How Men Show Interest In A Woman | Men's BODY LANGUAGE Decoded

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In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick expands his discussion on male body language and how men show interest in a woman. Stay tuned through the end of the video to become an expert in men's moves while Ryan brings you an in-depth video in men's body language decoded.

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  • @datingcoachryanpatrick
    @datingcoachryanpatrick9 күн бұрын

    *NEW SUMMER 2024* I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂 Check out my course offerings here 👉 www.boyfriendblueprint.com/courses

  • @citygirl999
    @citygirl9994 жыл бұрын

    I'd love to see a video on shy guys and body language since they act differently.

  • @afox78

    @afox78

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes !

  • @wendyzelaya182

    @wendyzelaya182

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes plssss pretty pleasu

  • @kikiocro58

    @kikiocro58

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree!

  • @icysnow57cold64

    @icysnow57cold64

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't see how men and women can romantically bond with each other. I heard that women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and I heard that science shows that women can bond very well with each other. I heard that generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a male can isolate himself and grief alone. I also heard that women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. I also heard that women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. I also heard that most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. I also heard that females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why girls tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than guys do. I also heard that women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. I also heard that women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. I also heard that most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. I also heard that most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. I also heard that the bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. And I also heard that the friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. So if those things are true (which I am not sure at all), then how can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, men and women are both mentally and physically different from each other (which is true), but would that at all effect the bonding between a male and female?

  • @trulylvd8320

    @trulylvd8320

    3 жыл бұрын

    It ends of being the same even if he is shy. A shy guy will have to decide to break out his shell if he wants you. If he doesn’t leave that boy alone. No sympathy

  • @Anastasia-xj6vh
    @Anastasia-xj6vh3 жыл бұрын

    ryan's video: how men show interest in a woman 🥺😌🥰 ryan's background: SEX TOYS!

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    3 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @riensamson8721

    @riensamson8721

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ryan:Ryans toy review Ryan: Ryan talks sex toys!

  • @mimig474

    @mimig474

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @rorolight5463

    @rorolight5463

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @swiisstwist7046

    @swiisstwist7046

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol I seen that 2

  • @LadyHappyrainbow
    @LadyHappyrainbow4 жыл бұрын

    my crush: *gets closer to me* me: JESUS U SCARED ME

  • @HeartCenteredUniverse1111

    @HeartCenteredUniverse1111

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @megancrowley6337

    @megancrowley6337

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmao i knew i had a twin SOMEWHERE out there

  • @Icyyddoll

    @Icyyddoll

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me af trying to act "casual" while blocking my own opportunities 😂😭👏🏻👏🏻

  • @smilemoore

    @smilemoore

    4 жыл бұрын

    😁😁😁😁

  • @elizabenadventures4523

    @elizabenadventures4523

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true! 😂😂

  • @gabiposts
    @gabiposts4 жыл бұрын

    if he ain't fixing his socks he ain't the one ladies

  • @amandamorse825

    @amandamorse825

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao.

  • @MermaidV666

    @MermaidV666

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmfaooooo😂😂😂😂

  • @marisamarino7596

    @marisamarino7596

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s great!!!

  • @jenniferbloomfield3656

    @jenniferbloomfield3656

    3 жыл бұрын

    What if he doesn't wear socks?

  • @marciasaephan9431

    @marciasaephan9431

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wut? 😆

  • @mmaantj
    @mmaantj4 жыл бұрын

    When i talk to my crush i cant stop smiling and i feel like an idiot Literally the only thing that makes me smile atm

  • @her3048

    @her3048

    3 жыл бұрын

    Totally relateable

  • @chrysichrysi7889

    @chrysichrysi7889

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup, relatable.

  • @iuliusfoyas8159

    @iuliusfoyas8159

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are feeling natural, then

  • @nohemizamudio1208

    @nohemizamudio1208

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same ahhhHhh

  • @sarapatch616
    @sarapatch6164 жыл бұрын

    Me:Lawd send me a sign he likes me🙏 Guy: does all 17 signs Me: I don't think he likes me😞🙄😂😂😂😂

  • @Icyyddoll

    @Icyyddoll

    4 жыл бұрын

    😭😭meeeee

  • @BritneyPhyllis

    @BritneyPhyllis

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just did that! 😅 I recognised most of these and then thought “na he definitely does this to every girl he talks to” 😭😂

  • @sarapatch616

    @sarapatch616

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@BritneyPhyllis girl same!!!! 🤣🤣

  • @happyheart8261

    @happyheart8261

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg this is so me 😂 I literally have no idea when a guy likes me unless he bluntly tells me and even then I'm like hmmm is he just being polite lol

  • @VixeyTeh

    @VixeyTeh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol.

  • @Novembermayhem707
    @Novembermayhem7073 жыл бұрын

    "I know this is true because this is what my notes say" 😂

  • @danielaramos6208

    @danielaramos6208

    3 жыл бұрын

    I read your comment the same time he said it lol🤣

  • @annaknekrin2441
    @annaknekrin24413 жыл бұрын

    The faces this guy makes had me laughing so hard lmao

  • @annelydiataranger7337
    @annelydiataranger73373 жыл бұрын

    Imagine having a crush and you desperately looking for any sign that he likes you, but you can't find any, EXCEPT ONE and you think he likes you. If you, like me, have done this he probably thinks you're crazy...

  • @VixeyTeh
    @VixeyTeh3 жыл бұрын

    O...M....G... He's done all 17 of these things. In fact the eye wrinkles and huge smile kinda bothered me... like in finding Nemo, when the shark grins to be friendly. Like I got scared... but now I know it's because he likes me... I think I'm even more scared. Lol. (I love him to bits, I'm just also scared of getting my heart torn up again.)

  • @Elyhhk

    @Elyhhk

    2 жыл бұрын

    lmaoooooooo

  • @Mssbeti
    @Mssbeti4 жыл бұрын

    You're really nicest dating coach ever

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Aww thanks! That made my Monday! 😄

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Régine Demuynck Haha thanks! 🤗

  • @animalames78

    @animalames78

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes I agree - the nicest 🌟😊

  • @smileyhappyradio
    @smileyhappyradio2 жыл бұрын

    My abusive husband left me in the dust with steps, and then would yell back, "you walk like a snail!" I'm now divorced. Its been 20 years since I dated, so I'm watching these know what to expect. Kinda funny and entertaining to watch. I did it all wrong before.

  • @ajflick7500
    @ajflick75003 жыл бұрын

    One thing I learned from watching body language videos is that when a guy sees you, such as you're passing by each other at work, he'll raise his eyebrows. Usually accompanied with that open smile but sometimes he might be self-conscious and not smile but isn't aware he's raising his eyebrows. Once I knew this, I started watching this guy who I thought liked me and he did it! He also did the man spreading thing once so noticeably I thought he was trying to do the splits! He did many of the things mentioned in this video but then it turns out he's a malignant narcissist who made my bosses think I was chasing him and he had no interest in me.

  • @MaryamKhan-vf3zo

    @MaryamKhan-vf3zo

    7 ай бұрын

    Oppss... That's crazy! This suggests that this body language signals interest but doesn't necessarily mean that the other person has good intentions for you.

  • @pada5992
    @pada59923 жыл бұрын

    "10. (opening a door for you, guiding you through a crowd, being protective) is the last thing on a guy's mind to do is if he's not interested in you" ... well yes. i have repeatedly seen men acting all "protective" around perfectly happy healthy young women, using the opportunity to gently touch her lower back, while ignoring a person right next to them, maybe juggling two kids and groceries while the door won't open. while i always thought helping that other person out would be the attractive thing to do.

  • @girasol225
    @girasol2253 жыл бұрын

    I thought my crush liked me, but then he hugged me and patted my back 3 times. I'm totally friend zoned 😔

  • @bettyssalmon7168

    @bettyssalmon7168

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao. Been there. Shook my hand at the end of the evening too

  • @gintarerakauskaite3832

    @gintarerakauskaite3832

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn

  • @The_Eleventh_Sign

    @The_Eleventh_Sign

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmaooooo

  • @Tinyfurball

    @Tinyfurball

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bettyssalmon7168 🤣

  • @ayonnathomas2584

    @ayonnathomas2584

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @scottcollins9446
    @scottcollins94463 жыл бұрын

    I don’t do these things, I show my interest by looking in their eyes and walking like a man in confidence.

  • @debh6304

    @debh6304

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is sexy

  • @MR-zq5gt
    @MR-zq5gt3 жыл бұрын

    Legit lost it at sex toys in the background 😂

  • @katierojas8066

    @katierojas8066

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @deekayteeohthree

    @deekayteeohthree

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @cassgrainger4210
    @cassgrainger42103 жыл бұрын

    How can we see parted lips when everyones wearing face mask lol

  • @filipinodragonfruit8178

    @filipinodragonfruit8178

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cmdkjdkddmdkod ikrrr

  • @seohyunlee3247

    @seohyunlee3247

    3 жыл бұрын

    TRUE lol

  • @lazyrat6687

    @lazyrat6687

    2 жыл бұрын

    One guy did that too me without his mask on

  • @as-h989

    @as-h989

    2 жыл бұрын

    my lips part cus they big

  • @alexandraespinoza7109
    @alexandraespinoza71094 жыл бұрын

    “i know this is true because this is what my notes say” lmaooo really enjoy watching these videos !

  • @emyleeann3131
    @emyleeann31314 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend does most if not all of these and that makes me super happy 🥺☺️

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love. It. ✅🔥🔥

  • @sjjdjdsnnsnssh8087
    @sjjdjdsnnsnssh80873 жыл бұрын

    Crush:Running up to me Me :screaming and running to the other direction ;)😂😂😂

  • @Asmr-ng8xe
    @Asmr-ng8xe4 жыл бұрын

    “I know this is true because this is what my notes say” 😂👏🏼

  • @isabelledavis3078
    @isabelledavis30783 жыл бұрын

    The guy I hope likes me was always really polite to just me. We were in an after school group of about 40 girls and 3 guys(it was a dance troop) and he would always kind of stick with the other guys and stay silent. Then on end day we had a long rehearsal and he would stick around to talk to me, and got a semi heavy door for me and then apologized for not getting the door sooner. So cute 🥰

  • @animalames78
    @animalames784 жыл бұрын

    I’m really not comfortable with men giving my body “wondering eyes” I feel I can’t trust them at all and feel those guys are just looking at you like a sexual object. Great video - Thank you, very informative 😊

  • @nofybn7794

    @nofybn7794

    4 жыл бұрын

    I AGREE WITH YOU! IT IS NOT OKAY. I DON'T CARE ABOUT MALE NATURE. BS. I AM NOT A TOY.

  • @ojala5555

    @ojala5555

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly,Amelia, I hate wondering eyes on my body. An intelligent man never does it undisguisedly.

  • @alogan9502
    @alogan95024 жыл бұрын

    When you act out the examples 😂🤣

  • @nina2222

    @nina2222

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesssss 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @samanthastubberfield8975
    @samanthastubberfield89752 жыл бұрын

    My friend recommended this to me cause she genuinely found you funny. I was not disappointed especially the parched drinking water one hahahahaha good stuff also very helpful. Thanks

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini4 жыл бұрын

    Love this, Ryan. Your facial expressions are hilarious! Thanks for making this. I never heard of fixing his socks or flaring his nostrils. Those are wild.

  • @jeril9613
    @jeril96133 жыл бұрын

    I have rewatched these body language videos so many times. I really enjoy them.

  • @swanerly
    @swanerly4 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos always makes me laugh! Lol, I am still trying to understand what men want but at the end of the day, I do what feels good to me. I share my views and feelings and I let him express his openness and honesty. I have been seeing someone for a few months now we have great communication and connection but he doesn't want to be in a relationship but we keep calling, texting, and we spend time together and we share so many intimate and personal stuff. So I am giving him his space doing me thing having a full life. Time will tell ;) thank you again Ryan

  • @littllemisscupcake
    @littllemisscupcake3 жыл бұрын

    The faces with the music are hilarious 😂

  • @nina2222

    @nina2222

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes its PERFECTIONNNN 😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @d.m.8311
    @d.m.83114 жыл бұрын

    idk why I'm watching this, glad to know my boyfriend is interested in me though haha :)

  • @casy6203
    @casy62034 жыл бұрын

    There's the humor that attracted me to your channel🤣😂🤣😂🤣👍

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    I definitely try to infuse it in there when I can Casy 😄Thanks for watching!

  • @Franny90.

    @Franny90.

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@datingcoachryanpatrick I agree, but what makes me smile too is, to see all the good signs in a man but then he covers his men parts with both hands ^^" Can you make a video about this exeption? Is this a form of stopping himself because he shouldn`t want what he might wants because there is a girlfriend? just guessing.

  • @cairas.6142
    @cairas.61424 жыл бұрын

    I’m so happy that I’ve found your channel. Thanks for dropping gems in a very humorous way😂

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad you found the channel, as well, Sasha! You're most welcome 😌

  • @shirleyjimenez29
    @shirleyjimenez293 жыл бұрын

    Awww I love this video! I jumped of joy when I saw the 3 signs my crush used when he was around me. 💕💕💕💋❤️. Thank you

  • @nicoladouglas3270
    @nicoladouglas32703 жыл бұрын

    Those facial expressions!!! I'm dying!! Great info thanks!!

  • @elizabethgalantuomini2838
    @elizabethgalantuomini28384 жыл бұрын

    I have to say...you are so animated - It makes me smile and stay interested. Thanks

  • @pattkate837
    @pattkate8374 жыл бұрын

    The one syncing with the other's steps are SO accurate how do I just realise it now?!!

  • @karenjensen7566
    @karenjensen75664 жыл бұрын

    My #1 guy the 2nd time we went out. I was singing karaoke and he was at the bar getting a beer. The moment I started singing his eyes were glued to me like he’d just won the lottery and he walked right up to where I was singing without paying a bit of attention to.anything or anybody else. I knew he liked me before this but after this I knew I had him.

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gawd I LOVE me some karaoke! You must have *totally* been crushing your song to get that response from him!! Well done! 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @lynnesawyer4999
    @lynnesawyer49993 жыл бұрын

    Very informative! Your videos are also funny which makes them even better 😁

  • @Katie7Rebecca
    @Katie7Rebecca4 жыл бұрын

    Fun to watch as always.:) can't wait for the next video.😁 I like your smile and everything. Thanks a million!

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Whoo hoo!! Thanks for being a part of this awesome group, Julie! 😄

  • @katedauphinee7536
    @katedauphinee75364 жыл бұрын

    You're hilarious, Ryan, and informative. Thanks for your great words of wisdom! Really looking forward to next week! :)

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Kate! Lol next week's was BY FAR the most challenging video I've made to date, but I DID IT! ✊🏼Hope you like it 🙂

  • @phoenixride
    @phoenixride4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ryan, I love your videos! You are great and I really appreciate your style and help!😊🙏

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    You bet, Phoenix! Appreciate your kind words and thanks for watching 🙂

  • @aichaaicha8805
    @aichaaicha88054 жыл бұрын

    very informative as usual, the vid u talked about at the end would be the answer to my prayers and I need it fast

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yay! Gotta lot of great stuff in there for you guys 😃

  • @mariageorghiades9420
    @mariageorghiades94204 жыл бұрын

    Great video Ryan. Love the humour and your lovely smile at the beginning. You made my day. 😁😄😘❤️

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Awesome to hear, Maria! Glad you had some fun with this video today 😄

  • @Mylilgem
    @Mylilgem3 жыл бұрын

    This is the best video what Ive seen so far from this subject. I began to search some advices and clues, because there is this one guy and he has been looking at me from the very first time we've met. We have this same hobby. When we are in the class he is always looking in to my eyes and smiles. He doesnt do that for other women. When he comes out of the room and sees me there, he is taking a long look at my direction to make sure that Ive seen it. Plus he has done some silly things to make me laugh. But I am not sure is he interested of me in that way or is it something else......this is too desperate....😅

  • @karahoglund
    @karahoglund4 жыл бұрын

    turns out this actually happens a lot to me with my crushes and never noticed, but i was still really close friends with my ex (who is happily married so i dont have feelings in that way) and i realized deep down subconsciously i still looked to him with my vulnerability, so i wasnt allowing myself to be open with other guys and unknowingly put up a wall. luckily, i felt vulnerable around my new crush. a feeling i thought was bad at first but it lead me to do some soul searching and came to this conclusion. i always thought it was because im ugly and gained weight since highschool. but those things really dont matter. (also turns out im not ugly! haha i actually truley see that now) what matters is being honest and loving towards yourself and allowing someone in. Guys need to feel needed too.

  • @littleforestowl
    @littleforestowl2 жыл бұрын

    The guy I have interest in, does almost all 17. But we’re stuck in body language limbo on friendzone avenue. I wish I knew how to give a green light, beyond body language, but without being obvious 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @ojala5555
    @ojala55553 жыл бұрын

    You are always so funny😂 and with the most charming smile. Nr.10 is my absolute favourite of these signs😍

  • @scarlettscott6898
    @scarlettscott68984 жыл бұрын

    Literally the boy I’m in love with does every single one of these but I can’t help feeling it’s just cos we’re best mates and he’s super comfortable around me now :/

  • @kayleebuurma6395

    @kayleebuurma6395

    3 жыл бұрын

    Scarlett Scott yes I agree sm!! The guy that I love is so friendly and nice to everyone that he’s impossible to read lol:(

  • @flowerlullaby
    @flowerlullaby4 жыл бұрын

    I like the psychological aspects of your videos. Really helps, as I'm into psychology.

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE being able to add that in, Alexa! I don't think I'd be nearly as excited about my content if I didn't have that key ingredient in there 🙌🏼Glad you dig 😉

  • @AnnaGee347
    @AnnaGee3473 жыл бұрын

    You're freaking hilarious 😆!! Awesome vid!

  • @iinspiredmantic2301
    @iinspiredmantic23014 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video Ryan🙂You've got the best... facial expressions ever!🙂I can't wait for next week's video, that one is certainly gonna be a very interesting one 🙂I really admire you for going out of your comfort zone & covering that topic🙂

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha this one was clearly a fun one for me to make 😄 Can't wait for you to see next week's vid omg 🤦🏻‍♂️Should certainly be interesting 🙂

  • @iinspiredmantic2301

    @iinspiredmantic2301

    4 жыл бұрын

    ​@@datingcoachryanpatrick I'm sure it will be very educational & entertaining as well🙂

  • @elisuemiya2060
    @elisuemiya20604 жыл бұрын

    I subscribed just because your voice is so easy to listen to. A lot of other dating coaches sound too hyper and I cant listen to them for long.

  • @bernadettegutierrez9045
    @bernadettegutierrez90453 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 the dry throat..this is so funny, subscribed😂😂😂

  • @adriedrake8605
    @adriedrake86053 жыл бұрын

    Yass my new guy checked almost all.... well see 2nd date is already on schedule 🤗

  • @serana71
    @serana712 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot for this video, this is really REALLY interesting a very clear. :)

  • @user-wm5ko9vm5d
    @user-wm5ko9vm5d3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Ryan loved this video helps so much

  • @jenelleworme7598
    @jenelleworme75983 жыл бұрын

    Could you do a video on the different ways a guy says I love you? Like when someone says it too quickly, a shy guy, one with no meaning etc.

  • @cuddlebuddy88mc
    @cuddlebuddy88mc3 жыл бұрын

    Lol, "puppy dog eyes and panic stricken". Love it

  • @sunlightkills594
    @sunlightkills5944 жыл бұрын

    I get a lot of signs that he's interested in me as a person (smile, open legs, eye contact) but he doesn't really show the sexual signs (open lips, fixing himself, or touching). I guess that means he's just being friendly? I have such a huge crush but I've pretty much given up 😖

  • @ginny9080
    @ginny90804 жыл бұрын

    I went out with a guy who would face me at times, but also turn to the side to cross his legs, and his eye wonder around sometimes. I’m thinking he’s not interested. Great video!

  • @familiaabc1

    @familiaabc1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or he could be acting like his not interested. Lol who knows

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Definitely not sending you those interested vibes but oh well... on to the next! 😄Thanks Ginny!

  • @swedishgirl2506
    @swedishgirl25064 жыл бұрын

    Wow, a lot of these were completely new to me.

  • @mariamartinademarte
    @mariamartinademarte2 жыл бұрын

    2:50 absolutely killed me 🤣

  • @rebecadeleon4446
    @rebecadeleon44464 жыл бұрын

    happy monday! great video 🤩

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    You too! Thanks Rebeca! 🤗

  • @user-dw7ct4dl1o
    @user-dw7ct4dl1o2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your good tips. Love your videos. What if he makes a power stance, near me in a group when talking to another woman? Seen him doing it twice when i am near. Problems to read a guy. If in a group he looks down and always stands infront of me, even if he talks to other women he stands infront of me. When it is me and him alone he keeps eyecontact. He comes close but never touch. Etc.when he walks near me, he turns his head away like he would look at me. His pupils are huge. Sad when you cant read somone .and get mixed signals. . Have a nice Easter and a huge thank you. Lovely to watch your videos 🌹

  • @xw6475
    @xw64754 жыл бұрын

    Dear Ryan! Thank you so much for making this video, so informative and funny in the same time. Noted:))

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful X W! Thanks for checking it out 🙂

  • @xw6475

    @xw6475

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@datingcoachryanpatrick Of course!! Always 👏

  • @cheri1666
    @cheri16662 жыл бұрын

    Great video Ryan hahahaha you are so funny but also understanding

  • @sflo4538
    @sflo45384 жыл бұрын

    I love your imitation of the mannerisms! My guy gets dreamy and parts his lips all. the. time. He also does most of the other signs... I'm in :-)

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Awesome sauce! Sounds like you've got a winner 😀

  • @dancingdaze

    @dancingdaze

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@datingcoachryanpatrick your puppy eye look is hilarious 😊

  • @gloriatoribio3317
    @gloriatoribio33174 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ryan very interested!!

  • @Rubiastraify
    @Rubiastraify4 жыл бұрын

    Great list! One night when I was having dinner with my date (he was sitting across from me) I consciously started mirroring his body language, and he became more animated and happy! Then, I changed and watched to see if he would mirror mine -and he did! Fun! Oh, and I LOVE it when a man of interest puts his hand on the small of my back! I do feel protected, and like he's stepping into taking the lead. ❤

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Game Over! Missed ya these past few weeks! Gotta love mirroring, eh? 😁

  • @chrisalcah1887
    @chrisalcah18873 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Coach! 😊

  • @Dessiii123
    @Dessiii1234 жыл бұрын

    Hey y'all I'm not a native English speaker just so you know :) Ok so this might be long, but bare with me. I've been talking to my crush for 6 months, he's 4 years older that me too, we used to hangout like once in 2 weeks because we're both college students and it's difficult to find some free time for us both to see each other sooner. I can tell that he used to care about me, I mean I live in a different city and have to travel to my college by bus,but he would go with me to the station and wait for the bus to come(would leave only when I'd get inside) always would ask if I came back home safely. We would playfully fight on who's gonna pay for coffee first(he would sometimes pay without telling me and act as if nothing happened, but of course I'd buy it back next time when we'd meet up bc I don't want to use him) fast forward to 3 months of talking : we were talking about something in his car and all of the sudden he asked me if I wanted a neck massage :o (I already had a tiny crush on him so I accepted the offer) then during debember he was back in his own hometown so we didn't really talk, every few days I guess but when January came, we met up right after new years for a coffee. After that we hung out 2 weeks later and when we were near this lake, he told me to get out of the car with him. I did and he went to the truck to take something out. It was already dark so I could hardly see what he was holding in his hand. Took out a tank full of gasoline and poured it over the object. I then saw that it was a notebook that he lit up on fire. I asked him jokingly why couldn't he just drop it into a trashcan or something and he replied that it was an album full of photos with him and his ex gf(she gave it to him as a gift) so yeah, basically he burned an album in front of me.. Fast forward to 2 more weeks, we went to a sea museum and after that I was about to go to the bus station but he was like "let's go to my car, I'll take you there, but before that let's go grab some coffee" I was happy that he wanted me to stay so I agreed :) that sneaky bish paid for my cup AGAIN.. When we were chilling in his car out of the sudden he started to hit my thigh gently/playfully and I didn't really say anything, I mean I didn't mind it one bit and after that there were a few firm squeezes here and there and the he told me that I have nice, strong legs🤣 Fast forward to valentine's day.. I invited him to hangout sometime that week but the only free day that he had was 14th of February. So we met up, took some coffee with us and went on a 2 hour walk 🙃 Again fast forward to 2 more weeks we met up for coffee and that was the last time that I saw him /had any usual conversation.. Ok so almost 2 weeks ago I invited him to come over to my town I he didn't have any plans on Saturday. He responded that at the time he haven't planned anything and if nothing won't show up, he'll come. Then on Friday evening I asked if he's still coming and his response was that he doesn't know, that there's a possibility that his friend will be coming, but if he won't show up, T will come over. This Friday will mark exactly 2 weeks since I last heard from him. Like come on, at least you could've messaged me and told me that you won't make it.

  • @malena9513

    @malena9513

    2 жыл бұрын

    What happened next ???

  • @Dessiii123

    @Dessiii123

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@malena9513 heheh, I forgot that I wrote this big paragraph :D well after a month covid hit us, but he reaped, we're still good friends, he even helped me to buy my first fricking car! Right now he's very far away because of work but we talk/message each other as often as we can. Also because of the virus last year I barely saw him, like I've mentioned before, back then I saw him 4 or 5 times, but after that I saw him 2 more times in 2020. Thank God this year he came back to my university's town, so we were able to see each other more often. Not much of an update I guess

  • @malena9513

    @malena9513

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dessiii123 do you still like him? If yes then I wish you good luck and I hope everything works out

  • @Dessiii123

    @Dessiii123

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@malena9513 I don’t know, at times it feels like my crush is slowly decreasing, but then I receive an unespected selfie,or he makes future plans that involves the both of us, it makes my heart warm and fuzzy

  • @malena9513

    @malena9513

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dessiii123 I completely understand you because I feel the same way about my current crush lol😭

  • @sonyanicaodhagain978
    @sonyanicaodhagain9784 жыл бұрын

    You're so cute demonstrating facial expressions. Loving your videos 😊

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Sonya!! 😄

  • @axelsme
    @axelsme3 жыл бұрын

    Haah, Made my evening. Giggled much 😂 thank u

  • @xoxomemyselfni
    @xoxomemyselfni4 жыл бұрын

    Omg you’re hilarious 😂 @ “I know this is true cuz this is what my notes say”

  • @cococha
    @cococha4 жыл бұрын

    Your really an amazing dating coach.. i have learnt a lot from you.

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    So happy you're on the channel Helper! 🙂

  • @cococha

    @cococha

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@datingcoachryanpatrick Me too 😍

  • @dr.baotran8448
    @dr.baotran84483 жыл бұрын

    Ryan, thank you for your insights...

  • @Clock_Work
    @Clock_Work3 жыл бұрын

    *when your in marching band with him and the sync thing happens with all of us by habit even when we aren’t in band at the time*

  • @ilovelambs5534
    @ilovelambs55342 жыл бұрын

    “Now I know this is true because this is what my notes say” honesty at its finest

  • @treintaydiez
    @treintaydiez2 жыл бұрын

    This guy is hilarious and really helpful

  • @moonchild66
    @moonchild664 жыл бұрын

    Love ur vids!!! Thank u 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @LisaBrown-jm7vo
    @LisaBrown-jm7vo4 жыл бұрын

    Ryan, I've watched all your KZread videos and going by this video, my "crush" has displayed 9 of the signs in your video but not approached me for a date. In addition to the 9 "signs", he's complimented me on my appearance several times, sent me a personal thank you note for bread that I made for him, and winked at me as he was leaving his office to treat another patient. However, he's my Chiropractor so I don't know if he's interested but professionally prohibited from dating a patient. He is a widower and his wife died 4 years ago. I am trying very hard not to be obvious or do or say anything that could be taken as me being "forward" but this man makes me feel like no man that I've ever met. We are both in our 60's. I feel like my time is running out to get him to ask me out because I only have 5 more appointments before my treatment plan will be done. HELP, I don't want this one to get away!!!

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Lisa. If you want my opinion on the matter, I’d say the stage is set perfectly for you to stake your claim here. Based on what you e described, the only artificial barrier that’s separating either of you from making a move on each other is, well... professionalism. You’ve got 5 more treatments with him, so play the role of the cordial patient, but be connected with him and just be present. When the treatments end, so does the professional relationship, so it’s time to seize the day! Ask this man to grab a drink, or go for a walk, or whatever you think would be fun! If he says no, it’s OK! You’ve teased it out and you didn’t let a perfectly good opportunity to go to waste. You’ll be glad you did regardless of the end result 😉 Good luck

  • @LisaBrown-jm7vo

    @LisaBrown-jm7vo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ryan, thank you so much for responding to my comment. That is great news that I'm not reading more into the situation than I should be because of MY feelings for him. He was pretty chatty at my appointment yesterday volunteering detailed information about his children and their importance to him. I sensed he was a bit "off" at the appointment but I attributed that to the fact that this week is the 4 year anniversary of his wife's death. Thanks for your encouragement.

  • @sairysv8625

    @sairysv8625

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@LisaBrown-jm7vo hey Lisa what ended up happening? Being nosy here :// lol I hope It worked out

  • @katrin6388

    @katrin6388

    3 жыл бұрын

    i have something similar going on...only its my mom whose the patient and i went with her a couple times. i only saw him 4 time and i just dont know how to approach him since its such an inconvinient situation.

  • @accesstotheredcarpet
    @accesstotheredcarpet3 жыл бұрын

    Checking his breath had me laughing out loud! Too funny Ryan 😂😂😂

  • @bre6916
    @bre69164 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing 😘👍

  • @arezoumoaiedi3739
    @arezoumoaiedi37393 жыл бұрын

    Again as usual :👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻perfectttttt

  • @aannaahelenaa
    @aannaahelenaa4 жыл бұрын

    I would really love a video on how to respond to "what's up"... People sooo often ask it! Ps. Not only for romantic relationships

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey Anna! I made a texting video that touched on women opening with phrases like this with guys (and not to do it), but if a guy does it, I would literally text him "What's up??" By putting the question mark on his own question, it forces him to come up with something else to say and be more creative. 🙂Fortunately, I've got an AWESOME video regarding "Texting Signs Guys *Aren't* Interested" coming out in 3 weeks, so you'll have a whole lot more to work with there I'm sure 😉

  • @truerosie

    @truerosie

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's an idiot expression. Ignore it.

  • @aligaga806

    @aligaga806

    5 ай бұрын

    I say it back like on scream 😅

  • @suneedspeace
    @suneedspeace3 жыл бұрын

    wow... now. i can confirm that none is crushing over me for sure!💯

  • @sexytrinimaryam
    @sexytrinimaryam2 жыл бұрын

    This is a great video!

  • @bettyssalmon7168
    @bettyssalmon71684 жыл бұрын

    A guy can display all of these signs and be interested in you AND still be a player. I met a man who seemed genuinely interested in me and he was, we got on very well. Same interests same humour, we laughed all the time. We went away for the weekend - separate hotel rooms. After 2 months he changed daily calls to weekly texts until I dropped him. Looking back, he was interested in me - he displayed all the body language signs - but only for sex and when I made it clear that I was not into casual sex he lost interest. I later found out he was married with children so all he wanted was a side chick.

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yikes! Sorry he totally mislead you like that 😕NEVER okay...

  • @mercyadong1295
    @mercyadong12953 жыл бұрын

    The opening leg things😂😂 he does it all the time when I’m beside him

  • @Penelope416
    @Penelope4164 жыл бұрын

    I think subconsciously, I knew these types of signs all along. Touching a man in certain areas, I didn't know much about. I would touch his forearm or his shoulders or the back of his neck but that was all I knew, lol.

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup yup! Just touching briefly with a touch of eye contact while you do it can send him the perfect signal 😉

  • @sisterbabs7592
    @sisterbabs75924 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, this was helpful

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear, Sister Babs! Thanks for watching! 😀

  • @sisterbabs7592

    @sisterbabs7592

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@datingcoachryanpatrick i am your fans now hehehehhe

  • @EmmaLangdon
    @EmmaLangdon2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve watched this like 6 times and still have no clue... That’s how you know I’m gonna be single For a long time

  • @adventuresofperseus945
    @adventuresofperseus9454 жыл бұрын

    Lmao I love the facial expressions. Especially the panic stricken one. Also what would it be if they are sitting on a couch or stool next to u?

  • @lumashleybrown7732
    @lumashleybrown77322 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot Ryan you are a life saver,I mean come on my guy Is everything you mentioned in this video,at first I thought maybe it is his way and him being polite but now I know he is super interested and the bomber is he had been my friend so I think he has being showing me these signals and body languages so I could understand,am really grateful for this video,I'd recommend every lady to watch this video till the end

  • @clarkenicola7166
    @clarkenicola71664 жыл бұрын

    Blessings Everytime sir always learn something

  • @datingcoachryanpatrick

    @datingcoachryanpatrick

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Nicole!

  • @crimsongrave101
    @crimsongrave1014 жыл бұрын

    Oops- Did not expect that background 😂😂

  • @jenniferbloomfield3656

    @jenniferbloomfield3656

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 it was hard not to! I spent the first 30secs staring nothing but the board. Then wondering if I was the only one that had noticed these words were in great big bold letters whilst the other I needed 20/20 vision or something.

  • @emmapopescu3354
    @emmapopescu33544 жыл бұрын

    Haha not always. My husband acted the complete opposite at our first dates. He was never directing his body or feet towards me, barely smiled, totally avoided looking at me or touching me lol and i thought in fact that he didn't like me .... turns out he was smitten. He still isn't a very touchy person and he rarely initiates touches, but he does do the protective hand on the lower back when he's guiding me through a crowd. And he does look into my eyes very much now.

  • @samanthacraig-allen4773
    @samanthacraig-allen47732 жыл бұрын

    1st Sign: When he smiles, you will see his top and bottom teeth Me: *cries in mask*

  • @GlowingMpd

    @GlowingMpd

    2 жыл бұрын

    🏆👍🤣😂😅😇