Does He Like Me Or Is He Just Being Nice (Part 2)

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In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick lays out 10 key differences in situations where you ever ask yourself "does he like me or is he just being nice?"

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  • @datingcoachryanpatrick
    @datingcoachryanpatrick29 күн бұрын

    *NEW SUMMER 2024* I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂 Check out my course offerings here 👉 www.boyfriendblueprint.com/courses

  • @rebeccaabel6632
    @rebeccaabel66323 жыл бұрын

    So I'm pretty sure that not a single man has truly liked me at this point. Time for some self love instead!!!

  • @zazuzazz5419

    @zazuzazz5419

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hear you, Rebecca! I feel the same. 💔

  • @SeaStarTea

    @SeaStarTea

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s very likely not true.

  • @myrnareyes4368

    @myrnareyes4368

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ditto!

  • @EmmaLangdon

    @EmmaLangdon

    3 жыл бұрын

    Literally

  • @cosmeticsbyriley

    @cosmeticsbyriley

    3 жыл бұрын

    girl, same

  • @daniellesmith80
    @daniellesmith803 жыл бұрын

    Me watching this and realizing I flirt like a nice guy interested in a woman 🙃

  • @delivertus4romnesha328

    @delivertus4romnesha328

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao same!

  • @nour-jeon222

    @nour-jeon222

    3 жыл бұрын

    👁👄👁 yea

  • @yeseniap1763

    @yeseniap1763

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @leslielamm2907

    @leslielamm2907

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same ;-;

  • @elleoconner9965

    @elleoconner9965

    3 жыл бұрын

    😅😅😅

  • @kellacanb
    @kellacanb2 жыл бұрын

    It's the face he makes when he's pretending to be the non-interested guy. 😂

  • @iituyi

    @iituyi

    2 жыл бұрын

    LMFAOO

  • @bluejay2862

    @bluejay2862

    2 жыл бұрын

    It literally kills me 😂😂

  • @ilenek.5428

    @ilenek.5428

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love it! It is so funny.

  • @inactiveuser555

    @inactiveuser555

    Жыл бұрын

    repent TODAY, forsake your sinful way of life, and believe in the Gospel. salvation is found only in the LORD JESUS CHRIST alone, Who took upon the sin of the world on that cross, bearing the pain and punishment we deserve(d), that our sins may be atoned for, and He is risen [in glory] for our justification, that we may be made right with GOD, that we may know Him, be adopted by Him and reconciled to Him -- forgiven, set free from the curse of sin and death, and made as new creatures in CHRIST alone!!!!.

  • @vipprincess5770

    @vipprincess5770

    Жыл бұрын

    Pleaseeeee I’m cryingggggg

  • @AelSan77
    @AelSan773 жыл бұрын

    Current bf before we started dating, literally stumbled out the door backwards because he was too busy staring at me to see the door behind him. That’s when I realized he was into me. I’m kind of dense...

  • @phoenixbird4435

    @phoenixbird4435

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaaw how cute

  • @consistencyiskey_

    @consistencyiskey_

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so cute ❤️

  • @stephmetc53

    @stephmetc53

    3 жыл бұрын

    bruh thats so cute 🥺🥺🥺

  • @ashlen8717

    @ashlen8717

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making me laugh lol.

  • @PeachyLofi

    @PeachyLofi

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is adorable and it made me laugh. Thank you it made my day. 😂😂😂🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️

  • @vickiweber4718
    @vickiweber47183 жыл бұрын

    A lot of these "he's just being nice" sounds like the guy I recently dated. We dated for almost a month. He also hardly texted me first. The final straw was when just last week he canceled a date for no reason. I let him know I wasn't happy about but he just brushed it off. I decided to do the lean back approach to see if he would reschedule. Nope. Haven't heard from him since. I'd much rather he flat out told me he was not interested in dating me anymore instead of leading me on.

  • @jaynet.2247

    @jaynet.2247

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is telling you by his actions.

  • @imalimabean6686

    @imalimabean6686

    3 жыл бұрын

    Like the old saying " It's better to rip the bandaid off fast, than peel it off slowly".

  • @zazuzazz5419

    @zazuzazz5419

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is a thoughtless time-waster who has zero regard for you. You have the proof in his actions. Jayne t, you’re right.

  • @peaceinthemidst2814

    @peaceinthemidst2814

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hate that flakey behavior but at least you can disengage from the confusion early on. I hope that you get a guy who appreciates you and knows what he wants.😊

  • @imalimabean6686

    @imalimabean6686

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wonder if a lot of guys assume doing a sudden disappearing act is somehow kinder than flat out getting it over with. Or perhaps they like to leave it so that they have spare cards to pull out later. The kinder, more generous thing to do is the right thing; which is being gently honest and direct. Heard some guys say they would rather a girl just fades them out. I believe we may be different in that way

  • @KB-sg7tv
    @KB-sg7tv3 жыл бұрын

    He really did offer to fix something on my car and also offered to help me cut the trees in my backyard 😂😂

  • @carrielegg5480

    @carrielegg5480

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too. But it stopped

  • @cher4all

    @cher4all

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too. Wanted to come and watch a race I was involved in, even set my computer up for me to be able to have multiple screens, volunteered to rescreen my door as well as other stuff but when race day came, he asked what I was doing that day :). Reminded him of my race. His comment, "forgot you have your race today!". That's it. No apology, offer of coming another day to fix stuff...don't think I'm being overly demanding but yeah...like the above comment, "the trash took itself out" :)))

  • @exoticpash8823

    @exoticpash8823

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@carrielegg5480 > < doesnt it usually

  • @keziahcadena2001

    @keziahcadena2001

    2 жыл бұрын

    He offered me a ride back home (which I said yes to) then asked me questions about what I like and laughed at my cheesy jokes. He remembered little things I totally forgot I told him about and I always catch him looking. And when I catch him he smiles so big. Then I mentioned that my apron was loose (we’re servers) he quickly offered to tie it for me and I told him that tight was good but did it lightly to not hurt me. I almost turned around, got down on one knee and proposed. I complimented his hair and he said thank you while blushing and always offers to help me out with tasks at work. He includes me in his decisions and goes with whatever I say. He’s so sweet and such a gentleman

  • @bilalkontakt9330

    @bilalkontakt9330

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@keziahcadena2001 That’s so cute

  • @alchemyofcolorandstyle
    @alchemyofcolorandstyle3 жыл бұрын

    The sad news is that at 37 after several, committed relationships, I can confidently say no one ever LIKED me. They didn’t respect me, either, so I’m not surprised.

  • @Nokss87

    @Nokss87

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you like yourself?? That's the question

  • @alchemyofcolorandstyle

    @alchemyofcolorandstyle

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Nokss87 eh I'm a human, I'm alright. I don't have a self-esteem problem. I'm good in my own company, but navigating life together with someone would be nice. It's a different experience/process for the brain/heart, whatever. It's hard to understand why no one likes me, maybe there's a reason, maybe there isn't, but it's not a riddle I can solve by myself, you know? If I have blindspots, then by definition I won't see what they are.

  • @margiewilson1453

    @margiewilson1453

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm 43 same for me too

  • @Sweetiegrrl2346
    @Sweetiegrrl23463 жыл бұрын

    Is it just me or does his “just being nice” guy remind anyone else of Ryan Reynolds? I can’t un-see it now 🤣

  • @nataliaNOTnatalie

    @nataliaNOTnatalie

    2 ай бұрын

    It seriously reminds me of the Ryan Reynolds movie “Just Friends”

  • @BlueBelle-711
    @BlueBelle-7113 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely LOVE the change in the tone of your voice when "He's just being nice to you." 😄 I also mention it in Part 1.

  • @JoeyWitter
    @JoeyWitter2 жыл бұрын

    I started liking him after I caught him glancing at me a lot while I was leaving the place where our co-op meets. Now I think he's just a nice guy which is why I like him. Now I like him and idk if he likes me back and idk what to do!!!

  • @shara8956
    @shara89562 жыл бұрын

    I see alot of women chasing men, like literally throwing themselves at em and ignoring all the "I don't want you signs." In my experience...when a man wants you he will in most cases make it known. They're wired that way. Ladies stop chasing then you won't have to guess if he likes u

  • @theupgraded6558

    @theupgraded6558

    15 күн бұрын

    exactly

  • @nenamichelle
    @nenamichelle3 жыл бұрын

    Every time I watch him I’m reminded of the first “does he like you...” video. Remember the one where he said if a guy’s eye brows are constantly up when he’s talking? Yeah, I think Ryan has a crush on us.

  • @Julia-ev2su

    @Julia-ev2su

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yo, my guy friend’s eyebrows are like ✌️👆👆 when I’m talking to him.

  • @whitneymiller5139
    @whitneymiller51393 жыл бұрын

    Welp... now I know my man has a crush on another girl cause he behaves like this when she’s in the room 🤦‍♀️

  • @Z5Z5Z5

    @Z5Z5Z5

    2 жыл бұрын

    Haha ask him

  • @hannahberlinpetry450

    @hannahberlinpetry450

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry girl.

  • @vipprincess5770

    @vipprincess5770

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh…

  • @lovettdeleted

    @lovettdeleted

    Жыл бұрын

    update??

  • @whitneymiller5139

    @whitneymiller5139

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lovettdeleted lollll we have been through so much since this. Currently broken up but I’m tryna get him back 🥰

  • @dendenobi4918
    @dendenobi49183 жыл бұрын

    I always laugh when you say, 'A guy who's just being nice to you...' The vid effect is absolutely effective! 😂

  • @PadfootZip

    @PadfootZip

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can’t stop laughing

  • @emily-grave987
    @emily-grave9873 жыл бұрын

    When the guy you like keeps writing you back! 😍😍

  • @onegleicianazareth9149

    @onegleicianazareth9149

    2 жыл бұрын

    And later discover that he has no feelings for you and has a girlfriend. Don’t do it unless he show interest. I learn my lesson. So embarrassing 💯

  • @bsell2090
    @bsell20903 жыл бұрын

    The signs Ive taken note of and not sure of are: 1) He talks to everyone very easily but hesitates when it comes to me. So I had to approach. 2) Direct eye contact. 3)Statue-like while sitting. He did all this at a time.

  • @lakshyaa1544

    @lakshyaa1544

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yess!!! I thought I was the only one.

  • @evermic81
    @evermic812 жыл бұрын

    I have a coworker who once turned me down and stood me up for a coffee date. He is clearly not interested, yet always open up to me about his life, laughs at all my jokes, and holds interesting yet intelligent conversations with me. Either he is lying, or I'm the best therapist ever.

  • @georginaharroll365
    @georginaharroll3653 жыл бұрын

    For me one thing that comes up to mind is when guys try painfully to impress you with any kinds of weird stuffs.

  • @melissaa.p2884
    @melissaa.p28843 жыл бұрын

    haha he did all of this and still ghosted me after 2months dating 😂😂 gurls stay independent and dont date if u dont want to waste time 😂

  • @clia10892
    @clia108923 жыл бұрын

    I remember on St. Patty’s Day my crush was being so nice and protective of me it was adorable 🥰 He’s a nice guy in general but the things he did made me question his intentions with me. He was being playful with me by cracking jokes, being touchy feely, curious about my long term career goals, he gave me his jacket and hat to keep warm (since it was a bit chilly at the bar), he told he wanted to finish a convo with me before heading off to talk with his other friends, he remembers small details about me, he asked me if there was anyone at the bar that I had my eye on, he was worried about how I was gonna get home and even wanted to contact my brother to make sure I got home safe, and a couple of his friends were telling him “you better go take care of your friend” to make sure I got to my cab safely.

  • @sorchx

    @sorchx

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nooo, It's paddy, what are you doing? hahaha. As an Irish person that made me cry :p

  • @Sunshainn

    @Sunshainn

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gurl, he like likes you!

  • @hannabovt2051
    @hannabovt20513 жыл бұрын

    The way you make your videos and talk to your audience is a masterpiece!! I love all of your films - short and with the most important info!

  • @MixagEQ

    @MixagEQ

    3 жыл бұрын

    Super entertaining and funny, great pace too!

  • @tianajensen7224
    @tianajensen72243 жыл бұрын

    He remembered my birthday and showed up at the rink (I'm a skater) when he knew I would be there. He HATES that rink! He lives pretty far from it too. None of my other friends who were there knew it was my birthday until I told them. Unfortunately.... even though we used to text a lot, he hasn't in weeks! He used to like me and showed A LOT of those signs back then.

  • @NataMessi
    @NataMessi3 жыл бұрын

    Let's just appreciate seriousness and incredible acting skills !! He is so funny omg

  • @brimckay
    @brimckay3 жыл бұрын

    Ooo thank you thank you! Perfect timing cause the guy I’m interested in is very kind and I’d like to tell the difference 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @cherylthompson2731

    @cherylthompson2731

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't give up just because you think he's being nice to you... Sometimes ( as with my boyfriend now) it becomes so much more! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elissamiller8374

    @elissamiller8374

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cherylthompson2731 I cannot tell you how refreshing it is to read your comment. Most people will be like, "you deserve better, girl" or "forget him and move on." People can be so quick to judge. I understand everyone situation are different and we all deserve a good quality guy, but sometimes it doesn't hurt just be friendly back and give a second chance. Mostly, you let things run it course. If it meant to be, then he will come around.

  • @cherylthompson2731

    @cherylthompson2731

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@elissamiller8374 thank you. As with my boyfriend, he really is a nice guy! Now? He's the love of my life! All videos aren't 💯 accurate. You have to have a feel for a person."

  • @sirennem.6890

    @sirennem.6890

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes have financial, divorce problems..ask him.dont wait. Many dont know to date, vast majority of people are immature.

  • @valisvobodova1001

    @valisvobodova1001

    3 жыл бұрын

    any updates?

  • @kimmelton783
    @kimmelton7833 жыл бұрын

    I love your sense of humor so much 🤣🤣 And your advice is very spot-on!

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle3 жыл бұрын

    The escalating the interaction can be a bit too much for me. Like sometimes, a guy is trying to move too quickly and in my head, I'm like this is too intense. I think there's a nice middle ground where someone isn't trying to move things from 0 to 100 too quickly

  • @zazuzazz5419

    @zazuzazz5419

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you’re not comfortable with the pace, then it is too intense. The more you set your own boundaries the more comfortable you’ll feel about it. You set the pace for You. Don’t let anyone, any person, trend, or social media platform tell you otherwise. Own it.

  • @werlkj567

    @werlkj567

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I talked to a friend about this. She said oftentimes the woman has to set the pace. If he's texting too much, let him know you prefer to get to know each other in person... If he's asking to see you again quickly, schedule something on a timeline you're comfortable with... if he wants to spend all day with you, set clear expectations about how much time you have upfront.

  • @vosteen25
    @vosteen252 жыл бұрын

    The black and white sections are my favorite 😂 He always cracks me up, and thanks for the great advice, this was really helpful!

  • @katedickson9937
    @katedickson99373 жыл бұрын

    This video came at the absolute perfect time for me. Thank you!!

  • @Terraxia
    @Terraxia3 жыл бұрын

    Ending interaction is a huge situation I am going through. He also will leave conversations online if there’s a group of us but if it’s him and I... he will stay up for like another 30-40 mins... and he works super early the next day. 😊

  • @klw8771
    @klw87713 жыл бұрын

    LMAO.. Ryan you hit the nail on the head and I LOVE the voices and humour! Best advice vid yet!!!!

  • @samanthaogden1236
    @samanthaogden12363 жыл бұрын

    Dating is so hard so Thankyou Ryan!! This helps so so much!!

  • @TheRacqgrl769
    @TheRacqgrl7693 жыл бұрын

    This was a great follow up. Thank you!

  • @RandiTafoyaMinistries
    @RandiTafoyaMinistries2 жыл бұрын

    I was at a group dinner with a bunch of people and the guy sitting next to me reached over and gave me a hug from the side with his arms around me like cupping my back. It definitely felt like more than a friend thing

  • @LuckyHearts777
    @LuckyHearts7773 жыл бұрын

    When they stare at you intensively and hold it for longer than 3 seconds continuously but then say they're not attracted to you?

  • @Z5Z5Z5

    @Z5Z5Z5

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agh yeah

  • @blueblackhusky

    @blueblackhusky

    2 жыл бұрын

    You wouldn't believe the extents to which people will lie to themselves regarding their feelings... :D I've had this thing with a guy who constantly paid me compliments on everything and anything, enveloped me in a hug on a park bench to keep me warm, face glued to my neck, took me home, let me nap in his bed, fell asleep next to me, holding me, mock-fought me and kissed my neck and basically was the person I saw and texted with the most for almost half a year...we then went separate ways when he said there's external circumstances for which he can't be in a relationship with me. We had two more phases of intense interaction since, and every time we distanced ourselves on purpose because things were always on the brink of getting steamy, on top of us talking about a million vulnerable things. And he still tells me I'm a friend :) I did draw my boundary firmly recently and won't be seeing him anymore. This might work for other people, but I'm just not built to feel good watching other people who did, in a few extra vulnerable moments, admit to being attracted to me, only deny and actively suppress wonderful, deep feelings they have for me. I'm definitely not content with this when I like this human a lot and can well imagine a long-term partnership.

  • @zolenamckenzie1084
    @zolenamckenzie1084 Жыл бұрын

    I realize when watching this that i get intimidated by the ”guy who likes you behaviour” and pull away. And prefer the ”just being nice” and is more likely to feel attracted if a guy don’t suffocate me with his constant precence and wanting me to give him attention, i like space especially in the begining when i not sure how i feel. Guess this is a default that leads me to fancy the guys who isn’t interested..

  • @elizabethgrace2547
    @elizabethgrace25473 жыл бұрын

    Yaay I just found your first one earlier, so glad there is already a part two

  • @maryeva2491
    @maryeva24912 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making straightforward and short videos! 🙏🏻 much easier to watch and not boring

  • @Rockgirl256
    @Rockgirl2563 жыл бұрын

    Part 3 please 😄 🙌🙌 love your videos ❤️

  • @elvenaubade
    @elvenaubade2 жыл бұрын

    this is so funny to me bc one of my pet peeves is when a guy mirrors my body language, I have trouble maintaining long conversations and especially deep conversations with men and I will instinctively refuse invitations to do things outside of work 🙃 so I see why I’m single

  • @SallyBeard
    @SallyBeard2 жыл бұрын

    Mannn, number two was my primary technique during high school and I used it over and over again with my crush because I couldn't think of anything else. I think my crush liked me back, but I also think they got (understandably) frustrated with me not seeming to hear them and moved on. All's well that ends well, happily married now. Thankfully I didn't overkill technique number two when I met my spouse 😂

  • @lumashleybrown7732
    @lumashleybrown77322 жыл бұрын

    You're right Ryan he does that like almost every time we meet up,he's like I can't hear you the music is loud or it's noisy,but I believed I was audible enough and didn't really check it out till now,thanks

  • @MG-jh2nl
    @MG-jh2nl Жыл бұрын

    The first time I see your channel and I already love it because you are so funny in an original way 😂

  • @v.leonard
    @v.leonard3 жыл бұрын

    Love the commentary examples in grey , just cracks me up 😂😂. Very animated an helpful too!

  • @whalecoastartwineroute8154
    @whalecoastartwineroute81543 жыл бұрын

    🤣You are so funny! It's no wonder you have such a big following. Thanks for always making us laugh and for the great advise. Its much appreciated. 👍

  • @jjthek
    @jjthek3 жыл бұрын

    Omg im so happy to see a part 2 of this! Thank you so much. I am all ears because I have a nice looking guy i hope to date.

  • @AzadeSeif
    @AzadeSeif3 жыл бұрын

    I really liked the black and white videos, so much fun. By the way I think number 8 and 9 are really important. I had a guy who was just texting or chatting and never talked about seeing in public or even calling on the phone, so I took Ryan's advise and said: "NEXT". :-)

  • @lovejaycakes
    @lovejaycakes3 жыл бұрын

    Can you do more videos about long distant dating? Would love more of it! Especially if you can’t see them until the pandemic is basically over 😭 not sure if he likes me just through video chats/texts

  • @evadeenbrickwood6682
    @evadeenbrickwood66823 жыл бұрын

    That was enlightening 😊 I met new people at a picnic on the weekend. The two guys were paying a lot of interest to one of the women, who tried to dominate the conversation. When we all went for a walk, I had the impression that one of the guys started psying me more attention, told me about his background etc. When we got back, he mirrored what I was doing etc. Am I imagining that he's interested in me?

  • @ad6417
    @ad64173 жыл бұрын

    I just had to next a man on a dating site who is writing 2000+ word messages to me but is not interested in meeting. So frustrating.

  • @rebeccaabel6632

    @rebeccaabel6632

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dating sites are just awful! At this point I don't take any man on them seriously which is so sad 😞

  • @sarah52292

    @sarah52292

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ugh hate that!

  • @phoenixbird4435

    @phoenixbird4435

    3 жыл бұрын

    Personal my dear you are wasting your time, the right guy is out there for you, just have patience

  • @ellona3645
    @ellona36452 жыл бұрын

    I'm going to meet a guy from online for the first time and he seems very polite with how he text. It was kinda refreshing but still have my guard up

  • @lotussellers747
    @lotussellers7472 жыл бұрын

    I like honesty. I feel worse if a guy is just pretending and I can tell if he's just faking it and is just being polite. I don't like that. He needs to just be real.

  • @opallight8069
    @opallight80692 жыл бұрын

    “Do you like bearded dragons or any similar type of reptile?” LMAO 🤣

  • @alimaryart9181
    @alimaryart91813 жыл бұрын

    At first I was confused on the distracted part but when he explained the last part makes sense, because my partner doesn’t like showing off his video game skills especially one of his favorites and I think that pretty cute and cool Edit: Forgot to say he shows me when he plays or plays when I’m talking to him and he talks to me and it’s fun on both parts in my opinion

  • @kulunamondo6792
    @kulunamondo67923 жыл бұрын

    Perfect timing. It's like you read my mind

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem2 жыл бұрын

    This was so fun hahaha the voice changes and weird examples🤣🤣

  • @she-hulkSMASHES
    @she-hulkSMASHES2 жыл бұрын

    I mean, I already knew, but both your videos confirmed that guys are just nice to me.

  • @yolandejacobs6881
    @yolandejacobs68813 жыл бұрын

    This is soooo helpful. Thank you so much

  • @thatgirl789
    @thatgirl7892 жыл бұрын

    The black and white and monotonous tone is the best part of the video. Great tips I don’t why but I’m fascinated with guy attraction. You’re cool😎

  • @olgabeysyuk7706
    @olgabeysyuk77063 жыл бұрын

    Randomly remembered the holiday and used that as an excuse to hug me 😅 or, I guess, he was just nice. Great vid!

  • @LynneJohns829
    @LynneJohns8293 жыл бұрын

    This is great -- love the tips and the humor!

  • @LillybethLilyLeah
    @LillybethLilyLeah3 жыл бұрын

    The 'guy who's just being nice' the monotone reactions really cracked me up😂😂 BUT, I hope this isn't what I get someday nonetheless, I want the first reactions🥰❤

  • @CutiePiperXX
    @CutiePiperXX3 жыл бұрын

    He likes me, thank you Ryan! 💙

  • @oliviagutierrez5732
    @oliviagutierrez57322 жыл бұрын

    well there is somethings that can make a guy be absent or unfocused sometimes like adhd and then they really can't help themselfs my boyfriend and i have been together since the beginning of june and he gets as happy as i get everytime we find something we have in common (and it's alot) and he was the first who took the step of introdusing me to his mother and almost his whole family and he just keeps showing commitment to me and helping me at home with shores and it's wonderful!!!

  • @rakhil1830
    @rakhil18302 жыл бұрын

    I have had a guy start to stutter in front of me the second he saw me and couldn’t stop so he had to leave. Idk I guess I make people really nervous. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

  • @emilytuffnell3593
    @emilytuffnell35933 жыл бұрын

    Continuous eye contact, telling me he's proud I killed my first spider but then handshake goodbye...

  • @juchebo100
    @juchebo1003 жыл бұрын

    The guy I’m talking to does at least 4 of the signs you talked about; He’ll have trouble ending the interaction, he remembers unimportant things I told you, he constantly moves the interaction to the next level. I haven’t had a guy do that so it feels really good when he moves the interaction at a steady pace. Thanks for part 2

  • @joannafilkins7715
    @joannafilkins77153 жыл бұрын

    Your presentation is so fun!!

  • @valeen101
    @valeen1015 ай бұрын

    Omgosh great advice and entertainment you crack me up. 😂 You're facial expressions reminds me of some of the expressions of men I dated. Priceless.

  • @wildwoman4911
    @wildwoman49113 жыл бұрын

    Ryan! This is good! I immediately could think back to times guys had the signs they were just being nice to me! This will help me on those first phone dates and meetings from dating app interactions. Mirroring your body la gauge is a good one. I like the laying your head on your hand investigation. Thank you 🙏

  • @irichprijr3566
    @irichprijr35662 жыл бұрын

    I met my coworker for the 1st time at a happy hour. He talked to me the whole night(even though there were 15 others at the HH). He asked me millions of questions about myself... We stayed after at my car when everyone left got an additional hour and he hugged me goodbye and he hasn't said one word to me since. We work remote but geesh I was for sure there was a vibe. 😭😭 he was so handsome he really caught me off guard.

  • @kind_nutritionist
    @kind_nutritionist3 жыл бұрын

    Omg, Ryan, I always laugh to tears when watching your videos 😂😂😂 thanks for sharing useful info in such a funny manner!!

  • @CopperColouredQueen
    @CopperColouredQueen2 жыл бұрын

    I like you Ryan. Your edits are fantastic. I like the contrast in the way you presented nice vs interested. Very clear understanding I have now. Thank you..

  • @CopperColouredQueen

    @CopperColouredQueen

    2 жыл бұрын

    @BehatiLife scammer

  • @alileebautista7949
    @alileebautista79492 жыл бұрын

    Very entertaining and not depressing even if I saw a lot of signs that my crush is just being polite to me

  • @jojohnston6473
    @jojohnston64733 жыл бұрын

    Had a few of these in my last relationship but it was all false to win me over and manipulate me. The attention and mirroring were over the top towards being a bit odd. A guy I work with makes good conversation but he has a partner, he makes it like a mission to have a in-depth chat

  • @christinec.7976
    @christinec.79762 жыл бұрын

    So, I have a guy, who does majority of everything you said in part 1 and part 2 with me.... we we're working together this past summer which is how we connected. He compliments me on being the funniest person he's ever met, and months later out of the blue sat beside me and just said "I can't wait to see you win an Oscar one day and I'll be in the audience cheering you on and when we first chatted months prior he asked me about my passions and dreams and knew what they we're but found out through someone else and this was the same convo that allowed us to be vulnerable with each other and talk about our fears, ambitions which was so nice and one of his buddies also told me that he said, "I was his favourite new person in the job we were doing" after a week of meeting me and yet we never spoke (so I guess he was just watching me from afar.....). He's insanely sexual with me and has even initiated interlocking his hands with mine on a night out; kissed the back of my hand when we we're at the bar and then at a few parties; kissed me on the forehead and then kissed my friend on the forehead beside me. I'm a pretty sensual dancer and I just love a fun time on the dance floor and so he'll try and find me every night we go out and watches my body, tells me that he loves me and adores me; but the catch is that he was in an open relationship and idk the status of them now.... but he also makes me think he doesn't like me cuz I've tried to be like; well lets watch a movie and he'll pause and then be like nah I'm going to bed, or sometimes when he catches himself being flirty and then he retreats. He also leaves me on read sometimes if texting and has told me he's bad at texting.... I also don't know their status of relationship after we wrapped up working so I'm more just friendly than anything with him or keep a distance but his actions have me confused as I did start to develop feelings. Help a sister out.

  • @elvinacheah
    @elvinacheah2 жыл бұрын

    lmao i had a guy friend who i used to like; who would pee when we were on the phone and me who had low self esteem back then felt so “honoured” and thought it was cuz he was so comfy w me, that i never noticed the disrespect ✌🏼

  • @MixagEQ
    @MixagEQ3 жыл бұрын

    The way he winked at me today when I mentioned letting him know I would be in touch about the next day he could borrow my truck to take a load to the dump together again. Lol that wink kills me everytime I think about it..

  • @lilnikkagirl12352
    @lilnikkagirl123523 жыл бұрын

    Well, my guy friend and I were hanging out and he asked me "what would my ideal date look like". I was quite taken off guard when he asked me.

  • @careyh38
    @careyh383 жыл бұрын

    My guy friend likes to mirror my body language and leans in. He lights up everytime he sees me.

  • @kaileylovesmusic1160
    @kaileylovesmusic11602 жыл бұрын

    A boy who I have class with everyday is teasing me about the fact that I love golf. He also is always teasing me about how my stepdad is a teacher. But for some reason, even tho we’ve had sit next to each other everyday for about 6 weeks, he asked me what my name was like 3 days ago. He’s also always asking me to help him with his work and he is always saying something to me whether it’s how much he hates the teacher, how great he is at football, how horrible he is at school, or asking me what time it is (5 times during one class)

  • @ceegee823
    @ceegee8233 жыл бұрын

    Years ago there was man who just kept laughing every time he was near me. My friends kept telling me that he was nice and I should give him a chance, but I just thought he was creepy.

  • @user-gj1ul7bk8e
    @user-gj1ul7bk8e6 ай бұрын

    He mirrors ur body language 2.he pretends he cant hear u 3.he will.minized any sorrounding distractiions 4.he ask questions 5.he recalls unimportant things u told him 6.hell dig common interest u share 7.hell have trouble ending d conversation 8.hell find reasons to see u 9.he constanstly be escalating an interaction 10.hell have his game face on.

  • @EinFreundOderNicht
    @EinFreundOderNicht2 жыл бұрын

    So this is about a work colleague. He is super bubbly and laughs all the time with EVERYONE so it's really hard to tell if he likes me. The first time we met he was asking me a lot of personalish questions, like what my hobbies were, where I lived, who I lived with, and we really had some great conversations. I was super into him, so I made lots of comments about how well he was performing at his job on purpose to boost his ego, and after I did this he started trying to show off a bit by showing me all the codes he remembered and how many boxes he could lift etc. I acted really impressed even though I wasn't really lol. I just wanted to make him feel good about himself to hopefully boost his interest in me. At first I thought it worked, but then I noticed he wasn't initiating conversations with me. It was mostly me initiating the conversations. So, I stopped trying to talk to him and started talking to other coworkers and laughing with them and genuinely having fun. I was convinced he was just being nice so I moved on. BUT THEN he started coming up to me more, and I notice everytime he talks to me he gets REALLY really close. Like, I was at a computer and he checked something on it and came way closer than was necessary. Then, a day later, he was standing unneccesarily close to me again and he looked at me and said how nice I smelled and asked what I was wearing. I told him he smelled really good too. The other day he said bye to me twice when he left work. He said it once as he was going to the back to get his stuff, and then again as he was walking out the doors. I don't ever hear him say bye specifically to others like that. And, I noticed on days that we are scheduled together he dresses really really nice. Whereas, there have been times I've come in on overtime and he is always wearing something more frumpy. I really can't tell. I keep going back and forth between thinking he likes me and thinking he is just a friendly and nice person. Oh and I forgot to mention that our forearms touched once because he was standing so close but he didn't move away. I'm trying to be more obvious but I don't want to creep him out if I'm totally misreading everything.

  • @eleanordavies9815

    @eleanordavies9815

    4 ай бұрын

    Im literally in the exact same situation now lol! What happened in the end???

  • @EinFreundOderNicht

    @EinFreundOderNicht

    4 ай бұрын

    @@eleanordavies9815 It was a nightmare LOL. He turned out to be a very unhealed person; something called a Dismissive Avoidant. But through his terrible behaviour I realized that I was very unhealed too because I was putting up with his crap. So I've been working on my self-esteem and people pleasing tendencies and creating strong boundaries so that I can make room for the right person. The right person won't make me doubt for a second whether or not they like me. I hope your situation works out better than mine!

  • @micaela1477
    @micaela14772 жыл бұрын

    Man, you're funny. I really like your video. You're a great actor.

  • @MacyPooh196
    @MacyPooh196 Жыл бұрын

    This is what I needed.

  • @MeMe-vd5lr
    @MeMe-vd5lr2 жыл бұрын

    Do you BREATHE? YES? OMG THAT'S INCREDIBLE, ME TOOO! That s crazy

  • @ericarachelbudianto313
    @ericarachelbudianto313 Жыл бұрын

    You are so funny and informative as well 🤣🤣🤣👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @starcharx9139
    @starcharx9139 Жыл бұрын

    He remembered my favourite band I mentioned once almost a year ago made me melt lol

  • @kkhodgkinson
    @kkhodgkinson3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha I like your male behavior reenactments. Funny and helpful! Thanks Ryan.

  • @alchemyofcolorandstyle
    @alchemyofcolorandstyle3 жыл бұрын

    I love the grey parts hahahah loved them before, love them here

  • @leshaiyer5183
    @leshaiyer51832 жыл бұрын

    We were sitting in a group and he was talking abt how his friends are cool with each other have love &affection among them and after he said that I just looked at him like just a normal look and as I did that he cleared it that it was love and affection just as friends and nothing else! well he has been my bestfriend for 10 years now

  • @kuyaex5240
    @kuyaex52403 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh, i just realized. You sounded like Oliver with that deepened voice.

  • @maryamharmina9720
    @maryamharmina97203 жыл бұрын

    Hey Rayn thanks for the video ! What about a guy that I meet him but we are not meeting for dating but every time I look at him (not on purpose) I caught him looking at me and once I caught him he look somewhere else!?

  • @kkraed3111
    @kkraed31113 жыл бұрын

    Today, I made plans in a group chat directed at one specific person. Technically, neither of us are allowed to date yet, but whenever we see each other, it’s like the entire world is blocked out

  • @MsKizzy23
    @MsKizzy23 Жыл бұрын

    Telling a guy my name and him telling me we are friends as a reason he can’t use my name. Even though he very well remembered it. It confused the sh!t out of me but confirmed his lack of interest even after telling me when he sees me his day is always better.

  • @Britskee2003
    @Britskee20032 жыл бұрын

    I can say that I’ve done the first sign when I am getting more comfortable with someone.

  • @kid5534
    @kid5534 Жыл бұрын

    he was angry all day but when he noticed me waving he smiled and acted like nothing was wrong

  • @Shootinforthestars1
    @Shootinforthestars13 жыл бұрын

    These are great tips !

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini3 жыл бұрын

    Great video, Ryan! BTW did you know bearded dragons smell really bad? A guy on a dating app used to have one and he told me he had to sell it because it stunk! Who knew? LOL Thank you for the lowdown on the signs he likes you.