How to Stay Positive During Your Worst Days

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  • @alyr6545
    @alyr65453 жыл бұрын

    Every time I watch one of your videos I feel like I just had a strong cup of coffee and I'm ready to take on whatever.

  • @Logan-nf3fz

    @Logan-nf3fz

    Жыл бұрын

    feels like he understands and cares. not just a sales pitch

  • @Freshadventures_

    @Freshadventures_

    8 ай бұрын

    Thats good to know. First time here on this channel.@@Logan-nf3fz

  • @Cococonutt
    @Cococonutt3 жыл бұрын

    I listened to this closely today and I’m very appreciative that you posted it. I’ve been in a dark and empty place these days, I do not recognize myself at all. I need to cling to voices of reason in these dark times.

  • @lukaskkramer

    @lukaskkramer

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi there, just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your openness about what’s showing up for you and I congratulate you for not giving in to the dark times and for continuing to hold on the positive voices such as Brendon’s! For me personally, life can often feel like a roller coaster, but I’m actually starting to appreciate the dark valleys. I know it sounds weird but it’s often been during those times of pain and uncertainty that I was able to find nuggets of incredible value and insight! I’m sure that you, too, can find the wisdom in what you’re currently experiencing! You’ve got this!

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    @clementchichester8686

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @tabassumcreativechannel5943

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @lauraf7937

    2 жыл бұрын

    W@@lukaskkramer uuyuyuyyyyyyyyyyuuuu

  • @alandrade0726

    @alandrade0726

    Жыл бұрын

    Good job bro. God created and selected people like you to serve him, and to assist others through our hard or dark times of our lives. God bless! Thanks, My Mother is in her last days on this earth. And a little support from the educated and empathetic ones, helps a lot. Even if it is temporarily. We should always be grateful for whatever we have, while we have it. And don't ever forget that what comes around goes around. My Mom was there and still there throughout my life, now is my time, or all of us time to realize this fact and be there for our elderly parents. And others, love your neighbor as yourself. God Bless!

  • @jonattomo
    @jonattomo3 жыл бұрын

    Anticipate drama, Delay Response, Allow + Socialize Sadness, Healthy response = Health, Daily G3 journals + Review (G3 = Gratitude, Goal, Good thing(yesterday)), Progress + Perspective. Thank you Brendon for sharing your insight.

  • @estelaramirez779

    @estelaramirez779

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank uuuu!

  • @rebekahpowers1595
    @rebekahpowers15952 жыл бұрын

    I just discovered this guy and he is gold

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol3 жыл бұрын

    The past is the past. You can't change it. Don't dwell on it. Focus on what you need to achieve today!!

  • @MisterPol

    @MisterPol

    3 жыл бұрын

    btw, thank you Brendon for inspiring me to start filming videos about self development!!

  • @VictorRegouin
    @VictorRegouin3 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree that sharing emotion is such a important part!

  • @irisgonzalez-caulder4817

    @irisgonzalez-caulder4817

    3 жыл бұрын

    Victor Regouin

  • @WelcomeChangeRealty
    @WelcomeChangeRealty4 күн бұрын

    You may have recorded this 3 years ago but it feels like it was meant for me today! Thank you for your practical wisdom. 🙏

  • @buzzlightyears12
    @buzzlightyears12 Жыл бұрын

    Brendon, after divorce, I knew professionally really hard days were coming, and as they are here right now, your teachings are paramount. Thank you immensely!

  • @BrixsDNAfortnite
    @BrixsDNAfortnite3 жыл бұрын

    Brendon’s work is a jewel in KZread. Build his teachings into your life operating system. I‘ve have, and is a GAME CHANGER

  • @lukaskkramer

    @lukaskkramer

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on doing the work!

  • @bigdemo5733
    @bigdemo5733 Жыл бұрын

    Army Vet! This video helped me literally instantly.. Thank you sir! Keep spreading positive energy! God bless!

  • @lorriheffner2747
    @lorriheffner2747 Жыл бұрын

    I am literally doing the comfort tasks while I’m listening to this instead of doing the needle movers so this is like really on target for me thank you so much

  • @anjalisharma-ff2ce
    @anjalisharma-ff2ce3 жыл бұрын

    Watching it at 3am. It's been a sleepless night. (I've never had sleep issues before.) Hope this somehow helps. Thanks, Brendon!

  • @MyRandomArt452
    @MyRandomArt4523 жыл бұрын

    Allow yourself to be sad..and share..my mom passed away last week..finding it difficult to accept..your tip allow sadness is so true..but so difficult for me to share my feelings with others.

  • @lindahebb4832
    @lindahebb4832Ай бұрын

    This video is worth watching like once a month because it’s easy to forget these things and it’s all good stuff to have in your tool kit plan ahead anticipate drama prime the day with gratitude goodness goals appreciate the content

  • @krish.5823
    @krish.58232 жыл бұрын

    Yup! Will do.

  • @andreyche193
    @andreyche1933 жыл бұрын

    I remember a guy I knew in the university: he was like that positive! Then he had an episode... When he came back after a treatment he was more like a regular guy, not as "energetic".

  • @Meowwolfwarrior
    @Meowwolfwarrior3 жыл бұрын

    I've found that the hardest days are usually the most rewarding at times because of how you perceive the perspectives available to you to learn

  • @Shawntiworld
    @Shawntiworld3 жыл бұрын

    Your book helped me greatly in my first years as an entrepreneur and I’m so happy and grateful to watch these videos right now as I’m stressed and need a revisiting of your concepts. Needed this !! Thank you Brandon!!

  • @lstephaniechung

    @lstephaniechung

    3 ай бұрын

    "Brendon"

  • @joserobertolima5575
    @joserobertolima55753 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brendon. I’ve been doing lots of those things you’ve shared .. one that I remember anytime is telling me and my team : what’s going to fail here ? ( anticipation of drama as you said ) .. over and over again we still get in trouble when we miss this portion of anticipation but we are getting there 😀

  • @francois5863
    @francois58633 жыл бұрын

    Heck, I did tidy up my shoe closet yesterday! And yeah, it was a bad day. And yeah, it was a delay tactic. And no, it did not improve things. Today I'm gonna make progress on what matters -- heck yeah!

  • @QueenJLee420
    @QueenJLee4202 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much for having these free videos on KZread. I'm at a point in my life right now where I'm trying to be more positive and a better person. Hearing your words really helped me. It's also nice to hear you saying some of the things my loved ones are. I would love for more people to watch your videos, there's too many humans that just don't know how to be people these days and it's sad and scary😢 I'm actually terrified for the future!

  • @bethanybalencic8960
    @bethanybalencic89603 жыл бұрын

    Your work changes lives and thank you for that!!! Obsessed with your book HPH and always blown away by the golden nuggets of knowledge in these videos! I consider myself to be a high achiever, but take so many things away from all your content and you always tell me exactly what I need to hear in the moment-the point you spoke about at 21 minutes in has my name all over it. Thank you and I look forward to attending a seminar or taking a course in the future!

  • @rustystephenson7327
    @rustystephenson73273 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brendon🙏 I enjoy listening to all your content, it helps me immensely

  • @EsmondQuinn
    @EsmondQuinnАй бұрын

    Really clever explanation and no unnecessary verbiage! Respect! + subscription

  • @merelymystic
    @merelymystic11 ай бұрын

    Watched this as I started my morning and was exactly what I needed. Thank you! I always learn and laugh so much while watching your videos.

  • @SlothLinn
    @SlothLinn3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I have a lot of closets Brendon, and while I am aware of them, I must admit that I excuse them all as somehow being good for me, instead of being the time wasters they are. I will be more aware of my closets and the excuses I'm making, and opt for more productive things instead!

  • @lukaskkramer

    @lukaskkramer

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being so honest about what's showing up for you, Linn! A question that has been really helpful lately to the people around me and myself in the context of what you shared is, "What's the good that's standing in the way of the great?" We still only get 24h a day and it's often not just about cutting out the things that don't serve us but also the ones that aren't moving the needle as much as others could. Hope this serves! :)

  • @wendycollier3001
    @wendycollier3001 Жыл бұрын

    Brendon cracks me up! Thank you, for bringing humor to these conversations! LOVE this content.

  • @migueldiaz973
    @migueldiaz973Ай бұрын

    Amazing, thank you Brandon! Your videos always level me 🆙 And my team.

  • @cmoore6485
    @cmoore64852 жыл бұрын

    Disappointments are unmet expectations. I Iove what you said about expecting drama, especially with certain types of people.

  • @viincreations
    @viincreations2 жыл бұрын

    This video always helps me feel better

  • @simchaehrman6529

    @simchaehrman6529

    2 жыл бұрын

    you're amazing! (A little creepy😎 But I felt the need to write it😅)

  • @amyshin1693
    @amyshin16933 жыл бұрын

    thanks a lot for this. I needed it. Recently, whenever I felt disappointed and sad, I have been driven to go outside to run immediately. Its great to know that I am doing something right to cope with my current situation in a healthy way.

  • @soumyagoswami5342
    @soumyagoswami53423 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully explained. I needed this to link up the broken parts. Thank you.

  • @holycal7218
    @holycal72183 жыл бұрын

    I saw this on an ad while playing music and cleaning, it helped a lot and makes total sense, sharing it to my fb.

  • @timeaftertony5247
    @timeaftertony52473 жыл бұрын

    Makes total sense, thank you very much for these videos and expanding the way I think if things I'm truly enjoying all these great techniques!!

  • @GenaJoy
    @GenaJoy3 жыл бұрын

    Just what I needed to hear. Thanks Brendon for your work!

  • @ali18398
    @ali183983 жыл бұрын

    Love you Brendon! Thank you!

  • @Michael-uj5ex
    @Michael-uj5ex3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brendon, this was really helpful 🙏

  • @xoxomangakcorxoxo
    @xoxomangakcorxoxo3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brendon! I love listening to your advice!

  • @Brightestlightt
    @Brightestlightt3 жыл бұрын

    Love you brendon you beautiful soul don’t go unnoticed thank you 😊

  • @laura-youtube1453
    @laura-youtube14533 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video, Brendon. Very appropriate for this time. I have been delaying that emotional response since Nov 3. Some days are harder than others. But I know that Justice and Integrity will prevail. We have a strong country, a strong democracy. It's a hard time, but it will pass too. Thank you for being a rock in uncertain times.

  • @mjmallari3856
    @mjmallari38563 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, Brendon! Brilliant perspectives and ideas.

  • @snowmass5310
    @snowmass53103 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Brendon ! Love the tips.You look great !

  • @justinshuemake5450
    @justinshuemake54509 ай бұрын

    thank you for the advice brendon

  • @elektromorales3471
    @elektromorales34712 жыл бұрын

    Can across this and I am greatful for the wisdom. The person I truly care about likes to do alot of busy work when they are down. Then the actual root of the problem becomes even bigger. I've searched for ways to describe my thoughts and every time I try I am misunderstood.

  • @ProspectivePlans
    @ProspectivePlans3 жыл бұрын

    Loving this advice for staying positive when things look grim! #RisingToBe #AsWeRise #Riser #KeepRising #ImARiser

  • @clarecostello1975
    @clarecostello19753 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for giving of your time! I really take so much out of what you say

  • @amberleaf7
    @amberleaf73 жыл бұрын

    This is great content, Brendon. Thank you.

  • @MekonenMeteor123
    @MekonenMeteor12311 ай бұрын

    Don’t pay my bills got it. Thanks, Brendon!

  • @katerynasmyrnova4373
    @katerynasmyrnova4373 Жыл бұрын

    You are amazing, Brandon/ Thank you for sincerity and humour !

  • @Nigel925
    @Nigel9252 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the inspiration Brendon!

  • @nupurchoudhary5351
    @nupurchoudhary53512 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video! I m in a dark place today in terms of my business and personal life at the same time. I gained some prospective. Will try to follow as much as possible and will certainly come back to watch this again.. 😊

  • @kamalkamal
    @kamalkamal Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your support team

  • @lindahebb4832
    @lindahebb4832 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting

  • @angelaconceicao1829
    @angelaconceicao18293 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your explanation.

  • @user-vw9sd5cv7l
    @user-vw9sd5cv7l3 жыл бұрын

    Loveeeeeeeeee your videos. They've helped me so much. Thank you!

  • @misbahyasin5024
    @misbahyasin50243 жыл бұрын

    Much needed video,I appreciate your time and efforts

  • @ThePermacultureStudent
    @ThePermacultureStudent Жыл бұрын

    Always SO Good - Thank you Brendon!! Much Love!! - Matt

  • @ofentsemaluleka5836
    @ofentsemaluleka58363 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Sir.

  • @lisamurrey671
    @lisamurrey6714 ай бұрын

    Thank you. This was helpful.

  • @stevejakab
    @stevejakab Жыл бұрын

    Loved this Brendon, thank you!

  • @archievergara9881
    @archievergara9881 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this... very helpful. Thank you for giving me a boost 🙏

  • @DanaKot336
    @DanaKot3363 жыл бұрын

    A very important content & information ! Thank you so much brendon! 🙏🏻👏🏻

  • @zarafshan6058
    @zarafshan60582 жыл бұрын

    Amazing work!! Thank you so much 🙏🏼

  • @roxannejoseph7213
    @roxannejoseph72133 жыл бұрын

    Your so right...even when you realise that you need to do these things to be better..to cope better..we have to do the hard things that will help us progress...thanks Brendon!! Repeat, apply, repeat apply!

  • @amberleaf7

    @amberleaf7

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re so right (not “your so right”). Different words.

  • @Azure_Fox
    @Azure_Fox10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this. This is going to help me a lot. Wish me luck!

  • @1nedaa
    @1nedaa2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this lesson you are amazing!

  • @demshi1
    @demshi13 жыл бұрын

    This video made my day! Thank you so much 😊

  • @donnaranetta
    @donnaranetta Жыл бұрын

    I love it! Very insightful. Especially sharing the meaning and purpose of journaling the 3G's. In the past, I would start journaling then quit so quickly, but the 3G's sounds like fun. I will definitely put effort towards this b/c I see the benefits it will have on my life. Thanks Brendon. I just discovered you as we speak and you already made an impression on me. Cheers to many more positive growth lessons!

  • @patriziaviselli
    @patriziaviselli3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! 🙂

  • @TheLegoKoala
    @TheLegoKoala Жыл бұрын

    Half way through and already a fantastic video. Went through a break up yesterday and wowza this guy is so relatable I feel like I’m in the board room with him 😂

  • @88kveitekaker
    @88kveitekaker Жыл бұрын

    Dude… This is good stuff! Thank you!

  • @lenkakopecka3156
    @lenkakopecka31563 жыл бұрын

    I just love you, thanks!!

  • @advancedbehavioralchangesl4883
    @advancedbehavioralchangesl48832 жыл бұрын

    Just what I needed today to remind myself what I’m doing is spot on. Five of these habits I learned from experience and it’s what I teach to my clients. ….What I love!!! Is how Brendon breaks them down into perfectly explained buttons and added depth and dimension to each one. The only one I hadn’t learned was progress and perspective in as much awareness since my business is only a 1 year old. Powerful. I’m so glad I’m part of growth-day zoom!! One day I visualize myself a coach there. ⬆️⬆️⬆️

  • @shahinansari6234
    @shahinansari62343 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed it so much.

  • @sherimillman53
    @sherimillman53 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️

  • @sanjaypersaud7427
    @sanjaypersaud7427 Жыл бұрын

    Great job sir.

  • @kurisuchiinu1206
    @kurisuchiinu1206 Жыл бұрын

    Love this topic. Though I agree with sharing but I don't have anyone to share it to because they also share it to others. So instead, I write it to my journal just to express it. It helps! I also do shadow work to see the side I'm not seeing in myself or refuse to see in myself. Saved this in my list. Thank you!

  • @VarkeyGeorge-px7iw

    @VarkeyGeorge-px7iw

    8 ай бұрын

    Ĺĺ

  • @jeffreyzie
    @jeffreyzie3 жыл бұрын

    Really helpful. Thank you

  • @gojo2194
    @gojo21943 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @ARTGALLERY396
    @ARTGALLERY3963 жыл бұрын

    You are so kind 😍

  • @carolrodrigues6015
    @carolrodrigues6015 Жыл бұрын

    Very helpful..thanks bro.

  • @RSSASMR
    @RSSASMR3 жыл бұрын

    These are powerful tools that are very proactive! It's that little nudge that puts you back on track when in a slump Thanks for this; very informative💡

  • @lukaskkramer

    @lukaskkramer

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! So often, we might be thinking that we need to make revolutionary changes to our lives when 2 simple tweaks would do it!

  • @aurimaslazickas5241
    @aurimaslazickas52417 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing , should incorporate some of the ideas.

  • @teresahager8771
    @teresahager87712 жыл бұрын

    The part about “organizing the closet” was surprising. Ironically that was just what I was doing as I was listening to your video😂😂. I felt I have an issue with self love and cleaning out my closet to get rid of anything I didn’t love to make room for nicer things as I embark on my weight loss journey . Also I’m cleaning and organizing my entire house for a “fresh start “ to get rid of the clutter so I can focus on what really matter. I don’t feel like it was a stall tactic but maybe I’m missing the mark, any advise ? . I’m learning so much from you . Thank you for what you do !! You are truly gifted!!

  • @godiswithus3939
    @godiswithus39393 жыл бұрын

    My big thing staying freaking productive with all the distractions at home

  • @donalpanko9261

    @donalpanko9261

    3 жыл бұрын

    This video is great for overcoming distractions to stay focused. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iZyWu6SbYMvbfdY.html

  • @jtbjr3
    @jtbjr3 Жыл бұрын

    Solid advice.

  • @SM-sh8rs
    @SM-sh8rs3 жыл бұрын

    The closet insight is so true😮!

  • @vm9356
    @vm93563 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful info. Thanks

  • @leticiarachel1306
    @leticiarachel1306 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for helping me every little step of my life. I hope I can have the opportunity some day to be with you in your training .

  • @NickHarrison-pm3on

    @NickHarrison-pm3on

    5 ай бұрын

    Hi dear

  • @walterbalansa5639
    @walterbalansa56392 жыл бұрын

    Love this

  • @navdeeppasricha8819
    @navdeeppasricha88193 жыл бұрын

    love that you are challenging us :)

  • @lou-annjordan7621
    @lou-annjordan76213 жыл бұрын

    I came on KZread looking for a song and came upon this. It's so what I need. It's the weirdest thing I recently started...like a day ago...my Masers and I am TERRIFIED. So terrified I feel like I can't hold it together. I want to roll up in a ball and hide from life.

  • @sadakayoutube7661
    @sadakayoutube76613 жыл бұрын

    The video came in the right TIME!!

  • @daretoprevail8833
    @daretoprevail88333 жыл бұрын

    Read this: Motivational Quotes to Inspire You to Be Successful: 1. Your limitation-it's only your imagination. 2. Push yourself, because no one else is going to do it for you. 3. Sometimes later becomes never. ... 4. Great things never come from comfort zones. 5.Dream it. ... 6.Success doesn't just find you. ... 7.The harder you work for something, the greater you'll feel when you achieve it. 8.Dream bigger.

  • @me-zs7tr
    @me-zs7tr3 жыл бұрын

    You were awesome! For the whole 30 minutes I heard you :)

  • @timeaftertony5247
    @timeaftertony52473 жыл бұрын

    I'm saving up to be apart of your challenge, I'm so excited... I will get to work with you one day!!!

  • @oyukybetanzos7163
    @oyukybetanzos71633 жыл бұрын

    I wished you had Spanish videos to this ! my Mom has dealt with anxiety and depression her whole life and I want to help her how your videos help me understand my mind more.

  • @josejimenezphotography
    @josejimenezphotography3 жыл бұрын

    Great one, love it .... greeting from Nicaragua

  • @dig1272
    @dig1272 Жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this exercise!

  • @NickHarrison-pm3on

    @NickHarrison-pm3on

    5 ай бұрын

    Hello 👋

  • @Tinawaheed
    @Tinawaheed3 жыл бұрын

    This is such an amazing video