
Women of all ages can be a "gold digger", so you might as well go for the young ones :-).
Love it, Tdoo…thanks for joining us
Well the old expats are just as ho*rny and have way more money than them young bucks there. They are not simpletons - two birds one stone. LOL> And I am more than happy to show them all a good time -is certainly no sin, Sam. Just too bad for the other guys - more for me is the way I see it.
The reason is for money, big guy! Most Filipinas, if they have a choice, would prefer to marry Filipinos who look like Coco Martin or Tom Cruise, especially if they speak Tagalog! You're welcome!!
I agree with you…but how many guys look like Tom Cruise and Coco…so I still have a chance😅
One way to not be accused of 'dating a married woman' is to take 2-3 at a time together. And just go out and eat and have fun. The more the merrier anyway. Had lots of fun when I was deployed there. Enjoy -
It’s time to go back and Philippines better watch out🤣
Expats are like a giant bass in the small pond and you got 40 young baits all around him. LOL> When you grab that hook-whichever you choose - could be your last. LOL. I do not count it against them if they like to have a little more money. You will have more than most there so just be kind and generous but not patronizing. It is actually lots of fun there. The younger ones love the 'dad-bod' there. So I am keeping my beer-belly. LOL.
Love reading your comments Rabid. 🤣but a giant Bass, dad bod, lol. When are you retiring and moving to Philippines
@@SAMLAMB in a short time I am gonna. Hope to hang out w/ the rest of the bass there. LOL>
It's pretty obvious that such relationships are transactional. Nothing wrong with it mind you and not judging but it is what it is. As long as the guy is not deluding themselves into believing that the girl "is in to you" outside of your wallet and bankrolls the girl and her entire family/ex/entourage...The same thing happens in america but the sums of money are orders of magnitude higher. How many women is Rupert bankrolling LOL. Life is short.
Reading your comments is making me to reevaluate why women are into me in the Philippines. Thanks Chris
Seriously ! Sit down and take a deep breath, try to focus and be honest with yourself !! In my mind, it’s extremely rare that a twenty year old Latina will fall madly in love with a fifty year old foreigner. I think they are looking for security and stability an older man can provide, but for haven sake don’t foul your self in believing the story about how much they love you. I now it sounds very pessimistic, and maybe I am wrong, but try too be realistic, keep an open mind.
ULF, I’m keeping an open mind and a closed pocket…😄
Hey Sam, I stumbled onto your channel last night. I like your content, it’s very thought provoking. You’re a very lucky man finding a girl like Razel……..sana all🙏🏼
The short answer is yes. Passport bros try to convince themselves that these women truly love them for who they are but this is not true. These women are after your resources, and yes, a lot of them are young. Again, what they feel for you is not sincere but this is the cognitive dissonance that passport bros have. They struggled finding a good, attractive women in Western society and suddenly get more attention abroad.
I'm Asian/American just like you, but I'm 60 dating a 23 Y.O (from the province) right now with no kids. She makes me feel that she appreciates me every single day (without her saying it). I don't care what people think of it, I've learn not to care the older I get, it's my money and I will spend it as I see fit. We go to the gym regularly and I'm keeping up with her, we try to stay active and I'm enjoying my life. She knows how to save her allowances and she help out her family from time to time like what a good daughter would do.
Thanks for joining in John. Which province are you guys staying at? Congrats on finding that special person in your life.
Same here... My baby calls me Daddy. Still a college girl. But I have no delusions she's in it for the money. Haven't met her yet. Plan to see her next year. She looks really young and I think she acts like it. I'm not bothered by the age gap too much. I suspect I'm older than her parents but I look very young myself bec I'm still getting carded sometimes if I buy beer. If her family or she has a problem with it on site, then I will not move heaven and earth. She is a hottie. But so am I. Is she scamming? I dunno. Maybe I'll know later. I think just as she can shop me out, I can do the same to her. We haven't figured out our relationship yet. I wonder if she'll be a no show when I get there. If so. That's fine, too. In the end, it's about chemistry. You can be the same age and the same culture and it's not the good, anyway. Would I try for someone older? I might, if this is a fail. Age wasn't why I considered her. Its mutual interest and common objectives. Good luck.
@@zibomacadangdang108 I think your outlook is the best. Good luck zibo. Hope everything works out for you. Let us know about your progress in the future.
a 23 yr old has nothing in common and dont want your old ass, shes wants security! nothing more and if you think anything different your a sucker. $ is all they young ones want or they have a career and their own money! you should be deported for dating a young child thats your grand daughters age! they wil also get bored after 5 yrs and cheat or leave you, dont be so dumb
The simple rule is.... If your age gap is greater than eight years, you ARE a sugar daddy. Make no mistake about it. So, treat her accordingly. Remember: Pigs do not fly! 😁
8yrs? I’m thinking 20…thanks for the comment buffalo
So a 29 year old is a sugar daddy if his girlfriend is 20?
20 yr gap lol
You should have bigger concerns than being used as a sugar daddy. Older expats want youthful Filipinas. Filipinas want a good life. Where's the problem? When you were in your twenties would you have been happy servicing a fifty to sixty year old woman? It's no less gross for young Filipinas.
Your back
I’m Baaaaack..lol
Sam?
Yes I am. Your name sounds familiar.
@@SAMLAMB Bro don't be mean, lol. You ok?
Do your due diligence. Take it slow. Every wommin around the world wants a man with resources to take care of her regardless of what she has or doesn't have. Never take a lady back to your country. Stay in her country so if she acts a fool, you will be back in the game within a week. An older gentleman will need a little leverage for a piece of mind. If she leaves, she leaves. Treat her like a companion, without falling in love. Like her enough to get over her quickly if she departs. That's what they do! 😊
That’s easier said than done for some of us BF. welcome to the channel
Why you dont ask yourself and.try to answere your question and be honest to yourself,or if you are in the position of the girl what will you do
@sysyjuan9899 hello sysy, hope all is well. I think the best advice I can give anyone and that’s including myself is to take your time and do rush into things.
No matter what no quarranty 10,20,30 years of relationship just the important is now you are happy have peace of mind and dont worry about
You have to be stupid to believe that a young woman will go out with a way older men because she loves him! That's BS! It's all about the mighty DOLLAR! If you are on your 60s, go look for a partner who is maybe 10 to 15 years younger than you. But a girl in the 20s, no freakin way!
Yes, I will be a sugar daddy.... I have no misconceptions. That said, I like to be able to turn the $$$ faucet on or off, as I choose; keeps them in line. Be sure to get a CENOMAR first..! (married women are a no-go)
"Sugar Daddies" are old but filty rich men! They love giving lavish gift to young women for companion and sexsual favors. They can live out their fantasy where they are. On the other hand, expat who live from paycheck to paycheck has to move in a foreign land like the Philippines to stretch their dollars to live a comfortable life are not "sugar daddies"; specially if they wear baseball cap and a cheap T-shirt.
Sam, she has one of the nicest smiles I have ever seen. Her whole face lights up when she smiles.
Yes she does Goatman. Thank you for the compliment.
Recommend a different career choice.
3 easy ways to know if you should get serious with a certain gal. 1) ask your parents. Their perspective is very different than your. 2) ask your friends. Having a similar perspective as you, they might see red flags you overlooked. 3) And by far the most important! What does your dog think of her? Every single time I ignored what my dog thought, was a mistake. They can sniff out someone that is manipulating you (😉) Be aware that, at least here, her friends do not want her with you. Perhaps they want you for themselves, but more often they want you gone so their little group can stay together doing (I'll be polite here) their little 'girl's night out' activities. Good luck Men. It can be scary out there. 👍
I’ll use # 3 … what type of a dog, Bloodhound? 🤣
@@SAMLAMB personally, I'm a Lab/Pittie type of guy. But any pup that is your chosen one will always look out for your best interest.
How msny foriegners do you know that have gone to jail for dating a msrried women i believe foriegners fall for the scam of the separated husband reporting them to the police unless the foriegner cough up some cash , udually the woman your dating is in on the scam. Do not pay these guys jails in the philippines have no room for cheaters
Thanks for the advice, Big Shirley …
Why are you mooning about Filipina, if that’s the problems why don’t you find a woman in your own country so you haven’t a problem.
Im actually very happy living in the Philippines with my Filipina. And 95% of my videos puts Filipina in A positive light. 💡thank you for joining us Amelia, you have a great day!
The better question is. Is she your sex play toy. The reason im saying that is that ppl are situational ppl. A old man dont want a old woman. A young girl dont want a broke man. But u have to be responsible with that situation. Dont do to much to soon. Set limits. Understand what each other wants from one another and play your position accordingly to what each party agrees to
Great comment Ghetto! You have a great day!
Love yourself!! To me as long as your happy who cares if she loves you, She's never your property ,Love yourself!! Don't worry, life is Good.
If you are older, fit and good looking they can love you. If you are older and ugly, like you, no...its about your money.
Hey Sam, great video and great comments below. Love your wisdom and reasoning. We all have those thoughts in our heads.
Another very nice video and great sharing of the "AM I A SUGAR DADDY?"... Full support as always! Good luck! Best regards po/Ned 👍👏👍
Thanks PMP… you have a great day!
@@SAMLAMB 🤝
Sam the hard truth that all expats should keep in mind is that the vast majority of young women will look for a partner close to her age for there to be a real romantic connection. Outside of this special value set it most likely will be a Transactional need. I say that because no matter how one slices it, if the woman is needy in all areas of her life then it makes sense that she would gravitate towards what we all need, security, safety, opportunity, happiness , and contentment in our lives, with some comfort. The younger man will not have the ability that the older man has gained through many years of sometimes hard work, sacrifice, and commitment to achieving life goals. Men should be ready to take off the rose colored glasses and take a hard look at at what they bring to the equation and not go down the road of thinking superficially. If the man is honest with himself and understands the dynamic of a large age relationship then there is nothing wrong with marrying a much younger woman.
Love your comment Charles. Thanks for joining us
It has nothing to do with age. Even a woman closer in age is looking for a transactional relationship. You get their beauty and femininity that you weren't able to get in the west, and in turn, they gain access to your resources. It would be foolish to believe these women are sincere in their feelings for you.
@albertc2390 I’ve read your message about 20times. Your honesty in stating the obvious has made me rethink how I perceive women in the Philippines. Thank you for joining the channel I really appreciate it.
Great video Sam! 90% of women like to marry up but men will marry down a larger amount of the time. For me she has to be a good humble lady for me to even think anything long term.
Thanks for joining us. Great advice David. Also the key to having a happy and positive experience in the Philippines is to take your time when making decision to get marry and bringing someone to the USA
@@SAMLAMB top notch advice! Better to use wisdom
@davidsirmans7475 What’s up David! Hope all is well up in the PanHandle… will the hurricanes affect your business? Thanks for the positive comment.
@@SAMLAMB it's shouldn't bother much this time thankfully
All men and all women use each other for lack of a better term, Does love grow out of it is the question?
Yes of course love grows out of it. Sometimes 😅
@@Matthew-gz4oh yes,yes and yes and much deeper
Are you back in Dumaguete did you sell the house ? 39 days before I'm on the plane I have to plan this stuff out well
No, I’m still in Venice fla. the house just went on the market. I’m giving it 45days. If not sold by then I’ll rent it.
Great video
Nice job buddy
Thanks Bear!
#1 .they all have children if they are over 20 ,over 25 they 2 or 3 .kids . #2 why the hell would you ven date a bar girl {prostitute} # 3 they want to file divorce but can not . its not legal . # 4 what was it ?
Boracay12, thanks for joining us, we really appreciate it.
If you're from the US, let me ask you this: Why travel over 7,000 miles to marry a bar girl when you can marry someone similar right here? Hahaha.
I agree with you SWO. except for one thing…and this is what I’ve found out about most of the Filipinas that works in bars… they do it for survival, for themselves and for her family…and I mean the whole family…
It seems like you got a lot of connections.People at living the area, if you want to set up a group.I live in sourasoda.I will join.We can meet somewhere and talk about future plans and the past in the philippines.
Sure, contact me on messenger: Sam Lamb , UGA LOGO