This is why you don’t marry a dude just because he loves you.

I really think that one of their biggest problems (forget about his current episode going on) is that he’s not strong enough to be with someone that has their own voice. They thrived when Kanye controlled Kim’s image. Now that she’s found her niche, she doesn’t need his approval and it kills him. People want to bash Kim but she really has done well for herself and her family. I don’t think she wants their marriage to end, but at the same time, I think she’ll be fine. I hope Kanye gets the help he needs for himself and his kids.

@Sincerelysarajane

4 жыл бұрын

exactly typical narcissistic type of men!

I’m not sure why Kim feels “embarrassed” about getting divorced. The first two times she was married were so short that they shouldn’t even count. Her and Kanye’s marriage lasted long for Hollywood, and she got four kids out of it. Not to mention he helped elevate her career. I think leaving him will be very painful at first, but it will be all for the best. Kanye needs to get the help he needs, and Kim needs to grow without him now.

I think she'll stay, at least until he's stable. She's a loving person. So sad.

@sleepyhead621

4 жыл бұрын

They never even lived together through out their marriage...

@laureenambani8739

4 жыл бұрын

If she leaves he will get well and move on if she stays her family makes her worse

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

You guys need to stop to act like the Kardashians never exploit their mens breakdown...

I used to work Home Health Care and no matter what the family is about..the sick person is in control. Every time.

@4everu984

3 жыл бұрын

So simple, but very powerful. Great insight.

... This was going to happen eventually. Kanye seems like quite a handful. Love keeps us in bad situations too.

@allfemalewrestling6731

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's why his mother wrote a book about him so that it would come in handy for kim

If my husband had said publicly that he wanted to abort our child... It just would have been terribly difficult for me to forget or forgive that. I know he is bipolar, I know he is going through a tough time but... Y'all, my daughter will see this one day when she grows up. This is not something that you can take back, North will have to deal with this bs eventually. I mean, you can hurt me. But hurting OUR children? Just too much for me to handle.

@laureenambani8739

4 жыл бұрын

But she also didnt want to have that baby, she was still married to another man , and her divorce was dragging which if the child would be born while she was still married she would , it was an episode on their show . She said she didnt want to have that baby plus the circumstances were unsuitable for her.

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

They talked about it on the show North would have known anyway

My parents divorce after 23 yrs of marriage and in that time I never seen them: Hug Cuddle Kiss Hold hands Say I love you They kept separate bedrooms And part of me felt I had it better than my friends who were all raised by single moms and nooo dad in their lives. What I did get from my parents was overwhelming attention from them which made me distant and quiet. And we did go on vacations together but I never actually saw them enjoying each others company. And they were constantly trying to emotionally manipulate me, “oh you like your father better” or “oh you and your mother like to stick together” making me feel bad that I somehow was taking sides as a child. I emotionally withdrew. All in all, I never want to become them.

@emmababarinde1541

3 жыл бұрын

I completely understand my parents were exactly the same

Kanye just wanted a gorgeous mannequin on his arm. When Kim started to have a voice, her allure was gone and he's been trying to leave ever since. He hasn't been subtle about it either. What husband writes a song called "Wouldn't leave" about his wife? Then packs up and moves to the middle of nowhere? 😂(Wyoming is gorgeous by the way)

@omphilemoerane2569

4 жыл бұрын

You're right. Remember how mute Amber Rose was when they dated? She literally only started talking after they broke up😯

@PanAfricanist

4 жыл бұрын

Gorgeous mannequin? Yu meant plastic mannequin😂

@suzane3751

4 жыл бұрын

They're both equally superficial...

I can’t say for sure because I don’t know her personally, but one thing that strikes me about Kim is that she seems like a very kind person and she is loyal to her family. I also get the feeling that she’s actually quite intelligent. I think her heart is in the right place and that’s more than a lot of people can say. It makes me feel gross to think I used to think so lowly of her just because it was popular to hate on her. The whole “I’m not like other girls, I don’t like the Kardashians” trope, lol.

@reannabaker4

4 жыл бұрын

Kim will divorce Kanye. She'll move on quickly after leaving him.

I lost it at *„Have you guys met? Do you wanna change phone numbers!“* - Shallon, why are you hot, smart AND FUNNY! Not fair! 😂😂😂

@gengland8601

4 жыл бұрын

Yesmean I know I roared at this one too from Shallon. She’s a born comedian

Kanye has been going off for years, I’m surprised it took this long, this is not Kim’s responsibility, this has been his responsibility since day 1, this is not a marriage issue, he needs to work on himself, the problem is that this man managed to get married to an it girl, make money, AND RUN FOR PRESIDENT with this mentality, and he needs to learn that his actions have consequences, is he going to learn if everyone is praising him? I am not saying he doesn’t need medical assistance, he does, but people around him need to make it clear and not walk on eggshells around him, this is not healthy for him or his wife and kids.

When I saw those photos of Kim crying my heart felt for her. I can't imagine going through something serious and having people follow you and take pictures of you for money... I know it comes with fame and we all know the Kardashians love being famous but I can't help feel for her in such a vulnerable moment.

@allfemalewrestling6731

4 жыл бұрын

Honey Kim travelled in a private jet so how did the parapazzi know she would be at the right place at the right time plus aren't they always bragging about their ranch they have a large ranch but yet they argue in a car 🤔🤔🤔

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

It was staged

@33watch55

4 жыл бұрын

@@allfemalewrestling6731 Yes! Seems staged

I hope your videos stay on KZread forever I want to encourage my young daughter to watch them later in life. I’ve had to learn many of the lessons you discuss the hard way and I will do my best to help her. I think you have such a great way of explaining what we can learn from each scenario that you cover. Thank you for the continued great content Shallon - from one of your Australian Showerliners!

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! This makes my day to hear! And hopefully by the time your girl is old enough to need these lessons, I'll be obsolete because women will be totally bad ass and not need me :)

@shmooboogieharper748

4 жыл бұрын

I agree! A big lesson Shallon has taught me that I hope to instill in my future daughter is to have interests! Growing up and all through my teen years I looked for happiness and essentially a life through a guy,instead of going out and finding my own hobbies and experiences and it really stunted my growth,it wasn’t until watching Shallons videos I realized how much of a difference in my confidence level going out and cultivating your own life can really make.

Something is up with the Montana water bc you have had the prettiest hair since you’ve moved there

@KP-zb1tr

4 жыл бұрын

southernbellechef I thought so too

@BipolarrPrincess

4 жыл бұрын

It's probably the air

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

I think I've had a major Vitamin H (horse) deficiency; the more time I spend around animals the happier I am!

@KP-zb1tr

4 жыл бұрын

Shallon Lester Same

@mxxx9561

4 жыл бұрын

And skin

It sounds like he doesn't respect her anymore. This is way past embarrassment. I would be MAF!

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

Funny he can bring her in video clip half naked but then cry saying she won’t sexualise their daughter

More people are probably judging Kim for staying with him than the other way around. I'm not, but just saying...

Shallon, you should be in school curriculums 💖 I've learned so much watching your videos ☺️

@shallonlester

4 жыл бұрын

One of my goals is to do talks at schools, I'd looooove to work directly with teen girls!

... Kim isn't his dream woman anymore. He clearly wants a wife that is godly like him. Not half naked on the internet. Kanye and Kim have grown apart. If they stay together. It will only be for the kids and to keep their reputation

She can't just divorce and move on. Kanye might get tangled with toxic people loose money, make more of a mess, break her kids hearts. She cannot just leave him, she has to look over his shoulder rest of his life.

@classicarah

4 жыл бұрын

I honestly think she’s scared of what he might say once they get a divorce.

@calebalvarez7111

4 жыл бұрын

classicarah GOOD POINT!

Let's be honest, Kim and Kanye's marriage seems as if it was cracking since way back.

"It's called a break-up because it's broken!" Love that!

I think female celebrities are more afraid of when their exes are seen with a new woman . I imagine it to be devastation for their egos , espicially if they were so proud of having that man .

@precioussamuel5071

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah but nobody wants Kanye 🤷🏾‍♀️

@omphilemoerane2569

4 жыл бұрын

every thing true! After my ex broke up with me because he started a new relationship with another girl while we were still together, ugh I was constantly on edge and anxious about when they would make their relationship public and would start being seen together, especially because I knew people would have questions. The whole thing was really embarrassing and confusing for me since it all happened so fast and was a blindsided break up.

@aa.4639

4 жыл бұрын

@@precioussamuel5071 😂

3 options: 1. They stay together and work it through! 2. Kanye leaves for real, for real!!! 3. Kim ends up with Van Jones any way!

@schnioula

4 жыл бұрын

MsSocial Armstrong Van is one fine man - smart, chocolaty and all! 😋

I'm becoming more and more convinced that relationships are about tolerating each other 😂😂😂 people stay together because they just don't want to start over, dive into the unknown and try finding someone else

Shallon can you pleaaase please do an updated video on how to stop obsessing over a random guy. Xo

the idea of embarrassment after a breakup seems foreign. if you’re not happy why stay? of course i’m not a celebrity, but my peers and culture wouldn’t shame me for a relationship ending.

You look stunning today! It’s making me consider taking a shower?! 🤣

@des4127

4 жыл бұрын

😁😂SAME.

I wish Kim portrayed herself as who she actually must be, which is intelligent. The bimbo façade is bewildering to me.

Then why get married then, marriage is over rated because it doesn’t last through the marital vows. It’s just a big expensive party that most likely will end in an even bigger expensive divorce.

@Piscoandmartinis

4 жыл бұрын

Speak for yourself 🤷😂

@schnee78

4 жыл бұрын

True in so many cases.

you can't negotiate with crazy. the ONLY way is to take the pills, and once he is calm a few days later , THEN you can reason with the person

To quote Theodore Roosevelt: “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly...” The critics Don’t matter. Catch the call to courage by Dr. Brené Brown on Netflix. As a fellow communication major student, I think you will appreciate the Powerful Rhetoric.

I constantly catch myself saying “true” throughout your videos. lol much love girl! 💗

Marriage ain't a joke. You don't just divorce when things get rough. Kanye is just fine.

You can’t reason with crazy.

Your words “ anyone who is for you, is for you no matter what” in reference to friends.... Is MARRIAGE & YOUR VOWS not just as if not more important as FRIENDS!!!???!!! Should be....🤷🏻‍♀️

I think it’s more embarrassing for Kim to stay married to Kanye than to divorce him. She’s got to think of what’s best for herself and for her children. He’s not healthy for them to be around. Free yourself, Kim! 🏃🏻‍♀️

You're right. I'm not into celebrity culture at all, but that's not really what your posts are about. They're about relatable relationship and friendship issues.

This really hit home for me today. I've been in a bad relationship for so long which has been on and off more times than a ride at a funfair. Currently back on and I've been too embarrassed to tell my best friend that I ignored her advice to get back with him. She is amazing and has always said no matter what she will be there for me but I couldn't tell her as I thought she would lose respect for me for allowing myself to be badly treated. I've just had a light bulb moment and realised that my fears about telling her is my reflected disappointment in myself. Thanks Shallon and thanks for sharing your own experiences again 😘

@omphilemoerane2569

4 жыл бұрын

Listen to your friend. In my personal experience, on-off relationships never work out. Eventually, you will break up for good and you will regret wasting your time and lowering your chances of meeting someone you're more compatible with. Have you noticed that in your on-off relationship when you're on again things are good only for a little while and then they just go back to being how they were when you decided to break up the last time? That's what's going to happen again this time. Please, save yourself, your time, energy and efforts.

@erinvictoriamakeupartist1323

4 жыл бұрын

@@omphilemoerane2569 you are so correct. This is a big wake up call and our friends only want what's best for us if they are true friends which she is as she is more like a sister

Shallon, I like how you used the word “pedantic.” They use that word to describe one of the antagonists in my fave movie “Midnight in Paris.” 😂

@gabrielacr1784

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, love that film.

Shalligators... I miss shower liners🥺🥺

idk if this is too personal... but I’d love to hear abt your journey up and back into love after your divorce

Girl ... u make my day ... lol .. don’t lie to me Apples 🤣🤣🤣 by the way I stay single because relationships are a lot of work . I’m AQUARIUS so it makes it easier to be single

@ooogirl

4 жыл бұрын

Same lols

It was definitely the we’re back together with an ex that was embarrassing for me. I’m embarrassed I dated him in general such a trashy guy🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Is it just me that hears Shallon sounds a bit more country with some phrases 😂 I'm glad you're happy love 😂💕

Kim & Kris are all about money & their brand...I think at this point, kanye actually hurts their image more than anything I see her staying until he's out of this episode, & then leaving....maybe they don't divorce right away, but I just don't see her trusting him again, especially around the kids

@mrsnavy7034

4 жыл бұрын

Kanye literally confirmed Kris leaked the sextape I know she's mad lol

This entirely family is just a big sick joke, it’s shouldn’t be called Keeping up with the Kardashian, it should be called Keeping up with the apparences.

I totally understand the shame of getting back with and ex. I still feel like a fool for getting back with him.

I LOVE your perspectives. Wise woman❤️

Ur freaking spot on. We all hate a failed marriage, relationship and even a long term friendship. I’ve been there. And @shallon you’ve opened up my eyes. I was always ashamed to tell people or social media about my break ups. Not anymore. I know so many couples as well. Married for many years and they are so unhappy. It’s rare to see a truly happy marriage.

Omg when you said this isn't enough for me. I felt that. So true, women need to hear this cos we need to lead by example, too long have we just accepted relationships & men because there ok, nice, a good guy even. But we're not on the same page, shit changes or we can't work out our differences. But need to show other women, young girls and men the boundaries and value we place on ourselves because we been conditioned to put up with so much bs when we're so much more powerful than we allow ourselves to be.

Bieber coaching Kanye on keeping up appearances probably.

Kims strange body? Hahahahaha. To say the least!

The way u acted out the way your ex’s parents were when u tried to take a picture took me out I couldn’t stop laughing and replaying that party hahahaha love you

SO TRUE!! I love that hair style , looks so flowing, I wish I could get that color!

i think for the first time afyer half a year i finally feel truly happy i'm not in that relationshio anymore thank u love

I wish Kim got more credit! I was just in a lecture today and my profs were just ripping her apart... like you said Shallon, what she's built is really impressive!

Don't like Kim, never have, never will but fr the children's sake I hope the adults sort it through. No child needs this.

I’m sending good thoughts to Kim. Poor dear is enduring a lot. Hope Kanye accepts help soon and gets ok again soon. Anyone who has ever loved a friend, partner, or a family member with bipolar disorder relates to what she’s going through on some level. It’s heart wrenching when they don’t want help.

I love when Americans say hannah Heeeeaaannnaaahhh I’m British ❤️

Last time he was in the hospital he came out sleep deprived and with memory loss not sure what kind hospital it is but I wouldn't want to go back am confused at what his done besides say he wanted divorce and be president which the speech little much anyway maybe am missing something

@MegJuniper

4 жыл бұрын

He told the world that he almost aborted their first child North 🥴🥴🥴 just based on his tweets he seems to be in a manic episode or something

The reason I subscribed to you is because you’re so intelligent and I love your extensive vocabulary! It be the little things for me lol keep up the great work

Shallon, the reason you get hate, (I’m not going to say the typical shit like “oh, you’re hot and successful shit”) is because you speak your own opinion and don’t necessarily follow the crowd. People don’t like others having their own thoughts and opinions

This might be super cheesy, but when I’m thinking of making a “bad decision....” I ask myself, if my daughter was in my shoes, what advice would I give her? It reminds me that I know better and I need to make better decisions

you called it!

Good to hear you today Shallon....

Hey Shallon love you from 🇿🇦❤️

I’m having a shitty day you’re calming me down

Your hair-----is on point!

Just pressed click. Can’t wait to see what u have to say! Love u girl!!!! ❤️

needed this xoxo

OMG! You just nailed it!

Kanye West gave Kim Kardashian the glow up and respect in Hollywood she really needed to move on from her messy controversial past. He introduced her to real fashion first. He connected her to the right people including Anna Wintour. She used to be his plus one to the met gala and last year he was her plus one. He started by managing her wardrobe and that effect trickled down the family. He taught her and Kris how to navigate the industry. They stopped being cheesy and having thousands of whatever brand endorsements to focusing on building their own brand. Owning their businesses as cleaning up her image. He literally re built her career and she was smart enough to listen and learn. She took the controversial friendship with Trump Kanye built up and managed to free people caught up in the prison system. More than many people have done during this trump era. That’s turning lemons into the sweetest lemonade She’s cleaned up her image and now focusing on being a lawyer. I’m not saying it’s all him. But he has a great dangerous student. You an see from the show how they all started to change since Kanye came But now Kanye journey in life is changing and it’s making waves

Hi Shallon 😍🤗❤❤❤.... sending you positive vibes

Thank you for sharing! I really enjoy your videos!

I love the intro background music.

can you make a video on why women may feel catty towards other women. or why one woman may get along much better with men. does this derive from childhood experience? what is the inner war that leads to this?

This video is too good.

Shallon I love your channel. I can tell you exactly why you have haters. Cause people still feel threatened by smart women who have a sharp analysing mind and high emotional intelligence and who don't buy bs anymore.

I can’t imagine Shannon being from Montana 😭

wow such a great video

Kim is probably paranoid that once her and Kanye divorce he will spill all of the Kardashian's secrets and expose them.

Who wants that chicken brunch 😂😂😂

I think it's more embarrassing for Kim to stay with Kanye. All of these Kardashians focus entirely on their looks and material things and not one of them, from Kris down to Kylie, ever has a man that treats her properly. What does that say?

My parents have been together for 30 years and hate each other, its the most toxic ish ever. It's not fair to your children. lol Shoutout to therapy

They had that argument in the wendy's parking lot this was a staged photo

Clicked so faaaast

Hey, Shal!💗💋 I don't think Kim is embarrassed. If she wasn't afraid of her bj tape getting out, she's not a shy girl. I think she may be more in denial about her relationship. I've thought Kanye was weak since he snatched the mike from Taylor at the VMA's. His public fracturing is forcing her to face whether she wants to stay fake or evolve into reality. That's hard for one person and they have a family together. It may have never occured to her that she could outgrow him🤔

It's called a brake up because it's broken. Kim needs to love Kanye and herself enough to let him go. I believe that they can still be good parents together for their kids but Kanye needs to get help, He is making things impossible for himself, his kids and Kim. I can't stand Kardashians but I feel for her on this one because I know people who are bipolar. It ain't no walk in the park. I once said for Kanye to run from those crazy women. Run Kanye run! They are toxic.

It feels like she got caught into the "power couple" narrative, and she sacrificed a lot for it, she sacrificed herself. Her marriage to Kanye West gave her the international recognition that Kris Humphrey or Reggie Bush couldn't. So I guess it's hard to be faced with the fact that your marriage, your life is a narrative that doesn't tell the story of who you are. Who is Kim Kardashian? I don't know, do anyone know? and please don't get me started on KUWTK, reality shows do not narrate reality, they narrate A story, the one that will generate maximum TV ratings and money (Talk to Donald Trump). I think getting out of this marriage and finally searching who she truly is, is the best thing that could ever happen to her, using her stardom to help wrongly convicted people is probably a good start. I understand however why she would feel embarassed: the storyline is following apart, and she has to face the truth that her "power couple" does not exist, her "power couple" is imploding, her power couple is a wrecking ball, and it has been for a while now, there were "red flags" all along and for years, but at that point she felt she still could control the narrative, that ship has sailed now, good for her! she will realize truth is infinitely more interesting than any stories her mom could have come up with 😏

I feel bad for Kim, im not crazy about her but she's a human being and this is the father of her children who's a complete nut job that REFUSES to seek help or help his condition in any way! That's gotta suck whether u got $ or not! Geez people, chilllll on all anger and judgement! They're just people after all dealing w real people issues!

who the fuck wants thAT girl at brunchnot me LOL

What is the Reddit page called?

Hi girl ❤❤❤

Kim knew Kanye was a douche before she married him and she did anyway. I don't feel sorry for her. If she decides to divorce him, people wouldn't blame her though. I have bipolar and it sucks and ruins relationships.

I hope he gets help!!!

Shallon you bring so much truth to us shallagators its amazing!!!! I would love to chat to you and get your advice with a current situation I'm dealing with inside my association of townhomes in which I am now the president, because I'm a millennial they do not respect me and will not even listen to me it pathetic I may have to sue idk but I'm confident you would have some great advice. I'll head to ur website. Much love

I thought you’re in Montana?

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