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Fai is looks too handsome to be straight lol
If you have to plot and scheme to get out of the freindzone it’s not a relationship worth pursuing trust me coming from a guy. If you start fighting to get the others person’s attention you will have to keep fighting for the entirety of the relationship.
@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend
4 жыл бұрын
That is a good point in theory, but I do want to add that that's not ALWAYS the case. I was friends with a guy for a year before I realised I actually deeply loved him in another way all along... and I was always one of those people yelling "WHEN YOU KNOW YOU KNOW". Life does throw us curveballs. Sometimes a change of heart is actually a switch to the MORE genuine even if the trigger for it makes no sense.
@jacubtscorpio5084
4 жыл бұрын
Fawn Whisperer that’s cool but that’s the exception. Shalloners goes by the rules here.. if you have to draw a giant red concentric circle ⭕️ on your forehead to tell a guy friend hey look at me notice me in a romantic way.. it’s not going to work out if he didn’t already want you or Pursue you it’s not worth it trust me we can smell desperation a mile away and we will exploit it and use you until we’re bored with you it’s evil but it’s life.
@Piscoandmartinis
4 жыл бұрын
@@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend I think you missed the point, he's totally right.
@dianasimonyan2293
2 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree. Unfortunately the only time I got with someone that I friend zoned (he was making me feel sorry for him all the time) I felt forced into the relationship the whole time and had to end it :/ When you get rejected take it like a G and say it's cool, don't pull the " oh girls never choose me :((("
Then there's me. Stuck in the nonexistent zone because i be shy af ✌🏼😂
The thing is just simple.... Kylie wants to be like Kim. And Kylie also wants to outdo Kendall.
@erica2696
4 жыл бұрын
True! She's always trying to one up Kendall
@saikikarin320
4 жыл бұрын
@@erica2696 Kylie doesn't seem to reciprocate Kendall's affection either. I kept hearing rumours that Travis first slept with Kendall before he got close to Kylie. And now similar rumour with Fai. And lets face it, Kendall is more beautiful than Kylie and become a professional model out of it.
@rasnabegum7749
3 жыл бұрын
Erica I mean all her life people were always comparing her to Kendall. If I were Kylie I’d do the same thing.
@hannahi9355
3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@hannahi9355
3 жыл бұрын
@@rasnabegum7749 also facts
Fai is gay from what I know . Can you talk about Chris Evans , Henry Cavill , Zac Efron , men that look good on paper but they might be the opposite once you know them ? what are the red flags of a nice guy/ fake feminist/ artsy boy , I hope I make sense :))
@minuishaq631
4 жыл бұрын
Wasn’t Zac a drug addict?
@MEEE.com.
4 жыл бұрын
Minu Ishaq yeah he got caught trying to buy coke on skid row but I think he may have gotten sober.
@ygujt
4 жыл бұрын
Minu Ishaq yes
@imianmckellan
4 жыл бұрын
@@minuishaq631 Yeah he is and in the closet too apparently.
@Lovepeaceandchickengrease
4 жыл бұрын
yes!!!
I was so curious about their wierd dynamic...
Why does Fai look like Kourtney's ex, Younes?!
@ashatawa2807
4 жыл бұрын
IKR I THOUGHT IT WAS ONLY ME
@numberone22459
4 жыл бұрын
Lol bc they’re both hot Arabs 🥵
@sarahmarg100
4 жыл бұрын
Fai is Palestinian. Younes is Algerian. They are both from MENA aka Middle East North Africa
@numberone22459
4 жыл бұрын
sarah aburdene Algerians identify as Arab 🥰
@returntonormallife
4 жыл бұрын
Its the hairline
You're absolutely right ! If a guy wants to be with you he will make that clear ! Guys are not that subtle haha. The moment I met my boyfriend he made it clear that he wants to date me. If you don't know usually means that he's not that serious and he only likes you a little bit. My boyfriend moved back to our country for us to be together. I'm crazy about him ❤️ and can't wait for us to get married. Don't settle for a guy who doesn't even text you back ! You deserve more than that !
@AA-mg3xr
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed x 1000 :) I'm happy for you, hope you have a blessed marriage x
@lauj888
4 жыл бұрын
Very good advice that I should have known like 10 years ago! Also, congrats on your forthcoming wedding!❤️
Funny how Kendall and Fai have rumours of being gay yet they’re now romantically involved. Same with Shawn and Camila.. everyone thinks they’re gay but now they’re dating??? 💀 ITS A COVER UP
@romy3871
4 жыл бұрын
He dated Jordyn. Fai is Def not gay and he has denied it a million times
@spotlessmindx
4 жыл бұрын
@@romy3871 maybe he is bi
@ellemathews9840
4 жыл бұрын
@@spotlessmindx maybe it's nobodies business but his !
@allfemalewrestling6731
4 жыл бұрын
@@ellemathews9840 there's truth in every rumour
@PS-hi9os
4 жыл бұрын
Spotlessmind lmao cant people just be straight not everyone needs to be at least Bi or gay? buzz off
is he just kylies version of kim's jonathan cheban (since kylie pretty much has to have whatever kim has)
@lizzyw7861
4 жыл бұрын
HHahahahahahah yep. I think so
@jerlozsia
4 жыл бұрын
So Kylie is gonna be betrayed by "stassie baby" as kim was betrayed by larsa pippen.
@mrsnavy7034
4 жыл бұрын
@@jerlozsia It already happened with Jordyn lol
@soomitchell3070
2 жыл бұрын
But now I think he's more Kendall
I could see the sadness in your eyes then u started to explain why! Girl you are not crazy or high maintenance!!! I don't know exactly what happened but you deserve someone who will love you even if you are "high maintenance "! I love your energy and your your theories!! You ate gorgeous smart and FABULOUS!!!!
‘Wars are fought over land and you’re on her territory’ that’s a bar 🔥🔥 SHALLON WHERE WAS THIS VIDEO A YEAR AGO when I needed it 🥴🥴🥴
Shallon! You once said in a video that Paris Hilton is “un-embarrasable”. Can you please talk about? Would be so fun and Interesting! Like if you agree
@einstein1017
4 жыл бұрын
Queen Paris 😍 my Aquarius twin
the key to a true boy girl friend ship is treat them as a FRIEND and just a friend. i’ve had guy best friends and we never cuddled or hugged or anything like that bc it would’ve felt so weird bc we were truly friends and only friends
@teagenf5456
4 жыл бұрын
Sylvia Montejano i personally didn’t have any flirty undertones or anything in my friendship, or any real differences in my friendships with guys than girls, i also think i have more of a masculine side to me than most women do
Have you ever told a guy you weren't interested and he was like 'uh yeah, me neither' but it's so obvious he was. Why do men do that, istg
@JenDoe1
4 жыл бұрын
To keep from looking like a fool, of course 😅
@just1desi
4 жыл бұрын
It’s so annoying. You clearly hit on me. I turn you down. Now you gonna gaslight and pretend you weren’t coming on to me? F out of here. I don’t have my skin crawl with an immediate revulsion for a man who is ‘not’ hitting on me.
@caitlinsimonsmeier2013
4 жыл бұрын
Suck in ego
@SpaztasticSheep
4 жыл бұрын
@@just1desi I'm a lesbian and I get guys who know that but constantly get 'if you were straight haha' comments and questions about my sex life. They think they're so subtle
@returntonormallife
4 жыл бұрын
Or they just never respond and let it phase out 😑
I feel like Kylie doesn't really like Kendall. She has not even posted/wished kendall on her bday but she does it to all other sisters. Back when she was little, Kendall used to be the prettier one and it was obvious that Kylie got jealous. But now, Kylie is the most successful of the bunch. And whatever Kylie does, she makes sure that she rubs it off in everyone's face. Even though Kendall and fai may not be dating, there might be a chance that they will. I remember once Kylie posted a pic with fai on her Instagram and tagged Kendall, and she replied " are we fighting". So Kendall obviously doesn't like Kylie getting close to him. So Kylie, even though she isn't actually interested in fai, might be just fooling around to show the upper hand over kendall. And that she can steal anyone's man. All of this just to make Kendall jealous. Pretty shallow of kylie, imo.
@JenDoe1
4 жыл бұрын
That’s just sad, and so petty. :(
@sochidala8093
4 жыл бұрын
Her level of insecurity is extremely high she needs to spend her money on actually improving her internal assets (getting a personality, dealing with her insecurities and her need for constant validation) instead of her external ones (buying cars, wearing expensive outfits, new wigs).
@PS-hi9os
4 жыл бұрын
kylie jenner will always be the ugly sister she looks uglier but despite all the surgeries deep down she will always feel like the ugly duckling , her doing this type of stuff to her sister is because of the jealousy and insecurity
@chicho2829
4 жыл бұрын
YES! Same thing with Jordyn. After Jordyn stopped being kylies friend, jordyn became friends with meg the stallion and then a few weeks ago kylie invited meg to a pool party at her house?? And u could tell from megs live that kylie was using her to rub it in jordyns face
@mrsnavy7034
4 жыл бұрын
I thought Kendall was into some light skins nba players lol
Sometimes being on spectrum has helped me. I am too blunt. If I like someone, I just blurt it right out. My husband and I have been friends since 07 and in '10 he went away to another city and we lost contact. He came back in '12 a changed man. He hung out often, when I realised I caught feelings for him. I told him, I like you and I think we should stop being friends and stop talking. He liked me too and we have blissful 8yrs behind us. Married for 1.5. never pussyfoot. Life is too short for that shit.
@lizzyw7861
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahhaah same! I do blurt it out too. But it gives good results most of the time
Never saw Travis like any photos from the trip, which are a lot. My theory that is Kylie and he probably are having problems again(he doesn't want to commit to having a second baby) so Kylie brought fai along and posed with him to get Travis jealous.
@AA-mg3xr
4 жыл бұрын
I think Travis is so unbothered about them but Kylie's not over him
@yooolanda4992
4 жыл бұрын
They never had a chance to really date, she just got pregnant. This is her way to spite both Jordyn and Travis.
@rogue6344
4 жыл бұрын
YOOOLANDA! Yes seriously the timing between her breakup with Tyga & when she conceived is so close! Weeks! I wouldn’t be surprised if she had a DNA test too.
My first long term relationship was with a guy who I friendzoned for about 2 years :)) I still remember that one day I woke up and just started to see him in a different light. I was usually the one being friendzoned because I’m dead scared of showing my true feelings for someone. So as a result i usually end up dating someone i wasn’t entirely into, and befriending someone I was into. Can you please make a video about how to NOT be scared of that tension when interacting with your subject of interest? My default mode is - break the tension make it friendly dont be weird dont let him see that you are interested in him. Its so effed up :/
@KE-hr4sb
4 жыл бұрын
This was sort of me with my ex-hubby, and current hubby. Met my ex first. Wasn't really my type, but he was very into me and open about it to me, my family, that he was actively pursuing a relationship with me. Eventually, I did fall for him (which is why I do believe you can talk yourself into loving someone if it's given enough time, because I did), but we really weren't right for each other (not to mention the boy had his issues). Little over a year later I met (online, my ex and I played online video games) my now current hubby. We became best friends, to my now ex's dismay, because he kept telling me how my new best friend was more my type than he himself was (true). My friend was going through a messy divorce, and my marriage was rocky, so we bonded over that. He met a girl and fell in love, and moved across the country to be with her, and was happy for several years (and I was honestly happy for him). He came to visit my ex and I while we were still married, which started a whole mess with my ex being jealous and demanding I cut off my friendships with ALL my male friends. They all left...except for my best friend who refused to leave (keep in mind, he was still dating his gf too, we had no side thing going on...unlike my ex). My marriage then imploded rather messily, and since he'd gone through it, he was there for me emotionally and through moral support. My work was literally connected by a doorway to a store my ex managed, so I decided I needed a break, and my friend and his gf invited me to return the favor and come visit them, so I made plans to do that. Before I could make the trip, she left him for someone else. When I did finally get down there, it was like the marital blinders were ripped off, and all of a sudden I realized how cute he was. However I was still hurt, and so was he, and I wasn't sure I was ready for a relationship...but we fell in love anyway. We've been together for 14 years, married for 7, have three kids, and are one of those ridiculously happy couples. Jumping into that relationship feet first was the scariest thing I'd ever done, but it was also the best decision I ever made. Sorry for the novel. :)
@shilovesyou6042
4 жыл бұрын
So so so true! Need a video on this! Please shallon :(((
@laurac86
4 жыл бұрын
Caylie Suddarth - I love your story, hope you guys have many more happy years to come. Thank for sharing it 😊
@KE-hr4sb
4 жыл бұрын
@@laurac86 Thank you! :)
@grazielaalmeida8438
4 жыл бұрын
Just imagine yourself in a quite long term relationship with your subject of interest, imagine him starting to putting weight, farting at your face, having arguments with you, charging you to have at least three babies, keep the house neat, at the same time that you have a job outside, imagine him being fussy about your look, and wants you to be always available to being fucked. There are many others stuffs to add on the list. I don't know what's the opinion about shallon on your question, but whenever I am interested on a man, I do this, and my tension fades away.
Fai is a paid hand to give them both validation.
So basically, I friend zoned this boy named Nate for literally a whole year. He was in love with me. Couldn’t get over me. And a year later, I started liking him back, so we got together. We dated for a month, and then he broke up with me. I guess because I wasn’t what he wanted, but it really crushed my ego 😂 moral of the story don’t date people you put in the friend zone because if y’all do get together and they dump you, it’s gonna hurt like salt on an open wound. UPDATE 4 days later: we are starting to talk again and might get back together. Tell me it’s a bad idea please 😂
He was talking to Jordyn before the whole Tristan fall out.
@Jobless_4life
4 жыл бұрын
Actually they used to date, there’s pictures of them holding hands
@steph8603
4 жыл бұрын
@@Jobless_4life they never dated.
@dizzyandbusy
4 жыл бұрын
clout chaser maybe?
He is that cool brother that don't have but they want to...
Kylie never misses a chance to do something that gets attention ❗
@ygujt
4 жыл бұрын
shravya ch why won’t people understand this about the Kardashian/Jenner family, they’re all the same , they all want attention
@mrsnavy7034
4 жыл бұрын
@@ygujt I believe Khloe let Tristan act the way he does for clout and show ratings!
@ygujt
4 жыл бұрын
Mrs Navy I think she’s one of women desperate to have a man no matter what and blames everyone but her man
@mrsnavy7034
4 жыл бұрын
@@ygujt I still can't believe this grown ass woman tweet Jordyn is the reason why her family got broke lmaooo
"pull back, rebrand" Me looking at my new haircut in the reflection of the screen realizing I did it unconsciously Edit: we finally met up and he wasn't like "your hair looks good" or "you look different"... Same vibe
@txo829
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao gurl same I just cut my hair today haha
@Cedarrouge
4 жыл бұрын
That's poetic! 😍 Good luck!
Fai is gay, So is Harry Hudson. That's the only way these girls can have guy friends is if the guys they hang out with are gay. This is just my theory. RE: Jonathan Cheban, Ariel (their MUA), Simon Huck, Scotty Cunha...
@lavieparisien7274
4 жыл бұрын
I hope he's gay
@jacquelinepanganiban5744
4 жыл бұрын
Scotty Cunha is so hot
@Pinkcrayon706
4 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Panganiban I think they’re all pretty good looking!!
I’m really glad you explained that you should leave your guy friend alone if you don’t reciprocate his feelings for you. I find that it’s common for women to continue to "lead" men on and confuse them by continuing the current dynamic they have with these men. If a guy friend confesses his attraction for you and you are not attracted to him, leave him alone! You wouldn’t want him to be leading you on if he wasn’t actually attracted to you.
Totally need to rant. This video brought up so many old emotions for me because I wasted the first 2 years of my uni life on a boy. I was in love with this boy who saw me as nothing more than a friend. I would get so confused because we had an amazing time every time we were together. He would make me laugh and it felt like time would evaporate when we were together. I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that a guy can want to be around you and be flirty with you but not want to date you. Just like Shallon said he liked me just a little bit. He compartmentalized me. At the time I didn't realize that and so I kept making up excuses for him like "he's shy" "he hasn't had a good example of what love is" blah blah blah. As time went on and he still wasn't asking me out, I started behaving really desperately. My behavior was super blatant and I cringe when looking back at that time. I stayed in that loop for so long because of my ego. I didn't want to believe he didn't feel the same. I didn't want to feel like I had wasted 2 years of my life on this person. Finally, I realized the only way to heal was to slowly cut him out of my life. It was incredibly painful and I cried so many nights but in the end I'm glad I did. I am so much happier today and I no longer feel sad about it. Ladies, Shallon is right. If a man wants to be with you, he will pursue you. Do not waste your time being friends with a guy you have feelings for. That is not even a friendship, all you are doing is gambling your time away hoping that one day he will love you back.
Be the person you would like to meet in life
Today one of my puppies died. I so needed this Shallon. Thank you.
@Lauren_22613
4 жыл бұрын
Tricia Applewhite 😕so sorry ❤️❤️
@KP-zb1tr
4 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your loss
@triciaapplewhite4939
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you everyone.
Can I just say Montana is doing you well! You look SO RADIANT and just full of new life somehow ✨.
It’s a well known fact that gay men will surround themselves with beautiful women. If he *is* gay, it makes sense that he’s around them all of the time.
kendall is scorpio Kylie Leo it's like fire and water
@Garadaghli
4 жыл бұрын
kylie’s moon is in scorpio)) and kendall’s in aries.
@bigchungus1924
4 жыл бұрын
You guys really connect celebrities birth charts on your free time
@99growlithe99
4 жыл бұрын
Guli Garadaghli Yep, entire birth chart needs to be taken into account
@KDGG97
4 жыл бұрын
Lol please do my birth chart! 😂
@Momo-cv1oj
4 жыл бұрын
@@KDGG97 astrotheme dot com it's not my website XD
Shallon do a video with Kylie trying to make jordyn jealous with talking to jordyn friend Megan thee stallion.
@esmashala6726
4 жыл бұрын
Good idea 💡
@velvet123
4 жыл бұрын
For reals she is trying to steal Jordyn friends and hang out with them.
@esmashala6726
4 жыл бұрын
velvet 123 with all due respect I have seen her talk in interviews or even the show She is lame Soooo lame She is not interesting or funny or smart She is just insecure She must thank God for those money she has or.nobody would really care to hang out with her
@mrsnavy7034
4 жыл бұрын
She's commenting Normani pics too!
I don't know why, but you're reminding me of Hannah Montana today😂
@amulyasubhash7764
4 жыл бұрын
And she's actually in Montana !!
@mamoucisse2118
4 жыл бұрын
The best of boooooth wooorrllldd 😁😁
@sabrinac8453
4 жыл бұрын
@@amulyasubhash7764 I know😂😂😂
@sabrinac8453
4 жыл бұрын
@@mamoucisse2118 you got a limo out front
I wish Kendall would stop with this, and just come out. Like this isn't gonna mess anything up for her, and everyone knows she's gay.
@yamatonadeshiko567
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I wonder if I am the only one who thinks Kendall isn't really into the guys she's dating. There's even more spark in her eyes when she sees Cara, Bella or Gigi than any of the guys she dated.
@imianmckellan
4 жыл бұрын
@@yamatonadeshiko567 She WAS all over Bella Hadid.
I’m 37 and I have actual guy friends. However, I would never let another woman doubt her relationship because of me. I take on the responsibility to alter the friendship. Which I’m comfortable with. It doesn’t always feel good and you do lose most of the time. Once the change happens though, it’s great. I’m a professional third wheel. I need another video for that. Also, you look happy!
This video was a hard one for me. Last year I lost one of my best and longest male friendships because our stupid asses got curious. We now are not ever going to be able to go back before banging so we both just stopped talking to each other. What kills me is im completely fucking heartbroken but not for the reasons i expected. The regret is horrible and I wish my dumbass had never EVER gotten curious enough to destroy the 20 year PLUS friendship. My heart is broken because ive lost a brother like relationship 😭😭. Although Shallon is right here ALSO REMEMBER THAT THE FRIENDZONE IS SOMEWHERE YOU MIGHT ACTUALLY WANT TO STAY IN FOR ONCE. Just know theres lifelong damage in these situations. 😔 i normally agree with shallon completely but here i really truly DO MISS THE FRIENDSHIP.
Remember Harry Hudson? He was Fa before Fa....probably got sick of the “zone” 😬
I’m so sick and tired of guy friends trying to hook up with me. It’s exhausting and you know you were not giving any opening for that. You didn’t even think about them and they just one day are all over you and you don’t want to hurt their feelings but at this point I’m just really tired. But if you could do a video about how to turn down guys who can’t take a hint and not feel bad or tired or insane please help me!
@Quntah888
4 жыл бұрын
Just tell them you don’t see them that way. I’ve just stopped a friendship with a guy because he got very jealous when I was around other guys. I’ve told him I cared about him and wanted him to get a girlfriend so I stepped out of his life. It wasn’t going anywhere for him so it’s better this way
@Hernameispamela
4 жыл бұрын
Neela Delphine thanks! I usually just feel so uncomfortable I just stop hanging out with the person because it just comes out of nowhere I get kinda flabbergasted and don’t know how to react, you know what I mean? But once I actually said so and he gaslighted me so hard it was disgusting and I felt insane! But the right thing is to say so, even if it is quite obvious you’re not interested.
"she likes you, she's team Shallon" "ohohohoh I bet she is" Lmaooo I can't tell you how much this made me laugh Shallon! 😂 You are such high quality x
I would definitely want a video on the male with female friendships! I could never have male friends and I was never interested in having any. The only guy friend I have is gay and we’ve been friends since we were four years old (I don't even remember us not being friends let alone meeting each other!). My sister, on the other hand, was chronically friends with guys mostly and found it easier to keep friendships with guys since preschool.
can you make a vid about megan and kylie hanging out? fake friends/ should you be friends with someone if they know someone you don't like.
Faaaiii I've never exhaled so much air while saying somebody's name😂
@nneomaobioha3640
4 жыл бұрын
😂
@Strawberry-ii4le
4 жыл бұрын
It’s short for Faisal- his actual name
He's a really good looking guy 😍
omg shallon! speaking of negging. Please do a video on negging and how to deal with it when a guy negs us! I usually am at a loss for words!
Possible video idea: Naya Rivera and coping with COVID-era grief. Wanting to mourn but feeling like you can't because the world has so many problems.
I wonder if maybe Kendall brought up having a baby with him because she feels the pressure of having a baby since all her sisters now have at least one baby and if they're both gay but have a good relationship then she may see him as a good choice to have a baby with.
@mrsnavy7034
4 жыл бұрын
Wtf😂😂😂
@returntonormallife
4 жыл бұрын
It seems like a baby is the last thing this family needs
@Eevanova
4 жыл бұрын
Good idea
Also, your comment regarding "Let him hunt you" hit me right in the feels. Drop some clues, but let him hunt you. I spent my life in the friendzone and I was always that fool who was like "Well, I'm gonna tell him how I feel, just in case he doesn't know, there's been guys who had crushes on me who I didn't know and would have wanted to know"... but the older I get the more I realise... babygirl if you wanna know if he has ANY interest in coming in, all you need to do is unlock the door and maybe open it slightly. You do not need to invite him in, if in is where he wants to be. If he's looking for a chance or a sign, he would have picked up on your clues and signs by now. Don't waste your precious time!
I had this exact situation and I do get what you’re saying about the ego being fed, but I would say this guy was one of my best friends and actually today is 11 months we’ve been together after what started off as him liking me and me not returning the feelings.
My mom was asking about Shallon because she thought she was my friend that I talk to everyday, she seems to like her a lot so that’s nice.
Your hair looks beautiful today!!
omg... the "not right now" thing had me wasting 1.5 years of my life! very important point!
he's like everywhere but we know nothing about him and what his real job is lol
If you're IN the friendzone (which I have been more than not in my 30ish years) as a girl it really does feel like the ULTIMATE insult. You're not just invisible... we are told ALL OUR LIVES that men are always thinking about sex and find anything that remotely resembles a groomed female attractive. How "easy" girls have it because guys chase _them_ . That's never been my story. Maybe I'm ugly, maybe I have bad taste in men... but it's been the story of my life and yet I 'tick all the societal boxes' (hourglass figure, slim, I take good care of myself, I have lots of interests and things going on, not gorgeous but definitely not hideous). It feels like the ultimate insult to just be invisible.
I was never in the friend zone, so glad!
Shallon, have you ever been friend zoned? Curious though 🤔
"I just don't want to lose the friendship. No, what you don't want to lose is fan." I'm not in the friendzone but I see how my ego responds when a guy I like stops giving me attention. Please Shallon do a video about the ego.
Just am a total fan of the Shallon😎
I feel that the old Shallon is back. I mean in a good way - settled at your new town, free, and funny and witty as always 💗👍🏼
One of your best videos so far, Shallon. You really leveled up in the last weeks.
Yes , I was dying to know about what’s going on with this guy!
My best friend has like 20 guys friends (way less female). I always tell her they are not her "friends " and want more but she acts oblivious. She needs those "fans" for her low self esteem. She has a bf too which makes it even weirder. 🙄
Can you speak more about dating apps or where to meet guys or about conversations??
when I think about persisting on a friendzone dynamic, I immediately remember Niall Patrick Harry in "Gone Girl" and he dies. if that isn't already a pretty big note to ourselves never stay in that dynamic, I don't know what is.
Shannon you are the coolest ❤️❤️
Your bangs look good. I also loved the other day when they were a little middle part.
Romantic loopholes🤯🤯🤯👏👏👏
Shallon please talk about Britney Spears recent condition.. it's creepy and worried all of her fans.
You look so pretty in this video, Shallon!
Omg I was in a friends with benefit relationship last year, and I liked him so much , but he didn't treat me right at all. And when I would say he hurt me or did something I would always apologize and at the end I felt like I was going crazy. He gaslighted me , I felt that when you said that. I whis I found this channel sooner ♥️♥️
I watch your videos every single day and I usually don’t comment on anything but I just had to say that you look so so beautiful today ✨ Love your videos 😊 Greetings from Germany 🥰
Omg guy friend advice is JUST WHAT I NEEDED thank YOU
i’ve had a few true guy friends before, but i’m also very young. without that friend i wouldn’t have been comfortable enough to get into a relationship with the guy i’ve been dating for a year and a half, and we were truly truly friends. we both would set eachother up with our friends
You know when you’re wine drunk with your bestie, and you start talking about deep stuff, but she throws in some specific stories about her boy problems....this video feels like that!
Shallon love you so much wish you all the best !!
Hahahaha this is so weird to watch because I went to school with him and his twin sisters
@Sara-9865
4 жыл бұрын
What were they like I still think he’s so hot
@AA-mg3xr
4 жыл бұрын
Omg do tell more, lol
@emallace447
4 жыл бұрын
@@AA-mg3xr We went to the American School of Dubai. They were actually very polite and friendly. Didn't know them well (they weren't there for long), but I remember his sisters, Sama and Haya, at the time were kind of trying to get into modeling. Their mom is in fashion somehow and is connected so that's how we figured they got modeling jobs.
please do a video to tell if YOUR in the friendzone!!!!
What I do is that I bring up the topic of other guys a lot more and how indirectly he’s not my type. If they’re my friend, they’re smart enough to figure out that they’re forever in the friend zone if they choose to stick around
To those calling Shallon a mean girl, someone who uses men, you couldn’t be MORE wrong. Thank you Shallon for putting it out there that we can’t be fuckgirls. It shows that she’s a feminist. It is not OK to use guys and hurt their feelings, not Ok to flirt with someone’s “territory” 😂 The jokes & evil week are all in good nature, someone who watches her channel (truly watch- not to pick it apart) would know her opinion
"and a model and an influencer, I dont fukin' know" LMAO
Finally all the problems I've been facing as a girl and as a person have been properly addressed by someone, great advice thank you
Girls it is so much trouble to be in love with your guy friend ! My whole teenage years were me be in love with my friend and he rejecting me over and over ! As Shallon sayed i just didn’t wanted to see the truth and i was looking for a loophole. Such a bad idea ! The sad thing is that in one point we hooked up and he was my first and it was such a bad experience, but on the flip side after this the „magic“ of this guy disappeared and I could move on . I still don’t recommend this Taktik ! So if you have a crush on a friend , just follow the Shallon rules and at best move on! I could have saved me a lot of pain if I have had just listened and let this boy do ! (Not to speak that I made the mistake to confess my feelings to him , another big NO, NO )
Shallon, what if they suddenly start looking at your profile on IG. A couple guys I liked, we stopped talking, after a couple times, now they are suddenly looking at my pics?🙄🙄
I have gotten out of the friendzone before, but it took 8 years. At 16 I was head over heels for this guy, we were really close friends (and yeah, we were actually friends and it wasn't just a "fan" situation). It didn't work out and I moved on with my life. We both had serious relationships, our lives changed a lot, but we always stayed in touch. 8 years later we saw each other and after a few hang outs he wanted to be with me. I guess I did re-brand myself unintentionally and he saw me in a different light. We kept seeing each other casually for a couple of months, but I ended it 'cause I just didn't feel it anymore. We're still friends to this day, and we do genuinely care about each other, but unfortunately it was too late as the feelings just weren't there anymore. He saw me in a different light, but I also saw him in a different light, and it wasn't a romantic one anymore.
Btw can we all see how Shallon is glowing 😩🙌💕💕💕💕
@shallonlester
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you bb!
Finally shallon ive been waiting for this
My Bestie (a guy) tried hitting on me earlier this year. I had to tell him that I had my fingers in too many pies (just life shit) and left it at that. Was a weird thing for me to say, but he heard it loud and clear and took a few weeks to himself before things going back to normal.
She reminds me of a big sister like telling me what life is really like or sometging
Omggg thank you so so much for making this Video, this helps me really freaking much right now. And also the part with the "No male friends" - it's so good to know you also feel the same at this topic girl !
I really needed this video, because not only i was friend zoned lately by my friend who i have a crush on, after he constantly misled me the past 6 months, no no it was next level when i confronted him about it. I was SISTER ZONED :D He literally had the audacity to tell me he feels that i'm his little sister and he is afraid we would ruin our friendship if we become boyfriend and girlfriend. I was pissed so I wouldn't speak to him to show him that we can ruin the friendship without escallating to a realtionship, 2 weeks later he came back crawling and begging me for forgiveness AND he kissed me. Now thanks to your advice I know what to do further!
i rejected a guy friend a few months ago and learning from shallon, i did it respectably but unequivocally and in a text. it was the absolute best choice i've made, as we went back to being friends and he appreciated me not stringing him along. be clear with what you want, girls
This may have already been said. But I always thought that perhaps Fai was gay, but because of his ethnicity/culture, he has not yet publicly came out.
Ahh Shallon I love your videos I just realized today you remind me a little bit of Christina Hendricks 😍
the story of Ross making music hahahahaahahahah is one the things i always think of when someone says "doing my music"
the way you called me out... yes I love having a fan
Kylie’s problem is that she always wants to outdo everybody , that’s why she try’s to seem perfect 24/7 . She also wants to outshine KIM the most .
I feel like I can not be friends with guys because they all end up having feelings for me. Why is that????? One of them was obsessed with me. I literally do not understand why. This has happened to me for years. I do not get it. Please enlighten me!!!!
@winterdoll1917
4 жыл бұрын
I knowww, I've had one guy like me and didn't feel the same, and other like me before I did (he's my current boyfriend but yeah lol) and now I'm like "just gimme the girls"
Good session Shallon 👍. You look great, and as usual funny, witty, and wise, Thank you.. toot toot!!😃😃
when she said “it’s not a friendship you’re scared to lose.. it’s the other f word... a fan” whew.