Good advice

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Thank you CalBear..you have a great day!

Great video, Thanks Sam

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Thank you Miguel. I just posted and video about province girls.

Thanks for your lovely reply in your last video, yes my hubby lost his dad then 2 months later his mom, it was so sad a time, im thinking and praying for razel and you sam , hope your house sells quick and you both get into each others arms again , your both meant for each other i see that , good luck and best wishes to you both cheers from us in central Queensland Australia 🇦🇺, hope to be there next year , lets have lunch together two couples enjoying nice people like you and razel cheers sam god bless

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

We would love it. Let us know when it’s close. Hopefully the house will be sold during the summer. One less thing to worry about in the USA. I’m sure Australia is a great place. My daughter was in Sidney for 3 months for a modeling assignment. I never made it. You be safe and have a great day!

have a BLESS happy beautiful days always relax and enjoy with your gf

Hii I'm here😊...from Philippines 🇵🇭...currently in kuwait

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

I’ve Never been to Kuwait Rose. Enjoy and be safe

Going to Philippines in June for first time ever. Cant wait to meet her in person.

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Congrats BMS…good luck to both of you…

@BMSLou

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Thank you 😊 New subscriber too 👍 been binging tonight on your videos. hehe

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

lol. Welcome to the channel, I’m just one guys experience in the Philippine. It’s been a great ride. Hope your journey will be as blessed as mine.

very good advice my friend !

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Thank you Gary.

@garydavis9887

2 ай бұрын

hope to see you there !

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

@garydavis9887 we’ll be here. Just give us a shout

Pretty much simple recipe, stay handsome if you can, shower, smell good, shave all beard, stay fit, dress well, stay away from oversized shirts & shorts, put clean shoes, don’t flaunt, stay humble, have patience and pretend that you are not very interested with dating, then they will be lining up, I am a Filipino and my 2 sisters are married with an Expat.

@SAMLAMB

11 күн бұрын

Great advice Rick. I’ll try it 😃. Does that mean I have to shower every other day instead of once a week? 🤣

Hi Sam! Good conversational video. For the common guys (or ExPat if you will) new to coming to another country perhaps with finding someone special to be with and/or a place to retire, what you preach on this episode hopefully will influence them in a good way with positive conclusions of course.🤗 The great advice you were given by your friend at the State’s, “Hold On, Don’t Rush!” and “Slow Down!” were correct BUT easier said than done 😅. But that’s why the content of this episode would the by least make them think once, twice, maybe more…but the bottom line is that they make them stop and think before making any commitment. Hey, sometimes I have to remind myself and basically heed to those two advices you got from your friend. The Philippines do have an abundance of beautiful women…to die for. But “beautiful” obviously needs to be expanded beyond just the physical characteristics…there are just too many dimensions of what makes a woman beautiful, which is in essence I myself personally have to discover of that particular Filipina I’m wanting to see (or seeing and spending time with already). Whatever variables I need to discover about her, if I’m satisfied with my own conclusion about her - and just as important, HER conclusion of ME (hey, the proverb “It takes two to tango” still definitely applies here, for me anyway). Hey Sam, stay safe and healthy…hope you got your objectives done back at the states…and ready to get back to your lovely Filipina partner. I hope to get to the Philippines 🇵🇭 by September (just waiting for my passport) and for sure I’ll make sure to hit on you guys so we can have dinner or something. 🇺🇸🇵🇭 ✌️

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for joining in Reuben…hope we meet in September. With all the stuff going on with RAZEL, and my house in the USA it’s been tough. Can’t wait to get back to Dumaguete. You’ll love RAZEL in person…see you soon.

Great video Sam! I'm like you I love fishing fresh and saltwater. Got any suggestions on a place that could have both close to each other in the philippines?

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Hmmm…maybe some other subscribers can chime in on that…in fact I may mention it on my next blog. I do know in Dumaguete there are some diehard fisherman ( using rod and reel ) who fish at the Blvd …most of the in shore fishing in dumaguete are done by locals with 100’ to 200’ nets…and they catch every thing insight and eat everything..and at nite you will see 10 to 20 local spearfisherman. That’s why I said Diehard fisherman like me who uses a rod and reel never has a chance to catch anything. I’ve driven up and down the coast. And haven’t caught anything…there’s zero bait and tackle shops…only way to fish is to dig up some worms ( if you can find any ) or use a lure…I’m losing patience Dave..😅

@davidsirmans7475

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB I feel you on that brother. No fishing make Dave a depressed guy lol

I agree been chatting on line but have a place in Iloilo lol I need to find one near me !!! 😂

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

You’ll find her. Take your time.

Sam, thank you for the great content. In one of your shorts called "Lucky 7" you are reeling in a good-sized fish near a bridge. That is the only time I've seen expats rod and reel fishing in the PI. Could you cover expat fishing in the PI?

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

John, I’ve been so disappointed with fishing in the Philippines. Especially in dumaguete. One of my passion is fishing. Growing up in south Florida with abundance of fish, bait and tackle shops. Here in the Philippines it’s the complete opposite ( recreational fishing ) But I’ll keep the thoughts open on making a video about expats fishing in the Philippines.

Loved your numerical scale, Sam. It's true. The 8's and 9's actually will pay attention to us old guys here in the Philippines, to the point that we will actually believe WE might even be an 8 or a 9! But then a trip back "home" to North America makes us remember that we are actually closer to a fraction of that number. But, at least we have fantasy to come back to, and those misguided, vague memories of our distant youth that tell us that we once were 8's and 9's! At least that's what I tell my grandkids - and make sure I hide all my old photographs from them. Be good, Sam. We both need to be in Dumaguete more, especially with college football not too far away.

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

What’s up William. Hope all is well. Those Dawgs looked good during the spring game. We should call Dumaguete La La Land. It’s the craziest thing for us FUTURE senior citizens hehe

@user-nn4hl9ob7l

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB Both UG and UT are looking good going into the Fall Season, but they will have Texas and Oklahoma to deal with now. UT plays OK in Norman - not sure if Georgia scheduled either one. I am in HK and China next two weeks, then back to PHP after that, with "someone" in tow. Will fill you in when we meet up. Take care, Sam.

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

@user-nn4hl9ob7l oh my my… is she a Vols fan? That’s all that matters. Can’t have her cheering for the dawgs. haha.

@user-nn4hl9ob7l

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB She wouldn't know Tennessee if it stared her in the face!

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

@@user-nn4hl9ob7l 😂

Hi Sam, you have a lot of valid points, but here’s my take on it. First, the gentleman needs to find the island and the city he can see himself living in long-term. Get himself situated and established first and then he can start looking for a female companion who checks all the boxes, since they’re coming in “a dime a dozen“. And if he can get his lady to fall madly inlove with him, she will move anywhere in the world just to be with him😉 Sooooo, find a place first and then find the girlfriend. That’s my take on that. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

I love that thought Louisa, thanks for joining in. I really do think there’s no wrong answer or approach.. I just think everyone should just slow down, relax, enjoy what Philippines has to offer…but the main factor is once again do you have the time, money and patience before you make that final decision.

Good info Sam but you know I'll be back in Tacloban to get married in August what I have to figure out is do I just stay or bring her back here for a year

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Hmmm. Stay for a few months if you can. If you don’t like the lifestyle take her to the USA for a few months and see if you like the new lifestyle with a Filipina in the USA. If she has a hard time adjusting. Then have to decide if you want to go back to the Philippines. Always keep your options open and let her know so she won’t feel misled.

@jimbohi3648

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB getting married in August if I get bored with the spousal visa thing I just go directions Philippines and stay please watch a video by a band called 7 Seconds This song is called Trust it is absolutely what I'm feeling for the first time after 2 Ex-Wives I've been around brother

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

I’m thinking of all the things I do for someone else..is Trust. Trust in the woman that I love and trust in myself to see the whole picture to make the right decision…but before I do all that, I ask God for guidance.

@jimbohi3648

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB I am living by myself right now and I only trust what the Lord tells me to do that can be through other people that's why I decided to get married and bring Solita back here not stay there permanently in August

@jimbohi3648

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB if you ask for guidance you will receive just don't overthink it because when you look out the window you see people trikes whatever what you are saying is life and it's happening right now I'll meet up with you in August bro if you're back bye for now my brother

Understanding being a Man is that you are able to provide a home before you bring someone into it. This is basic common sense. Do not move halfway around the world to find a girl. Move there to find who you are there. Find where you want to be. THEN worry about a woman if you must. Do you think she wants to be a traveling Gypsy? Too often men get sucked into believing that chaos is their friend. It is not. Calm logic, careful planning. That is a Man. Know yourself. Know your goals. Then you can add someone else in your life. Women bring chaos. And if you already live in chaos, what are you doing? What is your plan? How will you achieve your desired outcome? Do not add to the chaos of the world. Seek to be that pillar of granite. Steady and firm. Unable to be easily pushed around. A point of strength in a storm. Untill you know who you are, mentally and spiritually, you are just driftwood. Tossed about with no direction. When you become the person that can hold firm regardless of your surroundings, then, and only then, should you be looking for a partner.

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Once again Goatman, Great comment…and great advice. …But we have a problem, when you see a beautiful woman and I don’t mean just the physical appearance, all common sense goes out the window. I’ve done it in the past and sometimes in the middle of doing it I’m asking myself what in the world am I doing…uh oh…too late….

@goatman3828

3 ай бұрын

@SAMLAMB You find that girl then put a pin in that location. But you can not find you if you have company. If she is there when you do you, then it's great. If she is gone, then she would be gone further down the line too. So you either score a win and have a gal ready for you, or you score a win and have a headache gone from your life.

Question is easy, Sam - find a girl that has her own place. Two birds, one stone. LOL. And you do NOT find a serious gf -the girl will stay if she cares for you.

@SAMLAMB

Ай бұрын

Great comment Rabid. I should be getting advice from you 😃

Maybe you should stick with that ladyboy you were smooching with last night

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 love the comment Queen bee.

@QueenBeeStacker

3 ай бұрын

@@SAMLAMB ✌️ everyone needs a laugh

Her true love is an old western man bank account. lol

@SAMLAMB

2 ай бұрын

Oh My God! 503, why don’t you get straight to the point hahaha 🤣 thanks for joining in. We appreciate you.

Sounds good, but makes absolutely no sense. Why would it take a guy some number of months and some number of practice girlfriends to "find the right woman"? Couple possible reasons. #1 Dude is clueless with no idea how to vet a woman. Dude get's to 40+ and still doesn't know what a good woman looks like? No way a few practice girlfriends is going to fix that. #2 Dude is looking for a slick woman who knows how to play him. This is the only type of woman he's ever been with so he thinks that's what good women do. He'll never see it for what it is. A man with experience and rational thought can spot a good woman quickly and dismisses problem women even faster. He will only take the time to vet quality women and give her time to decide if she wants in too. "True love"??? That's 12 year-old girl thinking. Worse thing a man can do is think a woman is his "true love". That's female thinking with feelings. Leave that to them. I focus on what she brings to my house. Peace, fun, respect. A woman I can value and invest in.

@SAMLAMB

3 ай бұрын

Hmmm , Waterbug…I’m gonna have to agree with you on that…after all these yrs…I’m still clueless about women…some guys just don’t get it…thank you for the comment…you be safe…

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