*I don't think Philippines women are the same as many years ago. Western culture is influencing them*

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

100% agreed Andrew.

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

🙂 the whole world is collapsing into Sodom and Gomorrah 🔥 if your traveling anywhere in this world you better be Street Wise or you bettter just stay home

@borodinomarengo6631

Ай бұрын

They watched too much Korean Novela. Plus they have this kind of notion " Filipinas are always right when it comes to relationship.

@randomcommenter7414

Ай бұрын

Modern, Western sensibilities, just bring to the surface what underlies the culture, ways and thinking of Filipino women today.

@xtrm2009

Ай бұрын

Indeed they are influenced. From what I saw, they are worse than the western ones. Imagine such thing. smh...

What's he's saying applies to women in general, not just Filipino women.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you ….🙏

@evelynfrancisco9751

Ай бұрын

AMEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@keremcagintv

Ай бұрын

Key issue is that to have strong relationships, both men and women alike need to be transparent!

@crimestoppers1877

Ай бұрын

True!

@ivannovotny4552

Ай бұрын

@@keremcagintv - I concur, with mutual trust and respect.

No matter what Country you are in, staying single is best for men.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I did not think that way most of my adult life…always thought I needed to be with someone….now that I’m older..I have to agree with you.

@Chris-ts8oh

Ай бұрын

Yes but it's so damn lonesome.

@robertgartner6072

Ай бұрын

@@Chris-ts8oh Get a pet for companionship :-)

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@robertgartner6072 omg Robert 😂

@neftali1049

Ай бұрын

100% Facts Homie.. 😎😎😎

I agree 👍 1 No single moms. 2 No bar girls. Add: 1 do not bring the woman to another nation including your nation. 2 avoid online dating as much as possible. 3 no tattoos 4 no limitless paying for the woman. Passport Men follow most of these guidelines.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Very smart Cowboy…we should all adopt some or all of those rules….

@Panda-gu9wz

Ай бұрын

Looks like I am violating those rules now…😂😂😂

@PaulMcB873

Ай бұрын

You're basically saying. There are no Filipinas that meet your criteria.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@Panda-gu9wz 🤣🤣🤣🤣😎😎😎 Love It….

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@PaulMcB873 hmmm, no im saying I was a bit immature and looking for love in the wrong places. I’m happy now with my current Filipina gf of 6 yrs. Thanks for joining in , Paul.

I’m too lazy to marry anyone 💚

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

There’s nothing wrong with that…be safe Legacy…

@kentruck1334

Ай бұрын

😂 I feel the same way

@lip1599

Ай бұрын

Lol same even at age of 30’s

@rodan2852

Ай бұрын

I just dont have the patience to baby people.

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😒👍 FACTS, Slackers Unite! 👊😏

I've travelled regularly to Thailand, Cambodia and Philippines for decades and can state that all women have their own agendas; (just as we males do) and they all well know how to take a man down Asset and Money wise. Some are easily recognised that way others not so as they play the longer game, but theyre all going in the same direction. We heterosexual guys are at a distinct disadvantage when it comes to a serious involvement / relationship, dont make any woman the centre of your life, maintain your Man frame and personal interests , sports, hobbies and daily/weekly routines; dont neglect your proven friends or career /retirement rewards. Restrict any and every woman as an adjunct to your life, dont allow her to dominate it. "Men love idealistically while women love opportunistically" (Rollo Tomassi. MGTOW.) Embed that in your mindset and women are placed in their appropriate context.

@reigninblood123

Ай бұрын

You mentioned Thailand, Cambodia and the Philippines. Out of those three which do you recommend?

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@reigninblood123 I would recommend Philippines. You’ll love it here

@gobfranklin6759

Ай бұрын

Great comments.

@reigninblood123

Ай бұрын

Well it’s not the case with women only being after your money these days. Women can make their own money and date men they really like. Women have been empowered and are self sufficient. That may not be the case in all of south East Asia but things are moving in that direction.

@reigninblood123

Ай бұрын

Well it’s not the case with women only being after your money these days. Women can make their own money and date men they really like. Women have been empowered and are self sufficient. That may not be the case in all of south East Asia but things are moving in that direction.

You know the saying; you can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@EyeSpy-pg5cw

Ай бұрын

I was almost gonna write the same thing.😁

@reigninblood123

Ай бұрын

I actually think that line goes back to the 1990s or possibly even earlier

@alanforrester6900

Ай бұрын

Another saddo who can’t get a woman

@penguinvic9892

Ай бұрын

I’ve got a true crime storybook of a nice kind-hearted Christian man who attempted to make a good woman out of a bar girl … it didn’t end well for him … she won his estate but then went to jail !!

Good advice Sam. Too many expats are misleading women and damaging them emotionally, they fail to understand how these women take a relationship seriously.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment. We appreciate you.

@user-jq4fz6co8b

Ай бұрын

I agree. The whole passport bros thing tends to be a dogwhistle for going over there for sex tourism. Of course it’s not true of all, but I continuously see those channels operating as such….they’re not immediately trying to settle down, as they like to make claims. It’s about leveraging the novelty of being foreign to get easy sex that they wouldn’t get in the West. Ultimately, those men will turn the women of other countries into exactly the kind of women they’re running away from. Single mothers, promiscuous, etc. Makes no sense.

@cjjaxxon

Ай бұрын

Not true. Everybody saying that men are misleading these women are being disingenuous.

@piotr5338

Ай бұрын

Blood not water use to say my grand mom .

I'm Filipina,but I agree with you about your reasons for not dating Filipinas.👍👍👍

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you , Victoria. The stories I shared happened mostly when I first came to the Philippines. And the last thought on my video was a combination of my feelings from a comment one of my ex gf shared with me. And that’s don’t start dating a Filipina and tell them you love them if you have no intentions of committing into the relationship.

@MuhammadAli-xw4yc

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB interesting, I'm hispanic and muslim. It is disgusting to a believer this dating satanic nonsense, Dating is forbidden to all believers in God. For the Godless people who follow desires this dating is normal behaviour. Satan loves this degenerate behaviour. You see that is the test, follow God or fall into the traps of satan. Any woman who spreads her legs before marriage is a red flag and any man who wants to to fornicate is not to be taken seriously because he should be a leader and love God and not follow satan.

@xtrm2009

Ай бұрын

filipinas the worst, compared to western women

@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh

Ай бұрын

Salamat, ate Victoria... I also felt like walking ATM while dating Pinays, so I said to myself - single naman. Pozdrawiam serdecznie z Polski

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I actually feel western women are much worse than Filipinas. And I feel the women from the Philippines are the best if you are looking for a serious relationship.

Never understood why men think that women in other countries are gonna be different.

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😒 thats on the dudes for being Stupid and Never Growing Up, its a Money World just like the song by Luni

@josephmontezuma5089

25 күн бұрын

They are different

@jackieruso6493

16 күн бұрын

Yeah, I never understood that either. Apparently, they've never heard of the hit TLC show 90 Day Fiancée. There's a whole franchise on that show (along with the spin off shows) and that proves why dating internationally can also be a hot mess.

@MrSamadolfo

16 күн бұрын

@@jackieruso6493 😏 how about: aint nothing going on but the rent, gotta have a jay o bee if u wanna bee with me 😅 shiiiii

@SAMLAMB

16 күн бұрын

@jackieruso6493 I’ve heard of it. Watched a few episodes.

To tell the truth,Filipinas are fast becoming American women 2.0 with crass materialism.Im talking from first hand experience.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I hope not. There are still a lot of beautiful minded women in the Philippines. I have one now.

@kingmaafa120

Ай бұрын

Say it again I see many now have their own KZread channels 😮

@randomcommenter7414

Ай бұрын

It’s much more worse than that.

@kingmaafa120

Ай бұрын

@@randomcommenter7414 in which way

@randomcommenter7414

Ай бұрын

@@kingmaafa120 - Keep studying Filipino culture and history especially expats stories on practical matters in addition to their personal experiences. After a while you will begin to see how harsh Philippines culture can be. There is a brutally to Filipino culture that frankly is too hard to believe. I always tell guys to aim higher.

Men, Female Nature is universal. THES women are not much different.

@beekeepermariadelgado6806

Ай бұрын

And desperate men with visions of a subservient wife massaging him for life, not happening!

@poeticprincee9750

Ай бұрын

Absolutely!

Having a 'temporary fling / paid sex worker doesn't break your bank or property split. You can walk away and have your fantasy fulfilled without the baggage. A lot cheaper and no hassles.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Great comment.

@DiorDonnie_45

Ай бұрын

Ask Trump how paying for sex worked out smh

@sugoidessho

Ай бұрын

Amen. IMHO Filipinas are for recreational use only.

@rp7r54

29 күн бұрын

SOME PEOPLE HATE THE TRUTH

@marlyngunschannel523

18 күн бұрын

It doesn’t break your bank but consumes your soul 😂 end up feeling empty

Divorce is actually illegal there, dude...it's not just that they don't believe in it. She just wanted someone to pay for her annulment.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

At the time, 12 yrs ago, no one told me divorce was illegal…I’ve learned a lot just by reading your comments…thanks

@martialway81

Ай бұрын

It Was Legalized the other day

@happysolitudetv

Ай бұрын

Wait...

@pleaseactright1

Ай бұрын

@@martialway81 No not yet. It still hasn't pass the Senate vote. I just checked with a Philippines lawyer yesterday because a friend of mine asked.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Ok so still no divorce?

You marry a Filipina you also marry her family. Makes sure you have lotta dough to support every one in her family including her ex- Filipino boyfriend or exfilipinohusband. YOU WILL BE THE WALKKNG ATM.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

😅

@penguinvic9892

Ай бұрын

You should choose a family where everyone has a good job and / or their own business … and even then DO NOT BE TOO GENEROUS !!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@penguinvic9892 once again thanks for the advice, Penguin.

@rp7r54

29 күн бұрын

A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY THE SAME STATEMENT. ANOTHER PERSON SAID THAT THAI FEMALES WILL AN OLDER MAN, SO THAT HE CAN SUPPORT HER AND HER BOYFRIEND.

@monas

29 күн бұрын

Ex Filipino husband? Lol there is no divorce in the Philippines. Lots of foreign men go to the Philippines and don't realize they are trying to marry a woman who is already married, therefore breaking the law. And the woman most likely won't tell you she is still legally married. And marrying an already married woman, that can land you in prison in the Philippines.

They are not divorced because there is no divorce in the Philippines.

My rules was i don't date a Filippina with children or parents. It was easy to find one when i looked at the end of 30 age range.

Divorce is illegal in the Philippines. You can only get an annulment which is very expensive and a very long process. It's not about beliefs.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you Easterly…I appreciate your input. I’m learning, lots…

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you Easter lily

@WhiteGirlHeaven

Ай бұрын

Despite these advancements, with a population of around 113 million people, the Philippines, alongside the Vatican City State, is one of two countries where divorce remains illegal. Executive order no. 209.Jan 29, 2024

@paulruano1903

Ай бұрын

​​@@WhiteGirlHeavengood, lets hope it will remain illegal for a very very very long time.

@WhiteGirlHeaven

Ай бұрын

@@paulruano1903 Why do you want that?

I've noticed that a large contingent of Passport Bros from the US go to the Philippines, looking for wives. While I support them doing this, your story is a cautionary tale, which exposes the pitfalls that exist (there's always a dark side). Awareness of the place is necessary.

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

🙂 Having a passport doesn't really mean anything, your basically a stranger in a strangle land and theres a million ways that things can go sideways for you, if you are in trouble who are you going to call to bail you out?

When I was stationed in the Philippines from 1988 to 1991. When the bases were starting to close down in 1991. The women were getting very aggressive in trying to get Navy guys to marry them. Those who did get married to the bar girls. When they bought them back to San Diego. Their wives started hanging out with the other Filipina bar girls in San Diego. When the ship went to sea their Filipina bar girls , was hanging out at the officer's club . And they were sleeping with officers when hubby was away. A lot of them, when they got to San Diego, showed little interest in their marriage. They got what they wanted a sailor to bring them to San Diego.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I’ve heard those stories from My dad he was based at Clark airbase back in the late 60s. That’s one of the reasons I visited Angeles back around 2010 just to see his old stomping grounds.

@eQuariuz

25 күн бұрын

Memories. One family who had a young 18 yr old navy son, sent her back without him knowing til it was too late.

@FernandaCabellon

24 күн бұрын

its not bad to learned your lesson. you have a choice to send her back, if you think she's not treating you right. look not only filipina does that! so many women in this world are like that!

@SAMLAMB

23 күн бұрын

@FernandaCabellon I agree with you Fernanda. It’s universal.

Anyone going overseas to find a woman could be a winner. But still be careful. Some women regardless of the country, could play you, waste your money and time, and in the end leave you heartbroken. Pick someone who likes you and wants you.

@davidjohnson6734

Ай бұрын

Providing she is the right person 😮

@acw2237

Ай бұрын

Low eye queue comment

@keremcagintv

Ай бұрын

As long as they find someone that is high value and trustworthy!

@BillyTimes-dw7vs

Ай бұрын

Facts ... I'm on the hunt for miss Bulacan miss Philippine universe 2024 that's a fine women 😆

@rodan2852

Ай бұрын

Lower mileage and less rust 😂

Thank you for this….I have officially made my mind up on marrying ANYONE at this point. Its an absolute “NAH” for me. Apparently it’s never your woman, it’s just your TURN.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

😅

@josephmontezuma5089

25 күн бұрын

My buddy has been married to a Filipina for 38 years and have 3 kids together so no. It only applies to a few.

@SAMLAMB

24 күн бұрын

@josephmontezuma5089 100% agree, Joseph.

Because of the insanely high rate of single mothers in PH, you should assume any girl you meet online there has kids, so it doesn't surprise you when it comes out. I think after a few dates, a man who is serious about a PH woman should bluntly tell her she needs to submit to a background check to make sure her story is true. This story is not as crazy as the women still living with their ex and in some cases living with him on sugar daddy's dime.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I do know there’s a high rate of single mothers in the PI…The law in the Philippines really doesn’t protect the women. If they have a law that forces the father to pay child support I guarantee you there will be less single moms in the Philippines.

@yaimavol

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB They probably don't have the system to garnish wages like they do in the US if you don't pay. US courts will find your money one way or another.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

That’s why I said that law will curtail the single mother. If a Filipino know they have to pay child support, I guarantee you they’ll be less men going around having unprotected sex. As of now, many young Filipino men goes around having sex with multiple women, getting them pregnant with no accountability.

@mikesolns1364

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB We have such law in the US and yet our number of single moms is exorbitant Stop trying to make men responsible without demanding the same from women Do you not know she let him hit it raw She had no second thoughts Now she's a single mom? Geesh, shaking my head

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@mikesolns1364 I have my thoughts on why there’s so many single moms and how you can slow down that trend. But that’s for another video.

i'm 62 , never married or had kids, but from what i have observed and by the way i hear so many married men or those in an ltr, talk about their experience , it seems to me that both of those things do more to make a mans life more stressful than it does to make it more enriched, no matter the ethnicity of either person or where they are from.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for joining in David. My life and my travels through the Philippines in the last 16yrs has been an exciting one. I wouldn’t have traded for anything. Come join me my friend. 😎

@rodan2852

Ай бұрын

Me and my buddy from highschool are taking a trip there this summer. He wants to see some girls, I wanna ride motorcycles, explore and see some ww2 history

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@rodan2852 Phil/Am war memorial is worth seeing. Here in Dumaguete we have a small ww2 museum

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😏 Dam, that was direct and to the point, you focused it into a laser point, that pretty much sums up Red Pill and Mig Tow and Black Pill, nice broh 👍

@roymoxley2587

Ай бұрын

Damn straight I’m 62 as well been married to a America women for 11 years she of coarse wanted out in 2006 No kids I dated but all the women I dated in the USA were horrible. I now live in Thailand with my long time girlfriend which she is close to my age and hell no I won’t marry her and she is fine with that. Her daughter is now 28 and her husband died many years ago with cancer She is a good women No drama no cheating she does not drink ,smoke, and takes care of herself .I really am lucky now retired and have a good women

Filipino men here I've dated few filipinas before all of it was nothing but an awful experience. I have good experience dating japanese women if I'm going to date again it would be japanese women not filipina.

@SAMLAMB

24 күн бұрын

Thanks for joining in the comment kamado..

Most Filipina women with kids have been ditched by the father long ago, probably 80% , so right out of the gate your way off reality.

It's true Sam. I was in the Philippines (Subic Bay, Angeles City) for many years. I saw those kind of love thing many times. Anyway enjoy your life and stay safe. Love from Nepal. ❤

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the comment Rhita…we appreciate you. Be safe

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB 🤔 His name is Sam, im Sam too 👊😏

I had a similar experience. Dated a Filipina, after a year or so found out she was married, paid for an annulment, but it just didn't work out. They all think American guys have endless money.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that Don…looks like you went a step further than I did…keep trying, it took me 12 years to find mine…good luck…

@JonSudlowpc

Ай бұрын

Is there a database you can check to see if a girl is married or not that you know of?

@Don-mu2qh

Ай бұрын

@@JonSudlowpc Ask her to let you purchase a certificate of no marriage for her. It doesn't cost very much. 500 - 1000 pesos.

@acw2237

Ай бұрын

On-line about 300 peso​@@Don-mu2qh

@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh

Ай бұрын

Not only Americans, man... They think that all whites have money like Bill Gates or Elon Musk. Greetings from Poland

HI Sam, just stumbled upon your channel. Just wanna say that you are an incredible human being. Your actions are wholeheartedly positive, and it's sad that you were screwed by those ladies. You deserve receiving a better long term opportunity to find your lady. I am Thai and grow up in europe, thus I am able to decrypt the mentality and communication on both side of the nation. There are similarities between Thais and Filipinas. I wish you best of everything.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the comment. These experiences happened to me before I found my special Filipina. RAZEL and I have been together for the last 6yrs and we are going strong.

@FernandaCabellon

24 күн бұрын

excuse me, not only Thai and filipina works at the bar. many women all over the world that works at the bar for some reasons. like they have kids to feed or put food on the table. they are not dirty women. guys now a days do the same. actually I am proud of them is not decent but they are good mother. at least they are not thief. they just want to survive.. stop putting them down.

The first 3 yes, the last one. . . . Not so simple! And I think most of us older men know, female weave a complex web when it comes to the matter of the heart.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

You are absolutely correct. I’m still working on #4. He’s A mess 😂

I was in the U.S Navy on that side of the world and everything this man is saying is true!!!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you. Appreciate that.

@rickg882

Ай бұрын

Being in Subic Bay PI was enough for me.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@rickg882 been to subic many times. Had a lovely time.

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😏👍 YMCA - In the Navy 🚢⛵

@rickg882

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB When I was there I was chased by monkeys coming out of the jungle, chased by by women/bar girls, chased by Jeepney's with people trying to rob me, I was glad to leave the PI.

If you will get involve with a Pilipina girl, make sure that you check her background.. She must be professional, can stand on her own.. financially..?A woman whose educated enough.. anyway, its all up to you guys!!

@SAMLAMB

16 күн бұрын

Eleanor, I’ve never done that with any woman in any country. Now, are you saying we should check the background women in America or just the Philippines

That was from the heat Bro 🙏. Bless up ya'self. You just confirmed to me to give them SE Asian scammers, a WIDE berth.

Excellent video Sam. I agree with the last part of your video completely.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thanks Jon …you have a great day!

if the husband is a cop run to the hills

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I almost ran back to the USA 😂

I was stationed in Seoul Korea for a year while in the military. I really enjoyed it there. Great food and beautiful women.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I’m in total agreement with you on both points…what a beautiful country..

@marijolivitzky4336

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Great video. BTW, are you Korean/American yourself?

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@marijolivitzky4336 thanks you for watching our video. Marijo, I was adopted by an American soldier at a very young age, my biological parents are from Taiwan. I am one of the very few aboriginal people from Taiwan. The Atayal tribe.

@josephjoly9442

Ай бұрын

In Philippines divorce is illegal

@commonsenseisntcommon1776

18 күн бұрын

@@josephjoly9442 -I think they are changing that

Valuable lessons that just need to be told. And spoken from actual experiences. And even for those who knows it already, it never hurts to hear and repeat those common sense lessons. Afterall, some man make those mistakes also repeatedly hahah

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

So true Dennis. That’s why I settled down 6yrs ago with Razel…she keeps me out of trouble 😀

@ikgamer1

Ай бұрын

Women has everywhere the Same Nature

@ejtaylor73

Ай бұрын

That's because so many are lacking common sense now-a-days. We learn best through pain, no matter how many times your parents told you not to touch a hot stove, it wasn't until you actually did it and got burned did you realize it hurts, and LEARNED not to do it again. Some of these guys will just have to get burned to LEARN to stop doing it.

based on my understanding, the father usually is not in the picture

You were not wrong for breaking up with her. I’m proud of you. A friend of mine he dated a bar girl and they broke up a month later. She got pregnant with another man’s baby and caught HIV because she had a train ran on her.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Ouch , now that’s bad…thanks for joining in

Excellent presentation. Liked, subscribed, and rang that bell.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Wow! Thank you so much..we really appreciate you joining us today…have a great day!

I think some of these women are breaking the man's heart. After dating one of these women for a while, here's what you learn. Last minute surprise, oh, by the way, I have children. The next moment surprise is,oh, by the way, I'm still married. Make that make sense!😮

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

In my case only one and that was enough. 😎

@FernandaCabellon

24 күн бұрын

there's is so many guys are like that as well not only women

Women in general are all going to look for a certain amount of security and resources. They are biologically wired to do that. As such, entering into ANY relationship is a negotiation, and as it goes on, it is an ongoing negotiation.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Never thought of it like that. Wish someone had told me that when I was younger. 😁

similar story with me. She waited almost a year before mentioning she was still married lol. Learned my lesson on how to approach things and will purchase that form to make sure she's actually single.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I’ve been with my current gf for 6yrs. All is good now

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

sure, thats the risk you take when ur dating strangers, its called the Long Con, they hide stuff so that the money keeps coming in OR they hope they can soften you up with time before they tell you the truth, hoping by then you will be sucker still, its shady broh, Never Trust A Stranger

@paulruano1903

Ай бұрын

You can request the public certificate. Its available for anyone, and it has government info of her age, marriagestatus, etc.

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

@@paulruano1903 🙂true, what i actually do in latin america is i ask whoever im dating to hand over he national id card so i can make a copy of it, in case u mess with me i will report u to the authoritys

You don't want the government sleeping in the matrimonial bed.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Now that’s a great comment. Thanks sunrise.

@natashadickson4819

Ай бұрын

The government will always be involved in matrimony...to prevent minors from being married off, to prevent bigamy/polygamy, to make rulings on jointly own possessions, inheritance, taxes, immigration status of the spouse, etc.

The Philippines is good for a vacation, Nothing serious,I would just clap as many Cheeks as possible before I return.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Omg , Michael. Thanks for joining in 😉

Hi Sam,..great 👍 video. Thanks for the important advice. Keep up the great work and take care.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thanks Flori, you have a great day!

I took my wife from the Philippines to America for one year and she was anxious to move back to our home in the Philippines. We’re happily married near Tagaytay and she’s a green card holder.

@SAMLAMB

6 күн бұрын

Tagaytay is a beautiful place Greg. Now you have two beautiful things in your life. A beautiful place and a beautiful wife. Congratulations.

Great listening to your experiences. Made me reflect- after 3 marriages to good girls with bad divorces at the end, I never had problems with bad girls.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I can relate. I almost made it a fourth. What was I thinking 🤔

@BarnabyBarry

Ай бұрын

Me too-2 ex Flipinas-now I am in Thailand! Now I pay monthly severance pay-much better and cheaper than a divorce judgment!

@jtuneddc5428

Ай бұрын

@@BarnabyBarryhey what do you mean? 3 good girls turned out bad? And you never had a bad experience with bad girls?

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@jtuneddc5428 I think I’m attracted to bad girls 😂

@Dee-pv8lb

Ай бұрын

@jtuneddc5428 I really never had real bad experiences with bad girls. I always get rid of them ASAP. But I still go for good girls because it is always better being with someone you like. Hard to develop anything (mostly trust) with a bar girl.

No hymen, no diamond

@commonsenseisntcommon1776

Ай бұрын

There are no virgins left

@morlandoemtp

Ай бұрын

@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 then non are worth marrying

@R-L-I

Ай бұрын

I’ve never heard that one! 😂 I’m a use it! 🤣

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

🤣

@marcusmoyses3809

Ай бұрын

VIRGINITY COULD BE POSSIBLE, BUT TODAYS REALITY IS THAT WOMEN VIRGIN OR NOT IF THEY HAVE DREAMS, ATTRACTION, LISTENS TO ANOTHER FRIEND WOMEN OR ARE SEDUCED THEY MAY TRY NOT ONLY ONE MAN OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP. MARRIED OR NOT A WOMEN MAY TRY SEX AND HAPPINESS WHENEVER THEY WANT TO. NO ONE CAN STOP THEM. LIKE A WOMEN CAN NOT STOP A MEN. ASK YOUR MOTHER TO CONFIRM. SHE WILL TELL THE TRUTH.

Point 4 applies when contemplating any sexual relationship with a woman of child-bearing age. Something I found out from experience as a young man.

@SAMLAMB

17 күн бұрын

Hmmmm, I’ll agree with that. Thanks for joining us Nev

First is to learn what is the 'less' i want for a woman to give me so i ll be pleased. Second is what is the 'more' i will give to her to be pleased. After, i make the relationship and stand to my limits. If she is press for more, the road is open to go to the next and me to take the next chance. The women teach me to be in love with the relationship i want to be and not with the person. In any case, its better to be alone than in a relationship with the wrong person.

It's not that she doesn't want to get divorced, it's just that there is no divorce in the Philippines. All they have is annulment and it's very expensive and almost impossible to get approved. What they have is legal separation which is very common, only thing is neither party will be able to get married to another person.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Wish I knew that 12 yrs ago it would’ve saved me alone of time and stress. Thank you for the clarification Sieg

@ivannovotny4552

Ай бұрын

@Sieg Not like in Saudi Arabia where one can get divorce over the phone or after repeating "I'm divorcing" and taking shower 3 times. 🙂

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@ivannovotny4552 really? I’m moving there🤣

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😏 this sucks for all these husbands too, so basically they are running Harems, thats crazy broh

Super duper, thanks for the advice Sam. A very straightforward video, very informative w/no BS !

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for taking your time to comment, Jon

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I meant Ron

@paulruano1903

Ай бұрын

Good video. But the title was misleading. Part clickbait and maybe bad english.

Yeah, right now I'm dating a Filipina, but everything you say is correct. Do not date one that is married or has kids. Be picky and be ready to cut and run, date ones with a degree and be picky about your preferences. It's probably best to date from sites like Christian Filipina, and don't get a drinker etc, get one with strong values. If you want a long-term relationship and love a large family then these girls can be the best for you, just be careful and listen to this guy's advice. Great video.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you Rick. It took me 12yrs to find a good Filipina. We’ve been together for 6yrs

Filipinas and the Philippines is way too overrated. Can find better quality girl in Japan!

@Abdul..

Ай бұрын

But you need to speak Japanese. If you don’t. Then you can’t find a women over there.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I think Abdul has a point😅

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😒👍 sure, go for the Porcelain Dimepices that have Money and Connections, get yourself something really nice, you deserve it

@stst77

Ай бұрын

I’m in Japan, the Japanese women are more honest, you won’t run into the problem of married women marrying you, or Japanese women taking a chunk of your salary every month to send to their parents, and Japanese women tend to act more wifely and decently BUT there are other serious cultural differences such Japanese women tend to control the household purse strings and can be very stingy with you. They can go out with their friends but might be tight on the budget with you. If you like to control your own salary this might be a problem. Japanese people in general are not as verbally or physically affectionate as westerners so you might feel deprived. Sexless marriages are a real thing in Japan. Japanese women can be very critical. Culturally they are more likely to tell you what’s wrong with you than to praise you so that can be a problem especially for westerners who grew up in a praise culture. Japanese people can be very particular about things. Someone described Japan as the land of OCD people and I think it’s a good description. Everything from childhood has been carefully taught and indoctrinated into the people as to how to do each task so any deviation from that one way of doing things can upset the woman especially. Every culture comes with its own specific problems on top of individual personality problems. People need to consider this when dating outside the culture.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@@stst77 great comment stst. Really appreciate you joining us and sharing your thoughts. Thank you. 🙏

Haha nice story bro That's right

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment, Find…you have a great day!

@maryclairecruzado4288

Ай бұрын

Oh sad

So in the end there is no hope for Passport bros anywhere in the world because their own men reveal why they are no good!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

There’s always hope, for passports bros, Tennis. Considering the alternatives that they have to put with back home? There’s always hope😁

@user-td9pg2vg8p

25 күн бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Agreed it's a sad state of affairs. Especially in Canada, where divorce laws changed, and applied retroactively to marriages made before the changes. These are of such a low morale calibre, an outrage, which should cause a revolution against all such despotic, idiotic, spineless governments! Warn all men: to consult divorce lawyers before voluntarily "committing" to an "institution" better known as the "MARRIAGE TRAP" MGTOW

you were incredibly lucky 6 minutes 6 seconds she played Russian roulette with your life. and she had three bullets in the weapon. you were incredibly lucky.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Andre, I didn’t think of it that way during the heat of the moment. I’m just happy I’m not in that situation now.

@russianaircraft376

Ай бұрын

I would love to be completely honest with you. but you know this is KZread. you need to censor yourself very much but you really dodged a big risk

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@russianaircraft376 yeah, but I can only share my experiences. No make believe. Hope others can learn from it.

Your not wrong and good thing your older and have it together could if gotten ugly but nice job lot of the things you talk about spot on! Except I was married to a Provence Filipina and she cheated with a co worker here in the USA 🇺🇸 I’m scared for life lol 😂

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I would like to think I’m older and wiser 🤣🤣..be safe Bear…

Awesome video Sam i know exactly what u saying i dated a few fillipino women for that reason i never got over excited because i found out 2 of them were still married. I just stay single and just date your money stays in your wallet longer.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you guy. Appreciate your time.

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😒 just rent or lease them out for a while and then bounce

On the other hand, a woman who makes many men happy rather than one miserable will always get my vote. LOL!

@SAMLAMB

15 күн бұрын

Yeah, I think I voted twice in one nite. Might of voted three times if I wasn’t starving for some pancit 😂😂😂

@rabidfarmer9765

15 күн бұрын

@@SAMLAMB nothing wrong w/ little fuel between runs. LoL. Gotta keep up your strength when doing strenous work.

@SAMLAMB

15 күн бұрын

@@rabidfarmer9765 how did you know I’m a runner lol

@rabidfarmer9765

14 күн бұрын

@@SAMLAMB just be careful, Sam. You do not want to be the first John Wayne Bobbitt there. LOL.

It’s always a twist of fate that entwines a couple together. To have control over your emotions is a difficult task, and it is a lesson what can go wrong given time for the person to give her full story, of her life and possible past issues that still need to be resolved.

feel the sincerity. nation of scammers.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I wouldn’t go that far Charles. I’ve lost a lot of money in the USA too.

@charles-ul9uo

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB the beauty part of a losing hand is that no matter what you do it's lose/lose. how come you don't have male flilpinos making youtube videos? not a one. it's because they have to go along with the scam of fleecing foreigners. scamming people is their national sport and naturally they also do it with the natives.

Move to thailand😅

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Maybe

You seem like a honest reasonable guy. Maybe one day we can sit and drink tea together.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I’m in Dumaguete..drop by

You can take the girl out of the bar you cant take the bar out of the girl.

They are so maarte, and act really childish. Very clingy too. Once you start supporting any Filipina, you must also support her family too. Remember in Philippines, parents use their children as Retirement plan.

Sorry Sam for these situations........however you need to take a good look at your choices and decisions. This is not to condemn you. Ive been there. Truth is good especially when we look at ourselves through the grace...mercy....and love that God has for us. This allows us to see our weaknesses and challenges without condemning ourselves and others. It also helps us discern better as we go forward in all areas including love. God bless you and good luck!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the inspiration Daniel. I know exactly where you are coming from. Once again. Thank you.

@jessicacalamba8581

Ай бұрын

I agree with you ,@danielhuntington.

Solid advice. Hope you are enjoying some great Korean food. I spent a number of years in Seoul

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I love Korean food. A bowl of kimchi stew and some side dishes and I’m good to go 😃. I spotted some large fish along the Han river. I’m thinking of bringing my travel fishing the next time I go to Korea. Catch and Release. They looked like Carps. Any one out there with some ideas?

@stevenr1354

Ай бұрын

​@@SAMLAMBThat would go great in some Haemul Jjigae. I'm also thinking about 2 of my favorites: Nakji-bokkeum and bossam kimchi. There was a little place in Kumho Dong that had great bossam kimchi

@Larry-vc5qv

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB world class filth in Sokor.

Biblical marriage can only happen if the bride is a virgin.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I didn’t know that. Thank you for the comment.

I enjoy your videos Sam. It's not just that they don't believe in divorce. Divorce in the Philippines is not legal. I plan to move to the Philippines this November from Charlotte County. Good luck selling your house.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Wow, you’re right below me. I was just down there. Had dinner with another subscriber, Pete Bear. He’s in the process of selling his house in Punta Gorda. He bought a house in Iloilo last year. Contact me on messenger, maybe we can all get together before I come back to the Philippines.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Wow. I didn’t know it was illegal to get a divorce. Good to know.

@marcprobin1659

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB She needs to file an annulment but it's expensive and takes a long time. I married a Filipina for 21 years and known her for 26. Everything was fine till she passed away of cancer. She had a daughter and was 14 years old when we first met. I miss her very much and thank god that her daughter and I get along so well! So, the moral of the story is that not all Filipina's are bad. Like anything in life, ask the questions!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@marcprobin1659 I agree with you 100% Marc. I love your story. God Bless ..

@martialway81

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMBThe Philippines Just past a law the other day legalizing Divorces. 😂

four reasons: greedy, greedy, greedy, greedy

Don’t get me wrong but we will never found happiness in nobody! Only in Jesus . Once we found it the other going to be a plus😊.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for joining us , Love…we really appreciate you. Have a great day.

crazy here in America thats all they talk about it marrying filipinas lol.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Badger, I still believe your odds of finding a suitable wife is better in the Philippines. You just have to slow down and look. Just like if you are in the USA.

Don't break her HEART BUT it's ok for her to LIE and break your heart. Ooh ok..now I get it.. I'm a SUCKER🤣🤣🤣🤣

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I think one of the of other comment was nicer to me…he called me gullible…same thing , right. But gullible sounds a bit nicer 😂

@davidwright5619

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Ok...your probably right but the good thing is you've learned a/some valuable lessons. Good luck to you in your search for love.

@davidwright5619

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMBPs.. I mean this in gest. Maybe 'LAMB' isn't the best name choice. Some may see it as a juicy target 😆

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@davidwright5619 😂 can’t change that. It’s my name. Maybe lamb chops is a better name for Me.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@davidwright5619 I’ve been with Razel the past 6 yrs…so all things are good…that’s one of the reasons I can talk about my past experiences.

I'm like 20 years separated

@Kory8611

Ай бұрын

If you and your Spouse can talk peacefully you can get a Writen Separation Agreement 🤝 in Writing ✍️. Have a Lawyer Notarized or go to Barangay and get it Notarized.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Wow! If you don’t mind me asking. Your reason for staying separated. Financial reasons or a chance for reconciliation?

@philippinesdreamorreality

Ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB in the beginning fear of loosing everything.Still lost it. And then plain laziness of not wanting to go to the courthouse

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@@philippinesdreamorreality I get it…my third marriage I felt that…won’t go in details…thanks for the reply.

Ooh man I am sorry man. You sound like a good man. Cultural differences can be hammer! I'm sorry man. Sorry for her husband too.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

That was one of the factors. I had just came out of a bad divorce and I thought there’s no way they can get back together if I’m in the picture. But the biggest factor was I didn’t want to get shot by a cop for my stupidity

Divorce is illegal in the very Catholic Philippines. So even though there are lots of single moms living separately from their ex-husbands, unless they have had the marriage legally annulled (that means going to court, hiring lawyers etc which costs a lot of money which most of these women don't have) they are still officially married. Which means if her ex-husband finds out that you are having a sexual relationship with his 'wife' he can report you to the police for adultery, a crime for which there is often jail time in Phils. And that means for unsuspecting foreigners who find themselves in this situation, having to stump up a lot of money to pay off corrupt judges and lawyers for you to 'get out of jail' and escape back home. Getting involved with Filipinas is like playing Russian Roulette. You might be lucky if you find a decent good woman, or you might be unlucky and get severely emotionally and financially burned by a bad one. As Dirty Harry once famously said in a movie, 'Ask yourself: "Do I feel lucky?"... Well do you, punk?' 🤣🤣

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Great comment! Just glad I’m not in one now. After 15yrs I still have memories of the day she told me. And how I felt I need to get away from this situation asap

Some single mothers are awesome depending on circumstances. Always remember, in life one must experience heart ache if one is to reap the rewards of a wonderful and passionate relationship eventually. If you have never had your heart broken you probably have never really lived an exciting life. That said, use some common sense and avoid the hookers if you are looking for a keeper. Finding a special girl is like fishing. You seldom catch a trophy fish without first throwing a lot back.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the inspiring thoughts. 😅 I’m smiling base on your comment of: your heart has to be broken to have really lived an exciting life. I’m thinking, so that’s why I had such an exciting life. I’ll hold that thought every time ( I hope it doesn’t, I’m getting too old for that stuff ) it happens and think of your comment, grandpa Pete. 😅

People lie to survive. Honourable people lie less but still lie to meet and enough of their needs. If you date a middle-class woman which is hard to penetrate as they usually won’t date (white) foreigners as a rule you’ll probably get a lot less lies. If you date a poor woman and that will likely will be available for you expect a lot of lies. I have a friend, for personal reasons after a devastating experience decided he didn’t want a woman in high demand. he wanted a woman a little older and not a hottie. He found one who was aging out from a provincial farm. I think she’s attractive enough but maybe its because I have a high opinion of her. She’s a good mother and good wife. she doesn’t flirt. she’s educated so she couldn’t have been too poor to pay for credits and she lets him do his thing. The crash and burn thrills are waiting for the fools and the good ones are still out there for the wise.

@user-qd4td7yb8e

Ай бұрын

No liar is honourable.

@WAdelstein

Ай бұрын

@@user-qd4td7yb8e in an absolute sense I agree. But who’s so perfect?

@user-qd4td7yb8e

Ай бұрын

@@WAdelstein The only lying justified is for the greater good such as, to an Israeli, saying: "The Palestinian woman you seek to rape went that way." Perfection is the goal.

This video indicates, you must (Men) be careful, no matter what country, or countries, an individual visits, vacations, etc.! There are Women (not all) you should avoid dating, or getting involved with, period...

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Great comment Jay. Thanks for joining us.

Good for you Sam, thanks for the great info.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you POV. We appreciate you..

Who wants serious? Seriously?

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

🤣

I had known many expats especially the westerners that are so successful in their relationships with Filipinas . I think its the the kind of choice of everyone when such relationships will succeed or not. It is unfair to those women and a kind of discrimination by saying that it is the same with all Filipinas which in the first place men are free to do its beautiful choices.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for joining in on the conversation, Born. I agree with you 100%

@mikesolns1364

Ай бұрын

Bro, stop simping

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@mikesolns1364 Simping?

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😒 broh it is the same with most, u have to assume the worst case senario, stop being Naive, its a Money World

Go SEC Sam! Great video!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Looks like it’s going to be another great year for SEC. Can’t wait… you have a great day Kris

Im a Filipina and i agree with you. Most filipinas they are more on money or makes you as a passport to get in the states

@SAMLAMB

26 күн бұрын

I’ve heard stories. No filipina has ever made me do anything I didn’t want to do. I respect all Filipinas. Thank you for joining us for this conversation Inday. You be safe. And have a great day.

This is the first video I have come across which says do not date a filipina....and I have been looking at videos about filipinas for 2 years now. Interesting....

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Don’t get me wrong, I love and have a beautiful Filipina gf. It just took me 12 yrs to find her. And the video gives you a glimpse of what I had to go through to find her. Is it worth it? 100% yes

@MrSamadolfo

Ай бұрын

😏 Broh you don't know? Its because either youtube workers OR ladies that are offended get the videos taken down, theres a war for your minds, your not allowed to criticize the ladies of the world

@paulruano1903

Ай бұрын

​@@SAMLAMByes... lesson learned? YOU made all the classic MISTAKES. It was nothing wrong with the Philippine... you just could not avoid going "suicidal". This comment is NOT to bash you :) I actually enjoy your vids. But thus comment is for others to understand that thry do not have to REPEAT doing same dumb mistakes. Many people think that others wisdom do not apply to them, so they never listened in the first place. Never did their due dilligence. ------ Sooooo.... Dating a bargirl? It should not even been necesary to tell a guy how STUPID idea that is. But ok, you were young and naive... and STUPID. Probably got blinded by all the impressions overload!. And just got s..kered in. Or you were thinking with your small brain, instead of your big brain. So THAT fault is NOT on the Philippines. THAT fault is on you. The world can not save stupidity... some people just have to learn by getting their feet deep into the mud:( 2. The single mother?. That is also something you SHOULD been analyzed beforehand. Remember that ALL relationships ends with some baggage. And any relationship endings has at least 50% likelyhood that she was at fault. Or at absolute minimum risk that she is a bad decisionmaker. So when you KNOW she is a single mother... then you allready should understand that RISK of 50% her fault for the breakup with her ex, and that she probably is a bad decisionmaker. Etc. Do not think that "all the fault is the filipino men". Its no different that western women whom will always blame the western men;) So ANALYZE. Be REALISTIC. That mistake was easily avoidable. But i can understand that its possible to be naively. And especially since you grew up with a father who actually did successfully take on the role as a stepdad!. But the risk IS much higher. Which means you would jeed to at least QUADRUPPLE the analyze and "investigation. 4. You dated that last woman for many months... before you found out she lied about children and being married. Your big mistake was that you SHOULD have investigated how things works in the Philippines. Conservative country. Catholism. No divorce. Expensive annullements. BUT your big mistake here was... IF you HAD done proper pre-research about the Philippines... then you would have kniwn that ALL marriages in the Philippines are public record. And you could just gone to a government agency and asked for her public record. The CENOMAR. "Certificate of No Marriage Record (CENOMAR) is a certification issued by the Philippine Statistics Authority (PSA) stating that a person has never contracted any marriage. A wedding checklist is never complete without a requirement for a CENOMAR." Everyone will have such records. It will state her singless, married, widow. And her age and certain other information. So there you can VERIFY if she is actually single. And you can VERIFY her age, if you were ever in doubt (you never know with so youthfull looking filipinas). ----- Do your video was good. As a lesson learnt to others, to not be a fool. To prepare, and do not make rookie mistakes. And nice for others to hear life experiences (which hopefully will avoid others to do the same dumb mistakes;) Because they were dumb rookie mistakes, that almost all could have been avoided!. Do hopefully others will not think tjey are the exception whom can have a happy married life with a bargirl. The successrate is abysymal low (as in a less than 5% from last time i saw statistics on it). Never worth the agony. You have thankfully found your girl now:). But fir others... here are a few more Golden rules: 5. Do NOT marry a tattoed filipina. Conservative catholic girls will not ink themself like that. Tattoos are almost always troubles: - she us a bargirl or former bargirl. Enough saidm walk away!. - she has mental/psychological issues. Yes many do get tattoos or scars due to depression or other unstable mental issues. - it is nit feminine. - and tattoos defile Gods creation. So it contradict her being a good traditional religious girl with strong values. There will always be exceptions to any rules. But do you want to gamble your life on something where everything gets stacked against you?. Adults do not gamble. Inmature boys will gamble, and fail over and over until til they wise up from life experiences. 6. Never go to a Capitol city to find a quality wife. Capitol is the worst of the worst. Can write a book about how dumb it is to look for a quality girl in a capitol. Yes there are many, in numbers, there. But the likelyhood of finding them is TINY as they are very few in %. You will have to kiss thousands of frogs, to maybe find that 1 quality girl in a capitol. Very much NOT worrh the hassle. You will just destroy your own mentality when having gine through so many obstacles. 7. Walking street cities like Angeles, Pataya etc. Avoid them like the PLAGUE they are. And avoid the WHOLE REGION around it. Fast corrupt money will spread into the nearby provinces and corrupt the locals!. Money talks.. and gets influenced and triggers greed there for easy scam etc income. So avoid those nearby provinces. 8. Avoid tourist destinations. Dumaguetti, and tourist areas which is very hitzone for many wastefull tourists. Again "fast cash" will corrupt the locals in those areas. It changes their mentality.

The bar girl lied to you are correct the end the relationship when you found out she broke her promise to you as well as lying to you !

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I did feel lied to at the time, but I was no saint either. That’s why I mentioned do I have the right to be upset. At the time it was very confusing. sometimes I’m wondering how is she doing. Has she changed her lifestyle or what.

Good job man, you gave her a fair chance to cleanup her act. You deserve better. Great morals.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you Hassan. You have a great day!

Extreme jealousy and controlling behavior is what I had from my 🇵🇭

@SAMLAMB

14 күн бұрын

That’s a personality thing. Not sure if I can handle that. Just have to keep looking for one that suits you Lassie

The title should be Your Bad Experience with Dating. It's very misleading and it seems you are generalizing every Filipina

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you sea. We appreciate your comment. I’ll use that next time.

@bfdee1603

Ай бұрын

From your appearance on d thumbnail, i will not go on a date with this guy. You should count your blessings if a filipina date u. It means they r not judging a book by its cover 😂😂😂😂

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@bfdee1603 😂😂😂😂love it. So that means I still have a chance

@billywelch4611

Ай бұрын

Shout out from Atlanta lol but this definitely be happening… my uncles married Filipinas and it be a whole lot going on lol from kids to crazy secret husbands

@eduardochavacano

Ай бұрын

why so affected. the world doesnt revolve around Filipinas.

It's not like a girl would immediately blurt out on the first meeting, "Hey, I have 2 kids! And I'm still married!"

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I agree with you Christian. Thanks for joining in…congrats on the kids and marriage too… you be safe.

@lendlalfred7870

Ай бұрын

She should in this case! Because it will allow the guy the decision to walk away or continue to get to know her. Secondly, adultery is punishable in the Philippines, therefore a woman must be truthful upfront regarding her martial status.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@lendlalfred7870 Lend, I’ve learned a lot after making this video. I don’t know if my past experiences would have turned OUT any different if I knew the law…what’s that phrase. LOVE IS BLIND…

@addictcar69

Ай бұрын

@christian.....a woman looking to date should inform you if she's married, separated, debts, or has kids bc these are big red flags dude

@addictcar69

Ай бұрын

No bar girl, married or separated, debt and kids are no-go zone for me 😅😅

Sam Lamb, I'm sorry for what happened to you. so, I don't blame you. and I agree for other reasons that you mentioned. I hope you'll find somebody that will trait you nicely and who you are.There's no divorce in the Philippines just annulment, or separate for me, if I separate with my ex, I have to live far, far, away not close to my ex...

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thank you for joining in Victoria, I originally thought by making this video I could help those foreigners who are coming to the Philippines. But after reading yours and others comments Ivery much learned so much more about the marriage and annulment laws in the Philippines. Thank you so much.

The world is not a safe place for man or woman. This life is full of cautionary tales. Tread carefully.

#1 reason; TAMPO

Sam Lamb!!! I’m gonna ring your neck!!! I have kids and I’ve been bartending for 31 years now. So does that make me a bar girl??? Your video just excluded me from having a potential future husband. Lol....this video is too funny though. You should reach out to me when you get to Florida. I’m in Miami. Let’s hang out.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

You know I’m not talking about the bartenders and the waitresses 😂I’m sure you’ll find plenty of suitors in Miami. Man I wish I can go to Miami. One My daughter’s modeling agency is located there. I’m just trying to sell my property in Sarasota. Once it’s sold I’ll be heading back to Dumaguete. If I’m ever in Miami I’ll stop by and say hello. You be safe Louisa

@goatman3828

Ай бұрын

No. But living in Miami sure does!🤔

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

@goatman3828 lol…hope all is well goatman. You have a great day!

@goatman3828

Ай бұрын

@SAMLAMB Thanks Sam. Have a great day. Always appreciate every vid you do. It is a bit of reality and sanity.

@marcusmoyses3809

Ай бұрын

A BAR GIRL WORKING IN SOME COUNTRIES ARE GIRLS THAT GO TO THE BARS TO MEET MEN AND MAKE MONEY BY HAVING HIM SPEND LOTS OF MORE MONEY AT THE BARS OR GOING OUT TO HAVE SEX FOR MONEY. IT IS NOT LIKE A U.S. BARMAID!

Sometimes marriage is bullshit for real,I think you should just be single sir cos it’s safer for you.Dont put yourself with those women that would give you problems I mean your already married before with daughter still not content in life I tell you it’s better for you to just be single.You should know by now that Filipina requires a lot of cash come on

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

I’ll take your advice vintage. Thanks.

Awesome video! Everything you said is right. !!!!

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Thanks for joining in Vernon

You’re putting all filipino women in one Basket from your experience. Go find yourself a Chinese, Vietnamese, Indonesian of Malay and have a good life with any one of them.

@ThatGuy-sc5rx

Ай бұрын

I didnt think good woman existed anymore until i met a Vietnamese woman 😊

@lesage428

Ай бұрын

​@@ThatGuy-sc5rxI agreed Vietnamese women seems more legit and trustworthy. They're honest. Hard working and so caring for their families..

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Korbel, hate for you to think that way…thank you for joining us today. Be safe and have a great day.

@JamesLtc-uz9vt

Ай бұрын

Chinese sound terrible too. Thialand is where its at

Just date women from the country you live.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Sally, I live in the Philippines. You have a great day.

@ChrisChris-yr2mq

Ай бұрын

your comment is stupid.. You must be single..