So , I need to let everyone know Kathy Perry is actually a really nice celebrity . My niece went through a bit of a rough time in terms of her health . She is 8. My sister is friends with Orlando’s brother So my sister asked Orlando’s brother if Katy could send my niece a few words of encouragement. During a gathering in France while Katy was there, Katy recorded a beautiful video for my niece , stating all of her health issues, encouraging her to push forward and commenting very positively about my nieces singing , telling her about her dreams to become an artist since she was a child and how she made it, and encouraging my niece to do the same My niece was so happy, and when she showed this message to her classmates , she became the most popular girl of her class 🤗 More important, it really encouraged her , made her really happy that her idol would say those nice things to her Katy didn’t have to do that ... just the fact that she took the time to listen to my niece’s story , and record a video for her Pretty amazing ! I love her know

@hms1609

4 жыл бұрын

This is so wonderful to hear. I hope your niece is doing well and is in good health :) Love Katy for being such a sweetheart.

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭 this makes my day!!

@iellaterreur7865

4 жыл бұрын

Aw my heart is melting ✌️😭♥️

@kayceejane1740

4 жыл бұрын

And she didn’t even do it for the promotion. That’s so nice. I wish her a happy prosperous marriage and speedy recovery to your niece.

@LoveLunaFam

4 жыл бұрын

that is so sweet! I love when celebrities do that for kids!

How to find a good man : listen to your instincts and don't ignore the red flags

@ThisIsJen129

4 жыл бұрын

The real Truth

@ilysaportax33

4 жыл бұрын

And take “mixed messages” as “they aren’t that into you”! It’s this easy!!

@ygujt

4 жыл бұрын

@@ilysaportax33 exactly!!!!!

@furbyfurbs

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏻 TRUTH 🙌🏻

@maggiekarabel123

4 жыл бұрын

Before I married my husband I was engaged to a total love bomber who would treat me like shit and then totally worship me. We got engaged after two months! I ignored the bad stuff and ALL the red flags for a year until I realized he was trying to change literally everything about me. He bought all my clothes, separated me from my friends, tried to trigger my latent bulimia (not kidding), tried to get me into anal, and on and on until I realized how abusive he was and dropped his ass. YOU CAN’T IGNORE THE RED FLAGS! You’ll end up married to an asshole who doesn’t respect you.

I’m so happy for all of these celeb women moving on and finding better men than their last .

@TheSoftLifeMeditations

4 жыл бұрын

Yesss amenn!!!

Shallon imitating Russel is just iconic

Okay, can we just appreciate how Shallon is genuinely happy and celebrating that Katy has stopped a toxic cycle, like, I felt that and it made me realize how we have this supportive, strong, smart and funny group of women in each other with the Shallontourage? 💖💖 Thankful not only for the content Shallom serves but also how she built a community for us with the Shallontourage. 💖👑 P.S. I am ready for what would be amazing collabs would happen when Shallon Meyer becomes a reality, YAS! 🙌 (I love Johan Mayer, I recognize he can be a douche and ridiculous at times, but his work? Ugh. 💖 Battle Studies takes me to a different world, no matter what year I listen to it.)

@nazarisreyes6037

4 жыл бұрын

I know, I feel like she feels like that about us too

@amulyasubhash7764

4 жыл бұрын

I love John Mayer. What a gifted musician, Edge of desire is one of my favorite songs. I'm all for Shallon and John !!

@mydearhuman

4 жыл бұрын

YES Shallontourage! Happy Women's day to all you fierce ladies around the globe! ❤️

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

Cynthia “Girl power” isn’t about blindly supporting assholes just because they happen to be females. It’s about validating QUALITY females and calling the others on their bullshit. That’s what we do here.

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

Amulya Subhash you can be a bridesmaid

I’m only 14 but watching you makes me feel like I could take on the world

4 жыл бұрын

Dang, I wish I found Shallon at your age

@hibatcherifi1871

4 жыл бұрын

You go girl!! You will grow into a strong woman (you probably already very strong though!) wish you the best!!

@savannahharold3262

4 жыл бұрын

Same, girly!

@martinam7806

4 жыл бұрын

Honey you are strong already. I am twice your age and boy I would switch to being 14 anytime!!! Enjoy this time in your life. Learn, have fun, do sports, educate yourself but remember to enjoy being teenager. God bless your heart ❤️

@aidamontano1267

4 жыл бұрын

I’m only 19, but I feel like I could have skipped a lot of the heartbreak and confusion if I had found Shallon at your age. Good for you, and you WILL take over the world! 💕

I had a long term boyfriend who enjoyed putting me down and making fun of me in front of other people. Keyword is HAD ✌️👋🏃‍♀️

@ariestauruscuspprincess8871

4 жыл бұрын

Lissa K Yassss Gurl, glad you dumped his narcissistic ass.

When you were talking about Russel disrespecting her- doesn't it remind you of how Justin speaks TO Hailey and the pic he posted of her behind? ?? IKR?

@rafikgermany26

4 жыл бұрын

but that's part of justin personna(not defending) while russel was being manipulative and trying to put Katy perry(the biggest superstar at that time) in her line

@coleworld4385

4 жыл бұрын

I think beiber and baldwin are two horrible people who deserve each other.

@lucasorlando99

4 жыл бұрын

A A and then Orlando slept with selena

@ariestauruscuspprincess8871

4 жыл бұрын

A A Justin Bieber deserved that punch. Orlando needs to beat up Russell too. I hate men that are that disrespectful to women. Makes me sick.

@jenniferdelgado2834

3 жыл бұрын

@@avgonyma1 wait why what happened what did Miranda do to orlando

Also, I was living in NYC when Russell Brand was married to Katie, and he had his agent go after a friend of mine to get her number...she was a tall thin blonde, model looking type...so I know he was probably cheating on Katie at the time or at the very least trying to. My friend denied her agent. We giggled about it later because we both think he's totally gross.

@ellemathews9840

4 жыл бұрын

Hes admitted to his cheating ways. Talks about it alot .

@shopmycloset4273

4 жыл бұрын

Dewi Lew unnecessary nobody really cares how you spell her name. Stop being a grammar nazi.

@ed-gf9gz

4 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily true but I’ve read blinds that Orlando cheats on her now w Selena Gomez

@lucasorlando99

4 жыл бұрын

Emma Riley noooo what happened was Justin Bieber slept with his ex wife Miranda Kerr after a Victoria Secret show then Orlando punched Justin in a restaurant then to get back at Justin he slept with Selena

"Time heals nothing, it's what we do with the time that matters." I really needed to hear that.

"Katy and Orlando made sure they each possessed the skills that they need, both separately and in each other." I remember my mom once told me she thought a big part of the reason she and my step-dad worked so well, was because when they started dating, they both sat down and listed the things that had broken their previous marriages, and what was a deal-breaker for them, and what their own perceived faults were. Then they decided, "I can live with you doing this if you can live with my obsessive need to that, that's not a deal-breaker for me. Cool? Cool." I kept this in mind after my own first marriage crumbled, and when I started to get serious about my now-husband, I was brutally honest with both him and myself. "I'm stubborn, I have a temper, I tend to walk away during moments I find myself getting too heated to calm down; in the past, I'd find a button and when I was mad, I'd push it on purpose," etc. I also made sure I learned from the mistakes of my past and didn't repeat them. We just hit our seven-year anniversary, yesterday.

@vliciouss

4 жыл бұрын

This is the best thing I’ve ever read. I want to come back to this comment and remember it 🙌🏼🙌🏼

@CrazyFai

4 жыл бұрын

Love this! I think this is so important.

@janashamira1962

3 жыл бұрын

OML this is great! I just got into a new relationship and did a few of these things and to read this its like a reassurance that I am doing good. I really hope this one lasts🙏🏽❤

@KE-hr4sb

3 жыл бұрын

@@janashamira1962 Good luck! I'm rooting for you!

@janashamira1962

3 жыл бұрын

@@KE-hr4sb thank you❤

I don't know... Shallon became like my jiminy cricket I swear she's like the voice of my conscience

I have been single-not dating since summer last year. I want to get my personal finances back on track before I commit to a relationship. I've also come to the realization that I'm not happy with some other things in my life that I want to fix before I will be confident enough to be in a relationship. I used to get jealous so easily and when I finally got to the root of why I discovered it was because I wasn't confident with my body. No matter how many times someone tells you "you're beautiful" or "you're sexy" if you don't feel that way in your own skin, it just doesn't matter. So I started working out again and set fitness goals for myself. I'm getting there, and hopefully one day will find my Orlando and have a happily ever after story like Katy. So happy for her!

@YPM498

4 жыл бұрын

Me too! Working on myself from the inside out

@CC-br9qg

4 жыл бұрын

Love this so much. Keep it up.

@bishplease124

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much for sharing your journey. ❤️ you aren’t along I am right there with you girl

@klddere3734

3 жыл бұрын

Good job keep going

wow this hit home... I've always wanted an outgoing confident guy, because I have no confidence in myself. Working through the source of that lack right now and it is a rollercoaster. thank you Shallon

@adrianazashen

4 жыл бұрын

I'm dating my opposite too

I am there too... After many failed relationships at 34, unmarried, no baby... But working on myself mostly mentally... hoping for my happy ending ☺️❤️

@Nyuffykah

2 жыл бұрын

you'll get it girl!

This video hits home. I’m pregnant with my first child and it’s with my boyfriend of 3 years. After failed relationships and heartbreaks, he’s been the only man to love me deeply and fully and has always proved his loyalty and commitment to me. I’m happy to finally have someone like him. We are both so excited for this journey! 💓

“What if you could be the person you want to date?...Dating is 100/100, become 100.” Wow that hit different 🥴

I knew the minute I turned this on that you were sad. I could see it on your face. If it helps at all, like any... you’re an inspiration and I’m sorry that you’re hurting. It will get better. You know it will. You’re beautiful and smart and good and kind. Do not forget how drop dead gorgeous you really are. Your hair looks amazing.

Seeing your eyes well up with tears breaks my heart. Thanks for showing us this side when you could’ve easily edited this out.

@HannahBirzes

3 жыл бұрын

Aw yeah

When you started talking about being over a person but not the pain. I really felt it and it helped me realize where I’ve been emotionally with one of my past relationships

"Even if you're over the person you're not really over a legacy of the pain" I felt that... I hope everyone out there heals ♥️

@loriannakrystal7982

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

Please find a reason to squeeze in an accent every episode, Shallon.

@kmeshashebaa

4 жыл бұрын

Lol her accent was really good ! She sounds identical to my cousin from the UK lol 🤣

@gemmalouise1766

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly im from the uk and Shallon is a really convincing british person 😅

@trishapascacio6960

4 жыл бұрын

Yessss

Video idea: How not to get coronavirus 😂 My hacks: 1. Wash your hands religiously, 2. Don't go outside, 3. Avoid people at all costs Okay, I've apparently been training for this my whole life, I should be safe ^^

@tinaleonie5811

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣 I can't!!!

@ashleyshim2078

4 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo Same

@beccat6055

4 жыл бұрын

This made me wash my hands

@91clarie

4 жыл бұрын

@@beccat6055 watching won't kill the virus though try washing them 😂

@missallsundayx

4 жыл бұрын

SAME

when shallon said that katy had a chip on her shoulder because she wasn’t very educated the first thing i thought of was that clip where katy asked neil degrasse tison if math was related to science😬. edit: i don't hate katy and i'm not trying to make fun of her. the clip where she said that is from years ago and i'm glad that it seems like she's trying to learn more now.

@sg_1541

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr me too 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@AbianahAlmeida

4 жыл бұрын

It kinda is chemistry has some math in it its not a stupid question. Their are alot of equations in science.

@ailinh911

4 жыл бұрын

@@AbianahAlmeida i know, that's kinda why it was embarrassing when she asked that. math and science go hand in hand, it's like asking if music is related to dancing.

@laiminhmabulay7529

4 жыл бұрын

i’m more interested in how neil de grasse responded to that cause he seems like a nice guy?

@ailinh911

4 жыл бұрын

@@laiminhmabulay7529 he explained it really well! he basically told her that math is the language we use to understand science. he was very kind and didn't patronize her.

YOUR RUSSELL BRAND ACCENT I LOVE IT 😂

Every time I see Shallon start to get teary eyed/upset it makes my heart ache for her. She's such a strong woman, but I forget that she's also a human being who struggles with her own past relationship problems. Sending only love to you!

russell brand went to my school and got expelled for running into the girls boarding house naked...

@winterdoll1917

4 жыл бұрын

Yikes

@ceptember.

4 жыл бұрын

OMG. But apparently he has a thriving KZread channel now‽

@silvio.r8443

4 жыл бұрын

He admitted to kicking his pet dog down the stairs as a child. He's a psychopath.

@AlexandertheGreat99

4 жыл бұрын

😆😂😂🤣 Why am I not surprised?

@smritiid3697

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

Big John Mayer fan here. I recall hearing him in an interview or podcast - maybe his own IG show - where someone asked him if he goes to museums. He immediately said no. Then he must have reconsidered how stupid that sounded and tried to backtrack and said he doesn’t go to them much. So I love that the thing Katy did post-breakup was visit museums and learn for herself. John is immensely intelligent, yes, but I would not necessarily call him an intellectual. He knows what he is interested in but is not well read or broadly cultured beyond his narrow niche interests like music, watches, Japanese fashion, etc.

@cornflower9258

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY. You hit the nail on the head. He know his job and is techinically daft at what he does. But he is NOT well rounded and worldly. He doesnt even know politics or things going on in another country.

I'd love to hear your updated perspective on Harry and his wife...especially with her pulling him away from interacting with others and the signature back-touching and pulling his shoulder and stepping ahead of him during his conversation lol. That would be super interesting!!

I’ve had a crush on Orlando Bloom since I was a kid lol. I’m so happy for Katy

When my girlfriends complain to me about how bad their relationships are, I always tell them to take time by themselves to heal. Unfortunately, they seem to be validated by their relationships and aren't single for more than a few days (if not they overlap relationships) at a time. They pick guys that present the same bad habits and patterns and when they complain the same problems, all I can do is 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I've had my share of awful relationships and decided on a path of self healing- it's been three years and I feel shitty about not having a partner but I hope I've worked on myself enough to not pick guys with the same traits. It's taken a lot of self control, introspection, no more wasting my time with people who aren't on my level nor interested in having a true partnership. No more 50%

rather than the cliche “you’re going to be the mother of my kids”, he said “we’re going to draw the poison out of each other”. poetic.

I vaguely remember russel brand saying in an interview that he “had to think of someone else to have sex with Katy”

@corvettedm1

4 жыл бұрын

I think Russell Brand is crazy.

@lesleysimpson5793

4 жыл бұрын

What?? Katy Perry is really pretty. Did Russell Brand not own or have access to a mirror?

@saraa1741

4 жыл бұрын

it wasn't about her not being pretty enough. Apparently Katy was boring in the love making department.

@denisemughrabi8171

4 жыл бұрын

Sara Aguerria Hi! : ) lI think Russel was probably lazy in that dept & wanted her to do all the work. Or maybe he wasn’t very good at “inspiring” her to want to do better. He admitted he had cheated numerous times. That tells me he has an inferiority complex when it comes to women. He wants constant reassurance that he’s still “got it!”. I think Mr. Brand may equate being a “good lover” with “quantity” of lovers, not “quality” of those lovers. Anyone can learn to satisfy their partner if the partner vocalizes their preferences & guides them to whatever makes them happy. He may have thought that she should have “instinctively” known what he wanted, but people are not mind readers. I don’t dislike him, but I think what he did to her, shows a lack of maturity & respect, for women. Orlando Bloom seems like a better match in my opinion. I hope they are happy & have a nice little family together.

@Milkshuilk

4 жыл бұрын

Diane Malloy he is ill...definitely

Lmaoooo ...”I hate when ppl get engaged on Valentine’s Day. Oh did you go to Olive Garden?!” 😂

When you said “what if you could be the person you want to date” I had to pause it and really think about it. That is such a good way of viewing things.

If your hair was red, and your skin was fair, you'd look alott like Christina Hendricks!( she's a goddess)

@EmVeeBeen

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my god YESSS!

@CaptainSuspenders

4 жыл бұрын

Lol she's going to hate this because CH is thicc and Shallon hates her weight rn

@ib2028

4 жыл бұрын

Damn yessss hahaha

@merbish7962

4 жыл бұрын

With her current hair color she’s always reminded me of Mädchen Amick but I totally see Christina Hendricks now 😂

@colleenmcnally9418

4 жыл бұрын

@@merbish7962 omg yes! That woman was in gossip girl I totally see the resemblance! All beautiful ladies

Katy Perry filmed a therapy session for a video a year or so back and it was one of the most interesting videos I've ever watched. She really did do the work. She is a beautiful soul on this planet.

Shallon gives us the advice our moms omitted. I personally adore her

@adrianazashen

4 жыл бұрын

Or the advice our mom's never learned

"He's got a big... reservoir of talent" 😂

I'd totally tour the museums and educational sites with Katy Perry. I think she would be such a fun travel companion and go with the flow sort of personality.

I was literally just thinking "I wish Shallon would upload a new video, I need her wisdom". And then I got a notification!! Amazing!!

I'm so happy for Katy, I remember that scene in her movie where her husband left her over a text, broke my heart. I wish them all the happiness ❤️

Wow! I just realized, you have a very insightful way of just looking at people's behaviors and analyzing their tendencies. Very, very interesting. I wish I would've used this technique, if I was able to, in my younger years. I'm going to try, but it would take a significant period of time to complete the analyses.

"I need to get him...him...him back! No, baby girl, you need to get YOU Back!!!!" That said it all 👏👏👏👏

One pattern that I noticed when it comes to my past broken relationships is that I wanted to help them out of the pit they (seemingly) desperately wanted to come out of but were unable to. Obviously those guys were narcissists that just made me believe they were victims. I need someone who drags me out of the pit I'm in. An orlando bloom, that says "we will draw the poison out of one another".

"That would be cool. Hes got a house in Montana... I love Montana. 🤷‍♀️" 😂😂 girl you are pure gold.

This accent! Shanon you are slaying this! And yourself! You look amazing! This podcast is also very important. In the documentary about her life with this divorce thing with this clown...yep. I knew it. And again she just hasn't spoke about him at all after that. Like this is mature behavior from inteligent woman.

Shallon thank you for getting vulnerable with us. I’m really going through it too right now and I don’t feel alone.

Russell Brand is extremely intelligent and funny, so sarcastic, he's not attractive but his intelligence makes him so hot, and he always know what to say, he's charming, he can insult you without you even notice.

@Magnoliasdiary

4 жыл бұрын

@@auggiedogg718 sorry for my English, what I mean, you can see his interviews, he can reply you back so sharp in a funny way and not knowing if he's insulting you, which is what makes me believe he was gaslighting Katy.

@nayag.4190

4 жыл бұрын

yeah reminds me of my ex with npd. A narcissist , especially after hearing how he treated Katy. High IQ but low EQ and a fuckboy, real jackpot

@vic21ld

4 жыл бұрын

I would love to have him as a friend but not as my bf. For some reason he represents this category of people that are "awesome" or we just get along so well but not for dating. You know what I mean...?

@pimpindymepiece

4 жыл бұрын

I agree. His IQ is off the charts, hes starkly intelligent, but he probably sucked as a partner. He seems to have grown now though and is a good husband? Who knows lol

Russell Brand is the original Pete Davidson YES! YES! That's a perfect compairson

wow. I was recently abandoned (or “ghosted”) by my boyfriend of 8 years. he blocked me after I confronted him about something without so much as a goodbye. normally, when he’d come crying back to me (he has left me twice before) I would always take him back bc “oh but I love him so much and he realized he made a mistake and excuse excuse excuse!” pathetically, I am almost expecting that to happen... but this video alone is really empowering me to finally break the cycle and truly say goodbye to him behind for good. I’m so glad I watched it. 💕

I think Orlando is still very attractive 😁

That has to be so true about Katy ‘learning her way around the world’ I saw her a year or two ago when she had her short pink hair - she was with her team walking into the ballet in Melbourne to see Sleeping Beauty (we have a big arts and theatre scene here!)

There are pictures of Orlando hooking up with Selena Gomez in some club while he already was with Katy :(

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

They weren't together then but yeah, I'm sure that was an issue.

@ariestauruscuspprincess8871

4 жыл бұрын

Maria Belova Oof. I mean he cheated on Selena and he’s a total douche so that’s just good old karma. But damn, Orlando hated Justin too.

This is such a good pillar to remember in relationships! The aspect of ”poison cleansing each other””spiritual journey w each other”

this made so much sense, we do have to love ourselves, find ourselves and value ourselves before we choose to love anyone who's worth it. Growth and emotional independence are hard things to achieve but the rewards are worth it

Don't you also think there is just such a small pool of emotional intelligent/quality men? Would be a good topic..

@lilulilu4298

4 жыл бұрын

In my opinion There are so many men who are less emotionally intelligent/and have no quality , because women are also like that. ( I hope i make sense) The market offers what is mostly asked

@moz_autumn

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly! That's why more people are going solo, being independent and not into romance anymore. I describe myself as single by choice. I don't find stability in relationships, it's like a traumatic thing to jump into. I feel more stable on my own honestly.

Shallon, I can’t tell you how much this resonated and helped me. I’ve been to several therapists and spent hours and hours trying to get help to uncover my issues, and none of them spoke to them like you did in 35 minutes. You are not only insightful, but so well spoken and able to organize and communicate your thoughts so thoroughly. I’m also in my 30’s and just got out of a very tumultuous relationship, so I am actually going to take your advice and do something with this time, and not just let it pass. Thank you. I am new to your channel and obsessed with you now lol ❤️

Premenstrual crying so relatable

Never cliked so fast....

The Russell Brand impersonation is on point 😂😂😂😂😂

Respectful, kind, dedicated, sense of humor, etc...is where it’s at. Looks fade. Russell is none of those. Never even thought he was funny. Orlando seems like he’d make a great husband and dad.

@RUSTA5

22 күн бұрын

Why did he break up with Miranda?

Respectfully Shallon, I'm not sure if your ex hubby was all that wonderful. He always sounds covertly narcissistic to me when you describe him. That bit about him giving you the silent treatment until you couldn't deal and moved out?! Classic narcissistic stonewalling.

@amiwhite5514

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

I've been going through the same things as Katy for as long as she's had boy problems and family problems. I think she started to change because of Transcendental Meditation (I also do this meditation), and she has mentioned it being the one thing that Russell gave to her that she wouldn't want to give back. I have really looked up to both Katy and Orlando and when they finally got together, it was my definition of like a happy ending... a few months later, I met the man for me. I have been doing the same work Katy was doing, and every guy that came along, it was like I was preparing to meet someone that I could stick with and grow with. Orlando and Katy together was absolutely shocking for me to hear!!!! and what's even more shocking is that I'm in a relationship, ALSO with an 8 year age gap, my boyfriend is older than me. But we are so in love, and give one another a safe haven for healing. Shallon, you're such a Big sis to me, because I also view things from a psychological perspective. I'm so glad I found your channel. You are a fantastic role model.

I'm finding a pattern in my dating life where I date emotionally unavailable dudes, younger than me, most of them are alcoholics, discrete, big ego. I realize now that maybe I am trying to recreate a family relationship as my father was literally all that and more to me and my mother. I maybe also dating younger men because I'm insecure with the fact that I'm 25 and people see that as "old" (although I know it is not, at ALL). My choices in relationships, I realize now, are an accumulation of my past trauma and personal insecurities. I'm getting better. I will find myself and love myself fully, and hopefully one day the universe will grant me someone to share me with.

Besides liking some of her songs, I've never been the biggest Katy Perry fan--at some points I even disliked her. But I am so, so, so genuinely happy for her. She looked so beautiful and happy in Never Worn White and in general just seems to be in such a good place.

When Russel and Katy first got married she did a radio interview where she said they met back stage at a Get them to the Greek because she was "OBSESSED" with him at the time so she threw a water bottle trying to get his attention, but it hit the back of his head; she was super embarrassed but he played it cool so she was even more into him

I don't really care for Katy Perry, but goddamn this is the video I've been waiting for. While I definitely appreciate the content you put out, sometimes hearing about all the ways a guy can give you the run around gets me a tiny bit hopeless, especially since I'm in the phase of reassessing all of the common issues in my past relationships. I would love to see more content that highlights examples of healthy relationships.

Big love from the U.K Shallon! Having a rubbish day and your videos always cheer me up 👌

“What if you can be the person you wanna date” legendary. I feel happy when I see Katy Perry’s relationship. Shallon is a good therapist. Now I realize how did I go from being the one giving therapy, to being the one that gets therapy >.< I need to evaluate my relationships.

I needed this. Just broke off a 5 months relationship with a NPD narc. Yes ignored my own intuitions and all the red flags and now I’m murderously furious. I’ll use my time to invest in me! Growth, baby, growth!

Shallon, thank you for having the courage to admit that you still experience pain from past relationships. Realising that an emotionally resilient person such as yourself can still be subject to emotional turmoil from the past is comforting. Perhaps I am not as pathetic as I thought.

So I'll unpause in a second. But you just summed up how I've been feeling perfectly. "Even if your over the person, you're not over the legacy of pain" so thank you, for giving me the words.

I will back here FOR SURE! I will watch and re-watch this video, till printing in my mind and soul. One phrase caught me straight in my soul: time heals nothing... I am here after 5 years my last experience, close to 40, and lost all hope to marry someone, after losing all, I said ALL my friends and being far from my family, even, and I had friends that told me: "Nah, go have fun, do not look for a husband or child". Of course, I wasn't fooling around, I was always looking to my "twin soul", marry and have children. Didn't work until now, I know why, but your words helped me a lot in some insights. Have no words to thank you for making this video. Keep it on. God Bless you!!!

WOW HOLY this was actually so insightful and eye-opening!🤯✨ I'm having a hard time getting over someone I dated. This video made me realise that I was attracted to him because of the traits that I'd love to have myself. It's really all about SELF LOVE and SELF IMPROVEMENT guys, we need to become the best version of ourselves first 😊❤

Thank you for this video right on time for me. I’ve been in that Katy Perry phase for a while now and i’ve been struggling but in the end it’s 100% worth it cause i am a better person now. I’m still single but at least no one can take away this growth from me 🤷🏼‍♀️

1. my parents met, started dating and got married in less tha a year. Their relationship was a HUGE disaster. The type of disaster that makes people obcess about each other because they love to hate. 2. I love your british accent, Shallon! Hahahahah 3.I did the same relationship detox! Ended some friendships, solved a bunch of issues, and knowing that Katy Perry found a rewarding relationship at the end of this whole thing really makes me happy. It gives me hope for the future

Shallon, you have so much more to share with us than those who label themselves as "influencers". Your videos are greatly appreciated.

Everyone tag John Mayer until he DMs Shallon. 😂

I appreciate your straightforward personality. And in my opinion you nailed this one. You beautifully explained attachment wounds, cycles, and the painful yet profound process of healing.

I am with you, sister - heart broken! Bleeding. So difficult. Sending you love and positive vibes. You got this ! You are smart, young and beautiful!

Russell Brand is not unattractive AND has that attractive hyper-ambitious intellect. He keeps reaching. I've watched some of his KZread interviews and he's in a different space now. From what I gather, he was trying to get sober and drug free while with Katy and that wasn't her priority.

This video had so many gems. I literally wrote down everything that a hurtlocker would represent to me which was a huge eye opener. Found out that i definitely always choose a John Mayer type because i feel like i freeze up when a conversation about like world affairs comes up so i always go for that guy directing the conversation with confidence. Thanks Shallon for this video! 💜

the 5 min mark when shallon says "things are hard to get over. " felt that love you shallon thank you

I swear you have some kind of telepathic tap to my mind. Every time I'm going through something, you make a video on that subject.

Hi Shallon! This video struck a cord with me, and I’m right there with you trying to analyze what I’ve been doing wrong in past relationships. I know you mentioned writing on a piece of paper to review your behaviors, but maybe a journal might be handy? I’ve keeping one. If I write when I’m emotional and come back to it with a clearer head, it puts things into perspective, and I can find some patterns of thought and pathologies that are holding me back. You’re always so helpful to us, and don’t forget we’re right here with you going through this. Love ya!

I think that it’s very brave of you to share your pain, work through it, find insight (through other people who have gone through the same). It’s inspiring and encouraging as I go through something painful too. It’s for reasons different than yours but encouraging nonetheless. Thank you.

Sure, you're at your most PMSy, but my God, you're also at your most eloquent and pure! CHANNELING stuff, Shallon! 😀 Beautiful video. I remember Katy Perry talking to Neil deGrasse Tyson about the universe and being made fun of for being childlike and naive and fascinated. I never thought it was a bad thing. I though, and still think, people who find that something to be mocked are sad and out pf touch with their real, nerdy selves. The part that actually IS interested in life, not just jaded and needing to poke fun at others' expense. Also, I'm childlike AF, having not been given that chance in actual childhood, AND I'M KEEPING IT! 😀😀😀

"hurt locker" "imprinting" so great I need more details! please Shallon write a book for us!

Wow, this was si needed and appropriate for where I am in life. I’ve been feeling stuck on an ex recently and this totally blew my mind. Thank you!!!

All I have to say is “Jesus jugs” 😂 I LOVE YOU GIRL

Hey Russel is not having his old life for years now.. he is helping addicts now and being very supportive in difficult situations to less fortune ppl.. but anyway I love your personality you are very unique and bright.. I learned so much from you.. all love from Sweden

Omg this video speaks to me so much. I cant help but fall for guys who are funny and smart like nerdy smart. I like being able to rely on someone like that but now that our relationship has been rocky, hes using everything he is against me. I want to be alone since I've been with him for 6 years. Like I need some space.

I remember Orlando having big talent as well. Heard of Justin but wasn't interested. Good on Katy

Shallons accent is frighteningly accurate, more English than the English!!

Your English accent 🤣🤣 amazing

Loved this video shallon. The vulnerability was real.the irony is that John Mayer doesn’t sound to pleased. Could you please do a video on the comments he made about ending up alone.

Russell Brand is amazing now though. He really has transformed its crazy he's so inspirational I love listening to his talks

@meganburbage1232

4 жыл бұрын

His content is amazing and he says the right things but I still don't trust him exactly

@PS-hi9os

4 жыл бұрын

@@meganburbage1232 mm i dont know hey. fair enough if his actions didnt reflect his words but he truly seems to have changed and is in a monogamous relationship has dcompletely changed how he looks and doesn't do drugs anymore, he's truly on his spiritual path

@meganburbage1232

4 жыл бұрын

@@PS-hi9os i really hope you're right

You are just a ball!! Hahaha Sooo I'm actually growing, been single now for 2 years or so, consciously chose to be so that I could work on myself and I'm getting better and better at spotting the guys. I can now look at someone and be like "mmwehhh maybe not". And it also holds up a mirror to what guys I am attracting. So for anyone still going out with people cuz they can't be alone.. commiting to myself was the best thing I could have ever done and I really recommend it!

Can you make a video on John Mayer...ugh I just read Jessica Simpson new book and now he truly disturbs me!