📲 Our Pick Up Limes app is finally here (1-week free trial!): bit.ly/PUL_app 🎉 What area would you like the build more confidence in? 💪

@YeshwantP

4 жыл бұрын

I would like to build my confidence in talking comfortably with other people whom I don't know. How do you think I should go about to do it?

@QueenStylin

4 жыл бұрын

Pick Up Limes cooking your recipes. Or recipes in general. Always afraid it would be inedible. I am a new subscriber and new to cooking. Tried out 3 pick up limes recipe. Ate them all. Were very good. Grocery shopping is scary to me since I had to ask many of the grocers what many of the ingredients are. Lost 7 lbs from cooking for myself. Not intentional but feel better about making my own meals.

@swayslay2070

4 жыл бұрын

Pick Up Limes Hi Sadia, thank you so much for making this video, I have trouble often times with eye contact 😌 trying to work on that .. I wonder if others struggle with that.

@maem7636

4 жыл бұрын

Pick Up Limes, " Thanks for your kindness with your message, Sadia ! "

@courtneypillay2606

4 жыл бұрын

In public speaking 😭

"We overestimate what we can do in a day and underestimate what we can do in a lifetime".. so deep and so true

@Lindsweightloss

4 жыл бұрын

I love this quote !!

@ParisHedger

4 жыл бұрын

love this so much

@sowmyab506

4 жыл бұрын

Shouldn’t it have been the other way around

@bhargavi141

4 жыл бұрын

Sowmya B what the quote means is that persistence is key.

@Star-xy2zp

4 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️♥️

As a single dad to a fourteen year old daughter, I want to thank you for your videos. You are the strong and POSITIVE female roll model that she always needed in her life. And she absolutely adores you. After years of emotional abuse from her mother, she is deeply wounded and sees you as a beacon of hope. I am here for her everyday with love, patience, and understanding. But you epitomize the woman she needed in her life rather than the one she had. Again, thank you. You mean a lot to my little girl. And she means everything to me.

@Jane-bq3qv

3 жыл бұрын

You’re doing a great job 💖

@GodSoLoved.Yeshua

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you, what you and your daughter are searching for is Jesus. He loves you. As humans we will always fail, he is faithful. God bless you

@RokNovak

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful, Tom. Absolutely beautiful. I agree with you - Sadia is an amazing woman. I wish you and your girl all the best.

@sylviamjames

Жыл бұрын

@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua so true Amalia, He is our source, He see everything Praise Him! ♥️🙏 0:00

@dinorash7232

3 ай бұрын

😊

From one who doesn't have confidence Confidence comes from being comfortable in your own skin. It comes when you 'can' smile like you do. Your smile comes from a place of self-acceptance, from a place of satisfaction of where you are right now, with the hope of where you'll be. Did you work for that smile? Or were you born with it? You smile with your eyes and I bet your heart too. ... Some tears later... Confidence comes when you just be instead of trying to be. Confidence comes when you accept yourself as you are.. as raw as you are. Confidence comes when you realise that one person accepts, acknowledges and appreciates your being. It is heaven if that is person is yourself. ... You're blessed more than you know and I hope you remember that when you're feeling low. Lots of Love) To you and The one who reads it.

1. Be Good at Something--> Confidence 2. Goals--> Chunk down into Steps 3. Realistically Challenging--> Flow State 4. Rewarding--> Look upto Achievements I learnt these from the video. :)

When people compliment me, I usually respond by saying “Thank you for the encouragement!” It’s better than deflecting the praise, and it also acknowledges that I appreciate their words. :) Great video!

@hifriends3607

4 жыл бұрын

Wonderful comments Hatsf You have good heart God bless you My heartfully wishes to you

@abida1612

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

You could tell us something in dutch at the end of every video and put subtitles in english. That way you would practice and maybe some of your subscribers would learn a word or two in dutch.

@skywalker6648

4 жыл бұрын

That is a cool and interesting idea!

@MadaamEQ

4 жыл бұрын

Cool idea 😎

@ginafiorella8313

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing! Or maybe just a word in Dutch.. I don’t need to learn it myself but I like it when people speak Dutch.

@kevinaylward3677

4 жыл бұрын

Would love this as well. I live in The Netherlands and find it challenging to learn Dutch. 👍

@RubenVenema

4 жыл бұрын

That will be super cool

I love the way you speak, its like you are talking to me privately just the 2 of us. So soothing..

The fact that you smile a lot, makes you more adorable and make us feel the positive vibes you exude. Keep it up!

Dear Sadia, I don't often comment on anybody's video, but I need to express my gratitude. Thank you for giving me a life I've always wanted to live.

@PickUpLimes

4 жыл бұрын

🙏❤️

@vendetta_1878

4 жыл бұрын

@@PickUpLimes I love you!!

@femkes3014

4 жыл бұрын

I think you should be most grateful to yourself! ❤️ Because you are the only one who really gave you the life you wanted, with much inspiration because of Sadia of course! :D

@vendetta_1878

4 жыл бұрын

@@femkes3014 of course! :D

@AFSALASANSER

4 жыл бұрын

Woo..can u tell me how u did that..😇

Ive missed you. Your voice is soothing and videos are uplifting :)

@NenaLavonne

4 жыл бұрын

Krissyboo75 yes! 😊✨

@ParisHedger

4 жыл бұрын

omg I've noticed that too, I wish my voice was as calming as hers haha!

@veganlunchmom

4 жыл бұрын

I agree😍

@sbegum29

4 жыл бұрын

Krissyboo75 AGREE😩🤩

@Krissyboo75

4 жыл бұрын

@@ParisHedger Im sure it is more calming than you think ♡

I always wanna be a confident person. I can't even stand by group of people with confidence. Public gathering always makes me feel uncomfortable. Hope i will overcome it.

@derpanda7073

2 жыл бұрын

I believe in you

Pickup Limes has been such a source of inspiration and positivity for me since 2018. Her videos always seem to come at the right time, filling me with motivation and joy. She truly brings relatable content and adds so much value to life. Whenever I need a boost or feel like I'm lacking certain qualities, her channel is my go-to. Here's to the positive vibes she spreads! I'm usually more of a silent viewer, but I just had to express my appreciation this time. And here I am, finding myself back again on this video because I needed to re-boost my confidence.

I had no confidence as a child, due to the people around me who made it a point to break my confidence. But I worked on myself and now I am confident and love my life. I think that family and friends can make or break your confidence. Thank you for the video.

@iwua37

4 жыл бұрын

How did you learn to ignore them or fight against them? I think I'm in a similar situation, and it ruins my life. I rather do nothing than try and fail and further confirm that I am useless. I so helplessly fear failing yet I still know that not trying is a 100% fail.

@Lindsweightloss

4 жыл бұрын

Well done Esther, and yes the people around you can have a huge impact on one's confidence :)

@tahmeenanazarwal10

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@Spiritina8

4 жыл бұрын

Ultimately the choice is always yours...in your heart of hearts you should know to ignore any negativeness and only listen to positiveness even if it only comes from within.

@Esther-ps3vx

4 жыл бұрын

@@iwua37 I studied the most in my family. I am not a very smart student but when I try I do get by with hard work. I have a good job, and they do not as they just gave more importance to their looks. My confidence was low because I was not the best looking due to my dark colour and they did make it a point to tell me that I am the darkest which indirectly mean not beautiful. Knowledge is power and I got above them and got my confidence by learning things. I would suggest do not be afraid of making mistakes and try to ignore them. Increase your knowledge because knowledge will build up your confidence. Also, I would suggest whenever possible go and volunteer. Volunteering taught me so much and also boasted my confidence. It is a win-win situation because you give and you get ten folds. Good Luck to you.

“The no.1 way to build confidence is to build competence meaning getting really good at something. And the only way of getting good at something is to put in the time; repetition, doing it over and over again and being really subbornly persistent.” YESSS! Thanks Sadia🙌🏼 Love thiiis.

I think confidence is the byproduct of how much a person has worked on himself..... Although there are some exceptions

Confidence and self-esteem are my goals for the future . i hope to improve my confidence and self-esteem I pray to God I will achieve my goals. Amen

This popped up in my feed just when I needed it!

@hindbelarbi7563

4 жыл бұрын

So needed, Thank you @pickuplimes

@Spiritina8

4 жыл бұрын

Mine too...😎

@riteshmahato1026

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly the same happened to me.

@emilief2799

4 жыл бұрын

same💛

@amanysdesigns4199

4 жыл бұрын

me too :)

Actually we missed you. Especially your soothing voice.

@NenaLavonne

4 жыл бұрын

Ritesh Mahato yes! 😊✨

I don't know why...But I cried watching this video as I realised that I underestimate myself for years, not knowing that I can be better by starting small. I've burden myself so many times by forcing myself to do things that I'm not good at & neglecting the areas where I'm really good at. Thank u Sadia for waking me up.🌹 Much love from Malaysia 💗💗💗

One thing that works well for me in building up confidence, is to revisit previous projects/work I've done. It is so easy for us to constantly raise the bar for what is the standard, that we overlook how much we have grown. Revisiting old work helps realise, that what we can do today, we may only have dreamed about one year ago. Thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing these lovely videos.

@deborahdabblesaround

2 жыл бұрын

Ooh revisiting old work that you’re proud of is def confidence-boosting!

@meghnamehta7694

Жыл бұрын

Underrated comment!

Agreed! I believe confidence is built through *_time, effort & experience_* Have a wonderful day everyone :)

@prathimasworld7229

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you and wish you the same

@Conspera

4 жыл бұрын

Thought you said lime

@user-lx7ky6ok9w

4 жыл бұрын

U too(◍•ᴗ•◍)

'We over-estimate what we can do in a day and under-estimate what we can do in a lifetime.' This went into my favourite quotes' list.

@hifriends3607

4 жыл бұрын

Nice comment Hatsf

One of my professors says repetition is the mother of skill

@komiljonyangiboev3669

3 жыл бұрын

it was mother of success actually

@willharms4581

3 жыл бұрын

@@komiljonyangiboev3669 ehh either or

Passion ➕hardwork =success

Firstly you're beautiful, your dark hair and your smile is flattering. Secondly this was aesthetic Thirdly, QUALITY conteny

@spaul9697

4 жыл бұрын

Don't u think the third point should be the first point :)

@celestial5036

4 жыл бұрын

@@spaul9697 theyre not in order :)

You seem like an introvert but exceptionally articulate.. You speak on behalf of them ♥️

@michelleturner4052

4 жыл бұрын

I think I need to build my self-confidence back by standing up for myselfbecause of other people a lot of times I don't say what I truly feel or do what I truly feel and I'm paying the price for it I guess that's not meaning to say that I'll stay down forever but how do you get up and how do you build your confidence after you've been down for so and I'm trying to make peace with the past year brings me some peace give me a way out because I really don't want to be in the same place feeling the samegrab situation can you please give me some pointers on how to feel better and how to make it through the day by day

@aparna8030

4 жыл бұрын

@@michelleturner4052 The answer is within you. Because the best answer comes from us. We are the sum of our thoughts and emotions. So be aware of your thoughts and picture your life and yourself how you want it to be. Your life will change for the good, with practice.

@hifriends3607

4 жыл бұрын

Good words

Confidence comes from inner belief and the inner voices

You are the best therapist I have ever had.

I missed you... You're a ray of light

We overestimate what we can do in a day..but underestimate what we can do in a lifetime! Well said..

I love when people can show their imperfections and make fun of them. No one is perfect. Doing this actually shows true confidence and makes you more "real" to your audiences. Really love your channel. :)

The best way to build confidence is to build competence! I like it!!

Missed these videos! So awesome as always 💓🦋

Be Successful Get good in something Building confidence Celebrate achievements Accomplishments Accept praises

@anasssnvattiyoorkavu6981

3 жыл бұрын

Thank u

Oh my goodness! That’s my issue all the time 😆😆😆 your speech sounds so flow and calm 🥰 I would love to see these types of clips from you. You have a potential there❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰

I joined university in 2017, with a well laid out plan to pursue Agriculture and really build my competence on it. My plan was to start a blog, but that the far I went, planning (I never did any of this.) ...4 years down, I can pick up myself and resee* this a new. Walking with you and many more on a daily basis ( they are very deliberate) is stirring this up a new. I know better, It's time audible and knowledge inside me gets to reach to more people than just me Thank you Sadia💜.

Also your plants and vines in your studio look heavenly 🥰

„We overestimate what we can do in a day and we underestimate what we can do in a lifetime” - this is going to be my new favourite quote! ❤️🙏🏼

Accomplished list! Not a to-do list! Life changer right there! 🤯

The ability to speak in front of my cohort and not worry about being judged. To get through public speaking in school without having to feel so anxious; like I genuinely cannot breathe. And definitely, to be able to have a good conversation w/ anyone without it being awkward.

I wish you’d put out a video everyday, that’s how much I love your channel 😂

Hi Sadia 😊 I completely agree with this video. The two major points that I can connect are 1. Repeating the same thing again and again to gain confidence with it and 2. When someone accomplishes for something that have done I used to reply like you did earlier but now I started learning to accept it and started feeling more confident now. Also I request you to make a video to overcome Inferiority complex as many faces this issue in some point of time in their life.

confidence = competence + courage + complement + celebration

OMG I can hear you all day long. such a relaxing voice. please keep posting your videos, they are so uplifting

I went through a period at work where I was in a new position at the same company and I was the newest one on the team. Everyone was super nice but I just felt like I'd never be as good as those people, and they all must do the job so easily and I was surely the only one that was struggling. For reference, I work in software deployment for a multinational software company. I work with 6 or 7 clients at a time to set up their software, understand their business needs, etc. A few things that helped me to gain confidence: 1. As Sadia said, just practice helped immensely. Finding answers on my own instead of running to a teammate first gave me a sense of accomplishment. 2. Basically jumping off the deep end and realizing that hey, I'm likeable - my customers like me, and realizing they didn't expect me to have every answer to every off the wall question they had. Learning to be honest and say, "You know what? I'm not 100% sure, but let me research that and get back to you by tomorrow. 3. Honestly, hearing from the more tenured members of the team that they get nervous too. Knowing that I wasn't alone in my pre-meeting jitters, and that they go through the same struggles, helped me. 4. Finally, and probably the biggest one - soon, I wasn't the newest on the team anymore. And I was expected to help the newer team members. Helping to answer their questions and teaching them how to do things made me realize how much I DID know, taking away my usual focus on how much I still didn't know. Not sure if this will help anyone, but I'm happy to say I'm totally over it and feel very confident at work now. 😊 Great video as always.

The bloopers were so cute. I have missed these videos a lot.

I can totally relate to it and attest the fact that "To increase your confidence, you need to improve your competence". I had been struggling in my early months of my first job and with time as I improved my competence, I felt confident with what I do. Beautifully said, Love ❤️🤗

The way you talk is so calming

Love the phrase "confidence by building competence"! And that needs time and effort.

I’ve missed the Tea Time Chats!!!! Please keep sharing!!!! Also I would love to see a DITL/vlog!!!

Your voice is so soothing. Like meditation

Her voice makes me feel like I have my life together and what i am doing is right and I can Do IT. Thank you for it 💖

OMG !! I missed your videos a LOT !! I’m so happy !

#PickupLimesSquad!!🙋🏾‍♀️❤ I need to work on my Self Confidence level that has been a Big Struggle for me for years. Thank you for this.

Wonderful message. This just makes complete sense that competence gives rise to confidence. Sincerely appreciate the job you are doing 🙏😊

The opposite of humility is not arrogance. It can be confidence and acceptance of our accomplishments. Brilliant stuff. Thank you for making this video. 🙏🏻

@IshaSharma11

3 жыл бұрын

True sir ❣

your channel is one of my favs in u tube!whenever i need motivation i just search for u on u tube!u r such a inspiration ❤️❤️

Watching this before my thesis presentation. This is just what I needed to make me feel better about it all! Thank you!

The whole video tried to deliver 1. Break your work into small pieces 2. Work on it persistently 3. Give self- reinforcement 4. Be grateful when other give you compliment, it enhances self- acceptance also. Thank you for you video content.

Confidence can be learned and that's so true! I find that keeping a journal of your progress and accomplishments helps motivate you daily. ❤️

I really enjoyed your teatime Tuesday. Thanks! xxx

Please do these videos more! You're literally making me a better person and I learn so much from you. Please don't ever stop what you're doing- you honestly have a gift & you should continue to share it with the world. God bless you you're truly a ray of sunshine.

I always go back to this video whenever i don’t feel confident!And it helps me everytime!Thank you Sadia❤️

Beautiful message! Confidence is definitely something that we learn and repetition is key. I love that I stumbled across your channel, thank you for you message beautiful soul!

I was eagerly waiting for one of thessseee. You are always so inspirational Sadia!

Thanks a much for this video. I really missed these Tea Time Tuesday and self help videos. Please make more of them .

U remind me of how powerful one can be by simply being truthful/genuine.

What a beautiful voice you have! 10,000 hours practice or experience brings mastery to that realm.

Yaaay!!💚💚 Tea time tuesday is back ☕🍃 Missed you and uplifting as always🍁

Competence brings me confidence for sure 😉 Thanks for everything Sadia!

this video is both relaxing and productive

You’re not just making videos on YT but you made a lot of inspiration to a lot of people all around the world. I just watched this and it's my first time seeing ur channel, I already a subscriber with no doubt.❤️☝🏻

I always get so excited when I see that you uploaded a new video 😍

I really needed this, and I love tea time tuesdays, you're my favorite also loved the ending! Your channel really bloomed me into someone I really love. Thank you 🌟❤

I really really love the tea time chats /advice / vlog videos besides the recipe ones. You're one of my role models

She is so honest. I like her. I really like her vibe. ✨ ❤️

This is not the video that i deserved... but the video that i needed

I've been learning Dutch this year as well since I've been planning to move to the Hague, I empathize on how difficult it is, but we'll get it!! Thanks for all your videos, your channel teaches me so much 💙

Love the warm and cozy vibe!

You’re so calming 😌🥰

"Often, we overestimate what we can do in a day and we underestimate what we can do in a lifetime" Amazing line!

One thing I learned that made a huge difference. Try and enjoy the journey, savor it. There's absolutely no rush.

Watching her videos gives me so much inner peace. Thank you so much :)

I was in a dire need to hear this. Thanks for bringing forth the positivity and the incentive ! 😇💯 Keep empowering

Thank you, just what we need sometimes! I really missed Tea time Tuesday too. Sending love ❤❤

Exactly what I needed right now :) THANK YOU!🌻

I love the way you gave a great smile while talking❤

Your videos are a ray of sunshine during this pandemic. Thank you for doing what you do!

Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

How can a background be so beautiful?! Love it! 😍

what a beautiful smile she has, it is contagious her good energy

Putting in the time... competence turns into confidence... well said chica!

This was amazing Sadia! Absolutely adore your content. 💕 For me making videos has also been an ongoing struggle with self confidence. I am mostly introverted anyway. Beautiful video! 💕xo

2:14 - 2:17 "damn it!" so cute! :) reminds me of someone I loved.

"#1 way to build confidence is to build competence." ... PERFECT ... also maybe by imagining yourself as already doing the thing you're so destined to 😄💚

Got one of your videos in my recommendations the other day and have been checking out your channel ever since. You are so amazingly beautiful and eloquent, it's so impressive! More power to you 🌻

I feel so healthy and blessed watching this gorgeous angel talk. It’s like heaven on earth. I can just imagine what heaven what be like someday such a nice place.

I literally have a cup of coffee while I watched this one. Thanks for sharing.

Damn.. This was what I needed... The music (volume and choice) your voice and the examples.. Perfect. New subscriber!