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  • @PickUpLimes
    @PickUpLimes7 ай бұрын

    Are there any communication skills you’ve picked up over the years that you find super helpful? 🧐 📲 Get the Pick Up Limes app (1-week free trial!): bit.ly/PUL_app

  • @jyotsna_tiwari

    @jyotsna_tiwari

    7 ай бұрын

    @pickuplimes Three things Just like you mentioned be interested! Second for 'my personal life', not to have an opinion on everything. And to know what are topics that are okay to talk about and what are not.

  • @blessedlife156

    @blessedlife156

    7 ай бұрын

    I related so much to this video! I always feel super anxious and self conscious when talking to someone I want to 'influence', you know...The think you talked about vulnerability and authenticity is so true! People relate to you more and feel comfortable around you❤ This is what I have started to incorporate and it really helped me not feel as guilty as I did before😅❤ Loved the video.

  • @-Viva-Cristo-Rey

    @-Viva-Cristo-Rey

    7 ай бұрын

    Saying someone's name at the beginning and end of the sentence , mirroring helps with commumication skills

  • @voicesofjoi545

    @voicesofjoi545

    7 ай бұрын

    One of the ways I have found that really helps when communicating are mental intention and emotional sincerity. It's so easily nowadays to be distracted or ready to talk about yourself while the other person is talking. When having a conversation, be sincere, intentional and if possible, emotionally engaged. Most people, noting body language and unconscious queues, know whether or not you're really interested or distracted. I think intention and sincerity are key.

  • @shylajakrishnaprasad9706

    @shylajakrishnaprasad9706

    7 ай бұрын

    Oh my goodness, such a fantastic information. One thing that I follow is - “ do not share your opinion unless asked”. Sometimes people want to hear what they want to hear so giving them choices such as “ do you want to hear the truth or something comforting”. Also, objectifying conversations will help avoid subjective assumptions and biases.

  • @ae-winter6697
    @ae-winter66974 күн бұрын

    OMG really love your video and story telling! *immediately subscribing*

  • @mitchamsathome
    @mitchamsathome22 сағат бұрын

    I enjoy listeing to your share so much. What a pleasant voice! Keep up your good work:)

  • @mahisagar9628
    @mahisagar96282 күн бұрын

    love this video

  • @arpansujatha6556
    @arpansujatha655610 күн бұрын

    Just brilliant and so useful. Thank you!

  • @OBscouts
    @OBscouts23 күн бұрын

    Subscribed! This video is both fun and engaging and informative.

  • @srushtishah1862
    @srushtishah18627 ай бұрын

    Such a informative video. Also you look really beautiful ❤

  • @kishansinghgaharwar2753
    @kishansinghgaharwar275319 күн бұрын

    ❤just awesome. Your impression is great 👍

  • @wildloverkunal
    @wildloverkunalАй бұрын

    Beautiful Video😊

  • @karthikeyan__5
    @karthikeyan__52 ай бұрын

    Great video❤

  • @BollywoodBlissCouple
    @BollywoodBlissCouple2 ай бұрын

    ❤Loved your video thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. Liked and shared!

  • @hopemataka07
    @hopemataka07Ай бұрын

    Wow this so nice and helpful ❤

  • @activationamy
    @activationamy18 күн бұрын

    Excellent information, thank you 💗

  • @keazmaverick
    @keazmaverickАй бұрын

    Thanks Totally loved this vid❤

  • @ronniehabwomugisha3040
    @ronniehabwomugisha3040Ай бұрын

    Thanks to this piece of sharing.

  • @angelaclearwater6272
    @angelaclearwater62727 күн бұрын

    Gosh I wanted to leave a good comment to thank you for this video but seeing everyone else's………wow, I second them all!!! This was pure gold. I will be watching this many times over.

  • @tialynn1111
    @tialynn1111Ай бұрын

    Ooh love this ❤❤❤

  • @devverma_
    @devverma_29 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much ma'am.💫❤️

  • @randallhill7979
    @randallhill797926 күн бұрын

    Thank you 👍

  • @Sonu_verma12051
    @Sonu_verma1205129 күн бұрын

    Excellent content, Thank you so much❤

  • @momocake6355
    @momocake635519 күн бұрын

    Lovely put

  • @ajaym6795
    @ajaym67953 күн бұрын

    This is a great video. Straight to the point and simple to understand. However, I want to remind everyone that several serial killers were charismatic as well. I'd rather be shy than a toxic narcissistic. But that being said, I could benefit from this video ... I just hope I can apply what I learned when the situations come up

  • @preethikottol3880
    @preethikottol3880Ай бұрын

    Thank u! it was really interesting

  • @ARASHREZVAN
    @ARASHREZVAN27 күн бұрын

    A HUGE THANK TO YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

  • @ryan-bo2xi
    @ryan-bo2xiАй бұрын

    Amazing

  • @cleberdc2293
    @cleberdc22937 ай бұрын

    Great video

  • @shrutisharma2831
    @shrutisharma2831Ай бұрын

    i love your smile😃

  • @kadijhastrong8787
    @kadijhastrong878717 күн бұрын

    Omg I have felt like this fr but I'm going to check out this book , I'm use your tip

  • @dannygrays
    @dannygrays6 ай бұрын

    Just came across your channel. This vid was full of great insight. Thank you

  • @elenapolenichkina6460
    @elenapolenichkina64606 ай бұрын

    Very interesting and helpful topic!) Thank you!

  • @user-wv2mc1wf5x
    @user-wv2mc1wf5x2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the video, it was interesting and useful

  • @eshita7390
    @eshita73902 ай бұрын

    thank you for sharing

  • @kristiecox7350
    @kristiecox73504 ай бұрын

    Great reminders!

  • @angiepto
    @angiepto6 ай бұрын

    Excellent, truly excellent video. Thank you!

  • @bobguy2362
    @bobguy2362Ай бұрын

    Fantastic video

  • @georgiana3127
    @georgiana312726 күн бұрын

    great video

  • @akmaliqbal2356
    @akmaliqbal23563 ай бұрын

    Such a useful video...thank u

  • @fc4660
    @fc46607 ай бұрын

    Wonderful video as well as wonderful topic

  • @uzmafakhar5660
    @uzmafakhar56607 ай бұрын

    Precious

  • @karthik-eh4xy
    @karthik-eh4xy2 ай бұрын

    Beautiful 🤩

  • @ssmith3967
    @ssmith39672 ай бұрын

    Great info for teens, too. Thank you!

  • @gilidominitz1842
    @gilidominitz18426 ай бұрын

    LOVELY video! I like this content a lot :)!!

  • @lemmylougtaibi94
    @lemmylougtaibi947 ай бұрын

    This a very good video. Thankx❤

  • @mishuislam7409
    @mishuislam74095 ай бұрын

    This is really helpful and good a great review of Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People, one of my favourite books.

  • @AbshiraAbdy
    @AbshiraAbdyАй бұрын

    Thanks

  • @lindau8551
    @lindau8551Ай бұрын

    Wow, this video was so helpful! I only read Daniel Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" a few months ago, but had already forgotten so many details.... But this video firstly, made me remember the tips and secondly, really understand how I can implement them in my real life. Thank you so much, Sadia ;)

  • @kristennereidy4879
    @kristennereidy48797 ай бұрын

    Excellent video! Thanks so much!

  • @cfxuexue
    @cfxuexue6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this vid. 🙏🏻😌

  • @claudiakotouc6748
    @claudiakotouc67487 ай бұрын

    Wonderful advice! Thank you. Btw, you have a great balance of competence and warmth...😀

  • @EricOosenbrug
    @EricOosenbrug10 күн бұрын

    Uncredited quote: "people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel" (Maya Angelou)

  • @indaybadiday87
    @indaybadiday875 ай бұрын

    So love this topic❤❤❤

  • @addtru12
    @addtru125 ай бұрын

    Great content! Thanks!

  • @raj_kundalia
    @raj_kundalia6 ай бұрын

    These are really good tips :)

  • @him727
    @him7277 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing 🙏

  • @lpanebr
    @lpanebr7 ай бұрын

    Really good advice! Thanks!

  • @abigailkerr3354
    @abigailkerr33547 ай бұрын

    Listen, I CRIED when I watched this. I've always felt like there's been some secret class that I must have missed on how to interact well with others. I'm warm, and I love people, but I get so stuck in conversations that i go out of my way to avoid them. It's often caused me so much frustration and feelings of isolation, even when I'm surrounded by people I love. This feels like that secret class. Thank you ❤️

  • @PickUpLimes

    @PickUpLimes

    7 ай бұрын

    Hey Abigail, I’m really touched to hear that this resonated with you so deeply. It’s heartbreaking to feel isolated, especially when you are warm and love people. It sounds like you've been carrying this for a while, and I’m glad this could offer some solace and guidance. You’re not alone in this journey, and I believe in your ability to build meaningful connections. Keep being your wonderful self, and thank you so much for sharing your heart ❤️

  • @primavera558

    @primavera558

    5 ай бұрын

  • @user-nx3ff6nq9d

    @user-nx3ff6nq9d

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@PickUpLimes hi gorgeous you look great and your video was fantastic. I was interested in working with you as a video editor for your KZread channel.

  • @2wickie686

    @2wickie686

    3 ай бұрын

    You might be autistic, Abigail. I'm autistic and even though I understand and can read social cues just fine, it's still a performance for me, it's learned; not natural. And oh my God, it's so exhausting and stressful putting on the performance. That being said, the fact that I'm trying to perform has actually gotten me more grief than simply existing as is, I've learned. A lot of people initially like how polite and careful I am, but then they either get put off by something not seeming right (because I'm performing) or I let the mask slip and they like me even more because I'm just...me, now.

  • @shelliepage8271

    @shelliepage8271

    2 ай бұрын

    I’m the same way!!

  • @jademaarman2414
    @jademaarman24147 ай бұрын

    Oh I so needed this❤

  • @lilasvarupadd7695
    @lilasvarupadd76957 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much for your advises

  • @helenhagemann2760
    @helenhagemann27607 ай бұрын

    So Good,thank you❤

  • @mariareginarosaria8927
    @mariareginarosaria89276 ай бұрын

    Tis a perfect video!

  • @jenmcw84
    @jenmcw8412 күн бұрын

    How to make friends for adults. Needed this. 😅

  • @Naughty-jq2gg
    @Naughty-jq2gg7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much🙏💕

  • @Nidhi_Maheshwari
    @Nidhi_Maheshwari7 ай бұрын

    I💛💚Your Topics Sadia

  • @jmk2530
    @jmk25307 ай бұрын

    Great video! Thank you.

  • @brycenwhitesides6866
    @brycenwhitesides68666 ай бұрын

    this is great thank you!

  • @kiriakipetroulaki3090
    @kiriakipetroulaki30906 ай бұрын

    lovely video as always

  • @anushkarajput8223
    @anushkarajput82232 ай бұрын

    You’re really beautiful, and the way you talk is very sweet ❤

  • @PoeticPulse953
    @PoeticPulse953Ай бұрын

    Sira no words 🖤

  • @stephym179
    @stephym1797 ай бұрын

    Great video thanks

  • @katieelmas6371
    @katieelmas637127 күн бұрын

    Admittedly I do really like the bloopers lol

  • @saranbhatia8809
    @saranbhatia88097 ай бұрын

    Great 💯

  • @varabastadagar
    @varabastadagar6 ай бұрын

    Great video!!🤩

  • @simranm3hta
    @simranm3hta7 ай бұрын

    Thankyou

  • @hadilxghx3052
    @hadilxghx30526 ай бұрын

    Sehr hilfreiche Tipps 🤍✨️

  • @user-dt1er2gr4r
    @user-dt1er2gr4r17 күн бұрын

    I should have watch your video two days ago! Last night was my first date and I literally messed it up!

  • @AudioTruyenLangQue
    @AudioTruyenLangQue5 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! I needed this valuable information! I came to your video and much needed information. This is God's answer for me! Thank you, thank you.

  • @denisemphahlele
    @denisemphahlele6 ай бұрын

    Learning a lot from you❤🧡💛

  • @thebolt1806
    @thebolt18067 ай бұрын

    Can you please share some books list for improving English speaking and writing

  • @him727
    @him7277 ай бұрын

    Amazing

  • @delfinahenriques
    @delfinahenriques7 ай бұрын

    What a great and helpful video 😍 all the best!

  • @pleasedonttellbuddha6432
    @pleasedonttellbuddha6432Ай бұрын

    I Miss the warm and sometimes miss the competence and what is funny is that it all depends on the people I am with Very interesting video thank you

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv26146 ай бұрын

    You are so beautiful and genuine❤

  • @shaurabhdeewan
    @shaurabhdeewan6 ай бұрын

    Hi. It was good to listen. Any good examples of fun talk at office among colleagues? Appreciate some sharing on this.

  • @aasthazen
    @aasthazen6 ай бұрын

    Pls talk more about abdominal issues and how to solve them with food. You are best as a nutritionist. Thanks ❤

  • @nikitakhandelwal2244
    @nikitakhandelwal22447 ай бұрын

    As an introvert and an socially awkward person this was much nedded. 🤗 Knowing that you also have similar feeling , makes me feel comfortable about my feeling , and I will also work on my social skills . Love you Sadia.❤

  • @PickUpLimes

    @PickUpLimes

    7 ай бұрын

    Sending loads of love back your way, Nikita, thank you 🤗

  • @lavatr8322

    @lavatr8322

    2 ай бұрын

    AS a socially awkward dude , im a total failure lol

  • @ester9484
    @ester94847 ай бұрын

    What an interesting video Sadia. Thank you 😘

  • @kellyd6619
    @kellyd66197 ай бұрын

    Very well done! Informative and Enjoyable. Thank you! :)

  • @SusanneGeert
    @SusanneGeert7 ай бұрын

    Such a great and interesting video - I hope you will share more like this ☺

  • @belindaknowles7440
    @belindaknowles74407 ай бұрын

    Great information. Thanks for sharing😊

  • @anithaprakash580
    @anithaprakash5806 ай бұрын

    Good and genuine one.

  • @limorazimuse3640
    @limorazimuse36407 ай бұрын

    Could you please make a printed version of your cookbook?

  • @nandhinisuji1967
    @nandhinisuji19677 ай бұрын

    These are very helpful suggestions. Thank you for sharing these!

  • @helengreen6724
    @helengreen67247 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this great advice!!

  • @mr.introvert5977
    @mr.introvert5977Ай бұрын

    Charmy.. 😊

  • @ShannonHassouneh-gg9gn
    @ShannonHassouneh-gg9gn7 ай бұрын

    This is an excellent video. I would love more of this type of content. Thank you!

  • @ishu13
    @ishu136 ай бұрын

    You're as beautiful as you voice ✨, I love whatever you shared ❤️

  • @officeemail6196
    @officeemail61967 ай бұрын

    Came across this channel by accident and these are amazing. Keep going

  • @Lola-gy3pc
    @Lola-gy3pc7 ай бұрын

    This was so interesting and helpful❤

  • @sophiastudebaker6490
    @sophiastudebaker64907 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this! 😊 Also that green looks Amazing on you!!

  • @sushmitak6546
    @sushmitak65467 ай бұрын

    Love your Nadia, I almost grew up watching your videos❤