Instagram is terrible but I blame Snapchat too. Honestly, how did Snapchat filters go from cute lil dog ears to lightening and smoothing the skin, thinning the nose, and plumping the lips....like huh??????? I usually take my selfies on Snapchat but the other day I took a selfie with the regular phone camera and actually thought to myself: "hm that doesn't look right" - how messed up is that!!! I wouldn't be surprised if these filters are giving people body dysmorphia

@hazzastyles6315

4 жыл бұрын

I know exactly how you feel,. I stopped using snapchat filters because I felt like I didn’t look like me

@artisticagi

4 жыл бұрын

We’re slowly moving toward the dystopian world described in Uglies. A world where everyone gets plastic surgery on their 16th birthday.

@collin2304

4 жыл бұрын

It’s sad😭 I can only take selfies with Instagram filters

@jellybelly9662

4 жыл бұрын

I know right... according to plastic surgeons people have stopped coming into consultations with photos of celebrities to look like, and instead photos of either photoshopped IG models or themselves in Snapchat filters. And the doctors always say... no one looks like, that it’s not possible. It’s causing a serious dysmorphia . No one can post a regular photo of them anymore.

@teresamesa

4 жыл бұрын

@@artisticagi seriously!! i've only read a few chapters of the book bc i thought it was to ya for me at the time, but i read the synopsis and reviews and all of that keeps popping up in times like these. everyone has to be perfect to be successful in love and career, there's no margin for humanity anymore. it also reminds me of that twilight zone episode "number 12 looks just like you"

Ugh this is the problem with IG models. I feel bad for kids that will grow up with social media

@RC-gd7nt

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I have a 9 year old daughter and i HATE the fact she will eventually be exposed to filters. They're the absolute worst. I really hate them. I never ever use them.

@ThingsILikke

4 жыл бұрын

Its really not bad. Back in the myspace days they had actually hot girls. No filters and only boobs for plastic surgery. At least girls these days everyone knows is fake.

I deleted all my social media about a year ago and I’ve never felt so free! It was actually hard to do but once it was gone it was so easy to keep up!!! Highly recommend if you can 😃

@tiffanysechrest9301

4 жыл бұрын

I did the same thing!!! So happy without it!

@jessicarc1992

4 жыл бұрын

I did the same one year and a half ago. I am happier and I have lots of free time

@leprechaun8067

4 жыл бұрын

I keep on going to delete my fb and then just going ''deactivate''. I am so scared of deleting it fully, but I am building up to it.

@gee.kay.4787

3 жыл бұрын

same!

@dunnotck1

3 жыл бұрын

I did the same, but I reopened my Instagram account to post my drawings. I don't use it to browse, just to post my drawings. So far it's pretty liberating.

I have like no followers on social media. People say they like authentic but, they don't. People like shiny, fake happy, facetuned, heavily curated. They don't like a selfie where you haven't edited out that pimple on your chin, they don't like when you open up and admit 'actually I'm kinda depressed and anxious right now'. They don't like when you post something you have a real deep passion for. People don't like to see a girl talk about her experiences of sexism and racism, even though we claim to be wanting to listen and believe and show compassion. The other day a model I follow and have become quite friendly with posted in her story an image of a ghost figure surrounded by people and it had the caption "if you feel like you don't fit in this world, it is because you are here to help create a new one" and it hit me right in the feels and I immediately started sobbing. I realize maybe this isn't the society I want to fit into, I'd have to become something I don't like and don't want to be. My life is hard, I struggle, I get depressed. But I'm a good person, I'm honest, I'm philanthropic and kind. I am something else, too, genuinely authentic and people don't like that and therefore they are never going to like me.

I’m a “fat” woman, I’ve lost weight and shared my progress pics only to be told that they’re anti body positivity lmao...my hot take is that if you’re truly positive in your body, what someone else does with theirs won’t change the way you view yourself. If someone posting progress pics offends your plus sized body, are you really body positive?

@angelicaguerino

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats to you!! Everyone should be supportive of a healthy change and it feels good to take good care of yourself. Not posting would be inauthentic and to what- shield them from their own discomfort within themselves? There is definitely some jealousy there. You should be proud, enjoy yourself and celebrate, whatever that looks like for you. Love your default pic.

@Nomnom238

4 жыл бұрын

To me, body positivity means health. It’s deeper than looks. As long as you’re doing it for your health and well being it is indeed body positive. Congratulations girl 🤩

@irinka_kat

4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!!! 💗💗💗

@15minutestoread97

4 жыл бұрын

Most people don't really understand the point of a lot of movements. And if you get shit, is mostly grounded on the fact that people wanna fight and be contrary, because negative attention is better than no attention at all. You wouldn't get those debates in real life. People pour the worst of their psyches online. So don't pay attention to it. KUDOS to you.

@girlnextdoor2836

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats ..And the people criticizing you are just jealous.Dont mind them.

She's insecure about her weight and thats perfectly normal. I think her honesty about her weight would make her more human than denying and photoshopping her way through the lies...jmo

Gratitude journal, entry one: I finally went and bought a Bahn Mi this morning from the cute Vietnamese boy who smiles at me every time I walk past his shop. He was sweet and the sandwich was amazing.

@HD-ks9pk

4 жыл бұрын

Yay go Robert!

Lana Del Rey has also gained quite a bit of weight during this pandemic. She and Aubrey kind of have the same build actually. This has been a year from hell. If food has been a comfort for you, then so be it. The weight can always come off. But blatantly lying about it and editing in a fake photo date? Gtfo with that...

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I saw Lana, she has. Which, ok fine. I feel like everyone had a rough time in quarantine whether that was mental or physical or relational or whatever. Editing one pic, ok whatever. But making that a pathology and a brand...it’s not healthy.

@ThingsILikke

4 жыл бұрын

They aren't using food to cope, they ran out of cash for coke cuz they ain't working either. Guess Lana can't get adderal money from her hedge fund owning parents either. How bad do your habits have to be to pile on that much weight in such a short period of time. So bad for you.

@Starkisssed111

4 жыл бұрын

😅 Facts!

@beccf.s.8012

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment ✨

Who would have thought that your hair looks better in montana than it did in new york

@Jazzyisms

4 жыл бұрын

Omg 😂😂

@taylorcamille5493

4 жыл бұрын

The cleaner air probably helps. Lol.

@thekromekitty

4 жыл бұрын

Probably cost 1/10th the price as well 😍

@laurenlawson5044

4 жыл бұрын

Also the water quality is surely 100% better. Most people don’t realize you should use a shower head filter to keep your hair healthier

@taylorcamille5493

4 жыл бұрын

@@laurenlawson5044 Contrary to popular belief, New York actually has really good tap water. I've never had an issue with hard water here.

Instagram is just constant comparison and its TERRIBLE for our mental health because comparison is truly the thief of joy

@erniesandoval9852

4 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more

@EK-dt4cp

4 жыл бұрын

I deleted mine for the new year and it’s been so great for my mental health. I think everyone should try it for a week at least and see if they feel a difference. 💜 especially if you’re like me, prone to low self esteem and comparing yourself to others...Instagram is a breeding ground for flex culture and insecurity 🥺

The worst part is, she could’ve just owned it and said “yeah guys I got that quarantine 15 on me but I’m out walking the dogs and working hard to get it off” instead of posting yet another photoshopped fail picture 🤨

@user-vv7nm4le4l

4 жыл бұрын

It's not THAT simple, i couldn't do that and i'm not even famous so I can't imagine if you're a celebrity and already have a lot of haters

@15minutestoread97

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-vv7nm4le4l, of course you can, if other people can, so do you. I'm not saying looking to the void that rejection represents is easy, but you have to face it at some point, you cannot live a fake life for the sake of acceptance, which, honestly, is not even real acceptance. Online praise is like fast food; instant gratification, not grounded on anything substantial.

@user-vv7nm4le4l

4 жыл бұрын

@@15minutestoread97 when you see the amount of hate fat people get, it's really not easy to just be f*ck it i'm gonna own it, you have to work on yourself and this can take a looooong time, it doesn't happen overnight. If she can post pictures that look nothing like her knowing people she knows in irl can see them and pretend it's her then the problem is deeper than you think

@khol_6973

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-vv7nm4le4l yeah but she could’ve gotten in front of it instead of posting another fake ass picture. I think the majority of her audience is pissed because she’s a liar, not because she’s fat

@15minutestoread97

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-vv7nm4le4l I hear you, but since my biggest insecurity is the way I express myself, I'm gonna share this message that clicked so hard. "As we evolve it becomes (slowly) more clear that being misunderstood isn't actually rejection. Being misunderstood is an opportunity. An opportunity to love yourself enough to allow people THEIR own truth, while still living your own". Substitute -misunderstood- with any kind of shaming. Shallon also described the -owning it- perfectly in one of her warmed animal videos. 1. You validate yourself. 2. People validates you. 3 Your circumstances change. We've been told is the other way around.

Her and her lawyers’ response to the photos are WAY more embarrassing than the photos themselves

@laurac86

3 жыл бұрын

And now there’s more pictures that came out! Even more embarrassing at this point!!! 😬😬😬

@A2G999

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ellamayoxoxo9510

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

Gratitude journal entry 1: I’m so grateful to my university for awarding me with a scholarship to study a masters on London! I didn’t think I would get it and I realised that the people I’m most jealous of on social media are talented, creative, accomplished women. Self worth issues made me feel like I’d never compare but I’m trying to think more positively. Thank you for your help Shallon!

@ashatawa2807

4 жыл бұрын

congrats!

@JClover2

4 жыл бұрын

You go, girl! Scholarships are tough to get! Congrats!

@sydasipah4170

4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🎉

@judemelroses9920

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations✨

there’s something about shallon that would convince me she’s that spin off of future lizzie mcguire they were making

@Seestorofmordor97

4 жыл бұрын

I could see that!

@katrinashostakovich3607

4 жыл бұрын

Wow accurate 💯🤣

@mona-lisa1187

4 жыл бұрын

And now i cant un-see it.😳

@almondmilksoda

3 жыл бұрын

I support this

@ericamartin7334

3 жыл бұрын

It's the hair!

For the simple fact she got her lawyers into the situation proves it her in those pictures.

@TwoPinkPeasTerri

3 жыл бұрын

Good point!

@angelinaoliver5587

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

Honestly I haven't posted anything in years on Insta because I feel ugly on there but I know in real life I'm not. It's embarassing, everyone else is so overly edited and manufactured that I can't compete

@cherrypop4675

4 жыл бұрын

I relate so much to this

@aboultbee1

4 жыл бұрын

Girl, I feel that.

@faraha2826

4 жыл бұрын

I mean, unless you’re using IG to make money, who cares how many followers or likes you have. I hear you about feeling ugly or even boring in comparison to others. But I kinda feel bad for these girls who are competing in a fake world for attention and money. How exhausting and mentally draining.

@15minutestoread97

4 жыл бұрын

@@faraha2826 Exactly!!! Right on point.

@ofeliaflores3340

4 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way, I can't see pictures of myself. When I do see them, I'm like ok I'm cute

I still can’t believe these pics

I just don’t understand why she would deny that it’s her? What is she just going to do stay indoors so no one ever sees her? Someone is going to see her in public at some point.. It’s really sad. I think all women have struggled with their bodies at some point and her lying is just digging her into a deeper hole and it’s just going to attract more media and drag this out. If she would have just owned it this would be over with in a week but she messed up.

"Would you still go to an event if you couldn't take any photos?" that question gave me chills

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

ME TOO. It was the saddest cringiest awakening of my life.

She was tiny when she came out. Then she got thicker. Played with her body to look like a kardashian and I think between disordered eating habits, drugs and the stuff she did to her body, her body betrayed her and now she is fat. We got to be disciplined and respectful to our bodies.

@elebea868

4 жыл бұрын

kylie jenner I agree. she is Also short. We, short people, even if we gain 5 pounds is noticeable.

@elebea868

4 жыл бұрын

lise hughes calling someone fat is not shaming her. Lots of big girl call themselves fat. It’s how we feel about that word. U think it’s shameful, I see it as facts. We all get fat sometimes. It’s life.

@elebea868

4 жыл бұрын

m yo-yo dieting and having very low cal diets are bad for our metabolism. Out of personal experience, every time I have stayed long time in my smaller sizes ( not my natural weight) then my body turned on me and gained Like 20 pounds in 2 months. A lot for me , I am short. I think she messed up her metabolism with her lifestyle. It takes time , but we can go back to normal. My body is at a normal healthy weight. She looks bloated. Who knows why exactly. I like her. The best one from MTB!

I can’t believe she had a lawyer respond to bad photos of her. They’re not leaked nudes babe.

If you think about her Instagram as a form of performance art, its actually genius.

@Cobaltblueprism

4 жыл бұрын

That's what I was thinking, her alternate reality.

"Comparison is the thief of joy" - attributed to the great Theodore Roosevelt. Shallon you know your history :)

Girl you did her dirty with that thumbnail I'm deaaaad. I feel bad for her, she has always seemed really superficial and surface level which leads to insecurity. Wish her the best, I loved Danity kane

@ashleysalazar2012

3 жыл бұрын

I know. I choked.

Idk what you’ve done different but you are looking extra beautiful Shallon

Shallon, thank you so much for this. Unfollowed a bunch of people from high school on Instagram. I make art & felt stagnant / afraid to post because of their opinions / selective posts they’d like of mine. For years it’s held me back. Your video really resonated with me. It was a tiny, freeing act to a much greater, internal liberation. I thank you for your wisdom. Xoxo

Most people I see on Instagram look nothing like their Instagram accounts

I was legit shook! Like this is next level editing!😱😳

@cloudycloud4171

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I mean how howwwwww

the sound isn't synced with video for me

@MegJuniper

4 жыл бұрын

I thought I was loosing it 😂😂 ever so slightly off

@Bella-lg4ix

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@jasmingandara7862

3 жыл бұрын

Driving me crazzzzyyyyyy

I gained so much weight that I can’t blame her for wanting to appear thinner online that what she really is. It’s depressing af, but I hope she continues to love herself and if she wants to lose weight, that she does it at her own pace.

That’s why I deleted my IG after a few months of getting one years ago. I honestly felt I couldn’t “compete” with the amazing shots already posted or give people images they would press like. I gave up before I really put myself down and plummet my self esteem.

I think Instagram is the worst thing that happened to people they're constantly comparing themselves Never being satisfied never being skinny pretty enough popular Every single girl wants to be a model

I disagree with Shallon on the idea that we need to list things you do or are to prove our value or worth. Your value or worth is simply there because you are alive. Even if you dont make your bed everyday or don't volunteer or aren't a good friend, you are still worthy and have value. 💖

What do you think about this: We haven't evolved to the point where we can intuitively understand what the internet is about. Some people can compartmentalize their real-life from their internet life, they don't take seriously. But I think some people TRULY believe whatever they have on their social media, IS REAL LIFE. AS a marketing tool, is really not that great. Like someone said "you don't get interesting behind a computer/phone" Don't take it so seriously.

She takes editing pictures to a whole other level, she doesn’t even look like a human being in her pics, I’m pretty sure she realizes that no one really thinks that what she posts on Instagram is what she actually looks like. Everyone can see that her pictures are crazy heavily edited. The sad thing about all of it is that she’s absolutely STUNNING just the way she is, and she’s ALWAYS been freaking gorgeous. This goes to show that even the most beautiful people struggle with their image. It’s sad what social media has done to us

She needs to just own the weight gain, and sign a deal with something like Trimspa like Anna Nicole.

@samr9622

4 жыл бұрын

At least she’d make some money right!

@ashleymoravy1526

3 жыл бұрын

Haha that's smart!

Every single photo of me on my IG is totally natural...!! I believe in being natural. Natural beauty is the best beauty...!! Always will be..!!

Just about every celebrity model looks like an alien avatar Including their music videos 👽💀☠

She could have totally made this relatable to her audience. Had she admitted the truth and been honest. Possibly joined with a weight loss program (paid sponsorship) or something and shared her experience with her fans it would have made her seem more human. And possibly could have fpund her self in the spotlight for the right reasons

My best friend once said "surround yourself by people and things that make you feel good to make your own standard of beauty". I was bothered following girls who had hair that didn't look like mine, so I unfollowed and went and found girls who have hair like mine and now I feel pretty.

shallon, i am begging you. please NEVER stop calling me out

Thanks for this video, Shallon! It helps me a lot. I never make public any of the stuff that I do because I feel that as long as I look like shit it doesn't matter. But in the positivity train, I actually am a 28 years old gay vocal coach and today I helped one of my students, a gorgeous young woman who is persuing classical singing, reaching her higher classical register with such a beautiful and healthy tone. We were both super happy and excited about it, because she never had such stability while singing on that register. She worked so hard for it, and of course I feel great that I helped her through the process of it.

I’m just more than shocked. How on earth does she manage to photoshop herself like that. I need answers

@Steph489

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@nancycali4644

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahha Im kinda confused too. That’s next level. Like how????

I personally don’t think her current weight is a good thing, imagine how many unhealthy things you have to eat to get to that, I can’t support anything that will eventually harm your health. It’s not about being an instagram model, which is also toxic because no one actually looks like that, it’s also not about being skinny, it’s about being healthy, as long as you’re healthy, then it is body positivity. We truly don’t know why she’s been gaining weight, you also don’t know why someone is loosing weight, body positivity is more than “damn you look good” I’m a firm believer that how you feel about yourself shows on the outside. There’s a point where you have to take responsibility for yourself, it takes mental and physical strength, and that’s when you start loving yourself.

She would've gotten so much sympathy if she would've just owned it & said she was going through some things All this lying on social media makes me uncomfortable, like girl, we all know its u .... Reminds me of when we saw those kimk beach pics w/ the cellulite & what she really looks like Its all filters & lies

Gratitude really does go along way. When I first got clean it got talked about so much in recovery that I got sick of hearing about it at first lol but it really does change a persons perspective and keep them going. Speaking of gratitude, in November I’ll have 4 years clean, something I’m beyond grateful for 🙏

Your bangs are doing my taxes rn

@wyzasukitan

4 жыл бұрын

Best comment 😂😂

@ayelove1838

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

If I didn’t have social media I think I would be more depressed since I have nothing to do besides social media related things

@dddajdjxx6114

4 жыл бұрын

I completely relate!

she should embrace who she is. you can't be embarrassed for what you love and accept.

@lisahughes-sherring8891

4 жыл бұрын

She's not even fat she's just bigger than she was I am disappointed seeing so many people saying she is fat now when she's clearly dealing with a form disordered eating

@user-vv7nm4le4l

4 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done

@pincmin

4 жыл бұрын

I think she's still processing the changes in her body and how it affects the way she's perceived and treated by people. Because not all people are telling her: Congrats, you are so brave! Of course the healthiest thing to do to love yourself no matter what, I hope she can get to that point.

I remember her from danity Kane. She was SO BEAUTIFUL. She’s really destroyed her body and face :,(

@Mydear___

4 жыл бұрын

Damn smh what if she’s going through something health related and she reads this

@mjbelle23

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing, she was so cute before

@samr9622

4 жыл бұрын

She really was so pretty before. I wonder what prompted her to start touching her face 😪

I always wondered that!!! How come all these girls are always doing photo shoots. Wouldn’t that be exhausting

I absolutely loved the premise of this video Shallon. This is way bigger than Aubrey O’Day for me. Being in this pandemic has revealed that I need to level up my life in more ways than just posting “insta-worthy” moments. I’d hate to wake up one day and realize that I’ve reduced my existence to constantly seeking this type of validation. It’s really time to change some things.

today i woke up earlier..i scrubbed the calcified glass spout in the bathroom ..repotted two ponytail palms..and restrung 4 beaded bracelets that were on the brink of busting...go me.. thx, Shallon! 🔊🎶💕

The photo she posted was definitely old look at her hair it’s completely different. That’s totally her she needs to just own it 🙄

It’s just so weird to me that she’s supposedly not confident in her body yet, she goes out in public wearing that outfit. I’m currently not feeling my best about my body and, as a result, I would personally NEVER wear something like that out in public. Like, maybe she has is super confident because she’s photoshopped so much she has body dysmorphia about her actual appearance (I wish that worked on me). And her denial about her image is literally real denial because she DOESN’T actually see herself as she truly is in real life. 🤯 EDIT: I don’t think there’s anything wrong with her appearance either way! I just want everyone to know what I think could possibly be going on psychologically.. I would never photo shop by image because literally my biggest fear is that I look worse in real life than my social media would depict.

The only social media account I have is twitter and I rarely use it. For me social media is a waste of time and energy. It gives me sensory overload from the amount of information coming in and conflicting opinions on to many topics. I realized in my late twenties that I don't have to have an opinion about everything, that it's ok to say I'm undecided, I don't know, and/or its not my concern. I worry about my own house and stay away from thinking about how I can decorate other people's houses. I share my life with my friends and family in a more personal way. I don't take a bunch of selfies. A lot of times pictures are an after thought because my husband and I are enjoying the moment.

What you said about Instagram... wow. It spoke to me on another level. I deleted the app because it made me so anxious and scared to see other people living a life I don't have even if I know it's fake. Instagram didn't really fill me with joy, KZread does. So I'm happy to hear this from you, I think we're scared of not belonging and social media is part of it but honestly, sometimes we need it for our mental health.

Honestly, your extensive vocabulary makes your material 1000% more interesting ☺️ it’s like attending a class that covers two different subjects

Thank you Shallon, I’m “photogenic” (i just know my angles) and I’m always insecure about looking fake IRL compared to my social media. Tbh I wish I could just walk up to a surgeon and be like “make me look like this picture” because it’s not even photoshop or filters

I thought this bird went out with Pauly D and she was teeny tiny??

@sarahschouveller1993

4 жыл бұрын

She was back in the day!

@missmack2328

4 жыл бұрын

That was a looong time ago. Pauly d dates some black girl now

Her 🤚 hands are huuuuuuge compared to the rest of her body. It does look photoshopped

@TinyRedFlags

4 жыл бұрын

One hand looks normal and the other hand holding the sign looks like it's probably her current hand.

@kats.5958

4 жыл бұрын

Well....shes also fat in real life, so she probably has fat hands lol.

I’m grateful for women like Shallon that speak up about real problems that we all face. She cuts the bullshit and gives step by step guidelines to become a better you ❤️ the best moment of my day was allowing myself to eat yummy foods without looking at the calories! God bless XO

I’m a grad student in A School Psychology Program. In trainings, we speak A LOT about Gratitude and positive psychology for ourselves, for youth, for everyone! I do WhatsGood, which is an app that you can set at any time of the day. I do mine at lunch time, when it asks me what’s good? And it reminds me to dig into what I’m grateful for everyday. Even when I’m in a funky mood or nit picking at myself, it helps me think about a positive and immediately makes me feel better. That’s just a brain muscle you have to flex at least once a day!

i find myself being most inauthentic when i am feeling low or jealous. I start posting lies about my life and how great it is. I am getting better at that now though.

She should teach a class about how to use all the photoshop apps. I think if she was honest and authentic people would have her back. We can all relate.

Kisses from Poland it’s like 1 am here lol 🤣❤️

@karina4747

4 жыл бұрын

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@Agnieszka11102

4 жыл бұрын

Polska❤❤❤

@weronikaww2887

4 жыл бұрын

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@justynaa5993

4 жыл бұрын

🇵🇱 🙂

@Julia-ow4st

4 жыл бұрын

witam polskich shallonersów 💗🇵🇱

I don’t even know how I stumbled across your channel but I am so thrilled to have found you! This video was so insightful for me. Thank you!

I just watched Aubrey on an pod cast, two years later…I have to say she gives a great interview.

I feel like this: it’s her body-just own it. If her IM is meant to be a self art type account: just say that. My folks on mine know I do that because I tell them, as an artist I do this stuff all the time. Also, I’m plus sized myself right now. I used to drive myself & others around me insane body shaming myself, putting myself on crazy diets, losing weight only to gain a bunch of it back. Just love yourself for yourself, wear what you want to and own it. If that’s what she wanted to wear in these pics, I see no problem. She was walking her dog and being herself. I’d be like, “Yeah, this is me, and?!” I love this channel. I literally just discovered it. New sub :)

Nobody should be fat positive. Being fat is ALWAYS unhealthy

Tbh fake and insecure people don't produce anything bc they're so focused on fitting in. People who do produce and change the world just leave them behind. I think they're not aware of how much they're being ignored.

You know the old saying: "I'm fat, but you're ugly, and I can lose weight." 🤣

Nah I fr love how she said stalk yourself... because.. ME asf 😂 Thought I was weird, but I legit be looking back at pics of myself I’m proud of whenever I’m feeling down or having a routine“fat day” during shark week. And tbh I do be feeling hype about myself again, like tf am I acting like I’m not killing it or why am I comparing myself to girls on insta who I genuinely don’t even want to look like 🤦🏻‍♀️ ?? I’m going to stick to being my own competition & “inspo” because at least I know that’s attainable and actually real 💯 Love watching Shallon, I always feel smarter& better for it!

Breakups in a small town are the worst because EVERYBODY KNOWS and EVERYBODY TALKS ABOUT YOU.

I feel really really really bad for her! Quarantine has been really rough mentally and physically for many. I’ve gained weight and won’t even post a body pic cuz I feel ugly :( But anyways let’s be real id be comfort eating if I had an affair with Donald trump jr too 🥴

She needs to dress for her body size and shape. The outfit doesn't flatter her shape. However, her face looks better...less artificial.

No one : Shallon : I was the editor of star magazine....

@tiat3137

4 жыл бұрын

Ugh go post this annoying meme format on a prank video.

@khyati7733

4 жыл бұрын

@@tiat3137 😂

Aww, i think Shallon is being way too tough on Aubrey. Not cool.

I realize that these days I don’t know how to be happy, or feel happy for that matter. And I don’t want to feel this way anymore. I don’t really like writing, but I love taking pictures so I made an Instagram account to take a photo of something that made me happy every day. As of right now, I don’t want to edit the photos all that much but thank you Shallon for helping me realize there may be a way to smile more again

My best friend that I love more than anything does this, posts edited photos of her and her body to the point of not wanting to meet people in person because she always gets comments about how she doesn’t look like her photos, I try and support her about her imagine but she just won’t budge. I know she’s insecure but I always wonder if its worth her anxiety every time she leaves the house to keep up this persona she puts out

Great advice! I have self esteem issues and tryin to rebuild it! Didn’t expect to hear this and such good messages on how to find yourself. Love the journal ideas too

The audio sync was messing with my head a little, but still listened!! Montana agrees with you, Shallon.

Did you see Lana Del Rey gained like 50 pounds too- apparently she stopped taking adderal and gained all the weight

@charmaineespeut4627

4 жыл бұрын

Her fat ass have the nerve to call her self dainty

@colleenmcnally9418

4 жыл бұрын

Shes still gorgeous 💕💕

@Myaccount923

4 жыл бұрын

Charmaine Espeut 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

@zoeapostolidou3964

4 жыл бұрын

@@charmaineespeut4627 how sad your life must be, dude

@Alexandra-ew3ep

4 жыл бұрын

Adderal? How do you know it?

Lol she is reading the shit outta her in a nice nasty way 😂😂

Well I look like my instagram pictures. People who do alter themselves to look totally nothing like they really look don't really like themselves or accept themselves

oh man, i loved this video!!! the kid thing triggers me sometimes too. "we get it, you have a kid!" lol :)

It is definitely Aubrey in those pictures & YES she is very insecure about her weight. I remember one night about a year ago, she went on IG Live with the singer Aaron Carter and I remember she kept her screen black (wouldn’t show her face). Aaron kept asking her to show her face but she was like, “Oh babe, I don’t have any makeup on.” She’s just a highly insecure person.

2 years later and Aubrey has been photographed on the street looking healthier and has dropped almost 3 sizes from what it looks like in the new paparazzi videos I’ve seen. Yet nobody talks about that …

@GlitterAubrey

Жыл бұрын

This video is giving the vibe where you want her to fail and you are happy to expose her and put her in her place for what she really looked like. You really dragged her 😂

I don’t understand how you aren’t a psychologist! You and your advice are amazing! Thank you, I’m so glad I found your channel ♥️

The lawyer should have insisted Aubrey drop the "unedited" photo with the date on it that she took, to his office herself. So he could actually see what she looks like in real time.

Kind of reminds me of a more extreme version of when Mischa Barton gained weight.

Kate Winslet is one of the stars who doesn't care about becoming so skinny she talks openly that sometimes she loses weight for a certain movie if needed and she hates photoshoped pics

Getting young Kim Cattrall vibes w this eye/bangs combo. Cute!

It's kinda hypocritical of you when you talk about this issue but in the beginning you said you dont want to be caught in an outfit like that unless your bella hadid.

@marias2656

4 жыл бұрын

Why can bella fucking hadid and people who have bodies like hers wear an outfit like that but others cant be caught in an outfit like that. Our society sucks

I think almost everyone uses filters now, sad but true!!! This pic of Aubrey is not cute and anyone would be upset because clearly it was just a day of her running around. We all gain and lose weight and Aubrey should just own it and keep it real. I think the fact that she is denying her weight gain is what makes it worse. Just own it and say, yes I have gained weight and that's it . Everyone would respect her more for it!!!

Love your work 💋

That shirt is so pretty!

Once again, may I request a video on Paris Hilton 💖🍻

@babyfish1083

4 жыл бұрын

Shallon, I just watched Paris Hilton's advice for a first date and she said: 1. Wear Paris Hilton perfume 2. Be confident 3. Have fun 4. Play hard to get Total alpha female like what you describe.

Yes girl! Speaking truths! When I watch your videos, it’s as if I’m listing to my best girlfriend. With the, “biiiitch 😒🤚🏻”.

Thank you for sharing this video Most people don't know most of what you see is photo shopped