How to Get Over a Breakup

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  • @spinebuster9490
    @spinebuster94904 жыл бұрын

    Time heals. If your heart is aching, let it ache. Don't pretend it doesn't matter, trust me ignoring unresolved feelings will come to haunt you. If you are not ready to forgive, don't force it. LEARN AND MOVE ON.

  • @WendiBlum

    @WendiBlum

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed, my friend.

  • @TheMagicCrafter

    @TheMagicCrafter

    4 жыл бұрын

    YES!! ♥

  • @JamesLeath2

    @JamesLeath2

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @chrisholm9154

    @chrisholm9154

    4 жыл бұрын

    Defiantly font hide behind it. let it hurt and feel the pain, in feeling it you will have to learn to heal through it. Well said

  • @odalis6138

    @odalis6138

    4 жыл бұрын

    Believe in Yourself then my hearts been aching for 2 years

  • @thomasnorton4015
    @thomasnorton40154 жыл бұрын

    It's comforting for me to remember that the worst breakups of my life led to the greatest changes in my life (In career, spiritually, art and dance)

  • @TanvirAhmed24
    @TanvirAhmed244 жыл бұрын

    1. Talk about your breakup - but make sure it's a constructive conversation 2. Socialize with a supportive group of friends 3. Beware of social media - and don't let social media mess with your progress 4. Write down what you learned from the relationship 5. Practice gratitude

  • @altantic905

    @altantic905

    Жыл бұрын

    Firstly I acknowledged that what I was doing (constantly thinking and replying the same thoughts daily) was not good for my body as it gave me severe anxiety, depression and bad health. I was stuck in my life and was able to do nothing. Secondly, out of anger and frustration I decided to change my situation and get out of the loop. Things that helped me- 1) firstly get closure. 2) no sad songs and series or any reel or video about breakup and heartbreak. 3) no contact rule also delete all your pictures, emails , ids together unfollow him and his friends and basically delete his existence. 4) Believe you are strong and independent and if someone has gone there is nothing you can do. Everything happens for a reason. 5) Make a Daily routine and follow it , in oder to keep yourself busy . 6) don't replay what happened or the past memories or the questions arising in your brain. remember they are not going to help you in any way they are not your 'ANSWERS' you are only creating more difficulty in your life (anxiety, depression) 7) Read self help books ( I read 'Master your emotions' and 'Power of your subconscious mind' etc..) they really help in reconstructing your thought process and teach you ways to get yourself out of that loop. 8) A morning walk / exercise/ meditation really helps. ( I used to go to my terrace for a quick 30 min walk with bhajans playing in my mobile ) meditation also helps and healing musics also helps a lot. 9) You have to create Goals and Aims for yourself so that you can get yourself busy and build yourself strong. 10) Talk with your friends but not about the breakup (1-2 day is enough to tell them what happened nothing more than that will help you, remember the more you talk about it, the more you'll think about it and then it will result in mental suffering) and spend time with them , hang out with them and socialize with new people. 11) I know it is not easy, but try to welcome positive thoughts only and try to avoid as much as you can all those negative thoughts, memories and questions arising in your mind. 12) Follow these things right after your breakup/heartbreak for 2-3 months straight and this will help you grow and protect your mental health. (You will feel after 10-15 days that you are healed and you no longer have to follow these things but it's not true if you stop your routine the loop will start again.) It's okay to get your heart broken, you're not alone. I hope these things help you . Remember there's no required time for healing some can forget and heal in just 10 days and for some it might take many weeks or months to heal . It all depends on your interpretation of what happened and your way of thinking and coping.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n4 жыл бұрын

    *Use this time to grow and understand yourself better* - Take long walks and be mindful of your surroundings - Never blame on the outside, it won't resolve your issues - Be with your loved ones and talk to them if you have to, but don't mope too much

  • @GabrielleDay
    @GabrielleDay4 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend left me 2.5 months ago and it is SUCH an awesome feeling to know that i'm already doing everything you're advising. It feels good to know I'm on the right track!! It has been REALLY hard but I was NOT going to be a ball of self pity for the rest on my life. When life knocks you down, you have the pick yourself up, dusty yourself off and say to the world, "is that all you got? ". I'm no where near completely healed but I know i'm on the right track. Thanks for the video.

  • @iMellyMel24
    @iMellyMel244 жыл бұрын

    This really is hitting me hard, someone did me wrong and left me with really not much to work with. Just left with no closure or any reasoning and we were very tight, but had issues like any normal human.

  • @firesign4297

    @firesign4297

    4 жыл бұрын

    Musta been an....AQUARIUS!!🤬🤕....They....Looooove!!! "Ghosting"!!!🤬🤕..... They'll be back!✌

  • @JamesLeath2

    @JamesLeath2

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@firesign4297 Seems a bit unfair to blanket all Aquarius's like this. Not all of us love ghosting. I have gotten ghosted a few times, regardless of their sign, and I have never just disappeared on someone

  • @sashagayoconnor8970

    @sashagayoconnor8970

    4 жыл бұрын

    My breakup was February 9, 2020. It feel very bad.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama
    @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama4 жыл бұрын

    Following them online is so poisonous

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @A4Rson

    @A4Rson

    2 жыл бұрын

    How do I deal with it I still see this person in school.

  • @xvxreapervx5741
    @xvxreapervx57414 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the tips I just went through a really messed up breakup where her parents and friends made her break up even though she was happy. So it was really hard for me for it being so sudden

  • @marwa.emad2206
    @marwa.emad22064 жыл бұрын

    FYI, Brendon Burchard. The first thing I do every morning the very minute I wake up is playing a video of yours then getting ready for work. I've watched it over and over again and it still motivates me ❤😍

  • @AlbertTorcaso
    @AlbertTorcaso4 жыл бұрын

    I know that you're considered the best of the best at this type of coaching. I doubt this means much, yet I must say I am so proud of you and what you're doing Brendon, brother You're A Blessing for so many including me. Albert

  • @vituk999
    @vituk9994 жыл бұрын

    Perfect timing, Brendon. Thank you.

  • @claeporknights6438

    @claeporknights6438

    4 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely true.I was on same track

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @alexwilliams7321
    @alexwilliams73214 жыл бұрын

    Man, this video really helped me. I'm glad I found this, I just got over my first breakup, and I felt like there was just this hole in my life. What this video teaches is that what you have to do in this situation, is to focus on what makes you happy, not what used to make you happy.

  • @andresortizaldana3787
    @andresortizaldana37874 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brendon! I don't know how else to say it but you have provided clarity for me. I am deeply passionate about motivational speaking and helping others but when it came to myself I didn't know how.

  • @chrisholm9154
    @chrisholm91544 жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you sooooo much for the advice, this means a lot to me as i'm currently in a breakup across the world with my love. This video inspires me and we went out saying that we will work on yourself and put yourself out there. I will send this to her as well with the great attitude and hope and life lessons. This is a great video not only for break-ups, but i think in life when a breakup even in work or family this video is all tops for my books.

  • @CerenGumus-if8dl
    @CerenGumus-if8dl8 ай бұрын

    This means a lot Brendon.. thank you for everything

  • @laura.bollack9245
    @laura.bollack92454 жыл бұрын

    Soory but how does Brendon know I need this right now 😂🙏great advice!!

  • @claeporknights6438
    @claeporknights64384 жыл бұрын

    I'm THANKFUL to you Brendon.Right on time, a positive talk of your's has made my day productive from dwelling in past relationship, which is quite hard to move on.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @Quinn222
    @Quinn2224 жыл бұрын

    I'm really happy that you are doing videos like a few years ago - just dealing with everyday trials. I sort of veered away when it was all about the high performance stuff. I will def be watching for more of these. Thanks Brendon!

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @Mikoyagi
    @Mikoyagi4 жыл бұрын

    Good 'team' talk - straight to the point, good words. Well done & thank you ;)

  • @tumultuousforce6204
    @tumultuousforce62044 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Brendon. This is really useful at this point for me.

  • @chelsearachel
    @chelsearachel4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks. This was helpful. I've been holding on to all my past relationships and as new people come in I'm now a whole other confused person but I think it's now time to move to phase 2!

  • @VardankurSinha
    @VardankurSinha4 жыл бұрын

    Love you videos @brendon 😃 you have made a difference in my life since 4 years now! Big fan 😊 Thank you so much for helping so much that it made my life more cheerful!! I have a lot to say but just keep up and we love you 😊😊😊

  • @alexunited7706
    @alexunited77062 жыл бұрын

    Thanks this is literally a life save. It’s makes so much sense.

  • @trd.JVKE2024
    @trd.JVKE20245 ай бұрын

    I'm grateful that the day after we broke up, I had to go to work for the next 6 days. Although it was hard working night shift and being alone for most of it, it made me get up and get out of the house. Those days that I usually would have been sad in bed all day I was forced to be active around familiar faces who were also there to support me.

  • @jerombird1614
    @jerombird16144 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brendon for your kindness and wisdom. But today I have no more real authentic friends and no more money too. I more than broke. But I will survive because I know the real and powerful purpose of my life, because of you and my dear friends of America (mainly Mindvalley community). Love from France Brendon. Thank you again.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @lilfree2rhyme34
    @lilfree2rhyme349 күн бұрын

    Perfect timing here too. Thanks alot 🙏🙌❤️

  • @shelherman
    @shelherman4 жыл бұрын

    i agree with Brendon. But i do think sit by yourself and cry out at first is necessary. It's ok to have nothing to do. You are hurt. It is just that you make sure that you are on the healing path.

  • @lilfree2rhyme34

    @lilfree2rhyme34

    9 күн бұрын

    It's part of the process and necessary. It's called grievance. It's like a person died in your life. Not mourning cause suppression that comes out negatively in other ways

  • @kimmy-suepinup3431
    @kimmy-suepinup34314 жыл бұрын

    Thanks SO much! Helpful information truly!

  • @nakay08
    @nakay087 ай бұрын

    Wow, I'm feel you and agreed these, Brendon. I'm really see some example from some of my friends, they did that after breakup even they don't listen this. I done few but not consistent. Thanks for this video , that's matter~

  • @HaveADescentName
    @HaveADescentName4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this!✨

  • @Zarghami
    @Zarghami4 жыл бұрын

    Make new memories with new people and heal the trauma it left on your life.

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    @SewerRat694 жыл бұрын

    I got your planner today I’m going to start using it with my family 👍🏻

  • @carolb3869
    @carolb38694 жыл бұрын

    It takes time to go from phase one to phase two - not forever, however phase one has it’s benefits. Some friends don’t belong in phase two for good reason - that’s growth & progress. Small steps equal massive gains. This too shall pass! 💙

  • @oakleyzales7569
    @oakleyzales75694 жыл бұрын

    forever my favorite speaker.

  • @mariefricchione437
    @mariefricchione43712 күн бұрын

    Therapy heals you faster.

  • @jaredfocht2344
    @jaredfocht23442 ай бұрын

    So amazing. Well said ❤

  • @eclipse.strategies
    @eclipse.strategies4 жыл бұрын

    Such perfect timing for this... thank you Brendon.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @goontoon
    @goontoon4 ай бұрын

    Thanks man very supportive 😊

  • @dikshasrivastava9125
    @dikshasrivastava91255 ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot for this video.This video has helped me a lot. Thanks once again

  • @user-no6yj7by3j
    @user-no6yj7by3j2 жыл бұрын

    I met this guy few months ago I was so in love with him but he is not someone who want to stay with one person. I've done everything I could to get him back. It's all useless. Destroyed me completely. I never suffered in my life like this. So much pain even physically. I couldn't eat, sleep or do anything. I was completely lost. Still there is pain but I am trying my best to change myself. These kind of videos saved me from that pain. It's so hard for me since I have no one to help but it also made me stronger. I can stand for myself.

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    @rozymuger3692

    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ChristianEspinosaOfficial
    @ChristianEspinosaOfficial2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for creating this video, Brendon! I really needed to hear this message today.

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    @abdullahiidiusman8819

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

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    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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    @hakcrimson5 ай бұрын

    i love this man.

  • @justintimeruby
    @justintimeruby3 жыл бұрын

    This is crazy. I watched this same video 6 days ago and I stopped watching when you said to learn and not blame. And now I've watched other videos and I've learned, and I'm back to this same video knowing things about myself I didn't know before

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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  • @FishRFrenzNotFood
    @FishRFrenzNotFood4 жыл бұрын

    wow advice that actually makes me feel motivated and excited for my break up!

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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  • @powerhousemethod
    @powerhousemethod Жыл бұрын

    Love this Phase 2 Philosophy

  • @barkdingg
    @barkdingg4 жыл бұрын

    You are the best!!!! Thank you and love you!

  • @SaraAB98
    @SaraAB984 жыл бұрын

    Brendon,can you please make a video on dealing with body dysmorphia?i would greatly appreciate it

  • @tomingram666
    @tomingram666 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I needed this

  • @flaviobbq
    @flaviobbq3 ай бұрын

    This video just saved my life.

  • @lizey580
    @lizey5804 жыл бұрын

    My breakup is a few days old but I stared on my own to talk more with friends and want to find a passion. I want to write my books about stuff I really like and I'm interested in. That video helps me even more to know what I should do. I'm grateful I saw that ^^

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    4 жыл бұрын

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    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @carolb3869
    @carolb38694 жыл бұрын

    Great vid! Thank you ☺️

  • @eyez718
    @eyez7183 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff! Man he’s spot on! I luv it! Also, Brandon’s resemblance to sports tv talking head, “Colin Cowherd” is uncanny lol!

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @monamonsef9654
    @monamonsef96544 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing Brendon! Thank you

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK4 жыл бұрын

    Taking time for yourself and nourish yourself. It's ok to be sad but don't stay there, do it for yourself. Everything will be alright.

  • @WendiBlum

    @WendiBlum

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes, I agree. Healing a breakup deserves TLC so that you can realign your energy to move forward. :)

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @chirokathleen
    @chirokathleen Жыл бұрын

    I would add to consider a psylocibin or ayahuasca session with a facilitator to process those ultra painful subconscious teachings. Also to quiet the constant rumination. Nothing wrong with a little physiological help along the way!

  • @samirkadd1212
    @samirkadd12124 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video i feel better now

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @themaninblakc
    @themaninblakc3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks man...I needed this right now.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @lindensmith365
    @lindensmith3654 жыл бұрын

    Great video man thanks... Funny thing.. I thought you were going to say "you need to get laid" in the last point 🤣

  • @karenpearson6044
    @karenpearson60442 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou Brendon your wording all makes sense .I cried cos i really have have broken heart although I decided to end it.iit dosent make it any easier. But it came with its challenges and issues and it was making me anxious . You've also made me laugh lol so thankyou.i will practice what you ve said and push forward with it all

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @PennyJackson123
    @PennyJackson1233 жыл бұрын

    I broke up because the lying never stopped, the trust got broken again and again, and the final big promise he broke was where I had to protect myself and draw the line. I realized that no more empty promises will fix that broken trust this time, since the behaviors always remained the same. I had to let him go, and I am actually doing well. I feel like I chose myself for once, and that was such a healthy decision towards myself.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @wormemc
    @wormemc4 жыл бұрын

    This is everything I am doing and have been doing for the last month and I must say I feel better everyday. In fact in some way I am starting to miss the motivation of suffering. Either way all is good.

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @lissaunique
    @lissaunique3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video ❤️

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @seb598
    @seb5984 жыл бұрын

    WHILE YOU’RE CRYING OVER HER, SHE’S “HANGING OUT” WITH ANOTHER GUY. HIT THE GYM AND ADD MORE WOMEN TO THE ROTATION FELLAS. IT’S A CITY BOY SUMMER.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @lorenaandres9749
    @lorenaandres97494 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam37354 жыл бұрын

    Hi Brendan I’ve been in phase one a few times! The last phase one with my husband taught me that he was actually a psychopath and I was love starved from a pair of dysfunctional parents. Where do I go from here when I had to move far away and start again with two kids 🤔

  • @studyme-selftaughtlife4958
    @studyme-selftaughtlife49584 жыл бұрын

    *ALWAY* allow yourself to think about them.

  • @ainekgonzalez2193
    @ainekgonzalez21934 жыл бұрын

    For your thumbnails use some photos where you're staring at the camera, they are more appealing

  • @tsgtr
    @tsgtr4 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend left me for someone else immediately after our breakup. It's clear what was going on before we broke up. It's really hit me hard and I've had my entire life turned upside down -- moving out, separating our phone plans, getting everything settled... not to mention she's totally ghosted me and left me without my partner who's been by my side all day, every day, for almost 4 years. It's been just about 2 weeks since our breakup night, and I'm getting better every day. But still, every day, I get a moment or 2 or 3 where I'm hit really hard and I get very emotional and I feel really badly. Someone who I've made memories with, who I wanted to marry and have children with, we traveled together, took thousands of pictures, all of a sudden now there's nothing. She blocked me on all social media and my phone calls. For sure, I've deserved this. I did this to an old girlfriend of mine, and actually I left that girl for the one who just broke up with me. I am now reaping what I have sown, and God as my witness I'm sorry for the hurt I've caused. But now it's come full circle and I must deal with the pain. I know it will get better, and that I have to separate the things we used to do together from her, so I can reclaim myself (like going out to eat, which I just did with my parents and it was very difficult for me). I haven't even watched the video yet, but I just feel so pent-up with this emotional energy that I want to let it out. I've written so many letters to her that will never get sent, I've written emails that I've deleted, journal entries that I hope no one sees. Life throws you curve balls sometimes, and things that you thought were certain are not at all. This was a big wake-up-call for me. I've never had this happen and I have to say that I've been utterly devastated. I know recovery is a long hard road and you can't make it go any faster. I wish I never had to be on this road at all. Take care, everyone.

  • @koroglurustem1722

    @koroglurustem1722

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am sorry man for your break up. I really feel you as it happened with me too. But not as dramatic. My difficulty though with western style relationship is that why would you take 4 years to for dating and yet not married? In 4 years of course it's highly likely that you would grow apart or some big argument would show up and break you apart. Within marriage there's a contract and people are bonded even stronger. Handling things with the long-term mindset would be possible. Well, it's your and your principles. Mine is just a friendly suggestion of an alternative way. God bless you and hope you recover soon and get even better as a personality.

  • @claeporknights6438

    @claeporknights6438

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not to mention, sad times I understand your pain, that you are not alone...it's been 24 months to this day, i am left alone.I am girl in love for 5 years and I've got a birthday gift as a surprise phone call, the news about my boy friend marriage.Can you please visualise how a girl getting ready for a marriage with specific guy is ready to marry an other girl with in couple of days?.The broken hearts are true LOVERS.....CHEER UP

  • @sivasankarans4731
    @sivasankarans47314 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @CoolBrownie3
    @CoolBrownie34 жыл бұрын

    since I dont have enough money for a real one I swear to god you're my therapist now

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

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    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @samanthaferrara1003
    @samanthaferrara1003 Жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @shadowthehedgehog6864
    @shadowthehedgehog68643 жыл бұрын

    Very nice! Thank u this helps a lot

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @Seraphina444
    @Seraphina4444 жыл бұрын

    This is very true, however, there are different situations and different circumstances. For me, I'm currently pregnant and my now ex fiance of 5 years unexpectedly walked out to "find himself." Hasn't been to one prenatal appointment and it's literally like pulling teeth to get a hold of him now. In my opinion and with my experience, a breakup is hard enough but being pregnant through a breakup (that wasn't my choice) and then knowing I'm always going to have to deal with this person who crushed me is a lot harder than someone who breaks up and isn't pregnant or has kids together. Because then you can totally cut that person off and not be reminded of what happened. You can't just cut someone off when you're having a baby together or have children together. It's been very stressful for me because I thought I knew this person so well and now with everything that has happened I feel like I don't. Never thought I'd be in a situation where I'm going through pregnancy by myself. It's hard to understand a man walking away unexpectedly specially when he showed nothing but excitement to get married and have a baby. We didn't get engaged because of a baby. We actually have been engaged for couple years and I'm currently 5 months pregnant. I feel awful that my baby is going to be born into the world with this chaos going on. Someone so precious and innocent in all of this. I'm super stressed about a lot but also trying to heal and prepare myself for a new baby🤰❤

  • @takeshawalbrook8798

    @takeshawalbrook8798

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hello. I hope you and your baby are doing great. Your story touched me. My boyfriend and I separated after 8 years together but we don't have any children together & I can tell you I feel like my heart is in a million pieces. So I can't imagine your pain of going through this while pregnant. I hope you're okay.

  • @omarelrafhi9595
    @omarelrafhi95954 жыл бұрын

    What about being in service? Like benevol organisations, isnt this a very good way of connection too?

  • @hjaw8242
    @hjaw82429 ай бұрын

    I just had a break up with someone who meant so much to me , they said I was emotionally dependent and I complain alot on why they take hours sometimes even day to reply my messages... But I feel so sad because I'm feeling maybe if I didn't care that much they will be still in my life , and they went ahead to block me on every social media and messages app i can contact them, and it hurts so bad !! I feel like I was selfish or something ..

  • @talentjohn7682
    @talentjohn76822 жыл бұрын

    Yeah you right ✅

  • @ericspianoschool
    @ericspianoschool4 жыл бұрын

    Who here got dumped in quarantine with no access to friends 😅

  • @veda-cd4lf

    @veda-cd4lf

    4 жыл бұрын

    me ;)

  • @ericspianoschool

    @ericspianoschool

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hope you’re doing okay Veda

  • @buildyourself3521
    @buildyourself35213 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ....🌼

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @ladymay7789
    @ladymay7789 Жыл бұрын

    It's one thing to let go, it's another when the person who broke up with you WON'T let you go...why???...the honeymoon phase has most likely ended they're now seeing who their new partner REALLY is. Another factor...they're sooo afraid of losing you because you are their comfort zone in the midst of the emotional and psychological He77storm they created for themselves as a result of the bad decision(s) they made.

  • @victorias252
    @victorias2524 жыл бұрын

    The best! 😭

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

  • @magajiyahaya2718

    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @magajiyahaya2718

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @TroyPierce100
    @TroyPierce1003 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou .

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @zakashgupta7769
    @zakashgupta77694 жыл бұрын

    i don't know where i m belong now.. had a break up 3 years back and afterward and i keep checking all her movement on social media i study and professional but i think i m not living a full life .. feeling unworthy ever since then. dont dont know where i m going .. i had dream now its seema impossible which once seemed possible i feel totally demotivated and unable to do any tasks . some part of me lost and drowned even my stars .. can't go anymore like.tye ways i m going ..anyone guide me here please !!

  • @fattybalyly2044
    @fattybalyly20449 ай бұрын

    And if we have no friend ?

  • @ajaehjasmine911
    @ajaehjasmine9112 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

  • @richardhorsham7395
    @richardhorsham73954 жыл бұрын

    I know she is no good for me and we argue about everything it still doesn't make it any easier

  • @jimmyservantez3924
    @jimmyservantez39243 жыл бұрын

    Wish there was a love button

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @iMellyMel24
    @iMellyMel244 жыл бұрын

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  • @firesign4297
    @firesign42974 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏💛 P.s...Also check out... R.C. Blakes Jr. You Tube Channel and his... Video Titled: "LET YOUR HEART...BREAK .....AND....HEAL"

  • @richelleprivette9926
    @richelleprivette99269 ай бұрын

    my boyfriend broke up with me over the phone

  • @anandmohan9296

    @anandmohan9296

    9 ай бұрын

    How are you feeling now

  • @truno7
    @truno74 жыл бұрын

    How to get over a breakup: get a hotter girl who treats you even better. Works every time.

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @thekidfromdanmark1100
    @thekidfromdanmark11003 жыл бұрын

    i broke op with the love of my life for no resone now she has a new boyfriend and it made it worse

  • @ajaehjasmine911

    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me, we loving and living happily together, I got help from a spiritualist who brought us back together

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @marokkosweden2268
    @marokkosweden22684 жыл бұрын

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  • @mohitgautam546
    @mohitgautam5464 жыл бұрын

    Not helping...

  • @talentjohn7682
    @talentjohn76822 жыл бұрын

    Can someone be there for me I'm falling apart .whatsup me

  • @faizazaraddeen6490

    @faizazaraddeen6490

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together within 48 hours

  • @faizazaraddeen6490

    @faizazaraddeen6490

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @faizazaraddeen6490

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @TheGameCapsule
    @TheGameCapsule4 жыл бұрын

    This channel is supposed to inspire me not to bring up the girl l love that broke up with me 20 years ago! Unsubcreeeebed.

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    @ajaehjasmine911

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @lorenaandres9749
    @lorenaandres97494 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊