Gay Men Going Deeper Podcast
Gay Men Going Deeper Podcast
Gay Men Going Deeper is a KZread Series and Podcast about personal development, sexuality, and mental health. Brought to you by the Gay Men’s Brotherhood and hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio.
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I loved this episode so much. I was actually reluctant to watch because I am not dating right now, but this was so refreshing and insightful. I feel like you guys are laying a lot of groundwork for me so I can avoid a lot of pain and frustration in the future when I take the plunge again. Thank you <3 And P.S. Michael, if you meet someone with a capital "B" and get married, I WANT AN INVITE TO THE WEDDING! :)
I love your channel. 🙌😍😘🏳️🌈🌈
Great episode! I’m in a frustrating spot with post first dates feeling like I’m the only committed one. These are successful first dates by the way, if some of the guys lied to my face. In one case a guy was honest with me that due to recent events he is not maybe open for a relationship at the moment. So that i can respect, you can set expectations correctly. But then there’s guys that want you to chase them. I’m autistic and frankly have no interest in playing games. But they guilt trip you every time you haven’t reached out for awhile. Even though every time you reach out they’re not available etc. or they claim they aren’t at least. so like after awhile you lose interest naturally and then reaching out going “what happened with” guilt tripping when you’ve started moving on. Have blamed myself and maybe thought it was the autistic thing and there having been misunderstandings.
Thank you for sharing your experience and for your kind words about the episode! It’s really tough dealing with mixed signals, especially when you're genuinely looking for a committed relationship. It's great that you can respect honesty, but it's understandable to feel frustrated with game-playing. Your feelings are valid, and it's important to stay true to yourself. Wishing you the best on your journey!🥰
So Kind !❤
Thank you! You too are so kind.💖
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Thank you!🤩
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I just now learned of my fathers death. He was 86 and I am 65. He only answered and spoke with me by phone 3 times in my life only because He thought the calls were from someone else. He never called me even once in my life and although I long ago let go of any hard feelings or expectations , I suddenly realize that I truly will never get that call that the little boy in me still would love to have received. 😢😊
Hi, we're so sorry for your loss. We can’t imagine how difficult this must be for you. Even though you’ve let go of expectations, it’s natural to feel a deep sense of loss. Please take care of yourself during this time.💔🫂
I don't know about dates but You are always successful at reaching You audience in a Profound Way ! 😊
Awww... Thank you so much for your kind words and for watching and engaging with every episode. Your support means the world to us! Sending virtual hugs!🥰
I find a first date should be meeting for a coffe or drink. This way if you dont click you can make it short. if you feel a connection, plan another meeting or go further with the date,
Hi! That’s a great approach! Meeting for a coffee or drink keeps things low-pressure and flexible. ☕It’s a perfect way to see if there’s a connection. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!😍
Amazing episode as always! This was very interesting!
Thank you so much for your kind words! We're thrilled to hear you enjoyed the episode. Your support and feedback mean a lot!😍
Not put a baby in me 😭
That’s definitely one way to look at it!😂
A very timely topic. Primary goal is to find Mr. Right but secondary goals are just as important and they include to have fun/excitement, to learn about myself more and to practice curiosity. The biggest insight for me was Reno's observation that even if you think the world of your date, if he doesn't love you back with close to the same level of interest, it is simply not a Match and you need to let it go. Wish me luck for a first date this Saturday with someone for whom I have very high hopes.
Hi! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's fantastic to hear that you're approaching dating with such a positive and open mindset. Reno's observation is indeed a valuable insight. Wishing you the best of luck on your date this Saturday-hope it’s everything you’re hoping for and more!😉
I was supposed to go on a first date this week, but got ghosted/stood up, so the first thing I’d say is to actually show up!🤣
Hi there! It’s incredibly frustrating to be ghosted or stood up, especially when you’re looking forward to a first date. Showing up and being present is so important in building trust and connection. Don't let this discourage you-there are plenty of people out there who will appreciate and value your time. Keep your head up!😍
Thanks for your kind words! It’s the second time it’s happened to me, so I’m handling it a lot better than the first. Trying my best not to be all cynical. Onto the next. 😅
@@averagejoereads7271 You're handling it like a pro! Maybe third time's the charm? 😉 Keep that positive attitude, and don’t let a few bumps in the road get you down. Onward and upward!
For sure, thanks!
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Exactly!😍
Nobody understands a Gay man better than another Gay man 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 Never allow that straight women and men divide us 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥 Gay men of all the world together forever 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🌎🌍🌏🌎🌍🌏
Preach 🙌😍😘🏳️🌈🌈
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No matter where we are, we Gay men will always take care of each other 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️
Hi! Thank you for your comment. It's wonderful to hear such a positive and supportive sentiment. Indeed, the sense of community and mutual care among gay men is truly special. Let's continue to uplift and support each other, no matter where we are. Stay strong and united! 🌈
How do you find friends that are not superficial? it becomes challenging for gay men who who perceive themselves as physically unattractive (short stature, ethnic, average build) because of multiple past rejections. I find that gay men in general won’t even take the first step in getting to know you because you don’t physically look like them. People tend to cluster with other people who look like them physically.
Hi there! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Building genuine friendships can indeed be challenging, especially when facing past rejections. It's important to remember that true friends value who you are as a person, not just your appearance. Keep putting yourself out there, engaging in activities and communities that interest you, and you'll find people who appreciate and connect with the real you. Stay positive and true to yourself!🥰
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Thanks for this short. I think for Shorts, it would be helpful if you could also share the link in the description or comment with the full podcast episode, because after watching this Short, I want to learn more about what was discussed. ☺
Thank you so much for your suggestion, we'll definitely do this.
Lol until recently I was going round telling people how I don’t really experience anger and I find it really difficult to access it, and people describe me as laidback. This was very relatable and useful, thanks!
We're glad you found it relatable and useful! It's interesting how we can learn more about our own emotions. Thanks for sharing your experience!😍
Thanks for providing a great episode
@@averagejoereads7271 Thank you as well for tuning in.
I definitely developed a porn addiction or compulsive relationship with porn from my first exposure to porn at the age of 7 till i was around 17 before i sort of got it under control. Definitely contributed to intimate issues and fed compulsive sexual behaviour as an adult. I was moving wild, sleeping with everyone men, women, trans - thought i was a pornstar minus the pay lol. I just wish i never got exposed to porn at such a young age, it messed me up in ways i am only now starting to unpack. Spirituality has helped me develop greater self-awareness and look inwards for validation and inner peace. I am celibate now and on a spiritual journey. Loved this podcast thank you.
Thank you for sharing your personal journey and insights. It's incredibly brave of you to open up about your experiences and the challenges you've faced. I'm glad to hear that spirituality has helped you find self-awareness and inner peace. Your story can be an inspiration to many. We're glad you enjoyed the podcast. Wishing you continued strength and growth on your journey.
Thank you guys 🤯
We're glad you enjoyed it. Thank you!
The philippines has an ever-increasing "ageism" problem and it doesn't look like it is going to get any better any time.
Thank you for highlighting this issue. Ageism is a significant concern in many societies, including the Philippines. Addressing it requires policy changes, education, and societal attitude shifts. Though persistent, efforts by various organizations and communities are ongoing to combat ageism and promote inclusivity. By raising awareness and advocating for older adults' rights and dignity, we can work towards a more age-inclusive society.🙂
Ha! This is exactly what you taught me Matt!
Thanks for your comment! I'm glad to hear that the podcast episode resonated with what we've discussed. Keep applying those insights-you're doing great!🤩 - Matt
I am a single gay man and i met a beautiful disabled man recently. He's such a beautiful person and i hope we can have a connection soon. He's a shy guy so i don't want to scare him off lol. He always stares at me and tries to get my attention but he is super shy too. Disabled people are wonderful people and just want to be loved like the rest of us. God Bless you guys!
Thank you for sharing your heartwarming story! It's wonderful to hear about the connection you're building. Taking things slow and being considerate of his feelings will surely help. Disabled people indeed have so much to offer, and it's beautiful to see your appreciation for that. Wishing you both all the best in your journey together. God bless you too!
@@GayMenGoingDeeper Thank you very much.
Dr Evan is very good and knowledgeable, I saw him recently and now investigating my situation, his staff and Steve are polite and make me feel comfortable in the office.
Thank you for your kind words! We're glad to hear that you had a positive experience with Dr. Evan and his team. Your comfort and satisfaction are truly important.
Intimacy is another perk of being pretty. We ugly folks never have to agonize over half the crap you guys do. We don't have mirrors in our bedrooms, worrying about how we look from different angles. We don't obsess over sharing our feelings. We don't have to worry about intimacy, either. It's kinda hard to empathize with this. Poor you, I guess.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. Everyone has their own challenges, and it's important to acknowledge and respect different experiences. We appreciate your honesty and hope we can all continue to support each other. Take care!
@@GayMenGoingDeeper translation: "We're glad we're not you. Go on, now..." 😂
Vulnerability 💯
You got that right.❤
Happy International Gay Pride Day 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Happy International Pride Day! Let's celebrate!🥳
I also believe that many of us who struggle with expressing anger than to take out our anger on ourselves.
Thank you for sharing your insight. It's true that many of us struggle with expressing anger and often end up turning it inward. Recognizing this is a crucial step towards healthier emotional expression and self-care. Your perspective is valuable, and we appreciate your contribution to this important conversation.🤩
Tyler needs to come to Australia. I’ll give him all the loving he needs 😅❤️
Tyler needs to come to Australia. I’ll give him all the loving he needs 😅❤️
Thank you for the love and support! We'll be sure to pass on your message to Tyler. Australia sounds like an amazing place, and your kind offer is much appreciated.
I think I have read somewhere that repressed anger can also result in depression. Is this true?
Yes, that's true. Repressed anger can indeed contribute to depression. It's important to acknowledge and address anger in healthy ways to maintain emotional well-being. Thanks for bringing up this important point!😍
So relatable! Thank you all!
We're glad this resonated you. Thank you for watching!
So Wonderful that You Cover these Topics no one else may want to touch. 😊
Thank you! It's important to address these often overlooked topics to help people develop healthier emotional habits. We're glad you found it valuable! Thanks for always tuning in!🥰
here in Thailand all toilets have a hose that makes it very easy to prepare and clean up after
Hi! That's a great point. Having a hose in the toilet can indeed make preparation and cleanup much easier, ensuring better hygiene and comfort. Thanks for sharing! You may also take Dr. Evan's advices.😉
Damn the guy on the top left looks like SHYA LABOUF.
❤❤❤ thank you guys
Thank you for your support!
I'm not gay but this was such a good video especially for demisexual men in general. Thank you for sharing!!!
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! We're glad you found the video meaningful. It's great to hear it resonated with you though you aren't gay! 😊
Intimacy is a beautiful thing. Something greatly desired. This was SO good.
Thank you for your kind words! Intimacy truly is beautiful and special. We're glad you enjoyed it! 😊