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They can text all these and still ghost you in every minute.

@suilasitanggang4471

4 жыл бұрын

say it louder sist

@accesstotheredcarpet

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!!!

@egyptianqueen4007

3 жыл бұрын

Yep that is true

@hdshjs

3 жыл бұрын

These are all words. Watch his actions.

@honeybeamacanim3695

3 жыл бұрын

Check ✔️🙈

Why tf do I watch stuff like this

@robertpadua6096

4 жыл бұрын

Lol dating is interesting topic

@sarahemily4616

4 жыл бұрын

Zenitha Murrie I wonder why the fk I clicked it too, it’s like.... are we seriously looking for advice from a dude on how to decode dudes?! What about just being transparent about your feelings lol

@terridominguez8209

4 жыл бұрын

Zenitha Murrie Curiosity.🤣😂 Its all BS if he can’t pick up the phone and call. Wait! Exam? This is a youngsters video. My bad.

@ekasteviajulip6917

4 жыл бұрын

It is all youtube recommendation fault

@aintgonnaletuknow5758

4 жыл бұрын

it's interesting to watch and make you feel like you're not alone

guys are so confusing i don’t even know anymore

@christinecarver1665

4 жыл бұрын

Girly, dating is hard and confusing.

@michellekahlez2105

3 жыл бұрын

My crush always replies my text quickly n excitedly n ofc we could talk alot. *But he never initiating a convo first. So we won't texting if I'm not starting it.* We r in the same school but whenever we meet we always walked away as tho we didn't know each other lmaoo😂 (both us feel nervous but I believe he likes me back tho). It gets me indeed confused and exhausted 😞😞🤡

@kaiden9854

3 жыл бұрын

Michelle Kahlez he’s just scared. Do something obvious to let him know you’re interested. Make sure it is super obvious, as most guys don’t get those signs.

@michellekahlez2105

3 жыл бұрын

@@kaiden9854 hell yeaaa. But Im just afraid he'd think that i seem to chased him so much xd :(

@kaiden9854

3 жыл бұрын

Michelle Kahlez most guys like that tbh. I recently stepped away from someone, and honestly it’s far better to try than to not. Worst thing that could happen is he doesn’t like you like that and you stay friends. Just go for it.

My boyfriend sent me the message: "even if I don't write you so much, you have to know that you are always in mind.." I found it just sweet.

@elenachiritescu2681

4 жыл бұрын

It'a sweet indeed

@raylanross2739

3 жыл бұрын

Aweeei love that

@moon.serratt5906

3 жыл бұрын

He is so sweet and pure:(

@hdshjs

3 жыл бұрын

What are his actions? How often do you see him? How often does he actually text? Please do not buy blindly into every fluff an excuse he gives you.

@toriii___lee

3 жыл бұрын

I also received this kind of message from my bestfriend does it mean that he likes me?

Texts can mean anything, it is a lazy manner of communication. If he CALLS you, then he has made a real effort.

@lisapayne2352

3 жыл бұрын

And a FaceTime nightly is huge!!! 🥰

@lynnes1864

3 жыл бұрын

a lot of people prefer to text first to ask if they can call, though

@timelapse4088

3 жыл бұрын

That’s true

@MusicMormy16

3 жыл бұрын

I love that my guy regularly video chats with me :) we don’t even really use audio-only calls. Love that he wants to actually see me!

@itsliz2004

3 жыл бұрын

Yay!!! My crush makes an effort to talk to me!! 🥰🥰🥰

He did all of this but he still turned out toxic. Just pay attention to patterns and actions.

@FlwrCats76

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Sometimes their actions don't align with their words. Big let down :/

@miriamgarcia2642

4 жыл бұрын

Same here :/ Was confusing af.

@youresperanza

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. He did all of this. After two months he finaly told me that he is not into me, he wants be just a friend because there is no atraction from his side. My point is, that "likes" will not always lead to serious relationship. As you say, pay attention to patterns and actions (and context).

@UniversoSpiritualUnido

4 жыл бұрын

Lmfao

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Yup yup. The texting game is only part of the entire equation. Texts are easily to manipulate, but *word tone* and *body language* are not 😉

If he's into you he will keep initiating the text and will make things clear. The effort he put in is the key to how into you he is.

@johnburton5154

4 жыл бұрын

Ani Wey not always true

@lilianatavera4999

4 жыл бұрын

John Burton can you explain pls lol

@johnburton5154

4 жыл бұрын

Liliana Tavera, sure it’s simple. Relationships involve vulnerability and should flow two ways. The traditional stereotypical old school dating patterns still apply but to a carried degree. Therefore ladies should expect a man to both initiate and respond to communication equally. In my experience women still appreciate a gentleman but do not appreciate 100 percent traditional old school relationships. Consider this how is a strong silent male expected to survive in an online dating culture ?

@themaninmyprofileisachad6888

3 жыл бұрын

Still I feel that a woman should start the texts too because if you never start texts with him it leaves him feeling like you don't care about him. Which then leads to him ghosting you, or at least that is why I ghost girls.

@bonnieestucker4805

3 жыл бұрын

If he's interested in you he will give you a call.

finally a guy who seems extremely genuine and wants to help us with serious advice❤

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for that, Kath! 🙂

@christicrenshaw2772

4 жыл бұрын

Yes normally its someone telling women all the stuff we are doing wrong and how we must kiss their a## to keep them. So yes i agree i really like this guy. He looks at both sides

@Shari-Attarian

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

This man knows it ALL! Ladies, take notes, seriously! I learned I was totally wasting my time with a Breadcrumbing asshole. And now I’m dating an amazing man. Thank you sooo much!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Love it, Emily! 🙌🏼Glad you've connected with a great guy! Thanks for your kind words 🙂

Before my boyfriend and I started seeing each other he texted me one evening out of the blue. He said, " do you have time to talk? I miss talking to you." It melted my heart, and pushed me to reveal my feelings for him during that conversation. We started exclusively dating in December, and it's a dream come true!!

@Samiraaxx

2 жыл бұрын

Aww 🥰 🥺🦋

@NessaJohnson777

11 ай бұрын

Congratulations🎉🥰 I pray me and the guy Im talking to works out!🥹

I’m getting so many texts from old tinder dates I had in January.... Not today, corona, not today.

@swiftkarma4436

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Many times they're doing all those things "by the book" just to mess up with your thinking, to make you feel like they're genuinely interested in you, whereas in reality after they "cracked your code" they show off their real intentions and take advantage of you mentally as you've fallen for them. Beware of that. Many people like to play a game to satisfy their own ego. Sorry to debunk but that's just being real with y'all from my own experience.

@Isha_Sethi

3 жыл бұрын

ohh.. that's so sad! 🥺

@Vyansya

2 жыл бұрын

I had this experience. Hurt af. But now im stronger than ever!

@salmasoso2055

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's so truee

I swear it's really hard to understand guys 😒

@elvenleaf5589

4 жыл бұрын

True!

@miliniumo147

4 жыл бұрын

Lol, it's hard to understand humans in general 😂 Sometimes, we don't even understand ourselves

@wildzubatappeared

4 жыл бұрын

Nah women blink a man think that he got it 🤣🤣

@pryncesslove88

4 жыл бұрын

Not really most guys are more simple especially than women. If he is interested he is going to show value, if not he will treat you like a hook up, or not show interest what so ever. We women who really need to understand that our mind gets us in more trouble than anything.

@adri1567

3 жыл бұрын

Not at all!! It is you who do not want to see him as he is!

I'm always the one who asked questions, did greetings, start the conversation and have the last words in our discussion. He keeps me hanging. Now I know. I just wasted and wasting my time if I still continue.😔

The reason I am single. Who has the time to psychoanalysis texts when you have a full time job. Men are beyond complicated and annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Things A Guy Will Text You When He's REALLY Into You" or when he wants you to think that he's into you so that he will have someone to entertain him while he's looking for what he really wants. Don't take anything a guy says at face value; watch his actions and his patterns.

The feeling that you're gonna observe your conversation with the guy if he really wants you but you forgot that you deleted your conversation hahahaha

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Probably better off! Trust your gut and on to the next! 👉👉👉

@brat6359

3 жыл бұрын

Same sis.....same

@SkyePhoenix

3 жыл бұрын

Lol. It's easy to overanalyse text covos. Real live conversations are best.

Yeah, and alot of narcissist know these things also🤔 Be careful with all the texting...JS

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

True, texting is only part of the whole picture. Being with him in person (or virtual dates) is the biggest chunk of it, seeing if his words matches his actions 👌🏽

@kellydbetz2692

3 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Even then they can be deceptive, for years of a marriage.

@haideevangen9294

3 жыл бұрын

I was married to one. Still getting over it. Why I didn't see it makes me mad at myself. Feel like I waisted all thos years.

@geminidognanny7993

3 жыл бұрын

The difference with narssacist is they cant help but make it eventually about them ...and they come in like a hurricane....now I know what to look for I can see them idiots a mile away ...go away devil ..

I started chatting to a guy online. We are going to meet Friday night - today is Monday. He has started with good morning and goodnight messages. Last night I told him I was going to buy new joggers because I've just joined a gym. Late this afternoon he texted asking if I found a pair I liked. I thought that was a great sign. Also he said he was going to have a poppy (grandfather) nap, to which I replied that love a nanna nap! So interest and vulnerability 👍❤

A man who knows a tragedy has happened with her or even that she is facing something difficult, he will text and ask about how she is or offer words of encouragement. I LOVE this.

Okayy this is wild. I feel very confident that my crush might like me back.

@iluvC0TT0NC9NDY16

4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Sutton and I’m thinking bout doing the til took challenge kiss by best friend don’t know how that’ll go 🤔⁉️

@michellesutton3945

4 жыл бұрын

iluvC0TT0NC9NDY16 ooooh yes do it!

@dorianflores9000

4 жыл бұрын

Oh gosh, then my best friend likes me!!

He texted me "I love your laugh, it means so much to me to hear you laugh." And then he texted " You ground me." Like I make him feel safe or something? I don' t know. But then we were supposed to chat on the phone and he blows me off for 4 days. I'm so confused. He is only a friend, not a romantic interest so maybe I should just not be worried about any of this. Ugh.

@novelitadamar906

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you :(. I have the same situation too at this point i think everything is ridiculous

People, this is sad. Texting is not real communication. If a person won't meet you IRL from the initial meet be it online or IRL, move on. Avoid texting in general. Real life, phone calls, even e-mail is more authentic.If all he does is text then he isn't interested, he just needs instant gratification, acknowledgement and"likes". Women with self-esteem don't participate in text dependency.

Well now it’s pretty obvious he doesn’t like me anymore.

@maryjoyabo8414

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you lol

@dr.m6152

3 жыл бұрын

Hang in there girlie! We're all in the same boat honestly

All true. A guy texted me as mentioned in this video, for sure he was interested. However, he acted very slowly in terms of setting dates (when he did arrange date, he planned them well, those were the best I had). I was confused but later on it was clear that he was not ready to have something serious yet. So in short what I learned, whether someone likes you, whether you two are compatible, and whether you two can be together are three different things...No need to get over excited when he shows interests at beginning, or you find someone extremely intriguing, everything takes time...Keep calm and carry on...

@almacarimerebollo5619

2 жыл бұрын

great comment, but patience is what i lack in my life XD

Oh gosh, now I know the guy likes me 😂. Now I need to figure out whether I like him

@NobodyWantsYourPity

3 жыл бұрын

Same haha

“If I wasn’t texting you that doesn’t mean that I don’t care” ❤️

Older men don't use emoji that much, one reason is because they really don't know what many of them mean

@bolotabr12

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@zovi123

2 жыл бұрын

😊

I prefer phone conversation and he prefers text. I told him we need better communication because text does not replace the intimacy a call can give. I'm at the point of putting him in the friend category or nothing at all.

@adc2327

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Back in the day I had a boyfriend that had a really nice sexy voice and a goofy laugh. That's the type of thing that is missing if you text all of the time.

@shannonpreuss1350

4 жыл бұрын

d r this is what he did to me. Just texts no calls. Always an excuse for not calling. I’d get good morning how’s my day and good night. Tons of kiss and hug emojis. I said when will I hear your voice again I got hmmm soon hopefully. Gtfo bud.

@asmallbitchybanana

4 жыл бұрын

I recently started going out with a guy who said he didnt do calls because he had a lot of social anxiety etc. i decided that he wasnt for me. I love communication and staying connected and definitely talking on the daily. He wasnt for me.

@thelonemaiden

4 жыл бұрын

OH MY GASH - THIS WAS ME !!!

@thelonemaiden

4 жыл бұрын

OH what a bummer. I met one like that.

That moment you realize you, a girl, send the texts this guy talks about in his vids. Damn must I really be the guy in my efforts hhh 😔

Also I’ve noticed when guy likes you he always say your name in conversation but also over texts.. that really works for me and i can easily see if he likes me

He did almost all of these, but still ghosted me after 3 weeks. I started to open my heart to him, then boom he's gone. Idk anymore what to trust.

@MaRiAm936

3 жыл бұрын

Trust your Gut/your instinct. And my honest opinion is that he isn't not worth it

@sharnashields7118

3 жыл бұрын

Update plz

@themaninmyprofileisachad6888

3 жыл бұрын

For me when I ghost girls (I'm a male) it's because they never start conversations with me. I always start them, and then after that it takes them at least 20 minutes to text me back. Hell, some of them take hours to text me back only to tell me that they can't talk right now.

@Fiiii4567

3 жыл бұрын

@@themaninmyprofileisachad6888 sounds like you need to learn patience What a turn off to read that a man ghosts girls because it takes 20mins to reply!! 20hours I'd understand but 20mins you have an expectation for her to reply. Omg entitled brat 🙄

@themaninmyprofileisachad6888

3 жыл бұрын

Fi usually I wouldn't ghost them JUST because it's a 20 min wait. 😅😅😅 I didn't clarify that. Usually it's a mix between a 20 min wait, also they never start the conversations with me and they barley talk over text with me. Also I don't need to "learn patience" if you liked a guy, I mean really liked him, and every single time you texted him, he took anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour to reply. Wouldn't you be annoyed, also when he finally replied he told you that he couldn't talk at the moment, and that he would text you each later, and he never did? I think after all that you would ghost them too. (This is me thinking you are a girl and I apologize if you are not).

I have a question for you, Ryan. I know how you said that NOT “putting all your eggs in one basket” and not being available to a guy 24/7 raises your value, how it’s okay to talk to other guys as well while this guy is initiating talking. So my question is, what about from the guy’s perspective? Is it okay for him to be talking to more girls than one at a time? Or is that considered leading girls on? What are your thoughts on this? I guess my thought is, it shows he doesn’t want to commit, and I wouldn’t even want to waste my time with someone who just wants attention from multiple girls.

@christinajill5358

3 жыл бұрын

I believe you answered your own question dear

@themaninmyprofileisachad6888

3 жыл бұрын

For me (imma a male) I talk to multiple women, not because I want attention from them, but because they are genuinely my friends. For me (dunno bout other guys) if a girl got mad at me because I was talking to other girls (who are my friends and who I am not interested in) it would make me frustrated. Also for me (again don't know about other men) I doesn't mean I don't want to commit it means I just want more people as my friends (I don't have very many friends as of now so I'm always trying to make new ones).

@msjennable

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone is free to talk to him whom they want to until there's a commitment.women take things so seriously they think one date means you're headed down the aisle for marriage... We need to learn to relax and still have our standards... Things will happen organically and naturally not Forced...don't sleep around and yet don't wait by the phone..find a balance 😊

@msjennable

3 жыл бұрын

You got to think of it like this... do you grab the first avocado you see? No you feel around for the one that's the best..ripe?

@SkyePhoenix

3 жыл бұрын

(I think) everyone needs to keep their options open in dating until they're ready to be in a mutually exclusive relationship.

My boyfriend did literally all of this when we first started texting 😁🎉

Everyday saying "Good morning gorgeous" with no conversation. No other text or stimulating conversations. I wonder how many other he's texting "Good morning gorgeous""...i know it's a list of other women. 😂

@missj8145

3 жыл бұрын

I said the same thing. I am probably like girl number 5 on that gud morning beautiful text..

WORDS MEAN NOTHING, ACTIONS DO!!!! Later on in a relationship!! 👌🏼

Great video! I always love the non-sexual compliment text messages or anytime he remembers to ask about something I am doing. My favorite was after I got out of doing a speech for a non-profit group he checked in with me to see how it went (he knew I was really nervous). His “I’m so proud of you!” text really meant a lot since it showed he had an invested interest in my professional abilities and passions.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Oooo love that! Yes, those are the winners for sure 🙌🏼Thanks for sharing, Kimberly!

People need to grow up and take things as they come

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

How does that apply here, Sam?

I get mixed feelings 😅😂

My newish bf likes to text me pics of things I said I liked , that he sees during the day. EG I love T-rex 🦖 and when he sees it in any book he texts a pic. Just shows he remembers and thinkin of me ....

@Euphoria7777

3 жыл бұрын

Aww that's so sweet

@adrijabiswas4564

3 жыл бұрын

@@Euphoria7777 hii army 💜

@teamstark6948

3 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺

@SkyePhoenix

3 жыл бұрын

How sweet! Lucky you 🍀

@Vyansya

2 жыл бұрын

My crush did this to me too. But then again he ended up only using me for his ego lol

Hey Ryan. I'm taking this opportunity to write a general message and thank you. I discovered your channel a few weeks ago with "The 7 Stages How Men Fall In Love" and ever since I've been binge watching through your catalogue of videos. You're my new favourite dating coach and your advice has changed my life! I've been putting guys off for years, guys who were ridiculously interested at first. I'm so disappointed it's taken me this long to find out how to approach dating so as to maintain the relationship. I look forward to continuing to learn from you and even more so, having a lasting relationship because I've learnt to slow down and let him take the lead. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. (And I totally agree with your texts of course!! Good confirmation. Just wanted to post on your most recent video.)

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

This made my day, Bethany!! Thank you so much for taking the time to write this message! 🙂I'm so happy to hear these videos are helping you in this way. You're most welcome and I'm very glad to have you as part of this awesome group 🙏🏼

I appreciate your opinions shared here! I am dating a guy for about a month now and it seems he is interested, as am I! Fingers crossed it continues this way!

Really appreciative that you here have done some real studying on yourself and other guys to get content and also put it all together to make such descriptive videos. Not everyone can do this.

Love your videos. They are straight to the point with no fluffing to extend the video. And the advice is clear and easy to understand 👌🏼 thank you.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kriistyyanne! 😀

I was dating a highly influential doctor and he way overused the imojis. I just felt like he wasn't willing to communicate. He did turn out to be a player and I dumped his ...

It can be just the opposite too. A guy might text u a lot, but see other girls at the same time. Words dont mean a lot nowadays unfortunately

Great content! The decoding tutorials definitely come in handy for someone who at times has a bit of, what I call, stubborn-challenge and not accepting the reality of the situation. Oh, by the way, you possess a beautiful smile. I’m impressed by your overall informational videos, so thank you.

I love listening to your advices! It's always mind blowing and refreshing.

I've definitely found that people can be SOO different from their texts! I wish I got the check in text sigh, but alas it's usually in a sexual context

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, it's easy for guys to fire off those sexual texts, because he doesn't have to actually sit in front of you to catch your reaction and suffer any negative consequences if you didn't like it; he can just move on to the next girl. The upside is huge tho if you're into it because...well, he might get some! 🤷🏻‍♂️

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Omg I can't even imagine firing off that text to a woman... 😖😖

So true Ryan! Coming from a guy behind those kinds of texts, I have to say Ryan nailed it. You're letting out our secrets here bro! :D :D :)

@marwa43

4 жыл бұрын

Well tell me, i just started seeing someone🤗, but now due to covid19 we just sent textmassages. Why is it that sometimes he ends our texting with an😘 and other times with an 😉?

@marwa43

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks @Spooky Spectre!🤗 Yes, it is possitive, his texts and the emoji's as well ! 😁👍

@adj5767

4 жыл бұрын

Lol.....that's not hard to discern at all. However it doesn't mean much in the long run. A guy like you can use this short term to get a girl chatting back but it doesn't mean much if someone is inherently dishonest in real life.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Boom! Uh oh, the guys are on to me! 😄A couple secrets never hurt I suppose. Thank you!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Both great ways to end a text convo, I'd say. Why not try and kick it up to a virtual date with him? 🤷🏻‍♂️

Omg.... This is so true. All this happened to me. It feels nice to hear it and confirm it in this video. Thanks a lot. 💕

RYAN. You always look so happy. I love that!!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty darn happy Marlee, thanks for noticing! 😝

Okay so I realized I'm the one who does these not him he replies late 😑😭 imma find a new crush now 😭😭😭😭

Thanks for confirming a guy friend of mine likes me. He even sent me a box of sculptures for my birthday that he made. They were so amazing. Plus drawings. He asks about my family and heavy emoji usage.

Thank you. I can see he was into me, but then he ghosted me and gave me the, ,",you deserve better speech" I've found that's not worth the decoding, so I gave it an honest effort and now we're still friends. Wasn't meant to be, but we had a lot of fun. We're not internet friends, I don't text.

Him: Hey, checking in Me in my mind: (What am I? a Hotel?) Him: How you doing? Me in my mind: (Who do you think you are... Joey of Friends??) Real me: (does not answer till the next day)

@lemostjoyousrenegade

3 жыл бұрын

LOL 😂. I love it! 👍🏽 ♥️

@TinfoilHatGirl

3 жыл бұрын

Lol. That's the real FORCE and it may be with all of us ladies :D

@swiftkarma4436

3 жыл бұрын

"What am I a hotel?"😂😂

@SkyePhoenix

3 жыл бұрын

@@swiftkarma4436 LMAO! NOW I GET IT! 😁

@rkk2606

2 жыл бұрын

I think his checking in is sweet. Why the need to play games? Sure you can respond the next day if he texts you in the middle of the night, but otherwise why not respond when you get his message? I don’t understand.

You know what Ryan ..... I am WAYYY older than you (nearly 50 years old) and happily engaged to elope this summer, so I don't really "need" your videos so to speak ... but stumbled across your channel recently as I am off work from my little retirement mall job during the pandemic. Your videos have given me some insight on how to improve my communication with my honey! Good content for single folks and old crusty soon to be married folks alike. Great job! -- A retired 23 year veteran child protective services investigator

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Love that, Heather! Glad the videos are enhancing your communication with him! 😀Thanks for checking out the channel!

@heatherastleford7513

4 жыл бұрын

@Spooky Spectre .... correct! I will turn 49 in June .... 49 years YOUNG. I like that!

My crush texted me after a thunderstorm and asked me if I ended up toasting 100,000 pieces of bread, which I previously pointed out you can perfectly do with a single bolt of lightning 😅

Hey buddy thanks for opening the week with the texts... Thank you...good job😋👌🖒

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

My pleasure, Nicol 😊

I got a kind text the other day: You made my heart happier the day I met you. 😊 that made me really happy.

I love the enthusiasm of Americans 👍🏼 Lots of love, A Brit!

Please continue making videos about understanding the behaviours of the guys. Thank you! ❤️

I'm pretty sure I'm being "Love bombed" right now. Only because this is exactly what my ex husband did. Sad but good cause I now know the signs. 🙄

I can easily get any guy I want , but only problem is that I don’t know how to keep his interest.. with time it fades away!

@Vyansya

2 жыл бұрын

Well maybe you have to re-evaluate what can you give to the table. If every guy keep losing interest then the problem isnt in them.

Thanks! I have the majority if not all of these so you've made my day 😁

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Outstanding Rebekah! 😀

I'm glad you keep popping up so I subscribed it was a sign to figure out something

🔥🔥🔥 thank you for sharing. Awesome videos! 🤗

He would send me songs or KZread videos like every other day and ask what I thought about them 😁

Loved your insight and tips!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Christiana! 🙂

Thank you for your videos! It is easy to detain his interest in the beginning, and honestly I’ve seen all these things happening in our communications but at some point something went wrong, and relationship is crashing. And I am someone who wants and willing to work on it, because I know I am not perfect and want to fix things (first of all about myself, why, because till now I did not have examples of healthy long lasting relationships, which means I am the one having problems). Honestly would be lot more interesting to see topics about FIXING relationships that go wrong, it’s lot more complicated but also lot more appreciated ☺️

So I’ve watched this video a couple times and I just started dating someone I really like and for the first time I saw a reply to a joke that I made all in emoji’s and it felt really sweet and like a good ending to the conversation. And I totally got the vibe that he wanted to make sure that I knew the conversation was over which was really nice took the pressure off.

He was texting me every morning and when I busy at the work,he said have a nice day! How do I understand the guy.

The best text to me: The guy I date now CALLS me every night. 😇 It's hot

@jessicaf857

4 жыл бұрын

My man friend who I like as more than friend started calling me every day in the last month or so. He never called in the past. We’ve been friends awhile. He brings me food, supplies, got my prescriptions for me. Idk if this is him being a friend or him feeling more. I was in the hospital last year for 3 weeks and he didn’t act this way. He visited and called but not all the time.

@mrlsdutch

4 жыл бұрын

Just talk about it with him maybe! Then there is nothing to regret 😘

@berryjames3756

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t expect it to happen every night...because it won’t. Especially if he is a physically attracting dude.

@biancaradelfinger3338

3 жыл бұрын

Nice

@mrlsdutch

3 жыл бұрын

@@berryjames3756 he is attractive, called me Every Day and now lives with me. Planning to get married next year on an island. This is it, he is it and it is amazing! 🎉🎊🎊

Your voice is very soothing, love your videos! ☺️

I wish I found your channel years ago Ahahaha your videos are so helpful and have made me realize a lot

Haha, Well, I just know that my online crush and I we have been texting daily for 6 months. We actually met once in person after 4 months and still chat and sometimes speak everyday (couldn't meet up again because of the lockdown😭) what an accomplishments! 95% of the time he sends me good morning and good night text with hugs emoji and sometimes with a 😘. It's been pretty consistent and I am still feeling good about us and we occasionally talk naughty but never dirty and sexting.

Very good advice. Thank you. 😊

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, Anna! 🙂

This is actually very helpful! Thanks!

I think this guy cares and has more consideration than most. Every guy I've met was about themselves.

Best part of Monday mornings!!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

OMG Casy that's incredibly sweet of you to say! 😊Thanks for watching my vids all this time 👊🏼

Oh dear, I'm done with men. I'm ready to be with a lesbian

@t.t.k8093

3 жыл бұрын

They are just as confused. It's a people thing. Just pray for the right person to enter your life and keep the rest away. Use your spirit of discernment. 😉

@andreeaghimpau8553

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@leahmoonbeamflower333

3 жыл бұрын

You’ll have the same problems. People are people are people. We should all be so lucky to meet our soulmates. In the meantime, I’m my own soulmate and I never ghost me.

@sarasike8183

3 жыл бұрын

Ugh fr I’m not bi no more 😔 girls here I come 😂 but fr doe why do guys have to be so confusing

@courtneyhagahuno9707

3 жыл бұрын

Sara Sike baby girl tell me about it, I am done with all these mind games😩

Sweet talkers, players, ghosters, you named it, they all master these! It is really hard to read and trust men nowadays. They will do anything to make u believe them. Don't let them tricks you. So girls, don't just let ur guard off but be very extra careful. Tho, I still believe that there are good men left out there.

This was SO helpful. Didn’t know if he likes me…now I know he does!! :)

Fantastic advice as always! I did it after watching last week's video...I let the guy go! 😊 In the last week I've followed up on a dream by buying a kayak, I'm starting to feel better in myself, & I'm excited about what might come next - so thank you 🙏

@casy6203

4 жыл бұрын

Yay!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Great job, Kate! WOW *making moves*!!! So inspiring to read this and I'm sure you've got some superb things coming your way 😎🙌🏼 Keep it up!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Whoop Whoop! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

A guy I knew did almost all of these and still wasn’t crushing on me or anything 🤔. But that was just a one time thing and I think these are all true for most guys

You are awesome, Ryan! 🥰

I usually don’t follow these ! But I’m glad I did. I’m married with a 3 month old. An lawd this made me feel better. It’s sad that texting has got this far 😒😞😭. I can say I’m blessed. He doesn’t leave me alone an I’m blessed for that!

The guy I was messaging before CV19 is giving me all this, we've just got to meet now but we have to wait! Its driving me mad!!

@hieronymusboschful

3 жыл бұрын

I’m in the same situation. It SUCKS.

He said, "Good night, see you in your dreams. Except you won't see me because I'll be reading you" Like, ??? I haven't responded in a few days cos I have no idea what this means

@Vyansya

2 жыл бұрын

Thats kinda creepy 😂

Another great video thanks for sharing!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

You bet, Diana! 😄

am getting before and after I met him.. he never gets tired of letting me know that he is doing okay and checking if am doing okay. Even on his busy hours driving he will use his side chick (siri) just to make sure he can communicate with me. I hope he wont change cause am loving it.

Any advice on this text? Him: "Sorry. I just haven't really wanted to get out much this week. I'm trying not to eat out much. I just came home and crashed" Me: Yeah I understand about the not wanting to eat out as much. Honestly I just wanted to spend some time with you 😊. Him: I know. I'm just not feeling particularly social

@datingcoachryanpatrick

2 жыл бұрын

Casey, he's not interested. NEXT! 👉👉👉

I get good morning, in the morning I think it's first thing for him it's usually around 6.30am before he heads off to work, I get during the day if he's not too busy, what's doing, and I get photos of some of his work, , um, we haven't met yet but plan to in about 1 week

By the way Ryan I just discovered your channel you’re so awesome hot funny smart the lot ! Thanks for your work

Ure so on point dear. More grace and wisdom to u 😍

Why do guys text "So, what's new?" when he has barely engaged or asked questions about you? I always comes across to me as "Hey, I am bored, entertain me".

That explains why he never lets me text lastly... like he always have to be the last one.. when I asked him about it, he says he feels more comfortable that way so I just leave it at that 😅

"Good morning, got a late start but wanted you to know I dreamed about you last night, and it was good" we r meeting Saturday!! Finally Ryan a guy that checks all the good boxes. Thanks for all ur advice

Another great, accurate video.