matt bernstein

matt bernstein

friendly queer jew w very long nails

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Surviving AIDS in the 80s

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The Detransitioner Panic

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  • @a.t.6322
    @a.t.632254 минут бұрын

    You gotta be kidding me man you are thoroughly brainwashed by Islamic propaganda. Good luck with that in the future.

  • @daysjours
    @daysjoursСағат бұрын

    I wonder if Matt wants a man like himself or if he too wants a masculine man. He never said.

  • @daysjours
    @daysjours2 сағат бұрын

    On women those nails are grotesque. On men too. They are not transgressive. They are lame and ugly.

  • @JeremiahArt65
    @JeremiahArt652 сағат бұрын

    CHICKENS FOR KFC

  • @Bananacatxxi
    @Bananacatxxi3 сағат бұрын

    I am so happy people are finally waking up. Please, if you were one of the pro-Johnny supporters, THIS is your chance to make it right. Unlike any of his instagram posts, unfollow him, speak out about how Amber was treated unfairly, show the proof to anyone who asks. She deserves it. Not a single MALE celebrity who was convicted of r*pe or abuse was treated as badly as amber, and she never did any of that.

  • @dharmalock5032
    @dharmalock50323 сағат бұрын

    The willful ignorance in all of this is not exactly surprising, but disappointing all the same.

  • @ja_santana
    @ja_santana4 сағат бұрын

    Just found out your channel here yesterday and I'm obceced with it. So good to see this good exchange of ideias in a light and yet meaninful way....and also I just adore to know your guests (first one was Nathalie/ContraPoints, so SMART!)

  • @serenecourage
    @serenecourage4 сағат бұрын

    I see "people with uterus," "pregnant person," or "person capable of giving birth" is increasing in presence in medical education to include all persons to whom the topic applies. This includes all people with the female reproductive system present and therefore makes clear that if a person had a hysterectomy or menopause etc. that would rule that person out of the context of that issue. Also, seeing "chestfeeding" rather than "breastfeeding" to reduce the triggering for folks with trauma regarding the weight and trauma that is associated with the term. And honestly, as a cis het female, I feel nothing regarding this but rather - as a medical professional - it helps make clear the group that is impacted and increases clarity.

  • @cryssanie
    @cryssanie6 сағат бұрын

    Damn it's maddening to hear you talk about the semantics argument of gay marriage being an attack on english language as a thing of past when this year in my home country a law allowing gay marriage failed to pass and one of the biggest arguments against it was that the czech word for marriage ethymologically stems from man and woman and thus a gay marriage would be an attack on czech language 😭😭😭 why is world like this still... WHY

  • @deepam5246
    @deepam52466 сағат бұрын

    Aubrey's voice has always made me happy. Her laugh can change my day! Today, she comes on video in that cute blouse too. SO HAPPY! I don't know if Aubrey knows this, but she's done wonders for my mental health and body image. She's a real queen! <3

  • @cedarmoss7173
    @cedarmoss71737 сағат бұрын

    The pro-Israel protest being a good time reminds me of pride month being a celebration of rainbow capitalism and assimilationist homos rather than a protest against the abuse and genocide of queer people. In the capital city of my state we have several different “parades” and queer gatherings because certain queer identities were being so aggressively excluded. Queerness does deserve celebration but it also needs advocacy and pride month has become a celebration of assimilation rather than a call for liberation. Pro-Israel protest have nothing to protest and pride month is a celebration of the heteronormative-ification of queer personhood.

  • @Inktransfercomics
    @Inktransfercomics8 сағат бұрын

    As a former Christian and homeschool student, I loved this interview and I resonated deeply with the WaPo piece about Aaron and Christina when I read it last year.

  • @rebecca5379
    @rebecca53798 сағат бұрын

    I went to a doctor for things unrelated to mental health or weight but I made the mistake of being honest on my intake forms and told them I was on medication for depression at the time and then the doctor proceeded to ask me if I was in a relationship. when I said no he told me to go on a low carb diet so that I could lose weight and find a boyfriend and that would fix my depression so I could get off the medication. I was completely in shock. he received a very strongly worded google review.

  • @havenm6181
    @havenm618114 сағат бұрын

    My abusive homeschooled upbringing has resulted in so much trauma and this general feeling of alienation. I don't know if I'll ever feel like a human. Even if I get along with people, there still feels like this barrier of anxiety, that I'm not entirely integrated. That "In the world, not of the world" also played a factor. I just grew up believing that I would never be a part of humanity. And I still don't feel like it. And I don't know if I ever will. Homeschool is child abuse.

  • @daysjours
    @daysjours17 сағат бұрын

    Aubrey speaks often with great authority while spouting pure nonsense. It’s a gift to speak with confidence coz you really fool many. Maintenance Phase is just NPR pap.

  • @clanhouseonline
    @clanhouseonline19 сағат бұрын

    this is a great, fair breakdown of the rowling issue

  • @UncleverCarapace
    @UncleverCarapace21 сағат бұрын

    "Everyone who could get this would want it" Okay, now go say that to Deaf people about cochlear implants.

  • @shunkela
    @shunkela23 сағат бұрын

    1:23:50 I've been lucky to meet an awesome couple while working in homeless services. One of whom is an hiv positive gay man in his 50s, a survivor of the aids crisis. The man is lovable and snarky and deeply empathetic. He's talked about his meth use and how deeply tied it is his life as a gay man. He's said no one gets it who doesnt "get it". He's talked about addiction treatment, and how it has to be somewhere he can speak frankly about being gay, having hiv and meth use, or it wont do him any good. Words cant say how great those guys are and how much they are admired by me for supporting the network of fellow survivors around them. (Rest in peace to their sweet bulldog-pitt)

  • @shunkela
    @shunkelaКүн бұрын

    I'm tearing up so much, thank you for having Peter on. I work with the unhoused and housing insecure population in western washington, and some of the same lack of humanity and empathy is present here with homelessness getting worse and the fentanyl crisis killing many people I know. I was so touched to learn how harm reduction became a thing and how empathetic people learned to live through situations where nothing seems to be on a person's sode while struggling. The care to combat that wickedness is equally "wicked" and powerful. And I have so much love for people who did what was right in the face of so much apathy and disdain.

  • @kermitthorson9719
    @kermitthorson9719Күн бұрын

    i love you matt, dont be anything but you

  • @enzoarayamorales7220
    @enzoarayamorales7220Күн бұрын

    Yknow what else is grooming that has been happening for literal decades and is state sponsored…. The draft…. But we aren’t ready for that conversation.

  • @adelineeeee_28
    @adelineeeee_28Күн бұрын

    thank you so much for this video, i haven't totally understood what was happening, but now i know.

  • @frankpalpatine1
    @frankpalpatine1Күн бұрын

    In my opinion, they were both clearly abusing one another. But the main reason for the intensity of the backlash against Amber, was Amber.

  • @nicholasr39
    @nicholasr39Күн бұрын

    Send him to North Korea and we will see what he identifies as

  • @riveranalyse
    @riveranalyseКүн бұрын

    Ahhhh, Alok is amazing!!!!

  • @kermitthorson9719
    @kermitthorson9719Күн бұрын

    i have a wild theory that the only reason that jk mad Dumbledore gay post hoc was that she could come up with a worthy female character to match him. almost all of her hero characters are men, the ladies are almost always relegated or demoted to side meat.

  • @chasejohnson3645
    @chasejohnson3645Күн бұрын

    Just finished your homeschool episode and I'm binging your episodes! The way you present information and communicate with guests is so respectful and thorough

  • @sophieh.2986
    @sophieh.2986Күн бұрын

    what shocks me about all those letters is that so many adults think that a child even can be seductive in any capacity!! wtf is wrong with these people? they act like it would be hard to not engage with a minor if they „pressured“ you to, while every normal person would be grossed out by even the thought of it. there seem to be much more creeps in this indzstry than I realized….

  • @sophieh.2986
    @sophieh.2986Күн бұрын

    what shocks me about all those letters is that so many adults think that a child even can be seductive in any capacity!! wtf is wrong with these people? they act like it would be hard to not engage with a minor if they „pressured“ you to, while every normal person would be grossed out by even the thought of it. there seem to be much more creeps in this indzstry than I realized….

  • @Rewildyourlife
    @RewildyourlifeКүн бұрын

    Such a good episode. I was raised exactly same as them, and it was just all well-rounded questions you asked, and just overall a great episode. Thanks. ❤

  • @kermitthorson9719
    @kermitthorson9719Күн бұрын

    i want matt to read me the tax code it would still be soooooo mmmmmmmm

  • @michaelvanmastrigt7591
    @michaelvanmastrigt7591Күн бұрын

    Far better to receive an indoctrination in Christianity ✝️ than to suffer from the morally debased brain rot that is alphabet soup propaganda and the Ku Klux Tranz 🤷‍♂️😌

  • @enzoarayamorales7220
    @enzoarayamorales7220Күн бұрын

    Not really

  • @Federica_in_the_UK
    @Federica_in_the_UKКүн бұрын

    Just found this channel. You are both very insightful and smart. I’m excited to have found you and I am looking forward to watch more of your videos

  • @anamaia8553
    @anamaia8553Күн бұрын

    This comment will be lost maybe for being so late. Im so happy to find tour channel. I have leanerd and listening so much

  • @EnigmaFox-qr2fw
    @EnigmaFox-qr2fwКүн бұрын

    Wild: I've been on estrogen therapy for almost 2 years now,:and I think like a cis and trans person.. hmm. No wonder I say I'm noncis, rather than trans strictly speaking, because my gender journey, sexual journey, and identity journey are distinct realities that tend to collide.. so I really am different.. transness saved me, but gave me new language to realize I'm not quite fitting in either gender or sexuality discourses. My feelings are moving towards realizing I'm distinct from trans but noncisgender. Saying this feels very weird, but oddly Freeing. Thank you Estrogen therapy..

  • @EnigmaFox-qr2fw
    @EnigmaFox-qr2fwКүн бұрын

    Revealing: I'm noncis myself, and I now understand that my "ally ship" to feminisms was indication that I sided with the concept that I could reimagine myself in nonNormative terms.

  • @michelleborchardt199
    @michelleborchardt199Күн бұрын

    I adore you Matt, and having Aubrey on your podcast is the chef’s kiss! Keep up the good work!

  • @robertmartin2936
    @robertmartin2936Күн бұрын

    Funny how TERFs can easily say "left handed people" without spiraling into existential crisis. It feels as though their fig leaf strategy of centering semantics is also partly rooted in language outrage as a proxy for an imagined noble past. That the nonexistent language purity, ergo the culture, ergo their fascist nostalgia for an invented time when "all was right" is being attacked and any use of a word they don't understand suddenly becomes a microaggression revealing some secret plot. P.S. Matt your makeup that day - flawless.

  • @LiamLoves
    @LiamLovesКүн бұрын

    I can't wait to homeschool my children. As someone who attended puplic school, I found that it wasn't condusive to sainthood. I've met homeschoolers and they're amazing! I love them so much.

  • @jle1654
    @jle1654Күн бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/kaGc1c9qaKy5pag.html

  • @ndoina_
    @ndoina_Күн бұрын

    I think 2 things can be true at the same time. It’s ignorant to not recognize that Jewish people ARE being currently attacked in the US.

  • @ndoina_
    @ndoina_2 күн бұрын

    Her list sounds just like mine when I was 15😵‍💫

  • @TheKatatonicx
    @TheKatatonicx2 күн бұрын

    loving Aubrey! thanks for introing me to her!

  • @growaplant
    @growaplant2 күн бұрын

    My guy you should have added a trigger warning to this video

  • @briannajaide
    @briannajaide2 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this content! So informative. ❤ new sub here.

  • @sshii
    @sshii2 күн бұрын

    We Should All Shut the Fvck Up 2024 This was such a great conversation and I’m RUNNING to check out her podcast. 😭

  • @michellehan4594
    @michellehan45942 күн бұрын

    Watching this in 2024 and getting mad flashbacks. Can't believe this shit is repeating again💀

  • @KellyAnn2390
    @KellyAnn23902 күн бұрын

    I have 2 relatives on these GLP drugs and they're EXPENSIVE and the side effects are gnarly. They're not the easy way out of anything.

  • @OddlingCore
    @OddlingCore2 күн бұрын

    52:36 In someways, it’s almost as if J. K. Rowling has all of the privilege, but she still not a man a member of society with the most privilege and so she’s jealous of trans women because she thinks trans. Women are men, but still get to be women and she never will be seen and regarded with the authority of a cis man.

  • @christianwang
    @christianwang2 күн бұрын

    i always get such whisplash whenever i remember that most homeschoolers outside of the bay area are crazy fundamentalist evangelical christians and not smart kids who are aiming for stanford and use homeschooling as a way to do more with their time 😭😭