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  • @marinareis8375
    @marinareis83753 жыл бұрын

    "I don't know why love and reality have become mortal enemies." Preach.

  • @lilmakori
    @lilmakori3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe it's the hopeless romantic in me, but I really hope her engagement lasts and she's happy.

  • @hilo6487

    @hilo6487

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @saikikarin320

    @saikikarin320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same.

  • @PaolaTheTimeLord

    @PaolaTheTimeLord

    3 жыл бұрын

    same here girl

  • @TheSkaterJo

    @TheSkaterJo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed, yeah she’s rushed into a bit but tbh it seems like they’ve dated for about a year so let’s just leave them to it. She seems happy

  • @mircat530

    @mircat530

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I love her and I just want happiness for her.

  • @nylal493
    @nylal4933 жыл бұрын

    I don’t understand these rushed engagements that are so popular with celebrities... if someone proposed to me after just a few months of knowing each other I’d be weirded out, is that just me??

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    definitely not just you, i believe it takes at least 2 years to get to know someone fully

  • @tashansofwa2426

    @tashansofwa2426

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Chloe-ul3vd this is my opinion but I don’t think so. I think you can know someone fairly well within 6 months, I think the difference is after 2 years you’re more aware of their character flaws and how they’re not going away. So I think pay attention to seemingly innocuous things, and have hard conversations. We often expect people to change and after knowing them for years we’re suddenly aware that they’re not. But those things were always there you just ignored them because they were new. The people I’ve known for years have not drastically changed from who they were when I’d known them for 6 months.

  • @mimil.2606

    @mimil.2606

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Chloe-ul3vd definitely like time will show many things about people and few months isn’t enough even if they seem nice. They could be different later on really I think it’s better to be sure by waiting and not regret it later .

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tashansofwa2426 either way they’ve only dated for about 12 months, still early in my opinion to get engaged

  • @tashansofwa2426

    @tashansofwa2426

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Chloe-ul3vd you do realize dating for 5 years doesn’t mean your relationship is going to last? How long you date someone guarantees nothing, when as a society are we gonna to realize there is no formula to this.

  • @SilverstreamPJ28
    @SilverstreamPJ283 жыл бұрын

    People need to realize that the honeymoon phase can last up to two years and why not just WAIT. Sometimes I think we forget that the importance of marriage is being a wife, not a bride.

  • @SoftTangerineDreams

    @SoftTangerineDreams

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see it as: 1) Go through the honeymoon phase and come out the other side. 2) Move in together 3) Spend at least a year living together so you really get to feel out who they are when they let their guard down at home. Maybe then you can get married, but please take it slow... Nothing really changes when you get married, but everything changes when you need to end it and you will most likely always find yourself in a situation where you need to get out if you rush in too fast.

  • @SilverstreamPJ28

    @SilverstreamPJ28

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SoftTangerineDreams 100% agreed!

  • @marissabellantoni5505

    @marissabellantoni5505

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES I love that distinction.

  • @Goldforever-vp8zq

    @Goldforever-vp8zq

    3 жыл бұрын

    Little Darling you don’t have to sleep with someone to find out there the right persons. Statistics show it worse to move in with someone before married because you are giving him wife privileges. If you have to live with someone first to know if you love them you don’t love them enough and you also are not truly committed and you also don’t know yourself enough. Ladies be careful most men know if they see you as a potential wife within a couple dates some know on the first date. The more you know yourself the more you trust and look out for signs that this person is for you. When you play house before a ring not only is it morally wrong but you get burnt too.

  • @Goldforever-vp8zq

    @Goldforever-vp8zq

    3 жыл бұрын

    iLexy 3 like I said the more you know yourself the less time it takes to figure out someone’s character but the minute most women sleep with a man you have a bias towards him even if all the signs are pointing to no. and women have a very powerful thing called female intuition which is a gut feeling when you are very in tune with your self and there’s also another thing we have which is ears I can pick up red flags with someone from meeting them once from what they say and also more importantly what they don’t say tells me a lot about them. This also goes for people who are just nice if they never express negative emotions that’s a flag in itself. I can even spot insecurity in a person just from body language.This takes time and practice but I do not have to live with someone to know their character. Fully loving someone unconditionally can take 10 years but you can get the essence and character of a person from a few weeks to months

  • @kerrylyndsay902
    @kerrylyndsay9023 жыл бұрын

    Arianna played Annie at age 8 in Ft. Lauderdale Theater and hasn’t stopped since. From old interviews, it looks like her mother was pushy and wanted a child star. Lots of WEIRD happened with Nickelodeon and Dan Schneider’s iCarly+Victorious shows. And her pop star status keeps getting stronger and stronger. Maybe she desperately wants some calmness and stability in her life and is jumping at the possible chance with a “right” man. Not relatable, but relatable.

  • @Usertbh

    @Usertbh

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s true her mother actually wanted her to become famous

  • @No.no.no.no.nothankyou

    @No.no.no.no.nothankyou

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this context 👍

  • @kimberlyward350

    @kimberlyward350

    3 жыл бұрын

    And don't forget Scooter Braun is her manager.

  • @No.no.no.no.nothankyou

    @No.no.no.no.nothankyou

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kimberlyward350 ooof - good point 😐 if the way he treated Taylor Swift is any indicator, I’ll be praying that Ari makes it out of that contract unscathed

  • @kimberlyward350

    @kimberlyward350

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@No.no.no.no.nothankyou exactly what I meant by bringing it up! Also- I find it creepy that in response to engagement news he even commented directly to Dalton with, "you are a lucky man"- imagine your manager telling your fiance they are lucky they got you.

  • @EC-dg6ti
    @EC-dg6ti3 жыл бұрын

    A video about what we can learn from Christina Aguilera? She's never been in a relationship with another celebrity. She seems really chill and happy when it comes to her relationships.

  • @pragmaticfilly0

    @pragmaticfilly0

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh, yes x1000!

  • @nicoleowens2318

    @nicoleowens2318

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have never thought about this, that would be a great video

  • @chaimaelaissaoui6870

    @chaimaelaissaoui6870

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cause shes not an attention seeker and probably has an amazing personnality ,good for her !!

  • @vondonstrut218

    @vondonstrut218

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think she doesn't entirely care for the clout that a high profile relationship would get her. She also just never talks about her relationships ever, so even if it was a celeb lol, I wouldn't even know

  • @schnioula

    @schnioula

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, her first serious relationship was with her background dancer (who became gay) and her first marriage with her manager (who apparently cheated on her according to her „you lost me“ lyrics). People need to gain her trust to be with her, spend time with her. She surely does need time to build a relationship with men.

  • @user-wl7uw7qc7q
    @user-wl7uw7qc7q3 жыл бұрын

    The devil works hard but Shallon works harder

  • @kellyfromflorida

    @kellyfromflorida

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jjpatterson7201 🙌🏼

  • @Beverlysoh

    @Beverlysoh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jjpatterson7201 if you hate her so passionately why are you here? Let people watch what they want to watch and if it’s not your cup of tea, then leave. It’s literally a click away. You going on and on about how horrible she is just sounds like a personal vendetta towards her and trying to convince other people who enjoy watching her to stop. Maybe do something better with your time that actually brings you joy.

  • @Beverlysoh

    @Beverlysoh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jjpatterson7201 I don’t hate you commenting I’m confused and asking you why you’re commenting on a video of a person you clearly don’t like or enjoy. And not just commenting but full on ranting back and forth with people who like her lol Maybe go do something more positive with your time, that’s all.

  • @Beverlysoh

    @Beverlysoh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jjpatterson7201 lol I said what I said

  • @PorcupineGirl

    @PorcupineGirl

    3 жыл бұрын

    Goddamn right.

  • @fotinidimou5829
    @fotinidimou58293 жыл бұрын

    Ariana has serious daddy issues. She comes from a home where her dad was rumoured to be an alcoholic. It was a really toxic environment growing up til her parents divorced. She didn't even keep her dad's last name and they had turbulent relationship. I found my self in a similar situation growing up with an abusive father, trying to make a husband out of every boyfriend. That was until my therapist told me it was because I, like Ariana, had a really bad family growing up, so I subconsciously felt like my purpose is to create a happy, solid family myself in order to redo it in my head, as fast as possible. It needs a lotttt of work to get past the trauma and really forgiving the ones who hurt you and most importantly yourself.

  • @jennym7786

    @jennym7786

    3 жыл бұрын

    i get this issue you described, with justin bieber as well. he gives off vibes that he is so desperate to have a stable family (his season's documentary really showcased this), that he rushed to marry hailey, and he's always talking about how he's gonna be when he's a father. i feel really sad for him, that he can't find validation and purpose in himself as just a young man.

  • @nishaaaaaaaaaaa

    @nishaaaaaaaaaaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    where was that rumored?

  • @sweetluvgurl

    @sweetluvgurl

    3 жыл бұрын

    A lot of traumas like that cause personality disorders.

  • @thyla3112

    @thyla3112

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nishaaaaaaaaaaa some of it was said by ariana herself like her parents being divorced when she was eight and her and her father having a weird relationship but i don’t know about the alcoholic father part 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @mysticalhuman

    @mysticalhuman

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your comment struck a deep chord

  • @Chloe-ul3vd
    @Chloe-ul3vd3 жыл бұрын

    seems like she’s only known him for a few months, that’s still the honeymoon phase, you have no idea the depth of a person within that time.

  • @minimalistvlogger3467

    @minimalistvlogger3467

    3 жыл бұрын

    i think theyve known each other for over a year but i could be wrong

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@minimalistvlogger3467 they’ve only dated for a few months is what i meant ☺️ thanks for the info tho, i didn’t know that!!

  • @halibutrzeczny72

    @halibutrzeczny72

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes. And only after 5-6 months of dating you stop being blinded by a partners looks and focus more on the rest.

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@halibutrzeczny72 that’s so true!

  • @petrauhrakova

    @petrauhrakova

    3 жыл бұрын

    They started dating in the beginning of 2020, she was just keeping it secret, because she didn’t want to make this relationship as public as the one with Pete Davidson.

  • @JohnJohn-yl7ur
    @JohnJohn-yl7ur3 жыл бұрын

    Finally someone talked about this lost soul!!! She keeps rushing into stuff with new guys it’s so strange she always acts if its the love of her life then suddenly they’re broken up

  • @rstremcha

    @rstremcha

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. I'm like I don't see anything special here 😂 she needs a real man who can give her the same level of push that she gives. I feel like she dates guys she can use. I love her. But I don't think she dates the right guys for her. She needs an athlete or something

  • @EllisSkyypage

    @EllisSkyypage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea and then go run and make a song about not needing a man and being an independent bad bitch. 🙄

  • @MySweetAriane

    @MySweetAriane

    3 жыл бұрын

    Spot on

  • @sagunrai8689

    @sagunrai8689

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@EllisSkyypage most of her songs are about romance?

  • @garammasalathot
    @garammasalathot3 жыл бұрын

    “Love is logistics” - period.

  • @itsme2434

    @itsme2434

    3 жыл бұрын

    Meaning pls ?

  • @Valeria-du8bq

    @Valeria-du8bq

    3 жыл бұрын

    what does that mean

  • @grazielaalmeida8438

    @grazielaalmeida8438

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Valeria-du8bq It means that you and your partner gonna have a lot of down time discussing about how the future of your relationship gonna be. How you gonna share income, if the two of you wanna kids and how many, where do you gonna live, how you gonna save up this money to buy the house, pay the bills and on top of all, how you gonna manage to continue together after the sparkle from the beginning of the relationship fades away.

  • @inka9321
    @inka93213 жыл бұрын

    To be honest he‘s probably the best boyfriend she ever had. Her family seems happy for her. Maybe he‘s good for her. This doesn’t seem so wrong as before. She doesn‘t post him as much as Pete and Mac. He seems very private just like Taylor Swifts boyfriend. Taylor was just as Ari until she found Joe. Maybe Ari can finally be happy.

  • @poorveekalyanialla6867

    @poorveekalyanialla6867

    3 жыл бұрын

    Totally agreed

  • @inka9321

    @inka9321

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Andy UGoonie not really. Her mother said she never liked on of her boyfriends and they didn‘t congratulated her on Instagram when she was engaged to Pete

  • @nishaaaaaaaaaaa

    @nishaaaaaaaaaaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Andy UGoonie you’re making that up, they may have been nice enough to him but absolutely none of her friends or family did a big congratulations when she and pete got engaged. he never met her dad either. scooter hyped them up because petes his friend and nicki minaj loved him but we know about her taste in dudes 🙄 after they broke up her best friend was kinda open about how much she hated him, and ariana has said multiple times how her friends and family were unapproving of her choices around that time

  • @oliviakowerko4426

    @oliviakowerko4426

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s so insulting to Ariana 😂 Taylor swift literally had as many boyfriends as she has songs

  • @yasmined16

    @yasmined16

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you ☺️

  • @kyynae
    @kyynae3 жыл бұрын

    I definitely think that quarantine has made them think that they know so much about each other. Quarantine has given celebrities a sense of normalcy in not having to go out and do celebrity things, feeling settled down in their homes, being unrecognizable w masks in public. When things get back going again for her I hope they'll both still see eye to eye and not think they just needed each other during a quarantine or in rough times.

  • @Taylord8

    @Taylord8

    3 жыл бұрын

    You explained it perfectly 🙏🏾

  • @TheRealChereeses
    @TheRealChereeses3 жыл бұрын

    It’s funny because this time last year Ariana was saying that she needs to be alone and single for a while. And boom, here she is again engaged! I think she so desperately wants the cookie cutter family before she’s in her 30s and she latched on to the first guy who wasn’t a complete asshole.

  • @LK-vz8xc

    @LK-vz8xc

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, like her whole tu,n era was about being single and shit

  • @sunny100294

    @sunny100294

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t even want a Perfect Family or anything but i just desperately want love... so I also latched on the first guy who isn’t a complete asshole 🙈

  • @mikayla5185

    @mikayla5185

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@LK-vz8xc it wasn’t it was about being broken

  • @elementohsix
    @elementohsix3 жыл бұрын

    Ariana needs to make it past the honey moon phase to see if she really likes these guys. Once that feeling has passed and you guys start facing things together, that’s when you know if they will be a good partner or not.

  • @cloud9xo16

    @cloud9xo16

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t see this relationship lasting

  • @Darima2
    @Darima23 жыл бұрын

    Looks like Ariana is the JLo of her generation, just jumping from man to man, engagement to engagement, marriage to marriage. JLo has recently admitted that she just couldn't stand to be alone ie. was desperate to find a man, get a man, keep a man. She's only now at 50 learned that you need to actually discern who the Right man is. Didn't Ariana learn anything from Demi and that whole debacle? I feel during this pandemic, some form of trauma binding has occurred with new couples deciding to live together through it and then get engaged. Also.. he looks like a young teenage boy.

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    right! quarantine is not real everyday life!!

  • @kathyalex778

    @kathyalex778

    3 жыл бұрын

    That teenage boy part is really important. I think her level of understanding of the dating world is at a teenager’s level, I wonder if starting to date young and being famous since a young age has to do with this? Also being surrounded by bad men since childhood too of course (I definitely believe that you can only learn to weed out dusty men with a good father figure)

  • @GeminiXOXO24

    @GeminiXOXO24

    3 жыл бұрын

    Trauma bonding is for real! I never thought about it that way

  • @shallonlester

    @shallonlester

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oof-the Jlo of her generation! It’s so true. Like just BE. SINGLE. It’s interesting that all the messiest celebs (in terms of their lives lives) (Demi, Ariana, Justin) are managed by Scooter Braun 🧐

  • @jenniferdelgado2834

    @jenniferdelgado2834

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish she had taken time to be alone and love herself and learn what she wants

  • @missminti
    @missminti3 жыл бұрын

    Never been in a relationship that went slowly, until now in my mid thirties. Mainly because I had nothing and looked to men to rescue me. My mind set has changed and so has my outlook on relationships. IMO the first year is bullshit, everyone on their best. Get to year three still living apart and owning nothing jointly, then commit fully. You don’t know jack about anyone until that 3rd year. Especially because witnessing a bored mate, which usually happens by then, will show you a lot more than any other circumstance will. How a person handles boredom makes or breaks.

  • @morountodunokedara

    @morountodunokedara

    3 жыл бұрын

    this is very very true ! you're so correct on all these points.

  • @wstotw

    @wstotw

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@wakeupcecil hahahahaha 😂

  • @Shenay_braaf

    @Shenay_braaf

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yip👏🏻🙌🏼same conversation i had with some of my girl friends especially during this pandemic they feel “why wait” you’ve explained this beautifully🙂

  • @denisereadstarot

    @denisereadstarot

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true! I always say give it three years

  • @grazielaalmeida8438

    @grazielaalmeida8438

    3 жыл бұрын

    I believe 1 year and six months is enough to get engaged, and marriage after 2 years of relationship. Before this people are still blinded by passion and exitement.

  • @hannahi9355
    @hannahi93553 жыл бұрын

    I hate how people force parenthood and marriage down our throats. Notice how it's always the miserable underachievers that want everyone to get married. As the child of a miserable, unfulfilled parent please, please pursue your career first. It's not fun for the kids either.

  • @grazielaalmeida8438

    @grazielaalmeida8438

    3 жыл бұрын

    It hits home for me, I am the child of an unfulfilled couple that are together for 50 years. They foisted upon me marriage and kids. I can marry in the future and maybe have children, but first I wanna go out of the poor area that I live and give to my future kids what I don't have. Like you said, undrrachievers couples like to talk shit about single people, calling them unhappy, in especial unhappy wives like to call single women a hopeless spinter.

  • @JLM498

    @JLM498

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯💯👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Tina-wx5hq

    @Tina-wx5hq

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree girl my career will come before I marry !!!

  • @coolcucumber2067

    @coolcucumber2067

    3 жыл бұрын

    This this this but also people need to reevaluate why they feel they need to lose themselves and their dream once they have a family, like lose themselves completely. Don't put yourself in a box for the rest of your life as only this role who can do certain things just cuz you have a family is so sad

  • @shaylaschonning9714
    @shaylaschonning97143 жыл бұрын

    He looks like Natalie Portman with short hair lol

  • @deborahlukaluuu

    @deborahlukaluuu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ooooch

  • @TheCassyns
    @TheCassyns3 жыл бұрын

    I was so sick during my entire relationship with my toxic ex. Once I was out I had NO symptoms it was insane

  • @shaggy_lemons

    @shaggy_lemons

    3 жыл бұрын

    Read the body keeps count. It's a book that gives scientific analysis about what you experienced.

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    so was i!!!! a whole year

  • @avona14
    @avona14 Жыл бұрын

    Shallon is right a lot.

  • @messelina

    @messelina

    Жыл бұрын

    Right? I thought of this video after the news broke

  • @heathersaylor3379
    @heathersaylor33793 жыл бұрын

    Literally didn't even know she was dating this guy!!! 😂😂😂

  • @rhythm5411

    @rhythm5411

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same i was so confused hearing the news LOOL

  • @shirleyjusino7269

    @shirleyjusino7269

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oops Ariana did it again, Pete 2.0. I love her songs and style , but she’s going to learn the hard way. I want her to be happy, but at 8 or 9 months, Shallon is right, what happens when life goes back to normal? What happens when she’s away or he’s away , or tragedy, stress, or hard times really hits them?

  • @halibutrzeczny72

    @halibutrzeczny72

    3 жыл бұрын

    SAME ONLY FOUND OUT THRU THIS VIDEO

  • @michellebenedetti729

    @michellebenedetti729

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hay que buscar más de este hombre Viera

  • @Onyai

    @Onyai

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me!!

  • @Chloe-ul3vd
    @Chloe-ul3vd3 жыл бұрын

    she’s only 27! what’s the rush? just because you fall hard for someone very quickly doesn’t mean that you need to get married within a few months

  • @tothosethatwander

    @tothosethatwander

    3 жыл бұрын

    In two years she will be almost 30 and then yall will say shes getting up there lol. But this seems like a rush

  • @maddie9655

    @maddie9655

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think she has such a hard time being alone. She has literally never been single her entire life, even when she was a teenager. I hope she is happy and I hope that she gets to walk down the aisle, but I think she needs to learn to be alone instead of going guy to guy.

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tothosethatwander 30 is very young. i’d rather take time and have a child and be married to my soulmate at whatever age, rather than rush into it and regret it later.

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@maddie9655 i agree, she does have this need to be with a man. but i hope she’s happy, she deserves the best.

  • @l0v3existsXOXO

    @l0v3existsXOXO

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tothosethatwander 30 is young too! I’m 23 but I really don’t have much of a desire to get married/settle down until I’m in my mid 30s. Everyone’s different tho

  • @brendabanuelos194
    @brendabanuelos1943 жыл бұрын

    "Craft a life you dont want to run away from" I love that Escapism is how I used to label my constant need to have a crush or interesting guy to focus on so I could daydream and romanticize it to stimulate good feelings in me, so i wouldnt focus on the depression i felt while at home watching my parents live out a toxic marriage. Now that ive gained experience, ive realized, the whole time my soul was screaming for me to heal and redirect my love back into myself instead of directing it out onto guys, who tbh they werent even that amazing or special if i really looked at them (not to bash, but that need to escape reality to feel love is what blinded me from the truth that i needed that love, i needed that support, i wanted to feel joy, so im practicing now how to "create a life i dont want to run away from" and really does all start from inside of our selves)

  • @didostempest2966

    @didostempest2966

    3 жыл бұрын

    Word. ♥️

  • @anamersi4888
    @anamersi48883 жыл бұрын

    Shallon you were spot on with Demi’s situation and literally called the break up right before it happened so anything you say is gold at this point 😂

  • @VanessaTorres-gm7zg
    @VanessaTorres-gm7zg3 жыл бұрын

    Shallon, this is AMAZING insight because I'm active duty in the military and I see SO many rushed and toxic relationships. (because you know how the system rewards marriage, ugh)

  • @evashawn9806

    @evashawn9806

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m also military too (navy) & so many I’ve joined with have gotten married right off the bat!...I almost got married myself 😅🥲

  • @VanessaTorres-gm7zg

    @VanessaTorres-gm7zg

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@evashawn9806 Hooyah I'm navy too 😊 and you see so many married cheaters as well! Smh

  • @themango9644

    @themango9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nicoleowens2318 that is so tragic omfg

  • @SamanthaN92
    @SamanthaN923 жыл бұрын

    She's known this guy like 3 days. No judgment. I personally dont care what Ariana does. But it seems like she does jump into relationships quickly. She seems like the type that cannot stay single for long. If she does make it to the aisle, then more power and happiness to her. Another called off engagement isnt going to look good especially since she's only 27.

  • @hangoutwithme346

    @hangoutwithme346

    3 жыл бұрын

    She’s known him for a few yrs actually 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @juliak9085

    @juliak9085

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hangoutwithme346 source?

  • @paola7045

    @paola7045

    3 жыл бұрын

    And why should she care if it looks good or not?

  • @DianaMillan

    @DianaMillan

    3 жыл бұрын

    Another called off engagement might not look good, but would certainly FEEL better than a miserable marriage. I wish her the best.

  • @hangoutwithme346

    @hangoutwithme346

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@juliak9085 He’s been her real estate agent for years and they started dating beginning of 2020. Just not publicly. You can google it from multiple articles. I just think Shallon jumped the gun a bit on this reaction video by trying to get it out the day of the news. I think the lessons are more that she finally found a non chaotic healthy partner after dealing with so many broken men for so long.

  • @eliasvandrea9456
    @eliasvandrea94563 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I think she really needs constant stimulation, I can see it in her Netflix documentary, when Mac passed away a lot of people wondered why she continued touring included me, why she didn’t heal in private ? , and in a tour, celebrities had a lot of stimulation and are adored by their fans, so I think she regulate hers emotional state in this things , like being loved

  • @eee9266

    @eee9266

    3 жыл бұрын

    ... It’s not about stimulation tho. Getting back on your feet IS apart of the healing process. She returned ready to work and make music. That’s how she healed.

  • @pri.sci.lla.
    @pri.sci.lla.3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so excited for this. I think her ring is pretty but also kind of strange looking? Definitely unique.

  • @lynninfinite

    @lynninfinite

    3 жыл бұрын

    The pearl is from a ring her grandma gave her

  • @aaolsen1

    @aaolsen1

    3 жыл бұрын

    I loved it!

  • @pri.sci.lla.

    @pri.sci.lla.

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lynninfinite yeah I think it’s pretty and sweet

  • @coradelaney4936

    @coradelaney4936

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pearls are really soft to be in an engagement ring. This is assuming she’d wear it every day. I wanted an aquamarine engagement ring, maybe opal but learned they’re both too fragile for daily wear. Ended up with a sapphire. Really like Ari’s ring and I’m impressed by the unique design, definitely doing their own thing, super cool

  • @pri.sci.lla.

    @pri.sci.lla.

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@coradelaney4936 yeah I think the pearl engagement thing is popular among some celebs. An aquamarine sounds so nice, I didn’t know they didn’t make good long term jewelry.

  • @elebea868
    @elebea8683 жыл бұрын

    She has way too much money for her own good. She can make bad decisions without truly suffering the consequences... for now.

  • @ayla8345

    @ayla8345

    3 жыл бұрын

    What does her having money to do with her getting engaged ? Lol

  • @solo-de5kx

    @solo-de5kx

    3 жыл бұрын

    guys are after her money i feel. of course this guy will rush, he found a gold mine.

  • @KubPlaz

    @KubPlaz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@solo-de5kx pretty sure he has a net worth of like 20 mil

  • @lavenderbambi3501

    @lavenderbambi3501

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@solo-de5kx he's la estate agent, and he has private ig where he doesn't post anything so he's not after fame either

  • @solo-de5kx

    @solo-de5kx

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@KubPlaz i have seen people with a lot of money chase people with even more money. he is obviously leveling up with her like Pete was. that's why those guys rush for mariage. You have to be after fame to get in a relationship with a superstar because it is a lifestyle. because it is quarantine there were no paparazzi pictures wait until everyone is out and about on red carpets and stuff.

  • @wanderingsoul2931
    @wanderingsoul29313 жыл бұрын

    I don’t take her seriously. She hasn’t even dated this guy a year. She romanticizes the thought of marriage. And he looks like Pete

  • @jpg1392

    @jpg1392

    3 жыл бұрын

    Flor Fernandez I always felt bad for Mac. I felt like Ari did him dirty. Very shortly after her and Mac broke up she “started” dating Pete. I feel like she cheated on Mac, but I don’t really have evidence. She just doesn’t know how to keep herself fulfilled on her own, and her constant need for male validation is actually really worrisome. She’s a great artist though. Hope things work out for her this time

  • @themango9644

    @themango9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    She has a type. Maybe she feels like she running out of time. We don't know what's going on in her mind

  • @themango9644

    @themango9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jpg1392 she said on an interview she fell for pete during snl. She was dating mac during snl...so emotional cheating i see it lol. She was also blamed for cheating in her past relationships before mac too

  • @ccv627

    @ccv627

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@themango9644 yea Ariana did catch feelings for Pete when she hosted on snl which was March 2016, ariana and mac didn’t start dating until august of 2016 so no she didn’t fall for Pete when she was dating Mac Miller. Just wanted to make that clear.

  • @themango9644

    @themango9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ccv627 interesting. How do you know when her n mac started dating? Kinda weird

  • @pragmaticfilly0
    @pragmaticfilly03 жыл бұрын

    I've followed her since the nickelodeon days, and unfortunately she's never been single for a long period of time. Besides Mac, I've never got any good vibes from her exes, especially Pete. But this new guy does seem low key, and sweet. I just hope they work out together. But she still needs to work on herself :/ i hope nothing for the best for her

  • @maheenm.k1015

    @maheenm.k1015

    3 жыл бұрын

    I never got good vibes from mac either. I felt like he was a terrible choice for her being a drug addict and having severe mental health issues that she thinks she can "save" him from. I was so happy when she left him, but it feels like she can't be with a guy unless he's bad for her in some way. I wonder whats gonna come out about this new guy.

  • @pragmaticfilly0

    @pragmaticfilly0

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@maheenm.k1015 I think Mac definitely had so many issues, clearly. But as a person, I think he was good. I get what you mean though. Ariana seems like a person to want to save everyone. Unfortunately that never works out.

  • @paola7045

    @paola7045

    3 жыл бұрын

    She was single for almost 2 years tho it’s the most she has lasted

  • @lexi7749

    @lexi7749

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree, this one seems nice and healthy but maybe that’s why she is rushing it or holding on so tight? I believe she is healing and in love and therefore is trying to make it permanent

  • @Delena00

    @Delena00

    3 жыл бұрын

    This one broke up with his ex at the drop of a hat the moment Ariana was ready to be with him, so I don't know about that.

  • @hannkakes
    @hannkakes3 жыл бұрын

    I somewhat believe she’s still trying to fill the void of losing Mac, amongst other things. She continues to try and replace what she lost instead of dealing with her inner-issues.

  • @ss-on3ll

    @ss-on3ll

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah and her issues with her divorced parents don’t really help her case.

  • @sparklyunicorn5431
    @sparklyunicorn54313 жыл бұрын

    Most people are so weak it's annoying, can you talk about this plague of people who don't know how to be single and STAY single for awhile?!

  • @unpopularopinions7127

    @unpopularopinions7127

    3 жыл бұрын

    You need to be more open minded and sympathetic/empathetic. No most people aren’t weak. Trauma bonding is a thing. People who have never seen good or healthy relationships in their family life are more likely to pick partners that mirrors what they grew up seeing. Not everyone but up good portion does. People / Society literally raised everyone that life goal is school, job, marriage,house and kids.

  • @ThingsILikke

    @ThingsILikke

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s kind of a divorced kid thing

  • @unpopularopinions7127

    @unpopularopinions7127

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ThingsILikke not true.

  • @maddie9655

    @maddie9655

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s kinda sad that you claim to be so strong, but in reality a strong person is able to be open minded and learn to embrace others faults.

  • @eee9266

    @eee9266

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your experience isn’t her experience. Not everyone works at the same speed. Shut up

  • @N0lemts
    @N0lemts3 жыл бұрын

    Just in time for her documentary.

  • @skiphopflipflopdripdrop

    @skiphopflipflopdripdrop

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @adre7806

    @adre7806

    3 жыл бұрын

    It all makes sense now.

  • @cansu5237

    @cansu5237

    3 жыл бұрын

    theyve been together for over a year but ok

  • @Noname-bl5hk

    @Noname-bl5hk

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cansu5237 under a year but k

  • @cansu5237

    @cansu5237

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Noname-bl5hk theyve known each other before, anyway why does it matter? they’ve been keeping it as private as possible so good for them. everyone is talking about how “fast” this happened or how “young” they are. well, you won’t get married at 27 and when it’s 1 year into a relationship then. just say congrats n go

  • @Aquarius_Judge
    @Aquarius_Judge3 жыл бұрын

    Well, we all know that Ariana has PTSD ever since the terror attack at Manchester. She said in past interviews that she cannot live on her own because of her fears and that she must be surrounded by friends and family all the time. I think thats the reason (or at least one of the reasons) that she finishs a relationship and immediatly starting a new one. maybe its a PTSD and an abandomment issues.

  • @Aquarius_Judge

    @Aquarius_Judge

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Flor Fernandez yes, but it got extremely worse after that. There is no doubt the it’s a mix between past problems and current problems.

  • @eee9266

    @eee9266

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or MAYBEEE it’s none of your buisness

  • @harlemw651

    @harlemw651

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn, I forgot all about that! 😢

  • @Aquarius_Judge

    @Aquarius_Judge

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@eee9266 you’re telling me it’s none of my business while you’re watching a video that talks about Ariana’s personal problems. Don’t be a hypocrite.

  • @eee9266

    @eee9266

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Aquarius_Judge I was just coming here to see what Shallon was up to and surprise surprise, her fans are acting like they have their MD

  • @katelynanneg
    @katelynanneg3 жыл бұрын

    I know someone who casually knows Pete, through very close mutual friends - the mutual friend knows him very very well (Staten Island is like a small town lol), and she said he's so kind, genuine, down to earth, and just a pretty normal person. Yeah he has issues including those stemming from his dad's 9/11 death, but I think what happened with them says more about her than about him, especially since she's already engaged to someone else only like 2 years later. She just seems... unreliable to me. I don't think he was innocent but I think he got screwed over by her.

  • @OracleofDelphiTarot

    @OracleofDelphiTarot

    3 жыл бұрын

    He came off like a user or loser that was living off her IMO

  • @vondonstrut218

    @vondonstrut218

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@OracleofDelphiTarot not really lol? She just makes more money than him. He has a decent net worth. He's just not rolling. Anyway he just seemed stupid happy and shocked that she wanted to date him. He wasn't very smooth about it obviously and probably shoulda faked it a bit better. But that's more the impression that I got. I would say the same thing is the case with Hailey and Justin. Her dad is the broke, bankrupt Baldwin and she had like 1-2 mill to her name and maybe a half a mill insta followers prior to May 2018 lol. Justin on the other hand has like hundreds of millions lol and 160m followers. But somehow when women date up it's no issue and when men date up they're losers?

  • @cansel2427

    @cansel2427

    3 жыл бұрын

    He had a new girlfriend two months after they separated

  • @1hcc994

    @1hcc994

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cansel2427 and he was respectful and low key with her.

  • @Nandini764

    @Nandini764

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@1hcc994 and same with ariana and her husband.

  • @angr5068
    @angr50683 жыл бұрын

    I mean... all of her closest friends and family members love him, unlike with Pete... even Ariana’s mom who once admitted she never liked any of her boyfriends loves this dude. Ariana’s dad who never commented on her relationships made an ig post congratulating her and calling the dude “the most respectful”. This is very different from the engagement with Pete back in 2018, people around her seem so genuinely excited for her this time. I remember her mom being quiet as hell when the news of her being engaged to Pete broke lmao

  • @rallyrally

    @rallyrally

    3 жыл бұрын

    Those are all good signs, but even still why the need to rush into engagement and marriage? He can be the best boyfriend in the world and it’s still ok to date him for over a year before you get engaged

  • @angr5068

    @angr5068

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rallyrally they’ve actually been dating since march / april 2019 according to some fans but I don’t know. Let’s hope he’s the one haha

  • @nishaaaaaaaaaaa

    @nishaaaaaaaaaaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rallyrally they have been dating a year and it’s really not a big fucking deal to get engaged after a year of being together nonstop y’all just love judging and hating on her

  • @angelaizzo641

    @angelaizzo641

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nishaaaaaaaaaaa no, were just being real.. 🤦🏼‍♀️💯

  • @rallyrally

    @rallyrally

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Missy A lmao girl chill out. Who said 10 years? And projecting my own views? You mean stating an opinion based on experience? (I'm married after just under 3 years of dating/being engaged)

  • @hannahi9355
    @hannahi93553 жыл бұрын

    Alot of people go for people that look like them, because subconsciously they trust them more.

  • @duallylicensed145

    @duallylicensed145

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯🤣🤣

  • @MySweetAriane

    @MySweetAriane

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yuck that's just weird

  • @shmooboogieharper748
    @shmooboogieharper7483 жыл бұрын

    Even without the inside information I always just assumed she was a cheater because who the hell moves on as quickly as she does and finds these serious relationships to hop into 2 weeks after a breakup? I know she’s a celeb but even then. You have to have one foot out the door to move on as quickly as she does

  • @Chloe-ul3vd

    @Chloe-ul3vd

    3 жыл бұрын

    also they guys are kinda stupid too to be honest, i would never get into a relationship with someone who’s so eager 2 weeks after a breakup. asking for trouble later on

  • @Darima2

    @Darima2

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's called desperation

  • @halibutrzeczny72

    @halibutrzeczny72

    3 жыл бұрын

    Literally.

  • @halibutrzeczny72

    @halibutrzeczny72

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Chloe-ul3vd they agree because its ariana. Who the heck wouldnt be mesmerised that such a huge celebrity, a pretty and attractive woman with a cute dimple smile, bambi eyes and talent chose you to be her next boo? Thats why they go for it.

  • @demilevine2458

    @demilevine2458

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Darima2 nope shut up

  • @dezposch
    @dezposch3 жыл бұрын

    Lili from riverdale is the queen of “I need privacy” and then show up to the airport decked out ready for paps. Lol

  • @nataliandlovu3155

    @nataliandlovu3155

    3 жыл бұрын

    uhhhh wrong video? what does this have to do with this video?

  • @madisoned

    @madisoned

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nataliandlovu3155 I think that has to do with Shallon's comment about celebrities needing dramas and being in the spotlight ("If they wanted privacy, they'd work at H&M")

  • @dezposch

    @dezposch

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@madisoned yes, thank you! lol

  • @coolcucumber2067

    @coolcucumber2067

    3 жыл бұрын

    So what are they not supposed to look good? I don't understand this comment LOL

  • @coolcucumber2067

    @coolcucumber2067

    3 жыл бұрын

    Like yes celebrities actually want privacy because they're actually humans. Her point about celebrities not truly wanting privacy is weird to say the least

  • @shalushalu2916
    @shalushalu29163 жыл бұрын

    This hair colour suits u best❤️

  • @user-cw8sj3mq3z
    @user-cw8sj3mq3z3 жыл бұрын

    Btw... the common denominator between Justin Bieber’ fast marriage, Ariana’s Fast *engagementS* and Demi’s fast engagement is *Scooter* *Braun* . He’s the kris Jenner of music lol

  • @ss-on3ll

    @ss-on3ll

    3 жыл бұрын

    Justin & Hailey have known each other for years and were friends before getting married. Ariana just gets into relationships too quick to secure herself.

  • @imeldagonzalez9272
    @imeldagonzalez92723 жыл бұрын

    I may be your oldest fan (40!) but God how I wish you were available to us back when I was younger and putting love and guys first. I learned the hard way but everything you say is exactly how I feel now and live my life now. Love you Shallon! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nelooch
    @nelooch3 жыл бұрын

    I'm not judging. At least someone is happy this year. Good for them! I hope it won't end in dust and flames. Big love ❤

  • @beabenedetto4878
    @beabenedetto48783 жыл бұрын

    Ariana and all those celebrities are just like children yelling for attention and since they are literally spoiled, they stopped feeling excited about regular things if not about anything. They are unable to value moments or things. The ultimate peak in her life is marriage. Let‘s see how that feels🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Trampymctramptramp

    @Trampymctramptramp

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love how you say this like you know her. Ariana has shit going for her besides marriage. She was single for almost a year after she broke off her engagement. She released her album not too long ago. She also did a collab with Jennifer Hudson. & Mariah Carey in december. She just released a remix song with dojacat & Megan there stalion. Queen Elizabeth even offered her damehood & she declined it. Does that sound like somebody who's craving attention?

  • @beabenedetto4878

    @beabenedetto4878

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Trampymctramptramp I‘m generalizing because her behavior screams attention. Please! Anyways, i‘ve never understood this die-hard fans who actually think they know their „idol“. 🤪

  • @Trampymctramptramp

    @Trampymctramptramp

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@beabenedetto4878 you still have yet to explain how she's attention seeking. You dont have to be a die hard fan to defend somebody against something thats rude as fuck & literally just a hateful opinion with no actual evidence behind it.

  • @beabenedetto4878

    @beabenedetto4878

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Trampymctramptramp neeee, don‘t feel like explaining. I only suggest keep watching women empowerment videos. That would do the work. 😇

  • @Trampymctramptramp

    @Trampymctramptramp

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@beabenedetto4878 probably because you dont have an actual point to make. These videos aren't empowering in the slightest. They're hateful & full of misinformation. The amount of lies & hate this woman has spewed is disgusting.

  • @beautifullykayla
    @beautifullykayla3 жыл бұрын

    Everyone in the comments seem to think they know more about Ariana than Ariana herself. We don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors. They could be really great together. People are saying she’s rushing into things and so what if she is. Everyone doesn’t need to be in a relationship for 5+ years just to know if they want to marry someone. Stop comparing her to the Pete situation that’s completely different. We should just be happy for her and hope she finds her way

  • @lydiawalker0714
    @lydiawalker07143 жыл бұрын

    I tried to rush into a couple relationships when I was in high school. At the time, I couldn't think of a single thing I liked about either guy outside of them making me laugh and telling me that I'm pretty. My friends were more likeable and seemingly had no problem getting into relationships. I felt inadequate compared to them and looked to guys for validation. Now, when I get into one of those spirals, I listen to "Too Much" by Kehlani and "Joan of Arc" by Little Mix for a confidence boost.

  • @melofx1
    @melofx13 жыл бұрын

    YASSSSS PERFECT TOPIC WHILE I EAT MY PIZZA

  • @sarahschouveller1993

    @sarahschouveller1993

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had pizza!

  • @GeminiXOXO24
    @GeminiXOXO243 жыл бұрын

    I swear if I could get this career shit figured out I’d never feel the need for a man again. Except for fun 😋

  • @Sara-9865

    @Sara-9865

    3 жыл бұрын

    You could figure it out you got this

  • @viet7612

    @viet7612

    3 жыл бұрын

    same!

  • @tmarie69
    @tmarie693 жыл бұрын

    This was a great video!! I think people sometimes think that “love” is this swept away, can’t control yourself type of emotion. Love is day to day and is often very banal.

  • @koalakultofficial
    @koalakultofficial3 жыл бұрын

    Wasn't the purpose of thank u next that she is happy with herself and doesn't need someone else to love her

  • @_agust.challie

    @_agust.challie

    3 жыл бұрын

    "Plus, I met someone else We're havin' better discussions I know they say I move on too fast But this one gon' last" thank u next lyric

  • @Trampymctramptramp

    @Trampymctramptramp

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@iWANDER262 Thank U next wasn't about being single. Did you even listen to the song? It was about being grateful for all the bad shit that happened in her life and how she's learned from all of it. Maybe that was a small part of it, but not entirely. "She clearly hasn't learned". Did you expect her to never find love again? Sometimes people find love quicker then others, and thats OKAY. Its not your fucking business. You don't know shit about ariana or what she has healed from or how Dalton has helped her. Quit spending your time making assumptions, and judging celebrities, lives. It's quite honestly, pathetic.

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero28083 жыл бұрын

    Honestly I don’t know how to feel about this whole thing because for one I’m in such a positive place that if people say they are happy, I’m happy for them. I do feel like it’s like “whoa, that was unexpected “ but at the same time I feel like she did take time to herself to just be. While Pete was serial dating (which it’s what it is) so for all we know she took her time and maybe had met him for a while and then took the chance. I do agree with shallon on the being too close to the family and having access to heirlooms as being odd though. Also, my last relationship was in April. We lived together for 6 months and we dated on and off for 2 years prior to that. It was toxic, addictive and painful. But this time it felt so final. And I had known this other guy for almost 4 years and he’s liked me for so long. A few months ago , we connected and I recently saw him in a different light. Something that didn’t happened before maybe because of the fog of my previous toxic relationship ect. But i feel at peace with myself in my life now and he brings me even more peace. As it should be. I actually was slowing out relationship and I think he’ll ask me to be his gf on new year’s. After not giving him an answer, I finally want to say yes. He compliments me rather than complete me. And from my own words to him when he told me “I want every part of you” I told him I wouldn’t give him my all but yes a very sacred special part. When he asked why I said “because a big part is for myself, my passions/ goals, my pet, my loved ones and then you.” And you know what he said? “Dang you’re amazing! I like you so much” lol because you come first. Always. You are the only one that will be in your life forever. So I hope Ariana knows this and she will be good. Wish her the best ☁️🤍

  • @julianamonteiro9648
    @julianamonteiro96483 жыл бұрын

    You are so quick, there’s literally no one like you . Queen

  • @CatCatCaat

    @CatCatCaat

    3 жыл бұрын

    She is really negative tho

  • @julianamonteiro9648

    @julianamonteiro9648

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CatCatCaat I call it realistic. At least she tells us things straight up to help us, in my life, personally, I don’t have anyone who is capable of telling me just like it is. It helps

  • @eee9266

    @eee9266

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@julianamonteiro9648 it’s not realistic tho? She knows nothing about ariana and nothing about her current relationship. In fact, all her dating advice is complete bullshit and it’s very harmful. Realism is a great thing... when it’s coming from someone who understands the situation and isn’t looking at news sites to find out what happened (because when are new sites ever credible). If you want someone to tell it to you how it is, I suggest a LICENSED therapist. Not a relationship guru on KZread with 0 credibility and no certification.

  • @kalni5338

    @kalni5338

    3 жыл бұрын

    ​@@eee9266 It doesn't mean that her advice won't help people. She's sharing her own experience and that can be really helpful, like talking with a friend. No need to downplay. If people find her experience helpful then that means her advice is certainly not bullshit. A licensed therapist won't solve all of a person's problems. A therapist isn't even capable of knowing all the details of a person's relationship. That's why it's good to get advice from a variety of people, even if it means getting advice from a guru on the internet.

  • @strbrrydrgn
    @strbrrydrgn3 жыл бұрын

    Shallon, have you ever tried black hair color? I think your eyes would pop more! But I'm absolutely obsessed with this deep burgundy nonetheless!

  • @tellmefirst907
    @tellmefirst9073 жыл бұрын

    i think her ring is so unique and beautiful!

  • @aery3854
    @aery38543 жыл бұрын

    If they do breakup, the third time she gets engaged again it wont be that exciting to people anymore

  • @Trampymctramptramp

    @Trampymctramptramp

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's not about other people. It's about herself being happy.

  • @comicalsun2316
    @comicalsun23163 жыл бұрын

    He literally looks like Natalie Portman

  • @lynninfinite

    @lynninfinite

    3 жыл бұрын

    WAAAAAAAAAAAITTT 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dh428

    @dh428

    3 жыл бұрын

    Noooooo 😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀

  • @MeyaCandy

    @MeyaCandy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmaoooooooooo

  • @angelicamaevecanete4703

    @angelicamaevecanete4703

    3 жыл бұрын

    WHY HE DOES HAHAHAHA OMG

  • @katiemiller1048
    @katiemiller10483 жыл бұрын

    i don’t understand why people are pressed about ari being engaged? like it’s not really anyone’s business?? her being engaged doesn’t affect anyone but her & her life so i don’t understand why people are pressed about it.

  • @addye.5661
    @addye.56613 жыл бұрын

    Does anybody else think they look like siblings?

  • @audreybrock374

    @audreybrock374

    3 жыл бұрын

    They do

  • @kyfy777
    @kyfy7773 жыл бұрын

    If there's one thing I will forever commend Ariana for is her ability to always give love a chance despite her failed relationships. Wishing her the best and that this works out for them both. If they are happy whether it lasts or not its still worthwhile. ❤️

  • @Hennyyy.00
    @Hennyyy.003 жыл бұрын

    Romanticism killed love!!! People just wanna rush into things insanely and they don’t wanna take their time and actually try to get to know each other before saying I love you or getting engaged obviously. Toxic feels rushed and exciting but healthy feels slow and relaxing. Trusting someone is one of the hardest things.

  • @PS-hi9os
    @PS-hi9os3 жыл бұрын

    i’m 22 never had a relationship lollll rip

  • @pragmaticfilly0

    @pragmaticfilly0

    3 жыл бұрын

    No rush, you're still young. Society makes us think we HAVE to be with someone. Go have your fun!

  • @maryamabdi7241

    @maryamabdi7241

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @dh428

    @dh428

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm 19 and I was in several relationships that broke me down because I wasn't ready for them but I felt like I was nobody if I wasn't in a relationship... It's ok to be single! Love yourself and someone will definitely show up :)

  • @cass1075

    @cass1075

    3 жыл бұрын

    21 almost 22! same here😂 i cant do commitment 😩

  • @PS-hi9os

    @PS-hi9os

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pragmaticfilly0 i feel like all the good ppl are taken and ill b 25 and single while theyre married hahahah

  • @colleenanne360
    @colleenanne3603 жыл бұрын

    Love has very little to do with marriage. Finally someone said it.

  • @jazminmiguel
    @jazminmiguel3 жыл бұрын

    Plot twist: they stay engaged for 3plus years.

  • @adventuresofkatekat
    @adventuresofkatekat3 жыл бұрын

    Whe this girl gets engaged to her real forever man, it’s not even going to feel special 😩

  • @Jasmin-rb2ob
    @Jasmin-rb2ob Жыл бұрын

    coming back after the divorce announcement 👀

  • @mariedigital4404
    @mariedigital44043 жыл бұрын

    "love is not looking at each other, love is looking out in the same direction." wow, that was deep ^o^

  • @sarahrachelee
    @sarahrachelee3 жыл бұрын

    I’m Jewish and a big part of our heritage is welcoming people in as family, literally inviting strangers over for dinner. I always heard that Italians are the same way and I think maybe that’s part of why he is so close with her family so fast, because they’re Italian and super family oriented?

  • @Love2dance4427

    @Love2dance4427

    3 жыл бұрын

    è vero It is true

  • @anaca7789
    @anaca77893 жыл бұрын

    In that picture she looks like she’s taking a pic with her comfort blanket not her boyfriend... I can’t

  • @natashaferran
    @natashaferran3 жыл бұрын

    Shallon darling I disagree with you saying there are two reasons for cheating....a third reason is revenge.

  • @WhoLetYouGo
    @WhoLetYouGo3 жыл бұрын

    Never been this early. Can't wait! Love her engagement ring though. Know it's not for everyone.

  • @lindybosse8842
    @lindybosse88423 жыл бұрын

    Shallon!!! Can you give us a video on growing apart In long term relationships? What to do when you’ve settled into the “roommate” relationship. Fix or move on? Help!

  • @Shenay_braaf

    @Shenay_braaf

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pleaseeee

  • @Dramatis_personae09

    @Dramatis_personae09

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @nicoleowens2318

    @nicoleowens2318

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes!! I'm single as hell but I have a friend who needs that lol

  • @kaley565

    @kaley565

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lindy! I recently had a conversation with my boyfriend about something like this. In our case we both want to be in this relationship so we have decided to go stay together and set "relationships tasks". It has worked for us! You are not alone. I wish you the best😗

  • @zuluzero4659
    @zuluzero46593 жыл бұрын

    Ariana is really cute and I think her issue is that she needs to learn that is still very young and after everything she’s been through doesn’t need a man and/or a Husband! She falls in love so quick and then gets so bored but what’s worse is that she moves on too fast and does sit and reflect and take time to learn.

  • @ts2852
    @ts28523 жыл бұрын

    It seems to me that he loves her more than she loves him. We'll see how this goes.

  • @slamminskygurl
    @slamminskygurl3 жыл бұрын

    How do you do it????? So FAST on that news

  • @kathyalex778

    @kathyalex778

    3 жыл бұрын

    Queen Shallon never sleeps, except for beauty sleep ofc

  • @Shenay_braaf
    @Shenay_braaf3 жыл бұрын

    Is this the dude she made half an album about their sex life😕🙃🤢?

  • @ruthlessxo99

    @ruthlessxo99

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah 💀

  • @FeeESC

    @FeeESC

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea, so

  • @jana_lee

    @jana_lee

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah picture them 69ing, how sweet 💍

  • @shanayb.3854

    @shanayb.3854

    3 жыл бұрын

    Technically It was more then half lol

  • @_agust.challie

    @_agust.challie

    3 жыл бұрын

    You mean a whole album?? Yes

  • @bhauvana
    @bhauvana3 жыл бұрын

    Okay this makeup and hair combo is srsly one of your best looks yet! Your eyes are so piercing here.. you look incredible girl ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hilo6487
    @hilo64873 жыл бұрын

    Regardless of how this ends I have to say I love her ring & I will stand on this soap box alone if I have too...

  • @lexi7749

    @lexi7749

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like it, it’s classy

  • @makala4499

    @makala4499

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah it is a nice ring. I've never seen one with a pearl before.

  • @TheBlahblahblahwhat
    @TheBlahblahblahwhat3 жыл бұрын

    She has a type....lollllll

  • @urska17

    @urska17

    3 жыл бұрын

    guys who look like they haven't slept in months

  • @skiphopflipflopdripdrop

    @skiphopflipflopdripdrop

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup

  • @DianaCovarrubias1

    @DianaCovarrubias1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@urska17 OMG 😂😂😂😂

  • @themango9644

    @themango9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bad boys with tats and look a little.. Underslept. I don't blame her lol. I like Bad boys too

  • @anamhasan24
    @anamhasan243 жыл бұрын

    That point about listening to what your body is saying reminds me so much of the essential point in the Gift of Fear. Everyone should read it!!!

  • @thewhyofthings8450
    @thewhyofthings84503 жыл бұрын

    Me watching this, never been in a real relationship, but still taking the advice 👁👄👁

  • @eagletmars
    @eagletmars3 жыл бұрын

    I like Ariana. I think she is smart, funny, and talented, but I just *don't* understand where her constant need for male validation comes from? She is gorgeous. She is filthy rich. Seriously. I am starting to think she is emptier inside than she lets on, and that is sad because she has so much to offer to the world, and her being in a relationship or being involved with someone romantically doesn't automatically elevate her, it never will. Self love will. Self care will. Self respect will. I do think there are some underlying issues because outwardly she projects confidence, but noone knows what she feels inside. Hope she realizes how worthy she is, and hope she doesn't realize that post multiple divorces later.

  • @PureSparkles22
    @PureSparkles223 жыл бұрын

    I never smile with my teeth being visible cuz my teeth r jacked

  • @elalarcon

    @elalarcon

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Dramatis_personae09

    @Dramatis_personae09

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @nicoleowens2318

    @nicoleowens2318

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hear this

  • @sabrina8436

    @sabrina8436

    3 жыл бұрын

    But do your eyes smile is the question

  • @PureSparkles22

    @PureSparkles22

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sabrina8436 I smize

  • @sparklyunicorn5431
    @sparklyunicorn54313 жыл бұрын

    WHY WOULD YOU DATE SOMEONE THAT LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE YOUR EX?! HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT PEOPLE LOL.

  • @annikaa881

    @annikaa881

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha my ex looks like my type I find it an insult to my ex when I date guys that look like him haha. Cuz I’m like dude it’s just my type u weren’t special booo hahaha

  • @nicoleowens2318

    @nicoleowens2318

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol it's her type. At least that makes sense. If you could see mine lined up it would look like a circus, or a military rejection pool

  • @sparklyunicorn5431

    @sparklyunicorn5431

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@annikaa881 it's weird... like your obsessed with that person and look for people that look exactly like them. Out of all the men she could date, you can't tell me looks exactly like Pete is a 'type' lol. It would be understandable if she likes tall or slim but somewhat different features.

  • @themango9644

    @themango9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sparklyunicorn5431 not you shaming her for having an obvious type of men. All her boyfriends looked dead inside with tats except sean

  • @eee9266

    @eee9266

    3 жыл бұрын

    They literally look nothing alike y’all are soo fukin weird dude

  • @hidansektas
    @hidansektas3 жыл бұрын

    i have a guy friend who started dating his wife in march then they got engaged in August and then i find out she got pregnant after 3 months of dating and they got married in october lmao. they are 20 and 22 years old. this aint gonna end well

  • @JLM498

    @JLM498

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oof 🤦🏻

  • @LovatoLover22
    @LovatoLover223 жыл бұрын

    Been waiting all DAMN DAY just to hear what she had to say!

  • @ellastephanie7893
    @ellastephanie78932 жыл бұрын

    I immediately searched for this video when I heard that one of my friends got engaged to her bf after one year of dating. There are so many signs of rushing in...one of them being that she calls him "the love of her life", but this is her first bf ever. Like, girl...come on now). It's nice to have a reality check with your videos, cause sometimes I feel like everyone is so romantic and I am cynical, due to the many experiences I've had so far. But no, I truly believe that I am actually realistic, thanks to those experiences. And to you, Shallon. Thank you!

  • @hangoutwithme346
    @hangoutwithme3463 жыл бұрын

    Idunno I think this guy might be someone who can finally take care of her vs trying to keep everyone sober and sane around her. He’s not in the Hollywood game. Got his own success. Plus they have known each other for a few years.

  • @akankshathakur1185
    @akankshathakur11853 жыл бұрын

    😂 its so weird the more I talk to boys the more I like girls ( not in a lesbian way ) 😂🤷🏻

  • @nicoleowens2318

    @nicoleowens2318

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hear that

  • @qnizami2339
    @qnizami23393 жыл бұрын

    This video resonates so well..I wish my past self would have watched this. I rushed into a relationship last year and it was such a disaster of abuse that it shook me out of my core. I had to take therapy intensely, I had to sit back and reflect on why do I rush in situations without knowing someone and all the logistics, it's been a year of being single and it has been the most liberating experience. I could analyze myself, learn from my past experiences, and I still want to remain completely single for some more years so that I can continue to work on myself and create the best life.

  • @lichhz4383
    @lichhz43833 жыл бұрын

    Boring quarantine is making people getting engaged

  • @jewelintherough3840
    @jewelintherough38403 жыл бұрын

    So great you always mention volunteer, donate, sponsor, adopt; you're serving a good purpose.

  • @shaylaterkalas768
    @shaylaterkalas7683 жыл бұрын

    I saw that she was engaged again after getting engaged 2 years ago to someone else and I was waiting for a video from you!

  • @uxbea
    @uxbea3 жыл бұрын

    You're so fast!! When I saw the engagement I was waiting for your video! AND YES DALTON DOES KINDA LOOK LIKE ARIANA!

  • @chillbaby5000
    @chillbaby50003 жыл бұрын

    " If I wanna baby, I'll ACQUIRE a baby...they're all over the place." 😂🤣😅lmao!! yes that statement and tone was everything. amazing

  • @sararosas1658

    @sararosas1658

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right... she’s too damn funny!!💯😂🤣🤣

  • @kadyk4185
    @kadyk41853 жыл бұрын

    When I saw Ariana's post I didnt even realize she was engaged. I'm sorry but her fiance looks like a woman lol. I literally thought it was just her posting one of her girlfriends.

  • @ruthlessxo99

    @ruthlessxo99

    3 жыл бұрын

    I thought she was posing with a woman too lol

  • @AndreaB140
    @AndreaB1403 жыл бұрын

    I also immediately thought brother sister... when I saw the photo 🙊 terrible but ya.. I LOVE the ring tho!!

  • @cristinaorlando2408
    @cristinaorlando24083 жыл бұрын

    You’re going to come on here in a week with their break up video can’t wait ☺️ you look so gorgeous btw!

  • @slydakota8143
    @slydakota81433 жыл бұрын

    I really loved this video, and think the advice was good. I just wonder if you’d ever be interested in doing a video about how to get into dating vs. going too fast. I’m the opposite where I love being alone and compare being with men to how I feel in my alone time. If it goes past my threshold of comfort I’m not down AT ALL. I feel like it’s the opposite of going in to fast for me, but in a negative, over correction type of way. Would love to see advice for people on the opposite spectrum.

  • @Lizwelt

    @Lizwelt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha I am the same. I think we are introverts. I even was in a long distance relationship and I literally didn’t care that I couldn’t see my boyfriend for months 😂

  • @messywalk

    @messywalk

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Yes! Yes! I’m the same way. I actually recently got into a relationship and I just feel like I keep reminiscing being single. Like, I don’t want to worry about anybody else but myself and I hate wanting attention. When I was single, I didn’t have to worry about that. I don’t know if that’s a good thing or if I have some work to do. 😂

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