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Me rewatching this video after a year for another person:👁️👄👁️

@beetroot1453

3 жыл бұрын

Me rewatching this after two weeks for another crush: 👁️👄👁️

@iuliusfoyas8159

2 жыл бұрын

And the year after

@rynehemsworth1785

2 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@notsure2696

2 жыл бұрын

I can’t figure out if this girl used tactics on me or it’s been both of us just vibing. Well even if she did sure as f**k worked 😭.

@melmeyer0

2 жыл бұрын

😹 you’re the best

“Playing with Your Hair” Me, who plays with my hair because I have anxiety: Now I know why so many guys think I like them 😂

@Prdsnattie0214

3 жыл бұрын

Same! It’s just a habit for me, but It has gotten me in trouble so many times bc they think I’m flirting with them 😂

@valkyrietarot1735

3 жыл бұрын

If I do anything with my hair, men always hit on me more.

@Prdsnattie0214

3 жыл бұрын

Enchanted Luna exactly! Same here I hate it lol

@6maria94

2 жыл бұрын

I play with my hair all the time, but not when I'm with guys I like. I'm going bald and I fear that by moving it I'll get their attention to one of my flaws, so... Last date I had, I decided to tie my hair halfway through it so I turned my back to him meanwhile... Probably gave away the wrong message :/ but they'll still catch it, I'm way too bald now

Met new guy at a park, there was an ant in my hair that he flicked out, I didn't recoil, but the ant landed on my breast!! You should've seen his face!! Then he said 'you'll have to get it now!' He said he wasn't risking getting smacked on the first date!! Lol.... thought you'd find that funny! We had a good laugh!

@xtiebaby8312

3 жыл бұрын

I hope he's asked you out by now.

@barbieblue3336

3 жыл бұрын

And???

@Bridgets524

3 жыл бұрын

@@barbieblue3336 didn't work out, he felt we lived too far from each other!

Am i the only one that loves Ryan’s sense of humor ?

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Aww thanks Dina 🙂🙂

@msksm19

4 жыл бұрын

Haha no you're not alone. 😅

@rakadeyanda7048

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!😊

@Mushroom321-

4 жыл бұрын

no, 🤣

@truthhurts2318

4 жыл бұрын

No

hope these work from six feet away...damn you corona virus social distancing...

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Might have to wait just a few weeks to work these moves yes 😩

@evry1sacritic333

4 жыл бұрын

😂

@barbieblue3336

3 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick six months ago lol... Just wear stronger cologne lol....someone needs to invent a special one lol ...vivid covid chanel

@colhar4836

3 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick this aged poorly... *lol*

“Play with your hair” Me as a hijabi 😀

@emilymeyers6069

Жыл бұрын

💀

@ayayassin4553

10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@mennamohammed8433

2 ай бұрын

Same lol

maybe i’m not a woman hahah i don’t do tgis . if i like a guy i tend to not talk to them or completely ignore them .

@AlexandertheGreat99

3 жыл бұрын

Me, too! I can talk to any guy in the world, EXCEPT a guy I'm attracted to...

@katrin6388

3 жыл бұрын

i just giggle and look at them way too much

@The_Eleventh_Sign

3 жыл бұрын

SAME!💀💀

@mira3498

3 жыл бұрын

I think this is if you actually want them to know that you like them

@Tinyfurball

3 жыл бұрын

It's a Introvert thing, if you're shy or introvert. You'll not talk to him ever. I for one don't talk to Men, because I'm not into Men at all.

“Deliberate eye contact” 👁👄👁

@mari4nne

3 жыл бұрын

Started doing that with my crush... we’ll see how it goes ;)

@hermoinegranger7165

2 жыл бұрын

@@mari4nne how did it go???

@mari4nne

2 жыл бұрын

@@hermoinegranger7165 well I’m confused, I think he was scared to be in a relationship… but he definitely loved me back. Yeah it’s tough 😭

@hermoinegranger7165

2 жыл бұрын

@@mari4nne owww it's okie don't be sad he'll come to you someday or a more better suitable person will come to your life✨💜❤️

@mari4nne

2 жыл бұрын

@@hermoinegranger7165 thank uuu! I’ll try to get him back! and if it doesn’t work I’ll move on 💖

Usually when I like a guy, I’ll try to talk to him as much as possible plus flirt and ask him to hang out or shoot just even ask him out on a date. I ain’t afraid! I’ve confessed my feelings to someone before and he rejected me but I would’ve rather done that than keep quiet like I’ve done with my other former crushes.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

It's important to be forthright, but in the beginning, try and see if you can spot signals he's feeling the same way about you. As a good rule of thumb, I'd hold off on disclosing true feeling until after consistently dating for a few months. Then, it won't come out of the blue to someone if you've been seeing them for a while 🙌🏼

@biancacherry7059

4 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry girl but you are radiating masculine energy!!

@miriyumyum3590

2 жыл бұрын

@@biancacherry7059 ?

@miriyumyum3590

2 жыл бұрын

No

@AppleBottomJ

2 жыл бұрын

I need to do this. I see this bag boy every so often. He’s so gorgeous. I am 17 (in July) and I don’t know his age or anything about him. Just his name..

I get all giggly and nervous around him, you think he knows? 😝

Thank you for including the shy people not just the confident, out going people!!:)

can you do a video about eyes, considering most of us have to wear masks these days.. 😷

@kiochan_yt6070

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yes

This is great but what happens when my brain spazzes when I see them

@spellywelly

3 жыл бұрын

Totally underrated comment!

@nicolehliziyo2573

2 жыл бұрын

This is me ... I have failed 😔..... he looked at me and I froze and looked away .. today he actually can close I still felled 🚶🏽‍♀️

I love how he gives advise but is Funny at the same time. Makes me feel more Relaxed instead of watching men give advice staring at the camera without blinking 😂

I always give myself a “spritz” of angel, my signature perfume. I even keep one handy in my car door pocket & if i get pulled over i mist a cloud while they cop is walking over to my window, roll it down when his face is close & i ask what’s the matter! Never got a ticket yet

My favorite thing to do is to slowly roll my eyes during eye contact with a subtle half smile. It’s my favorite type of tease

The moment he looked in my eyes and I in his eyes from a short distance was the best day of 2020. It was magical. I hope we somehow get in touch again

@Gianni.chellini

3 жыл бұрын

@Moi Maris: let's pray to Jesus Almighty that pandemic gets over , so u may rejoin your beloved soon 😊😇🙏 I feel ur guy must be a shy person, that's why he might be behaving differently.

@moimaris3369

3 жыл бұрын

@@Gianni.chellini Thank you very much. Amen

@Gianni.chellini

3 жыл бұрын

@@moimaris3369 how r u doing there? Any update on ur situation with your crush? How is it going on? Does he try to contact you or make a move?

@goldsteinist

2 жыл бұрын

Omg same to me.

I was sitting beside him and almost automatic laid my head on his shoulder/cheast and he hold my hand like it was normal. I think I’m good🤷‍♀️😅

@barbieblue3336

3 жыл бұрын

And?

@kazumimizuki8207

3 жыл бұрын

Yooo go Girl 😂😂

@haroldedwardstyles4392

3 жыл бұрын

@@barbieblue3336 Shut tf up

@plainoldboringsimplesam7630

2 жыл бұрын

@@haroldedwardstyles4392 i thnk she's just asking what happened next, idk

If we end up dating I’m gonna miss searching up how to tell if he likes me and how to attract him

I cross my arms all the time, it's a comfortable habit...x

Hi Ryan, I'm a single mom and would like to try and date again. Can you do a video for single moms looking to date?

I absolutely love it when you say “Right Now” It’s so cute....

the eye contact thing works so well when he’s like a full foot taller. especially if you have a hat on. example; into my coworker. he’s a lot taller. we wear hats (it’s a restaurant.) so if i want to make eyecontact, i have to strain my neck, otherwise my hat will block my line of eyesight from him. it makes it obvious. the eyecontact thing i’ve been doing since before this, i didn’t really know about it. and from that point on he started hitting on me.

Hi Ryan, I recently found your channel and I am enjoying your videos immensely. I was drawn to it as someone who is interested in becoming a relationship coach, but also as someone who is single. All your topics are amazing and very helpful, not only for dating and relationship purposes but also for self-growth. As I was watching your videos I was thinking of my past experiences, how I put myself out there and what may be holding me back. So with being connected to body language, I'd love to see a video on dating and being in a relationship while suffering from Anxiety (or any kind of mental health issues) since having anxiety can hugely impact how you date and how you form relationships.

I cried laughing at the present your neck and apply chapstick bit 🤣 it turned into a herbal essences ad in my mind 😋

I had one guy literally lean against me at the bar . From time to time. He was gross and just got there. Sober. So I knew he was doing it on purpose- so after he did it three times I moved on the other side next to my friend and the guy leaned back, shocked I wasn't there and made a huge scene knocking over a bar stool and moving another one. My friends were 🤣😂

Obsessively watching all your videos wondering where you were 3 years ago. I love this channel 😍 thanks for all your work and for sharing it

The first time my crush touched me, he scared the crap out of me and I punched him in the stomach. I was doing work on a computer and he got a scam phone call. (There are some really bad ones going around Canada telling you that you're social insurance number has committed fraud) we had talked about them and had a good laugh about how bad the grammar was, so he decided it would be funny to come up behind me and put his phone up to my ear while resting the other on my shoulder... well I've been in the military for 10 years and don't respond well to being grabbed from behind... I felt so bad, and appologised profusely... it's been a month, and he just gave me a gentle shoulder pat. So hopefully I didn't scar him too much😅

@victorialester1634

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Anyone else read the board behind him as "How to get the spork back in a relationship"?? 😂 I'm hoping that means I need glasses, not that I'm doomed to be alone forever haha

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

LOL 😂 Sporks are *very important* in a relationship

@Ginger32

3 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick I don't like spooning I like sporking 😂

@daughteroftheking6402

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@PadfootZip

2 жыл бұрын

What's a spork?

Heey could you do one about meeting and talking to guys on apps for those of us who are stuck at home and bored, shout-out to covid19 💃

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Hmmm maybe "Teasing through Text" to get him hooked on meeting you after social distancing passes? 🤔

@chachipiruli3465

4 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick yeeeees please 🌝

@angelacollins

4 жыл бұрын

Ryan Patrick yes

@gemgemhops6820

3 жыл бұрын

angela collins it’s a yes from me to lol

@barbieblue3336

3 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick when is social distancing passing? I don't think 2020 lol

So hard to see the smile with a mask on so I guess I’ll have to focus on the eye muscles lol

Very helpful. I'm a huge flirt, sometimes it's not even on purpose but I agree with everything you said. The part where he's fidgety and that's a good sign surprised me a little but now I'm more sure the guy I like likes me too, so thank you.

Your so great Ryan love your videos!!! Keep them coming !!!

This is a great video! I’m happy that I found it and will start to use these tips asap. Thanks!!

PERFECT RYAN! I love that your telling me it's ok to touch a man when just meeting them... And I love the chap stick and neck tip! FAN-TAB-U-LOUS

New subscriber here 🙋‍♀️ You're amazing and your videos are on point 🤩

Ure my backbone for my dating process

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Glad I can back you up! 🙌🏼

Ok 3rd time watching this video, these tips r super helpful & I wanna make sure I have these tips down

On that last video about reading guys body language, I found out that I do a lot of those things when I’m with my friends…. I think I am gay for my friends 💀💀💀

Wow!! It’s my first time on this channel!! You’re so informative! I really enjoyed watching! Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge :)!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Tatiana! Nice to have you here 🙂

@krystavi05

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. Ryan gives great practical advice! And always straightforward.

So helpful. Love this video 😊

I struggle with maintaining eye contact.

Love your videos and you make me laugh !!! J'adore

How am I supposed to play with my hair if I dont have any??🤣🤣🤣

Thank you for the tips! 😊

Earlier, I just searched "How to communicate with your crush nonverbally" and saw first MEN'S BODY LANGUAGE DECODED. now I'm here at your another video. Thank you, tho.

Thank you! I needed this! For me I am very jittery but also very friendly and sometimes my friendliness sometimes gets mistaken for flirting or whatever so thank you!!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

You bet, Bella! Yup, if you can practice just slow down your movements and speech when you feel all that coming on, you might find those involuntary responses stop happening over time 😉

@Bellag77

4 жыл бұрын

Ryan Patrick awesome thank you!

Very good. Thank you!

You're so good at this. ❤💯🤙🌹

Love your videos!!! Because of the COVID-19 situation and the social distancing; do you have tips or advise on how to keep our partners still focused on us? Specially if we’re not in a serious relationship yet. Thank you for reading. 🙂

Again - this guy is awesome!

Great list! Can you think of tips to get one step closet to a date in this time of social distance and maybe Facetime instead of IRL ? How do you get a guy to talk freely after texting for some time? It can be weeks until we can meet in person... Take care from Amsterdam 🙏

All of your videos are so helpful ! Thank you ! 💕

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much, Bailey! 😀

*Expressing interest in a genuine and subtle manner is so important. Let's embrace these tips and be confident in showing our feelings.*

I'm picturing the scenario in my head, knowing it would never happen 🤣🤣.. Will probably try to use the inputs though..

Love your advice

Ryan salute..like your advices..i swear they work..thankss and big up alot 💋💋😍😍✌✌👌

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Amina! 😉

That is going to be difficult for me as most of the signals I do because I actually feel insecure and timid.

Thank you so much ❤❤❤

Ah like button highlighted this time! 😂😂😂

Great video Ryan.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Shirley! 😃

Omgad this is gold

Interesting Ryan. Thanks.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

You bet, Belinda! 🙌🏼

I watch his videos just for his hilarious face expressions he does throughout the video 🤣

Hi Ryan . I am avid fan of yours. Can you make a video regarding on how to figure out whether the guy has a crush on you , the first time they met you?. Thank you and Godbless sir Ryan😊😊

Thanks Ryan! Very educational

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Obviously these should be applied after social distancing calms down but 💁🏻‍♂️Thanks Jen!

@Misfit9405

4 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick I hope everything calms down soon. This is craziness Ryan. My job was closed because of this nonsense. And right at the time I now have 2 guys all into me. Yikes! Take care of yourself and Britney

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

@@Misfit9405 You too Jen!!

@Misfit9405

4 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thank you Ryan! Happy St. Patrick's day 🌈🍀

Hey Ryan, I hope you & Brittney are doing well 🙂Thanks for another great video🙂I could've gone with this video the other day lol 🙂 Especially the opposite part, I've been trying to reject a guy by avoiding & ignoring him. Which has caused him to do things he knows will piss me off to get my attention. Long story short... he finally got my attention on Saturday. I lost my cool & called him some really horrible names. Which I honestly meant, but I didn't mean to say them to him. Which sucks because he's gone from annoying me because he likes me to now annoying me because he doesn't 😩I just wanted him to leave me alone to begin with.

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Jax! I really believe, aside from the negative body language I mentioned in the video, we can all take advantage of the "social distancing" excuse to get away from people who we don't care to be around. I have a feeling that will become the go-to breakup text of a generation... 🤔🤦🏻‍♂️😄

@iinspiredmantic2301

4 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Most certainly 🙂Though I reckon coughing might be more effective, they'd have to decide are you a risk or not & are they willing to take that gamble 😇Social distancing for most people is impossible, I have the opposite problem. I can talk to people online, but I can't stand being around them in person & those I can stand to be around in person, I can't stand talking to them online because they're 💩with computers😂 Anyways... take care of yourself, Brittney & your loved one during this virus & congratulations on hitting 50K 🥂🍾

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

@@iinspiredmantic2301 You too, Jax! And thank you so much for being there since the beginning! 🤗On to 100K!

@iinspiredmantic2301

4 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for being so awesome 🙂 I love all of your videos & the fact you let me be me & aren't offended by it. The dating coach I use to watch before I found your channel, he'd grumble at me, hide & remove my comments. Then one day I saw your comment on his channel & I haven't looked back 🙂 Yours & Brittney's advice has been really helpful & it's nice feeling accepted, I consider you both as friends & it's so awesome to have smart educated down to earth funny people like you, Brittney & your followers to talk too 🙂 I wish you & your channel all the success in the world, 100K & beyond 🙂

Oh I almost forgot...how about a body language video with current COVID precautions in place? Like the mask hides the smile and the social distancing etc...

@emilymeyers6069

Жыл бұрын

Ew I hate seeing the world Corona virus and 2 years ago like dang it’s been a long time

Like your video ❤️, I’m new to your channel 😉💋.

oh my god i’m already doing all of this. and i just watched the video on how to tell if a guy “friend” is interested in you on a more than friendly level and he does all of THOSE. i think we’re both just too nervous to tell each other whoops

@dandelion2490

3 жыл бұрын

i’m literally 20 years old and i feel like a little 15 year old with a crush again watching videos like this lmao

@victorialester1634

3 жыл бұрын

@@dandelion2490 Any updates?👀

@nessg1043

3 жыл бұрын

Cute! c:

I do all the signs for the guy to not approach and he always does. I'd be into him if he wasnt already taken. Idk it's going to take awhile since guys dont read body language as quickly lol

yey finally...thank you🙂

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Sure thing, Cebile! 👍🏼

Whe you’re a hijabi and the first sign is playing with your hair…

Him "smile" .. covid/masks. Me "smile with you're eyes. Got it and no touch I guess"..

Looked a bit surprised, and then give a coy smile as a come back?

I wish you had another channel. One with Britney. She probably has advice from a female prospective. Unless she dosen't want to be on camera. That's understandable. It could be a channel about sustaining a relationships and marriage.

I got too anxious on the last date to maintain eye contact. He was really staring lol

Yeah.. I don't know my own strength so my "playful push" nearly pushed him out of a chair and to the ground... Thus, it was followed by an "Oh my gosh! Are YOU OK?" Good thing he found it funny... he's was laughing pretty hard.

Wow so I have just naturally been doing all these thing and somehow knew I was flirting and attracting the guy. Huh.

Darn it. Punching a guy on the shoulder wasn’t on the list. Maybe you’ll mention that in a part two video.... 😋

@larisabellydance2492

4 жыл бұрын

Lenalight so guilty of that .. playful

@kurdapya674

3 жыл бұрын

Haha ikr

@miriyumyum3590

2 жыл бұрын

That is like "hey I am your female bro" 😬😐

Hi Ryan! Could you film a video about Instagram flirting/dating? Thank you.

I definitely hate playing with my hair in public since I never got into a habit unless, of course, to angrily get pesky strands of hair out of my mouth or eyes. When speaking to people I always make eye contact since it is rude not to.

@AppleBottomJ

2 жыл бұрын

Right

When you were talking about eye contact it made me think about how my crush always has staring competitions with me. Could that be a sign for something?

I think my trainer and I are flirting and we do a lot of eye contact but I'm not sure about the walking close so he can smell me lol

What do I do if I'm nervous and kinda untrusting of people because of past interactions with others and bullying.

I look SOOO stupid with the full smile...

I get nervous easily i have no experience whatsoever so I have no idea what I'm doing 99% of that time! I don't talk to guys very often mostly because they make me nervous

You're so sweet coach

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Workinesh! 😍

Lol I’m 32 years old and have never been approached in public ever. Nor has anyone asked me for my number or given me theirs. Does this really happen in real life?

The hair & neck signals, are there versions of these for those of us with natural afro-like hair?

How do I know if I've been friend zoned?

NEED ADVICEEEEEE So theres this guy and we never talked much except when we were talking to a mutual friend Now all of the sudden after our homecoming game (which was the last game because it got canceled due to covid) he started saying hi to me Like we NEVER talked without a mutual friend and now hes saying hi to me like what? Hes all bubbly and his voice goes higher like "Hi Queen Sparkles!" and now we cant go walking past each other without saying hi without getting offended jokingly Can guys or something tell me whats going on? I mean I think he might like me but idk mannn we havn't really gone past "how was your day? " "whats your next class" or "have a nice day" I need help with these signsssss

Ok, Ryan....what if he does #7 & 8. Does it also mean he’s interested??

When I enter his personal zone threshold and smile to him, what if he doesnt smile back? Shall I understand that I should stand far from him to talk to him or that he’s not interested at all and I should go away immediately?

Lol! I have a pixie cut!

The consistent advice I run into is to cultivate a friendship, so if you meet someone how can you develop that friendship while considering a relation in the future..is that even a thing?

@SheekaKibaNejiItachi

4 жыл бұрын

Casy that is exactly what i’m trying to do! i’m trying to be friends with my crush and get to know him as a friend first. I don’t want to act too casual toward him because i don’t want to be treated as one of the guys. Hopefully i can muster up to be more flirty toward him whenever we hang out so that he’ll get the hint and hopefully be together lol

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

I actually like this plan a lot! Definitely distinguish yourself from his guy friends 🙌🏼

@datingcoachryanpatrick

4 жыл бұрын

For sure, Casy. It's about building up trust now so you can build up intimacy later. Trust and intimacy are the two bedrocks of what will make the long-term relationship last down the road. Focus on the trust within the friendship now 😉

Not me jotting these down so I can use these when I see him every day😅

When should I kiss

I play with my hair all the time, but not when I'm with guys I like. I'm going bald and I fear that by touching/moving it I'll get their attention to one of my flaws, so... Last date I had, I decided to tie my hair halfway through it so I turned my back to him meanwhile... Probably gave away the wrong message :/