Misogyny is real in modern medicine and law. A guy like Kanye West who is OBVIOUSLY struggling can legally run for president in the US, while a woman like Britney Spears, who had a nervous breakdown 13 YEARS ago, is still incapacitated and under guardianship, with little to no freedom regarding her medical and financial choices, let alone her career or her own KIDS? And I am positive those two are just the most prominent examples, this seems to be a serious issue. Wtf. Edit: Can y'all chill please. No need to start WW3 here.

@honorclark9188

4 жыл бұрын

Wow. I've never thought about it like that. Amy Winehouse too..

@martavega2860

4 жыл бұрын

Literally was discussing this with a friend 10 minutes ago.

@prairieflower7967

4 жыл бұрын

I think the main difference has to do with how Britney meltdown was more aggressive. She did lock herself with her son in a bathroom and attacked paparazzi with a umbrella. It was 14 years ago and I do think the conservatorship should be revisited and removed. She is stable and seems to have all her issues under control.

@Lulymarte1609

4 жыл бұрын

Kenye (Kanye ) has never attempted against his life or kids life (driving incident, umbrella incident) Britney has ...

@ElizaLydayIsTotallyRad

4 жыл бұрын

absolutely!!

The lesson here: don't marry a man just because he worships you. You're taking on a liability if shit goes down

@prairieflower7967

4 жыл бұрын

Maria didn’t he stalk her before she got with him. That should be a red flag right there.

@soapy7832

4 жыл бұрын

100% this ^

@jalynneagle

4 жыл бұрын

This is her 3rd Marriage. I’m sure the kids are the only reason why she’s hanging on the way she is.

@prairieflower7967

4 жыл бұрын

THOT Patrol okay never said that.

@hazzastyles6315

4 жыл бұрын

JaLynn Eagle Ofc, if they divorce she’s look like another rapper baby mama, before that she’s been trying to fix her reputation

*"Women, you are not rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix him, change him, parent him. You want a partner, not a project." ~ Julia MTHKN Roberts* 👠🎬🎭

@adithikotian2868

4 жыл бұрын

Yes🍻

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

So many people on the black twitter were like Kanye need a black women lmaooo

@makeitcount2985

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@leahalford9432

3 жыл бұрын

As much as I hate Julia Roberts I have to agree with her lol 😂

@bella3775

3 жыл бұрын

“You want a partner, not a project”. Thank you! This is the most valuable advise I’ve heard in ages.

Imagine your current husband referring to you as “insert kids name’s mom”instead of my wife. That’s what you do when you’re divorced or no longer together. 🤐😬👀 🤦🏻‍♀️

@nataliandlovu3155

4 жыл бұрын

That’s so true. I didn’t think about it but it’s a really big red flag

@EMunaBee

4 жыл бұрын

For a while I called my parents [sibling's name] mum or [sibling's name] dad.

@nataliandlovu3155

4 жыл бұрын

Emuna Bee but was that in a good time in your relationship. And it’s also different in family dynamics, with a marriage I think it would be common to call them by their name or “my [wife/husband]” because it establishes not control per se but almost acknowledgement

@EMunaBee

4 жыл бұрын

@@nataliandlovu3155 it was not a good situation. I agree with the statement. I think he's relegated her to being the mother, not his wife, or being the mother who he's worried might have his child follow in her ways which he used to like but now is against.

@danisha5844

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly! It's called distancing language!

Everyone was all "Kim go get your man" "Kim what are you doing? He needs help!" Then she tries to help and people are like "No not like that. You and your evil family are trying to control him." Seems like she can't win.

@tinymedia797

4 жыл бұрын

Ppl so judgemental 🤨i dont like ppl like that why its hard to be nice or stop tf up💯

@mercariel

4 жыл бұрын

She has four children and Kayne isn't one of them. There really is only so much she can do, especially with his money and ability to flee. I feel so sorry for her.

@realnettieb

4 жыл бұрын

They always get away scotch clean

@InktoEcho

4 жыл бұрын

She literally tried to force him to go to a hospital. Not even talk with him like a good person. She’s a terrible person.

@CC-rv4zc

4 жыл бұрын

@@InktoEcho I'm sorry...were you there? You have first hand knowledge of how the whole interaction went down huh?

I know Kris and Kim probably lost their mind when they saw those tweets😂😂😂😂

@Lia-hd7rh

4 жыл бұрын

that group chat must have been on fire 😂

Let’s be clear he’s wearing that bullet proof vest for Kris Jenner LOL

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@a.r.tavares1322

4 жыл бұрын

Oh nooooo! 🤣🤣🤣

@peaceoflife8458

4 жыл бұрын

I totally disagree. Kanye has always been outspoken and provocative. Now, everything he does or says that is not pc, means he is unstable. Everything he said was truth, about his family and their decision with North. The Kardashian’s can put all their dirt out there. But, they don’t want to deal with the truth. It happened. Kanye is constantly being oppressed by the Kardashian’s. I’m so sick of people pulling the mental card. It’s offensive. Not everything he says or does is bc of his diagnosis. He said how he felt, he didn’t make it up. The truth can be ugly. But, it’s his story to tell. And I’m sure there is a lot more he has to say about the Kardashian’s.

@chrissteffi

4 жыл бұрын

Jail ☠️

@angiethompson1864

4 жыл бұрын

Peace of life it's not his story to tell lolol

It seems like everytime Kanye gets problematic, Kim sends him away to Wyoming. And to be honest, I cannot blame her. He refuses to take his meds and even denies to have a mental condition. As a mother, I would NEVER allow that my children grow up witnessing this mess. I am normally not a big fan of Kim's but I have to say that I don't know how she could handle the situation in a better way without divorcing.

@user-wk2xk7gi8k

4 жыл бұрын

@minnie mouse, that's exactly what my sister said. If she leaves she left him in a bad state.

@ts2852

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe she will wait until he is OK but I think that at this point everybody would understand if she divorces him.

@dc3174

4 жыл бұрын

Minnie Mouse nothing to do with public image and everything to do with money... that divorce financially would be a nightmare

@jo-eo9ld

4 жыл бұрын

just because it can be passed down doesn’t mean it will be. many people develop BPD because of extreme trauma or stress, it’s not only genetic.

@anarocha5844

4 жыл бұрын

I disagree, I mean maybe I didn’t watch the whole thing but he was speaking the truth showing his side of the story and yes he exposed some personal things about his wife and in-laws but it was to make a point. Long story short it seems to me that he disagrees with the way Kris Jenner raised Kim, he doesn’t except her parenting strategies and Kris and Kanye probably but heads a lot. Like any good parent he doesn’t want his kids to go down the same path as Kim. I am a believer in not taking meds, the problem is IN the relationship not HIM as an individual, his mental state is self awareness...he is sane. I would rather know these things about Kim and Kris than not know...so thank you Kanye.

I just want to point out that every body is talking about Kanye's mental health and that he needs tonget treatment (which he does) and when Britney had her "meltdown" 12 years ago the press was ridiculizing her, there is no respect for women mental health

@calebgambill2944

4 жыл бұрын

Rosario Mata yes and no, that was during a time mental health wasn’t taken seriously, where today’s mainstream society is more open to it and the stigmas are slowly being torn away.

@DanieB322

4 жыл бұрын

I see what you mean, but for now I saw more comments that were making fun of him than taking his mental health seriously to be honest

@fleurbloem5462

4 жыл бұрын

And she wasnt running for president. Not all situations the same, not everything is against women. Theres nuances. Hope to help 🙌

@jenniferdelgado2834

4 жыл бұрын

I recall the opposite when she shaved off her hair that’s when everyone was finally like ok we took it too far, we broke this woman, and public sympathy turned towards her. That’s why her Vegas and comeback tour did so well! American public is rooting for her. Although I agree her conservatorship is extremely concerning and women face discrepancies in every form of healthcare

@SP-kk5nj

4 жыл бұрын

Ridiculizing? Or ridiculing.

Shallon!!! Best advice. I just broke it off with a funny, hot, educated, successful guy who will not address his alcoholism and recently told me he is starting his own religion. Not good. I spent a week marinating on what to say to him after a recent incident and told him in an empathetic, healthy manner that I think he needs to talk to someone. His reaction? Rage followed by not returning any texts. Disappeared. And I have felt guilty for weeks - sometimes falling apart, crying, worried I was too harsh. But he previously told me upfront that he would never marry me, and that I’d have to follow him wherever he decided to move....you’re so right! Why feel so guilty and pour all this emotional effort into a problematic guy who invested NOTHING in me? And we ain’t kids - I’m 36, and he’s 40. I feel way less guilty.

@Alovedhuman

4 жыл бұрын

Do not feel guilty at all!! Someone not willing to face their problems will absolutely break you !! And also he sounds lowkey emotionally abusive talking bout you’ll follow me wherever I go 🙄 u did the right thing telling him to face his problems now let him go- u are not responsible for anyone. Feel light and guilt free knowing you’ve set yourself up for a better future and more hopeful future xx sending blessings your way

@rses916

4 жыл бұрын

you dodged a bullet.

@nefariousni1

4 жыл бұрын

A Round Orifice in Nothingness lmao no I broke up with him when I told him how I felt lmao lmao 👍

@alinan4320

4 жыл бұрын

Wow girl, he is out if his mind . Glad u are out of his mess

@amesie9384

4 жыл бұрын

You did the right thing. Stay strong girl, something much better is gonna come along if you let it.

I know that this video is about Kim and Kanye to help us figure out whether we should stay in a less than ideal situation but I want to say, Shallon the growth I've seen in you has been inspiring. You were vulnerable in a way I don't think I've seen you be before and its inspired me to accept things about myself that I keep avoiding: weight issues and why I don't continue down the path to get to the weight I want to be in. Your reasoning for yours is very similar to mine. Also, I am proud of you for taking the medication to get better so often we feel ashamed to admit that we can't do it all on our own. Moral of the story, move to Montana, ride horses, get some fresh air and live your truth, be like Shallon.

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you bb

@minnae.1747

4 жыл бұрын

I also have the same reason for avoiding weight loss. It's good to hear others talking about it.

Why is it a women’s job to stand by their man when most men don’t do the same? Why do we have to fix them? Like now he is acting like a jackass again for the 100th time and she has to stay. I wouldn’t especially with her money she is worth more than him I’d leave him especially since he mentioned the kids that is the last straw.

SHALLON! I doubt you’ll see this but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for helping me with years of pain no therapist ever could. You are truly one of a kind. Stay safe and I’m sending you lots of love, acceptance and patience your way. I’d leave an emoji but I know you’d be annoyed so I won’t. (Wink face) ha.

I only laughed when he wrote "Calmye" only that part.

@MoreMaddie

4 жыл бұрын

lol ngl I fell out when he said that

@dscjmc6513

4 жыл бұрын

What does it mean?

@iWANDER262

4 жыл бұрын

@@dscjmc6513 he's referring to Corey.. Kris's boyfriend

@imshooketh1500

4 жыл бұрын

I laughed at Kris jon un 🙄

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

I laughed when he said "I prayed North's mom would never sell her sex rape" Kris Jenner probably lost her mind

I don't think Kanye has been the same since his mom died

@amycarroll5659

4 жыл бұрын

My husband committed suicide last year and I believe that the beginning of his downward spiral was the death of his mom

@BBLongLegs

4 жыл бұрын

@@amycarroll5659 So sorry

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

@@amycarroll5659 Amy, I am so sorry to learn of your tragedy. Prayers are with you

If he claps when a plane lands 😂😂😂

@DanieB322

4 жыл бұрын

The worst lmao 🤣

@Katyloveheart

3 жыл бұрын

I just died😂🤣😂🤣😂

He says that he didn’t want the pregnancy to go ahead, not that she didn’t, I believe.

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

@therese fassie plus, he told the world that he was sleeping with multiple women when she got pregnant. Makes it sound like he didnt care about her at all, wasnt really that into her, and only married her because of the baby. No woman wants to be seen as someone a man needed a shotgun at his back to marry her lol

@Denissegv1087

4 жыл бұрын

He said he wasn’t in the right place to have a bay at the time. Now if we take that and translate it into what future is doing with his kids, isn’t that what all of us women are fighting for? The choice to end a pregnancy early when it came at a time where we can’t give our kids our best version of ourselves? How many of us have been in this position as Kanye? Or we are just dismissing his words as “crazy” because he happens to be diagnosed with a mental illness? And if that’s the case, how many of us have talked to a psychiatrist lately? Last year? A month? Two? Is time to understand that labels can’t be no longer used to dismiss the weight of someone’s experiences ladies! Let’s do better, let’s be better!!

@wendylewey5743

4 жыл бұрын

I think he said that he wanted the abortion and even if Kim divorced him he would always love her cause she saved North. I watched his rally and it was really sad, he definitely needs help!

@hallieshouse13

4 жыл бұрын

Denisse Gonzalez Villegas I think we can do better as Women. Firstly, by teaching our girls how to not get pregnant in the first place or to have sexual intercourse, safely and responsibly. It dies my just come to us. We make it happen. The point you make about dismissing someone’s experience and opinion because they are diagnosed with a mental illness is spot on in my opinion. A “mental illness” is a “state of mind” and that can change. Within an “episode” also. It’s lazy thinking to say someone has nothing @sane” to say because they are “mentally ill”. How many of the millions of people, who have been given a label, have had a brain scan? It’s like a heart DR guessing what is wrong with your heart just by listening to the beat. Most “mentally ill” people are just coping with difficult situations. The language we use amongst a long list of other things needs to change surrounding mental health.

@borntobelucky02

4 жыл бұрын

@@carolsimpson4422 She didn't have to accept the proposal and marry him if that's the way it was having a baby doesn't mean you have to get married. Let's get real, marriage isn't THAT important to her she got married to someone she didn't really like for the show. She's a big girl who knew the situation and how he felt yet chose to marry him anyway when she could have said no or waited to see how they felt after North was born.

“You are not a rehab for broken people” 🙌

@laurenlawson5044

4 жыл бұрын

Shallon has burned this (and many other!) phrase(s) into my brain lol

@clarics6804

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly.... relationships are not therapy. He needs to take care of himself and she needs to run and care for her kids safety and emotional health. All this with love.

"Giving someone that Wife Love and They Can't give you Boyfriend Love" Or something like that Shallon said..I'm LIVING for it 👏 Deep!

I haven’t watched this fully yet, but the question of should we stay or leave is so complicated. My ex boyfriend was an unmedicated bipolar. I made the decision to leave him after he tried to knock my head off with pole, and he bashed himself in the head repeatedly once I locked myself in the bedroom. This incident was the first blowup. He spit in my face, yelled at me numerous times, tried to swallow a bunch of pills, tried cutting his wrist. It wasn’t until I looked in his eyes and saw that his blue eyes were completely black, that I decided to leave. I checked him into the hospital, stayed with him while he was treated and remained his friend until the end. Then, I put myself and my well being first. Now, he was a just boyfriend and we have no kids or mutual friends. We are talking about a marriage with 4 babies under the age of 10. Kim is no stranger to divorce, so I can see her taking that route sooner rather than later. This whole notion of “sticking with your man” is really tricky and can be one-sided. If the opposite was happening (Kim was ranting and being erratic), there would be no “stick with your woman”. It’s almost as if men have more of a license to be ill and women are supposed to stick with them and be ride or dies. It’s so problematic.

Can you do a video about elon musk i feel something is off with him

@nataliandlovu3155

4 жыл бұрын

I think he’s planning to take over and it’s going to go horribly wrong

@gwagon6506

4 жыл бұрын

Tbh I think he’s a legit socially awkward geek who’s having a bit of fun now that he’s in the limelight and getting called things like “the Real Life Ironman” lol. If you watch interviews of him he seems pretty chill but like I said, still a solid computer nerd. The projects he’s actually working on are pretty badass.

@abbiealverez2960

4 жыл бұрын

He is looking like KD Lang lately!

@mysterygirl5291

4 жыл бұрын

I've always felt the same...just so happens he endorses Kanye for president too...ok I guess it was just for 72 hours....but still!!!

@jasenkavukelic5047

4 жыл бұрын

@@abbiealverez2960 Omg I see it😀

I dated a "recovering" meth addict. Ignored the red flags. Wasted three months of my life and got super attached only to watch him settle down with his dealer (who he still regularly got high with) instead of me. Trust your instinct always, people.

@kendall6049

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t ever get involved with someone recovering or who “wants to recover.” They need to put their sobriety first, and shouldn’t be in a relationship until they are FULLY recovered and sober! :)

@looloo960

4 жыл бұрын

Thank your lucky stars for not wasting more time

@sandym669

4 жыл бұрын

Marlowe that’s not actually how it works..there’s no such thing as FULLY recovered. No disrespect to you at all but recovering addict here with 5 years clean. Most people in the addiction world will however suggest that you do not enter into a relationship in the first year of your recovery.

The hair, the clothes, the jewelry, the background and the lipstick 😍 10/10 chefs kiss 👏 I thought the slicked back hair was intentional like Kate Hudson.. it’s a look 😄

@ursulabach566

4 жыл бұрын

I knooowww she said she was sorry but this woman is serving looks!

@nataliandlovu3155

4 жыл бұрын

She was serving looks. I was getting Malibu Barbus vibes from the hair and I’m in love

The Midsommar earrings really add to the message in this video.

@radbrad1133

4 жыл бұрын

I thought the SAME EXACT THING 🔥💐🌞🐻

Everyone is saying that Kanye needs help, and I get it, but at the same time we need to remember that this man has been praised so much that his ego is high and Kim herself likes to call it “he’s just passionate about things “, if still had this behavior when they got married and she still had kids with him, all these things are just encouraging that behavior, he literally lives in a world where everyone supports what he does, this man believes that he is right because people around him have given him the push, it’s ok to be honest to your loved ones and tell them when they’re wrong. I saw the video of the rally and I’m disgusted, WHY ARE PEOPLE APPLAUDING HIM? He is literally going crazy and you are praising him? He should have gotten an intervention the day he stopped Taylor on stage, he actually believes he has that amount of power because he has been pushed to believe so.

@pearlbubbles6885

4 жыл бұрын

The voice of reason!

@abbiealverez2960

4 жыл бұрын

Everything you said..Amen sister

@dscjmc6513

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. It got weird when he started calling himself yeezus

@Nomnom238

4 жыл бұрын

Dscjm C hahaha I totally forgot about the whole yeezus thing but yes, when a man starts to compare himself WITH JESUS it tells you how full of himself he is, and also the whole naked Taylor video, why would I be ok with my husband putting a girl naked that he embarrassed YEARS ago and singing “I think Taylor may owe me sex, I made that bitch famous “ HOW IS KIM OK WITH THIS? Why is ANYONE ok with this? So he actually believes Taylor is famous because of him?

@pearlbubbles6885

4 жыл бұрын

@@Nomnom238 Yes coming after Taylor trying to ruin her says everything about Kim and Kanye.

My friend who was bipolar had a hard time staying on the meds because the meds gave her no feelings and she felt like a zombie going through the motions in her day. So she was on a constant rollercoaster ride. I had to end the friendship when she started acting like I was responsible for her happiness and she wanted control over me. It was very uncomfortable but I wasnt going to lose myself for her friendship.

@amberdecameron2269

4 жыл бұрын

You made the right decision. You can't help her. Her issues are far too complex for that. She would have to cooperate with family members and a psychiatrist. Keep her blocked on everything. I just had to cut off a friend last week, unfortunately.

@MarianaDoll01

4 жыл бұрын

omg! This same story happened to me so many years ago. She was my best friend for like 10 years, I loved her so much and I still do. But after all this years I still feel guilty for not staying because she really meant a lot to me. I knew I would hurt her if I leave her and I did... That hurts me too but at the same time it was a relief. I feel so selfish for saying it like this but at that time nobody wanted her around and I just thought she was misuderstood (like kim thinks about kanye).

@teja2735

4 жыл бұрын

similar story here! you did the right thing!

@sarahgeorge7786

4 жыл бұрын

Wow take care

@MiaZaheeyaSofea

4 жыл бұрын

Herm..I am that person on the other side though. We are not all that bad, if we work enought together and communicate. We can live better too. My ex bf left me but then I work hard to be better and he came back. He said he does love me but it was too much for him to bear and he was also felt hurt of leaving me. But now we're together cause we discuss things and I changed. So I guess not all mental I'll people are dead Ends. We can better ourselves when we know it's our responsibility

i'm older tham most people here but ya know why i watch this lady? its because i am in a wierd phase where i have 40 years to look back and Shallon makes me review my life in a way that i can't do myself. her analysis makes me see my past as more rich in experience, and less in pain and anguish. i "re-learn" so much it helps me believe that my next 40 will be rich in experience through happiness

The color mix on this video is amazing. Your outfit and your eye color combined with painting behind you, and your goldenish hair with similar tone pillowcase 😍

“It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”

Can I just say how much I appreciate the way you're speaking about Kanye and mental illness here? I know you had gotten some criticism for speaking harshly about mental illness in the past and I think it speaks VOLUMES that you 1. actually said (I think on reddit?) that you were going to change the way you spoke about mental illness and 2. that you are following through on that. It shows a lot of character and how much of a class act you are.

Do you know something, alot of mental health issues are down to vitamin/mineral deficiencies or hormonal imbalances which can be cured. Doctors are so quick to treat the symptoms of mental illness they forget to treat the cause! People are deemed 'crazy' when their illness has a physical cause and then they lose it on social media which makes everything a million times worse....what a world! Get well Kanye xx

@christianone6611

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Fermented foods (homemade or purchased) like Kombucha or fermented veggies help add healthy bacteria back into the digestive system (that antibiotics kill along with the bad bacteria) and many brain chemicals are produced in the gut. The gut is called "the second brain" for this reason. Get your gut healthy and your brain will function better too!

@lizzyw7861

4 жыл бұрын

I had depression for years. Then one day I got a checkup. Discovered I was defficient in many things. After taking the supplements (that my doctor instructed me) I feel MUCH better. However, it is important to note that you cannot cure depression by taking over the counter vitamins or probiotics. Always have to work with doctors.

@canesugar911

4 жыл бұрын

Christian One is that why i feel happy after taking a good shit?

Shallon I love you lol. “Is this the shallon you deserve? No but this the shallon you are getting”. Lmao

You're just in time for my run!!! I always play you when I'm running!!!

@user-yh5qw8qj4x

4 жыл бұрын

Same!

Yep, this video make me not wanna date until im 30. I dont have time to pscho analyze a guy. Over many hrs she is describing. Note to self stay in school and make Boundaries and have good self esteem. Take my med

@rses916

4 жыл бұрын

why 30

@kimberleynicole1821

4 жыл бұрын

Minnie Mouse damn. I feel as ill be better prepared and get myself well educated. Get a good jobs and alot of have hobbies. So if a man leave itll hurt but not to the point where i end up in the psycheward again. Shallow make me not wanna date tbh. I rather pay attention to myself such as self esteem and mindset the biggest 2 problem.

@Jasmillmelisa

4 жыл бұрын

Hahah! They get crazier the older they get sometimes lol! But i get you. I always wanted to avoid that relationship and boy drama so i have been content being single and i also was very shy around men. Now in 27 and i want love. But healthy love of course.

@dscjmc6513

4 жыл бұрын

Kanye is 42 so age doesn’t mean anything

@squreshi8413

4 жыл бұрын

The good ones do get taken by then. Im blessed to be married now, got married at 27. But before that the pool was shrinking already! I would tell my daughter to really look in college or grad school. Like date like it's a job interview. The job of being your husband. Dont waste time on boys to please ur ego like I did lol. Your career and school will get accomplished as well. Maybe even better if you have a healthy relationship with someone's who loves you

I feel bad for everyone involved. I hope he gets help for himself and his family

@allfemalewrestling6731

4 жыл бұрын

@therese fassie hey at least they have their millions I mean billions

@laprincesa3608

4 жыл бұрын

all female wrestling what?

@allfemalewrestling6731

4 жыл бұрын

@@laprincesa3608 you heard me I said they have billions to cover that up

@laprincesa3608

4 жыл бұрын

all female wrestling how are they gonna “cover it up” when he’s out here doing the most, money also doesn’t equal happiness nor does it help mental disorders like bipolar.

A lot is being exposed, we have to question everything instead of calling him crazy.

@ky-pr7sh

4 жыл бұрын

Riiiight

@La-di

4 жыл бұрын

Kanye got locked up and put on medicine for going on a rant saying google was manipulating algorithms, the radio was fixed and pay to play and that Trump was better than Hilary which are all facts ... where’s the crazy ?

@Lia-hd7rh

4 жыл бұрын

yeah, i wouldn't shrug it ALL off and excuse it due to bi polar. He knows shit. Also bi polar people dont just rant out random lies out of thin air. btw I'm not for conspiracy theories and thats not where I thought OP was taking it. I think he just knows too much about the family he's in and he's losing it from time to time.

I am addicted to your videos. It's almost the only thing I am looking forward to this days.

@liacastrobugliossi8792

4 жыл бұрын

Literally me in this quarantine 😂

@lizzyw7861

4 жыл бұрын

SAME. We are getting our quarantine INNER glow up

@johnhartsock1891

4 жыл бұрын

Sofie, social distancing is a blast. So is trying to get a bargain on hand sanitizer

This is so aesthetically pleasing to me the shirt,the light blue pillow the painting all of it tie together perfectly and I’m loving it!!

“If I’m hemorrhaging all this energy toward a person who is crashing and burning, I have to assume that they’d let me crash and burn.” This was the aha moment for me in this video. The crux of this video for me. Because when your partner has refused to let you help him get better, when they have refused to get better despite your best efforts, then it’s only logical that they would encourage you to self destruct should you be going through some shit.

@gabbiemcguire

4 жыл бұрын

This hit home

@myacct8304

4 жыл бұрын

Huge. That's huge.

@mariajoana7438

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. That's sick

I thought he wanted to abort and Kim fought to protect that child

@tootsiebutts

4 жыл бұрын

thats what i gathered too, or at least they BOTH considered whether or not to continue the pregnancy. Remember she was pregnant with North and trying to finalize the divorce from KH...it was messy and maybe they considered waiting to have kids....but he should have NEVER said that....poor Northie

@tootsiebutts

4 жыл бұрын

@keylimepie1234 i think we're mortified for his family and children.

@user-ks3cf4ke7h

4 жыл бұрын

No he said she was planning on taking the pill and then something happened that made him think god was signaling him the message of if you mess with my plans I’ll mess with yours so he called her and told her not to go through with it

@shelbyclements5485

4 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@tootsiebutts

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-ks3cf4ke7h are you saying that he claimed he stopped her from taking the SECOND medication (misoprostol)????? She had already started the abortion if thats what happened.

This hairstyle reminds me of Gigi Hadid

BP people say that they don't feel anything when they take their meds. they get used to the extreme highs and lows and feel numb when the medicine evens them out. they say they feel dead so they stop taking it.

@liacastrobugliossi8792

4 жыл бұрын

I have borderline, we are treated with bipolar medicine. Is exactly that! We feel dead inside.

@kendall6049

4 жыл бұрын

Lia Castro Bugliossi I have borderline too, and I think meds are more a placebo for me because I feel good “having help” but as far as meds making me physically feel different, I don’t think they do. I’m on a low dose though

@WHEREISDAYANA

4 жыл бұрын

I dated someone with bi polar who refused to be medicated and they said the same thing they felt numb

@cayad2591

4 жыл бұрын

@@WHEREISDAYANA yeah my sister dated someone with BP and that's what he used to say. also a co-worker dated someone as well, same thing.

@carolsimpson4422

4 жыл бұрын

I bet it's true. Plus those meds are causing liver damage and other physical problems too, so it must be hard to fight the impulse not to take a poison. It's not like cancer where you know you just have to take chemo for a limited time. They're told just to take them until they die. I'm not surprised people rebel against them. They really need to find better ways to treat these illnesses.

Thank you so much for this video. Today, after almost a year, I've left a relationship with a narcissist. I've done multiple things for him, like staying on his side when no one else was, on his birthday I was the only person who remembered and stood by his side. I've listened and supported him in every thing that he confessed to me. I had hopes we would be more intimate, but it was just a classic move of "you owe me this". He never asked me how I was or if I was needing something. When i confronted him of how sick i was of not being treated with reciprocity, he had the guts to say "I've never promised you I'd be reciprocal". That was the last straw for me. They just don't fucking care about your emotions.

@mysterygirl5291

4 жыл бұрын

He would respond the exact same way even if you gave hime 50 years...don't look back only grow!

And they have FOUR kids. Staying or leaving? Neither will be easy!

My great grandmother used to say, “You can’t reason crazy sane.” The situation is so sad. I wish the best for both of them:/

Off topic mint is a really good color on you

He said going on medication stifles his creativity - he’s not on it

@SP-kk5nj

4 жыл бұрын

How do you know he’s not on meds?

@marshapple

4 жыл бұрын

@@SP-kk5nj because he said so

@SP-kk5nj

4 жыл бұрын

marsha okhiria people can say what they like; doesn’t mean it’s true. Also, people have the prerogative to change their minds and decisions.

@sspeciallkk3996

4 жыл бұрын

S P he literally said himself he doesn’t why try and change his words 💀

Omg! Thank you for this video.. I left a guy last year who had some issues with mental health and would not.. no matter what.. go see a therapist! I was 21 and he was 29! I could not sit there and watch him spiral down the way he was.. I tried so hard.. took him out almost everyday for walks and what not.. he wouldn't put in the efforts he needed to.. and I wasn't ready to let my youth go waste taking care of a grown man.. But the problem was.. I was feeling so guilty for doing what I did.. and he didn't leave one single chance of making me feel guilty.. this video really put everything into perspective for me.. Thank you!

@lavonnealexander6936

4 жыл бұрын

Girl sorry but that’s reality of mental health. You must save yourself first before anyone else, I had to learn this lesson. I tried to save my aunt who was very sick , I would give her money and bring to my mom house. My mom would get angry because she thought I was putting myself and people in danger. After that , she came over and started fighting my friends. I had to let her go.

The clap comment made me laugh. My ex clapped when the plane landed and our relationship was a plane crash

He said he wanted to abort North,and Kim told him we are having this baby on the phone.

I hope she leaves and Kanye gets help. Put your kids first and create a safe, stable household for them 💯 it affects them more than you think.

@crybully

4 жыл бұрын

You are hopeful for parents of 4 kids who have been together successfully for a decade to get a divorce? 👀

@97indianuk

4 жыл бұрын

tackling fuel your naive if you think that’s all I’m saying. Children need a safe, stable, loving home. They don’t need chaos in their lives and to be traumatised.

@crybully

4 жыл бұрын

Indi jay my god I hope you are a social worker because you do a very good job of diagnosing humans as a threat to their children from afar. These kids are SO loved and protected. Kanye and Kim care about their kids and while this one might trigger you: staying together is the best thing they can do for this kids!

@biancaa5562

4 жыл бұрын

tackling fuel it really isn’t. It might suck not having parents together but as someone who has gone through having parents that weren’t mentally there and had horrible fights it hurt me more than it would’ve if they got a divorce. I wish they got a divorce...

@crybully

4 жыл бұрын

@@biancaa5562 I respect your anecdote but we aren't discussing a similar situation here. Where is the evidence that Kanye is a threat to his family? That he and Kim have explosive disagreements and have a chaotic house? To my original point, statistically, people are more successful when they were raised with both parents in the household.

Get therapy, take medication, regulate your thoughts and do other holistic lifestyle changes. 💯

@mariac957

4 жыл бұрын

Tootie Ramsey she wrote medication...

@Lucia-Sosa

4 жыл бұрын

Preach @indi jay

@97indianuk

4 жыл бұрын

DO ALL these things at the same time.

@BrightSun-xe5yu

4 жыл бұрын

What if you don't have money

@97indianuk

4 жыл бұрын

МореВолнуется Раз start making lifestyle changes and deal with your thoughts and emotions and put boundaries and distance from toxic people. It’s not easy but it’s worth it 💯

it probably sounds so dumb, but back in march i started having serious issues with feeling like i couldn't breathe and my heart was racing all day. i was spending 95% of my day laying down because i literally could not function. when i went to the doctor they said they thought i was having major anxiety issues. ive always been an anxious person, but never to the point where it was unbearable or interfered with my life in any significant way. i was so resistant to the idea of taking meds because i thought i could handle it the way i always have....meditation, exercise, vegging out on the couch lol....turns out i could not. the pandemic really threw my anxiety into hyper drive for some reason (my guess is i often "avoided" feeling anxious by constantly moving and going places, then i couldn't do that) and my doctor said he's seen it happen to a lot of people recently. long story short, i feel so much better on meds and if you're in a similar situation with any mental issue, just know that you aren't alone. it can be scary, but if you have a doctor/psychologist you trust, take their advice. there is no shame in taking care of yourself ❤.

@vanysachterbahnfahrt

4 жыл бұрын

Same happened to me. But I went through it by therapy without meds. Thank god! I wish you the best❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@chiaradimarco7303

3 жыл бұрын

This has been happening to me since around January too. Sometimes I can’t even sleep because my body will be afraid to fall asleep and my heart starts racing out of nowhere and I feel like I’m going to have a panic attack out of no where and sometimes it feels uncontrollable 😩 then when I finally calm down, I feel so exsausted mentally and physically that I just want to stay in bed all day

@claudiarios7744

3 жыл бұрын

@@chiaradimarco7303 don't put off seeing a doctor if that's possible for you. they can rule out any possible physical issues that might be causing it and if it is a mental health issue you can get some counseling and/or medication if that's appropriate for your situation. I've been speaking to my therapist over the phone due to covid, but it is still very helpful for me to work through any issues I'm dealing with. Best of luck :).

One of the earliest serious life lessons I ever learnt through personal experience is that you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. The earliest you realise it the happier you’ll be, cause believe me when that ship sinks you’re the first one that goes down with it and there’s no saving you.

Girl..... you KNOW I was waiting on this video!!! I had to stop mid face mask!!

My friend just sent me this video and first time watching your stuff -going on 4 years with my boyfriend and in the last year have started to come to terms that this is where I’m at.. he’s dealing with addictions and Bipolar/mental health issues and he’s not doing anything to make changes. Thank you for touching on this subject in such a lighthearted and loving way. I laughed and cried throughout the video with recognition of all this in my life. Thank you!

I love that "nobody has gone to therapy for me"- we deserve better ladies.

I read that book years ago for schizo family member. His book and TED talks changed our lives for the better. Immensely grateful to Dr. Amador!!!

24:54 🤯 saved me good few months of therapy

The celebrity/Hollywood world itself is like an alternative reality. The fact that Kanye thought he should run for president shows how out of tune with reality he is. Additionally, it is a well known fact that celebrity world can deeply affect your mental health.

The reason they may not have any furniture or things in the house is because Kanye might used them to hurt Kim and the kids.

I knew you wouldn’t skip this opportunity to give us this juicy girl talk 💅🏻

The part about fairytales was fascinating!

I'm excited to see you talk about Julianne Hough and Brooks Laich

@wkh3962

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

You are truly wise and you really put thought into your suggestions....they are great! I don't always agree with everything you say (in this video I do) but your arguments are always well made.

*Concerning mental health, I would appreciate if you could push emergency hotlines in your infobox for your followers! Suicide hotline, mental health hotlines and so on. At least for the states! Your videos do help people a lot, but some might need some professional help.* Love and hugs ❤️

@nope_no_nunya.

4 жыл бұрын

Very good idea!

@user-ii4rq5ko3x

4 жыл бұрын

I’m guessing people watch this channel from numerous different countries, states and regions in the world. It’s a good idea but would be difficult listing all the different hotlines. If anyone is struggling and watching this channel, they clearly have access to the internet so they could simply google a local hotline/helpline.

@alexisyates28

4 жыл бұрын

Agree with the other comment, too much of a hassle especially when ppl can do an easy google search.

@schnioula

4 жыл бұрын

www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

@schnioula

4 жыл бұрын

_Uhh yeaaaahh.. saving lives is such a hassle.. OMG.. I can‘t.. toooo much work, duh!?_

Kanye tweeted an hour ago that hes been trying to divorce kim for a year since she possibly cheated on him 😳 this is definitely the end of the road for kimye..

@lavonnealexander6936

4 жыл бұрын

Probably why he is acting out , she definitely had agenda. Probably to date Kanye for his fame and then she gets famous again because her show was going downhill. Get married to him , have kids then , do shows, business , go to school. After if he goes crazy she now has reason to leave. 😔Kanye run 🏃 and find you loyal black women.

Those earings got my attention. You are glowing, Shallon ! 💜

US has a big mental health problem. Kanye, Britney, Karens everywhere... Terrible

@StrongerThanYsterday

4 жыл бұрын

Specially “Karens” everywhere lol

@Agnieszka11102

4 жыл бұрын

Sodoma and Gomorrah

@kash9770

4 жыл бұрын

Pretty Girl I don’t believe it’s just a US thing it’s the whole world very few people are actually mentally healthy these days

@glorianaponte

4 жыл бұрын

@@kash9770 Im in the caribbean and the only problematic people I've seen videotaped doing crazy stuff like traveling during a pandemic, not wearing masks, going places they shoulnt go are americans. Sorry, not sorry. They even filmed 4 ladies in the mall wearing nothing but bathing suits.

@glorianaponte

4 жыл бұрын

@@kash9770 there are crazy people everywhere. But what Im saying is the mental health issue is more predominant or better seen in americans nowdays

What I understand from kanye's tweets is that Kris sold Kim's sex tape which has been rumored anyway so thanks for confirming? Another thing is, he's kinda saying Kris/Kim are trying for an intervention. He may have lost it by now

@merrywalsh2809

4 жыл бұрын

v L My understanding is Ray J was the scumbag who obsessively followed Kim taking videos and he sold it. Kim was very distraught. Kris tried to stop it but was unable to do so legally, so she cut a deal taking most of the profits in order to stick it to Ray J and the company selling it.

@lprinsky2356

4 жыл бұрын

@@merrywalsh2809 but we'll never know in the end who did what

all that money and plastic surgery and they still not happy that is we cannot envy because we dont know what people are going through. I hope Kanye gets help

@janesmith8676

4 жыл бұрын

Your health is your wealth. Mental health is more important than excess material wealth.

@hazzastyles6315

4 жыл бұрын

This ^

@wolftownesque

4 жыл бұрын

I do get more anxious and stressed when I’m struggling financially. There’s a correlation for me 😕

@janesmith8676

4 жыл бұрын

I said excess material wealth. I wasn't talking about making a comfortable living.

Ugh this is one of your best videos ever! I’ve dealt with this before and I have to say, I came out a shell of what I was! They take you down with them. It’s insane! Don’t pity them because you’re not helping them and you’re destroying yourself!

I caught myself going "North's Mother? He has like three other children...", trying to apply logic to disordered thinking.

When you were describing the last relationship you left. Exactly how I feel😫😫😫

"I am not a rehab for broken people because no one has been a rehab for me." THANK YOU!!!!! So many people do not keep the same energy when it's you that needs help.

I've been 30 to 40 lbs overweight yet could lose it easily. I relate. It's almost although the misery has become a partial identity and I don't do it because I don't feel I deserve full happiness...yes, love addiction is real. It's not logical, all emotional. Even if it means just replaying memories of ex's to 'feel better.' Great video...so many important issues!

“Don’t act like you’ve earned wife devotion, when you’ve barely earned girlfriend devotion.” Using that the next time my ex tried to guilt me about “giving up on us” after 7 years and god knows how much cheating, lying, alcohol and drug abuse. ✌️

I wish I was friends with Shallon! She‘s so cool and wise ❤️

I thought about and was like: “When will Shallon do a video about Kanye situation?” - I entered KZread and this was the first video available

Omg shallon you read my mind, I’m asking myself this right now, but I have to listen to my intuition AMEN with the girlfriend and wife devotion. It’s so hard to walk away when there’s a REAL spark, but I know deep down I wouldn’t be happy, I would feel burdened 24/7. I want someone BETTER than me, someone I can learn from and inspire me to climb new heights

You look so stunning. Your hair is beautiful styles that way. And the colours you're wearing really compliment your skin. So pretty!

helping you heal shouldn't cost me injuries - pastor flowers 🙏

I would like to take a moment to think truly and deeply of Kim and their children. It's all fun and games from a distance, and yes they can probably afford monetarily to minimise any discomfort or pain even if it's emotional... but as the sister of two brothers two have psychotic disorders... my god it's hard to love them some days. The fact that she is choosing to stay, for WHATEVER reason, speaks to her character undeniably. It is NOT easy.

@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend

4 жыл бұрын

And no, I am not saying mentally ill people can't be loved or are hard to love. I'm saying when someone refuses treatment for their illness and lets it affect their family even when they see others are in pain, that is really difficult to take and stomach no matter how much you love them. If someone is actually trying, that's a whole different ballgame. Kanye is clearly not trying.

He said that he never wanted to have North but Kim basically said too bad I'm having the baby. He wanted the abortion and she didn't. She never tried to abort her kid. Then he started crying about how his dad wanted his mom to abort him too but his mom wouldn't do it. Then he was saying I almost killed my daughter but Kim protected her. He was all over the place. But, I just wanted to tell you that that wasn't what he said.

He told he wanted Kim to abort and pressure her for 3 months, but she was the one that refused.

This spoke to me. Your logic is just everything. Love you Shallon ❤

@talpamorales4510

4 жыл бұрын

I knowww the whole wife devotion topic was🤯

If anybody needs to GET OUT, it's Kim Girl,.don't let a man disrespect u like that 👀😤 Wow Take those kids & go

Girl... you just recited my life.. Holy Hell.. I needed this🙏🏻Thanks Girl💜

Something about taking plan B and abortion being the same doesn’t sit right w me

Please do Heath and Michelle! She did leave him and he died. I feel like that has effected her deeply forever since then. It must be so heavy and hard to have that become your life....with a small child. 😔

Kanye didn’t say Kim wanted to abort North. He said HE wanted to abort North, and that Kim stood up for North, and protected her from being aborted. Kanye said he’s now so grateful to Kim for doing that.

Realllyyy needed this video right now. I had been seeing an old friend of mine throughout quarantine who is basically an addict. He was addicted to coke 6 years ago when Iast knew him. He's now a really bad binge drinker who also over eats if he thinks he's not going to be able to drink as much as he wants to for whatever reason. When he's sober, he's sweet, sooo funny, a really good cook, bought me lots of flowers and little presents. He's a smart guy and works as an electrician. Also drop dead gorgeous. But when he drinks, he turns nasty (not violent but verbal) and he's also been in 2 violent relationships before. His first ex slashed him across the eye with a piece of glass so he's scarred for life. The 2nd ex stabbed him in the thigh, narrowly missing an artery. He's always said to me how nice I am. How he's never met a girl who makes him laugh so much. How no other woman has listened to him and suported him like I have. Sex was great too. But yes, unfortunately he turns when he's drunk and has openly said he doesn't want to stop living how he does. Won't entertain the thought of therapy or even taking a painkiller for a headache (I think he has depression that perhaps medication could help him with). So I ended it 2 weeks ago. He's since sent me further nasty messages when he's been drunk. So I've ignored and blocked him. It's a shame, as he openly admits he's got a lot of unresolved trauma from his childhood but also openly admits he'll probably never get help.

@babysab8013

4 жыл бұрын

RUN , don’t walk, RUN 🏃

@Blondiee777

4 жыл бұрын

@@babysab8013 Thank you, I have done x

@lavonnealexander6936

4 жыл бұрын

Omg 😳 girl run! I have depression and i overeat but I know it’s not good. I now try to minimize my food portions and eat three good balance meals a day with two little snacks. Pray for him and run 🏃‍♀️ fast. He is stubborn.

Being gay and dating a gay man with internalized homophobia, extreme religiosity, and a great deal of denial, I relate

@sincerelyvea6191

4 жыл бұрын

Wait how do you date him ?

We shouldnt be dating a broken guy js

@ThingsILikke

4 жыл бұрын

Broken people shouldn’t be in relationships but they often look for relationships the most

Recently I left my boyfriend due to him neglecting his mental health and wellness. I put too much work into mine to be with someone who isn't doing the same. A week later he called to tell me he made his 1st therapy appt, wants to be healthier for me and for himself, and asked me to dinner. I think I was the one thing keeping him from hitting rock bottom. Letting him go not only protected my peace, it made him take responsibility for his health. Happy to share that.

You gotta remember that Kanye survived a horrific car accident back in late 1999, early 2000. He had brain damage and permanent nerve damage. This could contribute to his breakdowns and mental state as well.

I personally believe that Kanye is Bipolar, and he’s not getting any treatment for it. It’s sad, and his comments are beyond damaging to the black community. It’s just sad all around that he has the platform that he has and it’s just rampant with his psychotic rants.

@wolftownesque

4 жыл бұрын

Also media which is dominated by white people are making a circus show out of it. Really messed up. Kim cannot control Kanye.

@Lia-hd7rh

4 жыл бұрын

if he chooses not to get help i dont feel bad for him then. they have countless hundreds of thousands of dollars and endless resources

It's very hard to see Kanye go through this, let's pray for him and his family

It's getting so scary I hope she gets out. Thank you for making this!

As someone who was diagnosed as Bipolar Type 1 at a very young age...I can say that Kanye's bipolar is EXTREME.