Okay I saw this on tumblr tonight and I can’t stop thinking about it. It’s not really related to the topic. It might just be something helpful In general to someone. “ when healing from a person.. you will have thoughts like “I loved them more than I loved anyone, I never knew I could love someone so much, I’ll never love someone that much again.. It is important to realize that your ability to love that person didn’t come from them, it came from within you. You were always a lover, already someone who could love deeply. Just because they are gone doesn’t mean that goes away. They didn’t give you the capacity to love, they just gave you a place to express it. Don’t give someone else the credit for how hard you could love, that was you and it still is. “

@violetakoth8112

4 жыл бұрын

I like this

@Lauren_22613

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this 🙂

@chicgal3

4 жыл бұрын

I L❤️VE This! Thank You 😊

@MegJuniper

4 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@tboz26

4 жыл бұрын

So wise!

Will looked very uncomfortable and like he was holding in some anger.

@nope_no_nunya.

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed. He often looks like that on her little show. Defensive and embarrassed. I think he's so over it. Only his ego, vanity and pride are preventing him from walking away.

@WifeandWifeTV

4 жыл бұрын

I think he is more embarrassed/angry that she tarnished the brand he worked so hard to build and protect. They’ve both had extramarital affairs, but only Jada’s has been made public.

@BbGun-lw5vi

4 жыл бұрын

WifeandWife This! He hated that she put him in that spot. He tried to cover it up by laughing but he was in pain. And she’s in her own world and just lies and lies.

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

@@WifeandWifeTV that's what I saw too.

@laurensk9859

4 жыл бұрын

Will was pissed and made a few revealing comments. “I was done with you.” “I’m going to get you back Jada” and she genuinely looked afraid and said “pls don’t. Actually, Will you’ve already gotten me back twice!” Will was pissed. You might be right that he fumed Omer this publicity and his brand being tarnished to the point where they were forced to address it all thanks to loose lips August. *okay now let me watch what ShallonXO had to say.*

I was in a relationship for 18 years. Just coasting along, acting comfortable cause neither of us had the guts to split up. Well he cheated and that was the push I needed to say that's it, I'm done. Best thing ever. I'm 40 and single and so much happier. My only regret is that I hadn't done it years ago.

The only thing I got from the table talk was when they both said "bad marriage for life" at the end. That's some real homie shit. Doesn't scream romance.

@jennahope4353

4 жыл бұрын

sounded like BAD BOYS for life. movie promo lol!

@dcoci

4 жыл бұрын

Some of the stuff they said made me so uncomfortable. That bad marriage thing joke, basically everything jada said, and what Will said about getting her back or whatever

To conclude; they are married, they had children, now they're just friends but too damn petty to admit it and divorce. They have side relationships because they don't love each other like that anymore

@maheenm.k1015

4 жыл бұрын

They also really good friends who hold each other up and depend on each other. A divorced couple wouldn't remain so close, maybe they are life partners in a friend type of way and look forward to growing old together.

@ellemathews9840

4 жыл бұрын

They still love eachother. They are probably just bored and need to spice it up .

@JayneAngelinaSkye

4 жыл бұрын

Exactlyyy why cant they say that and move on they makin it sp complicated

I saw her table talk and they just seem...off. They’re no longer able to fake it that they’re just ODD. I think in that sense they’re made for each other lol. I think Will is so enamored with her that he over looks her psychology wellness (which she points out in every talk), and she hides behind a “woke” facade. You nailed it Shallon.

@no1famous890

4 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more

@tj-8422

4 жыл бұрын

"Woke facade" is exactly right.

@TheBlahblahblahwhat

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. He clearly looked HURT. And she seems unbothered. It may all well be water under the bridge for her but he clearly is bothered. BUT THEN, I also think, they’re open swingers....how often does this happen with them??!!! Weird all around.

@TheSoftLifeMeditations

4 жыл бұрын

summed up perfectly

@TheBlahblahblahwhat

4 жыл бұрын

I realize I contradicted myself. I am aware that “gossip” columns state that they are “open swingers”, and they have stated prior to this talk that they have seen other people. Throughout Jada’s video, Will looked very hurt...this brings me to a contradictory issue: are they swingers, and if they are, why did he appear hurt? If they are not swingers, why do they talk about being ok with seeing other people when clearly Will is not ok with it? It’s odd from all perspectives.

I had an ex say "Chris was never my girlfriend" to the girl he started dating after me. We were together for 10 months, met friends, held dinner get togethers with other couples, even had lunches and dinners with his parents every couple of days for the better part of the last 4 months of our relationship 🤷‍♀️ Funny you mentioned cause I'll be pulling a Keke any time someone reminds me. "I don't know who this man is. I mean, he could be walking down the street, I wouldn't know a thing... Sorry to this man."

@nathaliejoyal8854

4 жыл бұрын

WTF....

@messywalk

4 жыл бұрын

PLEASE DO! 😂 He has it cominggggg. The audacity!

@sarcasticsid5589

3 жыл бұрын

YASSS!!!

@audrablue515

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you. The most hurtful thing a man has ever said to me came from my now ex-husband. I moved countries to be with him (I moved to Canada from Australia) only to find out he was massively in debt, addicted to alcohol and lived behind his computer when he wasn't working. We got married but I was alone in bed on my wedding night crying my eyes out while he played games online. He constantly belittled me, yelled at me, ignored me. I stuck it out for 2 years then decided I'd had enough and was going home. He told me I was better off in my own country and that getting married was a mistake. When I asked him why he married me, he said, "I felt sorry for you". That shit took a long time to get past. I've been home since 2003 now and last year he found me on FB and was so happy to see me and wanted to friend me and chat and catch up, basically act like my best bud. I told him I'm not on FB very much (true) and he should look elsewhere for friends because I won't be coming back on. Bye, Felicia.

@RatTaxi

2 жыл бұрын

@@audrablue515 my GOD. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine that. All the repercussions.

I caught my ex fiance cheating with a co worker 2 years ago. After I left and stayed gone, we got into a argument about court for visits for our child and he say "I was the side chick in the triangle" 😂 yea bud we were engaged (Christmas proposal) living together and just had a baby. Your other chick you seen.....at work. I'm done. 💁

@angelina6543

4 жыл бұрын

Ahhrrrrgggg he get away with this? I can't stand him

@christinewarren8134

4 жыл бұрын

@@angelina6543 I'm gonna let God and karma get that a$$ 😉

@Kyethecreator

4 жыл бұрын

He needs therapy..... glad you left him!

@christinewarren8134

4 жыл бұрын

@@Kyethecreator I tried before I left him after I found him cheating. To no avail. He is a grown man who has to live with his decisions. And yes I had to go because he was cheating for over a year and had a baby with that co worker right behind our child!

@danielamorilladicicco6693

4 жыл бұрын

better to be alone

“I have been divorced so I don’t want another divorce” Will say it himself, it’s for the show. To me it sounds like she wanted to be with August but she’s “tied” to Will and his beliefs so she felt the need to lie to look good in front of Will. Why would I be married and want to be with other people? I don’t get it, clearly they’re not getting at the root of the problem.

@erikaperez7650

4 жыл бұрын

She did not want to be with August. She preyed on him. He was a young man with alot going on and he was vulnerable. She wanted to stay with will.

@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend

4 жыл бұрын

@@erikaperez7650 He was 27. Stop infantilizing people with mental illness just because it's a narrative you like the sound of in the instance of a celebrity.

@niamhwatson

4 жыл бұрын

I think Jada and Will are just like Victoria and David/ Beyonce and Jay-Z/ Kim and Kanye/Blake and Ryan... their relationships are good for business.

@dawnprudenti1964

4 жыл бұрын

@@erikaperez7650 I agree with you when your not happy you try to make yourself happy by helping others or however it not possible you have to help an love yourself.

@hannahi9355

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr? Looks like struggle love if I ever saw it.

After I learned about Jada and August, I said to myself “Can’t wait till Shallon talks about this!”

@Leslie-ue4ob

4 жыл бұрын

Ha! LEGIT.

@kimchinoodles7292

4 жыл бұрын

Ha me too!

This has nothing to do with the topic but I'm young and I have always thought that I would like to get married but I don't know now, I would like you to explore how to know if you are directing yourself based on your own happiness or social expectations

@ThingsILikke

4 жыл бұрын

Good suggestion

@quarentinedlove2903

4 жыл бұрын

She talks about this in this video

@violetakoth8112

4 жыл бұрын

You're right

@Hanavannin

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly just go with the flow. If you meet a guy or girl and want to marry them then you will know. I never wanted to get married, but when I met my now husband and fell in love I just knew I wanted to get married. Opinions and circumstances and wants change as you grow xx

@nazarisreyes6037

4 жыл бұрын

@@Hanavannin thanks for the advice, I'm not pressed about it right now but as people grow is something that needs to be discussed within a relationship, What if I start something serious with someone who wants to get married and I don't? Just feel like the most fair thing for both parties in a relationship would be to have things as clear as possible

a friend of mine called my relationship with my fiance 'easy and perfection' and then added- 'you two don't even have a mortgage to worry about it's all paid off'. my response- ''you weren't around for when he was battling cancer last year or when he thought he was going to die. the mortgage is paid off because his life insurance paid out and the happiness you see is our joy at him being alive and we fought to get to this point.'' the point is- behind every public highlight reel there's probably a whole mess of fear and confusion going on, it was for my fiance and i.

August says that he had a sexual relationship with Jada Pinkett Smith for 3 or 4 years. It started in 2015 and ended in around 2018 or 2019. Jada makes it seem like it was so long ago.

@salamander8301

4 жыл бұрын

Omg, so will was"done with her ass" like 3-4 years prior when everyone was gushing over Thier relationship HAAAA

@BbGun-lw5vi

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@AlexisG-no6nu

4 жыл бұрын

It probably really only stopped due to the lockdown in 2020.

@bohunkjunk2514

4 жыл бұрын

that's Hollywood... everything spun

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

A lot of lesser famous people lie about more famous people in order to become more famous themself. Can we really trust his account more then Jada?

My first experience with a guy I was gaslit like you’re talking about ‘it wasn’t that serious’. Every guy I interacted with afterwards had to be so explicit. I had a guy once ask me ‘do I have to use the word date?’ Because he kept taking me out but I just thought he saw me as a friend. And years later... the first guy writes me a long email with ‘you’re an angel. Remember when we were together? It was us against the world’ ... LOLLLL. ‘Together’? Sweetie I don’t know you ! 😂

When the other person downplays the relationship - you will get over the relationship but that downplaying stays in your mind.

"Don't devalue a person to devalue the loss of a situation."

Jada & August's experience of the relationship don't have to be the same. I believe they both were telling the truth they just experienced the relationship differently. (My limited understanding) August was recovering from drugs and she was helping him get better. Add a physical/sexual relationship to that and I could see how he could experience the relationship as a deep intense love. She, having just come out of a heart wrenching breakup, wasn't looking for a deep love relationship, she might not have even had the emotional capacity to love him like that. Therefore, I could see her experiencing the relationship in the way that she did being true too. Just because she didn't experience the relationship as a deep heartfelt love of your life romance doesn't mean she's lying and him seeing it that way doesn't mean he's lying. Do I think she was editing herself? Absolutely and Will called her on it a little bit too. Where people want to see a villain they will see one when at the end of the day we're all just humans out here fuckin' shit up and figuring out how to move forward. (Adding in that my eyebrow is raised that she would even get into an intimate relationship with someone who is "sick". That to me is the questionable part, but you know what they say about hurt people.)

@alexandriaashcroft3495

4 жыл бұрын

@jane Ibrahim ...She is, absolutely! The whole thing is a trash fire on a hot, humid summer day.

“I don’t care how a relationship looks, I care how it feels” 🙌🏻

If you let your relationship "Open" in the beginning, it will never end well.

Jada says her relationship with August was years ago when he was on red table talk not so long ago. She’s a liar.

@ClowneryAtItsFinest

4 жыл бұрын

🎯

August has mommy issues, check his history. He needs to heal from that. He was clearly looking for a mom on Jada, just like young girls look for a daddy.

@cinivia8840

4 жыл бұрын

Even Nicki minaj has said that he tried to date her and she was like “you’re just a baby, no.” He’s half her age. So that definitely adds up.

@azskater09

4 жыл бұрын

This is definitely one shallow ass, ageist comment here.

@m.nikkie946

4 жыл бұрын

I really do think that August may have looked at Jada in kind of a "motherly" way & for guidance spiritually & physically & mentally. I think he sought wisdom and support from her because he was really sick, Struggling and dealing with addiction & a lot of deaths in his family around the time that he was with her. Also, Jada kind of said in a backwards way that he made her "feel good". But you are right, August's relationship with his mother wasn't great and she wasn't around much at all and to some degree I think he needed that level of comfort from Jada. I mean, even Jada said she took him in for health for guidance... it TURNED romantic, that was not the plan.

@CokeysCasino

4 жыл бұрын

Dare I say, and I will. August’s healing can not be found in between Jada’s legs ,,, just like she said she couldn’t be healed with young D. Don’t at me people, there’s no battles to be won at a strangers opinion in a KZread comment section 😳

@ClowneryAtItsFinest

4 жыл бұрын

Andrew T August had a crack head mother, a crack head father, and a crack head stepfather. HE DEFINITELY HAS MOMMY ISSUES!

Isn’t there a possibility that this guy was hopelessly in love with Jada and she genuinely just thought they were having a casual relationship? It’s easy to blame her, but if this dude was really looking for the love of his life why would he chose a married woman twice his age? I think he should have been more discreet about their relationship if he loved her so much. To me it sounds like he’s trying to make her uncomfortable and make himself look good.

@lanecrescent4161

4 жыл бұрын

I agree.

@ms.battle9055

4 жыл бұрын

No way possible. Do your research

@mariahr8595

4 жыл бұрын

Did you watch the video or the table talk? Jada admitted it was a relationship. She admitted that he was looking for someone to lean on while going through tough times. Jada took advantage of a young man who was hurting at the time.

@PhenomenalDoe

4 жыл бұрын

He was definitely a side piece. He fell in love and she wasn't trying to go that far. That's really it. All of the shenanigans to follow are just the consequences of engaging in this type of relationship. As offensive as it may be, you can't make someone feel the same or perceive the relationship the same way you do.

Many years ago I had a relationship that for me was the love of my life but for him was reduced to just a fling. That destroyed my self confidence and I stopped trusting my instincts. I thought that I was imagining connections that weren't really there. That affected every relationship since then... Thank you so much for this video ( I cried trough the whole thing), now I can work on myself knowing that it wasn't entirely my fault. Thank you...

@MrDominic600

4 жыл бұрын

To be honest, your entire story echoes many peoples experiences, in many other areas of life. It’s happened to me and I think my ex feels that way too since she took the relationship far more seriously than I did. You’re not alone

Victoria & David Beckhams pleaseee Shallon

@juls227

3 жыл бұрын

Yes great idea

That Future story is insane... and kind of hilarious.

@itsmeharperjacksons6633

4 жыл бұрын

Future with his frail ego has issues, I did not know about that story and I'm just blown away.

I cant wait until the psychologists make gaslighting apart of the dsm and turned into a defense in court lmfao 🤣 😂 😭 they way u described it I can totally see that

I love that painting in the background.

It is not freedom from conditions, but it is freedom to take a stand toward the conditions. Viktor Frankl.

This hits wayyy too close to home. Five years on and I’m still not over him, even though he treated me so badly and said we meant nothing to him. None of my relationships have ever been the same since, cos I can’t let go 😭 why are there such a-holes in the world like this!?!

Hey Shallon, can you talk about the characteristics we should look for in a partner? For instance, why we need to look for someone who has inner fortitude, character, vision etc and why those things are important and even necessary for a healthy relationship? Thank you! 😊 🌟

@KarenVanessaBuitrago

4 жыл бұрын

@@PrincessSharifa434 Yes! Thank you for your answer. I mainly ask because for a very long time, I didn't know what I was looking for, or I discovered that what I thought I was looking for, was not really all that important. I've dated a few guys, and at first the only thing I wanted was someone to be funny, good looking, and intelligent. But, tbh, most people are all those things, and many people with those characteristics have proved to be terrible partners. Lately, I've been more interested in less superficial things, such as resilience, wisdom (in the sense of wether the person learns from their mistakes or not), discipline, and willingness to form a team/ partnership. I feel like these things should be put on the spotlight, mainly because a lot of people don't even know what things are important to look for when looking for a serious partner. In any case, thanks for your response 😊

"now my relationships are not something that i hold up like Simba" LMAOOOOO

Gaslighting is one of the most frustrating things to deal with.. My ex, who’s also my sons father gaslights me so much and publicly.. He f***** up, was emotionally abusive, and was using drugs.. and once he became physical with me in front of our child, I left. Now he’s publicly bashing me, saying I cheated with all his friends to try and cut me down/make me look bad because I don’t want to be with him... 🙄

I needed this soooo much. Very intense loved up relationship just ended a few days ago and cowardice is the fucking perfect summation. "You're devaluing me to devalue the loss of the relationship"

"gratitude turns what you have into enough" beautiful words to live by

I had a guy I loved enough to have sex with pretend to forget my name after he ghosted me. Yes, I still let him back into my life. Yes, he broke my heart again. Gaslighting and mindf*ckery is the worst.

@teresamckeown5594

4 жыл бұрын

😢 I am so sorry this happened to you.

@LMCEK

4 жыл бұрын

@@teresamckeown5594 Thanks ❤️ it was the experiences with this guy that kinda made me realize that I was just done. I took a little "break" from dating that has somehow lasted 2 years so far!

@chicgal3

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that But don't feel bad we All make a mistakes & sometimes Repeat them!! Never go back to him or take him back like I did w/My Ex who lastly broke up w/me cuz He said 'His Mom told him too!" Mind you this is the woman who got him involved in some scheme where she created a fake company & He Signed checks 4her as the "president" Cuz he does Everything she Tells him to do & that landed him with a felony in Jail! While she only received Probation(I did not know this til Years Later!!! (I know it sounds like ghetto lifetime movie!)🙄 Keep in mind she still lives at her Mother's house(who really liked me)and he lives in the basement room sleeping on the same futon and what look like the same color sheets for the last eight years I knew him! I was not with him all the time but there was on and off periodsand I can't believe I took him back when he came to me after kind of ghosting me a couple times before once because he had gotten the charges and then had to go serve timebut I just feel sorry for him I let him know that in the last conversation I had/ text I just said I can't believe how blind you are this woman has not looked out for your best interests, so I just hope you learn to think for yourself! If this woman says don't eat microwave things he won't, don't use that soap he won't, she told him to go train for a program cuz she knew some guys that worked as Police rangers I said why would you do that don't tell me you paid money for that did you? and his blank stare without any response cuz he's like a retarded idiot told me yeah he probably paid money! I said you have a felony they'll never let you become a Police ranger yet since his Mom said do it he Did! He thought I'm going to write Trump and get a pardon I was like first like talk to the governor even if your case is federal he's so stupid he just listens to what she says and I remember Shallon saying the opposite of Love or being over someone is empathy and that's how I feel like wow that's terrible he could have been here with me staying with me part of the time& gain some indepence & we could bond more since I have my Own Apartment, so a lot of my friends & family friends on Social said they thought that she/the Mother just felt threatened by me and maybe I was someone who would take him away! Being that he's 38 he should not live at home Still & be a Man not a Boy but that's the problem He's an Immature imbicile! (Sorry my rant went Extra long!)

@kelseyblalock2700

4 жыл бұрын

Girl if you’re still blaming his mother and not him, you ain’t learned shit 😩💯 His mom ain’t the reason bitch, he is. If he wanted to live with you he would live with you (no matter what), if he wanted to tell you the truth he would. Get it together because you deserve better 💯

this happened to me when i was in my teens. i dated this guy on the low who ended up saying we were never actually together and he had just gone out with me on a dare. yes, a four month long relationship in which we spoke every day and he told me everything about his life and family drama was just a dare?. fucked me up for sure

Jada and Will are ridiculous...get divorced already

@imshooketh1500

4 жыл бұрын

send them an email xd

@spiritualrabbitt3765

4 жыл бұрын

@@imshooketh1500 😂🤣

I swear shallon comes out with a video just when I need! For the last couple days I’ve been envying this seemingly perfect couple :( hopefully this vid will help. Thanks shallon 🤍🤍🤍

Jada said that anytime you don’t hear it directly from them it’s coming from their team. So technically she never denied it.

@BbGun-lw5vi

4 жыл бұрын

She lied. She tried denying it but when 99% of people didn’t believe her she realized she had to speak up.

@barbie4549

4 жыл бұрын

B.b. Gun Okay

Lol....when you were speaking of proverbs I remembered one funny one (I'm Ugandan). *"No matter how hot your anger is, it cannot cook yams"* 😂

@beautifulrose8619

4 жыл бұрын

What does it mean?

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

@@beautifulrose8619 seems obvious- that anger feels very real and powerful but really it accomplishes absolutely nothing useful. To make changes, you cant just be angry- you have to calmly take action. Like you have to fetch water and boil it and wait for yams to cook

@beautifulrose8619

4 жыл бұрын

@@carolsimpson4422 I love the way you explained this proverb. You started by, seems obvious, well you are very smart and unfortunately my mind couldn't make sense of it. It reminded me of when I was 11 years old and I was put in a geometry class. I really did not get it. My Dad who was good at Math would say to me in frustration, "Don't you see that?" It's really obvious. Fun times. We all have our strengths and your strength is explaining things. You are like a great teacher who can explain. Except, my Dad could never explain. He would just be so surprised that I didn't get it. So funny. I have a huge smile just remembering.

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

@@beautifulrose8619 you're so sweet! I'm sorry I said it that way- I was just trying to make sure you knew I wasnt speaking from direct knowledge, but that's what it seemed to mean to me. I studied English lit- so my brain just crunches on metaphors and similes out of habit lol I know how felt with your dad- my parents were like that too- I guess they just weren't as verbal and communicative as we are, though I'm sure they still taught us a lot just by setting a good example in other ways 🙂

why are we babying this grown man, he knew what he was getting himself into, if he was a girl and jada a married man nobody would simpitace with her. Idk he should not have opened his mouth like this ( sorry english is not my first lanugage)

@maheenm.k1015

4 жыл бұрын

True, if he was a girl he would be demonized instead, I mean look at how people are acting like will smith is wronged from this, when he had his own affairs and happily said on talk shows that they have an open marriage, even 20 years back. Also if it was will cheating on jada, no one would be mad at him, instead they would call jada unattractive or something.

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

@@maheenm.k1015 absolutely! They'd trash the other woman for being so thirsty and trying to get back the attention of a married man. August would be called out for being tacky and just trying to humiliate his past romantic partner

@Desaraee92

4 жыл бұрын

Agree. Very double sided

Agreed Shallon. Jada lied in the beginning about that affair then tried to gaslight everyone to save face. Acting like the affair with August was just an entanglement while he poured his heart out was just predatory behavior on her part-treating him like he was just a "thing" while he was showing/being his most vulnerable. Jada=punk ass.

Because they’ve been having an open relationship that they’ve denied but we all suspected I can’t say I blame Jada she just chose the wrong guy. Yes she was wrong for downplaying the relationship but she is not gone sit there and say to her husband she obviously still wants that she had love for her fling. That would of been to much. So she downplayed it to just an entanglement.

@hazeleyesgreengrey8438

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly you can tell she had feelings when she was talking about him.

"I AM UNGASLIGHTABLE" - Great advise ever. Thanks Shallon.😘

I would love to know your two cents on Timothee Cha-omelet, Eiza Gonzalez and Lily Rose Depp. and not to mention those...paparazzi photos

@JmacKarla

4 жыл бұрын

Is it just me, or does she seem to be everyone's rebound?

@alemcnamara

4 жыл бұрын

@@JmacKarla she just will date anyone to get some attention from the media. She is not a good enough actress to make it in Hollywood so she's making it this way. Surely by advice of her mother who is a glorified Madame. 🤫

My Narc ex did exactly that type of gaslight as you describe, to me, after he'd cheated on me and moved on. Now I guess he's giving her similar grief, as they're married and she keeps complaining about him publicly on Facebook. Case in point - it was no loss, these despicable types don't change.

I can't stand Jada ...she gets on my nerves with her " I'm the voice of wisdom" attitude 🙄 She's been having affairs for a long time tho, I remember when she was playing a nurse on a now cancelled show ,and rummored to be with Marc Anthony, even hired him to be a producer, i think 🙄 But August sounds like a " scorned woman " exposing the situation..It"s a very emasculated atittude , not a sexy look at all !😝

@rockymag7853

4 жыл бұрын

Can’t stand Jada either!

@negativeorange

4 жыл бұрын

August is allowed to be hurt and sick of her bullshit. So he called her out

@maeahem

4 жыл бұрын

Why is everyone going off on Jada? Will is playing out as well. And it seems like he knows he has a lot of fault in their relationship and open marriage that they have not worked out. The interview was careful not to focus on him so the public doesn’t dig more.

@azskater09

4 жыл бұрын

I will say, that August sounded like a mature man able to express his emotions in his interview. The last thing that is probably on his mind is how “hot” he looks. Men are humans, ya know. They are allowed to grieve, too. I agree with your statement on Jada though. That being said, I certainly don’t think there is enough evidence support the notion that anyone involved in the relationship is necessarily a victim. The situation appears to be 3 grown adults who agreed upon a particular situation, yet all of them seemed fail to provide proper communication about their expectations, which resulted in further poor decision making from all three. It’s also not just August and Jada who are at fault, here. One of the keys to a successful polyamorous relationship, or any relationship for that matter, is communication and dialogue. There are plenty of successful, healthy open and polyamorous relationships within society, but in such relationships, all parties are engaged in clear communication and dialogue, generally speaking. Will has just as much fault as the others for not being clear in his communication. It just seems like poor communication and poor decision making all around. I’m not sure if they all have personal therapists, but, if they do/did, I would hope that such individuals would stress the importance of having consistent, open dialogue in such a relationship. Lastly, I think it’s important to note that celebrities have constant pressures from various outside forces to do things that may not be in their best interest. I could certainly envision a situation where either party’s marketing teams could be pushing to go public with this for more publicity. I’m not saying that is the case, but it is certainly a possibility, although unlikely.

@maeahem

4 жыл бұрын

Jesse Peters I only agree on Jada in that she should not have gotten with August because he was a mentee and in a very vulnerable position despite having agency and autonomy. The dynamics were off. They used each other to “heal” but he came off worse because she is an established icon yet he was losing his upcoming deals because people were suspicious of him. I get that he felt he had to say something if it was bothering him, but yeah grown man, bad consequences.

I've noticed that so many people say that they are into self development and the only thing they do is using what they hear in those circles to just hide their toxic af behavior. Will and Jada have become the perfect example of this.

@ts2852

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I think narcissistic people who are into self development are starting to use this supposed "enlightment" as another way to just sell themselves as superior to everyone else. In the end, it's just a fuss, they are not getting any better in their real issues.

I need a how to move on after a breakup with someone you thought was the be all end all. It's tough rn.

@Ferouzah

4 жыл бұрын

As someone who's been through this a few times years ago, all I can say is it will get better I promise you that you will feel good again❤

@FaithAnswered

4 жыл бұрын

@@Ferouzah Thank you so much... it's just really tough especially because it really felt like that was the person I was going to be with forever, I don't date around and I'm normally very closed off and this just felt like it was meant to be. It just sucks that this is what is going on, I just wish I could forget it all if only it were that easy.

@gavinmitchell8389

4 жыл бұрын

@@FaithAnswered Hopefully time do really heal wounds like these. That is what I'm banking on Is it possible to forget something that you saw as your everything. I don't know, so if you find the solution please share with me. It is over a year now and I still feel like a pound in the middle of a plain.

@FaithAnswered

4 жыл бұрын

@@gavinmitchell8389 Like shallon says time heals nothing its what you do with that time. Right now I'm just so sad and tired but I hope it changes. For the both of us x

@gavinmitchell8389

4 жыл бұрын

@@FaithAnswered This is so true, that is why i am using this time to try to stay positive as much as I can. Because I think the first step is to believe that things will get better with that strength from within and genuine support from those around us. We also have to be truthful to ourselves too as well if we need professional help get. It is easy to say that part but my ego as a man growing up in a society that males don't need emotional support deter me from that🙈 Don't know why I'm opening up like this. It's the first I have done this on a social media platform🙈

A lot of people use the term gaslighting incorrectly. I wouldn't call what Jada did gaslighting. There's a difference in perception. You can date a person and have different perceptions of what is going on. You might think we're in love, I might just think we're entangled. That's not necessarily gaslighting.

@MrDominic600

4 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU

Literally being gaslit by my ex as we speak

@tinabadxoxo

4 жыл бұрын

Girl Same😭

@aubreyjames8795

4 жыл бұрын

Gaslight him. Cut communication. Tell him his dk stank and move on.

@jaytea8486

4 жыл бұрын

Aubrey Kraus 💯💯

@Youtubeuser156

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly don't waste your time ..not even an additional second on him and btw you're pretty

@jennahope4353

4 жыл бұрын

GIRL is it the season.... mine too. his bday was friday. gifted myself. GOOD in GOODBYE. been 10 toes down, 23yrs, childhood sweethearts, 1st loves.... it's been such a peaceful weekend.

Will is gay and she is his beard . End of story .

My ex said that he should have left me 3 years ago almost 7 years in. There is no coming back from that, you are right. Somewhere he is married to Meredith, thinking I am still crying over his ass, lol.

🥺 needed to Hear that I’m not crazy haven’t even felt like my intuitive gifts are valid

I've been hearing that they have an open relationship since I was in high school in the late 1990s literally when they were newlyweds!

After broke up my ex said "sometimes before you can be good to someone you have to do bad, sorry you got caught in the crossfire" I felt like collateral damage, a crash test dummy, a fucking practice round. The indignation was completely demoralising, I felt so shitty about myself for ages, eventually I realised that a good man does not use a woman's heart as target practice, her time and her love like a classroom you intend to eventually graduate from. He won't ever "be good to someone" because he just isn't good.

Future did some Greek mythology type stuff 😂

You are one of the first people who considered August’s feelings. Most people consider him a whiner who minimized his existence in her life when there are literal pictures of them indicating he was more to her than she said.

If the "red" tables were turned and it was Will in the "entanglement" how would society view Will?

@lotsofuwuenergy3983

4 жыл бұрын

Probably wouldn't be big news to anyone like this is

I’ve quit every social media outlet (except YT) comparison is such a kill joy. I don’t regret it.

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

I can't stand yt anymore because of their titles lol. Everyday they promise that trump is done and everyday trump is still there lol

Oh Shallon. You are glowing. Thank you girl. Going on my own adventures very soon, if my spirit wasn't healed by your help, maybe i wouldn't be able to.

@urfavweapon719

4 жыл бұрын

Same!! So much healing from my big sis, Shallon

Does anyone think that it's a rule "if it looks too good to be true, it probably isn't"?????

Will looks sad & pissed off. I can see the heart break. She has no emotion.

My father has gaslighted me ever since I hit the age of reason. Brutal. Now I am angry about it.

I bet Jada will revise her story again ...

First like, then watch! Thanks for everything! You’re amazing Shall, keep up. ❤️

You’re always giving me truth when I need it, Shallon! ❤️

“Hold up like simba” 😂 Your videos keep getting better and really reach me. Thank you

Shallon i love you! Could you please talk about couple whose women is more successful than the men?

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

I have one! Search Beyoncè on my channel :)

@jaredlhulum

4 жыл бұрын

Shallon Lester Beyoncé is more successful than Jay Z? Yeah, ok

@hms1609

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaredlhulum I think Jay Z might be richer than Beyonce but she is more successful in popularity. Perhaps they are not the best couple as an example where a woman is more successful than the man because they are both so extremely successful.

love the background. i can focus on what youre saying and relax at the same time

2020 : YOU GET EXPOSED , YOU GET EXPOSED , YOU GET EXPOSED !!!!!!!!!!

Yess!! New video! Went through a mini withdrawal when you took your break haha glad to have you back!!

I was gaslighted by my ex for 5 years and 3 of the with no sex , telling me I was crazy for thinking he was seeing someone .. the biggest piece of crap out there !

THANK YOU SHALLON!!! you're helping so many people!! God bless you

I know this is random, but I love you Shallon. I get so excited when you upload

Thank you so much for making me realize it's ok to be comfortable with myself and my needs. You rock! I can totally see the difference in your attitude since you've moved. You seem so much more at peace. So happy for you!

the fact that they said bad marriage for life.... wth

@nope_no_nunya.

4 жыл бұрын

Right? That was bizarre, corny and pathetic all at the same time.

THIS WAS SO REFRESHING,THANK YOU!!!

Gotta disagree on this one. August spoke on this for what??? New album , HE stopped talking to her 4 yrs ago. Stop feeling so sympathetic when a man gets hurt and telling women they should have saw the he signs when they get hurt. Just my opinion

@ernestinebrown5

4 жыл бұрын

I agree. This is pick me behavior. He’s not a victim.

@BeatzByJones

4 жыл бұрын

ERNESTINE Brown u ugly

@yurikorsunova

4 жыл бұрын

She said that he stoped talking to her "years" ago but he was on her Red Table Talk in 2018

@Nomnom238

4 жыл бұрын

You also got to put into perspective the fact that she gave him “stability “ and then took it away. She was supporting him while he was going through a lot, and then left to be with her husband. I’m not taking any sides, he also knew she was married.

@CokeysCasino

4 жыл бұрын

Laura Hernandez men looking for a mama and women looking for a daddy! He has all kinds of issues with his mama so he got what most these young girls get trying to find a daddy in these old perverted men

💘 this went straight to the core. Preach Shallon!

Thanks for the upload, beauty! I adore the shirt by the way ♥️♥️♥️

Entanglement was trending everywhere, I was laughing so hard....

It’s funny now looking back after what happened at the Oscars so this is what happens when gaslighting to the extreme and how Will Smith exploded. I’m so over them

@Jess-kn8vl

7 ай бұрын

She probably told him he never sticks up for her and then he went overboard.

I really think this is my favorite video yet. Not even because of the celebrity comparison, but the topic of gaslighting, prioritizing your needs, and being unapologetic for what you want/deserve. Thank you 💕

This video was EXACTLY what I needed to hear. My ex decided to apologize for “ lying about his feelings and leading me on”. This was his cowardly way of attempting to hurt me After I broke up with him . Thank you Shallon, I Needed this confirmation!

From one true New Yorker to another, you ALWAYS speak facts!! May be hard sometimes for others to hear, but i can't think of a time i ever disagreed with you and your logic! P.s. i love that painting 😍

I like your new look! I like the retro/70s feel. The dress is working with the background. 😊

This was very insightful! Honor your needs and don't let people make you feel small or crazy for upholding the quality of life that you deserve in relationships and otherwise. Thanks Shallon xo

BAD BOYS movie quote changed to BAD MARRIAGE for life. get that promote in Will Smith 🤛

THE VIDEO I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR

Never been this early!!! Love ya shallon!

Love you Shall!!! Love the look today!!!

I'm freaking out because I was in the car with my daughter earlier TODAY and something she did reminded me of the Justin and Jimmy hashtag skit. I told my daughter she should watch it, its probably my favorite skit and what are the chances you mention it TODAY!

Can you talk about Sofia Vergara and Joe Manganiello? I think they are super cute and a rare stable couple in Hollywood

@celssyvalencia2942

4 жыл бұрын

Vergara*

@Meooowtube

4 жыл бұрын

@@celssyvalencia2942 omg yes what the fuck did I write xD

@Meooowtube

4 жыл бұрын

@@celssyvalencia2942 thanks

@celssyvalencia2942

4 жыл бұрын

Petra Brecl no worries sorry I didn’t try to come off as petty or the grammar police. Hopefully she does the video☺️

@Meooowtube

4 жыл бұрын

@@celssyvalencia2942 yes yes I know :) thank you for correcting me

How do we not fall under someone’s spell? 🤔

@sunkissgirl818

4 жыл бұрын

Dont have sex with them get to actually know his true intentions but then again men do stupid things anyways

@treeseer1573

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t sleep with them

I had to subscribe to you today because this video was so good

But... will's body language... said it all... !!! Don't you think?

@beefstew4698

4 жыл бұрын

I didn’t see it.... tell me about it, please 🙏

@mimi-bp1yx

4 жыл бұрын

F

@arieswinters5754

4 жыл бұрын

His face was bright red and thunderous

@beefstew4698

4 жыл бұрын

Duduzile Zwane Ah.....thanks 👍

I literally burst into tears when you compared it to cheating. I am still crying. That's exactly it.

You do be on it Shallon! Yay

I love Keke but she was subtweeting and they were supposed to be friends, if a friend of mine was out here making jokes about an emotionally delicate topic I would be mad as well, also, you always say to call people out in public, kinda feel like August would be a Shalligator 😂🤷🏻‍♀️