Moral of the story: Demi and Khloe Kardashian stayyy getting embarrassed by their boyfriends, the only solution is self-love.

They're both using each other, Max is using her for fame; while Demi is using him to fill her loneliness. Also Demi needs to read the writing on the walls and leave.

This doesn't just happen with guys, it happens with friends too! This happened to me TODAY. I had a friend text me something light and funny and I knew she only needed me for a lab she had due tomorrow and I didn't answer. She kept reaching out and I completely ignored her. Crazy how she won't text me at all during the week, but the night before something is due, OH PLEASE LET THE WORLD STOP FOR YOU. She can't even be bothered to text back when I ask for help. It's straight up manipulation, and I finally put up boundaries and what does she do? Clingy text me to make sure "I'm okay." I call bullshit.

@joaneustaquio4786

3 жыл бұрын

fuck those bitches who just use people . nah girl good on you to dump her ass

If you cannot trust your man... you will ALWAYS be in fear of a woman taking him. The trust starts with trusting HIM, not other women. If you do not trust him... there are many other reasons why you can't. If he's accepting friends and talking to them.... that's on HIM. His actions will show you if he's worthy of your love. Let people do what theyre going to do.. because then you will have your answer. Be like a horse, trust until you have a reason not to! :))

I just hope he isn’t the only layer between her and drugs, because once he is gone (& I’m sure they’ll break up), there won’t be anything stopping her. I hope she isn’t using this honeymoon feeling as a reason or motivation to be sober, because all honeymoons end. That’s why we shouldn’t let ANY relationship be our motivation.

Next topic: “why everyone can see your boyfriend is a douche except you”. Hopefully Demi watches it lol

@Quntah888

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@cct306

3 жыл бұрын

Great idea!

Demi got with a fan. He is a fan and gives her the worship that she craves. Just like beiber married a fan.

@undergroundlady5892

3 жыл бұрын

Great observation 🤔☺️

@LovedByYou

3 жыл бұрын

And Joe Jonas. They all married fans. 🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣

@thatrandomcomment968

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly lmao

@mej6400

3 жыл бұрын

He‘s not a fan of demi. He’s a fan of Selena and is obsessed with her. He only got with Demi, so he will be closer to Selena and can work on his music career. He got 1 Million followers on Instagram, just bc of Demi.

@MichelleLyn84

3 жыл бұрын

Yep! That’s why Justin Bieber stuck with her because she literally loves him NO matter WHAT lol. Sad. Demi became obsessed with him because he tried everything to win her over for attention.

it's a red flag when you can't admit your partner's flaws. ITS OKAY that your partner makes mistakes or pisses you or makes mistakes. The couples that are toxic af are the ones where the people refuse to name ONE thing that gets on their nerves about their partner. Hailey and Justin Bieber were the same

I don’t follow Demi’s career, but I have kept up with the drama surrounding her. Until she actually takes the time to heal and love herself, she’s always going to be throwing herself into unhealthy relationships. You gotta take care of yourself first, girl, or you’ll forever be searching for someone who will “heal” you.

"Once I realize that I need to stop looking at guys as this thing I need to love and start looking at them as a mirror of what I am lacking, I can be like thank you for showing that thing about myself". 👏👏👏👏

How embarrassing to buy your own ring to give to your BF to give to you...Sorry, but that is so cringy.

@derpderplul

3 жыл бұрын

I have a theory Ariana did that w/ Pete because there is no way he spent that much on a ring. Even with a payment plan.

@coolcat6341

3 жыл бұрын

Yap it's like beeing his man

@MilaBelen

3 жыл бұрын

Wtf? Demi would never do that. Where did you get that from? 😂

@blueredcross

3 жыл бұрын

Right 😂😂

The fact that she’s a recovering addict and this guy is willing to pursue a relationship, not to mention marry her, says a lot about him. When you genuinely love someone you give them space and time to work through their issues. She’s obviously not in a healthy space..I’m sure he recognizes that.

I'm so sad she's using the death of black people to deflect from the fact that her fiancée is ridiculing her, on the flip side she definitely bought the ring so she will keep it if she breaks up with him 🙄

@tmarie69

3 жыл бұрын

Keysha Reyes thank you for mentioning this. Celebs always wanna drag out the “focus on the real issues” when the public get ahold of info they don’t like.

@nazarisreyes6037

3 жыл бұрын

@@gioaarons and that's great but why mention it in a statement that is obviously about her relationship, specially when she's not accepting nothing but dragging her fans for expressing her concerns

@gioaarons

3 жыл бұрын

@@nazarisreyes6037 she literally did the same thing when her fans were wishing her happy birthday,she redirected attention to injustices. Literally anytime ppl are talking about her she uses the opportunity to raise awareness about issues

@ride9581

3 жыл бұрын

Typical demi she is the most fucking annoying person I've ever seen

@wtfisthis947

3 жыл бұрын

RIGHT

I hate when celebs say "theres more important things in the world". Yea, duh we know that by now. Now we wanna know what's going on in your relationship lol.

Wait? So she believes these posts were photoshopped? So that means he told her he didn't write them. If this is the case, it's NOT a good sign. Wish them the best but a relationship started on lies has a faulty foundation. Why didn't he just say, "Yes, I wrote these but I was immature back then." She deserves the truth because she is obviously ride or die for this guy.

@jennym7786

3 жыл бұрын

the fact that there's already drama and they've only been together for a number of months (don't get me started on how ridiculous it is they're already engaged) should be a red flag for her. She can't deflect the issue by saying it's just jealous fans or because she's a celebrity, because look at someone like ariana for example; she has been with her boyfriend even longer than demi has been with max and there's no drama with him, because he's clearly not using her. another difference is I genuinely hope ariana marries her boyfriend, yet we all are hoping demi doesn't marry this douche and when does everyone agree lol. I just think it's so sad for demi. she's clearly very insecure and can't see she deserves better.

@carriegrisham

3 жыл бұрын

@@jennym7786 I agree, and it's definitely sad for her. Addiction is a fragile thing and I worry for her sobriety if/when this relationship ends. It's just such a bad idea to make any large commitments to someone after four months of dating. You do NOT know the person yet. Even after 6 months or a year. People can hide things about themselves. Not saying 100% he is, but seems like it. I feel like in her heart she felt she and Wilmer would get back together. Once he got engaged, her world was shook.

@Sunsun-ev2xd

3 жыл бұрын

Or OR she’s trying to “fix the issue” by saying it’s fake and she know it’s real he probably did say it’s true u never no Demi Hates Selena so the last thing she wants to think is that Selena laughing at her like “ur marrying a man that’s in love with me hahah “ vibes so she’s acting like it’s fake

@carriegrisham

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sunsun-ev2xd This could definitely be the case. Guess time will tell!

@Ana-pj1gf

3 жыл бұрын

YESSS, it’s actually not a big deal but the fact that he lied seems fishy

When dating remember: we are CEO's they are interns ...

I think it’s weird that he most likely lied to her about it rather than just being honest. He could’ve just let the past be the past so they could’ve built a foundation based on honesty. So happy you did a video on this btw!

Poor Demi. Girl needs to focus on herself and her sobriety....

@91clarie

3 жыл бұрын

@•Happy• •Blank• Get a life... if you don't like her then don't watch her videos, jesus christ

@91clarie

3 жыл бұрын

@•Happy• •Blank• you're late to the party.... Many tried to cancel Shallon but she won't be cancelled. The thing is everyone can choose for themselves what they want to watch or not. If you don't want to watch her videos - fine, don't. I'm not even interested in the "truth". I'm here to be entertained and to be a little distracted from a lot of things happening right now. Don't waste your time sweetie

@91clarie

3 жыл бұрын

@•Happy• •Blank• why bother though lmao find a hobby

Just imagine it if Selena/Ariana check their DMs and find all of Max's thirsty messages!!???? I am waiting for some heavier to do that for us. Demi can't take care of herself. She is obviously bad at choosing the people who surround her and her family just cares about the money allowance they can get from her. This Max weirdo is such bad news and Demi doesn't have the self-esteem necessary to see through this bullshit. She just wanted desperately to get married because all of her exes are.

@ach4049

3 жыл бұрын

@•Happy• •Blank• go away weirdo without a life. I know who Shallon is and thats why I am on her Chanel. Get a life looser

The difference between "fall in love with someone" and "love someone" is huge. Love the point.

Its like Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson all over again 🤦‍♀️

"HE WAS 5'3. Not my finest moment". Shallon ☺️😚 you so funny... ❤

@EC-dg6ti

3 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard!!!

Demi is the type who can't be alone , the desperation to be with someone is always gonna get u in trouble , I know from experience , unfortunately

The truth is that Demi is taking a huge L for being with someone who finds her “rival” to be more attractive. Demi will always be second rate in his eyes compared to Selena. (ignore my avi lol)

@isa12rae

3 жыл бұрын

It doesn't help Demi that Rare Beauty and whatever else Selena was working on has come out recently as this scandal has Selena coming out the "winner" even more.

@veronicajohansson980

3 жыл бұрын

Yess i agree

I think this guy migth be a lesson for her someday. She is amazing and this guy just looks empty, like something is off on his image, like.. no true esence.

@imAkemi

3 жыл бұрын

he’s probably a leeching narcissist and needs someone’s fame and fortune to boost his

She’s using him to make herself happy and feel secure but once the honeymoon phase is over everything is gonna go downhill. She needs to love herself first before she dates

“If you’re using hella you’re not ready to be a wife” 🤣🤣 yea

He was tweeting in 2019 for what the Twitter streets are saying and they started dating at the start of 2020

A guy that chooses Social Media over a Relationship, is Beta energy

@91clarie

3 жыл бұрын

It's omega energy, honestly

@BBLongLegs

3 жыл бұрын

@@91clarie It sounds like feminine energy. And I am not trying to date another Bitch

@carmindi5061

3 жыл бұрын

??? How does Beta energy=feminine=bitch ???

Demi's dug her heels in. It would be more painful for her to have to publicly acknowledge the tweets and admit that her love life has failed than to continue being with this guy. Until she swallows her pride, she's stuck.

I have the opposite understanding of "loving someone" and being "in love with someone", I always think of the latter as the deeper, more 'true' feeling. I can love a lot of people, but I can only be in love with a few. Just interesting x

@mavenoire3704

3 жыл бұрын

That's my mentality in my life. I love a lot of people but in love with a few.

@indiafmlmay

3 жыл бұрын

Being “in love” is more intense, romantic, and involuntary. “Loving” someone is a verb; it requires integrating them as a part of yourself, keeping their best interests at heart, and making the effort for longevity.

has anything to do with Wilmer getting married?

I realized​ Shallon has infiltrated my way of thinking when I found myself quoting her on other videos: "What we promote, we permit!" "The people who hate your boundaries are the ones who benefitted from you having none!"

I love how you're unapologetically you

You are the effing best! I love your confidence and your reasonableness. Thank you for being the voice women need. There are so many videos on how to get a guy. I love hearing your content to make me see that I need to be completely okay on my own instead of finding a “hurt locker”

On the 1/09/2020 was diagnosed with having retinal detachment in my left eye. Not to long after I started to develop feeling for my doctor... I had to think hard about why I was having feelings.... (the man is married and in his 70's). I realised that I saw him as my rescuer. He was the only person I saw holding my hands, looking at me, seeing me, giving me comfort. I swear I was so triggered ... I escalated his actions towards me into real emotions.. so him putting my purse on his chair, just made me feel special. Him touching my hand after a proceedure ment the world to me. It took some time for me to realise that I am going through trauma and it greatly affected me. I went through my first night being diagnosed crying, cause I felt I would need a miracle to get my eyesight back, that my promising nursing career was over.... I was so vulnerable and honestly I could have made an ass of my self if I didn't check myself. Going through this now I totally understand where Shallon is coming from.... through this experience I have found my true friends and my true love. Still crushing on my doctor but it's a little more in check. I am kinda seeing him as my fairy God father ... the man that makes things happen.

Demi is so beautiful and talented. Why did she settle for this lame dude 😒

I truly doubt that that Instagram post was about her and her fiancé. The post was about the pictures of her and Selena they claimed it was from her personal Instagram

I wonder if she knows how delusional she looks

Demi was also dating her sober companion when she was in rehab. Giiiirl!

It’s better to be alone with animals than with a Dusty man! If a man isn’t investing into you you’re not a prize to him! Don’t waste your pretty 🥰

@deborahmartin3140

3 жыл бұрын

Yasssss!!!!

Looking good, looking fresh! Great mountain air :)

Shallon, your at your best when you're the baddest, let your dark side shine through, it's your strength.

The advice about paying attention to your fantasies is probably one of the best things I’ve heard in this channel. Nobody else talks how important that is and the things fantasies reveal! Thank you Shallon 💕

I’ve never heard of someone separate being ‘in love’ and just ‘loving’ someone. In a way where both are romantic. Interesting take 💛

i love you! you taught me A LOT ❤️ thank you 🙏🏼

honestly writing down breaker bound boundaries is something i need to do. This video is something i needed to hear. I miss being in love and the affection but something didnt feel right and its me telling myself to turn that want to me. Thank you.

Girl you are my freaking therapist. You've helped me so much watching this.💜

any evil week teasers or sneak peeks? i absolutely cannot wait !! love u shallon 💜

I'm a new viewer-subscriber & LOVE LOVE your insight & wisdom..you've found the much-needed space where you take the public's love of celebs & their lives & put in a perspective realization of the regular person and help them deal with their own personal issues/situations/relationships..KUDOS TO YOU..

Everytime I get out of a serious relationship the last thing I want is to date🤮. Just got out of a 5 year relationship and all I want is to makeout with some hot guys and girls. Once there is a vaccine of course 🙄

My fav is a recovering alcoholic and can’t drink but he gets into relationships with girls who drink like its water and he claims that they ‘drink enough for the both of them’ 🥴

“Toot, Toot, motherf^ckers!” 🤣😂

I dont trust him, too much too soon. his comments on her (Demi) instagram pictures are cringe asf 😫

Did Shallon knock some sense into Demi? Because they just broke up!!

Shallon this was your best one yet! Love it.

I love all the layers to this video!!!

people are jealous of other happiness instead of BEING HAPPY FOR SOMEONE . FN SAD! UGHH

How tough should the consequences be when someone didn't respect a boundary

Ugh Shallon you’re late😩 i already did my skincare routine!😝

Congratulations on the sponsor!!

Shallon, you get me. Such great advice about giving ourselves what the guy was giving us. I’m missing a fuckboy/getaway car guy, but it’s really exactly what you are talking about, not him.

Demi is the female version of Pete Davidson when it comes to love 🤭

Well this video aged perfectly

Creative and talented people like Demi need those intense emotions, love, hate, passion... They just can't fuction in a predictable/stable relationship. Whoever that guy is, it's better than drugs. Hope one day she'll find a piece within herself.

I absolutely agree with the 'love" and "in love" part. Many people think it's the same thing. I was in love many times, but I only love my husband.

If this is meant to be then I hope it lasts for them and that they’re happy. But most likely is what it looks like. Demi doesn’t love herself enough and so she imprints on a people who are “obsessed” or “infatuated” with her. That’s not healthy. It’s not real. Love at first sight only exists between a mother and a child or an owner and their pet. If a guy tells me he loves me that quick... its red flag central. Demi is 27 or 28 she needs to love herself and stop being a victim. But if it ignorance is bliss for her then hey.. whatever gets her off her vices 🤷🏼‍♀️

This was an AMAZING download!🖤

Every woman/girl NEEDS to listen to this video!! 👏👏👏

Guys, who was the 5'3" guy Shallon got so twisted about? Was it someone from Fall Out Boy? She said that she has a song about her from Fall Out Boy... :D

3 rules for me would be 1) don't hangout with another girl more than with me 2) be honest about your friendships with other people 3) when we make plans to meet up don't change them last minute

Getaway car by taylor swift vibes✨✨

I was talking to a guy this year that I later found out he was just using me to get over his ex, and one of the things that really bothered me was that he'd always ask me which celebrity would I date. Initially these questions I didn't mind at all, but it got to the point that he used it to get a reaction out of me. Like he asked which celeb I would sleep with and he proceeded with saying "well I can tell you mine, kat dennings because she has double D's" it made me feel really low about myself and I'm so glad I cut him out of my life.

Love your impersonations 😆😆😆😍

I love you Shallon!!!!!!!

Imagine finding out your fiancé is not only a thirst but said Selena Gomez sings better than you ... 🥴 i mean Selena is gorgeous but just the fact that her and Demi haven’t been on good terms for awhile now makes it so awkward and she’s making it worse by acting like they were fake tweets/comments, like sis ... MAJOR FLAGS

What I don't get is Demi can almost be with anyone she wants why would she want him I get that he had a creepy obsession on Selena, but maybe he does have something special

shallon can I just say, You are soooooo entertaining to watch

The whole time I was watching this video “Getaway car” by Taylor swift was plating lol. . If you do retro bae week again, I would love Taylor and Tom relationship analysis

a guy dating you for likes is the most pathetic unmanly thing in the world

omg that bank getaway car was a great analogy for an infatuation!

Great insight. I like how you are giving advise that may be hard to face but that overall is offering a helpful hand. I do hope the best for her as she has clearly gone through so much. Let's hope the guy is genuine and good for her. If she sees this video I hope it is helpful and beneficial to her. Maybe through the hard heartbreak she did learn very important lessons to then be more aware and find a better man 💗

a songstress with Grammer like that.... something's telling me she might have to work on her sobriety again or English classes lol eeek

Shallon is back!

Girl can you do a cardi and offset video!

He is so creepy oh my goodness how desperate for love do you have to be to act like a man isn’t a fucking weirdo. smh.

Celebs are so stupud. Demi is desperate for love and approval.

Facts!!! Say it again!! All that knowledge!!! I so needed this🤯🤯🤯🤤🤤

This was another great video! One of your best!

You're so brilliant!! Loved the lessons!

LOL, I friggin love you. Excellent 🚗💨metaphors!

The codependent and the narcissist likely. Most addicts, such as Demi, have codependency problems that they soothe with addict behavior, such as latching into others for affirmation, not being able to say no, drugs, sex, shopping, alcohol, gambling, etc.

I truly look up to your rhetoric skills. Love your metaphors!

Love this video ❤️❤️❤️

So helpful! Thank you a lot.

*in a mood today* :)

finally!! she’s speaking facts and spilling facts.

My man doesn't even know how instagram works and why people use it... I'm sorry, but in my opinion a grown man schouldn't spend his time on childisch apps like instagram!

Shallon. You're my girl ❤