"Support autistic people or leave us alone. We will take either/or." I'm not autistic but I am very neurodivergent and I felt that in. my. bones.
@Bea-rq1uf16 сағат бұрын
The sh*t we put up with, honestly 😩
@mardasman42818 сағат бұрын
I can sometimes exaggerate negative possibilities and be too quick to talk about my overly negative predictions, but if that happens, I will correct myself quickly. However, I also know that a lot of "negative" predictions of mine have been accurate while a lot of other people employed wishful thinking about the same issue. A very good example of this is climate change. I am constantly flabbergasted and surprised how easily so many people can just completely ignore the real results of climate change and the news around it. I am honest about it and most of the things I say about it has been right, not because I am smart and the others are stupid, but because a lot of neurotypicals seem to be capable of ignoring or embellishing reality to support their emotional needs and wishes. They love nice and positive narratives, happy endings, uplifting stories and they seem to think that reality is boring and sad, so they can twist reality to conform to their state of mind. They tend to like stories, narratives that support their prejudices, wishes and beliefs, such as the idea of an ultimate caregiver (god) or that happiness lasts forever. They can have a hard time accepting a negative reality unless it's shrowded in an emotionally-fulfilling storyline that is based on their own desires and states of mind. Honestly, I think that neuronormativity can be delusional sometimes. And then we are accused of being pessimistic as in denying reality, even if we are the ones embracing reality in the face of denialism.
@StillYearZero19 сағат бұрын
As a kid I would have loved that place. Now I think that I have tried so hard for so long to be normal that I have forgotten parts of who I am
@geekyvoiceactsКүн бұрын
That's such a delightful spot ✨️🤗!!
@AnevaКүн бұрын
I loved it so much!!
@michaelxz85Күн бұрын
Looks like a good place to relax.
@AnevaКүн бұрын
@@michaelxz85 it was a hidden gem
@noahrodgers40826 күн бұрын
Hi I'm Noah i have autism also
@guyincognito25896 күн бұрын
This isn't autism, it's fakeness. Even said Chad.
@michaw74089 күн бұрын
I hoped to get some tips on bullying others, not to talk about others bullying me :/
@jdlewis91312 күн бұрын
Congratulations on healing. I hope god continues to bless you and your life comes with great success.
@gracep291012 күн бұрын
i feel like nintendo games were just MADE for autistic people 😂 love the chain chomp painting!
@gracep291012 күн бұрын
NTs are so rude lmao
@gracep291012 күн бұрын
LOVE THE UNOWN SHIRT!!!
@gracep291012 күн бұрын
“meeting stupid questions with patience” this is my life’s greatest challenge 😂
@n.t.172413 күн бұрын
This made me emotional!! I'm so glad you had such an amazing personal growth period!! It's so awesome that you feel better than you did before and know you can do anything!
@Aneva12 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!! I didn’t realize it was that emotional until others have spoken on it. I really appreciate it 💗
@ajhebb13 күн бұрын
Aneva, this was a lovely, beautiful video. Thank you for sharing your journey with us <3
@Aneva12 күн бұрын
Thank you AJ, you mean a lot to me, thank you for being there for the ride!! ❤
@spencerkagie13 күн бұрын
Finding out you can do things on your own is so freeing! I didn’t travel by myself until a few years ago. It was so much fun to be able to see whatever I thought seemed interesting. Yes! Go to Oregon! I love that state
@Aneva12 күн бұрын
Thank you Spencer!!! If you say Oregon is nice, I shall put it on the list of places to visit!!! You do travel quite a bit and that is fantastic 🗺️
@jessicalynn722913 күн бұрын
Aren’t you the girl from the acolyte ?
@Aneva13 күн бұрын
@@jessicalynn7229 no I’m not! I have had people tell me we look alike though!
@michaelxz8514 күн бұрын
I fly by myself and go to restaurants by myself also. I dont get why people think going to a restaurant by yourself is so terrible.
@Aneva13 күн бұрын
I dunno. It’s really relaxing if you go during down times too! It can bring out feelings of loneliness if you’re already feeling down. But getting used to it is nice.
@hannahgarrow2814 күн бұрын
I am so very proud and happy for you, Aneva. This was a lovely video to watch <3
@Aneva13 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Hannah!!!
@cattime204414 күн бұрын
Your hair is LOOKIN GOOD!!! 💛⭐️ you are inspiring! Even when you “weren’t taking care” of your hair, it looked beautiful. Seriously. Boston is beautiful, I remember those photos! Solitude can be a blessing and a curse! Mastering it and becoming comfortable with it….it can make you POWERFUL! Means independence comes extremely natural for you! Me myself, i still struggle with it! New places unnerve me a great deal. Big crowds and new people unnerve me. I still have social issues but try my best to just endure them and accept myself. It’s been mostly better…but when it’s bad, it is bad. The insecurity you speak of. IM STILL THERE lol. I actually got some filler and it helped me a bit. Idk. I’m rambling now but I definitely can understand what you’re saying and I love that you shared this and ultimately you had a good time. Started off bad but became GOOD! Im finally dabbling in make up now. OBSESSED WITH LIP GLOSS. So during the video, I kept looking at your lips! You are beautiful and the decision you made, though painful, is courageous and shows your strength.
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
Nyx buttergloss, but this one is nyx fat lip oil!!! The color is “that’s chic”. They’re such high quality. Buttergloss is my favorite though. Thank you so much. I feel like we are growing together in a way, but from a distance! I really appreciate the support you’ve shown me for so long. I hope you’re doing okay!! As for my hair it feels like it’s grown overnight. Almost like one day I just woke up healthier. Thank you again and I wish the best for you, always !!! 💗✨
@cattime204414 күн бұрын
@@Aneva omg. Thanks for sharing that. I will order it! I’m playing around with elf products because of the affordability. I love elf! When I get better, i will buy the better stuff! I love Juvia’s Place!! It’s my favorite. I’m doing really well, actually. Well? Yeah, I think I am. Lots of improvements. Lots of acceptance and IVE BEEN STANDING UP FOR MYSELF TOO! EXERCISING AND RUNNING CONSISTENTLY (that’s a big deal for me srsly) I’m saying ‘no’ more often and yelling at the people who rightfully deserve it! I love it! I am also back to writing A LOT, actively engaging in my daydreams and inspirations. It is fun! I hope to learn to draw soon (eventually) and get back to learning Japanese (I’m a hopeless weeb!). I bought a lever harp and I’m learning that which is good for my mood so, yeah i can’t complain. For bad days and up and down moods, I have to recommend learning an instrument - even a kazoo , it can make all the difference. I’m so honored to be growing with you and I can’t wait to see more growth and more looks from you. Your make up at the very end - will you do a tutorial!? LOL 💛⭐️👑
@Aneva13 күн бұрын
Thank you so so so much!! That all sounds amazing and I’m glad you can see how far you’re coming. It would be nice to do makeup again, so we shall see!! Have a good day :)
@Thelegendofafangirl14 күн бұрын
Im so happy and proud of you for sticking to what you wanted and making that big girl decision. I hope this is TMI and im sorry if this is but im 21 and im a neurodivergent(im undiagnosed) as well. Next year I graduate from college with my bachelor degree in psychology but the thing is im not sure if I want to go back to school for my masters especially since psychology was never the career I wanted. I just did it because It was pushed as being good career and I just wanted a stable form of income. Now as the date gets closer i know that I have to make a choice. Your video just gave me a new found perspective, so thanks in a way.
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
That wasn’t too much information at all. Thank you for your kindness, and I hope that everything works out for you as well 🩵 best of luck out here!!
@kavencci14 күн бұрын
Im very proud of you for becoming the better version of yourself
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
Thank you Kavencci!!
@laurencurry700214 күн бұрын
proud of you!!
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
Love you Lauren!!! Tysm :)
@laurencurry700214 күн бұрын
@@Aneva love you!!!!
@telayajackson2.02314 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience in Boston. I hope to travel on plane someday. I feel my life is just boring ever since things changed in my family, and I want my life to feel more fun again. Now, I'm aware of what I may experience once I do travel. I'm glad you still had fun, despite the difficulties that autism can cause.
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
Thank you. I’m really grateful I had the experience. I hope you’re doing well. Travel by plane is a lot, but it seems to get a little easier over time. Thank you for commenting ❤
@jesterskully56314 күн бұрын
14:10 it’s loud in baseball games but it’s even louder when you’re in an indoor arena
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
I had NO idea how loud and crowded it would be
@jesterskully56314 күн бұрын
@@Aneva I usually go to hockey games during the season. It gets soooo loud and when the Devils score a horn blows super loud.
@jesterskully56314 күн бұрын
9:04 I never held back on anything when I was in college. That explains why I had no friends 😢. This was back in the 90s when people knew anything about autism.
@jesterskully56314 күн бұрын
6:24 I struggle with self esteem and not being attractive enough as well
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
It started in my mind. I hated it you know?
@jesterskully56314 күн бұрын
4:11 that’s a dope 💍
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
I agree!
@jesterskully56314 күн бұрын
2:32 being alone kinda sucks
@jesterskully56314 күн бұрын
I dislike traveling by plane. It’s so stressful 😥
@Aneva14 күн бұрын
I imagine horrible things the whole time so I just try to sleep 😭
@langserv14 күн бұрын
Just get one pen with multiple colors
@Bea-rq1uf15 күн бұрын
Ugh it's so annoyinggg but i love the dancing haha
@AnevaКүн бұрын
Lol thanks
@theedgeofoblivious16 күн бұрын
1. Neurotypical people feel a desire for conflict. 2. Neurotypical people search their environment for someone they can attack without social consequences. 3. Neurotypical people invent hostility from their intended target, to justify their attack. This has nothing to do with whether the intended target had any hostility or negative intentions.
@Bea-rq1uf16 күн бұрын
Oooo Ilove how the yellow and orange eyeshadow matches your scrunchies!! And omg well done for successfully piercing your own industrial that sounds difficult!
@monknator60817 күн бұрын
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩷
@Catlily518 күн бұрын
👍
@thezopelo18 күн бұрын
I understand you want to communicate your experiences and your problems, but you need to understand a lot of people haven’t been in situations with neuro-divergent individuals and they don’t know how to react. The patronizing comments’ intention is because they want to ensure you are comfortable. It also can be not appropriate to mention you’re diagnosis if it doesn’t fit the conversation. But that might be hard for you to understand because you’re autistic…
@Aneva18 күн бұрын
I think you have added a new quote to my next video, thank you
@barrycollins79518 күн бұрын
@@Aneva😂😂
@Agent-Astro14 күн бұрын
Read the room 😂
@L1LST4RR18 күн бұрын
don’t forget acoustic
@Aneva18 күн бұрын
Can’t forget that one ✍️
@Catlily519 күн бұрын
Happy Juneteenth! You look good!
@Aneva19 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@TheDominiqueDivine19 күн бұрын
I forget to horror all the time. I had spent so long in isolation and with another neurodivergent person who accepted me, that I forgot how for a while. Now that I'm on my own it's been a hard adjustment
@jordanporter258019 күн бұрын
Nice paintings and art 🎨 👌🏾 🖼 I'm planning on painting in the future now that I am taking art classes as an artist.
@VariousAndSundryBee20 күн бұрын
I always HATED bullies when I was a kid. I’d get SO mad when people put down others for things they couldn’t change. I had decent enough social skills that I sometimes ended up around mean neurotypical kids, but it never lasted.
@zephynewinters20 күн бұрын
Why is this so too accurate 😅😂
@korkinalina20 күн бұрын
I remember one night in a camp we where sitting together on the outside couches just because there was a good wi-fi, we weren't friends. I was reading, others had a card game going on and a girl asked if i wanted to join. After i said "no" she said "looks like you're not with us" and i said "I'm not". Because i was sitting aside and reading, not playing. She took it like an assault and started bullying me 🗿
@pokelynke823221 күн бұрын
Her shirt says autistic in Unown, it's flipped. 😂
@Aratovi20 күн бұрын
Ohhhh😮. I was starring at it for a minute or two
@pokelynke823220 күн бұрын
@@Aratovi yeah. Me too. It takes me a moment to read Unown, but when it didn't say anything frontward, I read it backwards and was like "ohhhh".
@Aneva20 күн бұрын
Yes!! I made it myself and I sell it on Etsy. Just turned it into a crop top for funsies
@Catlily520 күн бұрын
That's cool!
@gracep291012 күн бұрын
i was SO confused as to what “sitzwa” meant LMAO
@RambleMaven21 күн бұрын
The staring would always get me in trouble 😭 I’m like bro I was staring in your general direction not at you. The crazy part is sometimes I’m literally locking eyes with someone but I don’t know cuz I’m so in my head at the moment tho 😂 the easiest time it is for me to hold eye contact I promise 🤣
@Aneva20 күн бұрын
I have no idea what to look at. Eye level hurts
@Catlily521 күн бұрын
This girl wanted to fight me in junior high because she said that I was starting at her. 🤷🏻♀️
@Aneva20 күн бұрын
Fighting is school curriculum lmao
@Catlily520 күн бұрын
@@Aneva 😂 Sad but true.
@melodygagnon21 күн бұрын
You make eyeliner look easy and the while outfit is a slay ✨️
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"Support autistic people or leave us alone. We will take either/or." I'm not autistic but I am very neurodivergent and I felt that in. my. bones.
The sh*t we put up with, honestly 😩
I can sometimes exaggerate negative possibilities and be too quick to talk about my overly negative predictions, but if that happens, I will correct myself quickly. However, I also know that a lot of "negative" predictions of mine have been accurate while a lot of other people employed wishful thinking about the same issue. A very good example of this is climate change. I am constantly flabbergasted and surprised how easily so many people can just completely ignore the real results of climate change and the news around it. I am honest about it and most of the things I say about it has been right, not because I am smart and the others are stupid, but because a lot of neurotypicals seem to be capable of ignoring or embellishing reality to support their emotional needs and wishes. They love nice and positive narratives, happy endings, uplifting stories and they seem to think that reality is boring and sad, so they can twist reality to conform to their state of mind. They tend to like stories, narratives that support their prejudices, wishes and beliefs, such as the idea of an ultimate caregiver (god) or that happiness lasts forever. They can have a hard time accepting a negative reality unless it's shrowded in an emotionally-fulfilling storyline that is based on their own desires and states of mind. Honestly, I think that neuronormativity can be delusional sometimes. And then we are accused of being pessimistic as in denying reality, even if we are the ones embracing reality in the face of denialism.
As a kid I would have loved that place. Now I think that I have tried so hard for so long to be normal that I have forgotten parts of who I am
That's such a delightful spot ✨️🤗!!
I loved it so much!!
Looks like a good place to relax.
@@michaelxz85 it was a hidden gem
Hi I'm Noah i have autism also
This isn't autism, it's fakeness. Even said Chad.
I hoped to get some tips on bullying others, not to talk about others bullying me :/
Congratulations on healing. I hope god continues to bless you and your life comes with great success.
i feel like nintendo games were just MADE for autistic people 😂 love the chain chomp painting!
NTs are so rude lmao
LOVE THE UNOWN SHIRT!!!
“meeting stupid questions with patience” this is my life’s greatest challenge 😂
This made me emotional!! I'm so glad you had such an amazing personal growth period!! It's so awesome that you feel better than you did before and know you can do anything!
Thank you so much!!! I didn’t realize it was that emotional until others have spoken on it. I really appreciate it 💗
Aneva, this was a lovely, beautiful video. Thank you for sharing your journey with us <3
Thank you AJ, you mean a lot to me, thank you for being there for the ride!! ❤
Finding out you can do things on your own is so freeing! I didn’t travel by myself until a few years ago. It was so much fun to be able to see whatever I thought seemed interesting. Yes! Go to Oregon! I love that state
Thank you Spencer!!! If you say Oregon is nice, I shall put it on the list of places to visit!!! You do travel quite a bit and that is fantastic 🗺️
Aren’t you the girl from the acolyte ?
@@jessicalynn7229 no I’m not! I have had people tell me we look alike though!
I fly by myself and go to restaurants by myself also. I dont get why people think going to a restaurant by yourself is so terrible.
I dunno. It’s really relaxing if you go during down times too! It can bring out feelings of loneliness if you’re already feeling down. But getting used to it is nice.
I am so very proud and happy for you, Aneva. This was a lovely video to watch <3
Thank you so much Hannah!!!
Your hair is LOOKIN GOOD!!! 💛⭐️ you are inspiring! Even when you “weren’t taking care” of your hair, it looked beautiful. Seriously. Boston is beautiful, I remember those photos! Solitude can be a blessing and a curse! Mastering it and becoming comfortable with it….it can make you POWERFUL! Means independence comes extremely natural for you! Me myself, i still struggle with it! New places unnerve me a great deal. Big crowds and new people unnerve me. I still have social issues but try my best to just endure them and accept myself. It’s been mostly better…but when it’s bad, it is bad. The insecurity you speak of. IM STILL THERE lol. I actually got some filler and it helped me a bit. Idk. I’m rambling now but I definitely can understand what you’re saying and I love that you shared this and ultimately you had a good time. Started off bad but became GOOD! Im finally dabbling in make up now. OBSESSED WITH LIP GLOSS. So during the video, I kept looking at your lips! You are beautiful and the decision you made, though painful, is courageous and shows your strength.
Nyx buttergloss, but this one is nyx fat lip oil!!! The color is “that’s chic”. They’re such high quality. Buttergloss is my favorite though. Thank you so much. I feel like we are growing together in a way, but from a distance! I really appreciate the support you’ve shown me for so long. I hope you’re doing okay!! As for my hair it feels like it’s grown overnight. Almost like one day I just woke up healthier. Thank you again and I wish the best for you, always !!! 💗✨
@@Aneva omg. Thanks for sharing that. I will order it! I’m playing around with elf products because of the affordability. I love elf! When I get better, i will buy the better stuff! I love Juvia’s Place!! It’s my favorite. I’m doing really well, actually. Well? Yeah, I think I am. Lots of improvements. Lots of acceptance and IVE BEEN STANDING UP FOR MYSELF TOO! EXERCISING AND RUNNING CONSISTENTLY (that’s a big deal for me srsly) I’m saying ‘no’ more often and yelling at the people who rightfully deserve it! I love it! I am also back to writing A LOT, actively engaging in my daydreams and inspirations. It is fun! I hope to learn to draw soon (eventually) and get back to learning Japanese (I’m a hopeless weeb!). I bought a lever harp and I’m learning that which is good for my mood so, yeah i can’t complain. For bad days and up and down moods, I have to recommend learning an instrument - even a kazoo , it can make all the difference. I’m so honored to be growing with you and I can’t wait to see more growth and more looks from you. Your make up at the very end - will you do a tutorial!? LOL 💛⭐️👑
Thank you so so so much!! That all sounds amazing and I’m glad you can see how far you’re coming. It would be nice to do makeup again, so we shall see!! Have a good day :)
Im so happy and proud of you for sticking to what you wanted and making that big girl decision. I hope this is TMI and im sorry if this is but im 21 and im a neurodivergent(im undiagnosed) as well. Next year I graduate from college with my bachelor degree in psychology but the thing is im not sure if I want to go back to school for my masters especially since psychology was never the career I wanted. I just did it because It was pushed as being good career and I just wanted a stable form of income. Now as the date gets closer i know that I have to make a choice. Your video just gave me a new found perspective, so thanks in a way.
That wasn’t too much information at all. Thank you for your kindness, and I hope that everything works out for you as well 🩵 best of luck out here!!
Im very proud of you for becoming the better version of yourself
Thank you Kavencci!!
proud of you!!
Love you Lauren!!! Tysm :)
@@Aneva love you!!!!
Thank you for sharing your experience in Boston. I hope to travel on plane someday. I feel my life is just boring ever since things changed in my family, and I want my life to feel more fun again. Now, I'm aware of what I may experience once I do travel. I'm glad you still had fun, despite the difficulties that autism can cause.
Thank you. I’m really grateful I had the experience. I hope you’re doing well. Travel by plane is a lot, but it seems to get a little easier over time. Thank you for commenting ❤
14:10 it’s loud in baseball games but it’s even louder when you’re in an indoor arena
I had NO idea how loud and crowded it would be
@@Aneva I usually go to hockey games during the season. It gets soooo loud and when the Devils score a horn blows super loud.
9:04 I never held back on anything when I was in college. That explains why I had no friends 😢. This was back in the 90s when people knew anything about autism.
6:24 I struggle with self esteem and not being attractive enough as well
It started in my mind. I hated it you know?
4:11 that’s a dope 💍
I agree!
2:32 being alone kinda sucks
I dislike traveling by plane. It’s so stressful 😥
I imagine horrible things the whole time so I just try to sleep 😭
Just get one pen with multiple colors
Ugh it's so annoyinggg but i love the dancing haha
Lol thanks
1. Neurotypical people feel a desire for conflict. 2. Neurotypical people search their environment for someone they can attack without social consequences. 3. Neurotypical people invent hostility from their intended target, to justify their attack. This has nothing to do with whether the intended target had any hostility or negative intentions.
Oooo Ilove how the yellow and orange eyeshadow matches your scrunchies!! And omg well done for successfully piercing your own industrial that sounds difficult!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩷
👍
I understand you want to communicate your experiences and your problems, but you need to understand a lot of people haven’t been in situations with neuro-divergent individuals and they don’t know how to react. The patronizing comments’ intention is because they want to ensure you are comfortable. It also can be not appropriate to mention you’re diagnosis if it doesn’t fit the conversation. But that might be hard for you to understand because you’re autistic…
I think you have added a new quote to my next video, thank you
@@Aneva😂😂
Read the room 😂
don’t forget acoustic
Can’t forget that one ✍️
Happy Juneteenth! You look good!
Thank you so much!!
I forget to horror all the time. I had spent so long in isolation and with another neurodivergent person who accepted me, that I forgot how for a while. Now that I'm on my own it's been a hard adjustment
Nice paintings and art 🎨 👌🏾 🖼 I'm planning on painting in the future now that I am taking art classes as an artist.
I always HATED bullies when I was a kid. I’d get SO mad when people put down others for things they couldn’t change. I had decent enough social skills that I sometimes ended up around mean neurotypical kids, but it never lasted.
Why is this so too accurate 😅😂
I remember one night in a camp we where sitting together on the outside couches just because there was a good wi-fi, we weren't friends. I was reading, others had a card game going on and a girl asked if i wanted to join. After i said "no" she said "looks like you're not with us" and i said "I'm not". Because i was sitting aside and reading, not playing. She took it like an assault and started bullying me 🗿
Her shirt says autistic in Unown, it's flipped. 😂
Ohhhh😮. I was starring at it for a minute or two
@@Aratovi yeah. Me too. It takes me a moment to read Unown, but when it didn't say anything frontward, I read it backwards and was like "ohhhh".
Yes!! I made it myself and I sell it on Etsy. Just turned it into a crop top for funsies
That's cool!
i was SO confused as to what “sitzwa” meant LMAO
The staring would always get me in trouble 😭 I’m like bro I was staring in your general direction not at you. The crazy part is sometimes I’m literally locking eyes with someone but I don’t know cuz I’m so in my head at the moment tho 😂 the easiest time it is for me to hold eye contact I promise 🤣
I have no idea what to look at. Eye level hurts
This girl wanted to fight me in junior high because she said that I was starting at her. 🤷🏻♀️
Fighting is school curriculum lmao
@@Aneva 😂 Sad but true.
You make eyeliner look easy and the while outfit is a slay ✨️
I cannot work and I'm "somewhat normal" autistic