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If you get ghosted, respect the dead and don’t disturb them again ⚰️👋🏽

@breemaree2048

3 жыл бұрын

Facts !!!

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@dragonflymagictarot1180

3 жыл бұрын

Love this

@jagaimeow

3 жыл бұрын

nailed it

@marciadawkins7731

3 жыл бұрын

I just love this...Hahaha!😂🤣

When he ghosted me......... I became addicted to watching tarot reading video...

@wspgaiily

3 жыл бұрын

Especially on tik tok. It’s a dangerous game

@EnchantedMirrorTarot

3 жыл бұрын

me too then i became a tarot reader.

@alinaspas9177

3 жыл бұрын

Same here 😂 I’m glad that it ended though. I got no time for irresponsible cowards 😄

@amandac1431

3 жыл бұрын

Me tooooo lol

@mrspaceforever

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭 rabbit hole man

Once you feel ignored by someone, Never bother them again

@juhisonde9735

3 жыл бұрын

Truth

@lindaamerica4587

3 жыл бұрын

On the other end, what if I ignored his texts and he won't take the hint? He seems so DESPERATE for me to be his friend. I can't stand to even talk to him. We were friends decades ago and called out of the blue. I only talked to him once. Then I remembered how self centered, opinionated, insulting, better than thou. He was. It's been over a year of not responding. He's so conceited, he may not realize he's being ignored! LOL

@milanabui4637

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I am "bothered" by it... it gives me glee to be rid of a time and emotion parasite :D I should go treat myself lol

@joandonnelly1754

3 жыл бұрын

@@chloejenkins7922 Move on from this guy. He is stringing you along! You deserve a guy who truly wants to be with you!

@Mangaluvr247

3 жыл бұрын

@@lindaamerica4587 Be straightforward and tell him you don't want to talk to him since you don't get a long. Playing the ghosting game is hurtful for both parties :p

After marathoning these videos I have come to the conclusion that men are too much work and I’m chill to be alone forever

@felicityking8572

3 жыл бұрын

Fantastic reply! 👍

@cherrylynn7173

3 жыл бұрын

Right! And they call us emotional. I swear men are a lot of work. Talk about too many mind games. Jeesus

@valariecrawford3519

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!! I gave up on men and just doing me until death. I hate games that men play.

@geofferypmeyers

3 жыл бұрын

After marathoning these videos in December I got my first BF in 10 years by March 🥳

@Cinerouquine

3 жыл бұрын

One of the best comments I have ever seen on a video (and my exact mindset). HAHAHA!

keep him guessing by marrying someone else

@aditishreya9933

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my my xD

@nenitawallin7732

3 жыл бұрын

Love that I would do that

@nenitawallin7732

3 жыл бұрын

That would be sweet if I married someone else of course that I love and loves me in return

@Cinerouquine

3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHA

@nenitawallin7732

3 жыл бұрын

Yes that’s a good idea

Ghosting is a sign of immaturity and a skip bin full of red flags Leave it alone

@jeniferyork895

3 жыл бұрын

Ghosting is so annoying and inconsiderate. Nice to know Im not a priority. Grrrr

@Aaliyahfan2010

3 жыл бұрын

Adrienne I really appreciate and love your comment. So true but for some of us that are truly deep persons with big hearts it totally sucks a lot.

@MsAnchovey

3 жыл бұрын

@@Aaliyahfan2010 Thank him that he notified you of his truth, sooner rather than later and yes, its heartbreaking, but move on and don't look back no matter. It doesn't matter how loving you are, it will not counter the dirt bag. It sucks for EVERYONE especially if you were really into them. Its A narcissist Red Flag warning! You really dodged a bullet to the heart.

@wanchawancha5323

3 жыл бұрын

Facts!!!!

@adriennea5919

3 жыл бұрын

@@marvinschenker2860 I don’t recall asking for your judgmental advice so please direct it at someone who cares ✌️

No point chasing someone who doesn't want to be chased. The right person for you won't play games👌

@tashaequeen8935

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@tashaequeen8935

3 жыл бұрын

And period!!!

@LBrooks_037

3 жыл бұрын

There's no such thing as the right person

@Vixinaful

3 жыл бұрын

ALL men play games.

@TwilightAngel_89

3 жыл бұрын

I'm still waiting for the right person 😕

You don't deserve someone who comes back, you deserve someone that never leaves ❤️🙏🏻

@monicathompson9751

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯 💯 💯

@Ausgoldgemacht

5 ай бұрын

But sometimes it happens

I once replied "who is this?" one time after not hearing from a guy for like 3 weeks. He was not happy. 🤣

@tarrandairamnarine9251

3 жыл бұрын

I did that once and he just left me alone afterwards 💀

@priya_xox6509

3 жыл бұрын

Omfg I need to do this 😂😂

@Boertje247

3 жыл бұрын

Brilliant

@animabella8689

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@kaiarrayixing6740

3 жыл бұрын

Lmfaooo pro

One rule... dont obsess over anyone. Full stop. Use your energy to shine bright and attract someone else on the same vibration.

@ktstevens0

2 жыл бұрын

What does Nubian mean?

@zenguidancetarot

2 жыл бұрын

@@ktstevens0 in brief... our African roots. Google Nubia and Kemet

@hourglass819

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that! Best advice so far. It’s the only comment that brought me a bit of peace 🙏

@sleavemealonegoogle1943

2 жыл бұрын

Don't obsess about anyone...gee what a romantic way to live. Never fall in love...

Ghosting should be illegal !!! Because the agony of waiting and questioning oneself is so stressful.

@nithaazalea7579

3 жыл бұрын

I get rid of him

@kdub3892

3 жыл бұрын

Move on.

@lauraberry1213

3 жыл бұрын

Its also childish AF..happened to me so I blockec his ass

@ariananails

3 жыл бұрын

True.

@freddiemeyer4563

3 жыл бұрын

its so cruel , its also the behaviour of a coward

No man is worth losing your joy. Forget him and move on. You are just as amazing, strong and beautiful as you were before he stopped talking to you. Don’t let that lame determine your self worth. ❤️

@TwilightAngel_89

3 жыл бұрын

I don't feel beautiful 😔I just want a real man in my life not boys

@emilyruggiero1465

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!

@nsamakamaigew3960

3 жыл бұрын

I love it

@MsYaYa62

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe you should have your own channel, what you said is spot on! Love it! @QueenKate1913

@Temiigold

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😰

Match his energy - if he stops texting, you stop texting. If he stops calling, you stop calling. If he stopped doing the things he did for you, you stop doing the things you did for him. Use texting with a goal in mind. Don't just say "hey" or don't respond if he just says "hey".

@marrissadeng5415

3 жыл бұрын

It will be hard if I love him. it's torturing myself and wasting time to play such games with him. i would rather to be honestly to him what i want, and what he wants. if we can't reach an agreement, then we separate. What do you think?

@manastalksessions1053

3 жыл бұрын

@@marrissadeng5415 I agree. It firs dies no good tio make him think you're crazy. Youre just wasting energy. Say your peace,relieve yourself,and move on. If he responds ,good or oh well

@carolinagirl7596

3 жыл бұрын

My favorite comment and advice I wish I’d had just a week ago.

@pc1957

3 жыл бұрын

You get what you give

@thebeginner1936

3 жыл бұрын

Soo me like he's very sweet the other day calling me "baby" but when the next day comes he didn't bother texting me so I texted him (sweet message) but he replied only "lol hey ,I'm busy" So after he said that I never bothered him , I was just seen his message but I never replied

Value yourself girls! Men who ghost you is not interested in you. I'd rather be single than deal with a man with no manners.

If it is only the beginning of you talking to someone and he's already stopped texting you, it really indicates that he is not interested in you that much. AND it has nothing to do with you, so don't take things personally, ladies :) As Ryan said don't wait by the phone. Move on and talk to other people that are actually interested in you and excited to text you ❤

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Yup yup just say NEXT! 👉👉👉

@gioovannabp

3 жыл бұрын

I subscribed to your channel, Emily! Soon I will check your channel 😊

@emilyngo

3 жыл бұрын

@@gioovannabp Thanks, Giovanna :) Hope my videos add value to your life ❤

@KMMSRP

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN. Also, if it is only the beginning and he is already reaching out to his beloved ex, he's obvi not happy & his heart isn't in it from the get-go. How can it possibly last??

@lottiesmith3643

3 жыл бұрын

I wish a single soul on earth was excited to text me lol

There is always other options. No need to wait for someone don't want to spend time with you.

@violaristic

3 жыл бұрын

Amen. 🙏🙌☺️

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

💯

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed! 😎

@aayushi2866

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@clarebilly

3 жыл бұрын

Its true

Couldn’t have possibly had better timing for this topic

@hollyross8900

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree as well

@princesskitty1414

3 жыл бұрын

He could of actually..I needed this last week 😆

@michelecruz8347

3 жыл бұрын

Sabrina Dithurbide girl you right I needed this months ago but I let the guy keep sucking me back in then he always disappears. I’m an idiot

@sarahgee5527

3 жыл бұрын

Same for me

@michelecruz8347

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahgee5527 We can lean on each other lol. This can be a support comment section now. F all tools that use us at their own convenience. We are sooooo much better than that!

If he stopped texting, he probably found someone else. And he didn't care about you enough to tell you. So, of course there's no closure. I know it hurts. But eventually you'll be like, "Joe? Joe who?" "Oh yeah, that jerk off! " LOL

@VB-lc4xz

3 жыл бұрын

For me, closure is the worst. I wish he said: Sorry, we can't be together because... No, they prefer to ghost you and hide, and you think he might be in an accident or whatever, and text him like an idiot...Can he do a video on how to deal with "no closure" situation????

@arualcantara1703

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@emghietonguia

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@julieungab1894

3 жыл бұрын

Where is he from?

@antagoat

3 жыл бұрын

Milliken

How my dating life looks like: next, next, next ▶️

@jaymeopdyke5012

3 жыл бұрын

Same!!! Lol

@paulaneary7877

3 жыл бұрын

Ksenia- That is o.k. It is better to have high standards than to settle for someone who is not good enough and won't make you happy in the relationship. Seems like quite a few of these videos are about women not lowering their standards and loving and respecting themselves. Keep it up!

@chmc1378

3 жыл бұрын

Same lol hahaha

@dragonflymagictarot1180

2 жыл бұрын

Yup 👍🏼 lol 😂

@rebeccaapodaca5223

2 жыл бұрын

Right Men are weak these days.

Text him “ i guess you passed away” he will reply!

@fnridersamz8153

3 жыл бұрын

Lol😂😂😂😆😆

@kaoshi_kutie

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mmil796

3 жыл бұрын

Yep it works or "did you have a heart attack?😏

@angeliquecapito2221

3 жыл бұрын

Haha

@Jennnbg

3 жыл бұрын

Haha, I did that once. Wrote him “I guess you’re either trapped under something heavy or you’ve been in a coma” 🤣😅😂

"Don't let his inaction force action from you that he doesn't deserve." Okay :")

@margomazzeo1680

3 жыл бұрын

Great advice..

@sialee5926

3 жыл бұрын

Good one👍

@mistymuck1630

3 жыл бұрын

That is Absolutely the best advice!!!

That “hey we should connect soon”. Nope!! My stubborn ass would never do it. You not thinking about me, I’m not thinking about you. Deuces ✌️

@anasandoval6698

3 жыл бұрын

After being ghosted over a month with a guy I had really been syncing with, I replied "Sorry, fingers broken". His excuse was that he had been incredibly busy. Well, guess what? I've been busy too, but I still manage to tell people I'm still alive or unable to talk but will reply within X hrs. You prioritize people who prioritize you.

@accesstotheredcarpet

3 жыл бұрын

FACTS!!!!

@Deeleeshush

3 жыл бұрын

Ana Sandoval yes queen !! Whenever a guy tells me he’s too busy, so am I. Good bye. You are 100% we prioritize what matters to us

@jenniferoconnell9108

3 жыл бұрын

right??!?! my ego is so strong i'll be damned if i tell a man i miss him if he isn't missing me (even if i am)

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Lol well it's there for those who feel like they need to give it one last shot 😄

When you liked him so much you don't Even realized that you were always texting him first

@xmotivational603

3 жыл бұрын

Thats true

@maricelnjombu559

2 жыл бұрын

You are right am a victim

@airishviscara2326

2 жыл бұрын

Me😂

@violetmakokha5683

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly me here

He is just not that into you.

I wish this man was my friend so he can constantly guide me through my crappiness life of dating

@kiileetsoku2397

2 жыл бұрын

Haha

"I will not bother engaging with a guy via text if he's not making any attempts to go on a date with me".....BRILLIANT! I'm realizing texting is only meant as a means to an end, it isn't what constitutes a relationship

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

YASSSSSS! You're *totally* picking up what I'm throwin' down, Gina 👏👏

@lindaamerica4587

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! When the guy stops calling and starts texting instead.....big red flag. He no longer wants to connect with you for whatever reason (afraid of commitment, seeing someone else, or just for cookies). DROP HIM AND RUN! LOL

@lucysmith8326

2 жыл бұрын

@@lindaamerica4587 😂

@Sparkles33

2 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick but how can one apply this theory in a LDR?

Honestly I am in tears at first he was all nice and talks then he suddenly stopped talking to me 😭

@cdejewel

2 жыл бұрын

He’s a player I bet he got hoes 😅 The guy who did this to me just collected women. 😉

@fieldmouse8910

2 жыл бұрын

😟😟same

I tell my daughters all the time to let the man pursue them. Never call or text first. If a man wants them, they will pursue. If they don’t pursue, they aren’t the “one”. Move on!

If he ghost you that means no, he’s not interested....leave, and move on...🚶🏼‍♀️. Chasing him will only get yourself hurt at the end, because they will play along knowing there’s opportunity for free cookies 🍪. Leave...there’re plenty of fishes in the sea.

Too late 😝 bcs I lost interest when I get ignored

@Kuitez

3 жыл бұрын

Tg bc girls like u just want attention

@lucyd6094

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kuitez don't everyone? that's the point of relationships

@Kuitez

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucyd6094 no the point of relationships is love

@Kuitez

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucyd6094 not just asking for attention

@lucyd6094

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kuitez and you love someone because they give you the validation you seek especially in the beginning when you first start talking. love is selfish and selfless at the same time. basically yes, she's right, because she has to be selfish when she gets ignored and get her mind of this person as he's not treating her right and is not seeing her worth. and she shouldn't waste her time on someone who doesn't respect her enough to come clean but ignores her. if not she'll get hurt and lose herself and her value.

i never EVER wait by the phone or try to stalk them. My life still goes on and because I have so many things going on in my life, it's something I never really even have time to do. I definitely make that "one text" and if they dont respond, then ONTO THE NEXT!

@CamilaSaurus

3 жыл бұрын

I’m gonna take a tip from your life cause I am guilty of online stalking haha

@SamElle

3 жыл бұрын

@@CamilaSaurus OMG, i used to be avidly on someone's instagram or snapchat but now i'm like WHY PUT THAT ADDED STRESS!!! it's definitely very freeing!

@CamilaSaurus

3 жыл бұрын

Sam Elle I will try that! It’s this cute guy’s birthday tomorrow, so it will be a hard test haha. I’ve gone out with him before, but we’re really not meant for each other (which is fine). I just need to make sure I fill my plate with things to do, so I won’t even have time to see what he‘ll be up to!

@SamElle

3 жыл бұрын

@@CamilaSaurus Hehehe oh man, that IS hard! What I do is literally put my phone out of reach just so I'm note tempted! Yes, keeping busy is definitely a great way to do this! I wish you luck girllll

@CamilaSaurus

3 жыл бұрын

Sam Elle Thanks for the ideas!! 😊

💙 So basically drop him if he’s ghosting? ✅

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

💯🙂

@savahbejin7511

3 жыл бұрын

No...he’s already dropped you.

@pigman-xn4vd

3 жыл бұрын

So the same if the girl ghost you?

@doriskarichu9915

2 жыл бұрын

@@savahbejin7511 🤣

@clauaome25

2 жыл бұрын

@@pigman-xn4vd exact same

Please talk about a guy who don’t let you go but he don’t want a commitment 🙄

@user-uk5cp1gx7w

3 жыл бұрын

Yes please

@lindaamerica4587

3 жыл бұрын

Tell him you're ready for marriage. If he says don't leave tell him you will wait a month. If after that, he says no, you will walk away. And be prepared to do it. Don't just say it to scare him. Sometimes a guy has to think about life without his girl to know she's the one. Then there's the guy who takes what he can get with out commitment or responsibility. This guy will say anything to get his fun. It doesn't matter. After a year of dating ANY ONE and no engagement? Move on. Life is too short. Don't waste it.

@prettyvacant3383

3 жыл бұрын

Happened to my cousin. She’s married now to another guy 🤪 put a ring on it men or they do elsewhere.

@t.f.6297

3 жыл бұрын

He did let you go, cause the moment his actions went against what your desires were was the moment that you should have said bye, bye. Mattew Hussey did a video on this called, "its not complicated". If he's not giving you what you want then move on to the next.

@MsAnchovey

3 жыл бұрын

@@t.f.6297 Then I will never get a guy. No one will. Does he have to be perfect and fulfill all my needs and when I want them or I will let him go? Ha! So, stands to say, if I'm not perfect, and do what he wants when he wants it, then the guy should let me go? Does not make sense...its un realistic and its narcissistic. Mr Hussey guy is misguided or you read it very incorrectly.

If he stop texting he is not interested... leave it and move on?!

@pigman-xn4vd

3 жыл бұрын

Or you aint talking, trying, or just made him feel ignored

Too late, I already deleted his number 😎

Leave him alone he needs his space

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Lol yep give him plennnnnnnnty of space 😂

@w1975b

3 жыл бұрын

he can go float himself...to take a phrase from The 100 lol

@milanabui4637

3 жыл бұрын

let him be in another plane of existence that doesn't include me :)

@satsmansukhani6378

3 жыл бұрын

How about if he only messages 2 x month??

“Boys are supposed to ruin your lipstick, Not mascara.”

When you get ghosted, well my suggestion is to say a little prayer and light a candle for the dead 🤣

Ryan ... you must be surrounded by a lot of women bc you are ON POINT WITH OUR THOUGHTS. This is great!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Five sisters! What can I say! 🤷🏻‍♂️😂

@digitallocations1423

3 жыл бұрын

@@datingcoachryanpatrick I hope you're in a good relationship and your girlfriend has good things to say about you.

I am 46 years old, and i still learning how to date, to communicate and first of all how to listen to myself. I learn so much from you too, so thank you 😊

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful! My pleasure 🤗

@veggie42

3 жыл бұрын

Me too Over 40s never stop learning

@MsAnchovey

3 жыл бұрын

Heck, I'm 62 and I'm still learning! Uggg😪😪😪 I really want to go it alone. Relationships are just so difficult, and I feel right now that the cons outweigh the pros and it's not worth it.

@juanitasews5782

3 жыл бұрын

Yep...great advice. I'm almost 60 and it's still the stupid games.

If he masks with excuses saying that 'he does not have time' or ' he is too busy', it's clear that he is no putting you as a priority in his life. I have crossed in the past with men with the same pattern and learned in the tough way to value my own worth. Now I am putting boundaries and have standards. Don't settle for less ladies and gentlemen.! Some women play the same games with men. I don't say 'Next', I say 'Another Frog'! Lol, nothing against the Frogs btw, they are symbol of transformation 😊😉.

@fannyprajeetha5173

2 жыл бұрын

Yes..He is doing the same with me.What can I do?? Shall I breakup with him then??😓

@toosexy7955

2 жыл бұрын

You know he's talking to someone else, the JERKS!

Ryan's Topic: He stopped texting... Now what? Me: Congratulations.

@toniwitton7164

3 жыл бұрын

thankyou Ryan :)

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

😁😁

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

You bet! 🤘

@sweetsimpleslowlife2709

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@dygorgeous3272

3 жыл бұрын

Me=Byyyeee!

That's why I so love Arianna's song "thank u next". Thanks for making people put themselves first.

Love #3!! I”ve finally learned to not entertain guys with texting if they are not making any attempt to ask me out.. I’m not looking for a pen pal/texting buddy.. bye boy

I did follow some of Ryan’s rules with a new guy I’m dating. Actually worked, I didn’t initiate anything, I always allow him to ask me. And I think me stepping back makes me like him so much more. I like that he takes initiative and takes charge of things. I find it very sexy

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

BOOM! 🔥

@pigman-xn4vd

3 жыл бұрын

Wait till you start to ignore him and he stops texting

I think the worst part of this games is that I've been asking myself "I'm I too clingy?" "He just needs some alone time and I'm been toxic" the whole time. In my case we never had the purpose of dating, it was just an online friendship, but I couldn't understand why he texted me everyday and was so sweet and suddenly he stopped and changed.

If someone is interested, tbey will contact you. Do not wait

What next? You calmly move on. He's just not that into you. NOTHING PERSONAL. You're great!! You may love him to death, but if hes not into you enough for a relationship then face it, maintain your self love, thank him for the heads up by not texting you and move on. IMPORTANT If you don't like a guy enough for a relationship, would you want him to get all upset, take it personal, be devastated or angry at you or seek revenge? I would hope not. You would say, "You're a great guy, but just not great for me enough for a relationship. .....Right? No drama, just move on. Yes, its sad, but put your efforts now into optimistically getting ready for the one better suited. He should or could've been more up front about it, but hes not, so calmly let him go. Would you have been up front in the same situation if it were reversed? Just because you're not someone's one and only doesn't mean anything against you. Finding the right person for both parties envolved is like trying to find a needle in a haystack...and one of the most difficult endeavors.

@sheilahc3209

3 жыл бұрын

Love this! Especially the “optimistically get ready for the one (who’s) better suited.”

It’s amazing how universal this is.

I'm almost 40 and not on the dating market, and I can't believe how many universal truths about relationships and even self worth I am finding in your videos. Great job!!

@annahenselek6909

3 жыл бұрын

@Richard Francis I don't feel old, what I meant was that these videos seem to be aimed at really young people who are dating, looking for boyfriends at Tinder etc. And yet they speak to me as well.

As a woman who honestly wants to stop texting my boyfriend a lot, I think there's a stupid amount of emphasis on texting nowadays... Look how many relationships it's destroying :/

"LET HIM DISAPPEAR" lol never related to anything more today HAHAHAHAAHAHAA

@Renee-bk4fl

3 жыл бұрын

I felt that too

Daaaaamn, Ryan, your sarcasm and facial expressions are ON FLEEK! I need this humor and authenticity to help successfully navigate this area of life. Thank you!

Oh my gosh, I can't believe how grateful I am I found your channel, my mindset is literally changing so much!

God I’ve been watching you for the past 2 years now and you never fail to help me!!! I absolutely LOVE how you word things and the way you say it actually makes it stick it’s not just going in one ear and out the other. You have helped me so so much I really appreciate you and your work. Just thank you! Xx

Love your sense of humour, Ryan! When we are watching this, most of us are not in a good mood and need your advice. You are not only funny but are so empowering!

Don’t tex!!!.....--- move on easy said than done but chicas we deserve better🙏🏼💃😘

Very helpful! I already typed a message but this helps a lot. Almost 4 days of not texting or calling him and i am not waiting anymore because i should have selfworth. Thanks Ryan! Keep it up!

Thank you for putting it bluntly,and in a way that it finally clicked.

If someone ghosts you just count your blessings and move on sis. Even if he did lose interest or is investing his time in someone else, be an adult and have the balls to tell me that. No one owes your their time, attention or their text messages so if they’re giving you that freely and without you having to do any kind of tricks and traps it’s a good bet they want to be in your life.

Finally! Someone had to say this, instead of all those "these are 10 things you need to do for a man never to ignore you/leave you blah blah blah". Thank you!

I just want to say this info is GOLD!! Also I have NEVER hit the Bell for notifications on anyone I’ve subscribed to but I’m hittin it for you! Thank you!!

Ryan always coming through when I need the pep talk! 🙏🏼

Ryan- This was super helpful and something I’ve experienced. I’ve found that if I have to ask certain questions, the guy is most likely not interested and I already have my answer. It’s been quite an experience getting back into the dating world. You’re videos are extremely helpful... and empowering, so thank you! Keep them coming!👍🏻

I love you! This video encouraged me to cut him off, after almost two years of going back and forth, not having one decent date. What an idiot I was.🤦🏼‍♀️ thank you Ryan💜

Men like to chase, once they get they lose interest unless they really into you. Women should chill! If he into you he will pursue and then stick around

@airishviscara2326

2 жыл бұрын

Ok😂

@toosexy7955

2 жыл бұрын

Especially if they want MONEY!

@soffym.a.o9778

2 жыл бұрын

@@toosexy7955 😂

Being ghosted is a gift! Sometimes, I will text something to get ghosted.

@laurahardman8069

3 жыл бұрын

Abigail Jackson I am fantastic and there isn’t one relationship I want restored. Thank you anyway!

My experience with this is that once they stopped texting you need to leave them alone and concentrate your energy on yourself. Sooner or later they will appear out of the blue (I think they sense that you are not concentrating energy on them anymore, you are living your life), and then you have to decide whether you would like to continue with them.

@lucysmith8326

2 жыл бұрын

Yes this has been my experience

@zippyblessed839

2 жыл бұрын

Next !!!!

One taught me love One taught me patience And one taught me pain Now, I'm so amazing Say I've loved and I've lost But that's not what I see So, look what I got Look at what you taught me And for that, I say Thank you, next (next)

It’s so hard to say “next” when you have a crush….but everything you say here is great advice. Thank you!

You’re so good at what you do! Very appreciated.

Instead you ought to simply move on and find yourself a worthy man.

So... I took the test and first the result was I’m a ninja but deep down I knew those answers were more what I would like to have answered, then I took the test once more and it clicked, I’m a “texting idealistic”. Being an introverted and square minded as I am, it’s hard for me to be spontaneous and sharp in comments so most of the times I wonder if my text was too aggressive or too rational. I don’t know how to flirt on text neither do in person 🤦🏻‍♀️

This gentleman is the real deal!! Thank you so much for the videos I learn so much 🙏🙏🙏

Another excellent video, and again so funny😃! Love it💗 I always look forward to this line : "..right now!" And that charismatic smile of Ryan with it🌞

All of this only points out in one thing... He isnt intrested in you anymore🙄... No matter what we do.. no matter how much we read we watch about do's and dont things.. even reading tarrots.. burning candles in churches.. we cannot force a guy to like us... Even if we cry an ocean... 🤷 There is only one thing we should do.... Let them go🙄..... Move on and forget him.... He is not worth anything...

I watch this video over and over when he doesnt respond. He is genuinely busy, so many things going on I cant list but come on, we live and die by our phones these days, a quick reply would be better than ignorance

Wow, this was so powerful, always feeling in control of my life after watching your videos. Thanks allot.

I don’t know how you do it, Ryan, but this is the type of the video that I really needed. Thank you so so much

Second time watching this, I'm so not sweating the ghosting... I'm loving it.

this happened to me recently. 😭... the main reason is we're miles apart.. then we became strangers.. anyways, i now know what to do. thank you so much ryan for helping us. i really appreciate it. 🥰

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

You bet, Lindsay! Thanks for watching! 🙂

Love these videos! I’m following your advice and currently feeling pretty darn great about what’s going on with my dating life. Connecting with some very interesting, attentive men. Not gonna lie, though...there’s a lot of sorting that has to happen first! You cannot be afraid to say no thanks and move on. Also it’s great (for me) to watch women dating coaches about connecting to your feminine side - after being a solo parent for many years, I was used to playing mom and dad. It’s good to reconnect with my softer side and unplug from all that responsibility. Keep up the great work, Ryan! Suggestion: dating advice for more mature ladies. 💗

Thank you for this video. I needed this since this happened to me for the first time 2 months ago 😭 I blocked him several times because he didn’t respond to my last messages and realised he was ghosting me. But I thought maybe he tried to contact me during the times I blocked him but nothing in the end. He left his stuff at my house whilst he went off to work in another country and sled me to take his stuff with me when I’m moving. I was so shocked cuz he never even called or texted to checkin or chat with me. I said no I feel taken for granted and like ur maid servant- he sent me a video of his face superimposed in a Queen video 😑😤 I debated messaging him to see if he’s still alive or something but naaaaaah. So I really needed to hear this

I just found you in my recommended feed today and I've been binge watching your channel for a couple of hours now.🙈 I've found that every video I've watched it's always 50/50 when it comes to how the guy I like treats me. It's always been 50/50 since before I started watching your videos so I'm still at a loss on what to do or how to feel.😄😅

@yourlehrness

3 жыл бұрын

Jennifer Christle he needs to be 51%

These are good pointers even for platonic friendships. People do what they want ultimately

Thank you. This made me solidify my decision more than ever. This is truly helpful.

Your one of my favorite coach in Yt world. Thanks for all the tips.

Wow Ryan.. just found you here and subscribed of course... I m shocked, you actually reply !!!!!!! Woooooow!!!!! It s amazing, other people talking about dating on KZread never bother to reply. I FIND THIS AMAZING!! U RE AMAZING 😊🥰🥰🥰

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

I sure do, Mar. Thanks for noticing! I don't always get to everyone, but I certainly try to get to as many as I can 😉

Haha. He literally texted while watching this video. Knowing your worth is key.

Good advise, I used to do all the things you said except setting my new standards. I have only recently learned that By communicating to my subconscious that I want a guy who invites me to a proper date for example I will be attracting things I truly desire. Don't settle for nothing less you deeply desire.

Thank you for the insight. I was starting to think i was being too harsh when i decide to say next. I took your text and scored excellent 90-100. This video helped reassure me that the guy i felt was wasting my time, i should move away from.

This really good advice. Never thought of it that way. I was talking to a guy for a year. But played me. So now not worried about him.

Such amazing advice! I’m going to tell my single girlfriend about your channel, she desperately needs this!

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Thank you, Bree! 😀

Thank you Ryan for your videos!!! Just discovered you and its so helpful!

I have to say. You are so good and right. Even though the truth may hurt. But again, it is just the fact that we don’t want to let go this little rope of hope.

me and my girlfriends were talking just today about all our situations being ghosted currently. Great timing to watch this video haha, seems like its happening all too often nowadays. Thanks xxx

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

You bet 🙂

I swear you knew I needed this video!! 😁😩♥️

@datingcoachryanpatrick

3 жыл бұрын

Um naturally Belle 😄

I was definitely guided to watch this video✨ thank for you this !!!

I find it hard to determine where I stand with him. I'm in no rush, but I do find myself eyeballing my phone more than I should.