Like your honesty. A bunch of guys out here fall head over heels in love with bar girls, but they'll never admit to it because they know deep down how silly it is.

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the comment Bob. I appreciate that.

@bobnewhart4318

2 ай бұрын

​@@SAMLAMBcan we look forward to several parts to this story detailing different parts and aspects of the relationship?

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

@bobnewhart4318 by the way, are you the same Bob Newhart from the television show. If you are I want you to know I loved the characters that you played on tv and how you carry yourself when you are interviewed by Jonny Carson. Alright back to your question. It’s been a while since she and I dated. The relationship only lasted a few months. I only mention how we met and how we broke up. The in between stuff is not suitable for KZread. You have a great day Bob. Thanks for joining us.

@MrSamadolfo

2 ай бұрын

🙂 im very well seasoned now, so I just go with the flow, if they want to love bomb me i just go with it and take it in, but usually it just doesn't work like that for me anymore, its like they sense your in 'the know' so they don't really do it as much to me like before, its weird 😊

@JimmyJohn.3563

2 ай бұрын

@@MrSamadolfo Its not weird, its just being an intelligent human being, absolutely "they can sense," even when you are acting the best you can.

Hi Sam, I like that you get what Bar Girls and Women go through who due to circumstances beyond their control make choices that are demeaning to them but often times are left with few Options. We from Western societies often don't have empathy we should for the situations many women in many societies not just SEA nations face. You are right in your view that we all deserve to have an opportunity to find happiness and life fulfillment without being judged. Judge not lest ye be judged the Bible says. Without the understanding of why they are doing what they are doing and the circumstances that brought them to where they are we cannot and should not look down on others. You also demonstrate a level of compassion that is empathetic to people who struggle to find their place in this World. I wish you and your partner much happiness and I know from your previous Vlog that she and her family are facing very strong headwinds. As a person who has spent most of my adult life in South East Asia I get all the many challenges people there face in many of the developing countries. I have been married to a Filipina for many decades. Spent time in Thailand, South Korea, the list is long. Filipinos are special because of their humility and openness to everyone without judgement. I do have a little advice regarding you selling your house. By all appearances it's a beautiful house and we all need shelter, so do make sure you are careful in how and where you use the proceeds. I am also a Floridian. Ignat Ka.

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the comment and advice. RAZEL and I always appreciate your support.

Hmm maybe I need to go there and quit looking in the church 🤔

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 your video is coming up next week haha

@MrSamadolfo

2 ай бұрын

🙂 be careful in church or school, theres alot of Cameleons and Succubbusess and Bad Actors that go there looking for Sheep and Prey, those are the more dangerous type, they are the ones that are really good at pulling a Long Con that can span ten to twenty years, they will pull the plug when you least expect it and when you are at your most vulnerable

@rabidfarmer9765

Ай бұрын

There are many sinners in the church- believe you me. LoL

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@rabidfarmer9765 I’ve been there 😁

I date bargirls all the time when I go back home to latin america, we call the places 'Night Clubs', most of them are working there for normal reasons such as costs of raising their children and helping their mothers, their household is usually her and her kids and her mother, its usually a household that has no man living there. They work five days and two days are off. The Day off are usually in the middle of the week such as Wed Thurs. The hours are 3:00PM to 12:00 Midnite. If you find someone you like you can ask them if they would like to leave the place and go on a regular date if she says OK then u pay the club and you then you guys can leave together. Of course normally by then you need a car or a motorcycle. I noticed the guys that are tourists they will simply hail a taxi and they takeoff to a restaurant or Discotequa. What I do is pick them up on my Yamaha DT 125 two stroke, then we stop at a kiosk and grab something to eat and drink cause they will always say 'im hungry' then from there we go to a national park or something, then from there i take them to my home and show the place off to them, they always tell me 'you're lieing this is not ur home your just renting it' , the following day I drop them off either at their home or a bus stop of their choosing. In latin america its a little different, most of them dont want to have a relationship, they usually say they are too busy with their families, I suppose some of them have side dudes that they see from time to time but they dont really like commitment or being tied down or being told what to do by a man. They prefer to be independant. And its not just the bargirls but most girls in general. They younger they are the more likely they dont want any sort of commitment, they prefer their freedom so that they can date any new guy that they meet, their fon contacts are full of dudes, some of them have kids but most have no kids and they will tell you that they dont want kids and they dont want comitement. Even if you have money they won't give you the time of day what they are looking for is some sort of Charismatic type of dude, someone with Swagger, a Player type of dude, Its definitely a different vibe as compared to all these countries in south east asia. Its actually kind of intimidating, its like being thrown into an aquarium full of Piranhas and Sharks LOL. You guys are welcome to visit me next time I go down. =)

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Wow! Now that’s freedom and non judgmental. Are we talking all over Latin America or major cities like Rio?

@MrSamadolfo

2 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB 🙂 any country in central america or south america, including all the nearby islands such as puerto rico, dominica republica, cuba, barbados, trinidad, etc. Of course you will have commenters and trolls disagreeing saying 'not all' OR 'not most' but dont believe them, they are lieing to you, its a Money World thru and thru, play that song and turn it up: LUNI - Money World , and shout out to Kevin Samuels 😅 Oh by the way I love Karaoke, i have a karaoke all in one speaker setup down in latin america, i need to buy more they are very useful, they come with rechargeable batteries now so u can take them outside to the backyard for a while

Sam Lamb....Thank you for clearing that up about the bargirl that you were dating. She had a heartfelt story behind her. Some of those bargirls may just be the sweatest Filipinas you will ever meet. They might just need to be rescued by the right people. Sam, if you ever make out on the other side of Florida, make sure you reach out to me. I’m in Miami. We’ll have lunch.😊

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Sure will. Thanks for joining us. You have a great day!

Beautiful home. No judgement zone

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

😃thank you Miami. Welcome to the channel.

Bar girls are good to be friends and respect them but that's it, I personally will never date them or even worse have a relationship with them just because the good bar girls (the ones that are good for relationship) they are the exception not the rule, plus there are so many hardworkers/educated good girls (relationship material) out there in the Philippines why choose the ones that wants to get easy money instead of trying to change their lifestyle and get decent jobs.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Calo , I treat everyone equally. Thank you for joining in.

@calo2006

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Me too, I said I can be friends with them (even thought I don't go to girly bars, but I met them in the street afew times) and I respect them like I respect any other women..... I will just never dated them or have a relationship.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@calo2006 I agree, Carlo

Becareful those girls or I would say women in the Philippines needs cash because of poverty just be smart for real

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the comment, vintage.

All fun until you fall in love with one. Been there, done that.

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

I agree

Hey Sam, are you ok?

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I’m good big John. Hope all is well

They all have Sally-Sadstories behind them. And when you hear the stories is when they got - you - emotionally tied. LOL! The mama-san is always there to protect them. That is why I also hit up the mama-san too when I was younger. They can be a lot of fun from the years of experience. I had dreams of being a pimp too back in the day. LOL.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

🤣…Rabid, Rabid I loved your comment… But a pimp? Come on. I say a lot of things on my video… and I may think of it, but I would never say it. A Pimp!!! 🤣😅😅 you have a great day guy. Be safe.

I don't degrade or disparage any bar girl, although many Filipinas do. I don't look down on BGs. The only difference between them and other Filipinas are 'Circumstances' - Most BGs come from impoverished areas, have only grammar school education, many grew up in squatter housing in their home province, many have kids, and ALL have family obligations. So BGs will latch onto a foreigner even quicker than most Fiipinas. I have never met a BG who actually liked working in the bar, they all did it out of necessity When in the province with my wife, some of her relatives disparage her for being married to a foreigner with a 32 year age gap. These are the same "good" province girls who have 5,6,7,8, and even 9 kids from various Filipino partners, many of whom have disappeared. IMO - Province Girls, City Girls, Bar Girls are ALL EQUAL. I think anyone who thinks a Province Girl or a Girl he meets on line is better is kidding himself. The only way to find a "good" Province girl is to grab one when she turns 18 and hope she doesn't already have kids. While City Girls are more educated, they are also more cunning. The Scammers you meet on on-line dating sites are some of the worst. As for Bar Girls - Most Bar Girls ARE Province Girls.

@SAMLAMB

8 күн бұрын

All true Wolfgang. All true. Thanks for joining us. I appreciate it.

Good video Sam. Yes, its not anyone's place to judge. For whatever reason, true or lies, bar girls start as young un-skilled people burdened with heavy financial responsibilities, its survival. Yes I do believe the profession kills a part of their soul, but I also believe I would do the same if I was in the same situation.

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Thanks Jimmy. Hope all is well. 3 more months and it’s SEC TIME.

@JimmyJohn.3563

2 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Hey Sam. Right now I'm sweating the Braves, playing like dog doo doo lately

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

@JimmyJohn.3563 lol. I heard they lost Acunia. I don’t follow them much anymore. Go Braves.

@JimmyJohn.3563

2 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Yeah he broke for 3rd. base and just collapsed, torn his left ACL. We won the World Series in '21 without him, so. . . . .

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

@@JimmyJohn.3563 yeah, you guys got a good team. I’m sure you’ll turn around

I like ur AUNT so much. Y can i not have an aunt like urs ?

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

She was an amazing woman. I did not mention For the first 8yrs of my life I was raised by her…the stories I can tell you guys 😂..

❤ there all Beautiful, even the mamasans❤

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Yeah, love the mamasan😃

😏 eh brother Sammy, if you really wanna know me, here is my GOTO Song to warm me up for a night out at the local Night Clubs of Central America, heres the song, its up on youtube, turn it up broh and make sure you have some Subwoofers hooked up too: Charly Black, Daddy Yankee - Gyal You A Party Animal 👊😎

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Dude I love that song Lol.

@MrSamadolfo

2 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB 👊😏 Hell Yeah Brother, download it and add it to all your smartphones =D

good thing, it was 15 yrs ago

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Yes it was..🤣

4:41 A hot girl came in your room and you felt that big? that is not very promising, lol. But on a serious note, I know ofcourse what you mean. There is lots of pain and drama that many people go through. It can make you feel humble and that is a good thing!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the comment, chocolate. We appreciate you joining in on the topic.

@chocolatecookie8571

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Thanks. I appreciate you too. And what I believe to be interesting for you is mister Sam Vaknin here on YT. I learned a lot from him. He is a true gem on the digital space.

SURVIVAL that's why. Best thing they have that can buy food...

Cool I’m up to 136 450 followers

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Wow. Love it. I’ll be in town tomorrow. Last minute touch up before I list the house for sale.