Based on these documentaries, people who "light up the room" or "make everyone's day" are extremely high risk to be victims of murder.

@barbarapalmer8224

2 жыл бұрын

Yes,you are dead right

@ooweeeooweee8871

2 жыл бұрын

I think that this is just the default that most people say. It honestly makes me doubt them the majority of the time since it's so impersonal and generic.

@paullaney3339

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah everyone who gets murdered is so perfect 😐

@paullaney3339

2 жыл бұрын

@@ooweeeooweee8871 Exactly!

@ChrisAndCats

2 жыл бұрын

@@ooweeeooweee8871 unless they stand out from the crowd and that's why it's always them?

She’s being stalked, threatened and scared of his behavior, shows up at the restaurant yet her friends didn’t walk her home?!… unbelievable

@summerfatima2525

Жыл бұрын

Fr!!!! My thoughts exactly…

@chriskelly9476

Жыл бұрын

@Star Dust its no one's fault but the murderer, but still, if you know a friend is being stalked and the stalker shows up when you're all at a restaurant, you accompany her home for goodness' sake.

@ashleyj7011

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@carrietaylor6658

Жыл бұрын

This just didn't add up

@angiec4116

Жыл бұрын

I Was Thinkin Tha Same Thing But She Wasn't Very Smart Posting Where She Was Goin Either

Social media IS dangerous. I believe people don't realise exactly how dangerous it is. Sharing your activities and locations for the online community to see is extremely risky, with or without an active stalker. It's like drawing a huge bullseye on your own back. Unnecessary and dangerous.

@misslin2568

Жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree more. I have Facebook but I am extremely careful with the contact information I'm sharing. My address and telephone number are off-limits.

@RJK1647

6 ай бұрын

Very true!

@bluechurch776

5 ай бұрын

It's insane to post your personal life on the internet. It has become a weapon. There are a lot of disturbed people out there. Be safe internet friends!

@quirkya909

5 ай бұрын

Agreed. It’s like those stick figure family decals. If you’re being followed by a creep they now know that granny in a wheelchair on oxygen, little Susie and little Jimmy, and JUST MOM, there is no dad to save the day. Them stick figure decals are literally like giving away who all lives in your home or rides in your car.

@WhitneySt0rmy

4 ай бұрын

Exactly why I stopped posting pictures of my children and removed them all. There are so many sick minded people and I'd like my kids to decide whether they want a private life or not when they're adults. ❤

Stabbing her 75 times is absolutely insane. The amount of force and anger needed to stab her that many times is crazy. He can rot.

@adamlv1

Жыл бұрын

Think about the victim of that as they begin screaming and fighting and slowly lose blood and the screaming ceases and they go limp and just begin staring ahead and all the while the knife is just being plunged in and out over and over and over again. Her little body just bouncing back and forth with every blow. The person who can do that isn’t much human at all.

@Zulls23

Жыл бұрын

@@adamlv1 you’ve laid that visual out too well

@1975reispedro1

Жыл бұрын

​@@adamlv1 if he isn't human.. He is a animal and to some people animal can kill and they will will defend this behavior... in a way they call themselves psychiatrists

@SayWhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat

Жыл бұрын

personal killings always have this patern.

@nicholasshade1366

Жыл бұрын

Sad 😞 ********************************************

This "other girl" who reported back to Joshua, about Molly's whereabouts, should be charged too.

@princesspinecone3884

2 жыл бұрын

Conspiracy!

@denisrailey777

2 жыл бұрын

Accomplice.

@Rakel6784

2 жыл бұрын

If it wasn't that day he would've killed her any other day..No matter what he still would've gotten her at a different place

@saspredydious9295

2 жыл бұрын

@@kittencatlover156 complicity!

@whoanelly7444

2 жыл бұрын

Narc and they’re flying monkeys!

I think that anyone convicted of offenses like domestic violence, coercive control, stalking or fraud, should have to register (like a sex offender), and we should be able to check it when we are entering into a new relationship. There are so many people injured, traumatized or killed by someone who had had police complaints, previous charges, even prison time, and enter into new relationships with people who have no idea. At least if we know, we can make an informed decision whether or not to date them.

@lowlowseesee

9 ай бұрын

Agreed. I’m in the field partially and this would help tremendously. Databases are popping up on social media but we need an effective global or national one

@LadyAtheOnly

6 ай бұрын

I agree. That’s a fantastically wise idea.

@ayydakota788

4 ай бұрын

You’re too liberal

@megankelly8130

3 ай бұрын

@@ayydakota788 trying to keep people safe is liberal????? 😂

@unbelievable24

3 ай бұрын

​@@megankelly8130, sounds like somebody just doesn't want to be on, "the list" lol

Never tell someone not to worry when they are dealing with a psychopath. That's oxymoronic.

@latasha195

Жыл бұрын

Exactly smh

@valenlevalenle6394

Жыл бұрын

@@jyotivig3666 She means, when she called her friend that he had shown up to the gym, the friend said, "not to worry, he's a psychopath" and she was murdered by him mere moments later. Never tell someone not to worry if their stalker shows up somewhere. It is important to worry and call the police to escort you to your car if you are genuinely worried for your safety.

@WideAwakeHuman

Жыл бұрын

I mean it’s really just moronic boy oxymoronic

@nicholasshade1366

Жыл бұрын

This is really sad. 😞

@virg0_lem0nade

11 ай бұрын

That's not even close to what the word "oxymoron" means 😂

Tinder is a predator app. Not a dating app.

@JimL2883

2 ай бұрын

Yep and loose women go on it.

@andreabc2590

2 ай бұрын

​@@JimL2883yikes, incel much?

@aliciakraynik7674

2 ай бұрын

​@@JimL2883and you would know what that is.

I’m disgusted at how the police thought calling him and asking him to remove social media posts constituted an investigation. Had they even done the bare minimum they would have found he had been reported before for disturbing and threatening behavior towards a woman. Blood is on their hands.

@leannewinter3790

2 жыл бұрын

They can't do anything unless he commits a crime !

@kristy4245

2 жыл бұрын

The police, most times, won’t help until it’s too late. This is why we have to make sure we have a way to protect ourselves. I had a customer at my old job whom I had exchanged numbers with, for business purposes. He started texting and calling me asking me to go out with him. I politely declined. He called me one day, and had a very eery tone to his voice. He very calmly told me “I can see your job from my house. I know your work schedule, and what kind of car you drive. Next time I see you there, I’m going to come in, break your neck, and slit your throat from ear to ear.” I called the police, and they came to meet me. The police officer called him, and said “This is officer so and so with Tulsa police dept, and I’m with (my name), and she told us you have threatened her.” This psycho told the officer “I’ll tell you exactly what I told her. When I see her at work again, I’m gonna come in, break her neck, and slit her throat from ear to ear. I’m from Turkey, and we cut peoples heads off for less.” (he said for less.. but all I had done was decline his advances). This police officer looked at me and said “there’s nothing we can do unless he tries to follow thru with his threat. I do think you should take him seriously, and leave town for awhile.” I asked “is this not terroristic threatening? Can he not be charged for that?” Again he told me “not unless he tries to carry out his threat. I strongly advise you to quit your job for awhile and leave town, and go stay somewhere safe”. I did quit my job, and went a state away to stay with my parents for the next 5 months. I now carry my own protection. The police won’t protect you.

@JaySamurai79

2 жыл бұрын

@@kristy4245 Stay sake Kristy, I pray nothing ever comes of this.

@kristy4245

2 жыл бұрын

@@JaySamurai79 thank you! This was several years ago though..

@JaySamurai79

2 жыл бұрын

@@kristy4245 Okay thats good, and thanks for sharing your experience.

Regardless of social media posts, he was a lunatic and he would have stalked her and killed her regardless. He was insane enough to stab her 75 times in public broad daylight?? Whether her friends had been with her not, if he’s THAT crazy he’d have absolutely attacked them too. He tricked her into falling for him, showing where she lived, he would have found her no matter what. It is absolutely TRAGIC and the only person at fault is HIM. Not her friends, not social media posts, not Molly. Just please be careful with these dating apps.

@katibrownshire8153

2 жыл бұрын

My thoughts as well. The ending seemed a little victim blamey. They specifically say she didn't post on social media that she was going to the gym, he followed her from her place. I'm not saying we shouldn't be careful about what we post on social media, but the blame should be placed directly on the perpetrator.

@lfc1265

2 жыл бұрын

@@katibrownshire8153 exactly!!

@maytalbs9614

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry not agree. I think she and her friend and family could do much more to guarding her. I would of sending her to another state if I needed.

@ozzyoz5210

2 жыл бұрын

@@maytalbs9614 She was unaware of being stalked! We have been lulled asleep for feeling the dangers around us as women. I believe it's imperative to be taught signs of abuse and not downplay it for what it is!!

@reggaefan2700

2 жыл бұрын

Why is she asking for help? 16:51 Her friends told her not to go back with him.

After dealing with multiple toxic people in my life; both family and personal relationships, I’ve learned a lot…one at the top of the list, is to keep the details of your life, completely private!! Never disclose any of your plans or whereabouts to anyone you do not trying! And by all means, NEVER post your life details online for the world to see. You are just inviting trouble into your life. Some people do this today, to make the other person jealous; without thinking of the terrible consequences it can have. Stalkers are extremely unhinged and this is often the tragic result. What a monster!

I've always told people that social media should always be talking about the past not the future. "I went here last night" Rather than "I'm going here tonight" I'm by no means victim blaming, but you have to be careful what you put out there. You never know who's watching.

@noellecandy

Жыл бұрын

This is a really good tip! Thanks for sharing ❤

@rachelgooden9981

Жыл бұрын

I like that! Deep!

@Crystal_chill

Жыл бұрын

I mean…. So true! 🥺

@authenticallytyra7759

Жыл бұрын

This is very good advice! 👍

@Charlie-bh3yk

Жыл бұрын

The last time I dated I made my date fully aware that I was tagging every place we visited and that my friends knew who he was (turned out we also had mutual friends.) Some people would say that’s too much or “how off-putting for him” but, I’d rather live for many more years than risk it. Turns out I was right to be cautious, as he was only after one thing and in my case, being open on Facebook was for my personal safety.

The lesson is when your dear loved one is being harassed and threatened you Don't let them be alone even in public. They need witnesses and support.

@teem5642

2 жыл бұрын

It's not easy to constantly monitor an adult 24/7 as people have their own lives to live.

@carmenalinaiancu3738

2 жыл бұрын

Right? I couldn't believe her friends let her leave the pub by herself when they knew he also was around

@satob7690

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately that could just end up with yourself as well as your friend dead. When someone wants to kill you nothing will stop them, except for their own death.

@heathersparlor

2 жыл бұрын

I think when you get to the point of going to the cops. It is time to unplug and not post your every move. Now, as I say that some people are very determined no matter what precautions you take. I wish it ended with this strong women living.

@joycejy1224

2 жыл бұрын

You should ask the person to protect themselves, that other person needs help.

It's so sad. RIP Molly. All the red signs for intimate partner violence and mental health as well as stalking in a relationship should be taught in schools at early ages.

@princessbuttercup8954

9 ай бұрын

My exact thoughts.

@rubydawn1

6 ай бұрын

I once went to speak at a high school about being in a abusive relationship

I was stalked and threatened with death. I believed it then and more now. I had a friend who was a police officer who escorted me onto a plane and got me out of the country. This saved my life.

@Cici-is9jk

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏾 so happy you’re safe

@DaniHMcV

Жыл бұрын

Change your KZread profile name. I had a similar thing happen and I left the region (within the same country). I never use my real name on any social media that he could somehow trace or even know what I’m watching/saying.

@user-ry8nt3td4c

11 ай бұрын

This is horrible....for the first time I had a sitiation at work, in the end it didnt turn to be anything serious, but I was very affraid that he couls wait for me after work. He was just some nuts guest....But still for woman it is very traumatizing.... the most horrible thing i can imagine is to ve stalkled

@lowlowseesee

9 ай бұрын

Always my best advice. Get as far away as possible. These abusers are next level awful

"He was known to the police" but when she originally came to report his behaviour they simply make a phone call ASKING him to stop? This seems to be a severe case of police negligence.

@bonitafelipe4056

9 ай бұрын

Tuf

We need stricter laws against stalkers. Why does this take so long? So many years later and very little change.

@xChijouChanx

Жыл бұрын

Because police in like...every country won't do anything until they hurt you. it's insane

@shingj4007

Жыл бұрын

I doubt there is any law that would stop crazy people like Josh from doing the things he decided to do.

@JdM84126

Жыл бұрын

yes, or maybe like a restraining orders

@Ellie80681

Жыл бұрын

If they could chase every person that hates someone… they would have to hire everyone in the world. 😢

@l.palmer6747

10 ай бұрын

@@JdM84126 Restraining orders only work if the stalker is law abiding. With the crazy ones it will get you hurt or dead. And basically I think a stalker is crazy anyway.

I want to hear from the girl that agreed to relay information to him. Why did she think that was ok and HOW did he convince her to do it?!

@melissam597

2 жыл бұрын

She's complicit IMO

@willamestrada1121

2 жыл бұрын

Her name is Elizabeth Warren.

@suemonk9021

2 жыл бұрын

Let’s not forget that he was a master manipulator who would have made her believe that Molly was in the wrong. Who knows. He was the murderer.

@TJ-wz3tt

2 жыл бұрын

She should be charged as an accessory

@killmoreturtles

2 жыл бұрын

@@suemonk9021 Well, at least one of the 5 commenters here is reasonable.

27:25.....WHAT?! Why would her friends think letting her walk alone at night, knowing a violent stalker has been threatening her, is a good idea at all?!! They literally said, they watched her leave, and they stayed to have more drinks, and none of them had a second thought about it! I just don't understand their way of thinking?!

@yviikalamendi

5 ай бұрын

Exactly what i was thinking

And nobody came to help when she said she was all alone with him at the gym. Great friends! Telling her to leave the gym is the baddest advice ever.

@user-yd6th5ch5k

2 ай бұрын

Excuse me? Call the police. Don't keep your same routine. Reading Gavin de Becker's The Gift of Fear about stalkers.

It angers me to no end when you can't do basic things like enjoy a dinner, go to the gym, do groceries and go to class, have something bad happen to you and people are like "Well wrong place, wrong time" or "You shouldn't have said you were going to the gym on facebook". Why can't we blame the murdering stalker a$$hole for being where they shouldn't? Why can't we have a system where if someone who has a serious stalking history and is known to the police have some sort of check in program with probation or something. I really don't know the best answer but literally anything is better than a "we'll tell him to leave you alone and best of luck to you" approach from the police.

@ladyelevator5693

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!!! The focus of blame & "lesson learned" is always on the victim, never the criminal or anyone who enabled the criminal. I do believe that once you break up with an abusive person, there should be no further contact of any kind, but sadly, that is easier said than done for alot of women because women have softer hearts. It sucks that people take advantage of that.

@hollyroxy25

2 жыл бұрын

Police don’t do shit until it’s too late. I pressed charges on my ex & warned them how dangerous he was & the officer promised they’d pick him up that weekend. I stayed with my Mom & he showed up multiple times banging on the door screaming outside, when I called 911 I was told there’s nothing they could do about it & that it could take weeks, months, even years to pick someone up on warrants! After 2 1/2 weeks I had to go back home though I really didn’t feel safe. A week later he turned up, pointing a gun in my face threatening me, I managed to run quickly to the neighbors, he shot the gun several times & came banging on their door threatening them then drove off. Police finally arrested him but that incident could’ve been prevented if they’d listened to me & arrested him long before. Someone could’ve been hurt or killed, my neighbors 10 year old daughter was inside their house at the time! Police in my county didn’t even bother to take photos of the bullet casings & take witness statements! Now how are they going to prove what happened in court?? They really are a joke & this is exactly why so many women end up dead!

@stacierose1692

2 жыл бұрын

@@hollyroxy25 oh my im sorry to hear this! Prayers to you🙏🙏

@susandorcean4555

2 жыл бұрын

@@hollyroxy25 I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm so glad they finally arrested him. They really need to change the law. Us women should feel safe and be protected. God bless.🙏🙏💕

@maddiehasyoutube

2 жыл бұрын

You said it perfectly! So tired of this victim blaming world we live in!

I watched this and broke down crying. Her story is literally the same as mine. Thankfully....I had a dad that handled him. I know how much fear she felt.

@a.k.6869

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry you had to go through that 🥺 Im glad you survived! Her story is heartbreaking

@priscillataylor5190

2 жыл бұрын

@Stacey you're so sweet. I fine. This was 12 years ago. I'm happily married now. I'm thankful that's all behind me now.

@a.k.6869

Жыл бұрын

@kitty Tonic you must have a a sad life

@scottandrewhorne4655

Жыл бұрын

God Bless you Priscilla Amen xxxxxxx and God Bless Your Earthly Family Amen xxxxxxx well done to your Dad x

@breaks3085

Жыл бұрын

Your just saying that for online attention

Also if you are dealing with someone like this blocking them isnt enough. Delete all your media accounts change phone number and move house temporarily. Death threats are not to be fucked about with. Speaking from experience I had to move country because of my abuser and stayed under the radar for 6 years and I still feel hes watching me sometimes

@carriebell3566

2 жыл бұрын

Stalkers rarely give up the stalking.

@maryannemaccri704

19 күн бұрын

So sorry 😞

Stabbing anyone is as personal as it gets. To stab someone 75 times is not only overkill but its downright psychotic. Rest in Peace Molly 🙏🏾❤️😢

@Marlaina

7 ай бұрын

They don't have guns in the UK. The weapon of choice is knives and other pointy objects.

@JesusistheonetrueGod

5 ай бұрын

This is why it's important to repent from sin and believe The Gospel of Jesus Christ. So you'll soend an eternity in bliss even if someone stabs you to death.

@DobuDobuDobuDot

5 ай бұрын

@@JesusistheonetrueGod Nice one, you troll.

@bryancoyne9692

4 ай бұрын

U gotta think some ppl just don't have the access to a firearm especially if it's not planned it's def up an personal tho

@bryancoyne9692

4 ай бұрын

Way to many unnecessary details it's still a good story just makes it very long lol

Taking an ex back is even worse than dating itself.

@TheBeepbeep2000

2 жыл бұрын

I. Know most definitely my dear I been single over three years and I'm happy men are narcissistic idiots they act like there entitled for something I've met some really lying bastards in my time wound never take an ex back there pigs

@TheBeepbeep2000

2 жыл бұрын

@KR Gilmore I agree with you my dear woman are equally worse so the world is fucked there is good people's out there its finding them tinder is one of the worse date sites

@Christina_320

Жыл бұрын

Depends on the X and situation but in this case yea no doubt.

@leelunk8235

3 ай бұрын

NEVER TAKE AN EX BACK..BE ALONE..MOST PEOPLE ON EARTH ARE ALONE..DEAL WITH IT

There is too much victim-blaming and not enough rage for the murderous stalker for me.

@cosmicallis7936

2 жыл бұрын

I understand where you're coming from.. however, it can be difficult when you see someone in this situation make alot of wrong choices..😣😣 I think what is more important here is to learn from these types of tragedies and turn the criticism into something constructive and compassionate, like spreading further awareness. Too many people are still very naive to this type of abuse and stalking. predators spacificly target naive, trusting people, especially people in recovery (of any kind) who may be still coming out of a thick mental fog... She should have put off dating imo...😔😔💔💔 Sadly and I'm not saying this in a mean way but her friend didn't exactly give her the best advice.. "don't worry about him, he's just a psycho" WHAT, REALLY!!?!?🤦🤦🤦 with peace and love, I'm sure she didn't mean to but she should have told her to dial 911 (or whatever emergency line the UK has) and told her NOT to go anywhere alone until this dude has backed off, encourage her to shift her fitness knowledge to self defense, etc.. it annoys me that people still think that a stalker is like a bad rash that will go away on its own..🙄🙄 PEOPLE NEED TO GET MORE EDUCATED AROUND THESE ISSUES!!! Again, I say that in a loving way 💚💚💚 because I have been there to..😕😕

@j.j1999

2 жыл бұрын

@@cosmicallis7936 she didn’t do wrong choices! Not one! She did NOTHING that could have prevented this sociopath of killing her. He would have done it regardless, no matter where, no matter when, no matter how protected she feels or is. Stop blaming the victim.

@cosmicallis7936

2 жыл бұрын

@@j.j1999 none of that is true. saying "there was nothing that could have stopped him" is a very narrow minded statement, pretty sure he was not a Mafia boss or a member of the CIA, you are giving this POS way too much credit 🙄🙄 and their is nothing wrong with noticing things that the victim did that was less than perfect. That's not "victim blaming" that's simply learning from someone else's mistakes. That's kinda one of the ways we are supposed to evolve as a species.... really no wonder as to why we are going backwards these days...🤦🤦🤦 Stop enabling!!

@j.j1999

2 жыл бұрын

@@cosmicallis7936 are u dumb? he killed her with 75 stabs! that was hella overkill. because he wanted her dead! if he couldn’t have her nobody could! and he would have done anything to get to kill her. he doesn’t have to be a super cia special agent or a experienced robber to kill her? put your brain on! any all day situation is enough! she couldn’t hide forever in her bedroom couldn’t she? eventually she had to go out shopping, to the doctors, to walk her dog or whatever. He would have gotten the chance eventually and he would have done it under any circumstances. your just ignorant and a victim blamer.

@mariahmcbride9017

2 жыл бұрын

My exact thoughts.

I had an stalker during my university back in the days nothing could be done. I moved twice cities and yet he managed to find me somehow, this is way before any social media on internet. I am glad that now I am careful to who I meet and do a proper investigation before meeting any man and during dating. People are sick mentally and emotionally and you never know when you’ll get one. Just be more aware who you get closed to.

@susanneandersen3417

Жыл бұрын

How did you get away from him in the end?

Heartbroken!! I'm a Dad, and despite how wonderful growing-up should be, the future for my two beloved daughters fills me with dread.

@rubberbiscuit99

Жыл бұрын

Read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin Debecker, and have your girls read it too.

@mangohaeppchen3447

7 ай бұрын

@@rubberbiscuit99This! My father made me read that book before I left for college. No telling how many times it saved me over the past 20 years.

@rubberbiscuit99

7 ай бұрын

@@mangohaeppchen3447 You are so fortunate to have a caring father. ☮️

I cried when Molly’s parents received her diploma. Heartbreaking.

@Mnmidnight22

2 жыл бұрын

I did too. Lol

@MsHaney007

2 жыл бұрын

OMG, I bawled like a baby...how heartbreaking for her parents 💔

@s.taylor8636

2 жыл бұрын

Same. So heart breaking.

@wolfgirlie

2 жыл бұрын

Omg me too, wow what a powerful moment.

@TattooedLuna

2 жыл бұрын

Me too it was so sad

As a victim of stalking, it saved my ass being so aware of my surroundings also Keep your car doors locked while parked or stopped. I parked at a bar a minute later in my side mirror I see a guy and girl walk up both sides of my car and tried to open back doors but was locked still 😭🙏 they walked away. Had a rough life but made me tough baby

@IwasBlueb4

2 жыл бұрын

well said..i hope someone reads ur comment...u cud save some1s life

@tashiavanpelt

Жыл бұрын

@kitty Tonic and Your name should be Kitty toxic

@scottandrewhorne4655

Жыл бұрын

Tashia God Bless you Amen xxxxxxx and God Bless Your Earthly Family Amen xxxxxxx I pray your Earthly life time has improved Amen xxxxxxx

@tashiavanpelt

Жыл бұрын

@@scottandrewhorne4655 thank you very much Scott!!🙏❤️ god bless you and your family. Thank you for the gentle reminder I need to keep focus on him especially with my words 🫶

@scottandrewhorne4655

Жыл бұрын

@@tashiavanpelt Yes Tashia remember Father Jesus loves you and he loves us all Father Jesus is doing his best on a very unbalenced and cruel Earthly World that it has become because of the fallen. Keep the faithTashia and keep up the Good fight xxxxxxx

I know a woman that actually had to leave the country she was living in due to stalking. It is such an awful thing, and so almost impossible to keep yourself safe and to lead a normal life.

@user-ry8nt3td4c

11 ай бұрын

Luckily she was able to leave...some dont have that opportunity due to non eu passport, they basically cannot go anywhere

@vegito179

7 ай бұрын

​@@user-ry8nt3td4cyoo the boogeyman is coming be very afraid 😂

Here's a tip: Get in the car and lock the door immediately, AND start the car immediately. Get acquainted with the way the door lock works, and make it a habit. Pay attention to your surroundings, dont let anyone get too near your car - and if someone makes you uneasy, just leave that area. Just drive away and if you need a minute, find another place to do your bs (texting, makeup, GPS etc). If you take comfort in the fact that your vehicle doors lock automatically, then you must understand that they (generally) do not lock until you actually put the vehicle in gear (drive), just so you know. So when you get in your vehicle, you are very likely gonna have to physically press the 'lock doors' button on the vehicle door. And don't open the trunk or passenger door and bend over to put all your sh*t in the vehicle - this makes you a perfect target for robbery, or kidnap, god forbid. Toss your sh*t in quickly as you get in. Get your big Instagram *ss in the vehicle FAST, and fn lock it up. And as you're sitting in the parking lot, there's no need to have the window right by your head rolled down. This gives any assailant physical access to grab your hair/clothing etc. If necessary, you could roll down the passenger window instead, but not far enuf for someone to reach their body in and physically grab you across the passenger seat, or even slither in your vehicle entirely... When you immediately lock the door, start the vehicle and are parked facing forward (so you can drive forward, not have to reverse out), then you are then in perfect position GTFO immediately, if necessary, and leave your problem in the rear view mirror. I also put my car (standard) in gear and keep my foot on the brake pedal, that way I'm immediately ready to drive off. *** This habit protected me from an altercation (or God knows what??) with a mentally disturbed (I assume) man who ran up to the driver's door of my vehicle as I returned home from work at approx 3 am one morning. He was obscured by other parked vehicles when I pulled up and came out screaming "Why are you doing this to me!?" (No, I was not in his parking spot lol) all the while waving some kind of long object that my brain claims was a sword/machete (I was so startled and frightened, and I fled so quickly, that I don't even know what it was, nor what he looked like). But, because i was confident that I was safely secured in my car (and I always keep my car running until I am actually ready to get out and go inside my house), I knew that I wasok for that moment and I was able to quickly get the heck outta there (without having to think very much about what I was gonna do) before anything bad happened. And if someone pulls a gun on you at your window, and the vehicle is all ready to go, slam that mo-fo in gear and gun it. Don't even think about it. Odds are, you're better off taking your chances than letting someone armed in your vehicle. And if they shoot you as you drive away, they were probably gonna kill you anyways, so you stand at better chance of shot missing you as you flee. Anyone can be the victim if car-jacking, robbery, or whatever, so men and women alike need to be alert. When you make your own security second-nature, it really clears the mind so that you are able to act in order to help yourself when you really need to. Nobody is gonna be able to help you in some situations. Ultimately, it's on you to look out for yourself.

@N0N4M30

Жыл бұрын

This 💯

@NachoAE360

Жыл бұрын

100%. Especially the locking doors, the MOMENT I get in the car I lock the doors.

Nothing is ever a coincidence. Always think like an investigator.

@hearmenow909

2 жыл бұрын

Don't be daft, of course coincidences happen, just not your ex turning up to places you're at, 2 times on the trot.

@finalfantasy3808

Жыл бұрын

Everything happens for a reason, nothing is random

Women! Please, as soon as you get in the car, LOCK THE DOORS! If you must roll the windows down, wait till you are out on the road. The time between getting in the car and starting the engine and engaging the transmission is a very big danger window. You can't run and you are hidden from the view of passers by.

@constancewashington9019

2 жыл бұрын

Always, and drive with your car doors locked...

@kristy4245

2 жыл бұрын

YES! Make it a HABIT to ALWAYS lock your doors the second you get in!! And ALWAYS pay attention to your surroundings!

@Straightfromtheheart8691

2 жыл бұрын

True but that would be useless if he carries a gun

@suzannewebb7913

2 жыл бұрын

Check the back seat before you get in car as well

“Don’t worry about him he’s a psycho” what a good reason not to worry

This is why I don’t give people too many chances…you see red flags ….RUN!

Got stalked for decades until my stalker died of cancer. Only then I stopped looking over my shoulder or scanning restaurant tables to make sure he wasn't sitting somewhere watching me.

@angelmarie1591

2 жыл бұрын

That’s crazy I’m glad he didn’t hurt you before he died

@pagandeva2000

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry that you had to be so stressed for many years. Glad he’s dead

@kerrimuir1

2 жыл бұрын

Wow.

@nataliaswiderska2111

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly my story. My stalker has died very young around 2 years ago. I seriously thought its a karma

@pagandeva2000

2 жыл бұрын

@@nataliaswiderska2111 I don’t even know him, but can’t say he’d be missed. Thank goodness he’s dead.

I feel like this video needs to be shared with every single high school and college student as something mandatory that needs to be watched every year. This is exactly why you should not post where you are and what you’re doing on social media. It’s definitely a huge cautionary tale.

@goodnessmercybegood2all450

2 жыл бұрын

You are profoundly correct xxxxx

@ccc4102

2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree.

@reggaefan2700

2 жыл бұрын

Why is she asking for help? 16:51 Her friends told her not to go back with him.

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat

2 жыл бұрын

@@reggaefan2700 . Have you ever been in such a relationship? They are extremely hard to extract yourself from, and normally require several attempts to break free for good.

@MarshasJourney

2 жыл бұрын

Yep I always post after the fact and if it's a place I go repeatedly like the gym and never post the location

Whoever "fed" him information should be jailed

This woman giving him info on Molly's movements should face charges.

@ellie8263

Ай бұрын

Absolutely!

The moment he showed up at the gym, I would have ran out of there! He clearly had sinister plans. What an evil man. And he stabbed her 75 times!! Just sit and count that out while banging on a table, he had to be so full of rage to do this, this poor girl didn't stand a chance, rest her soul.

@MsVanorak

Жыл бұрын

i can't think why she didn't lock her car door the very instant she got in. it's a reflex if you are frightened.

@deusvultpictures6550

Жыл бұрын

I think I’d have got tired after about 30 stabs my lawd

I learned to never post where I am until I'm gone ...rest easy Molly ..great channel

@denisrailey777

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Blondie? Lol.

@corky3550

2 жыл бұрын

It's a pity she posted at all under the circumstances

@eamonnquigley2125

2 жыл бұрын

well put young women have to be more carefull then men................... infact men really havent a clue how to date girls anymore................. iam old school i was always thought to respect women and never touch or hit a women..

@TROLLDETECTIVE2

2 жыл бұрын

@illegally Blonde It's TD 🕵️

Fair to say he has some serious 'mummy issues'

Molly has a crazy ex boyfriend who had abused her on social media, threatened her, and stalked her, and she thought it was a good idea to continue posting about her whereabouts. Awareness and self preservation should be taught in school.

@TravelAlwaysOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Should be taught at home too.

@ellie8263

Ай бұрын

If she hadn’t posted where she was he’d have probably air tagged her still without her seeing, as there are cases where victims are airtagged without knowing. Stalkers are savvy with technology and will use every trick in the book to know what their victim is up to and where

I ended a tumultuous, abusive two year relationship and my ex showed up to my house drunk once after. Immediately filed a restraining order. Best decision of my life. Always play it safe. People are ducking crazy.

@kristy4245

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, restraining orders aren’t always enough. Some people are so fixated on killing that person, they don’t care about a restraining order.

@laviniafameitau9056

2 жыл бұрын

@@kristy4245 Yep! If a restraining order stops them from showing up to your house, I don’t think they are in to really “kill” you.

@cernunnos_lives

2 жыл бұрын

You probably dodged a bullet this time. Sure the next girl has a nice surprise...

@laviniafameitau9056

2 жыл бұрын

@@cernunnos_lives Not always the case so people need to stop generalising “abusive” behaviour from spouses. Not all end in murder. Not all do the same thing to their next partner.

@natashabegley1346

2 жыл бұрын

The problem is a restraining order does nothing if the person doesn't care! Man poor women die while having retraining orders on their ex partners! I had one years back and my family put him in the hospital some humans just ain't normal they only known violence!

I was stalked but survived. I would never date a man ever again. I'm too fearful for my life.

@missyd7120

2 жыл бұрын

that is sad that it has made you so scared that you feel like you can never date again ,i hope you change your mind one day and meet someone special that will show you love and make you feel safe. not all men are like that and no i'm not a guy i just don't think all men are bad but i stand by your decision as it is yours to make it is so sad he made you feel this way and i am glad you got out of the situation safe.

@debravan1167

2 жыл бұрын

There’s good people in the world. Not all men are bad.

@stacylynn8494

2 жыл бұрын

Focus on God not finding someone to make you whole.

@euniceaddo1160

2 жыл бұрын

Wait til they call you a man hater and it’s not all men bs 🙄

@euniceaddo1160

2 жыл бұрын

@@debravan1167Crime stats hun crime stats.

What kind of friends know she has a stalker but don't walk w her to make sure she is safe? Why didn't she IMMEDIATELY lock the doors KNOWING SHE HAS A STALKER

@RightToFreedomGirl

4 ай бұрын

@mmm ANSWER: the kind of friends who have beendrinking alcohol & inhibitions r low & judgment diminished

This is truly sad. It's imperative to never underestimate these kind of circumstances. Don't friend ppl you don't actually know or post your every movement across social media. Nor leave an event you were stalked to alone. As a woman, situations can get dangerous quickly and we must do everything possible to protect ourselves. May she RIP.

Girls, please post past events. Don't put online where you are going and what you're doing. DM the friends involved in a planned night out, but not to everyone. God bless everyone stay happy and stay safe 🙏🙏🙏

I was also in an abusive relationship when my ex told me I deserve to die, he would jump my gate and camp in the darkness outside my home. I TOOK IT SERIOUS AND I MOVED 1000 KM AWAY. I LIVED. Please take it serious and just move disappear

I’m all seriousness… WHY WHEN YOU FEEL THREATENED AND STALKED would you ever in your right mind still post a current update of your location? Truly 🤦‍♀️ I’ll never understand. That played into this whole thing.

@EricaChavira-on4oz

7 ай бұрын

Exactly!

That’s a huge problem with posting your locations on Facebook. Even things as simple as posting when you’re on holiday will let people know you’re not at home.. I don’t know why everyone has to mark their locations to the world

This was Molly's first serious relationship. As soon as I heard that my heart ached. Such a sad case 😞

@thaistomp

2 жыл бұрын

She sure knew how to pick 'em.

@haydeemaldonado1733

2 жыл бұрын

Such a great human being, such a big loss, 😥.

@breaks3085

Жыл бұрын

Sad she didn't even get a fair chance in life,

@sonofhibbs4425

7 ай бұрын

@@thaistomp yeah, she should’ve used her psychic powers to know everything in the world. 🙄

@thaistomp

7 ай бұрын

@@sonofhibbs4425 Lol, the guy was a walking red flag. Girls need to stop dating these goofy narcissist dudes.

I know all too well how she felt. I have a serious stalker. There are no boundaries. Imagine being violated and having been watched for 3.5 years, possibly longer. It is literal HELL. I have PTSD from it and will never give my number out even to a friend. Everything was hacked, etc. Evil demons will get what’s coming to them.

@missylee1539

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you are taking steps to keep him away from you sweetie. It’s a crazy world. You are in my prayers. I couldn’t imagine the horror of that.

@wherethewildflowersare

2 жыл бұрын

@@missylee1539 thank you. Oh yes I am! I have done and tried everything and he is still 10 steps ahead of me. Please pray for my family and I. God bless you 🤍🙏🏻😊

@magenta.indigena

2 жыл бұрын

get a gun

@adnamahad9678

Жыл бұрын

Girl be careful never be alone at home at any circumstances and move to another city i will pray for you beautiful lady.

@wherethewildflowersare

Жыл бұрын

@@adnamahad9678 thank you! I live in a different state now. God bless 🙏🏻

There needs to be an awareness-movement regarding this type of dangerous personality. Young women are sometimes flattered that someone wants them all to themselves. Instead they should be freaked out and run the other way, fast.

I’m in no way blaming her but young people please stop posting your location! It’s way to many sick people in this world

@blondie9422

Ай бұрын

Agreed! Obviously these sickos are the ones in the wrong but we can’t control them. We can only control our own actions. Posting exact locations is only going to add fuel to the fire. It’s like letting the fox know where the hen house is.

I don’t understand how Molly’s friends didn’t accompany her to her car that night. So sad her friends didn’t even do this.

@w-n-cw-n-c923

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing

@sarahguy8798

2 жыл бұрын

agree, I would have left with her and made her stay at my place.

@elisa.r.

2 жыл бұрын

Because unfortunately not all people realise the situation they are in is dangerous. Also they were not with her at the gym. They should have told her to lock herself in the bathroom or something and call the police. Ultimately they didn’t think he could have killed her.

@ddajani45

2 жыл бұрын

He wanted to kill her that night or another they can't be with her 24/7 ppl like him don't stop outcome in cases like this is almost always Grimm

@the_ravens_room

2 жыл бұрын

It's not her friend's fault. It's his. You shouldn't understand why he attacked her that night. It would make no difference whether or not her friends were there, he would have waited for his opportunity. Friends play no role in the 8 stages of coercive control, ending with homicide.

I like the narrator voice, very well calibrated the entire time. Professional with empathy. Brilliant.

@catlady1017

2 жыл бұрын

yes I agree 😊 I think it’s Kim Marsh

@charliez4837

2 жыл бұрын

@@catlady1017 Yeah it's her.

@MsAmique

2 жыл бұрын

This girl is dead and you choose to comment on the narrators voice.

@elizabethmenegon8057

2 жыл бұрын

Ms whatever, this girl is dead and you choose to comment on my comment.

@kyliekyliekyliekylie

2 жыл бұрын

@@MsAmique what's your point? They never said anything disrespectful about the victim. 😟

Instead of leaving the gym after the guy showed up at the gym to stalk her, she should have called the cops for him stalking her. This is all the more reason I work out at the gym with staff on hand.

I was stalked by an abusive ex boyfriend long before the internet. I noticed he was following my car to wait for me to drive home, so I drove to the police station and laid on my horn. It worked. Take things like this seriously, young girls. Much of this happens when we are college age.

Not having a "serious relationship" does not mean anything is missing...

@melissam597

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of people, especially women, are brainwashed by society into thinking otherwise. Sad but true.

@meesamagill1193

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Glenn. I was 100% saying the same thing when the narrator said that🙄

Why don't police treat crimes of stalking more seriously? All stalkers are essentially pressure cookers; they must need a very slow crime day to focus on cases of cyber bullying/stalking!

@apinychuang1624

2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s because stalking isn’t technically seen as a crime. It’s not like assault or burglary where a criminal act has been committed. Even though stalkers could have the intent of harming the person they’re stalking. Police can’t just arrest someone because they think the person might commit an act of violence. There’s a lack of certainty.

@kristy4245

2 жыл бұрын

@@apinychuang1624 - Stalking IS a crime though. It’s a felony charge if the police chose to pursue it. Unfortunately, most times they don’t.

@heide-raquelfuss5580

2 жыл бұрын

Law does not care. Period.

@Aeon1019

Жыл бұрын

They prefer One to be DEAD!

@TheSuperHarrygeorge

Жыл бұрын

@@kristy4245 when this murder occurred I don’t think stalking was a crime. Thankfully now it is recognised as such and p9lice and courts can act.

When someone is unstable you delete your social media! Don't share anything private online!

What an enormous loss. This breaks my heart.

The red flag was that he was rejected by his mother. That caused a rage in him and disturbed his relationships with women. If he had positive, loving relationship with his mother that probably would not had happened. All the women he dated rejected him just like his mother did. That would reignite his childhood wound over and over again.

@viggle9482

2 жыл бұрын

sounds like a narcissist setting.

@Void0420

2 жыл бұрын

Lots of people are rejected by there parents. Most of them don’t go around stalking people and stabbing them 75 times.

@orbitalpl1

2 жыл бұрын

@@Void0420 - that is true, but some people do… Some people who are terribly abused kill the abuser, some don’t, or even forgive them. I guess it depends on the personality structure or maybe the severity of abuse, but the truth is that abuse, rejection, abandonment, etc. can cause a lot of psychological damage in child. You you track the childhood history of people who committed terrifying crimes. They were severely abused either physically or psychologically. Children who are raised in a loving environment do not kill.

@frances.e.s8203

2 жыл бұрын

@@Void0420 this is true. But humans aren’t carbon copies of each other and won’t turn out exactly the same. It’s far too complex. But absolutely not being raised by his mother was a major contributing factor here.

@clrr8400

2 жыл бұрын

@@Void0420 exactly

I had a deranged stalker who was a 5th degree blackbelt, he taught Tae Kwon Do & all his underling blackbelts from his Do Jo assisted him in his stalking of me. When I moved to avoid him, he would follow my children home from their activities to find where I had moved to as he knew my routine & the details of my life. Fortunately, these were the days before social media. To this day I am not on social media but somehow I am in other peoples posts & see how difficult it would be to hide. To lose my stalker, I had to have my 2 older school age children go stay with their father while I took my baby (stalkers child) & hid. As a nurse I did not dare work at a hospital or nursing home where he'd be looking for me. I did private duty & hid for 3 years until he finally gave up & moved on. I know he would have killed me as at the end he was telling me how he was going to kill me & what he would do with my dead body. My monster is now dead, God is good. He died of liver cirrhosis at age 59 as he was an alcoholic.

@adnamahad9678

Жыл бұрын

Wow hatts off to you you are a survivor.

@nickisnyder3450

Жыл бұрын

@@adnamahad9678 thanks....odd telling that story here to strangers but this story was a trigger

@adnamahad9678

Жыл бұрын

@@nickisnyder3450 indeed you shouldn't shy away from speaking about it even to strangers im sure they can learn survival skills from you sharing your experience with people especially kind hearted who are flooded in the comment some are survivors and some are also scared of something like this happening to them so you did amazing by sharing it with all us.

@latasha195

Жыл бұрын

Yayyyyyyyy glad he died so that you have no more worries about him. I am so sorry you went through all of that but I am so glad that you are here to tell your story. I've been stalked and harassed but thank God not to this dangerous extent. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@latasha195

Жыл бұрын

Yayyyyyyyy glad he died so that you have no more worries about him. I am so sorry you went through all of that but I am so glad that you are here to tell your story. I've been stalked and harassed but thank God not to this dangerous extent. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Girls, always lock your door immediately as you get into your car! You never know if there is any psycho around...

@vinny4411

7 ай бұрын

Guys, stay away from women. They are nothing but trouble these days. MGTOW !,

This other girl should be charged in some sort of way too.

75 stabs??? Unbelievable...unimaginable scene for my brain! Rest in peace beautiful angel!

These type of cases are shockingly common... when poeple think of the violence of being rejected they often think of men who throw acid in the face of women who reject them in developing countries.. but look it happens all over the world even in the wealthiest countries.. so tragic...

I know we live in an age of social media but PLEASE women, DO NOT POST WHERE YOU ARE GOING OR WHERE YOU ARE. Post where you went AFTER you are safely home. So many women make this mistake and it puts them in a vulnerable position.

Why would she put on Facebook about where she is going, pls people stop putting to much personal information on Facebook or Instagram, RIP Molly❤

I watch a lot of true crime, but I actually gasped in shock at what happened to Molly. When her parents turned to see everyone in Rochester Cathedral in applause and ovation, I cried. God bless Molly 👼and her friends and family.

Molly’s story brings so much needed attention to women who are or have been stalked. There needs to be more protection for people in these situations. The police should have provided Molly with more resources and support. Not provoke her stalker with a phone call. I feel this is where she was truly failed.

@mrsmba2u881

2 жыл бұрын

I agree it just made him go all the way left.

@dreamweaver8798

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Like a slap on the wrist would have been more action! A phone call? Really? Why didn’t they DO something?!

@sandisandii2033

2 жыл бұрын

I agree , yet I find that these women are usually warned by someone..but the victim will says things like "hes not going to hurt me" or "Dont worry ill be fine" Then they'll walk right into their killers hands.. Most dont see it coming...

@jackselle4607

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandisandii2033 I think a lot of domestic abuse victims don’t see it coming but it’s not that easy to get out. It took me 5 years to get out. Molly did do something, she left, she took action, the police failed her

@candicemarie5310

2 жыл бұрын

@@jackselle4607 I’m glad you are safe.

Never resort to meeting people on line.

When the Police said to him, "We are not going to hear more about this, aren't we ? His arrogant reply should have been a red flag. But yet they decided to do nothing even while he had this history of violent stalking behavior. So, it doesnt surprise me 2 women a week are victim of such behavior and violence. It should be clear by now that sending people home with a "good luck" and "stay safe" doesnt really work.

Life without parole! Its about damn time that criminal gets what's deserving of him. WTF is Tinder not taken down. Too many horrific stories about people meeting on tinder

@johnscanlon2598

2 жыл бұрын

Because for a lot of good people it works out

@brendaleary9281

2 жыл бұрын

@@johnscanlon2598 Okay this is good, but the risks are to die for

@foxxycleopatra615

2 жыл бұрын

Someone could just as easily be a psychopathic stalker murderer if you met them at a grocery store, with your friends and even in church. Tinder isn’t the problem. Psychopaths are the problem.

@TheCalliBaby

Жыл бұрын

I get where you’re coming from, but it’s no more dangerous than meeting someone in public. I was abused by guys I’d met organically in person, even someone I knew since elementary school. Dating apps are just another vehicle for these psychopaths and narcissists to meet potential victims, but they can find them virtually anywhere, on the internet and outside of the internet. I met my current boyfriend on Tinder, and our friends met their current girlfriend and fiancé on Bumble and Tinder respectively. We all just need to be careful of who we’re interacting with and reporting behavior that is suspected to be dangerous to the proper authorities.

@calebkent6706

Жыл бұрын

Third cousin of mine went to meet a woman last year both were 19-20 then when he arrived realized it was a robbery setup and she sent three guys to beat him up he got away luckily but yea tinder is a place with people waiting to kill or rob someone

I remember years ago (like 15 years ago), people would post on FB when they were leaving for vacation and where they were going and when they would return. Then their house would get broken into when they were gone... NEVER post on social media where you are going to be! Always post AFTERWARDS! It was one of the basic online safety measures we were told to follow

With a stalker NOTHING is coincidence!

I’ve just watched this one and also the Alice Ruggles case. As well as the obvious takeaways about how evil these guys are... I also find it fairly jaw dropping that these guys are willing to throw away their own lives and go to prison. How can you be that blinded by bitterness towards one person that you’re willing to destroy multiple lives, including your own? It’s sad when nice girls unknowingly get with these absolute lunatics. Lots of obsessive, controlling types out there it seems... and the obsession doesn’t end after a breakup, it just seems to increase. I feel for girls caught up in these situations, not knowing how to get away, and worrying about how the guy will react if she dumps him.

@gigicolada

8 ай бұрын

I thought of Alice too. It seems so avoidable but these guys will do anything to hurt their target.

@JaneA544

4 ай бұрын

It's sad that ANY girl u knowingly gets with these nutjobs. I think education should start young about respecting the decisions of each other when you break up, but girls in particular should be taught how to see the red flags

Amazingly, these friends sensed this bad guy from the start, especially Emilia Davies. The police should’ve checked his records, and then leave him immediately. Her death is so sad, because she seemed very kind! Please be careful, because men are MURDERING women in scary numbers everywhere. Lastly, always lock your car, even while you’re in it. He should NEVER be released! These are NOT victim shaming points, but a few tips to help us, because the Police may have been her only hope, after meeting these monsters!

It's heartbreaking that her 1st relationship ended tragically. Only a psychopath would stalk someone. Why doesn't the law and police treat it more seriously and protect the victim?

@TheVeek192

2 жыл бұрын

Know what? The police are BUSY. I'm not saying that they don't have an obligation to protect the public, but that there is SO MUCH MORE PUBLIC than there are police. There simply aren't enough police to follow up on every issue.

@ThePrincessnady1

2 жыл бұрын

They don’t care about women

@IvyCowboy

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheVeek192 that is such a sad and disappointing take.

@francesbrown6990

2 жыл бұрын

The police have very high rates of DV themselves, its like asking the fox to guard the hen house. Really with the murderer's history he should have been on their radar.

@YouTubeoooooooooo

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. I went through something similar with an ex. He would do the same thing- contact my family and tell them private things to make me look bad, stalked me, chased me down in a car with a gun, etc. I called the police multiple times and showed them texts he sent threatening my life. They minimized everything and did not take me seriously. Told me to get a restraining order which was impossible because I had no address to serve him at since he was drifting from place to place at that point. I had to leave the state god only knows what may have happened had I not done that

Watching all these true crime shows just makes me feel grateful because I've learned so much from them. Rest in peace molly and I'm so sorry your life was taken too soon. Ladies please be careful out there. Listen to your gut. Be safe

If they can't possess you, they will try to destroy you! Unbelievably scary!

this made me cry, especially when the friends started crying. The feeling that they wished they could have helped her more is evident. RIP Molly.

I have never understood why people are posting their actual whereabouts on social media, some even for the public. This was not the case here but as you could see there are ways to get to this piece of information. Sorry to hear what happened to her.

@azcrum

2 жыл бұрын

I truly believe that most of those who post about their whereabouts don’t even think twice about the danger. Young people think their invincible and nothing bad can happen to them until it does. I recall way back when I was their age, I never thought I was putting myself in danger on anything.

@arianan1996

2 жыл бұрын

I agree! My aunt post about everything she does and I’m constantly worried about her but she always says “it won’t happen to me.” Like anything can happen to anyone. I know we don’t like our minds going there but thinking that way will get you in so much trouble

@makocadey

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Me neither

@candycanes7581

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t know why anyone would ever post their whereabouts, Especially if you have a stalker and have just been to the police and you fear for your life. I’m certainly not victim blaming. Molly didn’t know she was involved with a narcissistic psychopath. But, all the signs are there. More people need to be educated about narcissistic abuse.

@TheVeek192

2 жыл бұрын

How about wondering WHY PEOPLE KILL? That's the act that's against the law. It's not against the law to post your location.

It’s so crazy how police don’t detain a man who is actively known for threatening women repetitively before he can actually act upon these things. Threats need to be illegal and punishable by law and maybe we would catch these acts before it is too late.

This is why women need strong men in their life. Women need to start involving their fathers again on their dating life. Men scare off weak men like this. If her father, brother, husband knew this was happening there is no way they would allow this. The problem is that women will call those men controlling for trying to keep them safe from men like this killer. We civilized this world so much that we forgot how dangerous it really is. Ladies, stop saying you don’t need men. You do. The police can’t save you every time.

@sonnycorleone2602

2 жыл бұрын

Andrew, I agree100% with all your Great points. If I was Molly's brother I would of scared this stalker off by putting the fear of god into him if he ever bothered Molly again by severelly beating him up. Or get a plainclothes cop-even pretending to be a university student- guarding Molly at all times and if the stalker strikes Arrest him!

When you see the first sign of a Narcissist is controlling..people needs too realize if someone don't wanna be with you leave them alone.. So heartbreaking such a beautiful woman..

@dr.z3426

2 жыл бұрын

It's weird how everyone who ever gets murdered is such an angel. Lol..

@Alexandra-xt1vf

2 жыл бұрын

@@dr.z3426 Kind people get targeted by psychos

@dr.z3426

2 жыл бұрын

@@Alexandra-xt1vf that is a gross over simplification of reality

@Alexandra-xt1vf

2 жыл бұрын

@@dr.z3426 Nice people are more likely to be taken advantage of bc they are more naive and trusting but experience allows people to learn to break that cycle if they choose.

@dr.z3426

2 жыл бұрын

@@Alexandra-xt1vf Niceness is a quality that all people possess it's not a person

😔I saw the title for the first time and thought it said 'I Killed My Stalker' and almost felt some sort of victory but my heart sank after I double checked. RIP Molly...

@shaniecegullison

2 жыл бұрын

Omg same I thought that too and then my heart sunk

I'm so very sorry this happened to such a young, vibrant, beautiful, talented woman. My sincerest heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. As someone that was kidnapped at the young age of 15, I Never post anything on social media, that's personal, much less where I am, or where I'm going. My heart goes out to sweet Molly.😭

No street smarts shown by anyone. Poor girl

Lesson- If you are being stalked do not post online information about yourself So sad for Molly

@kdfree91

8 ай бұрын

I'd even go one step further by saying that women should make it a constant habit of locking their doors as soon as they get inside their car.

So tragic. You just never know what's going on in someone's head.

@the_ravens_room

2 жыл бұрын

There are 8 stages of coercive control, 7 of these act as a red flags, the last stage being homicide. The signs are there, not everyone knows the severity of them though.

@pilotmburu

Жыл бұрын

Actually, you do. You ignore the red flags.

Imagine having absolutely no life. Because that's every stalker.

I get mad when I watch these things. There’s this instinct that we have and it’s called a gut feeling. If your gut is telling you something is wrong you get out of there. This is where I feel that people that are either to public or grow up shelters don’t realize you need to follow your gut. It’s not that you don’t want to be wrong it’s literally there is something wrong. And if your gut is telling you to go then go. Never ignore your gut feeling.

My deepest condolences to Molly's friend and family. She was such a beautiful light in this dark and cruel world. It seems like the brightest lights are always extinguished first. May her memory and message live on in the hearts of those who loved her in the correct and safe way. I never got the chance to know her, but I will remember her from this video forever. RIP MOLLY YOU ARE REMEMBERED!!!?

@anitabuck9823

2 жыл бұрын

He is crazy

@guyrabinowitz

2 жыл бұрын

Why the question mark at the end of your comment?

@AbdulHannan-zh9oo

2 жыл бұрын

Assalamullikom?

@richardnixon8720

2 жыл бұрын

@@anitabuck9823 thanks for that amazingly obvious take darling

@staceyg861

2 жыл бұрын

It’s always the most loving and trusting ones that stuff like this happens to. It’s because they are so loving and trusting that they are preyed upon! It’s really a sad situation because having a good heart should not make us targets but it does! She was a beautiful girl with such a lively spirit and a progressive outlook on life. Very smart and knew what she wanted! Stories like this just hurts my heart I tell you! S.I.P. Heavenly Angel! You are with your father God now! No if ands or but about any of it!

I realized that social media is as "safe" as meeting someone in a bar or a party. There is and never was a warranty on the kind of person one can meet through any of these ways. Acknowledge of character and personality is something that takes time and observation. Even people whom are married for many years find stuff, overtime, that doesn't work for them; let alone dangerous behaviour. All we can do is use as much common sense as possible and hope for the best. Greetings from Toronto.

@johannas.l.brushane2518

2 жыл бұрын

And it's really disturbing that in this day and age there are people who seem completely in belief that they really are entitled to have someone who doesn't have any such feeling for them. As if they were dealing with a dog that ran off when they opened a door and goes after them and try to put a leash on them?

@orionxtc1119

2 жыл бұрын

If someone wants to meet "online", they are taking a huge risk... most people meet in real life in school/uni, clubs, bars etc where they can assess a person more intimately as well as their friends...

@TJ-wz3tt

2 жыл бұрын

Background check

@kerrimuir1

2 жыл бұрын

@@orionxtc1119 there is no difference meeting people in these places opposed to "online". Takes time for someone's crazy to come out. You could be living with someone for months or years and still not fully know what's going on in their melon.

The way that cops legit never help anyone until it’s too late. 😣

It’s insane to me how it takes murdering someone for stalking to be a thing in our world of justice in whatever country they’re in.