Missing someone doesn’t mean anything. I love this concept.

@Shenay_braaf

3 жыл бұрын

I needed this🥺

@Mynameisdarkxxo

2 жыл бұрын

Damn it’s different now

@yeuruuerueeheue

Жыл бұрын

@@Mynameisdarkxxo how so

Nostalgia is temporary, self-love when you have it, is not.

@Nina-cd6uw

3 жыл бұрын

Nah that's ups and downs too, but I get what you mean 😅

@Rightwing789

3 жыл бұрын

Preach

@ifeesam

3 жыл бұрын

YES!

@acd1168

3 жыл бұрын

Damn. I felt that

@mktkt7456

3 жыл бұрын

Totally

It’s crazy how we can miss people who have obviously treated us so poorly. We’re infatuated with the potential of the relationship rather than what it actually was. The love goggles are real! Thank you for this video.

If someone repeatedly hurts you in the way he has, then he’s not your best friend he’s the enemy hidden in plain sight

@miacontouli2493

3 жыл бұрын

This is good, and it should apply to both romantic "best friends" and mean girls who are platonic friends.

Just hearing the name Cardi B drains my energy. I wish sis would get it together.

@yooolanda4992

3 жыл бұрын

yeah i feel like she's gonna lose her 15 min. of fame by chasing after offest.

@thetrulytyson4935

3 жыл бұрын

GIRL! You are so pretty. Your profile pic caught my attention :) new subscriber!

Imagine your only good quality as a man is being tall

@mktkt7456

3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣😂

@michellemayela6086

3 жыл бұрын

That's funny

@impalanotaming

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

She touched on so many points. She truly understands other womens sorrow thru her own experience.

“Some relationships are a fresh salad and some are 10 packets of skittles from the gas station” I felt that so hard

@Christina-Olivia

3 жыл бұрын

#FACTS

@sunflowerskies-

2 жыл бұрын

Yes me too! I liked the skittles analogy. Been with skittles way more than salad. Working on fixing that and keeping to myself.😉

Cardi got some serious Khloe K vibes going on.

I really thought she would be done with him this time. He's gonna keep cheating and she's gonna waste all her best years hurting over him. Did anyone else see that clip of him gaming and Cardi walks in the room he starts fumbling to hide his phone from her. He will never change! Regardless of your opinion of Cardi every woman deserves better than being continually cheated on.

@ashatawa2807

3 жыл бұрын

and talk about her always defending him

@hotmessmama894

3 жыл бұрын

@Kami K yep. I love Cardi, but she’s getting her karma. I just hope she wises up before her daughter is old enough to see what kind of example she’s setting

I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago and oh man this video is right on time! He texted me suddenly that he wants to talk and I agreed to talk to him tonight. Suddenly I started getting second thoughts then I got this video notification lol

@clementine8397

3 жыл бұрын

You broke up with him for a reason. Trust your instinct

@MrLindsaymerl

3 жыл бұрын

Girl be strong ❤️

@Nina-cd6uw

3 жыл бұрын

Lol same, but I had that meeting, stayed strong and now I need this video to stay exactly that 😂

@elementohsix

3 жыл бұрын

I always felt that when people want to get back together it’s because they don’t want to take a chance on someone new. Yeah it’s weird adjusting to the change. You no longer text them all day and you’re no longer checking up on them. It’s a lot easier keeping the same routine. But you can always tell when relationships are coming to an end. Things will be happening over a period of time to where you don’t want to deal with it anymore. You don’t have to stay with someone because the other person wants it.

@reylatable

3 жыл бұрын

Hi, I received this same message only that it was months after the breakup. You'd think ( and I thought) he was ready to talk things out genuinely and ask to 'get me back' . It was more of a check -in to see if I'm still enough into him , so that he can have me in the back burner if nothing else pans out . I don't know your situation or your relationship but , be careful . Guard your heart above all else .

Wise words from Alpha icon Brené Brown: "Shame hates it when we reach out and tell our story. It hates having words wrapped around it- it can't survive being shared. Shame loves secrecy. When we bury our story, the shame metastasizes." When we dare to be open about our struggles to the right people who have our backs, we reclaim our power and make it easier to leave behind things or situations no longer serving us and to make room for better things to come in. We are enough; we deserve to be healthy, happy and to live our best lives. Thank you, Shallon, for your example.

@Christina-Olivia

3 жыл бұрын

This is so perfect! Thank you for posting this!

Shallon: If you’re watching this video, you’re in some f****** pain, pain over an ex Me: No, I just watch each and every one of your videos

I constantly miss my ex. That’s why I’m working on my aim.

@drewisours

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong girl! ❤️

@christianone6611

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😄😄

Almost everyone goes through this after the break up of a long term relationship. Most of us wouldn't be with someone for a long time if there weren't good things about them to miss and if we weren't close to them like a best friend. However, if that person also disrespects you, humiliates you,, cheats on you or otherwise makes you feel shit, then that outweighs those feelings. You have to put that aside and realize that if they really loved and cared for you and if they really were your best friend, they wouldn't treat you that way. You wouldn't stay friends with someone who kept screwing you over and making you look like an ass. And as far as the "d", its been said on this channel and many other places...a woman can catch a d pretty much anytime...especially if she's cardi b. It ain't worth continuing to go back to this man.

@natashabrooks4188

3 жыл бұрын

And the "but he's the father of my kid(s)" isn't a good reason to stay/keep going back either. If he's toxic then it's best to leave...

@Katie_Woo

3 жыл бұрын

@@natashabrooks4188 exactly! 👏👏

@ABnununu

3 жыл бұрын

Very well said, thank you!

@acat2156

3 жыл бұрын

@@natashabrooks4188 yes I agree it's kind of annoying to me when people say that they're gonna stay together for the kids but the relationship I toxic and that toxicness affects the kids in a bad way so it makes no sense to me when people use that as a justification to stay.

shallon : you're here because you are in pain Me: Nope I'm here to learn so can avoid the pain

@Christina-Olivia

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!! 🙏🏻

@hadbetterdays8118

3 жыл бұрын

Same here girl

What’s going to suck for longer, missing an ex, or being in relationship that isn’t good for you?

@user-hp5mr4yz8h

2 ай бұрын

This.

Why is it when we are away from the toxic person we see their "good" qualities but the moment we take them back we realize why we left them in the first place 🤔

So she’s just gonna ignore the million messages she saw saying “you deserve better” 😑

@Ana-pj1gf

3 жыл бұрын

The problem is that she thinks she doesn’t :(

@MsGeniousss

3 жыл бұрын

Seems like she doesn't deserve better 🤷

@aime342

3 жыл бұрын

@@MsGeniousss but she does.

I needed this cause these guys can’t be out here having their cake and eating it too. Stay strong ladies!

its a thousand times worse being in a toxic relationship than being single! don't force a relationship if its not meant to be its better to be over now than cry later. Cause if its not good now it will never be good , you will only fight and it will turn nasty. And honestly theres millions of people out there why be stuck on that one person. Its because their available

Been there but my situation was worse. I wanted to get my ex back when he clearly didn’t want to get back with me. All the red flags were there but I refused to see them. It’s embarrassing and humiliating that I practically begged someone to be with me.

@solo-de5kx

3 жыл бұрын

who cares you were true to your heart. You were honest with your feelings there is no shame in that.

@Eevanova

3 жыл бұрын

Oh...remember how I was breaking into my exes house🤦‍♀️I thought it was love🤷‍♀️

@solo-de5kx

3 жыл бұрын

@@Eevanova ahah i didn't go that bad i just went and rang at the door but when i look back at things the guy was twice my age and so insecure he made women chase him but at the end he became the woman... Men are not solid like they used to be and we have needs that must be met.

@sparklyunicorn5431

3 жыл бұрын

You learned sis, it's okay we have all done stupid and embarrassing things 🤦‍♀️😄

@lstarsabb

3 жыл бұрын

That's me to the sad thing is logical we know the truth but the feelings cloud our judgement. My guys lies were crazy, but I just laughed it off thinking that because I knew we was lie I still could win, but I never do. The biggest reason I think I do it is because I just don't want to believe this guy purposely taken advantage of me because he knows he can.

How is Shallon literally always in time for this stuff. Always having my back and keeping me from doing dumb shit😂

@anjumajajopa2352

3 жыл бұрын

Samee!!

@MsNatna

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂

You don’t know how bad I needed this! I’ve been struggling with a bad breakup for 8 months now. I broke it off with him but I still think about him every night. I don’t even want him, I just miss him. I want to move on and get over him!

@mariagraf4061

3 жыл бұрын

Christelle Louis you’re prob really hurt 🙁 hope things get better for you soon

If a guy realy likes you, he will always meet you halfway, and go above and beyond for you, to accomodate you. If he doesn't do that for you, he ain't the one, sis. It hurts to realize this, but it's reality.

I appreciated her honesty. She said we are fucking dysfunctional. It is good to acknowledge that. If you are in a toxic relationship and want to stay, it is good to acknowledge we are crazy, we are dysfunctional and we will never be happy healthy normal. The truth is many people will never be normal partners. Normalcy takes either a great family or a lot of healing. Don't stay hoping things to change, stay knowing you are dysfunctional and your mate is dysfunctional. It is a powerful acknowledgment. When the relationship truly runs its course, we move on.

@elebea868

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness that is not what I meant. Some people have healthy ways to communicate and bond to others, ( ie normal) while others have unhealthy patterns and habits that need years of therapy ( ie dysfunctional) Normalizing dysfunction is part of the problem

@elebea868

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness btw up and downs and dysfunction are 2 complete different concepts.

I think cardi might be scared to be alone

@salamander8301

3 жыл бұрын

I can't imagine how difficult it would be to share a child with another famous musician who is a fuck boy. She's only 27..

@stacybrenda9409

3 жыл бұрын

My mom told me that she had the same mentality and upto to this day she regrets it, she said that if she knew she would have left sooner because she realised it downhill from there, things never get better and this is a lesson she taught me and i will never forget

I just want you to explain to us what could it be that Meghan Markle did on her first date with prince Harry that made him think oh I've got to up my game? Where does she get that confidence and strenght and manipulation and control skills that never cross our minds?

Memories are the real ghost. So feel it till you heal it!

@mepulley7913

3 жыл бұрын

Thank You for that :).

Love addiction is the most powerful addiction.

GET THIS WOMAN A CROISSANT WITH NUTELLA ALREADY!! 😂❤️❤️❤️

@bscotch54

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaah this was what I was about to say 😂

@sharonchepkorir3571

Жыл бұрын

😅😍

Make it a habit to workout everyday instead of depriving yourself of food you like

I was in pain, pain, pain, over a guy I never dated this year. Thank you to your videos! I have let go. It took about 10 months. To accept it

@princessdiana2737

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness oh my what a coincidence, I go to a park, and he knows it’s my favorite park, and he brought his girl there as well!!! To show her off!! Pathetic!!! If he was acting like that! That means he still cared. I just showed no emotion. I didn’t post anything for 6 months on social media. I disappeared and Grieved in silence. Posted a hot pic and he was like the first to watch and disappeared again on social media. Started working more on myself, dropped 20 pounds!!! Saved up money, will be getting my boobs done soon! Hahaha😋 about to get super hott!! And literally journaled everyday! Also, talked to a therapist!!! And have been working on myself. Bad thoughts come to your brain, train your mind to think of something else :) that worked for me

@princessdiana2737

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness yea it hurts!!! It hurts a lot! But you just need to work on yourself! And if you can move, then move! He doesn’t need to know anything about your life. Cut him out of your life, if he did you like that

I began dating my late husband when I was 14. He died when I was about to turn 28. That was a couple of years ago now, I still miss him hourly and can't move on. I didn't have a identity without him, not a clue who I was. We went everywhere together, we were "Julia& Mike" one word lol and of course my mom would tell me it's not healthy to revolve your entire world and being into one person but I didn't listen.

When you said 'let me be that person' - hand to god Shallon you have been for me for over a year now, I've worked through so much and would honestly most likely give you a kidney if you needed it, hahaha. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@rosieday7482

3 жыл бұрын

Saaaammmmeeee

@precioussamuel5071

3 жыл бұрын

Fr like it’s scary but I would literally follow Shallon anywhere 💕

I just broke up with my boyfriend for actual good and you know it was bad when I knew the only reason I was “missing him” was just because I wanted someone to talk to. Once you come to the realization how much better it is to be alone is really such a blessing. I’m still going through the motions but it’s truly the best thing I’ve done for myself especially because I thought I was never gonna do it. I wish Cardi would realize this but idk what it’s like since they have a child together

Missing or feeling nostalgic is not loving.

@avantikaroy5146

3 жыл бұрын

Oof girl, you got me.

@nope_no_nunya.

3 жыл бұрын

This!💯

Easy have a life, friends outside of him and goals your accomplishing, personal hobbies etc

@cv947

3 жыл бұрын

Easy??? Really??? Are you living in this world or in another universe? Most of us straggle with a job that we don't like because we need to survive, since we cannot find the one that we wish, have so called friends or not at all and no money/time for hobbies and travels. It's absolutely normal to crave for love to make this life bearable. Of course someone should set boundaries, but naturally you will feel lonely, if they treat you poorly and you have to let go.

ALL of my romantic nterests in people are based on this concept. Not wanting to date them but wanting to be them. I’m extremely socially awkward so I always take toward people who are charismatic and really really good with people.

@champflowahbomb7630

3 жыл бұрын

My life 😔🙈

Shallon u are a saviour! Im currently going through this and i feel embarassed to talk to my friends about it but u always keep me on the straight path. Lol

@anjumajajopa2352

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I don't have friends to share this and get my light of truth

@brittanyb5942

3 жыл бұрын

@@anjumajajopa2352 me too

Hi Shallon, any plans for an “Autumn glow up” 🆙 video? I need inspiration to deal with my depression and start working hard for my final year at college 📚

We all have a bff like Cardi 🤧😬

@tamoumoune

3 жыл бұрын

lol yeah

@martineaaahhh7326

3 жыл бұрын

Yup and we are all over the nonsense! Fool me once shame on you, Fool me twice 😒

Where’s my recently broken up squad at?? This breakup has been tough on me, need me some pep talk to move tf on 😩

Cardi's a pick me. And I feel bad for her. She could have so much quality D. She's rich, famous, young and pretty. And I'm sure a few of those d's would be much more loyal too.

@Elemenopi205

3 жыл бұрын

@Jamila offset ain’t a 10/10 either. He’s a scrub not sure why girls are chasing him 😂

Yep... I broke up with a guy 3 months ago who vandalised my stuff, went through my phone, broke into my house to see me.. but... Ive been missing him. He was funny and he picked up the phone when I had a bad day, he cuddled me at night and brought me coffee in bed. But I just don't let myself indulge in that feeling and I remember the bad times. Always hold onto the bad times.

@eyecandylumnals2151

3 жыл бұрын

He needs to learn to grow if he wants to be with you,and you need to step up especially your confidence,hobbies issues and etc.once he sees that he’s gonna realise he better step yp

@salamander8301

3 жыл бұрын

@@eyecandylumnals2151 ahhhh nooo Once you vandalised my property, ignore my boundaries and invade my privacy you are gone. I'm not waiting around for him to learn some basic fucking manners. I dont have the time for it I'm a busy woman, plenty of grown men out there

What it is for me is that he was an empath just like me. It's been 5 years and I just don't see anyone who has the same inner world and gets me on that level, boyfriend or even friends and family. My whole life I felt different and didn't fit in, now I know why and I'm cool with it but it felt so amazing to meet someone who could understand me. But when he left it was absolutely devastating. I thought it will pass, but it didn't. I just need one person who can relate, but can't seem to find that soul connection which is so important to me...

Whenever she uses “Hannah” as an example name 👁👄👁

@HannahBirzes

3 жыл бұрын

Rite

It’s worse when you feel like you were actually happy in the relationship and the guy was not a bad person. Freakin sucks

@ProudToBeVeggie

3 жыл бұрын

Facts. He broke up with me like an asshole but the relationship was good. Idk what happened but i miss him sometimes still

I’ll never forget the saying, thanks to Mr. Worldwide himself.... the bigger they are, the harder they fall, these biggity boys and diggity dogs...

@MegJuniper

3 жыл бұрын

This fucking sent me lmaaaooooooo

@TheDrexynRamsey

3 жыл бұрын

@@MegJuniper lmao thank you thank you

This video hits too close for comfort lol. I have gone back to this particular ex several times. We have broken up and dated other people only to get back together at some point or another. About a month ago I had finally had enough. Even though we have crazy chemistry, I wasn’t happy like I once was with him. During quarantine (which really allowed me to reevaluate some things), I realized that I was still holding a grudge over the fact that he was out of state and couldn’t make it to my mother’s funeral last year (even though he had several days to make a move). It was like yeah we can laugh and play together but there is this dark something in the pit of my stomach that when I think about it long enough really bothers me about you not showing up (I was there for him even though we weren’t together when his mom passed away in 2015). The funny thing is that as I was sharing this dark feeling, I didn’t cry or get mad. I was being truly honest (with myself) and that felt good. At some point, you have to look out for yourself. Stay strong!

Whitney and Bobby in the 90's cardi and offset 2020

@Sara-jt9cx

3 жыл бұрын

They’re not that bad 🤣

@mattb1568

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t put those 4 in the same sentence.

@Ibonymaroney

3 жыл бұрын

Yes.

@msjreneful

3 жыл бұрын

I have to disagree...

@judemelroses9920

3 жыл бұрын

Hilarious and accurate. Hahahaah

Calling someone that( cheated/lied/deceived you ) your best friend ummm noooo

Broke up with my Ex a week ago i need this now

This set up is so soft and cozy. Definitely prefer it

🙄🙄🙄 she reminds me of a friend who always cheated and got cheated on by the same person - she tried to fight him and win all the time. Such a toxic relationship

Its hard to comment from the outside, but long term relationships go through ups and downs. When to end it entirely and when to give it a chance is hard to know on a personal level, and who really knows what their relationship is like between the two of them.

This the Shallon I admire. The kind that tells you exactly it's going to suck and it's not going to be easy. But no worries, you're in my channel. You're a part of my team. I'll help you get this through.

Power =Getting away from toxic behavior !

I was crazy in love and missed my ex but I stayed away by writing all the bad things we went though along with the detailed emotions I felt at that time. This helped me exponentially, because I left her before and all I could remember was our good times. I literally got sick without her. So we got back together, she was good for about 3 weeks, then started back her usual ways. So atleast for me I realized that writing and reading situations keep me from being so easily forgiving.

As women we can’t let go of the situation we are in. I think she’ll leave Offset but not now. She hasn’t learn to make herself a priority. Give it 10-20 years the penny will drop.

shallon looks so pretty and fresh here!! we love to see it

I think she is in a very deep trauma bond with him; and like you said before, she has a high tolerance of chaos and probably didn't have a real life model of what a healthy relationship looks like. This is what is familiar. And Shallon, I think it was deeper than what that Montana boy represented and what you feared about going to a new town. I think it goes all the way to some kind of abandonment trauma and how much of a visceral and emotional response. I listened to your infstream and he sounded so emotionally unavailable and apathetic. And that kind of rejection to us confident women is....a wound that exposes our own fear of abandoned and when and where have we felt abandoned before and therefore just seeking that familiar feeling....like a drug. Like you felt the beginnings of what could potentially become a trauma bond...(hurt locker)

Shallon you look GORGEOUS 😍😍

Shallon as sad as a break up is , you described that beautifully , that was me i constantly wanted to be alone to reminisce

The relationship with Cardi B will not end until he leaves her for someone else . Cardi B is in a place that I was in with a guy that had a power over me that I cannot explain . No matter how he treated me I would not leave him . It wasn’t until he lost interest and left me and he waited for months and tried to come back but by then I was over him and I was used to him being gone and didn’t want him back . I was so happy I was free of him . That spell he had on me was broken. I hope the hold Offset has on Cardi B becomes healthy and they work on their marriage .

Can you do a video talking about the two sides of on-again-off-again relationships? I believe there's two kinds; the toxic kinds where people are just in denial about their lack of compatibility (Cardi B/Offset, Miley Cyrus/Liam Hemsworth) and the kind where the parties truly are just respectful of growth and timing and it DOES end up working in a healthy way?

Me sitting here eating Gummi bears: "ya I take carbs back every single time" 😋

I thought you were in California again, it looks really fresh and tropical ☺️

It surprises me that with all you self awareness and knowledge that you ever let a man get you so twisted! If it can happen to you I have no home. I almost over men I feel

@joaneustaquio4786

3 жыл бұрын

😭 same

I broke up with my boyfriend earlier this week and was going through the grieving process BAD, I still kinda am. But this video added a lot of clarity to my situation, I can’t think of many positive things about him. He was just my hurt locker.

@brittanyb5942

3 жыл бұрын

Hang in there. I needed this video two weeks ago 😩

5:38 this gave me CHILLS. I always wondered why I was so damn in love and obsessed with my toxic ex, and this might just be it. He was such a social butterfly and carefree traveler and I was an extrovert who had taken on this introverted role in my life. Suddenly I graduated, moved continents, found my own friends, he broke up with me for the third time and then I began to get over him way easier once I became a social butterfly myself 16:07 my stepmum used to be this person for me

Shallon you can record your videos from the top of a palm tree and I will watch it. You are great at what you do.

Beautiful beautiful beautiful. Seeing your hair out of your face is truly 👌🏼☺️

Like, for real - no matter the topic of your video, the INSIGHT AND SELF REFLECTION is allwwaaaaaays on point. God speaks through you!

@SalLeeParadise

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness God is imaginary to you. He is pretty real for a lot of people. Don’t make yourself sound so stupid and close minded.

@SalLeeParadise

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness your ability to have an open mind really shines through when you are commenting on someone, who believes in a possibility of something beyond this 3D life, higher energies and spirituality with “stop giving credit to imaginary”. If you ever studied quantum physics you would see the lines of what people call imaginary and real being blurred. But this isn’t even about that. Stop spreading negativity. And let people believe In what they believe in (everyone has their own evidence and reasons). You do not know better than them.

@SalLeeParadise

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness you can believe in whatever you wanna believe in. Just don’t tell others that their beliefs aren’t valid. Or shaming people for their beliefs. Speaking of hypocrites.

@SalLeeParadise

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness I wasn’t talking about proof of God here. This is what I find so fascinating about atheists. They are so stuck on God. Way more than believers are. Read my comment about quantum physics again dear. Or don’t! Have a nice life!

@SalLeeParadise

3 жыл бұрын

@A Round Orifice in Nothingness yasss! very nice look on you. Very classy! :)

I think it is ironic how she comes off like I don't give a fuck person, but at the end of the day she is just like any other girl who keep giving chances to a person who is not worth a penny.

Oh this is too close to home. I lost my virgity to a fuck boy that pops in and out of my life every couple of years. And it's so sad because I know he lies and gaslight me, but I convince myself that I know how to take the power back but as some as I get on top he makes me feel insecure and I play right back into his hands. I'm not attracted to him anymore. He was far from my type to begin with. I don't even like him as a person, but the sex makes me cut him slack just so I can sleep with him. I actually let him go when his girlfriend texted me to let my know that I was in the way of thier relationship, but out of the blue he texted me and the feeling came rushing back and the toxic cycle continues.

Love you Shallon! Your videos help me so much. It’s amazing what putting your positive and productive energy into the world can do. I just saw some hateful videos pop up when I searched you up, please don’t let any of their bs get to you, my friends and I are so much better off hearing your advice. Over years they have helped me become a stronger, smarter women and I am just so grateful.

I haven't had sweets or pastry in 8 months. Miss that more than my ex.

Shallon, you look so good with no bangs covering your face! Really. So pretty 🥰

Ugh this was so well done, Shallon. You are the absolute best.

I loved the When Harry Met Sally reference! Such a great movie. I think it would be cool if you did an analysis about Harry and Sally’s relationship and the pros and cons of it ❤️

@RomanZolanski123

3 жыл бұрын

That was one of my favourite movies of all time. I originally enjoyed how Harry isn’t perfect and wrong about so much while still being charming. I hate the last half an hour when they get together but I still tried to justify it. Then I found out the creator of the film ACTUALLY BELIEVES that men and women can’t be friends. Which made me realise all the toxic shit that Harry said is probably exactly how he feels. That fucked up the movie for me.

Hi there 🙋🏻‍♀️ happily married for 12 years...but just wanted to say I genuinely love these videos! I still gain great insight, despite not necessarily being able to directly relate to whatever the topic is. It’s all sage advice and I truly appreciate it 👍🏼👌🏻

Looking gorgeous Shall! 😍

Rule #1 Never look back ladies!!

“I cannot tell you one positive quality about him. He was tall, he was hot” LITERALLY all he had going for him🤦🏻‍♀️

This video couldn't of come at any more perfect timing. Thank you Shallon, I love you.

I think it is “the higher you climb, the harder you fall,” because the momentum you build up makes the impact(when you hit the “rock-bottom”) harder. I actually love this phrase because it reminds me of my favorite Greek myth of Icarus and Daedalus, and how the water felt like asphalt when Icarus was swallowed by the sea. I think we have to remember though that, for all that it mattered, we climbed and we flew for at least a moment, and it was breath-taking, which was why it hurt so much to fall- we lost the exhilaration and we felt the brunt effect of the crash-landing.

The same is true with babies and their bottle. Cry it out. At some point no tears or emotions will be left.

Shallon, girl! Let me tell you. Lol, ur facial expressions just put that cherry on top to make ur points really stick for me. THANK YOU!

Harry actually sang that song at some concert and it was perfect, you need to listen to it!

I love your videos!! You always talk common sense into me haha also you’re waaaay too pretty, intelligent and giving to ever settle for someone who isn’t giving you 100%. You deserve the world Shallon 💕

You're looking great, Shallon

Hands down you are my fav KZreadr!!! You are so easy to listen to; it happens to me that i remember something you said months later when i am in certain situations and i remember the Savege Shallon way of thinking so i sush my heart and listen to my brain.

OMG please talk more about heartache and breakups it's sooooooo helpful ♥♥♥

@Stella-cv4mc

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

broke up with my bf 1 year ago, toxic relationship. but i still miss him. from time to time he sends me texts. i promised myself not to answer especially now when i got an amazing bf who is “healing me” with his love. but not answering to texts and not calling him hurts like hell. now we live in different countries and thank god we don’t see eachother. last time he came here he was trying to force himself on me... twice. and i still miss him. wtf.

Rewatching this because your girl is going through it

Ms Lester is a Leader🔥 So glad I found her. She's major inspiration

*SHALLON -- PLEASE DO A STORY ON JOHN CENA GETTING MARRIED.*

@jjj5434

3 жыл бұрын

What??? He's married?? Ouch

@gabrielar9611

3 жыл бұрын

That secret marriage was so text book “When a man leaves, he marries the next in seconds” BS.... Nikki dodged a bullet imo

I cannot tell you how desperately I needed to hear this advice. Thank you Shallon ❤️

Shallon always puts out a video at the right time.