Miley went from Liam, an Australian surfer to cody, an Australian surfer. So I just think she wasn’t over Liam and thing repeated itself but I think she is in a better place mentally and I honestly think people who started dating her never really thought about who they were dating, she a chaotic person and they didn’t want that but didn’t come to terms with that until it was all in flames.

@shallonlester

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree. It’s so obvious When we’re not over somebody, and manifest as us dating someone who is identical in as many categories as we can possibly achieve

@terrib.540

3 жыл бұрын

Girl problem with that ..is that Miley HAD fine ass Liam..got him to MARRY her wild ass .. and SHE fumbled the bag. When she finally does mature in her life she will definitely look back at that throwing that relationship away with regret. He (seemingly) accepted her crazy shit when it wasn't his brand. Unfortunate.

@milkyuuu6170

3 жыл бұрын

@@terrib.540 But the thing is, that he met her when she was about 16/17 and he was already 18/19. She was VERY different during the time they met before and dated for awhile, and he stills thinks she's the same lowkey person. They had different views, Miley wanted to focus on her career for a bit longer and also try different styles while Liam wanted to raise a family, just live a simple life with his acting career. But they were strongly attracted to each other and both had done pot (Liam had also done it while Miley was staying sober until the divorce). I think they both need maturity. Liam needs to think straight and logical, and Miley needs to find herself and it seems Disney really messed her up. Also Miley said that she doesn't regret anything with the relationship as it comes and goes, and refused to say anything bad about Liam, she seems very open and understanding.

Your hairdresser since you moved is definitely a keeper. Your hair colour and texture is incredible.

@mrslebowski

3 жыл бұрын

Same thought. That colour, Shallon, is YOUR colour! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@alexiaanddan

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is!!!

@Thislife78-p1w

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah!!! Love her hair

I wish you had been around when I was in my 20s. I feel like I made every cliché mistake you have ever talked about. Thank god for our 30s. Older, wiser and happier!!

@candyslife160

3 жыл бұрын

I say Thank God I learned from these mistakes & am able to be in a stable relationship for the past 18 years now. My 20’s & 30’s taught me how to live in my 40’s now. ThankYou Queen Shallon for all of your hard work and dedication.

@missluna

2 жыл бұрын

100% 👏🏼 where was Shallon when I was growing up in my 20’s 🥺

F him for saying that. She is not a phase. She is a person that he himself chose to be in a relationship with.

@joaneustaquio4786

3 жыл бұрын

yep fuck him fr

@missgingerlime

3 жыл бұрын

THIS

@ThatKillerQuote

3 жыл бұрын

Okay but sometimes you have flings and realize that person wasn't meant for anything more. He never said she wasn't human.

@mariahr8595

3 жыл бұрын

Just because he chose to be in the relationship doesn’t mean she wasn’t a phase. If you look up to Miley you have serious self confidence issues.

i’m not sure you could call 10+ years a phase 😂 in liam’s case at least. i feel like miley is just very creative and authentic and unpredictable, and this can be addictive but also intimidating to men. she even says in one of her songs, “if you’re looking for stable, that will never be me”, she has a lot of trauma and identity issues from the chaos of Disney and Hannah Montana at such a young age that not many people can relate to, not to mention how the media has slandered her since her teen years. honestly, all relationships (friendships and romantic) are “phases” and can be cherished and learned from without belittling. i believe miley will continue to find love in different people at different stages of her life and she doesn’t need to change or water herself down in order to be “wifey material” (which was the basis of her divorce with liam) ❤️ and neither does anyone else! i don’t think cody meant “phase” as an insult in my opinion.

@shirin9452

3 жыл бұрын

I personally think she made it all v clear in Can’t Be Tamed and I was like omg facepalm I bet so many guys are going to ignore this ...that was years ago

@ingridsanchez4431

3 жыл бұрын

very well said! 👏🏽

@gloomydolleyes

3 жыл бұрын

damn you said it!

@enadine6405

3 жыл бұрын

I love the majority of this message

@claudiao7743

3 жыл бұрын

@@enadine6405 yes, it depends on what you want. In Miley’s case, she probably doesn’t want a relationship so her unstableness works for her.

I think it all depends on what each person in the relationship is looking for in a partner. Cody viewed Miley as a phase, Liam wanted her to be his wife. I would also argue that Miley has never taken her relationships with women seriously. That's why you should never try to force it in a relationship because there will be someone else who sees your value.

Thank youu you finally saying it. No boy I don’t have Snapchat, every guy that has ever felt comfortable even asking for my Snapchat and it’s like 2 responses in is alwaysss a fckboi. I can’t take them seriously when they ask for a Snapchat and neither should any girl.

@shallonlester

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree. It’s the biggest red flag when they ask. I just say no and walk away.

@ceebabyyy

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss! It is a huge red flag! I told this guy recently that “Snapchat is a shady app for sneaky people” lol 😂

@FaithAnswered

3 жыл бұрын

@@shallonlester We need to all develop this mindset, setting standards and boundaries is what will force these boys to actually level up. The behaviour changes of men is unfortunately going to be determined by the pressure we put on them. They won’t have the pleasure of running to weaker minded women if the standard has been set collectively. Don’t ever lower your standards for anyone, this is the hill I choose to stand and die on if I must.

@priscillas8109

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! I thought I was the only one. Ask for Snapchat? Turn off! Hell, I don’t even want to date someone with a Snapchat

@benandjerrys338

Жыл бұрын

I literally don't own snap chat and it's never hindered my dating life 🤣. Though ive never done online dating, and I'm 33. I meet guys in person, a few texts but the aim is always get communication to mainly actual, old fashioned, how our parents courted, actual phone calls and actual real live dates. I moved to a new city during 2020 covid after abuse with literally NO friends, NO job and NO money and I STILL said a big fat no to "Netflix and chill", covid or no covid. It actual did me a lot of good having that year with no one. They say when life is tough you learn who your true friends are, what if like me you learn that that answer is literally zero. Not saying it was easy, having literally no one is bloody hard and it lasted roughly a year, but I learnt a lot about myself, what I like, dont like, etc, purging myself from all that people pleasing junk that allowed me to stay in abuse. Looking back I actually enjoyed that year, I moved to a new city, started a business, got back into work after 9 years with literally no help besides me. Guys loved that. Because I wasnt looking, cause I was fine alone before, I can be fine again. I got so much male attention it was rediculous. I literally couldn't leave the house for longer than 20 minutes without some guy asking me out. I got literally twice the make attention at 31 than at 21, it was insane, and it was literally due to confidence. My fiance actually asked me if I was interested because j wasn't texting him all day, he was used to having women run after him, his number is, I've heard things and for him to hear a woman say well that great, women love you,well guess what, men love me so were on the same page here 🤣🤣. Think in another video you said that a guy could be non committal then suddenly he lits a point in his life when he's suddenly ready to settle down. I think we were both like this, independent, living our lives than just hit that place where we want be more settled, so thats what we did. I was actually warned in the beginning, (not saying we should ignore red flags and warning signs) but I believe in knowing what you want and following your gut instinct and since I started doing that,life got way better very quickly. Ive waffled on a bit.... Long story short, ban Netflix and chill and I'm literally never downloading Snapchat (not even 100% what it is....) 🤣🤣

The only problem with this approach is that we just assume that Miley has a problem with being called a phase. That she chased Cody and he passively reciprocated. I don't think that's the case. Maybe he was a phase for her as well. I think we should stop assuming that women are always after the label of a stable relationship with a guy, stop assuming that all women want is being considered girlfriend material. It's not. Other than that, I love your content Shallon!!

@holytans3553

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss.

@sofi9151

3 жыл бұрын

@@holytans3553 Exactly! I get that the intention is good but this type of message slightly encourages internalised misogyny. Even the term girlfriend/wife material is so patriarchal that I've never been able to stomach it. I love Shallon, I really do and I get that humans are complex but these messages get a bit contradictory. It's usually "don't let a man dictate who you are" but then it's suddenly "change who you are for a man to take you seriously". Makes my head spin a bit and luckily, I'm old enough to know what I take and leave, but I think it's gonna get a bit confusing for younger viewers...

@holytans3553

3 жыл бұрын

@@sofi9151 I 100% agree. Tbh with you I'm also subscribed to Shallon for a reason right... But imo this is not the first time that she is contradictory in a dangerous way. And exactly, some of her messages in this video makes Miley seem inferior to Cody and like she was the issue in their relationship. Also, I like Cody Simpson but imo, a man randomly coming out to call another woman a phase is a big red flag. I think that's what Shallon should've made a video about.

@sofi9151

3 жыл бұрын

@@holytans3553 OK well my responses seem to be getting deleted but hopefully I can at least say that it's quite telling that this Cody guy (who I've never heard of) is so comfortable speaking this way about her when she's clearly the much bigger star. Basically shows men never see women as equal even when they're way above them 😄

@holytans3553

3 жыл бұрын

@@sofi9151 Woah yeah, this is pure truth. It's actually disturbing and very unfortunate.

As a teen every rejection felt like a catastrophe I would never recover from. Adult me thanks the universe for every person who "rejects" me for having standards and boundaries, be it guys or friends. Thank Lord the trash took itself out before I wasted another second of my precious life.

@lauren9603

3 жыл бұрын

This! 🙌🏼 Absolutely!!

I think Miley is one of those woman who will have life by the balls when it comes to her career, etc..yet when it come to solidifying her personal life, she uncertain because she hasn't developed mentally, emotionally yet. I think until someone works through their childhood wounds, they'll always be a little girl looking for true love and trying to find out who they are.

@qazedc3

3 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly!! It's her inner child that needs healing. Often times children who grow up much too fast are the ones where on the inside they're still emotionally a little behind. I'm the same way and am working through my stuff. So honestly I don't blame Miley at all since child stars are all pretty much forced to be adults at so young an age.

@neetusaini2461

3 жыл бұрын

How do we know she is even looking for TRUE love?

@bellakim9404

3 жыл бұрын

I think we are all looking for love, yet until you can fully love yourself, you can't love someone else. That saying is true to the core. Miley is a series of heartbreaks, drugs and bad life choices because she doesnt love herself. In time I hope she can and will evolve. We are all a work in progress.

@neetusaini2461

3 жыл бұрын

@@bellakim9404 but she did love Liam. And maybe she is at a point where she is NOT looking for love. Her life is no longer tied to a romantic partner. This is why she appears to be chaotic. For her romantic partners are not necessity, just something that’s easily available to her. Think of female version of Leonardo di Caprio. He is the ultimate bachelor , never getting married … yet people look at him and think of him as a strong free alpha male but with Miley , why are we attaching this sad narrative that she is looking for love ? What if she is isn’t, and just wants to goof around like Leo?

@bellakim9404

3 жыл бұрын

@@neetusaini2461 Leonardo DiCaprio isn't a walking time bomb publicly laden with mishaps, yet I think when he finds the one with someone who is not a 'pick me chic, just like George Clooney did, Leo will settle down. Without Self-respect there is no love. Miley will one day discover the value of her self worth and put herself up at a bid of priceless instead of valuing herself at 0$'s.

one thing that’s really helped me get over a nasty breakup or a f-boy i was blind about, is thinking THANK GOD they’re gone, and thank god i learned what i don’t like in a relationship.

@Rebecca-ck3qq

3 жыл бұрын

thanks for this! I got dumped by an f-boy not too long ago, and this conceptualization of it makes it less painful

@laurac86

3 жыл бұрын

I just could NOT get over my toxic ex for years. We briefly got back together but it ended with him using me, stealing from me and cheating on me and as bad as it hurt it’s what I needed to get over his sorry ass!!!

Dude Miley literally did charity with him, I can’t believe he said that about her

I feel like Shallon is so persuasive and strikes just the right tone with her sponsored stuff. With the metaphors and everything, you know? She’s got me thinking damn I need a VPN 💀

“set your standards and smoke them out” “if its fragile let it break” words to live by while dating. Shallonisms

I’m so happy I found you in my early college years because I was going down a really bad path in terms of interpersonal relationships and honestly, because of you I’ve had so much better foresight and ability to see through BS and excuses and therefore prevent so much madness from continuing to happen! You truly are the big sister I needed growing up. Thank you Shallon! I love you xoxox

Cara Delevingne is another faux chill. I’m surprised she never dated Miley

@sarah3602

3 жыл бұрын

They are both alphas so unlikely to date

@shallonlester

3 жыл бұрын

The day ain’t over yet

@lunity1111

3 жыл бұрын

Haha yeah

@truthbearingpsychonaut

3 жыл бұрын

They had something, back in 2013-2014

@PureSparkles22

3 жыл бұрын

@@truthbearingpsychonaut they hung out.

This caramel blonde...no words, just awe and envy 😍 How do you get this color?!

@MindyBeee

3 жыл бұрын

I think she's going back to full blonde for summer ⛱️☀️

@pri.sci.lla.

2 жыл бұрын

It’s called bronde

I think Miley’s persona is chaotic etc but her irl i would guess is more chill. I listened to her interview on Joe Rogan & CHD. She’s not as crazy as she seems, she’s really cool & smart I like her a lot.

@Rosula31

3 жыл бұрын

She was all over the place during JR... not chill at all.. she’s a pick me girl hardcore and quirky 🤪

@aliaellis

3 жыл бұрын

I agree that she wasn’t chill on JR lol but she can’t help it. It’s her personality but she needs to find someone who’s compatible with that

I'm currently with someone and I still watch your videos to stay aware and mentally sharp about dating! Your advice is so valuable to so many women, thank you!

Her Joe Rogan interview is very telling... & the comforting thing is she’s very self aware. Unlike Demi, she has a better sense of who she is, what she’s not, her strengths/weaknesses & is accountable - down to the perception of her. I listened to the episode wanting to understand, since I had my own harsh opinions. Made me respect her more..

@KittyQueenMeow

Жыл бұрын

Same here, Priscilla. Peace. Very sad to hear or read all these harsh hate towards Miley, as if she had personally hurt them

I’m from the Gold Coast, Australia and when my son was sick in hospital Cody Simpson was there meeting the children. Really nice guy. I think he was a no show at the Olympic trials a few weeks ago.

love her or hate her or envy her shallon knows she just does

This isn't the popular thing to do, but I overcame my "phase" as chaotic and rebellious by starting to attend church and really seek Jesus. I met my husband through that process and my life is so centered now and full of peace. Our values were already established since how we met, and now our marriage is centered around the Lord and his blessings. It breaks my heart that not many seek that peace from chaos, but I believe it is out there for anyone who desires it. 💕

@FoundSheep-AN

3 жыл бұрын

How did you met your husband? I converted back to Christianity not long ago too. But there are almost only women and the few boys married young

@haleytruslow7200

3 жыл бұрын

That’s a beautiful story ❤️ I’m glad you found peace and happiness

@ErbearWyatt

3 жыл бұрын

@@FoundSheep-AN I found a great church with young adult fellowship! I owe all the timing to God, but I truly was seeking God after a tragic death in my family. Instead, I found God and my husband! We both hit it off because we knew a mutual friend, and it was such a small world in how we both knew this person. We talked everyday and he became my best friend and it was so easy because our values were already the same. ❤️ Keep the faith, follow Jesus and a Godly man will come your way. 💕

@ErbearWyatt

3 жыл бұрын

@@haleytruslow7200 thank you so much!! God truly gives when you seek Him ❤️❤️❤️

I thing that the problem with Miley is different. She dates simple and chill guys, which is good in one side, because if there were two chaotic people, it would be a lot. But on the other hand, someone's gotta give in the relationship. Maybe she would have to quiet down because of him, or he would have to do the opposite. Guys like that may like her because they found her exciting. Until they realize she ir more than what they thought and leave her. I don't think that she isn't girlfriend material, but just not for those guys. Liam and Cody look sooo boring

Your hair looks bomb.

@BlueBerryBronzer

3 жыл бұрын

Is she letting the color fade out or something ? Looks closer to blond every time I see it. Looks nice though. Just don’t know anything about hair dye.

@heyimbtk

3 жыл бұрын

@@BlueBerryBronzer I don’t think so, but I could definitely be wrong. Faded color typically looks pretty dull and hers looks super glossy and fresh. Red hair dye is infamous for fading fast too, so I’m guessing she’s had it changed since. ♥️

Shallon you are a gift to humanity 💕. You give this amazing advice to viewers who need it. You have spread so much positive helpful energy in this world, we are like your students or your children learning from your wisdom and I appreciate it so deeply. I started watching your channel about three years ago, and I can honestly say I think your advice has changed my life, and I would not be as successful as I am today without hearing it... I literally went from being homeless at 18, heartbroken, and broke to having a career in the medical field as a nurse... you are a genius and I don’t think anyone could even comprehend how much you have helped humanity. Not only that, you have showed me how to be a good role model to my younger sister (who I am raising because her mom lost custody, I don't have my own kids). You may never see this, but thank you from the bottom of my heart.

We are not going to skip past saying "beliee dat" after every sentence

@salamander8301

3 жыл бұрын

Wtaf is that?!?

@haleytruslow7200

3 жыл бұрын

Gonna need a video on that for sure.

@kailahbrown4887

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 not at all, I was looking to see if anyone else caught that 😭

As an Aussie, your Australian accent is sending me 😂😂😂 love it ❤️

@inevitablebykymmy

3 жыл бұрын

Haha same here 😂

Can you make a video about how to stick to positive changes in your life (like quitting bad habits)

Love the hair. The colour suits you very well 🙏🏽🥰

“You know what, don’t squirt ketchup on me.” Loool shallon

“I’m surprised she’s non binary” Demi has entered the chat

@poppyandcocomusic

3 жыл бұрын

Miley has actually come out as gender fluid a while ago so I guess that’s pretty close...

@simplydepressed

3 жыл бұрын

i used to be lovatic but the way i roll my eyes whenever i see her name. still love her voice but she's a whole mess

@darraghcollins1374

3 жыл бұрын

@@simplydepressed me too I love her voice and songs but yes

@codezero7981

3 жыл бұрын

@@simplydepressed same I distanced myself from her personal life because it's chaotic, but occasionally I still listen to her music.

You should hear her newest song “Angels Like You” She’s aware of her toxicity. “I know that you're wrong for me Gonna wish we never met on the day I leave I brought you down to your knees 'Cause they say that misery loves company It's not your fault I ruin everything And it's not your fault I can't be what you need Baby, angels like you can't fly down hell with me I'm everything they said I would be”

@lynninfinite

3 жыл бұрын

Amazing album

@extrasagrada

3 жыл бұрын

@@lynninfinite i liked it too! it's quite insightful

@callmekhaleesi

3 жыл бұрын

Its her screams for help and you have the audacity to call her only toxic and thats it. She just needed his love and didnt wanna feel like a weight that has to be carried. Surely liam didnt make her feel at ease

@KittyQueenMeow

Жыл бұрын

She has a lot of jealous haters out there. They think her success, fortune just fell on her lap magically. They conveniently have amnesia, blindness and deafness to her working all through her childhood till now, without a break, forgoing school (she was schooled by a private teacher who followed her around), thinking that her talent just magically turned on without development, road bumps from Hanna Montana days. It’s ok because she is infinitely more self-aware than all those haters combined

I used to have that mindset that I just needed someone to see the greatness in me for me to believe it until i realized that the people in my life didn’t want me to know my greatness bc if I did I wouldn’t be friends with any of them anymore, they all benefited greatly from me not knowing my worth. I hope anyone who still has this mindset realizes it’s you who needs to see it in yourself And once you do you will truly become unstoppable.

I needed this video this week! Been feeling really hesitant about being honest about my change as a person and my new boundaries with a friend who only wants to party. I’ve been holding back on my truth in fear of losing them as a friend, but this is the reminder that I can only live my truth and quality people who really love me for me will support!

I wish me and Shallon could be friends in real life 😭 I’ve been watching her since I was 16 and I swear she’s like the cool rich aunt that has the best stories and gives the best advice 💗💗 love you girl!

also, if you could look past her chaos and media-fueled criticism, i feel like miley has similar values to you. in my opinion, she has always come across as very authentic and confident, doesn’t care what others think about her, knows when to step away and not change for a man (liam), constantly spreading love (her happy hippie foundation; her quarantine show), isn’t afraid to reinvent herself when her personal goals change, and she may try too hard to be “cool girl” sometimes but i’ll take that over Froyo Karen anyday 😂 miley is definitely unhinged, but she’s always come off as a total Alpha to me and your negative opinion of her has always puzzled me! i’d love a vid highlighting her Alpha traits❤️

@user-ve3oj9re2k

3 жыл бұрын

also i feel like she acknowledges and even jokes about her past mistakes and wildness, and has grown from it rather than being in denial and blaming everyone around her. i’m bordering on sounding like a crazy stan rn 😭 but she’s just always been a role model to me for these reasons and ur a role model to me too and i’m like uhhh there’s so many positive qualities y’all share how is shallon not seeing it hahaha

@pri.sci.lla.

3 жыл бұрын

I like Miley’s music a lot but she gives me very much cold blooded beta... not alpha at all. She’s a mess

@user-ve3oj9re2k

3 жыл бұрын

how so? i’m curious what makes you think that? she’s definitely a mess but she’s never come across as needing the validation or approval of others to me. very much more of a leader than a follower. also i felt like the way she reaches out to other celebs and rekindled with selena was very pack-building. at least i think so.

@heyranumudova39

3 жыл бұрын

Finally the comment I was looking for. I agree, she is very much authentic, talented, hardworking, mature and more organized than most people think. Like i listened to her creative process and how she lays out her thoughts and stuff. That seemed very systemic and efficient. I also think she's alpha.

@pri.sci.lla.

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-ve3oj9re2k all celebrities need validation and approval of others.

"Who brought her to this party? Why is she here?" Omg I laughed so hard bc it's so what I would say!!!🤣🤣🤣

You have a lot of humility to share this stuff with us Shallon, so we don't go through it. Thank you

Great video ! Love the Golden Girls references, would love your modern analysis of the characters ! How to unleash your Blanche, how to articulate your Dorothy, how to lead like a Sophia, how to get out of St-Olaf, as examples... Thank you. Also, this hair is girlfriend material ! 😍

shallon i missed you!!! your videos keep me going. And seriously nothing gets me thru work outs or tanning or anything else tedious like your videos/podcasts do. Love you!!!

Ugh thank you for another uplifting moment. I love Love LOVE being in the shallontourage 🥲♥️♥️♥️

I think it’s important to understand with your heart (not only your brain) that there are a lot of guys that will treat you right. So, when someone sends you nudes you just block them and move on. Cuz even if you explain to him that it’s not appropriate, he still did it. Meaning it is in his nature to disrespect people around him.

Miley seems like controlled chaos. Miley apparently is the queen of lists - she makes pros and cons list for dating, assigns a numerical value to each item (ex: he make me laugh +10, he smell weird -5) adds them all up and if the score is negative, she dumps him. This is amazing advice cause you see with math how someone adds to your life. I noticed with myself, structure allows me to go crazy cause i know the box. If you have a good foundation, you can do anything and set boundaries. This happens a lot with plans, if you know you are taking a bus home and that costs 5$ you can enjoy your night. If you dont have any plans to get home, then you're in trouble. edit: sorry Miley might be non-binary, i used she since idk but dont mean to misgender if that's the case

Can't watch it now, but can't wait to watch it tomorrow 😩 💞 💅

OMG, Shallon. Explain your hair! It's so beautiful and healthy and shiny. 😍 I love how you can rock any color.

Omg!!!! This video was literally an emotional waterfall of absolute truth! I love how rare you are on these things!

Shallon, you are the biggest inspiration I have ever seen that is a public figure. I have been watching your videos for just under two years and they have helped me so much. You are the person who has inspired me to be confident within myself, stand up for myself and stand up for other people if I believe in them. I really think you should be so much bigger than you are, and that every person in the world needs your advice. Thank you so much for putting your content out there. You truly deserve your success.

loveeee the paris/kourtney segment!!! honestly such good advice when it comes to dating edit: ok just got to the "he sees you as AVAILABLE, and that's no compliment" -- hits right to the soul

I love your hair, it suits you wonderfully!

Hair color goals!! 🤩

Thank god I found shallon finally I can relate to someone .. I love your hair ..

Happy to see you again Shallon! The hair looks flawless! 👱‍♀️ I have good feelings of both Simpson and Cyrus, I have nothing to say about either of them.

Shallon we NEED hair tips I love how your hair looks is so pretty ❤️❤️❤️

It's my birthday today. 1st I get Raja & Raven, an hour later I get Trixie & Katya, Now I get Shallon, my day is complete 🎉

"Eagles mingle with Eagles"

Hahaha the Blonde shallons coming back. LOVE😊. Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🌸

I’m sitting outside in the beautiful weather, came across this YAYYYY❤️

This is soo right on time! I so needed that! I want to change, thank you❤️

I love ur vids. You’ve helped me so much open my eyes to stuff I always ignored or I’ve let others brainwash me into thinking.

Giirrl you nailed this! Praiseee you, sent it to all my friends🤩

he totally used miley just for clout. it was so obvious. all her fans knew it 🤷🏼‍♀️

You always get me pumped up mentally! Thank you! I've become the Oprah of eff offs, when ncessary--"YOU get an eff off, YOU get an eff off, YOU get an eff off!" it feels great.

This means so much to me and other girls. Thank you!!

The “ buy a diary part “ is hilarious 😂

5:23am here and I’m going to have some knowledge with my breakfast!

@inugirl47guyzako

3 жыл бұрын

Ayyye best way to wake up!!

i had to do a lot of this to re-brand my social media last year to start a small bizz. I'm so glad i did everything correct!

ugh the salesman analogy is genius

The narrative of this whole video can shift if you consider how Miley considers Cody to be a phase , but Cody’s man ego is bruised so he had to go out in public and make a statement. Miley had a good time after her divorce, played with that boy, then when she needed to be more focused for her work, got rid of him and promoted her album. She is NOT living like a female who is bothered about being a “phase” for a boy. She just doesn’t care and honestly, why should she? She is MILEY fucking Cyrus. Her vocals are insane! She can cover country songs and even the old iconic ones. You got to listen to her rebel yell cover of Billy Idol’s. Same with Patrick Schwarzenegger. She dated a Kennedy, the got rid of him too. She is NOT looking for stability. It’s obvious. Conventional won’t do for her. And to look at her life and try to learn from it to set standards, I mean that we can do by looking at anyone? Why just her? She is not a beta female. She is more Alpha than an Alpha male. Period.

You're like the big sister everyone needs. Thank you

Coming from another country and seeing this "chillationships" trend... Thank you, Shallon, for making me realize it's not me being old-fashioned, it's them being "chill".

I love Shallon and they she presents is so unique and engaging

I don’t care about them but I love shallon so I’m here.

@bedeeboop97

3 жыл бұрын

same

I think you’re way off about Miley.. she seems super comfortable in her skin.

@kritikasrivastava3558

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@KittyQueenMeow

Жыл бұрын

Truth!!!

I don’t think Cody realizes that he’s the Phase and distraction. Lol. Miley is smart boo. She knew what she had to do, to forget about Liam. She used you hahaha. 😭😂😂😂😂😂 And she recycled you back in the ocean.

@salamander8301

3 жыл бұрын

Yes while still being her awesome chaotic self. Cody sounds like jilted one in this situation, who calls someone a phase if they werent a bit burnt

@JazzyTRex777

3 жыл бұрын

Finally someone that makes Sense ! I feel this is actually what happened 💯

@FranciscoMartinez-ni7hd

3 жыл бұрын

@@JazzyTRex777 thanks baby! ✍🏾

@diamondsparkle9967

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I think he's salty about their break up.

These videos are so great because shallon advocates women taking personal responsibility for their own actions. These would have been so awesome for me 30 years ago!

That hair color is exquisite! Looking great, Shallon!

This is shallons key message and i like it. You should also talk more about the pathology of the people who you want to avoid more because its important to undertsand. It's not taught in school. It's just not findinh the mr right it's avoiding the wrong people. If you don't realize that you will be attracted by them.

This is one of your best !!

Miley puts up the front that she’s chill cool and sexy but is actually secretly a mean girl with a pick me attitude and and extremely jealous and will start riots in her life to prove a point.. her country album is the best she’s put out..

This one is soooooo good Shallon!!!

Love your hair and your hoodie jacket in that advert. So cute😍😍

shallon...great advise...always sharing gems like a real friend would! thx girly💎💗

I love this video! So educational and inspirational!

This video was exactly what I needed. Thank you.🤎

Shallon your spirit is different in a good way. You shine.

Omg, your hair looks amazing! ✨

Omg ...I’m from Sydney!!! Babe ... your Australian accent is soooooooo great !!!!😂😂😂

This video came just in time!

your hair looks so good!!!!

This video is why I love you 💕 came at the perfect time!

This new hair, that background, this advice. Geez 😭❤️ we fucking love you shallon

i'm definitely not into celebrity gossip...but as a introvert who always struggled to maintain a boundary with family and friends ..her words are really effective...thanks Shallon

shallon, your hair is amazing. i am loving it so much❤

You’re 100% right-I’m with the most constructive (not DEstructive) alpha man I’ve ever been with-and I am absolutely his peace. The insecure men I dated before him just would get WEIRD, then overly critical, and just try to destroy my self esteem (which never happened but confused the hell out of me) over time, getting increasingly more toxic and disrespectful. It’s wack! Men with high self esteems are worlds more benevolent, loving, kind and sexy

Thanks for this video, I needed it. You are the best. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Love from Argentina 🇦🇷

I love the hair color!

You are a blessing and a HALF! I love you.

I love your new hair color! You look great!!!

Shallon you are glowing and looking fantastic♡