"Don't dim your light for people who cannot stand to see you shine."

The hoarder thing is from trauma. It's funny, I noticed it too. It actually made me feel understanding of her, not judgmental and surprised. Trouble making decisions, losing your phone 500 times a minute, running back in the house, being chronically late and disorganized and unprepared...these are products of a traumatized mind. I loved that she shared those aspects, and it really demonstrated the reality of her life experience and perspective. These are not flaws of a supposedly well trained rich person who didn't learn how to be a minimalist, these are personality traits prompted by trauma. The fact that Paris is able to be so successful and functioning despite the setbacks that trauma gave her is nothing short of incredible.

@coolcat6341

3 жыл бұрын

That explains why I hoard,,, I started after immigrating,,, once I got job specially coats,,, during me being immigrant I went to uni I only had Cardigan through winter times, couldn't afford coat, shoes,,, or buying new underwear...

@lilygreen4000

3 жыл бұрын

Omg I have all these traits and now it all makes sense...

@cherrypop4675

3 жыл бұрын

thank you!!!!!!!!

"Powerful women do not have a lot of time." - THANK YOU!

@Natalie-dw9jy

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, amen!

@RR-ce2ob

3 жыл бұрын

@Stella S. you clearly aren't very busy if you think its bullshit. Maybe one day you will get to that level. Good luck.

@vanityrose6512

3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget shes also a predator... i just watched clips of her when she was a 30 year old woman asking 18 year olds if they have had sex, and telling them they are older than her boyfriends, and clearly making them uncomfortable 🤮🤧

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@Stella S. You really know how to cut to the chase. You married? A college grad?

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@vanityrose6512 I'd rather French kiss with Shallon for a week than win the lottery, Vanity!!

I had a boyfriend who may have been smart, but he spent our entire relationship putting me down academically. It's been 5 years and I still hear his voice telling me I will never succeed academically. He was just bitter that I was not only smart, but also socially ept and creative. He was an intelligent robot who was highly repressed and he was a bitch about the fact I was multi-faceted

@lizziebennet2084

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t listen to his voice in your head anymore! He knows nothing! You define who you will be

@nibrasabdalbasit6790

3 жыл бұрын

Same story here 😂

@oo-vh2fo

3 жыл бұрын

Fvck that b!tch , good thing you get rid of him

@irenekulver7415

3 жыл бұрын

He is a narcissist... insecure... weak.... and evil.... fuck him

@Alex-yr8jh

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you

She cut his wristbands off! Aaaaaah! That is something to ASPIRE to 💅🏼👑

@jenniferzhou8635

3 жыл бұрын

I literally gasped when Shallon said Paris just snipped off his wristband & kicked him out!

@sdma6005

3 жыл бұрын

yeeeeeeeeesss

@passiveagressive4983

3 жыл бұрын

Jennifer Zhou oh yes honey

@ariesdelfuego

3 жыл бұрын

A guy dropped my microphone the other day. I cut him off rite there

“Look for compatible traits, whatever package they come in.” This is so soo valuable. If this isn’t the best video you’ve done, it’s definitely in the top 5.

@timeabg

3 жыл бұрын

What is your top 5 of Shallon’s videos?

@kellysayshey

3 жыл бұрын

L8EENTV Personally I love her video “Sad At Christmas?” It gave incredible advice for enjoying the holidays or even your birthday even when the day as a whole doesn’t match your expectations

Shallon: we are alpha females. Me, a gay male: yaaaas queen we are alpha females.🤣

@nitimurinvetitum_

3 жыл бұрын

@@voidsaw1996 she's always been bisexual🙄

@nitimurinvetitum_

3 жыл бұрын

@@voidsaw1996 What? I just said she's always been bisexual? Wtf are you talking about?

I once dated a beta male who was convinced he‘s an alpha. Worst experience ever 🤯😂

@Thevibeofalifetime444

3 жыл бұрын

same. it’s almost hilarious looking back when you dated a beta and they may have for a minute (or years) convinced you that they were an Alpha. But all along they were a bitch ass beta & you realize all the qualities were there i just chose to see him in Rose colored glasses. silly me but never again. 😂

@kelseyrainbow7887

3 жыл бұрын

A lotta betas think they’re alphas. when you have it so easy you end up having a bloated, gassy, toxic ego with none of the merit

@mariamincheva2645

3 жыл бұрын

@@Thevibeofalifetime444 giiiirl, i feel you!! I totally agree on point 3. The smartest guy on that planet, but never putting it in action. I can bet with you, if I call him now and ask how is life going, he will be on the exact same spot I left him 1 year before. My ex had too many dreams, and never worked on them to achieve them. He was a dreamer and never a doer. That is sad. :/ You are better off without him, a go getter like you will find the alpha you deserve. For sure!

@Partycitybaex

3 жыл бұрын

I think that's the red flag right there, when a guy feels the need to tell you he's an "alpha"

@TanteSklaidos

3 жыл бұрын

Any man who calls himself an alpha.. never is one.

Her one boyfriend was annoying. She asked him not to close her computer and he kept closing it. I'm glad she dropped him.

@kurkosiaa

3 жыл бұрын

He was already drunk AF

@everythingsbetterwithbread

3 жыл бұрын

He was straight up trying to sabotage her dj set. Laaaaame ass beta

@passiveagressive4983

3 жыл бұрын

Tanya Nelson he was high and drunk AF

@samantarizzi248

3 жыл бұрын

Katarzyna Kurkowska So what? That’s a lame excuse tbh. If you can’t handle yourself while drunk then don’t drink as heavily or something idk being drunk isn’t an excuse to do stupid shit to people you love.

@negativeorange

3 жыл бұрын

@@samantarizzi248 ok calm down. She never said that was an excuse. She pointed out he was drunk AF. That's not her saying oh but he was drunk. 🙄

“If you’re an alpha female, stay away from people that do what you do.” I immediately thought of Berger from SATC. He was threatened by Carrie’s success and broke up with her through a Post-It note... He’s the definition of a Beta.

@MarieTheOstrich

3 жыл бұрын

he was the most bitchy beta male there is, I hated him.

@christinainthecity

3 жыл бұрын

Yaas!!

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@christinainthecity Sara Jessica Parker was probably an expert in French kissing, just like Shallon is

@everythingsbetterwithbread

3 жыл бұрын

Omg Berger 🍔 was the WORST

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@everythingsbetterwithbread That show was lousy. Why anybody would ever watch it is beyond me.

I'm still surprised that not cheating is such a high standard this days. Disgusting

@Luna-ch9us

3 жыл бұрын

This day? Cheating has been around for as long as humans.

@beefstew4698

3 жыл бұрын

Sabrina Camargo I think not cheating should really be a serious top priority....on both sides...along with learning to be a great team

@wstotw

3 жыл бұрын

A guy walks into a bar.....because it’s so low

@hidansektas

3 жыл бұрын

i dont even consider not cheating as a standard. its a given thing like 10 commandments or some shit like that. if you do anything close to cheating im leaving your ass

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@hidansektas You're really an Alpha

“You’re prettier when you smile, you know”. I HATE that remark from men 🤮. Love the shirt!!!

@ashleysalazar2012

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@RR-ce2ob

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!

@irrittt

3 жыл бұрын

We hate it cuz men think we exist for them to enjoy looking at. Ha Ha, funny!!!! 🖕🗡

@ashleysalazar2012

3 жыл бұрын

@@irrittt and it's always an ugly that says it

@babyfish1083

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Fuck boys like to say "keep smiling" and I just wanna roll my eyes.

Nicole Richie Is succesful when It comes to having a stable life and family, success Is not all about how much they earn, at least thats my opinion, I'd rather have Nicole's life, you know, she has money but also a stable life, with Paris Is just men and money, maybe we all have different goals, at least I value stability, and Is something I had to work on emotionally, because I had a lot of changes and didnt feel I had a direction, so now I feel succesful I achieved that 🙂

@sayit878

3 жыл бұрын

Well said lady

@Piscoandmartinis

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like the most successful people are the ones you never hear about.

@sandrar6670

3 жыл бұрын

The words stability and marriage together aren’t very convincing when the current divorce rate is 50%. When I think of Nicole Richie all that comes to mind is daughter of Lionel and a failed jewelry line Harlowe. Paris is an icon. Her sister says in the movie if she wanted that husband and child life she could of had it by now.

@wellnessconnect3368

3 жыл бұрын

People don’t need to pop kids to be happy.

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@wellnessconnect3368 Amen. An acquaintance of mine has 2 grown sons who are on death row, a grown daughter who works in a Vegas brothel, and an ex-wife who is draining him with alimony payments. Think he's real happy?

I think Shallon really likes this new person she’s with, or at least she’s excited about it. Because she can’t help but bring him up lol - which I understand and I would do if I’m excited about a new relationship. She seems happy, good for her!

I have an interview for a senior position at a Big 4 company in 2 days, and you inspired me tonight! I was struggling to think of a leadership example, but when you talked about building others it came to me. I am 25, so I’m young for such an opportunity! Wish me luck ☺️

@bang3atonce430

3 жыл бұрын

Omg!! Congrats girl 👏 👏 👏 You got this!

@HM-bg4gd

3 жыл бұрын

Go get it!!

@soumayahassan5040

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck

@Mkay999

3 жыл бұрын

thank you all for the support!!!

@glitterandbows12

3 жыл бұрын

Manifesting for u!!

Paris aims for a billion dollars... Because money and belongings is the only security she knows. She keeps everything people give her as they represent affirmations (no matter how superficial) that she is cared for... Even if it by total strangers. How can you trust in relationships... Platonic or romantic, if your parents, the people who should stand by you no matter what, betrayed your trust time and time again during your formative years growing up? Money... Cold hard cash you can depend on. It's easier to pay people in your employ to care for you. You can depend on them to do their job because it is transactional. But relationships... She cannot trust the motives of those who befriend her or who are in romantic relationships... She cannot be sure that they are not exploiting her or using her for clout. That is why she aims for a billion dollars... Because that is the only security she knows. I truly underestimated her. She is so strong, so much more than she gives herself credit for. She has incredible vision and drive. She is a creator... She turns her ideas into a reality. And yet, there is deep insecurity and ingrained mistrust. I TRULY hope she will be able to find someone who is her rock. Who is rejoices her success, is not threatened by the business woman that she is, who inspires her to grow as she does them and loves her for her.

@Nix_101

3 жыл бұрын

I understand exactly where she's coming from. Even I tend to hoard gifts from friends and I am close to them than my own family. When your parents destroy your trust during your childhood, it's hard to find people who can relate to you. I'm so so glad Paris made this documentary and spoke up. I could relate to a lot of her struggles.

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@Nix_101 You married, Niharika? College grad?

@pimpindymepiece

3 жыл бұрын

Agree to all of this!! This documentary was so eye opening and I have a totally different opinion on Paris. I left it thinking I want to be friends with this woman in real life just to show her what genuine friendship feels like

@Shenay_braaf

3 жыл бұрын

Man this hit home for me

@Stella-cv4mc

3 жыл бұрын

Well said. Someone in the documentary comment section said something like: I think she wants to make 1 billion dollars because her grandfather disinherited her bc he was ashamed of her s*x tape, even though the release of the tape was against Paris' will and must have been deeply traumatic in itself. But because she lost worth in her family's eyes, she feels compelled to earn it all back to prove that she is not worthless. Personally I think it's unethical to own that much money, be it Paris or the Hiltons or anyone in the world. You shouldn't have more money than you can spend bc the disproportionate distribution of wealth is the actual biggest problem we have on this planet. But I understand that for Paris, it's a trauma response. Really sad.

I think Paris' sense of self was completely fractured because of the trauma she experienced as a teenager. It's hard to function normally let alone be altruistic and philanthropic if you have no idea who you are or what you stand for.

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@Karry V What, pray tell, has been so troublesome for you?

@violetsnotviolence

3 жыл бұрын

@Karry V I can definitely relate to that. I've become more distrustful of people the older I get.

I couldn't stand the boyfriend in the devil wears prada

@soniagomes4814

3 жыл бұрын

O my gosh yes! He was the worse 😂😂😂😂

@TanteSklaidos

3 жыл бұрын

I was disappointed that she went back to him. I think her staying single and going onto her new life phase after all she learned both in work and relationships would have been a way better ending.

@User-jd9ut

3 жыл бұрын

@@TanteSklaidos thank you!!

@woodlyn_elf

3 жыл бұрын

He’s so fine thooo

Every time she talks about beta males I’ve to think about a guy that harassed me for months with different accounts and phone numbers simply bc I didn’t reciprocate his feeling. Now I’m here with an alpha, supporting my goals and being happy for me when I achieve them ☺️

OH MY GOD SHALLON, you just single handedly saved me a year of therapy with this one. The parent-child dynamic, tyrant type relationship... I had never looked at it that way but you are so right ! My god you are clever

I have respect for Paris after watching her documentary.

@xoxo2026

3 жыл бұрын

Same same same

I think 9/10 Simple Life fans will say that Nicole Richie stole the show. She was definitely the funny and interesting one. I honestly think that she doesn’t have a huge career anymore because she didn’t really want to. She had babies at the peak of her fame and got married and kind of settled down. If you look at her Instagram she’s a hippie now.

@jenniferburke5856

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely! Loved Nicole on the show. Nicole Richie obviously chose to lead a more "basic" life.

I bet this was the problem that Taylor Swift had with Calvin Harris. Say what you want about Taylor, but Calvin's behavior is really telling and totally applicable here. He has priors for sabotaging the women in his life- look at what he did to Rita Ora's career. His twitter meltdown after his breakup with Taylor Swift in June 2016 really stunk of insecurity and trying to cut Taylor down when it was clear that her success had far eclipsed his. If he's capable of throwing that kind of tantrum on Twitter, I shudder to think about what he's like in private.

@zcargirl77

3 жыл бұрын

Kristine Kemper Yep. Man-Baby on Board. 🙄

@sparrowwilson4514

3 жыл бұрын

Omg. Yeah, that whole thing was so embarrassing. Just because it came out that she helped to write one of his popular songs. She’s one of the best songwriters of this generation, surely that gives you some clout. Not to mention, he’s the reason they broke up because HE GOT BORED WITH HER. He has no right to get salty at her.

@christinainthecity

3 жыл бұрын

Calvin did the same to Rita Ora after they broke up in 2014! He sabotaged her music career and wouldn't let her perform the song they co-wrote together at awards shows.

@JeBusInYoutbe

3 жыл бұрын

Honey Calvin was TS beard lol

@mariabriceno2407

3 жыл бұрын

Taylor Swift is very much closeted

I clicked on this so fast

@irenelopez8449

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 🤣😂🤣

@sorillahagos

3 жыл бұрын

LMAOOOO girl same☹️

@TheSkaterJo

3 жыл бұрын

SAME

This video came at the perfect time! Hubby didn't do anything for my birthday, and then got mad because I was mad because I'm apparently too difficult to please, which makes it hard for him to even try. Not alpha enough to take risks! You are a psychological genius and deserve an honorary PhD for your work!

@industrialover

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't focus on him not taking risks, he was inconsiderate to not do anything for your birthday and borderline mentally abusive to call you too sensitive because you reacted to such an upsetting thing. Your feelings are your feelings, they're valid. Happy birthday to you! You deserve much more and I hope he sees that soon, don't put up with that crap

@constructingadditionalpylo8597

3 жыл бұрын

Hubby needs to get divorced

@sunshinesmile94

3 жыл бұрын

One of my pet peeves is people who repeatedly bring up the phrases "love is unconditional" and "loves gives without expectations" to excuse their sloppy, lazy behaviour of doing essentially nothing and giving nothing. They cruise along on the bare minimum and are willing to take whatever you keep giving them, but are reluctant to invest the time and energy to reciprocate... because you did things for them and gave things to them of your own accord, they "never asked you to". I once idiotically dated a guy for almost a year who I must have spent thousands of dollars on in personalised gifts. I looked back and realised after all that time he got me nothing except a packet of tea. No birthday gift. No Christmas gift. Nothing. Wow. The idiot all that time was clearly me. Am SO glad I did not end up with someone like that... Because chances are it will only have gotten. worse with time. Not better. Words are cheap. Trust a man's actions and his efforts. And if it doesn't match up, being alone is far better than being perpetually frustrated and undervalued.

After two marriages and two decades with the wrong guy..Im realizing how nice it is to be alone vs with someone who hurts to try to fit with.

Shalla🐊 I set boundaries with my baby daddy. I was neutral, firm and didn’t compromise my needs to stroke his needs. Alpha female on the rising! Thanks to YOU, Shallon. My big sis. 💜

@khyati7733

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss keep going!! 💖💖💖

@NadjaVlog

3 жыл бұрын

Queen💫

I was so proud of Paris in that bitchy ass boyfriend moment! I didn't know she had that in her! I love her. 💖💌

@MsNatna

3 жыл бұрын

Samee. I was proud

That dude doesn't even seen like a B male. He just seems like he doesn't respect business women the same way he'd respect a business man. "Oh what? You have to work and be professional? But you're my girlfriend! Come on, it's not a big deal! Right? This isn't important for you, I mean you're a woman, you're my girl, you don't really *have* to do this job thing". YIKES.

@TheTinebee

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe he is just so in love with her and suffers. Because she treats him like her butler.

Can you talk about how the Kardashians always date/marry men that don’t have strong familial ties? Kanye’s mom died and no father, Scott’s parents passed away, Lamar’s mother had passed away. All three don’t have siblings either

@ladydie1234

3 жыл бұрын

Less drama. And less people. Kris and Caitlyn had like 9 kids all together or something.

@industrialover

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone dies oh, I don't think it's that crazy

@romansworld8891

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly all those ladies that dated those guys are covert narcissists, its one of the steps that they use(isolation) its a level of control that they thrive off of. They go for people that have no support system so they have have all the control by being their only form of "support".

@JaZmine147

3 жыл бұрын

Single children strive to find partners with big families because they're attracted to their family bond and interpersonal relationships. It's not uncommon for broken men like Kanye, Lamar and Scott to feel loved and welcomed in an enormous family like the KarJenners.

@monikakaushal5742

3 жыл бұрын

Easier to manipulate

I watched the doc and I cried, several times. I related to her more than I thought I would.

Lmaooooo ”iimagine a guy using the same fingers he uses to write influencer in his bio as he uses to touch you” hahaha

@npnpnp858

3 жыл бұрын

I don't understand this. I understand that someone does not want to date in same industry, but why say the industry is not for men in general?

@samwasfound1172

3 жыл бұрын

npnpnp ya that's fair, I mean personally I prefer men who dont like attention so maybe that's just personal for me but it resonated. to each their own!

@npnpnp858

3 жыл бұрын

@Tianruo Yang I am a female in tech, so every industry belongs to us too 😊

Dear shallon, I am not sure if you will ever see this however, I feel like it must be said. I hope your mom understands what a beautiful soul she’s raised. You are compassionate, kind,sympathetic and unapologetically you. I don’t even know you and yet you’ve changed my life. I’m sure some days you feel overworked and under appreciated. On days like this close your eyes , take a deep breath, and know that you touch peoples heart in an unexplainable way shallon. Not only as a fan , but as a human being, I Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Thank you shallon, for being incredibly and bravely you. Warm Regards ,

"General Europe" 😂😂hahaha such an American thing to say. Love your videos, Shallon!❤️

Can I just say I love how consistent she is with her intro song? It’s called You are the solution by Loving Caliber and it took me so long to find it but it really speaks to her brand! Great video as always

The problem with Paris is she has 10000 professions, so talk about finding guys who is not part of her industry lol

@mimi-bp1yx

3 жыл бұрын

Real life Barbie lol😆

@informph

3 жыл бұрын

@@mimi-bp1yx 😂

Shallon this is the best video you've made thus far.

Okay this opened my eyes. The part where you mentioned that you date people with toxic families HIT home. My hurt locker is a college educated white male, has the cookie cutter family archetype and that's always something i've wanted. We would always celebrate EVERY holiday and birthday at his families. Never once did he try to meet any of my friends or export himself into my world. He was a tyrant like his father and dating me he tried to imprint his parents dynamic on to our relationship. This has made me realized i miss who i was when i was with him and not him... Thank you.

Yo he PURPOSELY dropped the laptop. Glad she cut his wrist bands off.

@PH-pq3vq

3 жыл бұрын

He was wasted

@jkwellness1639

3 жыл бұрын

@@PH-pq3vq stupid fucking excuse "it was the booze"

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@jkwellness1639 That's exactly what a woman who French kissed me at a party last Saturday night said to me. No, I told her, it couldn't be because you find me irrestibably hot, now could it? She just giggled and Frenched me again.

@jkwellness1639

3 жыл бұрын

@@johnhartsock1891 point proven thank you

@johnhartsock1891

3 жыл бұрын

@@jkwellness1639 Glad you appreciate the story, Jesse. I just hope that I'm not carrying around COVID now because of it.

Shallon do you know about insecure attachment styles? Especially Anxious Preoccupied and Fearful Avoidant attachment style (the two co-dependent ones!) should be of interest to you! They mostly form in childhood but can be reinforced through traumatic experiences also later. I highly recommend you dig into them and tell everyone about what you've learned ❤️

@soybean1989

3 жыл бұрын

It is extremely helpful to understand how and why you have avoidant attachment styles . My psychology class made us take the test and I came back as “insecure ambivalent” Meaning I act like I don’t care one way or another if I am shown attention etc and I got that way because of how I was raised. And that is how I am with my partners I act like it makes no difference to me what happens in our relationship, When in reality it does.

@uschilou

3 жыл бұрын

@@soybean1989 Omg I would love to know the test you took! Sounds incredibly insightful.

Hi - Aleks is _not_ Dutch, thank you. We want no part of him, we did not create him.

@solo-de5kx

3 жыл бұрын

ahaha

@wilmatouw4397

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe he's German or Polish, but certainly not Dutch indeed!

@hs.3662

3 жыл бұрын

Defo eastern european...

@estherkrauss6841

3 жыл бұрын

He is German.

She certainly does not need a boyfriend who pesters her when she's working. That's ridiculous.

@Natalie-dw9jy

3 жыл бұрын

LOL so true about the navy blue bedding and flat pillows 😂

@bluecollarlit

Жыл бұрын

Master Reflections, Shallons knowledge and communication skills are awesome. Thank you for your comment.

He's German and as a Dutch person I'm insulted 😂

@rhonarandom

3 жыл бұрын

As a German person I'm ashamed 😂😭

Her boy toy definitely pissed me off. Because I think he was jealous. Because name one dude that would ever blow something like that off for a chick....Nobody. Ever.

I'm not sure if anyone cares but...I saw Paris at Tomorrowland. The EDM scene is definitely snobby so most people weren't supportive about her appearance. BUT SHE KILLED IT! Some interesting facts: - Paris, Shaq and CEO of Goldman Sachs were the celebrity DJs featured at TL. - Paris has more experience DJing than both Shaq and the Goldman Sachs CEO, but she got the most flack. DJing is an extremely sexist industry :( I'm a female music producer myself and my dream is to play at Tomorrowland. Thanks so much for creating this video; you rock!

@vavila16

3 жыл бұрын

Omgosh I was so excited to go to Tomorrowland this year 😭 got my ticket after waiting for so long. Hope you play one day ❤

I love the Paris Hilton series 🤩

her boyfriend was serbian not dutch lmfaoo but u got it spot on w the capri shorts, collared shirts, & sunglasses indoors 😭😭😭

Glad you back Shallon!! Keep hitting us with dope ass knowledge. 🌟

I had to seek refuge in this vid. I Just broke up with a negative beta leach. Literally, two minutes ago. I can see him from my window walking to the parking lot of my apartment building. I've deleted our text history and blocked his number. I'm shaking with freedom and uncertainty. This vid came to mind so I came here to get grounded in my convictions. I'm DETERMINED to break this cycle. No more beats, no more users, no more men that resent my boundaries. Please squad, give me strength

I wish I had watched this several months ago! I am a sports historian, who met an attorney who picked up on my research. Though he is doing his own thing in terms of the research, he had to keep shoving in my face that an athlete who I had been trying to get for an interview for 20-plus years sent an email to him. That athlete also said something nasty about me in an email to him, and he forwarded the email to me, along with several other people. I blew up! But he cannot understand why I stopped speaking to him. I'm rambling. This confirms I needed to get rid of him. Thanks, Shallon!

shallon can you make a video on how to pick up girls AS a girl? we need more of bisexual shallon 💅🏼✨

"Guys don't compete with us... weak guys do" -- that hit absolute home for me.

So glad my fiancé is not in the health care field! But I’m definitely glad he’s supportive of my night shifts, on call schedule. It’s hard to be a hard working woman but as long as you have love and support from your partner that’s all that matters ❤️ love your channel

I was actually just thinking about why you hadn’t uploaded yet. I’m so exited!

“The things they first start loving about you are the things they end up hating.” Soooo true!!! (If they’re not the right man for you!)

Awesome video! Although I don’t entirely agree that Paris is self made at all. Her wealth was more than a leg up. At the beginning, her being a rich heiress party girl was her entire image. Did she capitalise on that image to build an amazing brand and career? Yes, but the wealth she had from birth meant that a) building businesses was not as risky for her as it would be for the average person (at least financially speaking) b) she didn’t have to work hard to build a name of herself the way a normal person would, as her position in society meant she already had one to some extent.

I do hope Paris meets someone who is as equally as hard working as she is

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Can you talk about the bomb she dropped that she gets domestically abused by these guys ? (Or is that apart of how the men tried to assert dominance.)

Jesus! I want that T-shirt! Also my mood just improves when I watch Shallon, you are so eloquent, so clear!!!

Just hearing you ramble at 9:02 was truly hilarious I screamed 😂 I had to subscribe

I know that this has nothing to do with Paris but could you do a video on the pros and cons of dating older men

My boyfriend’s name is Dennis and I almost spat out my tea when you said that part

I love your analysis although I thought narcissists also seek to destroy their victims and have no empathy. Paris might be self centered due to her trauma and need to survive but she has a kind heart and is not a narcissist in my book. Thanks for the video 💗

About her ‘hoarding’ house, I think she strongly resents her childhood and those traditional ‘living standards’ in a way, she’s extra & she’s expressive - I am the exact same. I can’t stand minimalism, I doesn’t feel like home to me!

@JaZmine147

3 жыл бұрын

She's expensive but it still looks like trash hoarded together.

Appreciated you talking through your own experiences and dissecting it down for us 🙏🏼

Excellent content. This is actually very accurate. I never thought about my relationship in this light before or my previous relationships. My partner and myself are completely different but we do understand the details of each other’s lives and also hold the same core values. I could never explain to my friends how my relationship worked until now lol. Love it

Interesting video and insight. Happy to hear about your current relationship dynamics, he seems like a keeper! The best relationship (being an alpha female myself) is when you let your guards down infront of him and you can just be the girly girl that you are and let him kind of be the daddy lol.. If we become mens mothers, those are very short lived and unfulfilling relationships and they are draining and tiring arghh! So even if you are an alpha, keep that damn alpha-ness to your workers, or at job or towards the career etc not towards the man.. We have to become great actors for this to be able to imply. I have had to learn this and practice this and it works eventually 🥰❤

It’s really fucking sad someone tried to cancel you, YOU’RE LITERALLY TRYING TO HELP AND UPLIFT! I really appreciate your videos ❤️

I feel like yeah, it’s great to have a go-getter boyfriend and all that - someone who’s ambitious and loves to shine in the light but to me, something about someone who’s genuinely kind, compassionate, loves the simple things, loves animals and is happy with themselves is so much more important. I think if someone is a go-Getter it can be toxic because they might sacrifice you over their business. It can be a good thing but also a very bad thing.

Never knew I needed shallon this much in my life 😭😭😭 Thank you Shallon!!

Shallon, you look GORGEOUS!! ❤️

I totally felt so many points in this video omfg. I’m a business owner and build furniture. My husband is also business owner and full time carpenter. He ALWAYS builds me up and loves bragging that his wife in in a male dominated field. We are very much in the same lane, share tools, etc. I wonder if it’s different for us because it’s not often women are carpenters? That’s an interesting topic!

I need that shirt, your merch kicks ass!🤩🖤

Anorexia and eating disorders can cause a scarcity mindset that leads to hoarding and money obsession. It's a thing.

I had a bf who was soo insecure would keep bringing me down and use my weaknesses against me. Bear him 5 months then kicked ass never look back

I have never been a fan of Paris Hilton but I do give her a lot of credit for all of her business success and professionalism. It is still a little sad though because despite all that success she has said she doesn’t feel like she has any real friends. A lot of people think money or their career means happiness but it doesn’t and having beta soy boys around doesn’t help either.

My ex was just like that and he wasn’t even in the same field as me. He was just mad cause he had nothing going on for him. Jokes on him cause ever since I left his life I got better career opportunities

“It’s lonely at the top”

Shallon your hair looks GREAT loving the vibes ✨ a look

i actually had to deal with a beta male this week. He was upset because i had things to do, and other friends and he didn't want me talking to other guys. I straight up said " no no no you don't get to control who i talk to or what i do, byee." and i haven't seen him since

I'm French and your regular European accent does sound like mine ahah :D

@pcosbodyhealing

3 жыл бұрын

Her father is French so that’s why 😆

Shallon, can you do something with your audio? When you starting to raise your voice, it's not pleasant to hear. Especially at around 11:35... I was in headphones, and this scream just caught me off guard. I don't think it was like this before. Love you though, always interested in hearing your perspective.

We love your comment section always! Love you more first of all!

6:55 I can’t with you shallon😭😭💀💀

@jenni230

3 жыл бұрын

I‘M SCREAMING

Your impression of her boyfriend actually has me screaming 😭😭😂👏🏽♥️

We are in the Hypersensitive, Offended-at-the-drop-of-a-hat, "Woke" era... Makes me want to barf. I stay away from social media as much as possible, otherwise I would walk around in a constant state of nausea.

Shallon!! Can you make a video on how to date other girls as a girl? I think that makes for a very interesting video and would love to see your take on it!! Love ya

It’s funny how I never realized the fights my ex was starting before all my gigs was out of his insecurity and he used to gaslight me for being arrogant before my gigs!! AAHHH THE REALIZATION I HAD WATCHING THIS VIDEO!!!

A loser dude told me that I shouldn't be to ambitious because it makes me just materialistic.

Honeyyy you look so young🥵

Turd burglar! Lmfao that's what I called my puppy when he tried to eat out of the cats litter box.

Shallon, can you make a video relating to ego?

Aww I like this. And I’m happy for you shallon. It sounds like you’re really happy with this guy. I think even as alpha females there’s a side of us that naturally enjoys pulling back, and allowing the other person to take the reigns in a relationship. But it takes the right alpha male to bring out our feminine soft side. 🥰

The woman with you has always been my favorite KC song! Love you Shallon we have so much in common, listening to you makes me feel sane and not so “different” and “alone”!!

The beta male actually not that bad tho, the problematic one is the beta male but think that he's an alpha. There are two kind of beta male : the beta male who just accept or acknowledge who they are, and the beta male who's an alpha wannabe. The later is the problem here, who usually become a controlling narcissist partner.

Your hair looks bomb !

I totally agree with what Shallon said about dating people from a different lane then ours. I met my boyfriend in high school, we were both studying arts, and I’m so glad we went completely different paths after we finished it because while we were classmates I felt like we were in some sort of competition all the time and I haaated it. Now he’s doing his thing, I’m doing mine and we support and cheer each other on. Our relationship is close to perfect now and I’m so happy!

11:54 - I rejoiced at that moment #TTYN @ Alex. EDIT: 33:55 - glad you caught yourself potentually catastrophizing your new relationship. It's easy to be pessimistic when we're so familiar with expected failure. Just recognise that conflicts are normal but if two people have the same intention to build together, there's no obstacle you can't overcome. Really happy you've found someone inspiring and allowed the guard to come down somewhat too 🙏🏾

Navy blue bedding or some other dark bedding. My boyfriend had dark brown. And brown towels. WHY DO MEN BUY DARK BATH TOWELS? 🙈

I literally click like on every video before I even start watching 😂💖