If He’s Not Contacting You, These 5 Things Make Him Chase You Again + 5 Behaviors That Turn Him OFF!

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Learn how to make a man chase you again if he's not contacting you right now (plus five behaviors that will turn him OFF and push him further away if he's acting distant) in this video with Helena Hart.
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  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching3 жыл бұрын

    If you want to learn the secrets to attracting the man you want and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/

  • @CopperGoose98

    @CopperGoose98

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love this unedited format! Also, I love "not worrying about it for a time frame". I am not going to worry about it until the end of October. ;) In the meantime, I am at the gym, building my business, helping my family, and going camping with friends. :) Thank you, Helena!

  • @CopperGoose98

    @CopperGoose98

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh, the last post was not from Noah.... haha! He (my son) used my computer last.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! I’d love to hear how this goes for you. 💗

  • @rechy63

    @rechy63

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is super helpful and Iike the free flow, authentic format.

  • @jacquelynallen488

    @jacquelynallen488

    3 жыл бұрын

    Helena. Totally love the new style! Less editing, more talking works for me! Keep them coming. So loved the last tip about making space for the right man so that the others fade away easily.

  • @refiloepeu961
    @refiloepeu9612 жыл бұрын

    Basically "leave him alone" accept that your paths are on a different trajectory, and focus on yours. If he truly loves you and belongs with you, your paths will collide once again. Keep it moving

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing! 💜 I talk more about that in these videos: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @brendaluchemo

    @brendaluchemo

    10 ай бұрын

    Yap!!

  • @tabbylove86

    @tabbylove86

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes .I don want to work myself more.its just disturbing .I am tired

  • @imeelove0704
    @imeelove07042 жыл бұрын

    You’ll never have to negotiate your way into a heart that wants you there.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights here - I agree! 💞

  • @live.life.secure.coaching

    @live.life.secure.coaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen, girl! 👏👏👏

  • @baraatumohammed7596

    @baraatumohammed7596

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348110501742⏯⏯💕💕

  • @baraatumohammed7596

    @baraatumohammed7596

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348110501742⏯⏯💕💕💕💕⏯️⏯️

  • @baraatumohammed7596

    @baraatumohammed7596

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348110501742⏯⏯💕

  • @christinae.burlison936
    @christinae.burlison936 Жыл бұрын

    ‘Pull all of that attention back to yourself and focus on whats right in front of you” 💕

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad that resonated with you! This video might be helpful in doing that: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html

  • @novosprospectus882
    @novosprospectus8823 жыл бұрын

    It's simple if he pulls away, don't follow him. Give the man the room he needs.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights here!

  • @flightforlight157
    @flightforlight1573 жыл бұрын

    Basically live the way I would before I met him, when I didn't know he existed haha

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your perspective on this Melina, I like that! 💕

  • @lalathyravong247

    @lalathyravong247

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s so hard to do

  • @renchemarais8419

    @renchemarais8419

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lalathyravong247 but totally DOABLE 😊

  • @andreaclear4447

    @andreaclear4447

    3 жыл бұрын

    This explains y they stop trying when they know they have u! Then beg for u once u are done

  • @dantoinettetaylor1663

    @dantoinettetaylor1663

    3 жыл бұрын

    I do this sometimes

  • @mgsol3316
    @mgsol33163 жыл бұрын

    Mistakes to Avoid: 1. You don’t want to panic. 2. Leaning forward and trying to get clarity while anxious. 3. Over apologizing or over explaining yourself. 4. Confronting him or giving him an ultimatum. 5. Faking disintrest. Things We Can Do: 1. Give yourself a timeline to not worry. 2. Take your focus off of him completely. 3. Retrain your brain to focus on what is right in front of you, not on him. 4. Build up your life outside of this man. 5. Let yourself get bored with this lack of momentum. Get turned off by what he is doing or not doing.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for summarizing these! 💝

  • @mclarencroft2501

    @mclarencroft2501

    3 жыл бұрын

    Helena Hart if people still click your video, your view count still works right? Sometimes I get upset people comment this stuff. Keeps the KZreadr from having people actually watch.

  • @mgsol3316

    @mgsol3316

    3 жыл бұрын

    McLaren Croft I’ve seen many people do this and I did it as an outline and appreciate when I see other videos with an outline. It helps me follow the video better, since I do watch it.

  • @mgsol3316

    @mgsol3316

    3 жыл бұрын

    Helena Hart you’re very welcome 💞 I very much enjoyed this video and I’m going to watch it again right now, so much priceless information you are giving us, thank you💞

  • @kaylasheppard7746

    @kaylasheppard7746

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mclarencroft2501 having someone summarize is a lifesaver, because sometimes it's not always clear, and I can screenshot it as a quick reference

  • @rosebluntz8954
    @rosebluntz89543 жыл бұрын

    Imagine a relationship where "The Honeymoon Period" never ends!

  • @sarahminnis5564

    @sarahminnis5564

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good idea 💡

  • @David-ej1ps

    @David-ej1ps

    3 жыл бұрын

    #pipedream

  • @Trish21_

    @Trish21_

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm blessed to have experience that 😊

  • @suejust1861

    @suejust1861

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love it. My dream. ;)

  • @bradleycooper2239

    @bradleycooper2239

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s what I want in my life right now

  • @TART111
    @TART111 Жыл бұрын

    "Let yourself get bored with this lack of momentum. Get turned off by what he is doing or not doing. " This is how I feel now. I'd love to hear from him, but I'm getting bored with it and realize perhaps I need someone different. Someone who can be attentive, romantic, show consistent interest. Perhaps we're just not a good match.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💚 These videos might also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/haxo1tZ-e7iyf6w.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @kaitlinmastrantuono7216

    @kaitlinmastrantuono7216

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m going through the same thing right now with a guy. He was texting me every day in the beginning but now it’s a few months later and he’s gone silent. I’m getting bored with it too and I’m tired of being the one always reaching out to him. I need someone consistent and he was in the beginning but now all of a sudden he’s not anymore and it’s a total turn off. I think he’s just not ready for a relationship and didn’t have the courtesy to tell me.

  • @TART111

    @TART111

    Жыл бұрын

    @Kaitlin Mastrantuono I didn't realize I wrote this comment 5 months ago. I wish I would have gracefully faded out of his life back then. My feelings grew, and I thought we were slowly moving forward. He officially ended it with me last night. I felt things were "off" around mid-December, but chalked it up to him getting sick, me moving, being busy with holidays. I'm pretty sure he'd met someone else just before then, and in hindsight, I realize he was creating distance with me as he let her in. Our last contact was me teasing him, thinking he was just being grumpy by sort of telling me to back off. I said I'd text him tomorrow but... I realize it's better not to contact him. It hurts and I feel foolish but obviously I see I had a clue 5 months ago with how I was feeling. If I don't contact him, I still hope he'll realize he wants me if he thinks I'm no longer chasing, but in fact, no contact is probably exactly what he'd prefer. He clobbered me with his words, and no one with a shred of self-respect would hang around. I think that was his idea. He's not a terrible person and I still love him, but it doesn't mean I need to be in his life -- or more to the point- he wants me in his.

  • @kaitlinmastrantuono7216

    @kaitlinmastrantuono7216

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TART111 I’m sorry you went through all that with this guy. You’re better off without him. You don’t need somebody like that in your life. He’ll realize what he lost eventually but it’ll be too late. You’ll meet somebody else. That’s probably what’s gonna happen with the guy I was seeing. I’m not gonna sit around and wait for him.

  • @TART111

    @TART111

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kaitlinmastrantuono7216 thanks. I kinda knew I'd be ready for a new chapter once I moved, but I guess I wasn't quite ready to have it end. I thoughtnif iI did everything right- respected his space, dialed expectations down to zero, remained busy with my life, always positive and accepting- he'd trust and open up. It was always one step forward two steps back with his emotions I only focused on the one step forward. I will eventually meet someone better for me. Deep down I knew it would never be him. I just preferred not to see it.

  • @patriciaviii
    @patriciaviii3 жыл бұрын

    I tell myself, “there is always someone better”

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Patricia!

  • @justlove8865

    @justlove8865

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here 😊

  • @tammief.381

    @tammief.381

    3 жыл бұрын

    I do the same thing but then when he contacts me & gives me that sob story I say just one more chance & then I kick myself each & everytime i think its a bored thing & i also dont want to go be with anybody else at the moment if u get what i mean

  • @justlove8865

    @justlove8865

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tammief.381 If for any reason it was due to valid reason why you broke up such as cheating or abuse then I don't take them back but if we break up because we just are not seeing eye to eye then I do allow him back into my life. There's only been a few of them that I've been like that, the rest I'm like no.

  • @tammief.381

    @tammief.381

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@justlove8865 i feel the same....i was with my ex for 13yrs & once i found out he was messing around that was it i let him go & told the girl she did me a favor (she knew we were together otherwise I wouldnt be mad at her but she was his friends gf) & I thanked her. But before him & after him I have found myself going back to someone when I knew i could find better.

  • @tevazile4524
    @tevazile45243 жыл бұрын

    The best advice in this video is to allow yourself to feel bored and disinterested with his lack of attention and distance. That’s what happens to me. Look for someone who will give you that attention effortlessly, they are out there. Believe me!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, thanks for sharing your insights here! These videos should be helpful for anyone looking to do that: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYqizMlsham_lLw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @katietaylor457

    @katietaylor457

    Жыл бұрын

    [Ò>

  • @gretalsosaoro438

    @gretalsosaoro438

    Жыл бұрын

    Spot on

  • @lorrainebraham5851

    @lorrainebraham5851

    Жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @Taylor_Frenchiebaby

    @Taylor_Frenchiebaby

    4 ай бұрын

    i sure hope you aren’t implying to start entertaining other men while you are in a relationship just to satisfy a need for validation. that’s big icks for any man with self respect.

  • @dianacoulson4724
    @dianacoulson47243 жыл бұрын

    'let yourself become bored and turned off by his actions'..... Wow...... That is very clever, a complete game changer..... Impressive!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Diana! I talk more about that concept in these videos: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/haxo1tZ-e7iyf6w.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYqizMlsham_lLw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @peggymicsky8607
    @peggymicsky86073 жыл бұрын

    The first time you let a man disrespect you, you set up boundaries and give him permission to disrespect you. Don't start it. It only gets worse.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights here, Peggy! 💚

  • @Freespiritedqueen

    @Freespiritedqueen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Learned this later in life and pearls of wisdom!

  • @karenrice794

    @karenrice794

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't start anything you aren't willing to continue

  • @planetwalker798

    @planetwalker798

    2 жыл бұрын

    Peggy in the context of this video, how would the man be disrespecting if you’re not even seeing him? Do you mean when he pulls away just don’t focus on him (but then how does that “teach” as he doesn’t know why we’re not responding?!)

  • @vernita0216

    @vernita0216

    Жыл бұрын

    Bullseye!!!!!

  • @blossombellatigress8746
    @blossombellatigress87463 жыл бұрын

    If a man cannot spare a few secs to send one text to a woman who he loves, how lazy is that!!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    It definitely shows where his priorities are (and where they aren’t!).

  • @amyk8488

    @amyk8488

    3 жыл бұрын

    Totally lazy emotionally lazy is what i call my boyfriend. Im sick of it. Everytime i tell him i want to be do e with it he is the most Perfect guy. Give me a break

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Amy, this is the video I’d recommend for your situation: kzread.info/dash/bejne/g22jqtWrZrXKgJs.html

  • @Lisah707

    @Lisah707

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amy K thats called hoovering. They disconnect/ignore/don’t meet your needs, then when you start to pull away they Hoover you back in, like a vacuum. True love really builds on itself you deserve consistency

  • @sweetlikechocolate437

    @sweetlikechocolate437

    3 жыл бұрын

    I didn't message a gorgeous guy on IG over the weekend because I went 'no contact'....and he blocked me. But I still miss him.

  • @djmande1
    @djmande13 жыл бұрын

    ‘Feeling bored’ is the perfect tip. I always try and not let the physical attraction blind me and remind myself of how boring he is to me.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad that resonated with you! These videos should also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @oyefriday5677

    @oyefriday5677

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know of a powerful love spell caster who help me get my ex back, now will are happily married.

  • @entp1217

    @entp1217

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ooo - that’s a good one, NPJ

  • @OmaymaOmayma77
    @OmaymaOmayma773 жыл бұрын

    I focus on me! Workout, detox, fast, I am always busy and it never bothers me when a man pulls back it actually gives me a chance to be with me! I love being alone lol

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome, thanks for sharing! 💖

  • @michellerichards9948

    @michellerichards9948

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg this exactly what I do self love🥰❤💎🙏

  • @skyylea9859

    @skyylea9859

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too … good for you

  • @maricelgund

    @maricelgund

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @Mommy2Tiana

    @Mommy2Tiana

    2 жыл бұрын

    So exactly me

  • @conogirl08
    @conogirl083 жыл бұрын

    Work full time and go to graduate school keeps your mind off those fools, stay off social media, make him miss you.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights here, Stephi!

  • @bethshaferman6712
    @bethshaferman67123 жыл бұрын

    I exercise, dance, yoga, clean, organizing!! Mani's. and pedi's, massage. Reading, watching a series or a movie. These distractions are all so helpful bc SELF CARE and SELF LOVE🙏🏼💕

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it, Beth! Thanks for sharing! 💖

  • @bethshaferman6712

    @bethshaferman6712

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@HelenaHartCoaching self care is easier- self love is tougher but I'm working on it I think🙏🏼💕

  • @maddipage1347

    @maddipage1347

    3 жыл бұрын

    Gee!! Can’t wait to graduate so I can have more time for these lol

  • @oscarwilliamson1264

    @oscarwilliamson1264

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bethshaferman6712 you deserve a better man!

  • @jlady1595

    @jlady1595

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree, all great things for yourself. Healthy things to do.

  • @marcimorgan1369
    @marcimorgan13693 жыл бұрын

    I have found that taking a walk, going somewhere near water, a little stream or waterfall and focusing on gratitude in my life helps to get the energy going to a positive place instead of feeling anxious.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it, Marci! Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💖

  • @oscarwilliamson1264

    @oscarwilliamson1264

    3 жыл бұрын

    Marci Morgan,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news!

  • @maryjflanagan1922

    @maryjflanagan1922

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love water and a long Epsom salt bath always picks up my spirits.

  • @mrs.lupitawest7997
    @mrs.lupitawest79973 жыл бұрын

    What works for me is getting pampered even as little as having my nails done, have a facial, go to the gym, start reading a new book. One thing I learned is that actions speak louder than words. I give them a week after I delete the number. He has to win me all over again 🙌🏼

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Guadalupe, thanks for sharing! 💖

  • @mrs.lupitawest7997

    @mrs.lupitawest7997

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Oliver Frost he doesn’t have WhatsApp

  • @mrs.lupitawest7997

    @mrs.lupitawest7997

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Oliver Frost sorry I don’t have WhatsApp and I don’t do long distance friendships either ... good luck!!!

  • @mrs.lupitawest7997

    @mrs.lupitawest7997

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Grace4me111 He has chase me or else it’s a no go!! I’m married now so he won!! Lol 😂

  • @luckygirl-ue1jx

    @luckygirl-ue1jx

    9 ай бұрын

    Wonderful ideas to forget him, thank you..

  • @sultanataj
    @sultanataj3 жыл бұрын

    So true!!! I feel the spark is dead when they don’t pay enough attention or aren’t ready to get closer. It’s a big turn off to me and it’s easy to move on.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad to hear that’s a turn-off for you! 💚

  • @adriennecota
    @adriennecota2 жыл бұрын

    Every time he comes into my mind that interprets what I am focusing on at the moment, I say in my mind's eye, "I release you in love and light", and I repeat that phrase until his energy is totally gone.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Adrienne! These videos might also be helpful for anyone in this situation: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/oJigrKePhLLTZMY.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZneWsZuqgtDcdLA.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYqizMlsham_lLw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @sourcehauntings8851

    @sourcehauntings8851

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Wonderful idea for all.

  • @MN-wx2ur
    @MN-wx2ur3 жыл бұрын

    I do a lot of self talk to get my mind off him and into the present. If I'm alone I say it out loud, which is even more powerful. "It doesn't matter what he is doing, it's none of you business." I love this and the fact that it isn't trying to "control" or be gamey.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing! These videos might also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/haxo1tZ-e7iyf6w.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYqizMlsham_lLw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @Lil_HandGrenade

    @Lil_HandGrenade

    9 ай бұрын

    I do this too! Sometimes I wonder if Im crazy but it works!

  • @Sunshinestarryrose
    @Sunshinestarryrose2 жыл бұрын

    Ignore him Focus on you Self care Have fun in your own life Date others

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💜

  • @moshi2859
    @moshi28593 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this today. He does not want a relationship. I need my energy back. Self love. 100%

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad this was helpful for you! ❤️

  • @jyothikishore4335

    @jyothikishore4335

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@HelenaHartCoaching oo

  • @Daniellewhetstine

    @Daniellewhetstine

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same! 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @charichari

    @charichari

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yesss self-love is always #1~ :) I need to focus my energy on the most important person in my life: Me.

  • @baraatumohammed7596

    @baraatumohammed7596

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you want your lover to come back to you and stay forever💯💯

  • @jacquelinenoel2992
    @jacquelinenoel29923 жыл бұрын

    Men that are flaky are boring. Great point! I wouldn’t be interested in a man at all if he isn’t able to step up and act like an alpha male. Bottom line. I have a very attentive, loving man. He started acting a bit flaky in the beginning and I told him I really was totally turned off by flaky men. Boy, he did an about face in a heartbeat ! Lol 😊 We’ve been together about 2.5 yrs. Our mutual love and respect is so rewarding and we are ring shopping in Oct. ❤️

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience here Jackie, that’s so inspiring! 💖

  • @laluna424

    @laluna424

    3 жыл бұрын

    I second this men who are flaky are boring. They try to keep the spark alive by playing hot and cold cz they don't have anything else interesting!! Period

  • @brendal971

    @brendal971

    3 жыл бұрын

    🎉✨❤ congratulations ☺💐🎉

  • @Lisah707

    @Lisah707

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was looking around for the right response as I haven’t heard from him in a couple of days. I found it in your comment, “it turns me off” 💥 boom

  • @toosexy7955

    @toosexy7955

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@laluna424 Not unless they want Money, they keep you on hold to their convenience, My time is too valuable!!

  • @maryklatka5989
    @maryklatka59893 жыл бұрын

    That last bit of advice is spot-on! When he doesn't reach out, it feels like rejection and that is a definitely off-putting.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Mary! These videos should also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html.

  • @louisestrickland2612
    @louisestrickland26123 жыл бұрын

    I seem to be over thinking the situation! I'm thinking about him too much! What I have done is to clean and reorganize my living space, started back waking to loose weight, I got my hair cut into a nice, flattering shape, I'm reading my Christian books, going on outings with church groups, and attending classes! Just doing self-caring! I'm working on being more feminine! Having been a single parent, I'm finding out who I am again! I have changes SO much and I like who I'm becoming more and more! God is the potter and I'm the clay, So God and Jesus make me how U want me today! Amen!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience here, Louise! These videos should also be helpful for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/X31-o7yah7jSfdo.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/mZ6Mu8aGaZPIg7g.html.

  • @ashley_brown6106
    @ashley_brown610614 сағат бұрын

    It's very crazy, but THE FIRST DAY I stopped chasing him, he started chasing me all over again! It's like he sensed my change of energy...

  • @yvonneromera5388
    @yvonneromera53883 жыл бұрын

    Ok for real, I watched this video then withdrew my energy from him after obsessing over this connection for months now. Later that night he messaged me and he RARELY messages first. I was laughing that it actually worked! Soooo I think I’m going to keep withdrawing my energy yep.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience here! Yes, it definitely works! 💞

  • @lindaaglietti3813

    @lindaaglietti3813

    3 жыл бұрын

    How much space and how many times a year does a man need space ? He and I both work and are not kids thats for sure. He seems to not know what he wants to do .Every year when we hit another year anniversary....he gets scarex I guess. During this pandemic he took a 5 month break ...then is trying to come back 1 step at a time like when we first dated 3 years agi.

  • @neffyiffy

    @neffyiffy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @yvonne romera any updates?

  • @yvonneromera5388

    @yvonneromera5388

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@neffyiffy nothing's happening, sorry to say. As I've learned from Helena, focus on people who are coming towards you. He wasn't making any effort, so I let him go.

  • @goloveyourselfbymiagiangel5081
    @goloveyourselfbymiagiangel50813 жыл бұрын

    I love this! I'm all about self love. Stop chasing him and start chasing yourself!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, love it! 💞

  • @andreaclear4447

    @andreaclear4447

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is what I am trying to learn. Because of his lack of interest, I have become very depressed

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Andrea, this video should be helpful for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pKif1cdyftOqf5M.html

  • @tabithatierney6512

    @tabithatierney6512

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! This is what I’m working on self love and self care!

  • @charichari

    @charichari

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true! I feel like adding "start chasing the BEST version of yourself" and invest in that beautiful person that you are as much as possible =)

  • @nola8504
    @nola85042 жыл бұрын

    The retraining of your brain is so so important. It is very attractive. I concentrate on the things that fills me up, going to church, worshipping God, being busy serving and tapping into His presence during Shabbat services and soaking evenings. Doing pottery. Reading the Word. Cooking and baking

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely - thanks for sharing, Renola Jodie! 💞

  • @nfgreenwood1
    @nfgreenwood13 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for pointing out that it's ok to get bored with this sort of behavior. So often we want to guilt trip ourselves for losing interest in this sort of behavior and beat ourselves up for not being "understanding" or "loving" or whatever about it. So we lean in even further to prove to ourselves AND them that we are loyal, loving and totally understanding no matter how we are treated. 🙄 I know I've been guilty of this. But if you find yourself losing interest over a guy's behavior, remind yourself that that is good! It's means your standards and boundaries are strong, real and doing just what they are supposed to do! Thanks for putting this out there!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your insights here too, I completely agree. I talk more about that in these videos: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @radlyn7234
    @radlyn72343 жыл бұрын

    Words of wisdom, I wish our mothers taught us this when we were little girls, it would have avoided us as women so much heart breaks, disappointments and waste of time.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I agree! 💗

  • @randilatislaw4420

    @randilatislaw4420

    3 жыл бұрын

    I taught my 2 daughters and my son about these things so they don't seem to have these issues with the guys in their lives (they're adults now), but somewhere along the way I somehow forgot it all and put up with 8 yrs of hell from my husband until he left me for a much younger woman after almost 21 yrs of marriage smh... so now I'm 45 and have lost everything and everyone in my life. So it's back to square one for me and back to being the way I used to be before I met him.

  • @marinavictoria9411

    @marinavictoria9411

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Randi Latislaw I'm so sorry that happened to you, girl. But you are still young and beautiful and you are going to find someone again and someone better this time and they will be the love of your life. F*ck your ex husband. You were probably too good for him. I hope you're having a great night. ❤

  • @empress7838

    @empress7838

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't dare think u lost. I was 39 n thought to myself...How in the world am I Ganna go from here? I wrote a prayer to God for the man I was looking for. Mind u... that list was nearly impossible even for the man upstairs to fullfil. I folded n placed in Palms 91. From experience... don't look back. Hardest thing is to forgive them. Even if they didn't ask for it. Do it for yourself. To clarify n allow yourself to forgive for beating yourself up mentally. Allowing the ❤️ to mend n heal. Cry it out n clear your soul. Once done...pick yourself up...dust yourself off. Say proudly...I am here to love n be loved. Love comes out of NOWHERE. I was 46 working in training on my day off. I agreed to work. U know the impossible prayer I wrote? God had a sense of humor...n showed who's God! He send the most good looking man I ever met. We both were immediately attracted to each other's energy. He chased me but I didn't make it easyyyyy. Everything is written was gifted by God. What made my prayer impossible? I prayed for a virgin. There was no way... But God granted with an intelligent man with a good heart n soul. Willing to love n take care of me. Yes I was extremely shocked I was his first. He was gentle n sensitive. To this day he still loves me n more after 2 yrs. Now 48...he has been wanting to marry me. Not before thanking God for loving me enough to blessed me with all I prayed for. I shared this with only 2 people...now here. Moral of the story....God has created someone already for U. Divorce means nothing when God has u in his hands. Remember that.

  • @jeanjoseph7905

    @jeanjoseph7905

    3 жыл бұрын

    Our mothers did not know either

  • @starshake8998
    @starshake89983 жыл бұрын

    Dancing / exercising to music videos on KZread for at least an hour really helps me focus on the present and let go of anything outside of me that I can't control. By the time I'm done, I feel so centered and grounded and great, I really don't care what anyone else in the world is or isn't doing.

  • @Becky-fz7tv

    @Becky-fz7tv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too ❤

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it, thanks for sharing! I’m so happy to hear that. 💖

  • @islandbeauty3540
    @islandbeauty35403 жыл бұрын

    I tend to distract myself with household chores, cooking, keeping up with current events, anything! ;)

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome, thanks for sharing! 💕

  • @marias13131313

    @marias13131313

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, but I cant cook for myself.

  • @laurenkuckelman701
    @laurenkuckelman70110 ай бұрын

    Girl, this really hit hard, especially the very last thing you said to do-“get bored” with his lack of attention. I’ve watched so many KZread videos about this and yours is the one that hit hard. You are so so spot on. This helped me so much. Thank you. ❤

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    9 ай бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m glad it resonated with you! 🩷 These videos might also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @BBGshop7
    @BBGshop73 жыл бұрын

    I keep a journal for the times that I want to text him anything that I cannot condense into 1 or 2 short sentences. and then I shift my focus to work, cleaning, pampering, meditation/prayer/reading, listening to dating coaches, or sleeping.. which ever one is priority. Journaling helps me get it off my chest so I don't forget about it. It also helps me keep track of things to ask questions later so I can respond logically over emotionally.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it, thanks so much for sharing! This video might also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html

  • @angelalucero64
    @angelalucero643 жыл бұрын

    For me going to the gym or just working out in general helps! Putting all my frustration into a physical activity helps brings me back to center and I can think clearly.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it Angela, thanks for sharing! 💖

  • @jacquinewman8125
    @jacquinewman81253 жыл бұрын

    We think that it's just us, but over the years I'm shocked at how many women this happens to. Fortunately I found my centre, so when this happens to me, it has started getting easier and easier to get back there. It has just happened again. It is a pattern as this is our 3rd shot at something. He has become distant because I pushed a little for something more exclusive. I have told myself that I am also a prize here and if me speaking my truth keeps making him run away, well then so be it. We do have a special connection, but he is damaged and now, I'm actually not so sure if I want to be there. Love the getting bored with the lack of motivation. I always go back to gym, gardening, early morning walks to the dam, seeing my friends, getting my focus back on work, or just relaxing with series. The more we practice remembering we have value and importance and that our needs also should be met the easier it gets to believe it. By voicing my pure intentions for exclusivity, I have realised is not needy, it's setting a boundary. Thank you for your beautiful work.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! I love what you said here, thanks for sharing your experience and insights! ❤️

  • @sammiulmer5336
    @sammiulmer53363 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend and I are on a break right now and I’ve watched a ton of videos like this and how to understand and meet his needs as well as mine. Im drawing while watching this, went on a hike earlier. making it a little easier.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Sammi! This video should also be helpful for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iHmf3I-Ig7mqktI.html

  • @tinawang9790

    @tinawang9790

    3 жыл бұрын

    Every couple needs space to be individuals and it's a healthy thing but far as a long break from the man/woman they love, Theres no such things as a break. Why would a man or woman need a break from his soulmate? That's just code for he wants to see other ppl and probably already is.

  • @SewDiva5691
    @SewDiva56913 жыл бұрын

    You must be reading my mind, Beautiful Helena! I’ve been feeling emotional lately. 😢 I need to take time off of thinking of his absence.🤦🏼‍♀️ I know I’m not the only one getting triggered here. Thank you for your helpful reminders. I like this unedited version like we are literally talking face to face.💖

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re very welcome! Thanks for the feedback. ❤️

  • @tonyamarie6534
    @tonyamarie65343 жыл бұрын

    Good video...no rambling...clear statements, no editing needed..what I do in quiet moments is remind myself of the good things men have told me like, “You have a lot to offer and I am a nice looking woman.” The guy I’m talking to now said this very thing to me and I listened. He gets quiet at times. I keep things in perspective. I’m busy with grad school, caring for my mother (which is a full time job) and I force myself to keep my emotions out of how I view the quiet moments. He always comes back 😉. I’ve learned to always keep a degree of separation (emotionally) and to guard my heart until I know his true intentions.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience here, Tonya!

  • @rosemaryrogers1478

    @rosemaryrogers1478

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @angiezimmerman5868
    @angiezimmerman58683 жыл бұрын

    Helena, I recently went through this scenario. I gave him his space. And decided to fallow your advice and got into my Art work, sought out friends and went out. This works!!! Thank you so much!!!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome Angie, I’m glad this worked for you! Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💖

  • @yamnaanwar795

    @yamnaanwar795

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are you still with him? And when he came back how did you respond?

  • @tevazile4524
    @tevazile45243 жыл бұрын

    I also learned that when a man pulls away and stops contacting you or seems disinterested, he is more than likely entertaining another prospect... they are not like us. We want stability and exclusiveness. They want options and the feeling of something new

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    If a man wants options and the feeling of something new constantly, that’s a red flag in my opinion. My husband and I gave our perspective on that in this video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/poyH2dapfNHckaw.html

  • @Aisha-ej8lj
    @Aisha-ej8lj3 жыл бұрын

    This was perfect timing for me . I started obsessing about a guy who has not texted in a few days. I was going to make the classic mistake and text him tmw. Thanks to your amazing video I won’t and I’m not gonna think of him till next week . Your mental tools make so much sense 🙏🏻🙏🏻💓💓

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad this was helpful for you, Aisha! 💗

  • @Dr.DianaBarrett

    @Dr.DianaBarrett

    3 жыл бұрын

    A little self-restraint can save the day... and go such a long way! 😉🤗 Love the tips, Helena!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Diana! 💜

  • @lucitaeliot466
    @lucitaeliot4663 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for these very practical advices. Since he stop messaging me, i told myself that, "maybe he is not the right person that God wants me to be with for lifetime!" Thus, i keep myself busy for anything, but i continued praying for his physical, spiritual and emotional protection. God bless you and love ones.💓💓💓🙏🙏🙏

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, Lucita! 💜

  • @elainejensen4522

    @elainejensen4522

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love your response this true to my heart your great:)

  • @priyankabrand
    @priyankabrand3 жыл бұрын

    1. Give yourself a timeline to not worry about it 2. Take your focus off of him and put it on urself 3. Build a new habit to get back to ur feminine energy: Focus on what is right in front of u e.g. friend, workout, online course, watch a video of #Helenahart if your pattern is to think about him 4. Build up ur life outside of the world of u & him e.g. workout ( gym / go in nature etc. ) 5. Let urself get bored with this lack of momentum, lack of masculine action energy, lack of following through his promises , lot of back & forth

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your takeaways here, Priyanka! 💕

  • @ogeokonkwo373
    @ogeokonkwo3733 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 😊. And I love the unedited part, it just feels natural

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💜

  • @cassandralupi3530
    @cassandralupi35303 жыл бұрын

    I love this unedited style. I really feel like you’re talking to me.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback Cassandra, that’s helpful to know. 💜

  • @FoundRetreat

    @FoundRetreat

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way!

  • @elainacelona7809

    @elainacelona7809

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes the unedited style is great!! Real and raw is always a positive!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Linda and Elaina! 💕

  • @kv2723

    @kv2723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @bernadettejalbert4304
    @bernadettejalbert43043 жыл бұрын

    Read "THE POWER OF NOW".

  • @missalwaysshining7065

    @missalwaysshining7065

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is my go to!

  • @bernadettejalbert4304

    @bernadettejalbert4304

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@missalwaysshining7065 It's on youtube in audio form in case you or anyone prefers to listen. Peace

  • @missalwaysshining7065

    @missalwaysshining7065

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bernadette Jalbert Thank you ☺️ I’ve seen it a couple of times on my feed. I Love Eckharts voice when he does speaking engagements (it’s so peaceful) but not a huge fan of his reading voice. Reading the book really calms me down and take me out of my head, too.

  • @katerinasouponetsky861
    @katerinasouponetsky8612 жыл бұрын

    I love #5 from “things to do”. As an impatient person, 1-3 are difficult for me to implement in my experience, but 5 “get bored with his lack of action” fits in perfectly with my temperament and is the quickest way for me to get over a love interest who is unavailable. Also, 4 is brilliant. I definitely had the experience of feeling motivated to growing in and attending to other areas in my life while getting over someone. Very productive time haha. Thank you for your videos!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, Kat! These videos might also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/haxo1tZ-e7iyf6w.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/a6CJm5l8o82uYrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYqizMlsham_lLw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @Cooniez

    @Cooniez

    10 ай бұрын

    This is me as well. I've had to tell a man who wasn't stepping up that I know myself and if I'm frustrated and nothing changes, I'm out

  • @abarlow24
    @abarlow243 жыл бұрын

    Thing's i do to re-train my brain is workout, clean , find new hobbies like skating, catch up on reading, go hiking, picnics, journal, meditate, pray, binge watch tv series, spiritual baths, do my own nails , go shopping , running, walking ect...all things i love all the focus and energy returns to me, i become self centered. Most of the time being in a relationship pulls you away from yourself....youll find how much you've missed your own company, anything after 3 weeks just throw the whole relationship away, a man that want's you wouldn't waste valuable time. Men pursue the women they want. Let this be a season of getting back to yourself. After 3 weeks you'll have new healthy self love self care habits. Youll be attracting more then just him because you'll glow different. 💖

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! 💖

  • @menlove251

    @menlove251

    3 жыл бұрын

    Excellent comment....

  • @angelalacaprucia9407
    @angelalacaprucia94073 жыл бұрын

    Loved this, and really loved this sort of unedited talking all the way through format Helena! Thank you for everything, you’re amazing!! 💗

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome Angela, I’m glad you enjoyed it! ❤️

  • @michellemckenzie8724
    @michellemckenzie87243 жыл бұрын

    He was my life. My love of 27 years. I have no other family, and I can’t work due to my health condition. He promised to always take care of me and we’d planned to travel soon when he retired. I feel so sad and so lost without him.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear you’re going through this right now, Michelle. ❤️

  • @johelka7901
    @johelka79013 жыл бұрын

    I love that fact that you have knowledge of your topics!!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Hazel! 💕

  • @aidasark3771
    @aidasark37712 жыл бұрын

    I listened to this clip of a sermon yesterday and this pastor had the simplest advice which is the hardest to accept but she said IF someone wants to leave your life, let them.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Celine - I agree! 💕

  • @yoli_verse
    @yoli_verse3 жыл бұрын

    I love this natural, flowing, conversational feeling video! Thank you!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m glad you liked it! 💞

  • @kirstenrose7216
    @kirstenrose72163 жыл бұрын

    Love this!!! You explain this so well! I like the unedited version as you do a great job! Some of these techniques could also apply to other relationship situations. I have a friend who's dealing with anxiety from a breakup and I thought of her actions while listening. I'm sharing with her.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Kirsten! Yes, these could definitely apply to other situations as well. 💞

  • @xGREENxWOMANx
    @xGREENxWOMANx2 жыл бұрын

    “stay with what you’re doing” i love that!! thank you

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! These videos might also be helpful for doing that: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/oJigrKePhLLTZMY.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @karend215
    @karend2153 жыл бұрын

    This is fabulous! Love how it is a healthy way to focus on your life first.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Karen! This video should also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html

  • @horsingwithhugo
    @horsingwithhugo3 жыл бұрын

    Really love this format. It’s more organic and flows really well!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback Jessica, I’m glad you liked it! 💕

  • @songofjoy2668
    @songofjoy26683 жыл бұрын

    Great dos and donts. Thanks for sharing your excellent advice! I really like your unedited style of just talking through. 🙂

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, Carmen! Thanks for the feedback, that’s helpful to hear. 💕

  • @joycejimenez4069
    @joycejimenez40693 жыл бұрын

    Ladies, If your man is not contacting you out of the blue. Go to tinder and swipe swipe swipe. We dont wait for this man to contact us. We dont let disrespectful people to disrespect us.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights here, Joyce! I explain the importance of never chasing or WAITING for a man in these videos: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/haxo1tZ-e7iyf6w.html.

  • @SnerMerNer

    @SnerMerNer

    3 жыл бұрын

    So the female solution to a lack of attention (or perceived lack of attention) is to immediately seek validation from another man and cheat without the courtesy of ending the relationship first... Gotcha.

  • @lauriesimonds9229
    @lauriesimonds92293 жыл бұрын

    All good suggestions Helena 😀 Love the free & easy "natural" version videos - very down to Earth!!!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Laurie! I’ll be posting another video in this format tomorrow, I think you’ll love it! 💙

  • @celissewillis9399
    @celissewillis93993 жыл бұрын

    This came at such a perfect time! I got into the strangest funk recently after all the work is been doing on mySelf, so it threw me off & I needed these reminders! Thank you Helena 😊🙏🏻💗

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m glad this came at the right time for you! 💗

  • @dikevivian8956

    @dikevivian8956

    3 жыл бұрын

    T free

  • @lilyhada7491
    @lilyhada74913 жыл бұрын

    Wow Helena! Really needed to hear this today. You’re an angel 🙏🏻 thank you!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome Lily, I’m glad this came at the right time for you! ❤️

  • @LaraHarrington
    @LaraHarrington3 жыл бұрын

    Loved every bit of this… And it was so helpful to re-channel my energy, while I was watching your video he called :-) I laughed out loud, said thank you to God, let it ring five times before I answered. Thanks for being there XO

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, Lara! I actually hear about that kind of thing happening ALL the time. Thanks for sharing! 💞

  • @amberscottcmt7400
    @amberscottcmt74003 жыл бұрын

    I really like this background of the entire room behind you where you stand out, better than the videos on the couch against the wall.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback! 💜

  • @michelles7060
    @michelles70603 жыл бұрын

    I enjoy and prefer these short and to the point videos😌

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback, Michelle! 💕

  • @kmitchellny

    @kmitchellny

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree! I like the authenticity and focus of these shorter, ‘to the point’ videos. I got SO much out of this 15 min but sometimes will avoid a 45 min+ video due to time constraints (I like to listen on a 30min lunch break) Thx for all you do!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! 💝

  • @brightlights9615

    @brightlights9615

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, i love this format

  • @universe5d176

    @universe5d176

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @jjpl0109
    @jjpl01093 жыл бұрын

    I love the unedited version! It feels like you’re my friend and we’re having a heart to heart conversation. Please expand on #5! ❤️

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback! I’ve been getting a lot of requests for that so I’ll definitely keep it in mind for future video topics. 💗

  • @lioydwilliams1850

    @lioydwilliams1850

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jenn Lamont, you got a lovely smile!

  • @angelaruzycki2186
    @angelaruzycki21863 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I needed to hear this today! I was going to lean in, but after watching this video, I'm going to redirect my energy on myself. Thank you 😊

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome Angela, I’m glad this came at the right time for you! 💕

  • @LaurinaDream
    @LaurinaDream3 жыл бұрын

    I love this format - unedited and working from your notes. Feels more real and relaxed. The more polished versions are good, too, but I really like this! Thank you, Helena, for all of your thoughtful, clear, and detailed guidance on the path to finding true love!!! xoxoxo

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed this! Thanks for the feedback, I just recorded two new videos in this format that I’ll be posting soon. Here’s my latest one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYRn07mFeJeblZc.html

  • @AntoinetteSarpong

    @AntoinetteSarpong

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! This format is great.

  • @kittyqueenmeow8639
    @kittyqueenmeow86393 жыл бұрын

    Hi Helena, I enjoyed this shorter video too! It’s short, concise and easy to listen and repeat if necessary. I appreciate your efforts to constantly improve, re-evaluate your content and messages

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜

  • @oyekunleoyeyinka7470
    @oyekunleoyeyinka74703 жыл бұрын

    Well done sis. You are doing a great job in our relationships.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! 💚

  • @meditativehypnosis7614
    @meditativehypnosis76143 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful information! And I love this casual format. We know you’re amazing... you don’t have to have perfectly edited videos for us 💕

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I recorded a couple more videos in this format that I’ll be posting soon. Here’s my latest one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYRn07mFeJeblZc.html

  • @heathermclean-smith5893
    @heathermclean-smith58933 жыл бұрын

    I really love this new video format! It feels very relaxed and natural, like a conversation with a good friend. I think you’ve got the perfect formula right here!!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Heather! I recorded a couple more videos in this format that I’ll be posting soon. Here’s my latest one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYRn07mFeJeblZc.html

  • @starwilliam1709
    @starwilliam17093 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate the way you deliver this information you come across as organic and unpretentious thank you

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, thanks for the feedback! 💚

  • @stephanie_urban_coaching
    @stephanie_urban_coaching3 жыл бұрын

    Helena you lovely soul, thank you for that video. Just right in time. Actually made me proud about myself as I really find myself in the middle of this shift out of old into new patterns. Exactly what you are saying. This true male energy and behaviour is starting to deeply attract me and the others guys I feel more and more bored and even disgusted by. Love to hear that this shift is natural and would be amazing in case you feel like making a video about the pattern shift. Blessings from Germany 🙌🏼🎈🤗☘

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, Stephanie! I’m so happy to hear that, that’s a great sign. I’ll definitely keep this in mind for future video topics, thanks for the suggestion! 💗

  • @s9plusmusic770
    @s9plusmusic7703 жыл бұрын

    Love this delivery style. You appear to be so much more relaxed and information just flows. You're impressive either way. Love, love, love your content

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! 💙

  • @bellabong8862
    @bellabong88623 жыл бұрын

    That last tip is a bombshell gamechanger. Made so much sense. Thanks, Helena. You're very smart.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! These videos should also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @mgsol3316
    @mgsol33163 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. I’m going thru this now and your message brought me much needed clarity and peace.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m so glad it was helpful for you! ❤️

  • @mgsol3316

    @mgsol3316

    3 жыл бұрын

    Helena Hart 💞❤️💞

  • @dianecaro4346
    @dianecaro43463 жыл бұрын

    I love the natural flow of your caring nature. Also, I found my best method of destressing about a grown boy is too focus on his negative energy more than his very few good qualities. Thanks 😘

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your insights here, Diane!

  • @kathyshann2136
    @kathyshann21363 жыл бұрын

    Love the free flow, like your talking to your friends😘

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad you enjoyed this, Kathy! 💕

  • @karensmith6248
    @karensmith62483 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video. Straight to the point. I haven’t dated in over a year and I find you address the anxieties that I felt lately.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Karen, I’m glad you enjoyed it! This one should also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html

  • @tasrajwani
    @tasrajwani3 жыл бұрын

    I love this video, especially the last point about aligning with a man's masculine energy coming forward compared to that bored feeling. I would love to hear more about this. And I like these videos where you just talk through things as they come. Feels really personable and authentic.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad you enjoyed this, Tasleem! I’ll definitely keep that in mind for future videos. 💜

  • @CG-wr4no
    @CG-wr4no3 жыл бұрын

    This is really sinking in and I see how much I am changing, for the better. The insecure ways are becoming empowered. Thank you so much for all of your videos!! Beyond just helpful, its life altering.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m so happy to hear that! This video should also be really helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html

  • @deecool81
    @deecool813 жыл бұрын

    I love this new style of video. I think you give us more information and it's like a natural conversation. I won't even mind if you repeat any points in your videos because we need to hear the advice over and over for it to really make an impact. Thanks so much Helena, I still think you're the best coach.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome Donna, thanks for the feedback! I recorded a couple more videos in this format that I’ll be posting soon, here’s my latest one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYRn07mFeJeblZc.html

  • @suzib9331
    @suzib93313 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! This is the simplest and best advice I needed right now. I’m going to listen to it every day for a week until I learn it by heart :).

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, Suzi! These videos should also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3VqpMmAYpeckrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/haxo1tZ-e7iyf6w.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYqizMlsham_lLw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYqGs9Kgg8fTktI.html.

  • @indulekhamoore3373
    @indulekhamoore33732 жыл бұрын

    Really impressed that you can talk for this long so well and with such great advice and without editing!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! 💕

  • @coollatta
    @coollatta3 жыл бұрын

    Meditation really helps, in general. Writing and working out are great ones for me, too.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome, thanks for sharing! 💖

  • @Stardust_Truth_Seeker
    @Stardust_Truth_Seeker3 жыл бұрын

    The spontaneous freestyle from your notes is brilliant . Very polished and rich content as is! Very helpful !! Thank you ❤

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome Kathryn, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕

  • @hillaro
    @hillaro3 жыл бұрын

    Helena, you are so sweet and intelligent! That was a pleasure listening to you! The things you said really resonate within me, and your words deepen my understanding and my way. I love that you are just talking strait without editing

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, I’m so glad this resonated with you! ❤️

  • @amandasnow1846
    @amandasnow18463 жыл бұрын

    Yes DEFINITELY need some extra videos of getting myself in-line with the men who wanna honor & value me.. I'm soooooo done with this on & off thing.. It makes me feel terrible, like I'm not good enough for anyone, along with questioning myself.. Thanks 😊

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Amanda, these videos should be really helpful for you (I’d love to hear your thoughts on them!): kzread.info/dash/bejne/oXqqyLCmh7Dblag.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html.

  • @vivianrubio6011
    @vivianrubio60113 жыл бұрын

    This was my favorite video I’ve heard from you. The way delivered your advice was clear and straight to the point.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Vivian! I recorded a couple more videos in this format that I’ll be posting soon. Here’s my latest one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYRn07mFeJeblZc.html

  • @GagaCRoy00
    @GagaCRoy003 жыл бұрын

    I loved this format and this video so much. I would like to hear more on breaking this cycle. Love you, Helena!!!

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad you enjoyed this, Barb! I’ll definitely keep that in mind for future video topics, thanks for the suggestion! ❤️

  • @abundance4730
    @abundance47302 жыл бұрын

    I enjoy all of your videos. You appear more relaxed and in the flow when you're not as structured but of course all serve their purpose.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback! I’m glad you’ve been enjoying them. 💞

  • @nicolemeyer3144
    @nicolemeyer31443 жыл бұрын

    Yes, the raw videos are the best. Than you, Helena! I love this one! xo

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad you enjoyed it, Nicole! My latest video should also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html

  • @nellynel3027
    @nellynel30273 жыл бұрын

    I like these videos, unedited :). This is really helpful since I’m going through a tough breakup and I keep thinking about him feeling sad, wishing he just contacted me. I’m so happy I came across this

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad it was helpful! These videos should also help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aaaTxMNtm7XLkbQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4mdpbysfq3gntI.html.

  • @evangelinefudolig3947
    @evangelinefudolig39473 жыл бұрын

    You're right! Thank you for your advise, so helpful to everyone.

  • @HelenaHartCoaching

    @HelenaHartCoaching

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome, Evangeline! 💗

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