learn not to be this woman who would put her children in jeopardy. As a parent your foremost priority is the safety of your children.

Her intuition is actually really strong, she just wasn't good at listening to it.

@annahappen7036

2 ай бұрын

Nailed it! That's why I actually really like stories like these being told because it helps people, women in particular, to realize how important it is to listen to your gut the FIRST time it tells you somethings off.

@amanita1964

2 ай бұрын

Lack of knowledge. It was in the 80' when everybody was partying.

@MaaThaRainbowGoddess

2 ай бұрын

I disagree wholeheartedly. She's as dumb as a box of rocks.

@Andy-xx3tt

2 ай бұрын

It’s not even intuition, there was so much literally in front of her and she was just choosing to ignore it.

@thisisme3238

2 ай бұрын

She was very naive and believed everything he said to her. Ignorance is bliss...

She is a perfect example of dismissing her intuition in favor of what she wanted....to be with a man.

@gregv79

18 күн бұрын

Sometimes it's better to be alone.

@DorothyMNeddermeyerPhD

12 күн бұрын

Interesting commentary that women are held 100% for being in the wrong relationship or that she picked the 'wrong' guy. The lies and romancing the guy does isn't considered inappropriate or entrapment.

The most ridiculous "victim" ever. She's sharing her story thinking she's some kind of hero? Wow.

@joancarrino890

14 күн бұрын

She's selling her story, I've seen this one before, she's stoopid

As soon as he refused to tell her where her kids were, that should've been it. Over. Right there

@judijohnson5555

2 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!

@taratimblin5150

Ай бұрын

It was! She sent her kids away and got him!

@DR-mq1vn

Ай бұрын

Yep! I would have called the police as soon as he wouldn't tell me where my children were.

@PinkyGirlstyle23

Ай бұрын

Absolutely!

@PinkyGirlstyle23

Ай бұрын

she knew it was time to be strong for her kids?????

She’s very lucky her daughters survived her time playing detective instead of calling Americas Most Wanted when it aired.

@m1586

Жыл бұрын

@pamelaleigh Yes! You are absolutely correct! I still don't get her reasoning putting those kids in danger that way. 😎

@anglofrancaiseyvonne9349

Жыл бұрын

And who knows, there might have a big reward for him, that she would have received if she called immediately

@m1586

Жыл бұрын

@@anglofrancaiseyvonne9349 Great point!

@laurawirtjes7225

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!

@AbolitionistSocietyofTampa

Жыл бұрын

That was my FIRST thought, too! It was like DING DONG! Give the 2 social security numbers to America's most wanted and she would have had a confirmation if he was the killer!

I'm speechless...how many clues did this women need?

@JohnCappel-bt9mx

Ай бұрын

Ik

The fingerprints thing is exactly what she should have done when she saw him on the most wanted list on tv. She could have spared herself all the things she put herself through for those weeks. She's alive out of sheer dumb luck

@Ta_bella

2 ай бұрын

Spot on! The Sherlock Holmes arc was an idiotic thing to do. YOU run!

@lilredscout

7 күн бұрын

what an idiot

@user-qk9iz4fc4n

Күн бұрын

Love is blind?

She sees that he's on America's Most Wanted, she has feelings of evil vibes coming from him, finds out that he is using a false identity..... But she decides to confront him and needs more evidence. Uh, what's wrong with this picture?

@bunnyfoofoo9695

Жыл бұрын

@Julia Borisik Right.

@elizabethparsons1071

Жыл бұрын

She's not very bright

@frogluck

Жыл бұрын

She's in denial because she doesn't want it to be true

@EdGarcia01

Жыл бұрын

@@elizabethparsons1071 this story has so many ridiculous twists, I’m not even sure I believe it

@chicagogyrl4846

Жыл бұрын

What’s wrong is that she is stupider than hell!!

He broke into her house and she still married him!!?? Incredible! Shame on her for putting her own wants above protecting her daughters.

@madsdee7803

Жыл бұрын

true. And even when she knew who he was, she went around "investigating" knowing she'd write a book later and sell her story to TV networks...rather than calling the police. It's a more exciting story to sell.

@cyndylynch5758

Жыл бұрын

This story sounds fake. I can’t imagine a woman being this naive.

@jaydenp4975

Жыл бұрын

Some women are just lonely and will marry any man that shows interest. She should have called police after seeing him in tv but she chose not to.

@josephinesosingot-raisanen6743

Жыл бұрын

at the very least breaking into my house is stalking....at maybe a teenage you could be dumb enough to see it as romantic but as an adult you should see it as it is ...dangerous boundary crossing...

@differenttakethanmost

Жыл бұрын

Insanity

Seriously cannot believe the police wanted to wait until the following morning before making an arrest when there was NOTHING stopping them from doing so the second he came home from work. That is complete lunacy

@bd6994

2 ай бұрын

I know !!! 😳

@janedunnell2354

2 ай бұрын

😊08 Rl0

@bernitacenteno1326

2 ай бұрын

A judge might the reason the police had to wait until morning. I don't know.

@feanorian21maglor38

2 ай бұрын

That's what I was thinking. It's madness. What a risk to take with 4 innocent lives.

@user-rx3pq3st4r

2 ай бұрын

Agree. Surely there must be an emergency procedure for acquiring a warrant. If not there should be, like now. Letting this woman walk back into harms way, and leave her daughters in danger as well, was beyond irresponsible. Very lucky for them and of course for everyone concerned that they survived it. All of that drama caused by the police having to chase the guy down was beyond ridiculous. Could they not park their cars out of sight, ring the doorbell or knock normally on the door so as not to raise an alarm. Hopefully the police were willing to admit this to themselves after the fact.

There’s something seriously wrong with this mother! Who takes chances like that with young Children in the home??

@ohioguy215

Жыл бұрын

YOU.

@Karan-th8td

2 ай бұрын

Exactly right . Seriously wrong!

@shirleymurphy1958

22 күн бұрын

Far too many now days. Blind too desire.

@katbar6066

15 күн бұрын

Not only that I got sick of her trying to wipe away invisible tears like this was so upsetting recounting the story.

@tarisotzendera6758

14 күн бұрын

Nothing wrong with her, love can blind you, marriage being the eye opener

I’d be really suspicious of his “ my whole family died” story. This woman is infuriating…YIKES

@natalies4375

Жыл бұрын

It’s nice to have never been a victim isn’t it?

@molliwilson5639

Жыл бұрын

@@natalies4375 I have been a victim you have no idea…. Be careful who you are talking to because you never know who you are speaking to . I will leave it at that.

@robogreek3157

Жыл бұрын

@@molliwilson5639 only one way to solve this. WET 👕 CONTEST!!!

@schrisdellopoulos9244

Жыл бұрын

@@natalies4375 that is pathetic.

@victrola2007

Жыл бұрын

@@natalies4375 THIS is not a case of victim-shaming. Your comment is irrational. I'm a woman who had been through hell and know very well how evil partners (men and women for others) behave and there are many red flags that victims miss. This unsympathetic "Lifetime for Television" woman's decisions are ludicrous. Playing amateur sleuth and confronting him? 🤦‍♀️ All she had to do was send some discarded tissues, a used glass, ANYTHING to the authorities with a note that a friend thought that her new husband had a resemblance so here are some fingerprints on a glass he used. That's it! He was caught by fingerprints, FFS! If I was that woman's friend and thought that she couldn't, I would have paid a visit while he was out and picked those up. She could have snuck a peak/taken a picture of his driver's license, gotten info from HER bank about her own account co-signer. Putting him on her bank account at her age and with children is incomprehensible. Taking her to task for very specific decisions past a specific point is more than fair. The only extent of playing sleuth should have been just grabbing quick fingerprint and DNA. She didn't need a private investigator with a retainer with FBI/police at her disposal.

It is amazing to me that she did not get murdered. I never yelled at the tv so much.

@paulinewangombe10

Жыл бұрын

Yep. I wanted to put my hands through the screen and give her a good, good, loving shaking.

@districtnerfco.8390

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 seriously! This woman wanted to be killed stg!

@ddonlee

Жыл бұрын

Me too ! I kept shouting: why are u so dumb af?

@shihsgiggles1948

Жыл бұрын

@@Campfire30 see that’s what my biggest problem was. U can b a dumb ass on your own time but when you have kids.., you’re responsible for their welfare. I wouldn’t even let that man near my dogs (bc he’s sketch and I’m not that big of an idiot and don’t play helpless victim) But yeah she’s definitely lucky nothing happened to her kiddos! She gave that man every ample opportunity to kill them all.

@shihsgiggles1948

Жыл бұрын

@@districtnerfco.8390 fr ! Or she’s literally the dumbest most gullible person I’ve ever seen. Hopefully she’s wisened up over the years…. Hopefully…

She has doubts and fears but gives him full access to her accounts

@jakeplonk888

Ай бұрын

She’s pathetic

@hislittlemrs.9235

Ай бұрын

She saw evil in his eyes and married him with 3 daughters ? WTH lady?

@DarlingWheresthecoffee

Ай бұрын

He broke into her house and lied about having pawned a necklace.

@JohnCappel-bt9mx

Ай бұрын

Lol

@JohnCappel-bt9mx

Ай бұрын

This woman was hungry

This woman was not a victim! She willingly ignored every sign and then willingly married him. Well, I guess she’s a victim of her own stupidity. 🤦🏽‍♀️

@DiAnaPadill

Ай бұрын

For real though. The amount of red flags he gave her was unbelievable. Still she married him and brought him to live with her and her girls. Like she is so lucky after everything nothing happened to her or her girls. But lady how do you function in everyday life???

@jayjoy331

4 күн бұрын

Haha! I completely agree.. people like this woman are willing to be ignorant. They actually make it extremely easy for predatorial men to take advantage of them.

@allysonbricknall8808

Сағат бұрын

When you are involved in relationships with a con man. They are very convinsing in making you doubt yourself.

This woman has rocks for brains.

@adventuresinlifemka1762

2 ай бұрын

If she has that much.

@RonaldEarlWilsher

2 ай бұрын

Rock for brains? Nope. She’s insane, I think. But I could be wrong and you may be right.

@jdstep97

2 ай бұрын

I still say she was desperate. And maybe he was that good a lover.

@alanaadams7440

2 ай бұрын

Lol 🤣

@sandrapisani9225

2 ай бұрын

@@jdstep97 I agree with you. This woman was lonely and desperate for a relationship - a man. She was very attracted to him. She did not want to believe he was a murderer but I think deep down, she knew he was. She played with fire there; it could have all gone very wrong - for her and her daughters. She did get him arrested though. Was he out of jail in 2015?

No way would I merge my bank account with someone who had to pawn a freaking necklace.

@tracyshaffer4510

Жыл бұрын

Most will agree with you, there’s always a few desperate women that do anything for a man. Hell No, not me!

@glenw-xm5zf

Жыл бұрын

You would if you had the survival instincts of a DoDo bird. I believe God actually protected this woman

@robogreek3157

Жыл бұрын

😆 😆 😆 😆 sometime I love hearing women's thoughts. 😆 🤣 😂

@robogreek3157

Жыл бұрын

@@tracyshaffer4510 don't lie tracy

@bamazing2731

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the laugh….lolololol

How desperate can women be to ignore truth right in your face?

As a mom I couldn’t fathom ignoring so much and letting this go on for so long before doing something. This woman is delusional she should have called the police as soon as she saw him on AMW. Honestly there’s no rationalizing her behavior that’s bad parenting. She’s lucky he didn’t harm the girls.

@plankark

Жыл бұрын

Love is blind

@KatieKat3

2 ай бұрын

@@plankarkAnd dumb apparently. 😂

@MariaHernandez-wh1qx

2 ай бұрын

I agree 100 %.

@MariaHernandez-wh1qx

2 ай бұрын

Blind and dumb

@MariaHernandez-wh1qx

2 ай бұрын

No one to Blame but your dumb self. I cannot continue to watch this.

She repeatedly ignored her own suspicions. She let her desperation take over her decision-making. She's lucky to be alive and her girls are lucky also. It will never end, no matter how many stories are told, some predators will find an easy mark.

@Lmlm8168

Жыл бұрын

It’s always the desperation. These women get so desperate that they let their own kids get victimized . She’s lucky THAT didn’t happen smh 🤦‍♀️

@tuialak8754

Жыл бұрын

@@Lmlm8168 smh. Very gullible

@bgtsy

Жыл бұрын

Naive AND smart. How many times do we all ignore the gut instinct?!

@Lmlm8168

Жыл бұрын

@@bgtsy this is true . I don’t ignore anything anymore . Same with my husband, bc I’ve been right so many times. I say I feel weird about something or something is off or I think something might happen: we go with it lol.

@lakegeneva1068

Жыл бұрын

The things he did initially that kept making her feel good kept causing a feel good chemical release in her brain and body, then the big letdowns, just like addictions do, which is why people often do get back together with someone like this, just like an addict slipping with an addiction, it may take many attempts to break free or it just might end their lives.

This woman's desperation to have a man literally put her children in jeopardy. So many red flags. MAN

@michaelarchangel1163

Жыл бұрын

She's desperation personified. Disgusting and an unfit parent.

@schrisdellopoulos9244

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Desperate and naive.

@2nd_of_3

Жыл бұрын

Extremely poor judgment 😮

@pollypockets508

Жыл бұрын

The power of the D

@celestek.4140

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

I am so impatient with this victim. Doesn’t she have any common sense? Didn’t she have a gut feeling about this situation? How desperate can women be to ignore truth right in your face?

@olgaliza

2 ай бұрын

Victim my @$$. She's an idiot desperate 4 🐓🍆🥒🥖 pathetic and disgusting !!

@practicalone2

2 ай бұрын

Many of us watching friends neighbors, relatives worship a conman. are asking "Don't they have any common sense?"

@charitylouisa

2 ай бұрын

she's so ignorant she sleeps with him when she knows he's a serial killler. Why not make an excuse to go to your mother's house for the night or SOMETHING. She's probably the dumbest woman I've seen on any crime show. She's not a victim, that's for sure

@lilliansperlingmadsen4662

2 ай бұрын

walking a mile in somoes shooes.. we dont really understand it before it happens to ourselfs.

@staceyw.6608

2 ай бұрын

​@lilliansperlingmadsen4662 especially when it involves a master manipulator. They're very good at what they do and they always target vulnerable women.

Another example of the sickness of codependency....

So she stayed with a man who wouldn't tell her where her children were Disgusting

@Sigma2HisAlpha

Жыл бұрын

BIG FACTS

@deliafredericks7578

Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly Very observant woman

@HayleysComet3

Жыл бұрын

And made the comment, that’s what happens when you ask too many questions.

@sirmadam8183

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I can't get over this person. Not the brightest bulb. Seemed attracted to danger. Would rather be with a dangerous than be safe and sound.

@digitalwasabi2

Жыл бұрын

This woman has the IQ of a doorknob.

These were the red flags: Charming. Tragic background story. Lovebombing. “Missing family.” Moving too fast. Too many gifts. Refusing to take no for an answer. Entered house and breaking boundaries made to seem innocent. Hoovering after initial breakups. Daughter “killed.” According to sister, he was “perfect.” Planting the pawn ticket (yes that was a planned manipulation, he guessed correctly that she would snoop in his wallet). Takes over finances-financial abuse. Don’t confront psychopaths. So glad she survived.

@InterestedCitizen

Жыл бұрын

Most who love bomb are not devious/murderers. It's not taking no for an answer🚩, calling her after she said it was over🚩, and all the rest that are huge red flags.

@astrialindah2773

Жыл бұрын

And for God's sake once you find out he is the murderer you go back to that house for the night? At the very very least invite a friend over and say that they had nowhere else to go so they were going to spend the night.. my goodness sakes.

@zoundstreetop

Жыл бұрын

@@InterestedCitizen everyone who love bombs is devious. It is in fact a manipulation tactic used by psychopaths and narcissists, which are both cluster b disorders. There is no love in lovebombing.

@delilahhart4398

Жыл бұрын

I once read a book called The Sociopath Next Door, which was written by a psychologist. She said that it was hard to tell early on whether someone was sociopathic, but she said that if someone tries to gain your sympathy or pity early on, you should take notice.

@missmaggie2620

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely nailed every red flag that could be nailed.

She kept a murderer in her house with her kids because she needed more proof as to who he really was?????????????????????????????

Call me Sean Paul should be the main red flag right off the bat. Lol.

@Coco-chrispy

23 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 right? Cuz Why he got two first names?

I'm sorry, but she is the most infuriating victim ever. She is ridiculously lucky that her and her daughters are alive. GO TO THE POLICE OH MY GOD.

@ninap6893

Жыл бұрын

Agree hard to listen to her voice. Breaks into her house then she meets up with him?

@chriskelly9476

Жыл бұрын

I'm sitting here shaking my head in disbelief. Red flag after red flag, alarm bells ringing and she still confronts him instead of going to the police. Swallows a pill he gives her, goes back home after learning he's a murderer... god almighty.

@m1586

Жыл бұрын

@Tilly. Infuriating is correct! I don't know why she insisted on being a detective! Maybe she had a death wish 😎

@m1586

Жыл бұрын

@@chriskelly9476 For sure! Maybe love really is blind 😎

@grandmagrannyluvsqbandfyeb1864

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY! And now wanna be victim.

Can't believe she kept living in this situation with her children in order to investigate further. How much information do you need to know that this guy is dangerously toxic?!?

@Nizhonibearcreek

Жыл бұрын

Well her first clue was him breaking into her home

@shototodoroki4816

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes u play fool toget to the bottom if I show signs u Cld be next and gone

@yahniqueedwards231

Жыл бұрын

And why did she continue to alert him if her findings?😑

@victrola2007

Жыл бұрын

@@yahniqueedwards231 Because she has absolutely NO common sense. Her daughter's description of her bravery is really a sad case of cognitive dissonance. Her mother made countless terrible decisions that just escalated with severity of situation. It was all too mindboggling to hear.

@nicoladavis580

Жыл бұрын

I am mad as hell with her for keeping her kids in that much danger.

He was on the America Most wanted but the Police wanted to wait until the next day to get him?????

@Mws556

Ай бұрын

Strategy😂

@ellarazumi9508

Ай бұрын

@@Mws556😅

Woman!! I can’t believe you went through all that instead of going to the police! I’m glad you and the girls are safe. Don’t ever take that kind of chance again! You’ll end up like his past individuals!🙏

This lady kind of frustrates me!

@abusednomoresilence

Жыл бұрын

I never would have shown him the document! I would have turned him into America Most Wanted.

@LATERZA00

Жыл бұрын

Kinda?

@Mws556

Ай бұрын

Not the words I'd use, but ya!😮

I do believe this woman is totally out of her mind if what she said is true. No sound person would risk their life, much less her childrens in this situation!

She's wiping away tears that aren't there.

after seeing all the red flags she married him, that’s a true crime against her own family.

Many might think this lady is empathic but the reality is this is what codependency looks like. Codependency kills, sometimes slowly (putting up with an abuser and then u get heart disease or cancer from the stress) or it kills through a psychopath. This lady and her daughters are blessed to be alive, she ignored countless red flags. A good saying is "doubt your doubts." Blessings to all the single ladies out there trying to find "love." Love yourself first.

@G.G.8GG

2 ай бұрын

Yes! Somebody gets it. When you are raised with the ingrained idea that your job is to please everyone else and rate everyone else's opinion above your own, you teach yourself to override your instincts. Your feelings can't be right because you can't possibly be right. That would be betraying your built in pattern. So - it takes repeated and high level red flags to make you act. And even then you feel guilty for going against him. Abusers know one the moment they see one.

@susansmolen9741

2 ай бұрын

You mean don’t doubt your doubts.

@ilse3887

Ай бұрын

@@G.G.8GG yep! a predator knows its prey!!

@user-tf9yy5uq9p

5 күн бұрын

@taylorpresley4604 You said: "A good saying is: doubts your doubts". I really have to disagree. I'd say: "A good saying is: never doubt your doubts". Your doubts are your intuition. As women, we need to honour our intuition. It is there to protect us, not always from marrying a killer, but perhaps from getting involved with him in the first place.

She leaves her girls’ daddy because they “got married too young,” but would not leave a man she sees on America’s Most Wanted? Curious

@user-ps5zj7wk5x

2 ай бұрын

Females like her don't get many chances with males like that. She deluded herself out of desperation. You don't even have to watch it in full to see she is "ditzy" in ways.

@Tweetycew1

Ай бұрын

I know right??!!! Unbelievable!!! Not understanding this woman at all. She had 3 daughters. What was she thinking.

@wev3860

Ай бұрын

I thought it’s as you get older you become wiser but in this situation it’s as you get older your standard gets lower 😂

@djg5950

Ай бұрын

@@Tweetycew1 I looked this guy up and this story isn't how it really happened. Paul Mack was caught because a woman in Ohio recognized him on America's Most Wanted and then had seen the TV show about him being a chef at the restaurant. She called the tip line and told them he was in Salt Lake City. I'm sure this story is for her to "save face" about how naive she was. She was his 8th wife. The whole part about his capture is made up. She had nothing to do with it. Paul Mack died in prison in 2018 at the age of 75 so he never did get out.

@Zippythewondersquirrel

Ай бұрын

@@djg5950so this story is completely made up about how he got caught. She is pathetic enough that she tried to save face and be the one that saved herself and her girls. So sad.

The unnecessary risks that this lady took makes me think that she’s the luckiest person in this planet

@user-ps5zj7wk5x

2 ай бұрын

It must have been the s*x.

@Unborn-Stillborn

2 ай бұрын

And the dumbest ...

What a disgrace, this woman introduces a man she knows nothing about into her family of three daughters. She should be in jail for negligence and stupidity and their biological father should make arrangements for the children to be taken from her. She is every divorced Fathers nightmare.

She's so desperate that it's hard to feel sympathetic for her. When he broke into the house she should have been done. It's her responsibility to protect her daughters.

@ridinwithjake

Жыл бұрын

But he didn’t steal anything. He just left gifts. It’s kinda romantic!

@leisagold9392

Жыл бұрын

I thought STALKER immediately, alarm system ASAP OPEN yr 👀

@christinamorales1475

Жыл бұрын

Wow

@christinamorales1475

Жыл бұрын

For you to even just reply this as if she was looking for ur sympathy is just so... Idk.. if u able to run after the first red flag... I wish I had ur strength dayum

@junieedwards

Жыл бұрын

So true

Breaking into someone's house is actually against the law. It's not just "weird," "something you don't do," or "something that makes me uncomfortable."

@adrianeelise3849

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@m1586

Жыл бұрын

@Sugar Spring. Yes and what else might he have done whilst he was in the house. Put cameras, snoop through her, underwear drawer, photocopy documents and so on 😎 yikes!!!

@IsraelWillBeFree

Жыл бұрын

I'm a lil uncomfortable with you breaking into my house.. let's go watch a movie in the dark so I can deal with what you didn't mean to do

@m1586

Жыл бұрын

@@IsraelWillBeFree Hilarious and correct!

@MsLinda165

Жыл бұрын

I'm surprised she kept seeing him after he's broken into her house. A woman with three girls, and she marries a guy who breaks into her house? Um...Her kids don't seem to hate her, which is the real miracle here. She sure put them in harms way.

She's a terrible mother, putting herself above her children.

@sandywagner9154

2 ай бұрын

Creep, married a fool

Y'all don't know how many times i rolles my eyes in this episode.

@user-tf9yy5uq9p

5 күн бұрын

@queendevi2492 PLEASE: Use "You" NOT "Y'all", when talking, especially when writing. You is sufficient. Although it is commonly used online, the contraction of you + all, makes the speaker sound uneducated.

She knew something was wrong but she went ahead and married him and put herself and her kids in danger. Awesome insight. This is some special kind of intelligence.

@EdGarcia01

Жыл бұрын

She even took “some strange pill” he gave her, AFTER it was clear she didn’t trust him😅

@twatts1523

Жыл бұрын

Yep, and let him control her finances.

@tundrawomansays694

Жыл бұрын

Her Super Power is Stupidity.

@ninak1352

Жыл бұрын

Insight ?? awesome?? Nahhh....more stupidity and .... I can't believe how you and your children live still...sorry honey but this is the truth

@michelleadams474

Жыл бұрын

Oh completely agree and I stated something similar in my comment.... she was wearing blinders and should have known better.

wow her daughters was young and she didn't even think to call the police when her friend said guy looks like husband and you find 2 social security cards. what more evidence? She took to many chances!!!!

@twatts1523

Жыл бұрын

And why didn’t her so called friend call the hotline?

Miss , you are one stubborn, brave , lucky lady 😮😮😮 , am glad you and your children are ok , God is good

She's a lucky fool. Three daughters, he's on America's Most Wanted for murder and she's literally playing games. If she wanted to know who he was, ask the police, they seem to know. She was really playing games.

As women, we need to *stop* ignoring red flags. Edit: before commenting "men too," check out the thread-- it's been addressed many times & I meant what I said.

@TS-rd7oy

Жыл бұрын

Women ned to stop believing in the BS that is Prince Charming. A large percentage of males are, at heart, not very nice people who easily put on masks, especially in front of women. After 7 decades on this earth, this is what I have seen, and at times experienced. I worked in a male dominated field back in the 80s while in my 20s. What an eye opener! Male partners overwhelmingly unalive their female partner, or to a lesser extent abuse them once they get that ring on her finger. It seems to be getting worse, every single day, there is at least one story of a male killing a female, whether his partner or a stranger. Better to just have a child or adopt a pet if you need to love something.

@synewparadigm

Жыл бұрын

Only woman?

@whosaidthat9265

Жыл бұрын

@@synewparadigm seriously! Plenty of men are victimized by women who are the living embodiment of red flags just like this dude was.

@jacksonogwindi1653

Жыл бұрын

Everyone, not just women .

@synewparadigm

Жыл бұрын

@@whosaidthat9265 Exactly.

The police tell her he’s wanted for 2 murders and she goes back to spend the night with him at home with her 3 daughters? Unbelievable 😳

@yvonneaileen8317

2 ай бұрын

She got the daughters out of the house

@Nick92106

2 ай бұрын

The cops dropped the ball bigtime.

@genakirkland5528

2 ай бұрын

She's so dumb! Unbelievable!!

@WayCoolNurse

2 ай бұрын

She sent the daughters away but still. I think she knew he would run and maybe come back!

@djg5950

Ай бұрын

Didn't happen that way. She was surprised as he was when he was arrested. She wasn't the reason for it so she didn't sleep with him knowing that he was going to be arrested the next morning.

I was shocked that you let him take over your finances and had to ask him for money. That’s a big red flag and signing paperwork you haven’t read. I’m glad that you finally woke up and discovered what he really was. It’s not worth thinking of what he could have done to you and your daughters. I’m so glad you moved on with your lives. Thank you for sharing. 😘

Lol, the actor who plays the murderer in this documentary does a very good job of looking very creepy and sinister!

@StaceyJoy14

2 ай бұрын

He looks just like the real killer too

I'm confused as to why she kept things going after he broke in and left workout attire in her home. Then she looks into his eyes and "all she saw was evil" and "felt more fear than ever"...and still married this man?! WTF? Was she THAT lonely? My god.

@carolinemcgovern8059

8 ай бұрын

Also, it sounds like she was under pressure to be in a relationship?

@bethoneybee

2 ай бұрын

Sadly a lot of people seem to need a relationship to be happy

@jaquelinegonzalez3841

2 ай бұрын

I thought the same thing!!! He kept giving her red flags and she KEPT ON IGNORING THEM. My God, trust your instinct. Why would you keep putting yourself and your daughters in danger? Silly.

@raphaellavictoria01

2 ай бұрын

She didn't trust her own feelings, is what the problem is, above all. Made her prone to believing him. Also, way too much empathy: empathy gone awry. The perfect victim.

@casewojo6186

2 ай бұрын

She’s not smart.

Literally saw him on America’s Most Wanted and she was like “everything’s fine!” 😒

@Mohssin4147

Ай бұрын

love is blind my sweetheart

@satinbeesade1654

Ай бұрын

​@@Mohssin4147Indeed...

She was shocked a murdered robbed her. The level of delusion and denial is beyond with this woman.

This woman is crazier than the murderer!

One massive red flag after another and this kind lovely lady needs more evidence? Call the police!

@athena8729

Жыл бұрын

She didn't want to believe it

@jenniferconley1192

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! What was she waiting for? the dead women to say he killed us? one comment said what a brave woman! I kept saying what a dumba$$ she risked all their lives or at best risked her daughters not having a mom. Too many chances!

@rissthebee

Жыл бұрын

@@athena8729 you're so right

@nellasultann

Жыл бұрын

@@athena8729 And that is so sad. She put her life at huge risk. I'll have to police clear your name before getting back with you

@gracewoodard9134

Жыл бұрын

She needed to order some IQ points for herself.

*UPDATE:* During his interview with "Charmed To Death," Sgt. Tim Bailey gave producers a shocking update: “I received a call from Paul Mack’s attorney, who represented him in California,” said Bailey. “And he told me that he wanted me, and he wanted, particularly, the family to know, that Paul Mack confessed to killing Annette Huddle before he died.” *Paul Mack died in prison in 2018. He was 75 years old.* Yay

@tanyabrown9839

Жыл бұрын

thank God he died in prison. Someone like that should never be out.

@user-cy4vw1qj9m

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for update.

@VivianeVanTuyckom

11 ай бұрын

Good

@robynnbryar1977

2 ай бұрын

Thank You for this update it should be pinned to the top of the comments.

I almost fell into the same kind of thing, Met an amazing man , he even proposed , but there was something off about him, I checked his wallet and there was nothing in his name, not even an ID, I Started investigating everything about him, only to find out everything was a lie, the only thing that saved me from him is that he fell sick and passed on a short while after proposing to me

@vladodobleja748

Ай бұрын

Was him a serial killer?

@JohnCappel-bt9mx

Ай бұрын

Wow

Trust your gut feeling and stop second guessing yourself !! And never confront a guy like this.

Her instincts were telling her all along that there was something wrong with that guy, she is very lucky she didn't get caught by him while investigating him and is alive

@cwavt8849

Жыл бұрын

Instincts are everything! They are why we are alive. Those of our predecessors whose instincts were wrong didn't make it. When your antenna goes up, start paying attention!!!

@lindavanocker1841

Жыл бұрын

I thought he wld grab her for hostage when the cops came for sure. It blows my mind that they wldnt just go to work and arrest him ! They put her life in danger sure enough !

@Dustandfuzz

Жыл бұрын

@@lindavanocker1841 yes, I agree. The cops didn’t want to cut their bait. That’s terrible. They should have said get out of there! She could have been a statistic.

@liliivanova2920

Жыл бұрын

@@lindavanocker1841 exactly, having everything on hand, all evidence, the police decided to wait and put in danger one more woman. Why? Why they could not ask her to call him have a lunch,meeting etc and arrest him right away?

@loralieisa

Жыл бұрын

@@lindavanocker1841 They told her not to go home, but she didn't listen.

She took way too many risks... she's fortunate to be alive

@HUYI1

Жыл бұрын

Very lucky to be Alive, how could she sleep next to a monster like this?

@aussie1868

8 ай бұрын

Aussie here, is she for real??? .

This woman is sooooooo naive and reckless 😮 Scarily so. Jeesh.

Thank you for making me feel so wise and stable!

If you don’t meet ONE SINGLE FAMILY member, a friend, ANYTHING…🚩🚩. If they want to marry you after a few weeks ? 🚩🚩If they BREAK INTO YOUR HOUSE WHILE YOU ARE DATING 🚩🚩 This woman is lucky her daughters survived. And weren’t victimized. Ladies & gentlemen. Please . Learn from these situations .

@carolynhearn7087

Жыл бұрын

What the hell she went to the jail…there is something seriously wrong with that woman…why didn’t the police hide in her house that last night??

If my kids come up missing and you say “I’m not telling you.” I would have been at his job with that steel in my purse. What you’re not going to do is play with me and my babies.

@blackdiamond9455

Жыл бұрын

Exactly... No way I would've stayed home and waited

@dorindadouglas2847

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!! I don't have kids, but in my head I was like, dude, I'll put a bullet between your eyes so fast!

@oliviaedralin1436

Жыл бұрын

Nope. She was waiting to get her or her kids get killed first!

@youtube_chaplain

Жыл бұрын

Heaven and Hell are real..... Is your heart right with God? We can not hide our sins from God. Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. Repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. MARK 1:15 “ the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.” "Salvation Prayer" Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart.... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN.....

@MMP1116

Жыл бұрын

@@youtube_chaplain shut up troll

Shes lucky her Scooby doo detective work didn't get em all killed

You have a lovely house, he has an apartment. You're lonely and vulnerable, he's aggressive. You say NO. He can't take NO for an answer. You call his name, he doesn't answer. He wants joint bank account. Bad signals! Control...control...control!

This woman made every poor decision she could possibly make. She put her children in danger so she could go play detective.

@Karan-th8td

2 ай бұрын

Stupidity at best 😮

@bethoneybee

2 ай бұрын

So she could have a man

This woman's decision making process can be seen in the first victim of every horror movie who simply has to investigate the situation even further. Why she did not call the cops the moment her daughters were missing and he would not tell her where they were and stop this silliness is beyond me. She is lucky she is alive.

I can't imagine the kind of regret and humiliation she has likely wrestled with in the years following. It can be so hard to listen to your gut when you 1)lack confidence 2) desire to be desired & 3)THINK you can bring out the best in people. It is quite literally miraculous that she and all her children made it out of this situation alive!

@Choppopolis

Ай бұрын

This is the most intelligent and compassionate comment on this thread.

@Choppopolis

Ай бұрын

She is infuriating but she is human and all humans are irrational. Literally, anyone can be seduced by a skilled con artist. She knew from the getgo that he was evil but the mind plays tricks. It is truly the gut that we have to trust. Never talk yourself out of your gut feelings. They are REAL.

" I am coming back to look for you one more time" . Lady! All the best and please relocate with your children. You are lucky to be alive

@catsberry4858

Ай бұрын

Someone wrote that Paul Mack died in prison in 2018 @ age 75. Sounds about right. I pray they all stayed safe from him & that they didn’t give this interview till after God had His Judgement of him.

@AnnoyedRugby-px2rl

Ай бұрын

@@catsberry4858 I hope to God it's true

When you are married, and the grass LOOKS greener on the other side of the fence, MOST LIKELY IT IS OVER A SEPTIC TANK, keep what you got if all possible.

@lorimav

2 ай бұрын

Yes, be extremely careful who you marry. Search out and marry someone with a good character and then stay with that person even with all their quirks and any interests you might not share. Marrying a decent human being leads to a reasonably content life for you and your children.

@aircastles1013

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Cops ‘Take your girls and leave, we will arrest him in the morning’ Wife ‘No, let me put myself in danger one more time, its kinda my thing’ 🤦🏻‍♀️

@1fan689

5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@errorace1420

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@lesliearno

2 ай бұрын

😂

@flenzy

Ай бұрын

Fantastic!

@hollyyoung649

Ай бұрын

right? get a hotel room somewhere and put a false name on the room for one night

This lady isn’t the brightest crayon in the box. That’s for sure! How many signs do you need? Especially watching you husband on America Most Wanted. Like. Hello?!?!

Oh yeah, I had a relationship once when I was very young where he gave me tons of gifts, always brought me flowers, bought me expensive leather jackets. It was all very seductive and I fell for it. After a year of being together I found out he was a pathological liar and cheat. Always remember, if it seems to be good to be true, it is.

@lisas8244

Жыл бұрын

It's called Love Bombing. That's what Scott Peterson did to every girl he dated.

@madsdee7803

Жыл бұрын

@@lisas8244 it's also called expecting to be spoilt. That's why they get away with it. I've taught my kids differently.

@robogreek3157

Жыл бұрын

Not always.

@charmaynebruce6215

Жыл бұрын

​@@robogreek3157 True. Manhaters; the lot of 'em.

@youtube_chaplain

Жыл бұрын

Heaven and Hell are real..... Is your heart right with God? We can not hide our sins from God. Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. Repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. MARK 1:15 “ the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.” "Salvation Prayer" Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart.... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN.....

That’s not bravery. That’s just stupidity! Can’t believe she’s on here telling it as if she was a hero. Omg!

@BB-dk3fd

2 ай бұрын

Putting all her children in danger 😢

@Victoria-dh3wl

2 ай бұрын

Seriously I seen no bravery just stupidity

@priscillatamir8258

2 ай бұрын

I agree with you

@lisameredith2943

2 ай бұрын

I'd be embarrassed to let people know I was that gullible

@inezbryant6186

2 ай бұрын

Desperate woman She would take him back Ugh

She is a VERY courageous woman but maybe not the wisest. She is lucky to have survived.

@ViralRivers

21 күн бұрын

You are 2 for 3

What is with women letting men they barely know be around their kids?

Am I the only one who wants the $1500 deposit back from the investigator?

I feel if you think you need to hire a private investigator, you already know the answer

@dianahill5116

Жыл бұрын

I was denied a restraining order, this year (2022). Very upset and scared.

@laurastuart3814

Жыл бұрын

Not true. Emotions are not enough, there has to be evidence.

@dianahill5116

Жыл бұрын

I agree.

@user-ps5zj7wk5x

2 ай бұрын

😂

I thought I was gullible but this lovely lady wins hands down!

Nobody can be this naive. It's infuriating!

Never ignore your intuition.

I have 5 kids 2 girls and 3 boys if I ever get divorced God forbid I would never bring a man into my home. I am glad she survived this!

@TheMaryAnn75

Жыл бұрын

I’m divorced with once kid. No way I’m dating until he is on his own. Taking my age to the account, I’ll die alone , but I rather be lonely than risk safety of my kid. This story is extreme but they’re a freaks out there. Good guys are married….

@Fedeleness

Жыл бұрын

@@TheMaryAnn75 As a parent, your one of the Number 1's.

@manda.watching.YouTube

Жыл бұрын

@@Fedeleness thank God my mom remarried. I love my mom more than anyone in the world, but my stepdad was a better parent to me than anyone else could have been. Even if I didn’t really like him at first lol.

@catalinacurio

Жыл бұрын

It’s about using your head over your heart, taking it slow, listening to feedback from friends and family and your own gut.

@marylynnkotis7246

Жыл бұрын

I had 2 wonderful Step Dads, there are some good ones out there.

I cannot believe that after she went to the police, they decided she would go back home, spend the night with him and the police would arrest him in the morning. He easily could have taken the girls as hostages. Did he really drive out with the car? Did the police not have the driveway blocked? And then, a suspected murderer who behaved guilty was free for at least some of the three years, loose and able to harass her!

it was 1988 when they did not have the internet to check on people BUT she did not listen to her inner voice AT ALL.

It’s women like this that give the rest of us a bad name. As the daughter said ‘ my mums a hopeless romantic’.

@astarryeyedgirl

2 ай бұрын

That daughter misspelled "an idiot desperate for a relationship."

I’m having a hard time feeling sorry for her. Humans are given the ability to sense something is wrong and they are in danger. Wild animals don’t ignore these instincts. There is a book called The Gift of Fear. I would suggest everyone reading it.

@keryljensen978

Жыл бұрын

The Gift of Fear , by Gavin DeBecker is a fantastic book. I highly recommend it.

@butterbeanqueen8148

Жыл бұрын

@@keryljensen978 it really is. I recommend it for everyone. It should be required reading!

@beltigussin81

Жыл бұрын

People call her naive. That's such a kind way of putting it.

@JessBlake2

Жыл бұрын

I think she thought if she was a good person, she would be fine. It's common to think "like attracts like" and other myths. Also she seemed to uncritically feel like role definitions themselves define reality. Like when she said, I didn't want to lie to my husband, or he's my husband, so that's not him on the television. People do this about the word "family" also.

@JessBlake2

Жыл бұрын

@butterbeanqueen8148, it's not really true that we can just feel when something is wrong. Our instincts can be wrong and we are not actually that good at detecting deception. You need more than just the fear response when a cunning manipulator is operating. It's best to investigate and get concrete, objective evidence. But she did ignore concrete evidence and she left herself and her kids open and vulnerable before she knew if she was safe.

She should have gone to the police immediately. Silly woman she has kids.

She has a very strong guardian angel, that's for sure.

I’m on her side, but lawdy. Once you are in the territory of ‘2 dead peoples security cards’, ‘ hired p.i.’ , ’questioning where daughters are at’ this is the rule and I cannot stress this one enough: DO NOT EAT ANY OFFERED PILLS. PRETEND. SPIT THEM OUT. PRETEND TO PUKE AND FLUSH THEM. WHATEVER. DO NOT EAT THE PILLS. And get their name off of your bank accounts

@helianabanes4875

Жыл бұрын

It's pretty easy to forget that we have not been in a position like hers. I always HOPE that I would react in a way that is in keeping with how I view myself, but the bottom line is, I just have no idea what I would do or how I would behave unless I am in that exact situation with that exact history and back story.

@moskie325

Жыл бұрын

@@helianabanes4875 I’ve been in a position like hers. Even when you are in this alternate sphere of crazy thoughts and shifting reality responses, do not eat the pills. If you listened to her keystones of personality- being strong for her daughters, hoping for a lovely life, being a good person, they reflect points of her self autonomy, and definitely her naïveté, which contributed to how far this situation got. Letting that autonomy go will create permanent damage in the harm we do to ourselves in the future, looking back on retrospection. Her justification of ‘I just wanted him to stop asking’ having already set up the cover of not feeling well should have made a very large flag of self preservation come up and she should have just gone with that. If she was concerned enough to play sick, do not take the offered unknown pills. This lady had strength I bet even she didn’t know she had, and that shone through after that horrific incident. In all the crazy, she would have shrunk back to her keystones, but ignored them. Sure maybe you can’t say what you would do, but from my personal experience, when everything was not right and upside down, being extremely vulnerable (I was underage) I didn’t know everything and made a ton of mistakes, but when the coercion to take something physically into myself that didn’t want to take, I found a way not to. This lady was grown. Even with extreme gullibility, do not eat the pills.

@helianabanes4875

Жыл бұрын

@@moskie325 hate that you have been through something similar, happy you made it through!

@m1586

Жыл бұрын

@Moskie. I agree with you! I'm astounded when people tell me they have joint bank accounts! It's just craziness and I'd never do it!😎

@Dustandfuzz

Жыл бұрын

The thing with the daughters would have been enough to send me running. Maybe she should work for the police as an undercover agent. As for the pill, I was thinking it could be cyanide. It could have been anything. I would have spit that out.

She said she can't believe she had evil in her house!! she brought him there , should have been more careful who she picks up in bar's having children 🙄

I'm not American and not familiar with the system there, but when you register your marriage, don't you have to give your ID? because in my country the persons getting married and the witnesses need to present their ID. just thinking that things would be much easier for her to get his social security number if it's written on the marriage certificate. but this woman is smart. I'm glad she shared her story.

@gaykid80

2 ай бұрын

As non-Americans watching this we have so many questions regarding that aspect. When you get married in Europe you need authentic birth certificates, double-checked from the town were you were born in, documents that prove where you live, you need witnesses signing to confirm it’s actually you, etc… Americans seem to skip all that bureaucratic mess but then they end up with people creating false identities.

I have counted about 20 red flags....and AMERICA'S MOST WANTED???

After my divorce, I ventured out to meet people( at the insistence of friends) . I met a guy one night who told me he was a widower, and I asked what his dead wife’s name and the date of car accident. He did, I didn’t give him my number, he gave me his , said I would call, went home and immediately research his story. I didn’t find anything on the “ accident” where he said his wife died, so I never called him . A few month later , a coworker met him at the same nightclub and she started dating him. Turns out he was married , no job , and had several girlfriends who would give him money. My coworker stopped seeing him after a few months abd $$$ , and supposedly she exposed him on Facebook. Btw.. I don’t have any social media. Idk what happen to him, but I dodged that bullet.

She was so incredibly brave!! This is an amazing story. Also, for the ones questioning how she could have been manipulated, etc, I know what it's like to be abused. The head games leave you totally disoriented. Moreover, when you think of someone evil, by their very nature, their behavior is atypical... not what you would think of doing because the victims have a more normal thought process. It doesn't occur to them that the abuser would go to the "dark places." There is a giving them the benefit of the doubt. I'm just so thankful that her own story didn't end up in tragedy. This could be made into a terrifying movie. Her courage likely saved more lives.

@nowirehangers2815

8 күн бұрын

No

When pure innocence meets sheer evil.

@The_Whimsical_Stenographer

2 ай бұрын

When pure desperation and stupidity meets evil.

Wow.. playing with fire is an under statement. Risked her and her children's lives. Clearly Margie doesn't watch crime/murder documentaries, but all the red flags were there. Our ' instincts' are there for a reason, to warn us of impending danger etc, take heed of these instincts they've saved many people's lives. Margie and her daughters are lucky to be alive. Be safe.

@madsdee7803

Жыл бұрын

Margie was focused on making money out of selling her story. Still blinded by money.

She threw her 1st husband back into the pond so quickly & easily without much justification or reasoning, yet was so desperate & lonely within just 1 year's time after that to then find, hook up with, & marry a serial killer. WoW

@SkyCloudSilence

2 ай бұрын

Evil woman right?

@janelbullock9141

2 ай бұрын

That was my thought, after only a year?! My baby daddy moved women in after the first day and then there was the next then the next and the next. Some people never heal or take responsibility for their actions. Self righteous & sick! I was desperate and ignored the red flags. Me and my daughter have suffered greatly at his hands. Still he takes no responsibility!

@djg5950

Ай бұрын

@@janelbullock9141 She was married to her first husband for 20 years. A lot of the "facts' in this version of it aren't true. Didn't happen the way she claims it did.

@vladodobleja748

Ай бұрын

​@@djg5950so she cheated on her husband of 20 years with this guy?