This Texting Habit Annoys Men BUT Makes Them Chase HARDER

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This is one of those things that annoy me because it works.
Get in the habit of noticing things that annoy you and doing it yourself.
I have this friend from college named Tim who is very nice in person. However, he texts me as if he is always pissed off. If I ask whether he wants to hang out, he will only text 'Yes.’ If I ask him what's up, he would reply, 'Not much.’ He texts me almost as though he's mad.
It takes a long time for him to text back, but when I see him, I get reminded of how nice he is.
He doesn't text back right away because he's busy and I got frustrated at the situation.
That's the key. You only get mad at the situation. Getting mad is a sign that you like him.
You don't get mad at somebody you don't like.
I was also texting this girl who doesn't text back that much. She's also busy with work.
I would text her and she would take a long time to reply. When she did reply, she would validate me.
I will ask her in the morning about hanging out at night. She wouldn't reply until late in the afternoon.
That whole time, while waiting for her text, I would be wondering if maybe she doesn't want to hang out with me anymore.
When I got a positive response from her, I would realize that what I was thinking was not a big deal. It was just coming from my insecurity.
When you take long to reply to texts and you notice that the guy doesn't react, it could mean that he doesn't fear losing you. He thinks he has you.
This tactic is not going to work if a guy is pretty confident that you're not going to leave him.
When he fears that maybe there are other guys who would take you, anything that you do suddenly has more weight.
To make this technique effective, you need to let the guy know that you're seeing other guys.
When you go cold, he will think that it could be due to somebody else. It will make him insecure and chase harder.
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  • @norifying
    @norifying4 жыл бұрын

    If a man does not text me back for too long, my feeling towards him diminishes..

  • @gretam2150

    @gretam2150

    3 жыл бұрын

    saaameee

  • @mildredkoosimile3315

    @mildredkoosimile3315

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's me

  • @rosmuhammad5089

    @rosmuhammad5089

    3 жыл бұрын

    same gurllll... we are not that complicated. we don want what dont want us.

  • @bubblegum.21

    @bubblegum.21

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @imalreadytracer267

    @imalreadytracer267

    3 жыл бұрын

    And when he texts back my heart just feels those 🦋🦋🦋

  • @hjtres7261
    @hjtres72614 жыл бұрын

    Why are people more attracted to people who aren't interested? This whole dating thing has turned into one big game. No wonder why people are so miserable.

  • @kyky6825

    @kyky6825

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bc humans naturally desire what we can’t have

  • @mrsalicewilliams9978

    @mrsalicewilliams9978

    3 жыл бұрын

    Because thats just how they feel everyone is attracted to someone older, uninterested, in a relationship all that

  • @Anthony_Gx

    @Anthony_Gx

    3 жыл бұрын

    I always believed it was because we want things we can’t have. But it’s not true. There are probably lots of people I can’t have that I absolutely have no interest in!! It’s coz when we already kinda like someone. And we get a connection. And then after some good times there comes a time where they are busy, or you notice more and more that they have a lot of attention/options... we realize they are high value. Also: when we have to make effort for something or someone, we subconsciously regard them as a prize. If we get that date eventually, after doubting if it would happen..we feel we won something. This makes us feel good about ourself (out of all the options, I got chosen) but also like winning at gambling, our brain produces hormones that stimulate our “reward” section. So we start to feel lucky. Don’t go play games too much. People are very quick to judge and they may unrightfully deem you not interested, a player, nothing serious, wanting to see other people. Imagine they decided to ask you to be exclusive on tonight’s date. But you thought it would be a good idea to talk about other potential lovers. And how nice .... is to you. They won’t just feel insecure. They’ll also contemplate on why you would tell that to them on a date. And not just to your close friends.... they’ll figure you don’t love them (enough). They choose not let go of asking you to be exclusive. To save face they will also start speaking about other people they talk to as well. You start doubting wether they are just doing the same as you do, or if they are for real seeing others. You start testing them and insinuate you have another date tomorrow maybe. But you’re not sure. They feel yet another stab in their heart so they decide to see your reaction when they say they had a date yesterday. You try to act as cool as possible to maintain your whole sherade. Both of you cry your eyes out from the pain for nights on a row. Scared to text the other like you used to, silence start growing longer and longer. You carefully text after a week. Just casually and cool to not risk being hurt and seeming needy. They think: finally a text! But when they open it they think: wow... they must really be over me. We’re they even really into me? Are they just feeling petty for me coz I showed too much of my feelings.... And you’re so far in the shit that you can’t even see the blue sky any longer. Enjoy the rest of the year! Just be yourself. Be playful yes. But don’t play games with the feelings of the one you want to make happy!

  • @graceg19799

    @graceg19799

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol.. seriously I enjoyed a few videos but I am not into these kid games It is not for me.. if he does not show interest in me it turns me off.. I am not attracted to boys who play games..

  • @msbelle333

    @msbelle333

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @zoilife1355
    @zoilife1355 Жыл бұрын

    I watched this video 5 years ago. I’m back to say that I adopted that mindset. I truly am no longer attached to my phone. Love my life and text back when I notice. Happiest feeling in the world to not be worried or waiting on a reply. I don’t send a lot of emojis either. If he wants to talk he can call or set a date. If not. No energy of mines has been paid. SB: also engaged now 😊

  • @Yasmine-qd6nu

    @Yasmine-qd6nu

    10 ай бұрын

    Congrats girl 🎉

  • @lisalovestrawberry2060
    @lisalovestrawberry20606 жыл бұрын

    The trick is called high energy low investment

  • @dralperko

    @dralperko

    5 жыл бұрын

    How to trigger a man’s natural competitive drive and refocus it on winning your love simply by tapping into his male ego. t.co/MTPSR5qOxf

  • @pritygyal9017

    @pritygyal9017

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol so TRUE!!!

  • @Smokillo

    @Smokillo

    Жыл бұрын

    Does this mean be friendly but not care about the outcome?

  • @mommylee4547
    @mommylee45473 жыл бұрын

    The key to dating is being busy at work and life

  • @marley6554

    @marley6554

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not exactly. Some people lose interest because you don't respond, thinking he/she is just ignoring me.

  • @tdominique6317
    @tdominique63176 жыл бұрын

    why does dating have to be so complicated 😳 😡

  • @supastarmar2454

    @supastarmar2454

    6 жыл бұрын

    Truth Seeker right this shit is exhausting and annoying

  • @purplegum1383

    @purplegum1383

    6 жыл бұрын

    Supastar Mar yup

  • @Lillgodessgoods

    @Lillgodessgoods

    6 жыл бұрын

    I know RIGHT!

  • @imcute1844

    @imcute1844

    6 жыл бұрын

    Stop dating the most popular guys/players and it will become more simple

  • @whitneymorrah9108

    @whitneymorrah9108

    6 жыл бұрын

    Why😐

  • @aminah761
    @aminah7616 жыл бұрын

    🙄🙄🙄 men r too complicated

  • @MsGlamourcat

    @MsGlamourcat

    6 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! And yet they call us complicated...

  • @MsGlamourcat

    @MsGlamourcat

    6 жыл бұрын

    Wop Hopper they truly are! I give up! I no longer give two hoots lol 🦉

  • @mariafontae

    @mariafontae

    6 жыл бұрын

    Men are actually simple, It's the analysing breakdown that seems complex

  • @aailakhan7173

    @aailakhan7173

    6 жыл бұрын

    here's a few ideas for how to make a guy fall in love with you don't be impatient Use less words and choose them with care Communicate with behaviour as well as words (I learned about these and more from Maras magic words site )

  • @gittekronb9824

    @gittekronb9824

    6 жыл бұрын

    Aminah A not really.. I find it interesting lol love it

  • @bmc8988
    @bmc89885 жыл бұрын

    Exactly why I’m not dating. What a headache 🤕

  • @zippyblessed839

    @zippyblessed839

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @yeeeeeyy

    @yeeeeeyy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ya I happier when I wasn't dating. Yeh it felt sad at times but it wasn't complicated and didn't take my focus off important things

  • @edithg7864
    @edithg78646 жыл бұрын

    Dude this girl is using your techniques on you😂😂😂

  • @codmobilemodmenu

    @codmobilemodmenu

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahahah yeah Sure fact's

  • @karinaleo2247

    @karinaleo2247

    3 жыл бұрын

    Isn’t that the point of his story tho...

  • @summertime718

    @summertime718

    3 жыл бұрын

    😄😄😄😄

  • @kishapereice

    @kishapereice

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @emmal1138
    @emmal11384 жыл бұрын

    This absolutely works. I've adopted the mindset of being a 'horrible texter'. I'm busy, I can't be doing with texting guys every minute of everyday...... Drives them absolutely crazy!!!! I barely text and take hours to reply at all, it works!!!!!

  • @Sarah-m17

    @Sarah-m17

    3 жыл бұрын

    I did this but no on purpose, I was actually busy then started doing the same back when I wasn’t busy, soo annoying! I usually just reply if I’m free cause we only on our phone or have it near by.

  • @rosavalentinaa

    @rosavalentinaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Men don't need attention from women, but women need attention from men. That's why you guys cake your faces in makeup and wear revealing clothing. You may claim to do it "for yourself" but we know that validation from men is more important than air to you. Alas, time is not on your side ladies. Because when you reach age 30, the only thing you have going for yourselves (looks) are gone. So too are the good men you "friendzoned" and mistreated. Men are starting to wake up to the fact that you think you are all entitled to a man's energy, time and effort - while giving the bare minimum in return. A piece of advice for you: *Stop pretending your looks are sufficient and start putting effort into relationships.* Your confidence can be stripped with a wet face cloth, and more men are starting to realize that.

  • @emmal1138

    @emmal1138

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rosavalentinaa Aww did a pretty lady dump you for a better man than you'll ever be? 😂

  • @rosavalentinaa

    @rosavalentinaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@emmal1138 Read like a Dr. Seuss book. I expected an answer like this from you, or any woman that decided to respond. Accountability isn't exactly a familiar concept, as you have clearly shown me. Let me just give a reminder that *YOU* are the one searching for and watching these videos, trying to learn games in order to attract men. If you had it all figured out, you wouldn't need to be searching for these videos. That is why you are single, and have been for a long time. Also as I said before, I have yet to see a pretty woman that is not a product of cosmetics. Understanding women has made me realize that I don't want anything to do with them. Biologically, your only purpose is to have children, yet many of you think you are entitled to the world. LOL! Don't bother responding, because I'm telling you from now that it will go unnoticed.👋

  • @emmal1138

    @emmal1138

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rosavalentinaa And let me just remind you... This was a year ago. I've been in a relationship for 5 months now! 😉 How times can change! Both happy, so obviously we're BOTH doing something right 😁 I think it's ever so sad you don't want anything to do with women. And I'm genuinely sorry you feel this way. There are plenty of amazing women out there... Some wear makeup and some don't and they're still amazing wives and mothers. You seem extraordinarily bitter. It's not good for any man or woman to lead their lives feeling this way and hating on the opposite sex. I hope you find the healing that you deserve.

  • @shammilanka2185
    @shammilanka21853 жыл бұрын

    manifest higher vibrational people lovely people!!! Become a one and then be yourself easily with or without your kind a person. Relationships are so easy with your kind of people. Self love is the key. Self love!!!!!

  • @reclaimedandrested
    @reclaimedandrested6 жыл бұрын

    So true!!! I'm the worst texter and eventually men just stop texting me and start calling to have real conversations!

  • @Carri.
    @Carri.3 жыл бұрын

    Pretty much I need to train myself to not give a Damn 80% of the time and be Nice the other 20%.. Got it..

  • @mrsalicewilliams9978

    @mrsalicewilliams9978

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea..

  • @Juliaa__T
    @Juliaa__T6 жыл бұрын

    When you’re already a bad texter simply because you’re not interested in him 🙄

  • @dark83shinzo
    @dark83shinzo6 жыл бұрын

    Why is it so complicated to get people to like you. Why can’t you just show interest 🙄

  • @AwesomeExperiencez

    @AwesomeExperiencez

    5 жыл бұрын

    Arrogance I think lol

  • @savagefarmert

    @savagefarmert

    4 жыл бұрын

    dark83shinzo human nature🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @SM-cg5uy

    @SM-cg5uy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right? Games! Headaches....

  • @SM-cg5uy

    @SM-cg5uy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Elizabeth Jones - This can definitely happen, I just peeled an intensely needy guy off me like a sweaty pair of yoga pants. Ew. While it can happen, neediness isn't the only reason people don't respond because our behaviors don't control the other person. I'm not a naturally needy person - I've been called the opposite - and guys still do stuff like weird, choppy texting and breadcrumbing. It comes down to both people: where we are in our lives & our heads and where they are in their life and their heads. Timing is a lot, life circumstances and their mindset is a lot. And whether attraction is there for both. But you're right - neediness is a turn off for both sexes.

  • @millienjenga6115

    @millienjenga6115

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wandering the same thing 😒

  • @Daniel_ggg
    @Daniel_ggg3 жыл бұрын

    Some say playing the texting game is immature but I say texting all day is what’s truly immature. Adults should be busy with their careers and lives, not constantly validating their needy new love interest. It’s only a game if you need to fake it, which in any case to me is way better than falling in love with someone over the phone.

  • @r4tgl
    @r4tgl4 жыл бұрын

    See this just proves what I thought. Men take you for granted because they think they have you. So in other words never relax or let your guard all the way down.

  • @iseenarcissists8298
    @iseenarcissists82986 жыл бұрын

    I gave up on a guy that was a bad texter, but it did make me want him more I just don't want someone to do that to me. he didn't move fast enough and so I moved on.

  • @tiauna5320

    @tiauna5320

    3 жыл бұрын

    this abt to be me dam

  • @Yellowtable101
    @Yellowtable1016 жыл бұрын

    How r u supposed to be real with a girl if ur always gaming

  • @Megasupercoolest

    @Megasupercoolest

    4 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @MM-gp9mb

    @MM-gp9mb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe cut back on the gaming?

  • @themango9644

    @themango9644

    3 жыл бұрын

    Get off games

  • @movingforward789

    @movingforward789

    Ай бұрын

    Preach! The games have to stop! We want someone to be real with us, but begin the relationship playing games with them 🙄

  • @markgil400
    @markgil4006 жыл бұрын

    What if two bad texters meet?

  • @lifeisgood5681

    @lifeisgood5681

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mark Gil Lalangan hahahahahha

  • @aneeverma6562

    @aneeverma6562

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha...

  • @puputonkivoja9979

    @puputonkivoja9979

    3 жыл бұрын

    Theres not going back

  • @Buety12002

    @Buety12002

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right, lol

  • @ssmith543

    @ssmith543

    3 жыл бұрын

    Two wrongs make a right? Lol

  • @leniyemsvictorero2360
    @leniyemsvictorero23605 жыл бұрын

    Games games and more games Ladies love yourself So much that you will spot a player for far not allowing anyone to come and destroy and devalue who you are

  • @cybilebenedict

    @cybilebenedict

    5 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @jwex2813
    @jwex28133 жыл бұрын

    This is sad. I really miss the old days and feel sorry for this generation including my daughters

  • @madeleinerobertson7739
    @madeleinerobertson77396 жыл бұрын

    This is not good advise for people looking for “love”. Sorry. Sure don’t text the person you like all the time, text with a purpose. Keep it positive. Simple.

  • @profoundseeker8654

    @profoundseeker8654

    5 жыл бұрын

    Madeleine Kate I have some news for you sweetie love we never be mutual. You either make them love you more than you love them or you’ll end up loving them more . And trust me when I say if you love them more you will never be happy.. they will get bored and find someone more challenging .

  • @kymgarcia09

    @kymgarcia09

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ruthless Finesse couldn't agree more

  • @nenilove5100

    @nenilove5100

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ruthless Finesse where did u hear this bull shit out here talking wit so much confidance almost made me believe this

  • @kartickchandrasaha4119

    @kartickchandrasaha4119

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@profoundseeker8654 i think what u are saying is about the illusion of love which is not real but seems real. When u truly love someone then it doesn't ever bother u if they love u or not. U keep loving them from the core of ur heart

  • @kiahoamin.5252

    @kiahoamin.5252

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kartickchandrasaha4119 you are very right .when you love some one you dont care whether he loves you or not.there are many like that and sometimes the man loves her too but does not want to show it too much because man are probably very shy and secretive

  • @kam0406
    @kam04063 жыл бұрын

    It is so strange that to have a relationship it is necessary to play games. It would be so refreshing to be able to say, "I like you. I'm going to focus on getting to know you and see how that goes." Instead, we need to pretend we are seeing 5 others so we maintain an aura of being desirable to others. This has gotten ridiculous. Meanwhile, men increasingly act like women and women increasingly act like men. I might as well just date a woman at this point because she is more likely going to have more masculine traits that I find attractive than most men I could date. It is increasingly toxic and becoming less clear it is worth it.

  • @81evadavis
    @81evadavis6 жыл бұрын

    Your microphone is always freaking me out 😂

  • @TheJoker-kh7fd

    @TheJoker-kh7fd

    6 жыл бұрын

    AliceFromUnderland81 i thought he was eating ice cream😂😂😂

  • @lindasworld4083

    @lindasworld4083

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @k79311

    @k79311

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m like is that a stuffed animal or a plant or

  • @peep4674

    @peep4674

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂👋🏽

  • @c.j.7593
    @c.j.75936 жыл бұрын

    Dude stay on topic. Gesh.

  • @Lovelace069

    @Lovelace069

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr....lol...eye think he does it on purpose

  • @32starsandsugar

    @32starsandsugar

    4 жыл бұрын

    he is a bit questionable imo

  • @missmonji8715

    @missmonji8715

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cute 😍

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    @MindfulAttraction2.04 жыл бұрын

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    @christinewaterstripe9546

    4 жыл бұрын

    How do you recover after "going goober?" Is it possible?

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    @MindfulAttraction2.06 жыл бұрын

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  • @Talkbookishwithme

    @Talkbookishwithme

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mindful Attraction 2.0 will this work with the guy I'm talking to if I've never done it before usually I reply fast but he hasn't been talking to me but it's part of a pattern of his and I was thinking I should do this when he gets back in touch it's been 4 days

  • @ClaudinneV
    @ClaudinneV6 жыл бұрын

    This generation and the 'texting' issue!! Come on! Grab the f....phone and have a real conversation. Text messages should be only for short communications. Bad texters? In my opinion they are just time efficient people when is about texting. Do not expect getting to know a person via 'texting'... It takes way more than that.

  • @Nekole1

    @Nekole1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Claudia NL i agree

  • @nofybn7794

    @nofybn7794

    5 жыл бұрын

    You can have a conversation online. I don't agree. I don't like the phone.

  • @kdr3919

    @kdr3919

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree 👏🏽

  • @simplymarilyn5295
    @simplymarilyn52953 жыл бұрын

    Put in the same energy they are putting into you!

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    @nijayjj9221

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @nijayjj9221

    @nijayjj9221

    3 жыл бұрын

    Text him on what's app for help 💕💕

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    @nijayjj9221

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @missfaithbutterfly4501
    @missfaithbutterfly45016 жыл бұрын

    Hey Alex, I'm a sub whose been watching your videos for about 7 months. I actually just came here to say you are such a life saver. You're a huge blessing and thank you so much for being such a good hearted, helpful, positive big brother to us. You're a prince.

  • @dianalevy5999

    @dianalevy5999

    6 жыл бұрын

    Miss Faith Butterfly men when ya said sub I was like daymn what ya doin here ? Ya know maybe my head is too into fifty shades of greed

  • @starblossom1370
    @starblossom13706 жыл бұрын

    Makes perfect sense! We can sometimes sabotage relationship that may have blossomed by overdoing it. And also being needy but unaware. I've done it! We all have! When I have done it this route I have gotten better results!!! It takes practice or self discipline! I swear im w\ a guy i believe watches ur channel too or coincidence lol Ur the man Alex! I support u & ur channel!

  • @aprillostgurl6041
    @aprillostgurl60416 жыл бұрын

    4:09 is when it gets good your welcome 😉

  • @moniquestars9847

    @moniquestars9847

    3 жыл бұрын

    April LostGurL lol dam I saw this at 4:04

  • @nora-wi9ty
    @nora-wi9ty6 жыл бұрын

    Make a video of how to know if they’re texting because bored or because they’re interested

  • @andrenaduren2493
    @andrenaduren24933 жыл бұрын

    That’s interesting... My daughter is very chill all the time and is also a bad texter. We laugh because guys are always working so hard to make her smile or show excitement. If she set to date them, many times they get obsessed and she can’t get rid of them. It’s a double edged sword.

  • @KENICKYTV
    @KENICKYTV6 жыл бұрын

    Loves this piece : your content is so valuable to a woman trying to navigate dating in 2018.. thank you for making sense if all this mess.

  • @autumntrees2825

    @autumntrees2825

    3 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @DallasJayCook
    @DallasJayCook5 жыл бұрын

    Me and the guy I like is a bad texter. We've been doing this for 6 months now. It's effective but tbh I don't know where this relationship is going. Lol

  • @Nina-vv3ev

    @Nina-vv3ev

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg GROW UP

  • @lee-wl9pc
    @lee-wl9pc6 жыл бұрын

    "Not coming out of the closet .....yet" .....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Prettylilvibe
    @Prettylilvibe4 жыл бұрын

    i’m not coming out the closer rn 🤣🤣💗omg ya vibe is special love it !!

  • @nabikalymui9176
    @nabikalymui91765 жыл бұрын

    Just wanna say u are brilliant.. raw n genuine. Hard to find speaker like u around. Thank you. You have help me alot!! Bless you!

  • @marisajane7229
    @marisajane72296 жыл бұрын

    That’s so exciting that you’re going to be holding seminars in Europe!! Hello? Does anyone realize what a big deal that is?! I’m so happy for you and all your hard work is paying off. Matthew Hussey better watch out. Truth be told, if I had to choose I’d pick your videos to watch over his. You are so cute and I love your personality. Plus you give advice that’s real (often from your own experience) and you dive into the psychology behind it. I’m super excited for you and your growing success!

  • @ladydawah3087

    @ladydawah3087

    6 жыл бұрын

    Marisa Ericson yeees he is good that no one can........ hehehehhehe we all happy 4u man

  • @saramohamed-qo2ic
    @saramohamed-qo2ic3 жыл бұрын

    Just blocked a guy because of it, naturally i am not a person who plays games and when it comes to dating am 100% in or out. My mental and emotional health is more important. It will hurt but can go through such connections no more

  • @mysteriouschicken1169

    @mysteriouschicken1169

    3 жыл бұрын

    Perioooodt.

  • @dianamuneke5360
    @dianamuneke53602 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. I am a bad texter on purpose but when I’m actually with them I try to make it awesome. It’s def been working

  • @SuperAES123
    @SuperAES1236 жыл бұрын

    When you said "does that make sense?" your eyes did that side to side thing - that is SO YOU and SOOOO CUTE. Squeezable!!!

  • @fayal6557
    @fayal65575 жыл бұрын

    This really works! Love this guy !!

  • @briawhite6852
    @briawhite68526 жыл бұрын

    I love your Channel you help me a lot dealing with guys and learning them on a deeper level Thank You so much!

  • @MsGlamourcat
    @MsGlamourcat6 жыл бұрын

    Gosh, I do this anyway! If I'm working, in meetings, out and about, running, etc, I do not look at my phone. I can take days to respond to text messages because then when I finally stop I have real life activities to attend to like cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. People in my circle know if it's urgent to just phone me! That's the only way to reach me in real time... haha 😉

  • @duranmirta

    @duranmirta

    6 жыл бұрын

    MsGlamourcat smart girl!

  • @MsGlamourcat

    @MsGlamourcat

    6 жыл бұрын

    duranmirta I don't know if it's smart of not! I've just had a major falling out over it with a friend who thought I'd gone silent on him! I've told him time and time again, that it could take 3 hours or 3 days for me to respond to a text! If it's urgent PHONE ME... well he doesn't seem to know how to use a phone to make phone calls and we've had a major communication breakdown with him reading the wrong thing into it and we've had a huge blow up! agh! can't win!

  • @duranmirta

    @duranmirta

    6 жыл бұрын

    MsGlamourcat honestly...I think sometimes men play stupid! Why? For different reasons....for you to find out....because if you were my friend and told you cannot txt...well i will call you when i need to it s not complicated to understand...i have a friend she never listens to her voicemails....guess what I don't leave voice mails..that's how she is....but selfish people won't understand that and they want their way to be done for them not to feel rejected

  • @ladydawah3087

    @ladydawah3087

    6 жыл бұрын

    duranmirta girls I just have to say wooow same here.. bt I leave voicemail!!!! Men we have rules u better except

  • @spearmint4093

    @spearmint4093

    6 жыл бұрын

    vaki d ok.. any more tips?:)

  • @gina72916
    @gina729166 жыл бұрын

    Been doing this, and loving it. It is so empowering.

  • @angelface4836

    @angelface4836

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @SM-cg5uy
    @SM-cg5uy3 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh...this girl he's describing isn't just a bad texter. She has a Hotation of men. A female player. She doesn't need to text back right away because she's got options - and plenty of 'em. She'll get around to a guy when it's his turn and she's feeling him. Men do it all. the. time. Go on with your bad selves, mamas. Get yours

  • @SM-cg5uy

    @SM-cg5uy

    3 жыл бұрын

    OR she's just REALLY into her own life either way, yasss girl.

  • @beey.7278
    @beey.72784 жыл бұрын

    I give up on bad texters.. this only works if the other is needy or have low self exteem. People who think higly of themselves will not put up with bad texters for a long time.

  • @thatveganchic

    @thatveganchic

    4 жыл бұрын

    At the root of all these videos are men with low self esteem who haven't healed their inner child and because that's the majority, we get these dating gurus and books telling us thats just how men are. When in reality, they are damaged and need to heal. If they were healed, they wouldn't be hooked into a woman who treats them this way. And as a higher consciousness woman, this is not LOVE. So it's best to remain single and continue with one's inner work until you attract a soulmate or twin flame. They will love you unconditionally. xo

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial91376 жыл бұрын

    I just had a bad habit of texting because if he doesn't text me first, I won't text him either. I want to improve my communication skills towards a man because I feel like I'm a boring person.

  • @truthseeker1649
    @truthseeker16496 жыл бұрын

    Alex I came across you today and I just want to say you are amazing! You know your stuff and I need a lot of this kind of advice up in here right now. Keep up the good work, you are awesome!👌 xxxx

  • @sassygirllove161
    @sassygirllove1614 жыл бұрын

    Your techniques work 100% of the time..I’ve however learned the importance of fine tuning what I really want

  • @vibintingz8483
    @vibintingz84834 жыл бұрын

    Alex u have been there since day one I love you keep up good work ☺️💗💗

  • @Magsomagpie
    @Magsomagpie6 жыл бұрын

    I love the advice you give but you have to get your thoughts in order.

  • @PrettyLyfeBeauty
    @PrettyLyfeBeauty6 жыл бұрын

    I love ur videos addicted to ur channel

  • @Lioness417
    @Lioness4176 жыл бұрын

    Alex letting his beautiful curls grow back out aww 😊

  • @xw6475
    @xw64754 жыл бұрын

    Yes, working on them now. thank you so much Dalexis!!

  • @LMusicKC
    @LMusicKC4 жыл бұрын

    "no I'm not coming out the closet" lol had me laughing... 😂😊 You're so cute.

  • @michellehoeltzell6706
    @michellehoeltzell67064 жыл бұрын

    Your advice is priceless! Love you

  • @StrategicStripping
    @StrategicStripping6 жыл бұрын

    "Be a bad texter" .... well... that's easy enough... I'm naturally very bad at texting people back, but like you said, when I'm with them, I'm fully with them. I've wondered how people feel about that... because I've had quite a few people say something to me about not texting them back, but I think they just kind of understand that's how I am. I don't have my phone open 24/7, and I rarely ever check to see who's calling... Thanks for the video. I like the teacher in a bathrobe in front of a the chalk board kinda look ;) It's probably a sweater... but that half up it looks like a comfy bathrobe :)

  • @nahidah.1790
    @nahidah.17902 жыл бұрын

    I just saw another coach that was annoyed with coaches that gave us “mind games and manipulation” because it lacks real connection BUT i subscribed to u SO fast 😂😂😂

  • @kokosmart3287
    @kokosmart32876 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the advice!

  • @amyheath7798
    @amyheath77986 жыл бұрын

    my bf just never has his phone on and it annoys me because it's like he doesn't even want to text me and then makes up excuses

  • @TsvetiSpeaks
    @TsvetiSpeaks6 жыл бұрын

    That's so me, cuz I always don't feel like texting, don't use any emojis and stuff but when I'm there, I'm present af. And recently I started watching such videos about dating and I started noticing things and yea, this thing totally messes up their heads like.. I see they're thinking all the time do I like them or what's going on and they're chasing like mad. Works like magic. But it doesn't work if the guy doesn't care about losing you, as you said, or if you're long distance and you don't see each other much (accoding to my experience).

  • @gerr2035
    @gerr20356 жыл бұрын

    Why are you in a classroom?

  • @lyndaraczkowski6747
    @lyndaraczkowski67476 жыл бұрын

    Idk why but I can feel ur breath on me in all ur videos

  • @gittekronb9824
    @gittekronb98246 жыл бұрын

    I've been being using your advice and his chasing me... Attract..give space... Hot cold.. Lol👍

  • @michelles7060

    @michelles7060

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brigitte kronb did it work for you? It backed fired for me 😩

  • @princesat6566

    @princesat6566

    5 жыл бұрын

    The Gal Michelle backfired how but I’m about to do it wish me luck

  • @dreamceline2093

    @dreamceline2093

    5 жыл бұрын

    It works if he really likes you.

  • @haitiangal1361

    @haitiangal1361

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brigitte kronb he accused me of being a ho and blocked me. I swear I only attract men with emotional baggage. It’s weird. Or maybe he was a narc and wasn’t use to women not being on his dick so he threw a tantrum.

  • @beijaflor2222

    @beijaflor2222

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haitian Gal Either way he’s showing you his “shadow side” as Alex puts it, by projecting.

  • @flowersflowers5070
    @flowersflowers50703 жыл бұрын

    Love the way grown people play their silly games...grow up people.

  • @Nina-vv3ev

    @Nina-vv3ev

    3 жыл бұрын

    IKR

  • @dg-qn5mi

    @dg-qn5mi

    Жыл бұрын

    Life is a stage. From birth to death.

  • @brendajones8073
    @brendajones80736 жыл бұрын

    Love ur videos

  • @violetlune72
    @violetlune726 жыл бұрын

    I love your shirt AND your sweater 😊

  • @QueenKatazia
    @QueenKatazia2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks yu for this knowledge 🗣💕

  • @Prettylilvibe
    @Prettylilvibe4 жыл бұрын

    omgg that’s so tru ppl be dead cool in person but baddd texters 😭🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @cheyennesromero2396
    @cheyennesromero2396 Жыл бұрын

    Couldn't agree more this really does work!

  • @tasafolan2691
    @tasafolan26914 жыл бұрын

    love to get a big hug from u !!!! I so need it right now

  • @latishap3
    @latishap36 жыл бұрын

    this is an excellent video

  • @reginastevens7673
    @reginastevens76736 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @mariamsalamtoto5511
    @mariamsalamtoto55113 жыл бұрын

    Being a bad texter has really helped me get myself over thinking, and I find out these himself chases me😂💯💯 thanks oh

  • @acmb6763
    @acmb67634 жыл бұрын

    Do you really want someone like that though? Hot and cold all the time. Then when you finally know she is yours, you would lose interest.

  • @drethomas72
    @drethomas725 жыл бұрын

    Love his voice.

  • @hood7empress114
    @hood7empress1143 жыл бұрын

    I have been doing this subconsciously & I SURE ASS HELL DO SEE THE PAYOFFS 🎮🖲🕹

  • @kristymounsey3450
    @kristymounsey34506 жыл бұрын

    I do this with messenger but not deliberately. My phone went flat tonight when I was expecting an important message. When I got home and messaged him back he was offline and he came back almost ASAP to talk. Sometimes my ADHD helps lol.

  • @jjspade81
    @jjspade816 жыл бұрын

    Question...Once this goes on and on and let's say you gus start living together...then what happens?

  • @amberslight3882
    @amberslight38825 жыл бұрын

    I love your shirt too!

  • @liberatatorlontano3286
    @liberatatorlontano32866 жыл бұрын

    true and simple!

  • @Jj-ls1nd
    @Jj-ls1nd6 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant!😏

  • @breklein3338
    @breklein33386 жыл бұрын

    This is stupid and for immature people. This is sending mixed signals and making it less likely for it to lead to anything real or meaningful. If you like someone, text them back and/or initiate. Don’t play games or you will attract a player and waste time

  • @CRenee-hg7ul

    @CRenee-hg7ul

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bre Klein EXACTLY.

  • @Love-np2rt

    @Love-np2rt

    5 жыл бұрын

    On the surface Bre, it seems you may be right but even the nicest guys like a challenge or some mystery. It keeps the sparks burning even if it's unconscious...."familiarity breeds contempt" ... sound familiar? Alex is giving us gold& when you have more experience, you'll see all this is true... even about the "good guys"

  • @donnaocasio45
    @donnaocasio453 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad that being a bad texter is a good thing because I really suck at it, .

  • @freeagentgirl23
    @freeagentgirl234 жыл бұрын

    You're a geniussssss!!!

  • @dreamingincolor108
    @dreamingincolor1083 жыл бұрын

    i watch you 50% because of the advice, 50% cuz i like how you talk lol. usually don't follow any rules at all in dating/falling in love i go with the flow probably why i'm still single lol anyway i had this video playing in the background as i'm dressing and my Fixation texted me, almost read and replied right then but. i'm finishing my body beauty hair routine and leaving my phone in the apartment today. i would not have the even thought about this without you in the other room on the laptop lol thanks...

  • @kaachsports
    @kaachsports Жыл бұрын

    To be honest, this isn't too sustainable. Will work at the start but eventually any self-respecting person will tire and move on, BECAUSE it shows you're not responsive and available ... and a grown, healed, self-aware adult will not be attracted to that. Avoidance is only attractive to someone who doesn't love themselves enough to know that it's a BIG RED FLAG.

  • @S2375wattage

    @S2375wattage

    4 ай бұрын

    100

  • @sophies8564
    @sophies85644 жыл бұрын

    I’m rewatching this while he’s sleeping next to me haha 😂😉😘

  • @yadiralaxamana3794
    @yadiralaxamana37946 жыл бұрын

    Bro this guy is doing this to me... I’m so irritated right now 😂😂😂😂

  • @arlenedennis9446
    @arlenedennis94463 жыл бұрын

    This is accurate . I wish I would have known this sooner .

  • @rizzae
    @rizzae Жыл бұрын

    Dalexis learning these all from you ...😊

  • @loricrockett-owens5117
    @loricrockett-owens51176 жыл бұрын

    There should be a video about what drives women crazy and not the good kind of crazy that guys do to us.

  • @NellyNelliey
    @NellyNelliey6 жыл бұрын

    Hey Alex, would you do a video on why a man would text you but then ignores when you reply. And what to do with that

  • @gossipgirlxoxox

    @gossipgirlxoxox

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nelly Nelliey this just happened to me! Thus me watching these vids lol

  • @Ketee25

    @Ketee25

    4 жыл бұрын

    He's playing games and just because he's playing games doesn't mean he doesn't like u might he's he is trying to make u like him

  • @aneeverma6562

    @aneeverma6562

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same thing happening with me.....

  • @emmal1138

    @emmal1138

    4 жыл бұрын

    He's not really interested. Plain and simple.

  • @Thecrazyraven.

    @Thecrazyraven.

    3 жыл бұрын

    Might have texted you when he was alone then was in company when you replied back. Like oops my girl just showed up or something

  • @TaniaCastaneda1
    @TaniaCastaneda16 жыл бұрын

    So true! When I don’t text back right away he texts consecutively and when I finally answer he asks how I could be so busy. It’s cute 😚 I dated another guy who would text back like a day later and I dropped him like a dime because when he would reply it was blah. Had he been enthusiastic when finally responding I would have prob stuck around.

  • @ivanaguilar3132

    @ivanaguilar3132

    6 жыл бұрын

    You’re so dumb...

  • @nofybn7794

    @nofybn7794

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ivanaguilar3132 Sexist. How is she dumb? The guy was wrong. NOT her.

  • @catricehawkins4958
    @catricehawkins49586 жыл бұрын

    Youre so cute. The shirt is amazing☺

  • @amacadagraham6723
    @amacadagraham67235 жыл бұрын

    So I like this guy and he likes me back, which is good but I wanna get him more hooked cause we have been talking for a while now and there's a lot of attraction,tension and feelings but I wanna get him more hooked, also I make a prank and told him that my phone wasn't working anymore and he ask me if I want him to buy me a new one, plus we talk everyday so it will be weird to stop talking to him for a while,any advice?what can I do?