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Lavendaire is such a queen. She encourages us to love ourselves, take care of ourselves, & be productive while also achieving balance💖

@sarrahpakawala901

3 жыл бұрын

more like a person who making a living or idk but using oir views to b succsful its my opinion

@sarrahpakawala901

3 жыл бұрын

but who cares ily aileen😘

@sarrahpakawala901

3 жыл бұрын

oh nice nice

@thesavagegirl2842

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@CrisOnTheInternet

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarrahpakawala901 and it's fair but the highlight here is that she choose the path of helping people to thrive.

Habits I've started to change :- 1. workout + stretching 2. Drink lots of water all day 3. limiting sugar intake 4. Trying to love myself 5. Read books/ gain knowledge

@yourhoodiegurlzahra2160

3 жыл бұрын

Same! High five. 🖐

@user-lz7hg1rq1p

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like Regina herself haha. We'll done though!!

@lavendaire

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@pragatikhatiwada1505

3 жыл бұрын

@@lavendaire u r motivating

@liya_yasamin

3 жыл бұрын

same! this changes made me a better person.

" Success isn't always about greatness. It's about CONSISTENCY . Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come. " - Dwayne Johnson

@corrine.talbot8

3 жыл бұрын

That's why I fell in love with him. His intelligence. His life wisdom. And good looks 😅🤩

@lavendaire

3 жыл бұрын

This!!

@rudig5698

3 жыл бұрын

Omg You’re so right! Thank you for sharing this! 😍❤️

My notes: -Define what success means to you-success is relative. -External vs. internal success- it's more important to be internal succsesful, external success is what material you have. You can be internal succesful right now, because it's just a feeling and when you feel it, you will be external succsesful too. Habits: 1. Control your mindset - 4:22 2. Follow your heart & intuition - 5:32 3. Belive in yourself. Trust your vision - 6:50 4. Act despite fear - 8:00 5. Willing to learn & figure it out - 9:00 6. Take action - 12:06 - negative feedback is more useful than positive one, because it allows you to know what your mistakes are and take action to avoid them and improve yourself. 7. Continious learning - 13:16 - read books, articles etc.| When you fail, it means that you've tried. And to fail is ok! It's productive experience. 8. Behave like a pro - 14:27 9. Consistency - 15:50 - small steps to your goal. | Showing up everyday is a *choice* 10. Being commited for the long term - 18:07 11. Leverage habits - 19:15 12. Don't go it alone. Connect & work with other people - 20:20

@veganlunchmom

3 жыл бұрын

😀

@clAssIcAllymINdless

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@Mia-lc3im

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you🙏🙏

@michellewanjiru2643

3 жыл бұрын

So helpful 💛

@hellogirl225

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Drinking water and getting a good night of sleep is so underrated and SO important

@rudig5698

3 жыл бұрын

You’re so right! 🥺❤️

@noelleso4279

3 жыл бұрын

I’m feeling a little called out 😭😔

@si__chouchou_5444

3 жыл бұрын

Yes absolutely

Summary: 1. Control your mindset🧠. 2. Follow your heart and intuition❤. 3. Believe in yourself💫. 4. Act despite fear😨. 5. Willing to learn and figure it out😈. 6. Take action🙋🏻‍♀️💃. 7. Continues learning📖📚. 8. Behave like a pro😎. 9. Consistency😀. 10. Committed for the long term🤝. 11. Leverage habbits🌟. 12. Don't go it alone🙅‍♀️ connect and work with others👭🏻👬.

"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." I love that! I'll always remember that.

Success is a state of mind. It depends a lot on the person. For me, success is about pushing yourself and always do more than what you're asked to do!

@MisterPol

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you btw for this video, it's really motivating

@si__chouchou_5444

3 жыл бұрын

So inspiring your comment

im 19 and since quarantine, i decided to get aaaall my shts together. I wanted to start right now, be successful in my early 20s, be a boss of my self and Miss Aileen really helped me alot, her vids are so helpful for my mindset, it's therapeutic and soul-fulfulling. Thank you❣️ also your podcast, it's my lullaby whenever i go to sleep🥺✊🏼

@aroojfatima9584

3 жыл бұрын

Hi! I wanted to know how can i get that podcast? I'll appreciate if u help

@romellamendoza4501

3 жыл бұрын

@@aroojfatima9584 hi! you can listen to it on spotify! here's the link😊open.spotify.com/show/5ODSFAXoVkgJHjxVxU2oAu?si=o03BWy3nQAmfJpIxetgHUA

"Our success 💫 is determined by what , we do daily. Excellence then is not an act it's a habbit"🛣

i love how gentle this is. i had so much resistance opening this video thinking that it's just another one of those videos that would add to the "shoulds" of life to become successful. i'm glad i watched this

saw the notification on my phone, clicked right away, watched it, loved it, and posted a comment! I love you so much Aileen, you’ve helped thousands of people, including me. Sending love from China your way~ 💕

@lavendaire

3 жыл бұрын

Aw thank you Diella!

Portuguese, Russian, Spanish & Vietnamese subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

There are only 4 rules to success 1)set a goal 2)never give up 3)dedication 4)honesty 👍👍👍👍👍👍

@si__chouchou_5444

3 жыл бұрын

The most important is do not give up

I am shocked about the process of Personal Growth Challenge. I did not expect a lot of people to quit later on. Keep going on one thing is not easy. The person who has consistency successes!

This video was well needed this morning. I’ve been pressured to go into graduate school and I know I’m not ready. Today I will tell my dad that I just cannot do it at the moment.

Hi Aileen. I just want to say thank you for your videos. As someone who was extremely shy and well nerdy in school, I was bullied often and as a result my self esteem has always been low. I even became a shut in for a few years. I've started to practice self love unconditionally and I've started to feel so much better. It's been an amazing journey though I still have a long way to go. The best thing about yourself is the way you speak in a way that we all can relate to. And I say this, even though I'm not in your target audience (I'm a guy in my early 30s).. Thanks again and continue your good work. You are an inspiration

For me, the most relevant points discussed in this video are: 1.) Giving more importance to internal success rather than external success - I still struggle with it because my goals are often clouded by what I know will impress others. Even sometimes, when I actually make goals for myself and then they impress others, I forget my personal reason why I'm aiming for them. And then I begin to lose consistency. It's like the external validation from others makes me disconnected from my genuine intentions. 2.) Connecting with other people - I love the quote "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." I also struggle with thinking that I can do it all alone. I forget that things are always easier and more meaningful when they are done with other people, especially with those who will surprisingly get you a lot. It's magic when you meet people lof your tribe. So I should avoid closing my doors to everyone.

I cannot thank you enough Aileen 😭 I did the dream life series and I have to say my mind and my heart have opened up so much. I realize everyone has a different version of success, and it's definitely possible to achieve it if I work consistently. Some days are hard when the negative feelings get to you... but we're all still growing and accomplishing things every day!

“you never will be led astray if you follow your inner compass.” yes 💜 thank you Aileen for sharing what you do and helping us connect to the wisdom we carry within. your authenticity and generosity are appreciated so much by myself and many others 💕

I'm reading Atomic Habits currently. It's been great so far. I have been thinking about habits, success and lifestyle for a few days and you made this video. It gave me a lot of clarity. So thank you and always love you❣

Thanks for being so inspiring, this is really good lessons that everyone should hear, let's grow together

I have lavendaire in my life for 4 or 5 years..and everytime i feel tired u r here for me and everyone else to get to our goals...u helped me do everything i wanted...luv u so much❤️

0:38 I really liked it - " There is a difference between knowing the lesson vs living the lesson. " Great quote Aileen :)

"internal success" love that concept

@rudig5698

3 жыл бұрын

Me too😍❤️

@edishehu200

3 жыл бұрын

Me too😄

@beenapillai9598

3 жыл бұрын

Me too❤❤

Omggg I was just rewatching your 23 Habits of Successful People earlier and then you uploaded this. I feel extra motivated now 🥺🥰

Thank you for posting this! Currently getting out of a slump, and this really helps! :D

@corrine.talbot8

3 жыл бұрын

It WILL help. I promise you! 😊🙂

@rudig5698

3 жыл бұрын

I’m proud of you! 🤗❤️

@probablyahuman3488

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

You are one of the channels that I always come back to. Always learn something new or just refresh and get motivated to do what I already know. You're such a delightful gem! Thank you!

Habits i have started:- 1.drinking more water 2. Reading 3. exercising. 4. Journal. 5. Postive self talk 6. good eating habits. 7. Singing (i love singing) Being 15yrs old teenager makes me feel proud of myself to build good habits 😴✌️

These are so true! I've struggled at the beginning of my businesses and career because I thought I had to do it alone as well, but connecting with others has really helped me. I love having a community to support. I love that quote so much! Thank you for sharing this

@lavendaire

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

I love the part about the internal and external success. Doesn't matter how much you have, you have to feel successful and be proud of your achievements or progress. Progress counts too!

Thanks for being a teacher in my life . When ever I feel like I hate myself your videos inspire and motivate me to start loving myself again .... Thanks

Why are you so inspiring?? Loads of love to the lavendaire family 🤗🤗🤗

Aileen I was guided in recently finding your channel so thank you SO much for this video and everything you said is SO true!! You are such a wise young woman!! I'm 57 years old and I'm just realizing what I need to be doing with my life but I'm a firm believer in that *it's never too late to achieve your dreams!!* I recently got into Meditation to stop the noise of the world, and to help me figure out myself and my LIFE!! Looking forward to watching more of your videos and yes, I'm a lifelong Learner always welcoming new things and ideas, LIFE is an everlasting lesson!!💖🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼

I'm just so proud of you. Keep making a difference !

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I'm early toda!, thank you Aileen. This is so timely for me thank you.🙌

Yes, yes, yes!!! The definition of success can be different for each person! A willingness to grow is a having a growth mindset. 🙇‍♀️ From a self love content creator to another- great video Aileen. So informative!! 💗

@rudig5698

3 жыл бұрын

So important! 🤗❤️

@F0reverblessed

3 жыл бұрын

RudiG Indeed!! :))

Hey Aileen ♡ You're one of my favorite youtubers and you've helped me get my life together but recently I've found something called "the new age " movement which includes astrology, law of attraction, tarot cards, meditation, yoga, and things like that and Ive kinda gained and learned about these things from you but I've found that they might be bad and... demonic I don't completly understand why. Since you're so cool and smart, do you mind making a video of your opinion on it? Or at least look into it yourself so you truly know. Ilysm and I love your videos 💕

I started my first job at a gas station deli and all last week I would constantly say to myself, "I hate this, the co-workers are rude, the customers are creepy, and it smells so gross here". I need to stop. I am lucky to even have a job during this pandemic. I am bringing in my own income and my mindset is what really will define the job. I needed this reminder. Thank you So much!

Found your channel a few days ago, subscribed right after watching the first video. You've changed my life in such a wonderful way. You emit vibes that are soooo positive that I feel wonderful right away. Thank you so much

Thank you for spreading the inspiration!! ❤️ You're full of wisdom, beauty and calmness as always. So thankful that I found you

All of this is SO TRUE. And everything you spoke about takes such consistent practice and attention to truly embody. Love it Aileen.

She is such an amazing person..... ive never thought anything about what she talking about success. She is a true inspiration

The top 10 most wanted topics, thank you Aileen❤️

I rlly want to be successful so I don’t waste my life!

@blossombreeze6734

3 жыл бұрын

Heen Ahmed hm, it’s my fear now!

@blossombreeze6734

3 жыл бұрын

Heen Ahmed ur right!

@rudig5698

3 жыл бұрын

👍🏻🤗❤️

This is the best KZread channel I've ever seen. Congratulations! You seriously have all my respect.

You’ve just earned a new enthusiastic subscriber! I’m so ready to not only take the action but actually stay consistent and finish all I set my mind into! Thank you for encouragement.🕉

Thank you for pointing out the difference between external success and internal success! So important and not something many talk about or focus on. I often don’t even use the word “successful” because of so many people’s inability to differentiate the two.

Always such great info! Been watching since 2017 and I never tire of deep diving with you Aileen!!! Please keep doing what you do! You're still helping tons of people like me!

Another super motivating video! Having a clear vision and actually taking the time to build it really is one of the big keys to success! Cheers!

Your voice is like the most peaceful ambient voice. I tune in and start to feel calm ♥️

I loved the content of this video, Aileen! Take Action is the step I resonated with the most. It takes a little bit of courage, but the momentum that first action builds is priceless. ✨

I feel so blessed to have found your channel Lavendaire. My life saver 💕💕💕

You are amazing aileen you always helps us to improve our journey of life , glad I'm part of your community. 😇🥰

"Showing up everyday is a choice." Thank you for so much helpful messages!!

Omgggg i love your hair Aileen🥺 you look really beautiful❤️ I admire you. So empowering!

You are such a beauty in heart and soul. Thank you for always inspiring us. Sending you lots of love and positive vibes 💛

🌼 Download the checklist on my blog: lavendaire.com/12-success-checklist What other video topics do you want to see coming up? Let me know below :)

@chanelamber218

3 жыл бұрын

When you fail and you encounter failure in life how do you stay strong? And like not give up?

@tramvu1042

3 жыл бұрын

I’d love to see content about how to become a good team leader and work with others effectively from you

@helenmehari2297

3 жыл бұрын

How to overcome imposter syndrome

@greenteasoya

3 жыл бұрын

This did not feel like a 20 minute video at all. Thank you so much! I love the points you made and the way you delivered them in a manner that is not condescending.

@letsbethechange1424

3 жыл бұрын

Decluttering house 🏡

I'm early again, I think I'm sticking to my current routine now cause I always sit down on my desk at this hour and her video is up :3

@RAOSAHABMANISH

3 жыл бұрын

Please friends visiting my KZread channel

This video is packed with SO MUCH information. Loved it ❤️ From the list, i'm really bad with my mindsets and all the "you choose your thoughts" thing. It's one of my main goals to get better at it, this year. (coping with anxiety, lately)

Thank you so much for this video! Your channel is so encouraging and helpful! I've _known_ that success is relative, but the way you explained it helped me to truly _understand_ that success is relative, so thank you!

I liked the 'consious stearing' part...it is a new mindset towards negative feedback...keep going Lavendaire....ur sound is calming nd inspiring

Thank you so much Aileen, this was beautiful, and super inspirational! x

You have such great perspective and you’ve really earned everything you’ve worked for. Love this video ☺️💜✨

This is just what i need right now! Thanks for sharing this🧡 love ur positive energy and vibes✨

My favorite channel💖 The way you talk about everything, esp healing, motivating, and success related stuff it's not annoying at all which is I LOVE~××

Internal success is a journey, it's not one single event.

Honestly, thank you for this. Thank you for all of the inspirational and helpful content.

Just what I needed❤️... thanks Aileen for the wonderful video... We can literally watch you talk for hours so we don't mind the long video😁😁

Always timely, I really need this like right now. Most especially, no.1. thanks, lavendaire. Lots of love. ❤️

i love your channel, so inspiring and life changing. 💗 plus, your voice is so calm aaaaahhhh 💛💛 thank you for this!! keep inspiring 🥰

Lots of love Lavi 🥰 for this video. It just came on time for me when I am actually figuring out my life in a career perspective. You literally motivated me as you always do. So lots of love and be safe❤️👍🙏

It's so special for us to have a mentor and guider like you.....😀❤

I’ve been watching your videos for two hours now. I’ve gotten so much done thank you!

You are so amazing. You help me to heal so much from within. Sending much love and positive vibes your way !!!

Hey Lavendaire, thank for this beautiful video this is what I needed 😊 Thank you for being so inspiring. I know for me I am starting something for myself and it's a big leap. I definitely need to keep my mindset strong!

Your are my inspiration and my motivation Aileen. I love watching you for a long time. I used to and I will listen and watch all your videos and podcasts. Love from my deep ❤️. May u have a good future and god bless you Aileen.

Aileen thank you for this video! ♥️ You inspired me to start my own channel on mental clarity and mental health and as you said it's hard especially in the beginning but you just gotta have faith and trust your mission. Thank you for your inspiring videos Aileen! Always top content! 🙏

Just finished my meditation, got notification of your video and I'm here! I guess I got to do more reading from successful people so I can be successful!

I really love your channel❤️ It really helps a lot! Thank you ❤️

My fav youtuber ever, hope i can applicated all of ur content on my real life

perfect timing

Good advice I've learned lately: Play the game, but don't take it too seriously. Sometimes we forget in our daily hustles that life is short, and that life actually is hard. But we don't have to complicate life even further, we just have to do our best each day and trust that our work will get us somewhere 🌻 Lovely video again Aileen 💖

I love you Aileen! Thanks for this ❤️

I love how you have little to no ego! Great video and I’m typically critical of youtubers.

thank you so much for inspiring me to live a happy and healthy life!! ❤️❤️

Hi Lavendaire!You've helped me change for better alot.If not for you,I would've never been able to organise and plan my life.Thank you so much.... Love from Sri Lanka❤

When I started watching your video , I just realized that I got the best KZreadr for motivation Thank you ❤

Thank you Aileen! I kind of fall off the bus every now and then but you always bring it back home. Xx

Listened to this on a drive and was wishing I could take notes. You always deliver! Thank you

The Decision has been my favorite book of the year! I listened to it twice

You channel helped my to change my life ❤️❤️ thank you soo sooo much 😭❤️❤️

This video came at the perfect time. Thank you for sharing

You are such an inspiration for all of us. I personally seen your growth from youtube to podcasts. You deserve everything you have now because you are so humble and generous woman ✨💕

@lavendaire

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love ❤️

Lavandaire is the best person, always inspiring and motivating🤗😇

Thank you so much Aileen🙆🏻‍♀️ love ya💜

So, iam a 9th grade school student and I am trying to be successful at my school🥰🥰🥰Thankyou Aileen for your guidance 💜💜💜😀😀😀

I have watched alot of videos about self improvement but when i found your channel couple of months ago you are my favoriteand i really love this..