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  • @seemranhoro1572
    @seemranhoro15722 жыл бұрын

    "Self confidence is super power. Once you start to believe in yourself, magic starts happening."

  • @agilanvl5602

    @agilanvl5602

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes it is

  • @farhanmohammed6852

    @farhanmohammed6852

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯🤘

  • @gwotyamark8693

    @gwotyamark8693

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing 👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @meetpatel-lf8dh

    @meetpatel-lf8dh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 🙌🏼

  • @desmnd3557

    @desmnd3557

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @loomonda18
    @loomonda182 жыл бұрын

    1.) 0:23 - Conquer their past: Confident people don't let their past dictate them, they try to understand & navigate through it. 2.) 1:45 - Construct a high value skill: When we have a high value skill, we tend to value ourselves & we don't let other people dictate our value. In the pursuit of mastery, you will have to overcome challenges, developing resilience - and now your confidence is not based on arrogance/cockiness, your confidence is based on your ability to deal with challenging situations. 3.) 3:45 - Constantly Learn: Learning gives you a sense of achievement/drive, and a feeling like you are moving forward toward something. Consistently learning can truly transform the way you feel about yourself, and you start to trust yourself. When you are able to connect the dots & apply what you are learning to your surroundings, this gives you a sense of confidence. 4.) 5:10 - Compassion: Have compassion for yourself, you don't need to be perfect all the time. Confidence shows that you are okay with not being perfect, and not having all of the answers. 5.) 6:42 - Calmly Respond: Confidence comes not from reacting fast, but from responding slowly. Confident people listen, process and then respond - and then when they speak, people listen. Less is more. Respond from the act/rhythm of love, not hate. Go at your own pace. 6.) 7:31 - Certainty: Confident people feel certainty around their likes and dislikes, and what works and does not work. Asking yourself what your true beliefs are and then you can act on that internal certainty, rather than external factors. 7.) 8:45 - Competent Preparation: Confident people practice, prepare and work. They plan, visualize and prepare their energy & mindset. This is why the practice of daily habits is so important. **& My own advice I've stumbled upon....trust yourself. xx

  • @DREAMWORLD123

    @DREAMWORLD123

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou 😍

  • @meghak2305

    @meghak2305

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @dhanyavijayan1599

    @dhanyavijayan1599

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤️

  • @yeskay9685

    @yeskay9685

    2 жыл бұрын

    Blink summary of this video - many thanks for your time and effort, well done 👍🏻

  • @preeth7991

    @preeth7991

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @TheMindsJournal
    @TheMindsJournal2 жыл бұрын

    The moment you start to love and believe yourself, confidence will automatically generate.

  • @user-fl7qp8gc5o

    @user-fl7qp8gc5o

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @alvinaas463

    @alvinaas463

    2 жыл бұрын

    But how do I do that?

  • @neonyoutobe5405

    @neonyoutobe5405

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alvinaas463 Write about the things you like about yourself. What are the things that make you unique from others.

  • @sorifulislamsobus4957

    @sorifulislamsobus4957

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alvinaas463 you rrttt5tttttttrttt you have a great day 7

  • @anuragr7026

    @anuragr7026

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @-ISDF--KAVIRAJANV
    @-ISDF--KAVIRAJANV2 жыл бұрын

    Summary. 1. Conquer your past 2. Construct a high value skill 3. Learn consistently 4. Compassionate 5. Calmly respond 6. Certainty 7. Competent preparation

  • @ganeshgaikwad3098
    @ganeshgaikwad30982 жыл бұрын

    Umbrella can't stop the rain, but can make you to stand in the rain. Confidence may not bring success, but give us power to face any challenge in life.

  • @armishfatima7712

    @armishfatima7712

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly my dear bro 😘

  • @thechancellor-
    @thechancellor-2 жыл бұрын

    To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

  • @PRIYAJAY-SHETTY

    @PRIYAJAY-SHETTY

    2 жыл бұрын

    Name that incredible person because in this video Jay Shetty said raise confidence please name the person he or she will get confidence mark my words work on this chancellor to which university you are I am curious to know chancellor

  • @sirbughunter

    @sirbughunter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Reflect positivity and truth. Ignore negativity and lies. ♥️

  • @helenodyuo391

    @helenodyuo391

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@PRIYAJAY-SHETTY **m*;lk*kllk

  • @spiderbat443

    @spiderbat443

    2 жыл бұрын

    💪😎

  • @jessopedia-J
    @jessopedia-J2 жыл бұрын

    Just forgive yourself for flaws if any...and start loving yourself...and very important smile..may seem simple..but it's powerful...my tip to confidence 😀

  • @gurudra
    @gurudra2 жыл бұрын

    Life begins where fear ends 🙏

  • @nousernamewhatsoever

    @nousernamewhatsoever

    2 жыл бұрын

    Life begins where fear is understood :)

  • @nitakalisingh9445

    @nitakalisingh9445

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said!! Live your dreams,not your fears.

  • @Fredyacares

    @Fredyacares

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fact

  • @karthigah_careerguru
    @karthigah_careerguru2 жыл бұрын

    Start to feel comfortable and love yourself for who you are , where you are , what you have and what you don't have. Everything starts with you. You can use all the tips but until you feel comfortable for who you are nothing is going to work. Start the internal work now guys..

  • @RL-234
    @RL-2342 жыл бұрын

    So sure that everyone who's watching this is looking forward to better his or herself. Let's better ourselves 💜

  • @lantern2362
    @lantern23622 жыл бұрын

    "As long as you are taking steps every day, there will always be something to look forward to."

  • @yaseensinsights
    @yaseensinsights2 жыл бұрын

    “In order to conquer the past, we need to first understand it”. ‼️‼️ You might not be too proud of your past but your present self has so much potential and there are so many possibilities to what your future will look like. Keep working on you ❤️

  • @MyPersonalCoachingClub
    @MyPersonalCoachingClub2 жыл бұрын

    Confidence is the best attire we will ever put on, and is a lovely quality to possess 👏👏

  • @rinjereh1404
    @rinjereh1404 Жыл бұрын

    Jay Shetty is a daily gift from God, a day can't without listening to his podcast ❤they heal my soul and rewaken my spirit

  • @motivationbaychannel6891
    @motivationbaychannel68912 жыл бұрын

    The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici2 жыл бұрын

    *"Set your goals high, and don't stop till you get there." - Bo Jackson*

  • @elenacarra5863

    @elenacarra5863

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen 💕🙏

  • @yosoykibbles
    @yosoykibbles2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Jay! I’ve been listening to your Daily Jay at Calm and it is so impactful.. i guess because of the speed of how you deliver your wisdom. I just do feel like certain breaks or slower pace would sink more into the soul than fast paced like this. Thanks! Your videos and sharings are great and has impacted my life greatly! Thanks!

  • @gennawitts3268
    @gennawitts3268 Жыл бұрын

    You hit the nail on the head here. Especially in point 1, 4 & 5 for me. You’re helping others in such a relevant and impactful way. ❤ Thank you, sir!

  • @VincensiaSilviana
    @VincensiaSilviana2 жыл бұрын

    From the deepest of my heart, Thank you Jay ❤️

  • @bycreativedesigns
    @bycreativedesigns2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Gaining confidence may be a battle but it's worth it✨

  • @esraaal-rashed3936
    @esraaal-rashed3936 Жыл бұрын

    Jay, stay blessed and keep empowering others. Came across your podcasts just now and I can't drive anywhere without them❤

  • @sajalmishra5186
    @sajalmishra51862 жыл бұрын

    This man spreading a lot of good vibes to whole world.....😁

  • @aizariazbutt3451
    @aizariazbutt3451 Жыл бұрын

    This is the first time I came across someone who is not talking all ‘sugar and spice and everything nice’ about self-development and actually gives ả practical approach towards the elaborate process that it is. Thank you soo much! Shukar Allah that I landed at your channel.

  • @prisijes3
    @prisijes3 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jay. That was a wonderful pointers you have highlighted. I will put in to practice from now on.

  • @a.b.3572
    @a.b.35727 күн бұрын

    I am falling so deeply in Love with your energy....... can feel it and embracing it........ that's the true definition of confidence is, this alignment with yourself, this contentment with yourself, this acceptance towards yourself.

  • @gre3dy14
    @gre3dy142 жыл бұрын

    Jay Shetty, listening and learning from you is one great thing for my. Thank you for you knowledge!

  • @jnjnijl.
    @jnjnijl.2 жыл бұрын

    simply, TOO AWESOME!!!! before watching this and after watching this I find a real difference!

  • @nellydaka752
    @nellydaka752 Жыл бұрын

    confidence is something you are not born with but you get to grow as you adventure into knowing different things....that includes knowing yourself

  • @ksuman1763
    @ksuman17632 жыл бұрын

    I’ll write all these things down and start working on it! Thank you jay for helping! :)

  • @privateequityguy
    @privateequityguy2 жыл бұрын

    Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think and more talented than you know, and capable of more than you can imagine. *Keep putting in the work...*

  • @chetnasangwan2731
    @chetnasangwan27312 жыл бұрын

    Hey,Jay! This is a very helpful video. Thank you for your insight 😊🙏

  • @justinawhyte373
    @justinawhyte373 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Jay, this means a lot right now❤❤❤

  • @girishva3823
    @girishva38239 ай бұрын

    Knowledge and keeping on upgrading ourselves is one of the key factor of being confident. THANKS Jay for pointing out that high value skill accelerates and your suggestion to try learn new skill is a very good idea.

  • @donnawebb6057
    @donnawebb60572 жыл бұрын

    You must first love yourself and used the God giver gift inside of you. Most importantly, use it for the honor and glory to God Almighty. Also having the fruit of the spirit ( Galatians 5 V 22- 23), Love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance. This is my definition of having confident and always that word LOVE.

  • @vaishnavijamage4667
    @vaishnavijamage4667 Жыл бұрын

    Every single thing you explained.Its worth I lessened to it. Thank you!

  • @DiyTechHubOfficial
    @DiyTechHubOfficial8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing jay 💐

  • @mayanlogos92
    @mayanlogos922 жыл бұрын

    Happy New Year! All the best to everyone & be your best!

  • @Aakanksha2711
    @Aakanksha27113 ай бұрын

    I can find it already relatable and you gave good advice, more around the ground.

  • @manjitom6418
    @manjitom64182 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this Jay! 💜

  • @girishva3823
    @girishva382311 ай бұрын

    Thanks Jay for the extremely useful tips. To come out of the past is most crucial step towards being super confident. One should consider past grief as a dream which is not true and over...the problem is we constantly remind ourselves of the pain we went through during the difficult times and that stops us to move ahead. Once we see past as past and be thankful that you have sailed through it , you will be confident.

  • @lala9156
    @lala91562 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Love this. The most helpful video about build confidence

  • @balkarsingh9250
    @balkarsingh9250 Жыл бұрын

    I love that the real factors are demonstrated. I have been gone through these all circumstances.

  • @akshatamhatre7036
    @akshatamhatre70362 жыл бұрын

    "Self confidence" is always great 🥰.

  • @seekersaurabh

    @seekersaurabh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes🙌🏻

  • @ugendran.v1000
    @ugendran.v10002 жыл бұрын

    Highly effective stuffs about self confidence . Explained well it in more Decipher way, Sir. 👍

  • @britneyclisham8138
    @britneyclisham81382 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I needed this!

  • @user-nm7fj8fk1x
    @user-nm7fj8fk1x Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this I really wanted to hear this

  • @calvinbaloyi4831
    @calvinbaloyi48312 жыл бұрын

    Jay Shetty I'll apply all the steps in 2022 , thanks for your wisdom

  • @elenacarra5863
    @elenacarra5863 Жыл бұрын

    This video saved my life 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌈 I believe in myself, I work really hard and I achieve my goals. Preparation and hard work are everything 💕

  • @pranavsood6176
    @pranavsood61762 жыл бұрын

    Thanku ..... I really need this ......❤️ I think confidence is something which actually helps you to pull out from your tough times ........ Truly appreciated Jay sir ..... For making such kind of videos and content for us ......❤️ To be honest it was really required for me.......... Thanku

  • @dikshanegi337
    @dikshanegi3372 жыл бұрын

    I can't tell you how much I liked your video ,i always learn something from you thanks for creating this kind of video for us ,i really used to thing that confidence is something being first everytime but no completely wrong. confidence is being a serene person ,and absorbing more listening more ,and responding in a attractive way❤️❤️❤️

  • @suryapratapsahay

    @suryapratapsahay

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYNozaismKTTlrA.html

  • @Sujal-More
    @Sujal-More5 ай бұрын

    Thanks A Million. Great Video made. I got Great Knowledge and it will help me.

  • @poojajagtap7349
    @poojajagtap73492 жыл бұрын

    Thank you...confidence like breathing..it required so much

  • @nilushanissanka2722
    @nilushanissanka2722 Жыл бұрын

    This is absolute truth❤

  • @abensteve132
    @abensteve132 Жыл бұрын

    #3.Constantly learning!! 🔥🔥Works for me like mad!

  • @diyadatta6
    @diyadatta65 ай бұрын

    Thank You 🌸

  • @kavindusenavirathne2352
    @kavindusenavirathne23522 жыл бұрын

    thanks for creating this kind of videos for us.

  • @45shubhamjaybhave4
    @45shubhamjaybhave42 жыл бұрын

    You're the inspiration man ❤️🥺

  • @gurleengill396
    @gurleengill3962 жыл бұрын

    Im a 10 aged boy. You have me in many ways. My favourite sports is cricket. You have helped my dad in learning all the stuff he need to know about life.

  • @authentic_pinkown4001
    @authentic_pinkown40012 жыл бұрын

    Merci beaucoup monsieur Shetty... absolutely right and helpful👍👍👍❤

  • @luciadasilva5474
    @luciadasilva5474 Жыл бұрын

    This is an extremely helpful video. I’m grateful for it ❤

  • @CJ-ml9jy
    @CJ-ml9jy2 жыл бұрын

    Only thing is believe yourself and respect your feelings existence and feel superior from inside in every field

  • @mikeh7615
    @mikeh7615 Жыл бұрын

    Not everyone had parents...

  • @a.b.3572
    @a.b.35727 күн бұрын

    MIND BLOWING

  • @Milan-pr3qt
    @Milan-pr3qt2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you I really needed this🥺

  • @LiveMy_Dream_
    @LiveMy_Dream_ Жыл бұрын

    thankyou. amazing video

  • @limitless5331
    @limitless53312 жыл бұрын

    Its really wonderful suggestions to us sir..Thank you for your guidelines and motivation .

  • @shafihossain554
    @shafihossain5542 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Jay, this video just popped up at the right time :)

  • @Fatima_316
    @Fatima_3162 жыл бұрын

    Your book "Think Like a Monk" is truly amazing. Thank you for all the amazing work you do for the world, you really inspire me and your sincerity is beautiful. You're a gem 💎

  • @loumypereira7224

    @loumypereira7224

    Жыл бұрын

    Um livro excelente. Obrigada por ter referenciado aqui.

  • @nicolasmordechai139
    @nicolasmordechai1392 жыл бұрын

    I discovered you in 2018 in a whatsapp group I don't have any regrets your videos help me a lot, thank you for sharing with us God bless you

  • @tejasthakar1153
    @tejasthakar11532 жыл бұрын

    Love your work ❤️

  • @rrsam3515
    @rrsam3515 Жыл бұрын

    Jay this is profound.

  • @MarcoSanderCoaching
    @MarcoSanderCoaching2 жыл бұрын

    Confidence isn’t “I know they’ll like me”, it’s “I’m okay if they don’t”.

  • @Aakanksha2711
    @Aakanksha27113 ай бұрын

    Thankyou!

  • @amritasohtun4055
    @amritasohtun40552 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video

  • @lijinantony5846
    @lijinantony5846 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you🙏

  • @jagoda6473
    @jagoda64732 жыл бұрын

    Gain more positive experiences to be more confident 😁 I like this advice

  • @datingandlifeadvicechannel7534
    @datingandlifeadvicechannel75342 жыл бұрын

    I Like the calmly respond one take time to make decisions

  • @vimalak
    @vimalak2 жыл бұрын

    It was awesome, thanks Jay :)

  • @Manchestergirl54
    @Manchestergirl542 жыл бұрын

    Great tips as always Jay.

  • @alpab3400
    @alpab34002 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jay, I found answer to my question

  • @chandralekajanaki5122
    @chandralekajanaki51222 жыл бұрын

    Even i don't hear much clear as m suffering from fever, his speech gives me calmness

  • @daughterofzion2146
    @daughterofzion21462 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love to learn!😁

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks2 жыл бұрын

    “If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.” - Bruce Lee 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation KZreadr

  • @faryalali1630
    @faryalali16302 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video I think this is what I was searching for.

  • @lailaniferreras5464
    @lailaniferreras54642 жыл бұрын

    I have low self esteem. As a college student , sometimes I cannot bring myself to be like others. Sometimes I'm wondering how could they do such things with so much confidence? , I used to write poems a lot but one day I woke up not feeling the same feelings I used to have whenever I'm holding a pen. That's why I decided to stop for now despite of hearing from others that I'm good and that they believe in my skills. It's funny on how other people believe in me but as an owner of my mind and body all I ever did was to doubt my capabilities. Thank you for this wonderful video Mr. Jay Shetty. I don't know what lies ahead of me but I'm looking forward to meet the better version of myself and maybe soon I'll find my way back into poems. ❤✨✨

  • @ishabhargava1568

    @ishabhargava1568

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is so like my situation right now

  • @sumitpal8842

    @sumitpal8842

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hmm really that's true

  • @user-io5lg5st6w

    @user-io5lg5st6w

    2 жыл бұрын

    It was hard for me to start journaling after I decided years ago that I’m not everyone’s golden writer child anymore. I’m taking my power back now and journaling daily (even if it’s just a few bullet points) to start taking an active role in changing my perception of myself. You can do it! After I learned how things that happened during my adolescent developmental period and other factors changed my response to the pressures of daily life in a negative way, I began with practicing mindfulness and a willingness to begin living in tune with and conscious of my behaviors and habits necessary to facilitate change. I’ve regressed back into old negative coping mechanisms many times but the more I educate myself, the more clarity I have and with clarity comes a greater ability to make good decisions for myself so that I can live a happy healthy life free from feeling inadequate or awkward or like a failure. I never was those things. I just didn’t have the tools I needed in my tool box to build myself into the confident, professional, loving, fun and helpful person I always wanted to be. I’m on that path now. I really hope you find your happiness and get your life back soon. You are worth it. 💙

  • @sumathybalaji5252
    @sumathybalaji52522 жыл бұрын

    Nice useful tips. thank you

  • @bentong6590
    @bentong65902 жыл бұрын

    Thanks man !!

  • @wisbonlintalawriniang3093
    @wisbonlintalawriniang30932 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much sir 💞

  • @latricehamilton6980
    @latricehamilton69802 жыл бұрын

    Thank Youuuuuu

  • @anyangthiep8802
    @anyangthiep88022 жыл бұрын

    Your message is very valuable. I take something that is useful and important away from it. Your eyes are very powerful

  • @UmeshSingh-ix1gi
    @UmeshSingh-ix1gi2 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful!!!

  • @AdonaiRose7
    @AdonaiRose7 Жыл бұрын

    Ever grateful

  • @imranimarusu7369
    @imranimarusu73692 жыл бұрын

    thanks bro 👍👍 it's so easy and helpful

  • @vasu_makes_lives_better
    @vasu_makes_lives_better2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @simrankadyan5339
    @simrankadyan53392 жыл бұрын

    May this new year be full of happiness and surprise.may all the 12 months of this year is filled with beautiful memories!... HÂPPY NEW YEAR 2022 To All !!!🥳🍫🍩🎂🍰🎊

  • @awaismanzoor6609
    @awaismanzoor66092 жыл бұрын

    If there was a double tap option then I must like this video twice. Much needed. Much helpful.

  • @annaayoub551
    @annaayoub5512 жыл бұрын

    I love this!

  • @raganimoodley2787
    @raganimoodley27872 жыл бұрын

    I call it calm control when I need to respond to situations

  • @dv4036
    @dv40362 жыл бұрын

    I know this is off topic but I love your eyes. Thanks for the tips ❤️❤️❤️

  • @yashikasingh4607
    @yashikasingh46072 жыл бұрын

    Very valuable video for me and all ppl who needs this , sir thank you soo much

  • @suryapratapsahay

    @suryapratapsahay

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYNozaismKTTlrA.html Try this one...