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i recently read this - our comfort zone is actually our own personal hell that we have outgrown. But we can't seem to leave it because a familiar hell feels better than an unfamiliar heaven💗💗 the first point in the video just reminded me of that💞💞

@lavendaire

6 ай бұрын

wow I love that!

@CajunKoiAcademy

6 ай бұрын

Thats beautiful and a really great read, btw! 👏🏼

@user-zo8rd7oh5s

5 ай бұрын

Your funny ❤.

@annoar9776

4 ай бұрын

that's crazy, but also true! :)

@aenaanfatimaa

4 ай бұрын

This is so RELATABLE ‼️

everything will be okay in the end. if it's not okay, it is not the end...

@ANAMIKA_619

6 ай бұрын

🎉

@rina_loves_ts

23 күн бұрын

oh thank you for this

Growth happens outside comfort zone Sometimes you have to fight for what you want A sign of realignment Change your strategy Life is not linear Do the thing try your best Character development Expand and explore yourself

I've been feeling stuck for a long time but this year it's caused me so much depression and anxiety which only makes you more stuck. The worst is feeling like you let yourself down, disappointed yourself. I am stuck in a comfort zone because I live a good life and am blessed yet don't feel like I'm aligned with my purpose and also feel lonely. It's not easy but I'm trying.

@jan854

6 ай бұрын

I can resonate with this. I have a good life, I'm blessed, but I'm not motivated like I was before . I have a great job where I make good money, but it doesn't fulfill me. I do work remotely so I know the lack of social connection is adding to this.

@Darima2

6 ай бұрын

@@jan854 I've been working remotely too since 2014. I love it but that aspect is what's kept me in the same job because I'd say if I'm gonna be unfulfilled by this type of corporate job , I'd rather it be in the comfort of my home rather than going back to that depressing, mundane, boring office atmosphere where you have to always be in office mode. Then commuting back and forth where I can literally feel and see other people's misery going to their unfulfilling jobs. The social aspect wore off after the first 3 years tbh. I'm considering a total career change which would require going back to school but I really should have made that decision a good decade ago so I've been beating myself up about that too, not making the right decision. Focused more on enjoying life in the short term than thinking long term😢. Lots of regrets and anger. Trying to pull myself out of it but it's a struggle, like a tug of war.

@kail.ahhl.

3 ай бұрын

honestly i feel a similar way but once you go out a bit of your comfort zone you get this feeling of freedom you feel a little lighter atleast it was for me still going through this period of uncertainty and confusion but getting through but it hard when we feel so comfortable with people or in a certain situation

the remedy for my healing process is the ''patience.'' we all have ups and downs, we go through hard phases in life, being judged from toxic people... but i'm very well aware that once i stand firm and face the challanges in my way better days are awaiting me there. ALL I NEED IS PATIENCE!!!

" *Gratitude* is simply a shift in your *perspective* to see the good in your life the more you focus on what you have to be grateful for the better you feel about your life" a simple but powerful reminder, this chapter really talked to me thank you for this video Aileen❤

I think my favorite part of this video will be a sign for realignment

Do it for the plot! 💗 Character development regardless of how things go, doing hard things builds character

“Sometimes you have to fight for what you want” - I love that because it gives me so much motivation to keep going and not give up on my dreams! ❤ Very powerful! 🙏

I was just about to break down cause of stress. The timing is unreal

Looking at life and challenges as a "plot" and "character development" is a genius mindset. This is now changing my perspective of my life. Right now I'm stuck/burnt out at my job and I'm being challenged to be more assertive and now I'm starting to see this as a sign of my character development.

Do it for the plot. Remind yourself that everything happens for your growth. That will be my favorite quote for today. I feel blue these days, but after watching this, I feel up now. Thanks a million.

You always know exactly what to say, exactly when I need to hear it ❤

This is too positive for the moment I’m in right now, maybe I’ll come back another day and it will make more sense to me than

"invest in yourself" ❤❤❤

Thank you so much!!! Needed this❤❤

Thank you, Lavendaire! 💐

Uncanny how your videos always come at the right time, thanks a lot

i needed this today! thank you so much

i’m so grateful you uploaded this when you did and i got the notification. i’ve been feeling really low lately but man… this helps so much. thank you!!

Thank you so much for sharing . I really needed to hear those words ❤✨🫶🏻

When I tell you I needed this video... thank you SO much.

I had a hard 2023 so I had the assumption that immediately I'd get everything back or better in 2024 for things to be done at lightspeed! But I still feel stuck and stagnant. These reminders are what I needed to hear today because I was beating myself up and feeling very low.

Posted in time I was lost and overthinking.thank you always 💜

Absolutely needed this right now, perfect timing! Speaking to my soul

We appreciate how well you've articulated your own insights on this matter. Keep working hard.

Thank you for this Reminders, Aileen! ☺️

Thank you so much for this! You released this on the day I was feeling the exact words on the title of this video. Thank you for encouraging me on my own journey for the past 4 years!

Hey Aileen! Thank you so much for this amazing video, can't tell you how much I needed this. So grateful you posted this. Thank you again for making my day better. Have a nice day.

Absolutely amazing :’) we love you Lavendaire

this video is SO SO GOOD, thank you Aileen❤

Love you, Aileen! You’re always saying the right words at the right time ❤️

I needed this. Thank you so much aileen!

Thank you for being such a ray of light. I needed this today and truly appreciate you.

„Do it for the plot.“ is an interesting thought! ⭐️⭐️⭐️😊

Thanks you Aileen!!

Love you Aileen. Thank you for your words 💞

Absolutely loving these reminders, Aileen! Especially the ones about growth: 'Growth happens outside your comfort zone,' 'Fighting for what you want,' and 'Expanding and investing in ourselves' (I see a connection between the last two, in my opinion and I resonated with them the most) Thanks for the positivity and the chill vibes! 👏🏼 (P.S: Apple picking looks really peaceful and satisfying, haha)

@lavendaire

6 ай бұрын

thank you so much for your kindness 🥰

I seek your videos like this when I'm stuck, feeling down and behind in life, feeling inadequate, feeling like I'm losing grip with myself and trying not to dwell on my own mistakes and just move. I'm the type to easily get overwhelmed, but I often forget how much effort and energy I have spent my entire 20s to navigate my emotions more than trying to stop them (if that makes any sense to anyone reading this) and it honestly surprises me how much I've improved in a lot of areas where I used to normally freak out and lose sight of myself. I appreciate you continuing to make videos! I have always watched them since my early college days, and they have been extremely helpful! For that, I'm grateful to have wonderful people, like you, to help navigate life a little more easily ❤

Your videos are so inspiring and beautiful. I love your positivity

You are always perfect timing for me.

Great video Lavendaire 💯🙏🏾#7 would be my favourite! Character development… brilliant.

This video is such a blessing. I don't know how the algorithm knew I needed this

Thank you for reminding us❤

Hi Aileen. I love your videos so much they have helped me a lot. Whenever I am feeling low I can always count on your videos to make me feel better and just change my perspective about things. 💜💜

It's true life is not linear, but filled with ups and down, life will be smooth if we understand the importance of ups and downs and lessons we learnt through our hard times will always be helpful to face the future. ❤ thank you for the video Lavendair 💜🦋

Phenomenal tips! 🔥🔥 Thanks so much Aileen for this boost of positivity🙏

Thank you beautiful! you seem to have the answer every time I'm going through weird times in life ❤

these are beautiful and powerful reminders. mahalo Aileen. Needed this.

I have been feeling low for a month. I never know what is the reason. I try to do the things that used to make me happy. But I always felt something was missing. When I don't know what is happening I cant express myself to others. All combined I started feeling alone. I felt like there was no one to talk to, there was no one to listen to me. I don't know why I searched about this on KZread today and ended up on your video randomly. I have to thank you for many reasons for uploading such videos and bringing the core energy back. I really feel much better and relaxed after listening to you. Thank you so much. Am a great admirer and fan of your words from today💓

this was exactly the video I needed

I really needed this😢thank you for the reminder❤.

I used to watch your videos a lot and I miss them! I’m going to start watching them again because I love your videos on so many things that help me with my daily life! Love you!!

Thanks for this video Lavendaire! It is helpful, hope to see more content like this.

This video came to me at the perfect time when I needed to hear it. These are amazing tips, with #1 "growth happens outside your comfort zone" is my favorite. I feel I have been feeling stuck/low and everyday felt very mundane/uninteresting. I am starting to realize it is really because of me doing the same things and not challenging myself as much as I used to. I will definitely keep this in mind moving forward because recently I have switched up little things in my routine and gotten out of my comfort zone and it has had a positive impact on my mood overall. Thank you Aileen.

Oh my God, yesterday I was watching two of your videos about feeling lost, Thank you & good luck Aileen🤍

Thank you. This is very inspiring and this is what I need to hear today❤

Thank you for this video. Stepping outside of the comfort zone and self care.

‘Do it for the plot’ I really like that concept. It’s a great way to view things:)

I’ve been hearing reminders about character development lately! It’s all part of the story! Such a great reminder that keeps things lighter & takes a lot of pressure off. 🤩🙌

You are a source of encouragement and motivation for me. Thank you, you are the best ❤️‍🩹✨

Perfect timing, I’m studying for final exams 🫠

I really appreciate this message today. Thank you so much. Keep up the great work. I found all of them to be great reminders for myself.

I love this. I’ve been too lazy to do yoga lately but this video helps me a lot. Thank you , Nico❤

Thank you for this

"Life is not linear" is my favorite reminder from you

This has been very timely, a change of season in life can be overwhelming and terrifying, do it for the plot. Everything was on point.

This was awesome! Thanks Aileen! I loved the qu’Adeline about life is not linear. I have had to rewire my thinking on this notion because I am of that generation that was drilled in the ‘life’s trajectory’ and expectations is/was linear. Though I discovered, not too late, when I survived cancer at 36, that life was scribble of paths that eventually take you on the journey your open yourself to. I am so glad you brought this up as I want younger people to realize this now and not later. Cheers!

Aileen you look great with this hair color! Thank you for the message

change the strategy and character development and comfort zone were my favorite reminders. thank you.

Every reminder was needed ❤

this video is so comforting tysmmm Aileen

My favorite was "Change your strategy". Thank you!

thank you for this, aileen. my favorite part is "find gratitude for how far you've come" this makes me remember my decision months ago to change my daily phone reminder from "you're getting there" to "you've come this far" - made such a huge difference! ✨

Thanks, i really needed this.

You are such an amazing teacher/mentor. It is a gift you were born to share. Thanks from all of us to you 🥰

Because of people like you i continue to hope.. ❤

Gratitude for how far you have come ....... ❤

i can always count on your videos to help me when i’m feeling down

@lavendaire

6 ай бұрын

i appreciate you! 💜

My favourite reminders were realigning and expanding myself I think I need to push myself more to reach my goal since I not satisfied by my efforts but there are lot of fears and self doubts that are holding me back and I promise myself I will conquer all of them Thank you lavendaire for your great reminders ❤

Love how you always evolve and develop - You have been on this platform and contributing so much in the personal development space for so many years- I admire your work ethic and dedication to your channel and community ! - Im also Looking to make a video on this topic Its such an important topic.

Thank you sis ❤

Thank u so much , this helped me so much.

thank you🙏

This video came just in time for me. I currently feel lost and stuck because things seem to be getting old and stale for me. I need something fresh to rejuvenate my energy. My favorite reminder is the first one: 'Growth happens outside the comfort zone.' Thank you for this video, Aileen!

Thank you!

Your reminders are great

wow!! I've just found out this channel and I love it. Your videos has helped me to learn new vocabulary and also think about life. Thanks from Brazil :)

Thank you for this

Great mind set and actions to shift. These are all good reminders to help yourself and come back to your own inner nourishment, feed yourself from the inside. This is not only smart but also really wise! Thank you.

That strong, fiery energy ❤

My favorite part is coming across your videos ❤

Thanks 🩷 very inspiring 🎉

Video at the most amazing time when i needed it most😊 loved it . very useful

Thank you so so much Aileen for this video, i appreciate your wisdom and kindness its filled my heart with gratitude for beautiful souls like yourself who share such wonderful and valuable reminders to us all 🤍💖

Thank you ❤

Thank you for all these reminders 😊

@lavendaire

3 ай бұрын

happy that you like them💖💖

I really need this videos much love blessings

All are great reminders! And its all i need right now. Ive been going through a rough stage with anxiety ❤ thank you for the reminders!

@ANAMIKA_619

6 ай бұрын

Just be busy don't sit alone it will help u to deal with the anxiety you've