I learned from going to therapy. For year and years I ran away from relationships with men who I liked and they liked me. At the time I didn’t know why all I knew is that I felt panicked and needed to run RUN! I’d be heartbroken after and miss them. I’d also chase or pine for men who were unavailable either they lived far away or had a GF or were not that interested in me. After years of thinking it was all their fault I considered that actually it could be me as I had been the common denominator. In therapy first day I realised that I had an avoidant-dismissive attachment style. Which explained my behaviour. It was like an epiphany. After that I looked back and took responsibility for chasing unavailable men and running from men who were interested in me. 6 months later I was ‘seeing’ someone in a different state, I observed that he wasn’t making an effort to come and see me so I fought my instinct to chase him and felt so much peace in leaning back. Then I met a man in my own city who wanted to be with me, his actions and words showed me. I did feel that bit of panic to run but because I could now recognise what was happening I continued the relationship and honestly we have an amazing loving relationship and now have a 3 year old daughter. Therapy works. It helps us see our blind spots. Thanks Shallon.

@catseatcookiessofiagacha5210

4 жыл бұрын

You deserve a thanks yourself girl. You've fought hard for your happiness and it's inspiring to hear your story ❤

@angelbrumfield6134

4 жыл бұрын

I don't know about shallon, she probably won't respond to your comment because you're discussing how you were able to change and see the light and she isn't the main topic in your comment but I do know it's fantastic to hear about other people growing and changing for the better, it's inspiring and motivating. It's awesome to hear that your life changed by being accountable and taking action. That's pretty fucking amazing. You deserve every good thing gained because you did the work. It's cliche but you go girl!!!

@kn5715

4 жыл бұрын

Angel Brumfield thank you that’s really kind. Yes taking accountability felt a bit uncomfortable at first for me but now I am so thankful that I pushed through that uncomfortable feeling and then saw that I actually had a lot of control over this toxic cycle I was in.

@live.life.secure.coaching

4 жыл бұрын

I definitely have an attachment style issue. I need to work on that big time. 🙈 I'm in therapy but it's a slow process

@aphubbell

4 жыл бұрын

Hey thanks for sharing this!! I just caught myself avoiding/dismissing someone who is treating me better than anyone ever has. I am trying so hard to overcome that fear pattern and your story is great to hear!

She really fascinates me. She isn't harmful, basically to anyone but herself. Chaos is a great way to explain her personality. I wonder if thats a result of trauma or if she is just one of those Chaos energy people. It's rare to see someone with self contained destruction. She has been like 15 different people in the last 10 or 15 years. It seems like she has this "im just being me" mentality, but she has no idea who she is, who she was, who she wants to be. It just feels like she wears 1000 masks depending on who the anchoring force in in her life. She's like.... a mirror, vacant and dependent on someone to mimic. That makes me wonder if its trauma.

@Lachontte

4 жыл бұрын

sounds like untreated borderline to me 💔

@enadine6405

4 жыл бұрын

I actually feel that she explores different assets of her personality, no one is the same 24/7 or all their lives. We are ever changing :) I respect ur opinion though :D

@sierrajamerson5637

4 жыл бұрын

(B.P.D)

@ValeriiaJ

4 жыл бұрын

Borderline Personslity Disorder

@PinkpiscesASMR

4 жыл бұрын

I feel like Halsey does this too a little bit... who ever she happens to be dating, she kinda takes on their identity and style

Funny how everytime Miley splits with a guy she starts to like girls again, she seems like she treats girlfriends really bad

@MorganCPaige

4 жыл бұрын

Remember that time she started dating Cody and said AND I QUOTE-“There are good men out there, guys, don’t give up. You don’t have to be gay, there are good people with dicks out there, you’ve just got to find them. You’ve got to find a dick that’s not a dick, you know?” This was literally last year. What a garbage mindset

@alunoodalmheiri7028

4 жыл бұрын

@@MorganCPaige Very problematic indeed. I hope girls realize she views them as some second, temporary option.

@petrauhrakova

4 жыл бұрын

It feels like being into girls is just a “fun” fetish for her.

@MorganCPaige

4 жыл бұрын

Petra Uhráková I have a friend doing shit like this right now, and I can’t even voice how I feel cause I’m not really “out” as bi cause I am in a heterosexual marriage and didn’t really realize it until later in life (husband knows) and also cause I feel like I sound biphobic when I have these feelings - but it just feels like she’s only constantly talking about girls and shit like that purely to be the “cool girl”

@abigaiilmarkss4671

4 жыл бұрын

@@MorganCPaige I think it's because the image that she sells, people associate her name with this crazy and free girl who says things about her sexual life that most celebrities don't say. It seems to me that she just wants to call attention to her and not to the split or wants attention because she has a new album coming, and then she stars to act like the bissexual, but in the end we all know that she will find other guy and forget about the girls thing.

Shallon:How to stop being a mess Me:This is exactly what I need

@quarentinedlove2903

4 жыл бұрын

Same 💯

@nataliegauthier8152

4 жыл бұрын

Omg SAME

@jenni230

4 жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@lisahughes-sherring8891

4 жыл бұрын

It’s a club now lol

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@lisahughes-sherring8891 Have you conquered personal demons, Lise? That is so admirable if that's the case

For someone with such a sexualized personality, I found the way she spoke about sex in that interview very odd. Like so utilitarian. It sounded like something she feels like is necessary to her partner, so she'll do it, but she wants to get it over with as quickly as possible and move on. She seems to talk about sex as a tool, but is separated from her feelings about it. That's also indicative of some kind of trauma.

@elana7249

4 жыл бұрын

Christine Valerie when she said “i don’t f*ck with foreplay” i was so shocked and appalled. i have never heard a woman say that before & couldn’t relate at all

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@elana7249 Are you saying that you enjoy French kissing, Elena?

@cheria9399

4 жыл бұрын

JOHN HARTSOCK thats not the way to chat up a girl, John. Is the discord sever thing going well?

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@cheria9399 Hi Cheria. The discord server is among my various options. I need to get more indoctrinated into social media. I am a work in progress. Can you blame me for enjoying French kissing, though? One lady I was with criticized me for enjoying kissing too much. That was a novel comment indeed

@CC-rv4zc

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnhartsock1891 get out of my comment you weirdo.

Puppy tip! Brush their teeth, especially if they eat wet food. You’ll have to start doing it eventually but if you start as a puppy and find a toothpaste they find tasty then it will just be part of their routine and they will like it.

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

I can’t think of anything I want more than to brush little bitty puppy teef!!

@starboo8455

4 жыл бұрын

Fack off Neptune loser.

@SteelCityforlife-sz1dd

4 жыл бұрын

*•Neptune• * I’ve seen multiple comments of yours now on this one video alone and all you seem to do is spew hate and judgement about literally any and everything. Get a life. You must be pretty miserable to feel the need to try and put people down who are looking to grow and better their lives. Therapy is great for everyone...maybe you should try it? 💁🏽‍♀️🤔

@yespls4184

4 жыл бұрын

@*•Neptune• * no one understands what you're even trying to say, sorry

@Mar.1634

4 жыл бұрын

@*•Neptune• * my dude, get a life.

I hate how she hides her messy relationship pattern with “I belong to no one, I’m free”, ammm... no, you’re a slave of your freedom if it doesn’t allow you to be mentally stable. People who only have superficial relationships are usually trying to hide or run away from their real identity. She needs therapy and time to heal with her own self.

@danielamorilladicicco6693

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@ashleyortega9335

4 жыл бұрын

This was spot on!

Puppy tip!!! If you plan on crate training him, make sure you make him comfortable with the crate before leaving him in it overnight!! Put treats and toys in there with him and let him go in and out a few times. Ideally going in the crate should be a good experience for him so it's helpful to let him do it by choice and treats definitely help with that. He will definitely still cry when you leave him in it but it shouldn't be too bad if you take the time to introduce the crate to him ! :) puppies are amazing but they are hella work and it's basically like having a kid. Good luck, girl!

6 puppy tips for you !! No.1 - toilet training. Take them outside every half hour / 45 minutes so they learn they go toilet outside and when they use their puppy matts to go toilet, once they do a wee don't throw it away straight away, keep it so they can pick up the scent of their wee and learn to go on the Matt & treat them every time they do well. Tip no.2 - It's good to have a key word every time you give them a treat like e.g 'yes' or 'good boy' so they'll learn that word is associated with good behaviour. Tip no. 3 - be wary with food as some puppies can have sensitive tummys so the first food you pick up may not always agree with them and they may go off their food once they beginning growing, some pups can be fussy !! If they are fussy, mix chicken in with their food and slowly reduce the chicken the more you feed them to try wein them onto their food. Tip no.4 - not everyone agrees but crate training is good because it allows a puppy to have their own space and its almost their safe place that no one else can invade, it's also handy because puppy's can be explorers and when they begin to teething last thing you want is your furniture to be chewed whilst you sleep, also go for a bigger crate, if they need to to toilet in the night they have room in their crate to sleep, cuddle with teddies but also go toilet If they get desperate. Tip no.5 - bath them from young, so they get used to it especially if they're fluffy as poo can get stuck in their fur and restrict them when they try go toilet but they do get cold very easily after baths, so be sure to cuddle them. Have a blanket and hot water bottle ready after the bath to keep them warm. Same with grooming, start taking the pup to the groomers from 3 months onwards will allow them to get used to having their ears clean and nails clipped from young and tip no.6 - socialise them as soon as they've had they're last jabs, puppy training classes are the best way to socailise your dogs and it's good for you as you'll learn so much about your pup and the best ways to train them !! I Cant wait to see the pup on your socials, so excited for you !! I recently got a pup and honestly best decision I made this year ❤

So, she said that she didn't want Liam to think she was a loser for being a virgin. Translation: she thinks that if you don't have sex, you are a loser. So that's basically why she desperately needs to portrait herself as a sexual being. I don't know if she suffered any kind of trauma, but yep, something definitely seems off.

@torey4322

4 жыл бұрын

Oh for sure seems off

@emmkej9096

4 жыл бұрын

But keep in mind she was a teen then. With teens its all about image and how cool they seem. She may not be thinking that now.

@Hey-kf5er

4 жыл бұрын

I feel like y’all are making a lot of things she said deeper than they actually are lol. When she was 16 she thought it was lame. It was probably because all her friends were non-virgins so it became a typical teen type of insecurity for her. I highly doubt she thinks that way now. I actually watched the podcast and she seemed very mature compared to Alex

@mileymbclimb17

4 жыл бұрын

Theres plenty of people who are embarrassed to tell their partner they're a Virgin that doesnt equate that its people who are judgemental they feel. I dont experience this but a lot of people do. She was also very much a teenager at this point most teenagers create a lot of pressure to virgins that being one isn't cool its normal.

@vondonstrut218

3 жыл бұрын

idk lol. I definitely didn't like shouting from the rooftops that I was a virgin. And I didn't lie to the first guy I was with, but I also didn't indicate that I was a virgin and I was quite a bit older than Miley. I just personally feel its not someone else's business unless you choose to tell them and the fact of the matter is people do a lot of weird virgin shaming. People always made weird jokes like I was this innocent little baby that was frail and didn't know the world. I felt like it was this overtly dramatic thing. Miley's wording is off per usual, and it seems like she hasn't processed these experiences as an adult, but i understand where she was coming from and why she didn't choose to tell Liam.

I am literally so shocked I read miley was into girls at a young age but a lesbian threeway at 11???? Childhood ruined.

@vg89

4 жыл бұрын

@Thomas no what?

@starsoverthere

4 жыл бұрын

I’m a little surprised Shallon said lesbian three way. I interpreted what Miley said as her hooking up with two girls two separate times. Miley never said three way.

@vg89

4 жыл бұрын

@@starsoverthere I watched the interview after this and shallon got a couple of things wrong. I didnt hear it either from miley!

@berlinlopez932

4 жыл бұрын

I think the way it was said in the interview was confusing. I didn’t interpret it as a 3 way at 11. I heard it as her discussing sex at 11 but hooking up with girls later.

@mrbotitas18

4 жыл бұрын

Berlin Lopez threeway or no threeway, sexual activity at 11 years old is pretty fucked up imo.

Miley may be bi but I think her attitude towards women kind of sucks. She seems like a girl who thinks sex and relationships with women don't really count

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve dated girls like Miley and they’re basically frat guys with boobs. Very little respect, very much about the power dynamic. That pathology of hump/dump/talk trash is genderless.

@heyysophie9928

4 жыл бұрын

*•Neptune• * gosh, where are the commas😭 are you 5?

@ellabella30

4 жыл бұрын

*•Neptune• * heyyyy Karen!

@ValeriiaJ

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe bisexual but heteroromantic

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@*•Neptune• * I'd still love to make out with Shallon though, Neptune. What man on God's green earth would not?

“Crockpots not microwaves!” Shallon has the BEST ANALOGIES! I swear one of these days I wanna do a compilation of all of them! 😂💜

@heyysophie9928

4 жыл бұрын

ahaha, please do!

My mindset before watching: “OK, open your mind, get a notebook, be ready to take in the wisdom 👀”

Miley is a 27 year old woman, who still struggles to get her shit together. Rich and bored. But very talented and that's why I still adore this crazy woman.

@Saltysaltire97

4 жыл бұрын

Her new song is great also.

@alinan4320

4 жыл бұрын

Me too, i have weird admiration for her,despite her crazy act. I think i like the "freedom" she has to do whatever fck she wants, while i wouldnt have courage to do it. And yeah, her voice is a masterpiece on its own!

@velvet123

4 жыл бұрын

Ekkk it’s a Sagittarius thing. I had my chaotic moments as a Sagittarius in my late 20s. Now I’m getting my shit together. It takes us time and we like that freedom vibe. We eventually figure things out at our own.

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@velvet123 Velvet, have you had a makeout session lately?

@velvet123

4 жыл бұрын

JOHN HARTSOCK no and I don’t intend too any time soon.

She’s rudderless. Doesn’t know which direction to go in. The platitude “happiness is an inside job” couldn’t ring more true when I think of beautiful Miley. It’s a hard lesson to learn. ❣️so talented.

I’ m still in shock with her being “ 11 “ years old and hooking up 😳😨! I mean when I was that age I was still outside playing hopscotch and fighting with boys because they had cooties lol. Now Shallon you do have a good solid point 👍🏻. Something might have happen to her. Let’s hope whatever she is going through she can live & learn . Healing is not easy but boy when you do heal it’s liberating.

@lavonnealexander6936

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂damn i was watching American pie 🥧 and thinking about sex too.

THE TITLE IM SCREAMING I THINK EVERYONE NEEDS THIS

@laurenpresley8480

4 жыл бұрын

I felt so attacked

@nnn326

4 жыл бұрын

How to stop being a mess, yes. Shaming a woman for trying to be healthy, no.

I keep forgetting Miley Cyrus is only 27...I’m shocked I thought she was way older

@samantarizzi248

4 жыл бұрын

She looks pretty young to me, idk. I really loved her since Hannah Montana days, still love her music, but I’m kinda losing my respect for her she’s really chaotic and quite messy as a person. Maybe she changed maybe she was always like this (which I doubt) ... idk 😐

@PinkpiscesASMR

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr, even though she’s chaotic she still has like an older vibe to her

@irinafms

4 жыл бұрын

@@samantarizzi248 losing respect for her bc she's living life on her terms and knows what she doesn't want?? Can't relate

@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou

4 жыл бұрын

I thought she’s younger lol

@dunnotck1

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 27 too and I'm always surprised at how sexual she is. It's taken me years to become confident with my sexuality and I feel like I'm just becoming comfortable with being sexual. I mean I admire her confidence tbh but I feel she's this ever-changing person who's not grounded in any way. I worry about her at times, because I really really like her and want her to be happy and balanced.

I feel like you haven't watched the entire episode, because she actually talked about how she goes to therapy..

@mariahr8595

4 жыл бұрын

Can anyone sit through that entire episode? I couldn’t listen past the childhood sexual trauma. She’s a mess either way so she clearly needs to find another therapist because their methods aren’t working for her.

@SUPERVULGAR

4 жыл бұрын

@@mariahr8595 someone who is going to do a video on the episode should sit through it lol

@teresaperez5995

4 жыл бұрын

She is? I haven't heard that. Glad to hear that she is seeking help 🙏

@berlinlopez932

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed. She mentioned a few times that she’s in therapy and has been learning a lot about herself

@rachellmcgrath1184

4 жыл бұрын

Mariah G you keep commenting on behalf of a video you haven’t even watched, all we’re saying is to watch the full podcast to get an idea of the entire conversation. If you don’t want to do research, fine. Dismissing Miley as a mess with a faulty therapist is a bit weird tho, don’t u think?

OK but we gotta be careful with going so anti-victim-mentality. A lot of women already have a massive guilt complex and blame themselves for every bad thing guys did to them. I agree that it's very enlightening to realize how much power you have, but it's equally enlightening to acknowledge how unjust it was that people treated you badly and how your childhood wounds essentially catapulted you into these bad relationships. Learning about attachment styles is very helpful for that. Have some compassion on yourselves please :(

@amandaborges9218

4 жыл бұрын

wow that’s a point right there thanks xx

@karlaariana7300

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! But if a guy is abusing you or just disrespecting you, run! They are not going to change

@kierapower1904

4 жыл бұрын

Well said! good to have a balanced perspective 🙏

@felar7848

4 жыл бұрын

Yasss they need to feel safe and validated as be a victim in order to process it to leave it behind. It’s not that radical!

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@kierapower1904 More power to you, Kiera.

This eyeshadow really brings out the green in your eyes...love, love, love it!

She "CAN'T BE TAMED" -Miley Cyrus, 2010 LMAO

That's sad, she obviously hasn't had truly great sex if she doesn't understand the importance of foreplay

@rachelwharton4245

4 жыл бұрын

Good point, amazing foreplay is such an intimate, bonding thing a lot of the time.

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@rachelwharton4245 Rachel, is French kissing essential for you? As a man, I enjoy making out with a woman as much as anything else, maybe more. I dated one lady who complained that I liked kissing too much!

@karlaariana7300

4 жыл бұрын

JOHN HARTSOCK making out is so so important and mostly all women love it keep doing it ☺️

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@karlaariana7300 Ariana, your message is inspiring and encouraging. Any COVID-19 makeout suggestions?

@valpal2424

4 жыл бұрын

I think you both can provide a COVID test and you good! I’d feel more comfortable like that

“We are both crockpots not microwaves” 😂😂

I feel like you havent heard the podcast, only read the article. It’s ok but some things get misconstrued. Of course Miley was going to touch on sexuality and sex on CHD, that’s a given, and it fits her brand well. Olivia o’brien also got interviewed by CHD. I got the impression she even shied away from some topics and only touched lightly on her sexuality and sex life. She also talks about how she’s hella organized, and isn’t really super sex driven, she likes the idea of sexuality more

@ltreee8361

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you

@sofiamariastagnomercado9412

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree!

I just ended an11 year “relationshit” because that’s exactly what it was. This was the hardest breakup I’ve ever been through. “what can we take from this” & be a warm blooded animal has helped me so much! And I am 43!!! Thank you so much for your insight & wisdom, much love form Down under 🇦🇺

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

Assilem, the duration of a union isn't always a testament to its positive quality. Some people just stay together too long. I once dated a woman from Australia who had a baby pet kangaroo in her apartment

@assilemc6351

4 жыл бұрын

JOHN HARTSOCK yes that’s so true and I persisted thinking I could make him better which in hindsight was so so stupid. Oh & yikes to the baby pet kangaroo in her bathroom 😂

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@assilemc6351 What is your dating protocol during COVID, Assilem?

when she said “C’s get degrees you deserve an A+” it made me break up with my boyfriend lol

Please do a video on attachment styles specifically anxious pre occupied attachment and how women are so prone to it

@roxisarobot

4 жыл бұрын

Would love to see this!!!! Hope she will cover it!

i feel naive for thinking they would be together longer also i love your eyeshadow and yes miley is chaotic

@prairiethecat9118

4 жыл бұрын

They are still on good terms maybe they will be on and off for 10 years

@lenatian1078

4 жыл бұрын

@@prairiethecat9118 Man, that's gotta be weird for their friendship

How to stop being a mess? Finally, a video made just for me!

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

You're a smoking mess, Nicole, if you're a mess. Did you go out Saturday night?

@MH-ds8cb

4 жыл бұрын

JOHN HARTSOCK wtf? Lol

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@MH-ds8cb Glad you're amused, Megan.

I prefer to stay away from the "it's my fault" analysis. I did it after my first break up and I believe it was what sent me straight to depression that came like 2 months after the break-up. After the break-up, I micro analysed every situation and looked for what I did wrong and how I could have behaved differently. I tore myself apart and got deep into every issue I had ever had (with my dad, etc.). And I convinced myself that the break-up was all my fault. Now, 7 years after the break-up, I simply think that the relationship didn't last because I was young, inexperienced, didn't know how relationships worked. It wasn't because I was a broken person with a million issues, as I thought back then.

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

Lada, perspective is extremely valuable in any aspect of life. I now have a small yellow jacket flying around my phone, so I've got to be careful. That's some perspective

@eabarza

4 жыл бұрын

What i took from that advice is more...... do the ”is it my fault?” As a thought experiment - not as an absolute truth. Just start analysing things from different perspectives to notice patterns (emphasis on both notice and patterns). After youve noticed new things you can start deciding what to do with that info. But also - patterns, like if ”guys always act this way” or ”my mom is ALWAYS mean” etc. Its important to know when to adopt each piece of advice - obviously everything isnt universally applicable.

@Stella-cv4mc

4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree. Shallon shouldn't be advising young women to make this "experiment" because unless you're all mentally stable and securely attached it can easily backfire. A lot of women take way too much responsibility and have really low expectations from men. The line between self-awareness and pointless guilt is very thin, I don't think it should be approached like that.

@yespls4184

4 жыл бұрын

@@Stella-cv4mc I don't think you really understood what she was saying...

@Stella-cv4mc

4 жыл бұрын

@@yespls4184 I know that taking accountability for your own actions can be extremely enlightening because you realize how much power you have, it equips you with self-esteem and the ability to change your circumstances. However there are a lot of people who don't know how to balance this awareness of responsibility with self-compassion. There are indeed people who take on too much responsibility and crumble under this weight. I don't think Shallon should give this advice with so little discernment when she doesn't know what kind of person sits behind the screen

Kinda disagree w this one. Alex seemed to be pushing the sexual questions along and Miley seemed a little uncomfortable getting into everything. You can see the different level of maturity between the two.

@bigchungus1924

4 жыл бұрын

She openly agreed to go on that interview & said that’s the only publicity she would accept right now. She knew what the questions would center around. Which is, her vagina.

@lexh3663

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@mariahr8595

4 жыл бұрын

Celebrities already discuss what they want to talk about and what they don’t before the interview starts. She gave very graphic and detailed stories about her sex life and sexuality so I think you might just be dumb.

@berlinlopez932

4 жыл бұрын

I agree. There were some weird parts in the interview, but overall I think Miley was trying to steer away from 100% sexual topics. She made some good observations.

@rachellmcgrath1184

4 жыл бұрын

Mariah G Im not sure that you watched the entire podcast... Miley knew call her daddy was sexual but you can see how taken back she was at some of Alex’s questions? (Ex. What does sex mean to you vs BJ tips) And no lol she didn’t get a copy of every question before hand.

In the podcast, Miley expresses how much she loves therapy.. not trying to hate but you didn’t listen to the interview.

@eabarza

4 жыл бұрын

Shallon did say ”like miley, i encourage you to get in to therapy” tho :)

@danielamorilladicicco6693

4 жыл бұрын

what kind of therapy is she doing? she could be lying or it´s just not effective.

@wolftownesque

4 жыл бұрын

Therapy takes time. It’s not instant.

@demibellini6915

3 жыл бұрын

Lara she does, listen to the joe rogan interview

@dunnotck1

3 жыл бұрын

@@danielamorilladicicco6693 She said she's having therapy with Dr. Ayman, she read a book of his and had been going to him since she was 17. Allegedly because I can't prove that what she said is true.

Miley is not a mess. She has her life very much together and is wise way beyond her years compared to you and everyone on this thread. Miley doesn’t smoke weed. This video SEETHES jealousy. No one wants to hear about y’alls dry handies anyway.

I listened to the call her daddy podcast and actually Miley seemed to be really focused on self improvement, including therapy and sobriety. She also purposely redirected the conversation when Alex asked her sex questions, for example when asked what her favorite position was she replied “CEO”. She was promoting her new song, so I think it was more of a business move than a way to talk about sex.

@dottedlines

4 жыл бұрын

This woman hasn't even heard the interview. She's a judgmental Karen

@sofiamariastagnomercado9412

2 жыл бұрын

@@dottedlines 🙌🏽🙌🏽

I became better because I assumed it was my fault. I took accountability for self deprecating behaviour. And that I’m turn made me love myself. I read more, I work full time, I workout, I have less friends. Yes. But I’m so fulfilled and that I’m turn makes me more giving and intuitive to other’s needs.

@aleaswanson3919

3 жыл бұрын

In****

girl did you even listen to the podcast or her new song? its all about personal and female empowerment and freedom.....

@Paulagonia

4 жыл бұрын

That means Miley is the perfect example of "do as I say not as I do"

That's Miley's opinion and it's her life, so I don't get why you'd talk down on her when I think that - if its progress for her, even if its not much progress to you (not that what you think matters), it still is progress. She is proud of the person she has become and from the podcast, I actually found it enlightening and yeah I know I could be wrong but it did make sense to me. It resonated. I think we need to acknowledge that we're different and we all grow at our own pace. "Life's magic happens". I want to be successful but I also don't want to force my way to it (of course I'll work for it but I won't chase it), maybe life isn't the best so I can learn to be mindful and self-aware of the things getting in the way of my success. This is my honest opinion and I do respect Shallon's, I just thought I'd voice mine out.

You can see Miley's chaotic personality in her music too. Like how it's always so 'different' and 'unexpected'. She even said in an interview that she never thinks about what she's done, she's just constantly trying new things. I like a lot of her music, but the fact that she doesn't have a sound or a message makes it seem like she's experimenting because she has a lack of creative direction and she doesn't know what she's trying to offer to the world. I mean Taylor Swift has changed her sound a lot over the years but you know her music is going to focus on romantic relationships, and idek what Miley's music focuses on. Sometimes partying, sometimes dating or being single or politics or idek. Anyway, just an observation.

When I was broken and couldn’t see the light my dog saved me. So happy you are about to experience having a fur baby ❤️

“Should I do it in her teeth?” SHALLON! 🙈🙈 I cant with you!

@rockyrae3455

4 жыл бұрын

Nah. Too exhausting 😀

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@rockyrae3455 Are you a big fan of Rocky Road ice cream?

@rockyrae3455

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnhartsock1891 I have never had it 😀

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@rockyrae3455 It's great ice cream, Rocky. Not sure if they still make it. Was popular years ago

@klickingkayasmr7585

4 жыл бұрын

Dude, I died!!! 😂😂💀💀

At 27 I knew exactly who I was I was married and while my daughters were still young I resumed my studies and got two Bachelor degrees. Miley worries me and I believe I'd like her if I met her. But I 100% agree with you that Miley had been molested, I've said this for years. I feel very sorry for her and always have

@Hey-kf5er

4 жыл бұрын

Miley is a successful artist and millionaire. Currently living a drug-free, healthy lifestyle. Just because she’s not married or doesn’t have kids by this age it’s worrisome???

@pixie3760

4 жыл бұрын

@@Hey-kf5er what's worrisome and terribly sad is the fact that she was exploited as a child and at 27 she still doesn't seem to know who she is. I feel very very sorry for her. We all know being a millionaire doesn't bring one happiness and if she's still carrying around childhood baggage she'll never be happy. As Shallon was saying her very public displays of inappropriate behavior especially for a woman of her age, she's no longer a child is something she could address with therapy. Being single and happy is a wonderful thing. But Miley has yet to be single long enough to learn how to enjoy it she leapfrogs from one relationship to the next. Even before she married her husband they'd break up for a time but she couldn't be alone

@buttercup7536

3 жыл бұрын

Lol miley is waaaay richer than you and she experienced the lavish life in a way you could never dream and if she wanted a dude like your husband she could snap her fingers and he'd be there lmao

Wow that ldescription of guy breaking up/vs girl breaking up was really true and made so much sense to me! ❤️❤️❤️

1,000% recommend watching the interview Miley did with Joe Rogan if you watched this. It will give some more perspective and food for thought.

I love that you always talk about personal responsibility! Life only gets better once you are more self-aware.

@colleenvandamme8824

4 жыл бұрын

how ironic you say that, she has zero personal responsibility, look at her reddit post and watch deangelos video

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@colleenvandamme8824 Are you an ex of Jean Claude's?

The title is a bit harsh isn’t it? We are all growing up and learning about ourselves, try new different styles. I don’t think that’s called being a mess

A concussion and a messy breakup helped me get back on track.

When you’re too early and there is literally no comments... yikessss.

I was a wreck around that age, I learned from my consequences, lost friends, moments, put my health at risk, values... So if you want to change, you have to be aware and willing to change.

Shallon said in a recent video that she has a theory of your brain already knowing everything.. I feel like in this video she covered points my brain already knew but needed to hear from someone else to validate it. I need to stop behaving the why I always do and wondering why things always turn out the same. Time to shake things up 💗

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

Savannah, I know a lot of people whose brains know absolutely nothing!

When you said “you’re not a loser if you’re virgin at 16” I shhhhhakkked, I’m 20 and virgin. THANKS FOR REMINDING ME MY VALUE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT💃🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

this is so weird...was literally going to dm you today asking for a vid on how to stop being so self destructive...are you in my mind

I was a mess 6 months ago. I had very oppressing friends, my grades were down, I was very sad person wearing a happy mask. I felt like they were the only people that would talk to me, or if ı lost them ı would be alone. MOne day they left me, out of nowhere, without an apparent reason. At that time, I thought that was the worse thing but actually, it was the best. After them I started meditation, working out, Roaccutane, smiling more to people, faking confiding, caring about people and now life is great. The thesis is sometimes we feel being alone is the worse thing and we'll die alone but the people leaving are life may create an opening for the better people, better YOU to come along.

I’ve always thought Miley is body dysmorphic and thinks she may be transgender..not bad just always thought she thinks she doesn’t fit in the right body.

shallon just wondering, how old were you when you got divorced, divorcee?

I lesson my accomplishments so I know people like me for me, I don't dress up so I know people don't like me for my body and I hide my traumas so people don't think I'm damaged. I don't want to be perfect, I don't want to be a mess. I want to be human.

Even though Miley is chaotic, I really like her. She seems to be really nice and like she means well, but of course that doesn't mean she doesn't hurt others with her self- destructive ways

I am so impressed. I watched the interview and then saw you had made a response and was like 'ugh I love Shallon but is she really gonna tear down Miley owning herself and her proud sexuality?' And you absolutely broke it down and I now see so many issues with that interview 😂 Such great advice as always, girl.

Your hair looks really looks gorgeous like this, it frames your face beautifully!

Maybe she hookup with selena and demi.

@vg89

4 жыл бұрын

Oh god

@iamfuchsiaroses

4 жыл бұрын

Please stop 😭

@velvet123

4 жыл бұрын

🤢🤢🤢🤮

@acidl614

4 жыл бұрын

I think she did with demi

Most of us are messy people but we don’t talk about it until there’s someone famous...

Yeahhh watch the whole podcast...

Assume it is your fault - I have been living by this advise for quite some time already and it has drastically improved my experiences with ...everything! Don't get this the wrong way, it is not about unhealthy criticism and self hatred, it is about asking yourself - ok, this person got me into a nasty situation, but what could have I done to avoid it? because in 95% of cases, you could have done something, like, learnt red flags and avoided certain behaviours.

She cant stop... she told us that in 2013 :P

Plenty 👏🏻of 👏🏻exercise 👏🏻so he will sleep through the night and be a happier puppy. Also, the vet will tell you, the cheap dog food is just fine. I’m so excited for you!

I still am rooting for Miley❤️

Well this was extremely helpful. Sometime we are the toxic ones and you know what its okay to admit that, sometimes you just need to accept it. Heal and move on. I accepted it a year ago and its changed my whole life around.

Puppy tips! 🐶Have a lot of organic chew toys because they will chew on everything. Try those organic antlers its better for them than plastic ones. If not just buy good quality rubber ones. Also print out a list of toxic stuff for dogs (like grapes, xylitol, dark chocolate) and try not to have those around the house. If you have the time please give him home cooked soft food like boiled unseasoned chicken breast and veggies. Dont feed them any salt or sugar seasoning. change their water bowl every chance you get within the day because it gets dirty quick! 💜💜 so excited for you! i cant wait to get my own house and puppy someday ♥️

An ounce of prevention is worth a mega-ton of cure, kids. Avoid becoming a train wreck by staying in school, resisting the urge to become a child star. If you must pursue a career in show business, don't do that shit before the age of at least 19

Can you please do Pamela Anderson, I feel like she's done everything you warned us about!! and look how it turned out lovers turned nasty!

@Sara-9865

4 жыл бұрын

Like what do you mean her lovers turned into haters I haven’t kept up with her

@yazminfair6660

4 жыл бұрын

sara her relationships turned nasty !! ESP with tommy lee and kid rock see what they said about her !! I don’t mean to be rude I love Pamela !!

@Mar.1634

4 жыл бұрын

@@yazminfair6660 what did they say about her? Can you share a link to some articles/videos?

@yazminfair6660

3 жыл бұрын

M tommy lee said he’s glad she left him for kid rock cuz now she can leave him alone ! Kid rock said he’s happy he’s no longer with her too

I'm not defending Miley but there was a tea saying that Liam was stealing money from her. He was never a good actor to begin with. Other than surfing in Malibu he wasn't doing that much. I do agree that she should learn how to be single. Does anyone remember her first boyfriend Justin Gaston before she got in with Liam? And it's also been confirmed that she had a fling with Mandy Jiroux back in the mid 2000's. 😔They had a KZread channel together. The mess!

@pancakesourdough8057

4 жыл бұрын

You do realize that Liam was in three smash hit movies and probably made a lot of money from them? He's been doing regularly 1-2 films in a year and is a millionaire. I bet he can pay his own bills.

@addicted183

4 жыл бұрын

Pancake Sourdough lol, excluding The Hunger Games franchise most of the movies he’s been in have been flops but ok. I’m not saying he can’t pay his own bills but no one can deny that Miley skyrocketed his career with the movie they did together. And she has more $$$ than him. After all, their house in Malibu was hers. As chaotic and messy as she is, she was the breadwinner in that relationship.

@pancakesourdough8057

4 жыл бұрын

So? That doesn't mean he stole from her. People spill all kinds of outrageous accusations here in the deep wonders of internet based on what? Rumours or even make stuff up in their own heads.

@addicted183

4 жыл бұрын

@@pancakesourdough8057 ok maybe not stealing, but "using" her money. Plus, before 2013 there had been rumours for years that he had been using her for publicity.

@evelienesoete3958

4 жыл бұрын

@Agatha z I believe that is Chris Hemsworth, Liam's brother

i thought u were gonna sing - and she wonnttt stoooop, after u said she cant stop! LOLOL

If you watch the whole interview you'll hear that she's already in therapy and has a very logical approach to her life. She seems less chaotic to me than before but she is definitely superficial, immature and narcisstic. She even said "the only thing that turns me on is when people bring stuff to the table" 🙄

@belladonna5904

4 жыл бұрын

How is that shallow? That's the most important thing in a relationship..what they bring to the table..

@Stella-cv4mc

4 жыл бұрын

@@belladonna5904 I hear you, but if you put it in the context of her whole interview, she seems to have an incredibly utilitarian approach to relationships and sexuality. For example she also said she is "obsessed with herself" and many other things like that. Now there are many people, especially women, who need to be more "selfish" and less people-pleasing. Especially for these types it's very important what the partner brings to the table and to demand high standards. It wasn't my intent to diminish the general importance of that, but in the case of Miley particularly I found it very indicating of an immature and narcissistic nature.

Omgggg! I'm so excited for you about your puppy, Shallon! He/she is going to change your world! For the better, ofcourse. You won't be able to handle how much you love him/her. It's just the best feeling.

yes! i had a feeling you would do this video

Hey Shalon, sorry for the long message but I hope you read because this has hit home for me so much and I want to thank you. I friend-broke up with a guy recently (I’m also a guy) who did two Miley things you mentioned that drove me mad. He was always the victim of something, yes he had a tough life but he was like Phoebe in Friends, in where he make everything link back to certain tragedies especially when challenged about something. Actually he was a bit fixated about sex and was basically complaining about unable to hook up with pandemic, like it was fine until he KEPT BRINGING IT UP like all the time. Then anytime I try to say I felt like our conversations felt like two 14 yo boys sometimes, he got defensive and basically would call me a prude. It was really fucked up annoying, he also moaned a lot about being alone (relationship wise) and when I try say I was struggling too because in my area the lockdown has been super strict here and I returned to my parents for the pandemic and not seen my friends in ages, trying to indicate everyone is feeling alone he bring up the stuff from past. You nailed it on the head for me when you said “not a bad person, but chaotic”. That’s how I felt with him, we had a couple of Video-drinks during lockdown, which was a tool I used to help me feel less isolated as I stuck in the back-arse of no where with my parents and I had to help them, I spent most days helping my dad filing tons of paper work so his employees got their Covid Pandemic Payments or helping my mom through the online training courses she had to do for her new job in a nursing home to help with the health emergency. I was with my parents a lot, doing tedious jobs with them, I didn’t mind it but I just want to chill and he would offer to video call me and then he would completely ruin it after about 3 drinks breaking down about stuff. The straw that broke the camels back was one night he started writing alluding to suicide after he had drink in him and I told him goto bed (I could tell from what he was writing it was more for attention than genuine) I expressed how I can’t deal with this conversation as an uncle I was extremely close to as a child shot himself, he should contact someone else if he’s serious, this was extremely painful for me. He basically said he wasn’t responsible for my uncle and then abused me which I gave back and he blocked me. A few days later, he unblocked me and gave a piss poor apology and then went into Hyper-sexual talk again and I wasn’t there for it & called him out. He blocked me and then over the rest of last week kept blocking and unblocking me, sounding reasonable before doing “but you said this” on me & trying to blame me. This video on Miley really has help me grasp his thought process so thank you, as I still felt bamboozled and doubted if I was just crazy and not being a good friend or something but now I realised he was chaotic.

I mean, she did tell us she “can’t stop and won’t stop.”

Had my first time at 16 and I completely rushed into it. Yes, I wished I waited because that would’ve meant that i skipped my very first boyfriend who was a f... mess.

I love how that color of eyeshadow looks on you. Your eyes just pop! Gorgeous! Love love love

Be as careful with your pup’s food as you are with your own food. For example, rawhide treats are made with toxic chemicals which are not good for your dog. A lot of treats are full of processed chemicals and subgrade animal meat, and then people wonder they their dogs die of cancer. Be very wary of dog treats which are made abroad in places where they don’t have basic food standards.

Your sweatshirt is so beautiful and dreamy

Honestly I met & fell in love with a narcissist & we had a talk about how I need to be in school or working. I had knee surgery earlier this year but I've since recovered so he had a point. I started to take a step back & reexamine my life. Then he blindsided me with a breakup. I've been watching ALL of Shallon's videos & when I did the breakup autopsy I realized I was pinning my happiness on some asshole who didn't even care about me. I also realized I'm a mess & I seriously need to get my shit together. So I enrolled in hair school which I'm so excited to start next month & I've since realized I need to be alone for awhile & grow more & learn to love & respect myself in order to stop attracting narcissists. I wouldn't have been able to get through the breakup were it not for Shallon's pearls of wisdom in the many many videos I've sat & watched or rewatched! I was honestly such a wreck but now I'm pursuing my passions it took a shitty guy breaking up with me to realize I wasn't happy with my life & the whole victim narrative really isn't cute. The breakup is still kinda fresh in my mind & he still texts me but day by day things are getting a little better & a little easier! Thanks to Shallon & what I swear is the LAST shitty narcissistic guy I'll ever allow to waste my time!

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

Natalie, you've got everything together. Now it's time for a genuine romance. Busy Saturday night?

@nataliegauthier8152

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnhartsock1891 Shallon sent you didn't she?

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

I just figured you were in need of some quality attention.

I am 2 mins in and the vibe you are giving off today is so fun! Thank you 😊 also puppy tips 1. You need all of the chew toys ALL OF THEM if you like your furniture the way it is 2. A personal recommendation some people disagree with me but I would skip the pee pads they could lead to bad habits. Just start potty training outside from the start 3. Master the 5 main commands within the first year and reap the rewards 4. Start socializing asap. I will stop because I could go on and on. ( had a dog or 4 ) ❤

I stopped being a mess when I stopped watching your videos.

Theory: Miley is an excellent performer and has a great sense of who her audience is. So she gave "Call her Daddy" audiences the sort of shock factor that gets them excited and the deeper, REAL Miley came out in her interview with Joe Rogan.

"you are the common denominator in your life" - - a word!

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

Sibohan. That's a very profound message

@SioBonz

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnhartsock1891 yes, thank Shallon 🙏🏽

@SioBonz

4 жыл бұрын

@Agatha z a harsh reality but the sooner we confront this the sooner we can level ourselves up

1. Assume everything is your fault. For just a while, step into the mindset that every negative outcome you had was your fault and make multiple theories. See what pings up inside you and gather data to see what YOU are doing to add fuel to the fire. 2. Once you've gathered data, and gone over the mythologies you tell people, make a list of all the messy things you do. Identify what's wrong. 3. Experiment with inverse decisions - for an entire day, or even just a few minutes, experiment. Find someone who embodies the traits you want more of, that are the opposite of your chaos, and do everything they would do. Do the opposite of what you'd normally do, and shadow/cosplay them for a while. Gather more information to see what works and what doesn't.

Puppy tip: if they bark never yell at the them, they think you’re playing with them. Also train them you need to be their master you can still cuddle them, but they need to know who the master is!

Thank you Shallon. You have no idea how precious some of your sentences are. You don't have to think about it all. This says a lot about you.

The Miley impression PLEASEEEEEEEEE

Queen shallon miss the Selena Gomez videos! Can we get one soon? There’s always something we can learn from the whisper goose!

I mean CHD is a sex podcast and a v popular podcast so of course she was talking about sex on it and it was a great promotional opportunity for her new song

Yaaasss go off Shallon. I love when Shallon doesn’t hold back

I really appreciate all these videos, Shallon. They mean so much to me. I'm learning how to become better with every tip and analysis.

First like than watch!! Ur amazing Shall! ❤️🥰

Not trying to enduce puking in the comment section, but my current bf seemed to be in 'chillationships' his entire life and now we have been togethner for three years in a happy and loving relationship. I'm a very firey and passionate person, speaking my mind when something feels amiss, and we gel because of that. He has said its the best relationship he has ever been in, both of his long term exe's were 'chill' hippy girls. His ex texted recently to meet up and he declined. Sometimes it pays to speak your truth

I really let myself go during this pandemic and honestly the turning point for me was when I hadn’t seen my mum in two months (quarantine) and we could finally see each other again. When I stepped out of the car, she didn’t even have to say anything. The look on her face was such a mixture of surprise, worry and disappointment that I promised myself she would never have to look at me like that again.

I don’t think it’s fair to put the length of her and liam’s relationship against her. She met him when she was only 16.

She's a sagittarious. That's the problem

@squreshi8413

4 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking this. I am one. Others dont get it. I relate to a lot of miley, organized chaos. She seems very intelligent and philosophical actually. Kind of cold in love matters, but loyal and caring. When she finds the right guy and REASON to settle down, she will.