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Sign #1: you're watching this video 😂

@moumou1003

4 жыл бұрын

T. B. 🤣🤣🤣big sign

@alainawalt6009

4 жыл бұрын

i've been talking to this guy for a month and he seemed rly intersted and i rly like him but now he's only asking for nudes how do i get him to stop without ruining our relationship Edit: I've blocked him on everything since he wouldn't stop and i wont see him for some time because or quarantine. Thanks guys :)

@ishafavour4788

4 жыл бұрын

T. B. 😂 😂

@HoneyElaraby14

4 жыл бұрын

just a double check if he does this 🤣 Lucky, he's doesn't lol

@abciluvme

4 жыл бұрын

Seriously 😂

Why can’t a guy just be like I’m not feeling this... have a good life.. I wouldn’t even be mad

@omarfearon7899

3 жыл бұрын

Because we are often left with petty responses like "wasnt feeling you anyways"

@materialhell

3 жыл бұрын

Because there is the stereotype of a woman freaking out and going crazy on him. They believe BS stories from their friends and decide, instead, to ghost or string you along.

@angewels

3 жыл бұрын

Why don't more women go with their gut, accept reality and walk away

@jibrijibri4548

3 жыл бұрын

Yess fr

@milanabui4637

3 жыл бұрын

we'll never be able to conceive the limits of human stupidity

If a man likes you ..you’ll know ...he’ll make efforts ...if not then screw em 🤷🏾‍♀️

@moons4363

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks ❤

@rosalinasimpson9023

3 жыл бұрын

Why I can't do it😭😭

@PRINCESS2527

3 жыл бұрын

@@rosalinasimpson9023 yes you can ....focus on something else, hobby , interest, travel somewhere....you can do it..! Work on you !! ❤️

@PRINCESS2527

3 жыл бұрын

@@moons4363 your welcome ☺️

@redfather5342

3 жыл бұрын

Wow juuuuust wow

This dude knows what he's talking about...as much as I don't want to hear it😞

@lisamccurry4003

3 жыл бұрын

yeah I didn't want to hear it either cuz the truth hurts , but there it is and I can't deny it

@rayenelevid1270

3 жыл бұрын

@GuessWho lol r u saying he's gay n I don't agree that gays give best advice anyone can give great advice jeeez

@rachelr1132

3 жыл бұрын

#2 -#8 -#9 ended up blocking him ... time & energy waster 😒

@sophiawainaina7377

3 жыл бұрын

I agree :( my current situation

@jessicajaspers3987

3 жыл бұрын

Girl show that you desever better

Signs he’s not interested: your intuition is telling you, thus you are watching this video

@jaylynneddington9314

4 жыл бұрын

Nah I'm just bored. I've watched THE MOST random videos sitting at home all day😂

@LupitaSin21

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! That one never fails. It's a matter of if you'll listen to your gut feeling or not.

@smjanagrg566

4 жыл бұрын

Its ok though 😩

@flaviaandrew5447

3 жыл бұрын

😹😹😹😹😹

@growinchristiandatingwithc5823

3 жыл бұрын

Hilarious and true

Frustrating thing is....guys who do this are often the ones who initiate contact with you, ask for your number etc... I've come to the conclusion that they simply collect phone numbers to feed their ego

@BajanPana

4 жыл бұрын

kristin lee Omgoodness. I just mentioned this to a friend of mine. And then they get mad when you stop responding.

@florjose5279

4 жыл бұрын

Very true

@SakshiSingh-ih4li

4 жыл бұрын

Absoltly agree on dis fact

@cyndigooch1162

4 жыл бұрын

kristin lee It's definitely true about the ego issue and I've even heard it from the horse's mouth, so to speak. 🙂

@binkyfaith

4 жыл бұрын

THIS...he texted after mths,and when I reached out he ghosted the call and sent it to voicemail.

I give up! I'm getting a cat and calling it a day. Lol

@MsMtwardy

2 жыл бұрын

I got my dogs unconditional love 😂🤣🤣🤣

@beckymedvetz228

2 жыл бұрын

Yes yes and yep

@juiciejx

2 жыл бұрын

😆😆

@joyspawworld

2 жыл бұрын

lol

@itscristoff9036

2 жыл бұрын

keep trying hahahha

When he doesn’t initiate the convo EVER.......don’t continue reaching out.

@airishviscara2326

2 жыл бұрын

Ok😂😂

@user-ym9pm1lb1j

2 жыл бұрын

What if he still initiate convos, just that when I reply,he rereplys really late and sometimes no reply at all? These things are so confusing….why can’t life be simpler

@airishviscara2326

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-ym9pm1lb1j maybe he is busy

@user-ym9pm1lb1j

2 жыл бұрын

@@airishviscara2326 Thank you❤️. I wanted to believe, but I suppose it's time to accept the truth.... I just haven't figured out if I should try to get him to like me or just accept this and move on.

@user-rj6sq4kr7h

2 жыл бұрын

He just initiated when I decided to move on weeks ago and then we started talking again. He just checked on me, asking if I was okay. Then suddenly all of my hope goes up again. After he initiated for the first time, I got the courage to talk to him again and then now, I'm still hoping that he would do the first move for us to talk. We just met online, I am the one who did the first move to talk to him because I find him rlly interesting. I'm so ready to forget about everything before, I didn't mind that I may probably ghost him because I thought he doesn't even care about me but after he initiated for the first time, all the thoughts that I should forget him backfired me. And until now, I'm still waiting for him because if you would see our last convo you might be ready disappointed at me. Sorry if my English is not perfect, just want to vent out :D

When he doesn't text back in quarantine. There. That's the sign. *Edit June 8th* Wow. So many comments/likes! Thanks ☺️

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

That's a big one 😪

@joywalsh6150

4 жыл бұрын

Haha haven't texted him for this reason exactly!!! No point as I know he won't respond!

@BajanPana

4 жыл бұрын

That’s so true.

@leylafar3476

4 жыл бұрын

Alexa Likes indeed 🤣🤣

@victoriadream

4 жыл бұрын

Alexa Likes yuppppp!!!!

C’mon women, we already know this. We tend to make excuses, but that needs to stop. We deserve so much better!

@kristinlee9485

4 жыл бұрын

And the minute you realize this, you're single forever. They're all like this

@tzukhi

4 жыл бұрын

I lost my fate . Been single and no interested on any one . I finally met someone . But he’s seems to be complicated in some areas and i find myself confuse after every date we have . There many red flags but the feeling i get when i think of him or see him i know i like him and haven’t feel this way for years. But theres somethingnof with this guy. I’m ao confused and my brain is telling me to run. What do i do??? I want to live this feeling ! I want to keep getting to know him. So fucked up! Why does this happens?!!!

@tzukhi

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry single for 7 yrs

@tamannatazz5800

4 жыл бұрын

@@tzukhi same type of problem here. May be you r fall in love.

@noragrets5553

4 жыл бұрын

Sugarskull80 .. no, wrong!

Him: I think we should meet Me: *laughs across the pacific ocean*

@amxu_

3 жыл бұрын

wheeze

@mariahconklin4150

2 жыл бұрын

“Can I have your phone number?” He texts me instead. Lol! I should just send him this video and call it a night and just say no thank you.

If a guy doesn’t text me back the first time or sound enthusiastic in his response, all desire within me shrivels and dies.

@DistortedV12

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes we’re genuinely busy

@zsofiasej

2 жыл бұрын

@@DistortedV12 I’m insanely busy 24/7 but if I like someone back, I’ll be enthusiastic in my response or get back to them within a few hours. I expect the same for someone who reciprocates my level of attention, otherwise-not interested.

@americohagim1131

2 жыл бұрын

Hey I’m a guy and I’m watching what the “other side” experiences because all the advice from men’s channels have failed me. Are you right that almost all girls are actually like that they want guys to reply as soon as they actually can???

@cherrylane79

Жыл бұрын

@@americohagim1131 How long a woman should wait? If you are interested, you will contact them when you can. When you are not, you procrastinate.

All the single lady's, 💘 All the single lady's. 💘 We don't need a man to survive 👌

@Geminimom22

3 жыл бұрын

A real man would not ignore the one he pursued. He would do his best to make sure he gets her time.

@rowiriri7579

3 жыл бұрын

Yes we do lmao, we all need a companion and yr a liar if u say no!

@VoltairesRevenge

3 жыл бұрын

Ladies. Smh

@michelleg5371

3 жыл бұрын

Shipa R lol spot on .👍😂💞

@ttrapp3371

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

So true. Don’t chase a guy that is not interested. Move on. It only leads to heart break.

@starship-hs1qw

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I can forget this guy whose name is Dan levik I just want to forget about him and I wish I never mentioned anything to him about a fair ride

@amxu_

3 жыл бұрын

how to move on without having any heartbreak

@xmotivational603

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah ,its legit

@irenesantander3340

3 жыл бұрын

I hope I can forget my ex Nabil 😔

Sign 1* : he's texts are short- Me : ight .. i'mma head out 😒

@victoriajade4207

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO ONG

@nusuralove4407

3 жыл бұрын

Short texting ALL the time is sign...

@viviannebatistaa4288

3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHA FR

@calista5960

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rqrjq4iari4

Жыл бұрын

same 😂

This just felt like a slap on my face.

@nadinegomez8858

3 жыл бұрын

it's better to get that early than later

@netrika24

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@victorymlotshwa7497

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@shashik8847

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@YasaswiniBugatha0911

3 жыл бұрын

yeah

No response IS a response.

@margomazzeo1680

3 жыл бұрын

It really is..

@lg2573

3 жыл бұрын

Love that so true

@kathyhayward2228

3 жыл бұрын

@@lg2573 lol

@shakeyobooty9465

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, not coming to a "date" is too i think... (Yes it happened to me a few hours ago)

@w1975b

3 жыл бұрын

Agree. But I hate the thought that the guy is getting off the hook so easily if the woman just stops texting him. She should at least blast him to let him know he's a jerk, then be done with him.

I hate when a guy is interested too quickly. It's scary and feels like too much pressure to fall in love

@klickingkayasmr7585

3 жыл бұрын

That’s love-bombing 🤮🤮 stay away

@analyncuison5176

3 жыл бұрын

Too quick in love too soon disappear..it is really painful.

@NK-yo4um

3 жыл бұрын

Its not good thing stay away😥😥

@klickingkayasmr7585

3 жыл бұрын

Miss Madeline's adventures even though--I do recall my ex falling super hard, super fast for a girl immediately after we broke up--but I don’t think it was just a sexual thing. So maybe it’s not always just for booty. Not sure. That messed me up baddd

@ezequielbarraza9878

3 жыл бұрын

I take my time and take precautious steps i dont flirt off the bat but doesnt mean i dont like the girl i see if shes authentic or just wants a Nsa drama relationship i dont have time nor the energy for that.

Interested people ask questions. I like that point.

@redfather5342

3 жыл бұрын

So do annoying people

@lorireed8046

3 жыл бұрын

If they ask too many questions and reveal nothing about himself ... he is collecting things to hurt you with later.

@rebeccalalthamawi7048

3 жыл бұрын

True

Note to self: he just doesnt care. Move on

this made me block someone. and i feel relief. thank you

@everlastingblessing5058

4 жыл бұрын

Right, I think it’s the best thing to do😂😂🤣🤣🤣

@mimili7193

4 жыл бұрын

I did the same but a friend of mine told me that he would think that I really care about him and what he did hurt me, but I don't mind. That's his problem and he can think what he wants. But my mental health is in peace right now and I don't change that for anything. Though, I sometimes miss him, but anyways.

@swapnadas8235

4 жыл бұрын

Very good

@puritysidi1066

4 жыл бұрын

😅😅same to me...huh!! 🚮Let what flows flows

@arshiyapatel2628

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂

Blocked 3 guys. Removed myself from dating apps. Now comfortable in my 17+ years of being alone (though not enjoying it). This dating crap is pure nonsense.

@Lovecove4

3 жыл бұрын

Dating apps have really bad quality guys tbh

@burberryclaretred6676

3 жыл бұрын

It’s such a waste !!! I tried to start dating after my marriage ended and it’s been three years of time wasting with dating apps !!!

@burberryclaretred6676

3 жыл бұрын

Lovecove4 it’s all bad

@buzzingbee9499

3 жыл бұрын

Dating apps are full of cluster B's . Men also trying to get with woman way younger than them it's gross honestly. I'm 40 why can't I meet a guy my age it's so frustrating. I was in a long term relationship got left for a baby. It seems all men want this so mad.

@burberryclaretred6676

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 48 and separated 6 years and started dating sites in 2017 and I’m still single

this hurts like a bullet 💀

@ainharjitbs

3 жыл бұрын

So..so..true

Lol I love it ....if a guy doesn't like you he will come at you with sex , if a guy really likes you he won't even try sex because he is so scared he will mess up and lose you.

@missmodern

3 жыл бұрын

😶

@myshell56

2 жыл бұрын

Oh well been made a fool of again.

@myshell56

2 жыл бұрын

But I am back in the game. August 1😊

@camichsoda

2 жыл бұрын

not entirely true tho

@HighDesertSanctuary

2 жыл бұрын

Not always. My first night with my husband was very sexy ;

The best part: "If you're not left feeling good, that's your intuition telling you that there's something off with this guy".

@margomazzeo1680

3 жыл бұрын

Yup..so right..

@peytongomer2305

3 жыл бұрын

If you leave feeling good, do you think it means they feel good too?

@ItsAllBeenDecided

3 жыл бұрын

@@peytongomer2305 Perhaps, perhaps not. All I can say is that I've lived most of my life trusting my gut feeling or intuition, if you will. It has never let me down yet.

@peytongomer2305

3 жыл бұрын

ItsAllBeenDecided thanks :)

@debbieparks8108

3 жыл бұрын

Usually a narcissist

Anybody else single, not looking and watching this just because

@KatB69

4 жыл бұрын

me

@Forelysse

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@truerosie

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. I'm an older woman, quite enjoy being single, but find these newer dating coaches so interesting. It's so interesting to me learning about how different men and women are, how different our psychologies are, and how the same behaviour can mean totally different things to men and women. Also good to know for if I do meet someone I'm interested in.

@shamila3877

4 жыл бұрын

Me

@negativeorange

4 жыл бұрын

I'm married watching this to reflect on exes

“WYD” all the time is a sign. You can’t get to know a woman with a text saying “WYD” over and over again -

@vidabenson5517

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr . lt's soooo annoying

@aminah761

3 жыл бұрын

That’s the worst I don’t even respond

@d.elizabeth128

3 жыл бұрын

@@aminah761 I agree !

@alexplays9838

3 жыл бұрын

Wyd is jus so elementary level n middle school🤣

@alexandermarcus9076

3 жыл бұрын

ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠ₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ⱧɆ ł₴ ₳ ⱠØVɆ ₴₱ɆⱠⱠ ₵₳₴₮ɆⱤ. ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥ ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣.........

Another one that guys who aren't interested say is "Call me any time". That translates to "Because I'm not going to call you". A guy who is into you will call, text, drive, walk, swim, fly, boat, train, bus...whatever it takes to talk to you and see you. No distance is too far because the plan is to move you closer or himself closer at some point if things go the way he hopes. Period! If it that ain't going on, move on.

I just unfollowed and removed the guy I like on instagram after watching this. He literally hits all these signs and I'm tired of overthinking things about him.

@prettyvacant3605

4 жыл бұрын

Did he ever try to contact you after removing ?

@hidden_inchrist

4 жыл бұрын

@@prettyvacant3605 Nope. Not a word

@prettyvacant3605

4 жыл бұрын

You will find the one that deserves you =)

@mariamiranda3208

4 жыл бұрын

You deserve a guy who think you are amazing!!! He’s out there, waiting for you ......

@brownrux3245

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

If a guy doesn’t give me genuine attention I lose interest so quick. He has to want to know how I am, how my day was, be sweet, flirty, polite 🤷🏻‍♀️

@moniamonik7061

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I have just understood it recently, after dealing with some man

@ashleysgotjokes

4 жыл бұрын

SAME

@ohsusanneh

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I’m so turned off now. We had crazy chemistry but that’s not even enough.

I'm single and not even dating but I'm watching these like a review of past situations 😂

In this age of social media, if all someone want to do is text and NOT TALK. You are WASTING YOUR TIME.

@redfather5342

3 жыл бұрын

What's wrong with just being texting buddy's

@alexplays9838

3 жыл бұрын

Nah das not true mane

@endtimeservant8531

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexplays9838 Some of us just have better expectations than just words on a SCREEN.

@Machelle3200

3 жыл бұрын

@@redfather5342 What are we in high school? smfh.

@amdiary7

3 жыл бұрын

That’s not true. I’m personally super shy and I’ll feel uncomfortable talking on the phone. Irl it’s okay tho.

Yea I’m done with even trying anymore. I’m going to focus on myself

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Breaks are super healthy and necessary for sure 😉

@ciggytwiggy

4 жыл бұрын

Samesie!

@shannonbrown560

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I hate being single. Sick of mind games. Older men arent even better.

@grobanite4ever85

4 жыл бұрын

I am done also!

@callmebabydoll6565

4 жыл бұрын

Yes girl

I’m for sure dying alone lol

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

No no no just a little more sorting through the guy pile is needed, that's all 😉

@CamilaSaurus

4 жыл бұрын

Ryan Patrick Haha thanks Ryan!

@carriemcclure7253

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@lisalittell7467

4 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@sheenalee7602

4 жыл бұрын

Same here!

When you really like that person you don’t wanna know the truth about it..

@sarahmulenga615

3 жыл бұрын

I stopped taking to the guy I liked cuz I had a gut feeling that something wasn't right

@varunij4710

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shikiyodo do you like him?

#5 "Busy person makes time to pursue you, when they are interested in you", I still find my own excuses, but this does help to enlighten my thoughts.

@m3ta11ica_

2 жыл бұрын

true

Sad when even older men that you would think would be a bit more serious about not wanting to play games, are behaving like this while leading you on and feeding their ego.

@SmileyAdventures

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly smh I’m speaking about men between 35-40. Been there

@Moemoe6961

3 жыл бұрын

50 and 60 year olds do it too

@andreafajardoperdomo

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. They shouldn't be texting you back if they're not really interested . Bummer

@kjsfl386

3 жыл бұрын

They’re not men...they’re grown boys. 😊

@jamesdelatorre3105

3 жыл бұрын

Shoe on other foot mode. Love it.

"I'm Busy" is the most overused excuse.....

@j8278

4 жыл бұрын

Heard one say “texting just isn’t a priority to me, it’s verbal communication that I like.” Ok but we are in quarantine and we ft at NIGHT

@SpiritualLifeCoach43

3 жыл бұрын

They never too busy for sports video games or buying some new shoes though lol

@t_m_420

3 жыл бұрын

@Juairia Jahin my bf did. Apparently you can be 'busy' playing video games & watching movies but at the same time miss me but not enough to call me before bed.... I'm honestly at the last straw now, he's walking a thin line.

@t_m_420

3 жыл бұрын

@Juairia Jahin thank you, sorry I kinda went on a bit of a rant earlier. Thanks so much I hope you are happy in your life & have people around you who support & love you for who you are.

@kimberlygould5659

3 жыл бұрын

You make time for what you like/love.....there I said it....all anyone needs to hear.........ever...........

Exactly nobody is that busy not to text someone back they r simply ignoring you

@alexandermarcus9076

3 жыл бұрын

ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠ₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ⱧɆ ł₴ ₳ ⱠØVɆ ₴₱ɆⱠⱠ ₵₳₴₮ɆⱤ. ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥ ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣..... ..

That's why it's important to talk. If a guy texts and never calls you, you're an after thought for free time. Texting does not require undivided attention and you'll never know if you are the only one he's entertaining someone else simultaneously... or not.

@Badlilfairy

3 жыл бұрын

But what does it mean when I’m hard of hearing ? I don’t use call often.

@theamazingchamp

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t like calls. Nope. Nooooope. Not at all. Texting is fine, thank you

I was dating a guy for 6 weeks who displayed at least 5 of these signs. When he moved away for a job offer, I thought I had lost a decent guy. Watching this video CONFIRMED that he was not the right guy for me. Thanks Ryan! ☺️🤟🏼

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome, Catharine! Thanks for sharing that! 😉Decent guys aren't afraid to put in the work with you or show you interest pretty quickly. I'm hoping this video helps folks avoid wishy-washy guys who either don't know what they want or maybe are afraid to level with you about their lack of interest 👌🏽

@jeannettetyge7866

4 жыл бұрын

Ryan How can I believe a guy that says that he truly wants to be with you you, but he makes up excuses?

@iwantthechisme1338

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeannettetyge7866 he doesnt want to be with you if he makes excuses as to why he cant be with you

I think that if a guy really likes you, you’ll know. Itll be easy to see that. Mixed signals do not exist. They either like you. Or they don’t

Girls.. This guy saying the everything true about guys.. This is your true friend..

Note To Self: "HE DOESN'T CARE MOVE ON GIRLY"

@noturlocalhabibi

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you I really needed this 😭💕

It’s too bad people can’t just express their feelings, we have to be deciphering things like texts messages.

@mabelw7

3 жыл бұрын

Ya its weird

@buzzingbee9499

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@starcatcher3691

3 жыл бұрын

They dont want to hurt your feelings or they dont want to stop the attention. People will never be really honest dating. That's why action means more than words.

@triciadoescomedy

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@nandagoveronica6560

3 жыл бұрын

Am a texting person!

Last week I actually asked my crush do you have any questions for me and he said NO😂😂😂 blunt and straightforward....

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Gotta love a straight-shooter! 🤣

@HaileysHealth

4 жыл бұрын

Lol! Sorry, this is kinda funny.

@RJ25255

4 жыл бұрын

That's messed lol

@dollyrama1132

4 жыл бұрын

100% accurate.

@roxannehiga7949

4 жыл бұрын

I real don't have. A crush. Okay.

Why is he literally narrating my life wow man

You just described every single one of my online dating conversations. I’m not going to even bother with the apps anymore

@nwatson2773

3 жыл бұрын

Delete them sis! Move on with your life!

@zaz4jaz

3 жыл бұрын

same

@myshell56

2 жыл бұрын

Me neither

@lindiwemalindi1278

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao this is so me! Badoo,Tinder! I'm so done!!!

I've encountered this several times & I'm the type to stop talking to a guy in a week. The second I see any little thing that seems off I will cut all contact. Life is too short to get one's feelings all caught up for someone who isn't worth it.

@cubanita365

3 жыл бұрын

Man, I used to be this way. I'm working towards getting back to this point 🙌 no time for bs!

@dustersinternational221

3 жыл бұрын

very strong 💐🌻 i got caught up and learnt my lesson. I have now taught myself boundaries and to not ignore red flags. I have worked on my issues from why i was willing to take such disrespect and now i honour who i am... love and light to you 💗🌞🙏

@stillirise33

3 жыл бұрын

@@dustersinternational221 That is wonderful! It is never easy but once you are able to decipher between what's good for you & what's not you'll be fine. I have been through a lot & those lessons prepared me for how & who I am today.

Self Love Ladies!! Self Love!

This vids hurt like hell. 😭💔

@johnwilliam3123

3 жыл бұрын

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥ ️ ♥ ️ ♥ ️.

@johnwilliam3123

3 жыл бұрын

He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay💯💯💯.

@johnwilliam3123

3 жыл бұрын

What sapp him..

@johnwilliam3123

3 жыл бұрын

+2 3 4 8 1 2 2 5 1 1 9 2 2

Get back to Basics ladies, just ask your grandma how it's done!

This all so true. You can normally tell when a man is interested, if I have to question it I don't invest.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

He usually won't keep you waiting too long if he's into you, for sure 😉

@dorafrayres

4 жыл бұрын

Ryan Patrick 😞😞😞

@elenachiritescu2681

4 жыл бұрын

👌

I'm 36 and you schooled me. Thanks. I'm too old to be wasting time

Two years and 3 months long distance relationship 😔 he just played with my heart. I lost myself 🙁 Eventually he completely left. Thanks 🙏 for this advice

@beachynailsaus

3 жыл бұрын

How often did you meet up during long distance?

@addye.5661

3 жыл бұрын

I’m interested to know as well.

@MyNguyen-lj1nf

3 жыл бұрын

Mine is 8 years

@nabslifee

3 жыл бұрын

Start having a good time with yourself. Learn a new hobby , self care , make new friends ( not love until you know it ) pamper yourself ❤️ lots of love. You're amazing.

@jezajoy6888

2 жыл бұрын

Its alright dear....just endure the pain...cry...till it hurts no more...it is better to be miserable now than marrying him and be miserable for lifetime...u r beautiful.....u deserve a man not a boy....

Not asking questions - # 1 complaint along with one line responses!

No guys pursue me and no guys like me. Excited to adopt a child single and move on with my work and life free of male drama

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

I hope that changes in the guy department soon, Hannah 🙌🏼In the meantime, congrats on adopting!

@hannahscott6604

4 жыл бұрын

Ryan Patrick till I’m 40, this is the way it’ll be LOLZ

@grobanite4ever85

4 жыл бұрын

All of the decent guys don't like me only mental guys and dirty old men!

@grobanite4ever85

4 жыл бұрын

@@hannahscott6604 I am 34 and fat do I will be single for life!

@SleeplessinOC

4 жыл бұрын

Marybeth Langendorf lol...I have almost no men that like me , even the mental and dirty old men . Sometimes but not even those ! Lol

This video is sooooo depressing because this always happens to me 😑

@dorafrayres

4 жыл бұрын

Melanie Jones this is happening to me right now 😞

@clariethaboyd2833

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@christiaruba

4 жыл бұрын

Sadly its all true.

@takuariki8696

3 жыл бұрын

I felt this too

@lovelace8702

3 жыл бұрын

So now you can stop wasting your time on them so u can find someone who is not this way

Ouch 😣😣... he's actually hitting the nail of it's head ..it hurts cause it's so true

This vid made me feel so much more confident about this. I actually feel like he might be interested in me! He shows the opposite of all these signs

4. He never texts right back. The irony of it is that, he's always online. Always on his phone and laptop. And when we videocall, he always do something else on the phone or in his laptop. So why is he taking so long to reply?

@janetarguelles1938

3 жыл бұрын

Ha ha of course he's busy from something else, (no offense meant )

@deborahknights295

3 жыл бұрын

Liz I been threw this nice to see guys doing this video some guys lie a lot not adll. Man r bad

@arnie3631

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe you should take a hint at this point?

@bucket9805

3 жыл бұрын

@@arnie3631 A week after I made my comment here, I broke up with him. Realization strikes and it hurts big time. But I am okay now.. Almost moved on.

@catclark9488

3 жыл бұрын

@@bucket9805 It'll take time to move on, but good on you for realizing your worth :)

This video should be required viewing before you make any online dating account 💯

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Haha love that Sarah! 😍

"Until you meet him, you'll never really know what it is" Me as an American talking to a guy from Canada during lockdown: **sweating intensifies**

@InshasChoice

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@Mwiizy

2 жыл бұрын

After watching this, I just realized none of the men I am talking to are interested in me😢. It sucks but thanks for sharing.

@InshasChoice

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mwiizy love will come to you when you least expect it. Don't sell yourself short. Love isn't always obvious. It'll suck a lot less when you start loving yourself. I'll leave you with this: _are you someone you'd be in a relationship with?_

You're so true! I've always been ignoring these signs with all the guys online up until now. Now I met a guy online who asks me questions all the time, wishes me goodnight or goodmorning, sends pictures of his work during work, he wants to meet up etc. Etc. So weird for me to have a guy chase me for once! We have a date this saturday. 🤪

@GS-zm8vj

3 жыл бұрын

What if you got a guy who does all the above except never initiates plans for a 2nd date. I feel im in a unique situation so general advice doesnt serve me

@skipads9790

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad to hear that😍 someone caring about you, someone sharing his life, someone chasing you Demi😄 so glad as if I were your friend or a sister. God bless..

@DemiFu

3 жыл бұрын

@@skipads9790 not anymore

@skipads9790

3 жыл бұрын

@@DemiFu, really? 😔

@DemiFu

3 жыл бұрын

@@skipads9790 yes it was false alarm. After 1 date he was like NOPE.

I don’t even know why I’m watching this video because no one is texting me in the first place 😨

@mejustbeingme1207

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@chrysichrysi7889

3 жыл бұрын

Lol, same.🤷‍♀️😌

@lorireed8046

3 жыл бұрын

This came up on recommended hmm... I am just bored and I stopped even trying 4 years ago.

I told him that I wanted to meet up again, he told me he was very bussy that he didn't know when he would have time. The innocent me told him 'Don't worry, I am sure we will find time'. The hell. We never talked again, and I WON'T text him ever again. Bye. For ever.

"If you're not left feeling good then that's your intuition telling you there's something off with this guy" 💯 00:07:39 BEST LINE THAT SUMS UP ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW IF HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU OR NOT.. 😎 Our feelings are correlation to our intuition guiding us something is not right.

I really love what this guy is talking he totally nails it😂

This actually helped confirm that someone IS interested in me☺️ and it makes me feel so much better. He is super busy on his phone for work all the time but he still makes an effort to text me. He is eager to get together when I was a little hesitant the first time we met. He feels pressure about planning our dates. I learned to be patient because his job does require a lot of focus but even if he’s swamped I always get a good morning or “I hope you had a good day, I have to finish this by so and so.” Or “Good night” with lots of kisses. Finally found a good one!! 😂💕

@coolcatmcswirly

3 жыл бұрын

That's good. I think mine is interesting too but I'm not sure. He asks about me and he compliments me when he's not busy lol

Texting means nothing. Does he have his own place, his own car, a job? Does he live with a woman? If he can't even take care of his self. Don't go any further.

@elenachiritescu2681

4 жыл бұрын

Very well said!

@flaviaandrew5447

3 жыл бұрын

small things make up a whole

@naturalcurlyhair8331

3 жыл бұрын

@@elenachiritescu2681 Thankyou

@sayraflores6595

3 жыл бұрын

He has all of those. Not in a relationship.

@laina1976

3 жыл бұрын

@@sayraflores6595 my guy too but just not initiating texts.

A lot of these match up with the guy I talked to for 2.5 months... he ended up being manipulative and narcissistic. Im so glad I found out so soon.

@alexandermarcus9076

3 жыл бұрын

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@anndavis2920

3 жыл бұрын

please pray for me. i have ben in 4 month online messaging/fake love situationship from fb nessenger since dec 2020 and i think the guy is married or living with someone bc he ghosted me for a week last month so i ghosted him but kept looking at his messages, then responded like an idiot bc ive got feelings for this guy but i think hes playing me for a fool. 4-2-21 hes in the military and now i dont trust him. ive ben too honest nd upfront with him about things nd myself so its all so depressing to me

The fact that he know everything about me hit different

"It will feel good in your gut" says it all. Intuition...

Also one more I’ve found that you could add to this list are guys who will only text back in the middle of the night. Sort of a weird but surprisingly common phenomenon. It’s like they’re not willing to give you any of their valuable daytime and from my experience it will never go anywhere.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Yup so true like during those prime "booty call" hours 😂NEXT!

@budgiebirdy

4 жыл бұрын

Hmmm. Unless he has an overnight job, it's almost like he's doing that because he's banking on you being asleep so that you don't call him or he doesn't feel obligated to text again because he's hoping you won't reply immediately. But yet, he did actually text you so it's another way of stringing you along.

@KatB69

4 жыл бұрын

Total booty call...

@jazzylicious143xoxoxo2

4 жыл бұрын

Julie Janasiewicz true

@solarlove237

4 жыл бұрын

Another angle is that’s when his wife or girlfriend is sleeping and he has true alone time to text you 🤷‍♀️

Wish I would've watched this a week ago, would've saved me some wasted time on a jerk! Thank you for your videos!

okay but like this has made me happy bc either my crush is super polite or he likes me

Girls, in some case we do have to treat guys with the methods that actually belong to men. What l mean by this? Just stop overthinking him and his actions, be more earth connected instead flying away when nothing is actually happens... Stay woman but remember he's your opponent and never forget to fight back. By this, l mean, - he pays no attention to you - do the same. If you don't see him being interested, just say to your feelings NO. This will bring you so much strenth and inner healing and you will sustain yourself for the one who deserves you. I 'm sharing my real situation. This is only one thing that helps...

@mmarmerc

3 жыл бұрын

You’re absolutely right, thank you!

Going to add something here , a guy will act like he’s interested for a while till you sleep with him once he’s got what he wanted out of you he’ll move on to the next and display these signs ! The trick is if you’re going to be single and have one night stands ,make sure you get to the point, so there is no strings attached! And no mixed signals.

@carolacollberg6502

3 жыл бұрын

Yes that is true, or he notices that you do all the giving loving etc and he feels you took the bait, hook, line and swallowed the whole f*cking fishing rod. Then you are his, he just have to give minimal effort, and the second he feels that you are getting this and are backing out he throw you a bone and most girls fall for this 😔

@kauegirlbluy2bluyz948

3 жыл бұрын

@Shanice p you are stating a fact....

@alexandral6997

3 жыл бұрын

Yep I have had this happen and it’s annoying.

@dianevanderlinden3480

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexandral6997 so hard to know the difference and by the time you do it’s too late.

I wish I had seen this when I was 18... it would have saved me 20 years of bad relationships...

@anndavis2920

3 жыл бұрын

me too. i can totally relate. 4-2-21 from MN.

@triciadoescomedy

3 жыл бұрын

Aww so sorry that sucks

@simplymeee618

2 жыл бұрын

It's not too late! Do it now!!

This really helped me when someone was ignoring me sometimes back ....2021am here healed and enjoying my life.

No. 1 is absolutely true !! You write a whole paragraph telling him stuff and he just comes back with a one ☝️ liner or one word or an emoji !! Totally agree with you on that !! 😂🙄

@rqrjq4iari4

Жыл бұрын

😭💔

Ugh these videos arent as fun when they hit home...still a fan but I need a walk🙃

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Ugh sorry Casy. Walks are good, though! 🙂

@HAIZZUL

4 жыл бұрын

Casy 🤣🤣😂🤣

@puregoldintuition

3 жыл бұрын

LmaoO

@Ayivierica

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Thank you for sharing a man's perspective. It is a *REAL* eye opener.

I don't understand how anyone can dislike this post. It is totally rich and informative!

The awkward moment when he does all of these..

@leahlandry6749

3 жыл бұрын

Smaragda G. 😆✌🏽🙌🏽

@Indite_Biden

3 жыл бұрын

😂✔️✔️✔️

I'm in my 60s. Spoiler alert. If all he does is text and ph, its NOT real, it's all b.s.....simple! Smoke and mirrors....its time to sharpen up , ladies

@cynthiaallen9225

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. I started dating a guy who only asked me out for Saturday nights. I dumped him.

Thank you so much, Ryan. I needed to hear this.

Thankyou ryan, the guy im dating has no time for me and theres 0 effort coming from him theres nothing from him really

This video just gave me multiple reasons to end my relationship 😂💔

Good stuff, Ryan. Life is short, ladies. Don't waste your precious time on losers.

ABSOLUTELY amazing advice , 100% on point !

The story of my life, like I'm really focusing on learning so much more stuff now that my social life got to the minimum. And I feel so much better

There’s no such thing as a normal relationship, these days, thanks to social media. Dating seems to be a thing of the past.

@MsTomas086

3 жыл бұрын

Which is sad because I'm a traditional millennial.

@DallasJayCook

3 жыл бұрын

Also, wtf is “No label relationship” with Gen-Z’s?? I’m a millennial too married for 6 years and I’m thankful I’ve found true love before social media. Thankful that I experienced courting where guys take you on dates and be straight up honest with their feelings. women nowadays need a constant validation in social media and a constant ego stroke for men. Girls be half nude dancing in tiktok only to get men’s attention.. and then what? they still can’t get the love the way they want be love they end up being used or just for a good time and there are very few numbers of young men who actually wanna get married.

@DallasJayCook

3 жыл бұрын

@@juliettesleeve6763 So arrogant of you to assume I’m a plain house wife? Are you that one of those women who needs a constant validation form men?? The woman who belittle other women for being a housewife?? You should be ashamed of your attitude mam. I run a milktea business my own and my husband is a Navy who comes home once every 6 months from service. I don’t depend on my husband’s income alone. I struggle on my own too. My marriage isn’t perfect and Bold of you to assume I’m like this and that when you don’t know me haha! It’s funny because you got butthurt on my comment did I offend you indirectly madam?? Lmao.

Man this hurts😂😂

@smjanagrg566

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😭

@justtiffany9786

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr 😢

@melissapersall5359

3 жыл бұрын

Hurts BAD 😩💔😭😭

@valerieshinia8526

3 жыл бұрын

Really does

You have No Idea how I just saw this video on the right time. Thank you. Plus I like the way how you pass the message. Keep going 👌🌸

Omg you are so correct its crazy looking back at the things were between us. But you are dead on with all them.

So i once texted a guy i kinda like him and he replied with a thank you. 😂that hurt but I deleted his number

@normanelson6806

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you sister...

@sharonlee7296

3 жыл бұрын

So hurtful. Glad you moved on/away from that douche.

@mariahdela7658

3 жыл бұрын

@@sharonlee7296 yes some men but we get to learn from our own experience

@The_Eleventh_Sign

3 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

Deep down we know what it is but we still hold out hopes! I wish women weren’t such emotional beings😭

I have a major crush on a guy and this helped me a lot. I have hope that he might like me.