how to know when it’s time for a change
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Have you been feeling a need for change? Is it time for a life pivot? Let's chat about how to know when it's time for a change, and how to deal with the fear & uncertainty of change. We're always changing and evolving. The question is, are you going to listen to the subtle clues and flow with that change, or are you going to be stubborn until the universe gets louder and forces change upon you?
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I'd love to film more sit down chats like this. Let me know: What big questions are on your mind? What life topics would you like to explore & ponder with me? 😌
@akman331
4 ай бұрын
I have absolutely loved your videos! Personally I would be very interested in astrology topics!
@akuaron
4 ай бұрын
I totally agree about short form content, mostly drains my energy. Love to see you on youtube, really love also these casual chat videos! Keep following your intuitions and thanks for all the efforts!! ^^
@meenakshi7538
3 ай бұрын
I want those monthly planning videos back
@walk_with_me_23
3 ай бұрын
A discussion about transitions in life.
@155books
3 ай бұрын
I adoreddd this video and it came at a time where I really needed it! Would love to see more of these 💖
you dont even know how many people got a smile on their face because of u.your channel is a therapy and please never stop posting on this channel💗
@lavendaire
4 ай бұрын
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@jordanwebster7337
4 ай бұрын
You nailed it. Lavendaire has changed my life. 🥺💜🫶🏻
@cute_as_mochii9389
4 ай бұрын
What is that emojis means ?@@lavendaire
@ladyelizabeth8735
3 ай бұрын
True! Your videos are so uplifting! Love your soothing voice and sound advice and counsel on life! ❤️✨
@michawalczyk5242
3 ай бұрын
Yeah, grow old together
It's really refreshing not hearing you advocate for overnight change or instant fixes.
I'd love to see a video about taking risks/making changes when financial hardship is a factor. For example, I KNOW my job is not fulfilling me, that it's draining my energy, but I stay because it's paying my bills and has good health insurance so I'm scared to make a change. A video discussing that would be awesome!
@andrea-th5sg
4 ай бұрын
Apply to another position within your company if its large enough or speak with your employer about room to grow into
@melodygardner
3 ай бұрын
The strongest position to be in while job hunting is when you have a job. Make a list of what you want and what you do NOT want. Make that your guide as to what you will want to go for. And like @andrea-th5sg said, if you can find that in your current company, so much the better.
I love how relaxed and authentic this video is. I feel like I’m your friend and you’re just telling me what’s on your mind, and it just happens that it’s also something that I’ve been thinking about lately. 💛💛
@lavendaire
2 ай бұрын
i love that
I needed this video. I have been at the same job for over 8 years and I am so burnt out and need to find something new. This video was just the push I needed. Thanks.
@vinu0023
4 ай бұрын
Same here. Mine is 17 years at same job since 17 years. From past 5 years It sucks. But now realised I need to take action
@lavendaire
4 ай бұрын
Sending you love & support!! 🙏🏼
was feeling so low🥺and you uploaded this❤ you're my online therapist fr🧿
@DebraWilderMeditation
4 ай бұрын
I felt the same
I haven't watched your videos for a long time coz I was busy preparing for th board exam, pursuing my career, moving to a new apartment,etc. I must say, the feeling I have while watching your videos feels HOME. ❤
@lavendaire
3 ай бұрын
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💫… and there are still people that truly value slow paced videos with inspiring sequences of nature beautifully arranged stationary and home interiors and shared wisdom✨✨✨thank You🙏🏻💫
I remember when first I found this channel, I'm totally lost and depressed. I learn to love myself from this channel. I learned to control my emotion and all also from this channel. Aileen, u made such a big impact in my life. I always come back to your channel whenever I'm feeling lost in life. As a first born daughter, you're the big sister i wish i have in my life. Love you Aileen ❤
@lavendaire
4 ай бұрын
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You know how there are some people who have such a positive energy that hanging out with them even for a short while leaves you feeling lighter. Your virtual presence is like that!❤ keeping doing the good work and spreading smiles.
Deep dives…. That is for me. Lavendaire I love this KZread channel. I look for material to listen to while I walk around my home. I leave my journal out on the bar and make notes as I walk by. I resonate strongly with everything you said in this video. I skip by the little short videos… I want to embrace change and I need calm, smooth, educational, heartfelt energy to motivate me. And you provide that. Chopped up, loud, busy info videos feel like an advertisement. I so appreciate your content. And I have been so afraid of making changes and trying new things because I am older. More than 70+ times around the Sun. I have found that change is a constant. Get used to it. Choose what I want to change and move forward in the direction of my best future. 2023 I had breast cancer and a double mastectomy but I’m not ready to stop breathing. This is my next chapter. Who knows if it will be a long or short one. Who cares. Because I have TODAY…. and today is going to be fantastic. Love your contributions to bettering our lives. Thank you Lavendaire. 🎉❤🙏🌟
@lavendaire
3 ай бұрын
thank you so much for sharing 🥺 i appreciate you!
@dothao4003
3 ай бұрын
Hi miss. I really appreciate your sharing, I hope you are healthy enough to fight for your breath. keep going. 💪💪💪
Wow that's exactly where I am, i have a peaceful life and I started thinking about change and it makes quite uncomfortable because I have to leave my stuff. But I trust in the Lord and I ask keep to keep me faithful in him!
Thank you for this video Aileen
@lavendaire
4 ай бұрын
You have a good mindset about it! Sending you love & support 💖💖
@ruviniratnayaka6234
3 ай бұрын
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I am claiming that it is the right time to change. thank you for this. been feeling low these days about where should I bring my current creative career. something within is pushing me to explore new areas. glad that your video popped out. realized a lot. thank you so much. sending you love and light!
I just wanna say and i think i should say this earlier.. your videos and the way you talk and explain different things about life, business and self-care topics have affected me so much and helped me become more aware and able to think differently. The first time i searched for a video about how to heal from trauma i found your channel and since then it was and still my favourite channel. Thank you so much.❤
The way you explain things and your voice,, it is just soothing 💌🎶
listening to this I have just realized how scared I am of following my intuition and not knowing the bigger picture. especially when my intuition tells me the opposite of what my need for control tells me. it‘s so helpful to hear you experience these fears too but changing anyway. I am so so so so so happy you uploaded this videos 😊 the best is: I now have something to come back to whenever fear took over again
@lavendaire
3 ай бұрын
i'm truly happy to read this 💜
I am from India. I started watching your video in 2017 and till now I watch. Its like daily thing for me to play your video and have breakfast, do my chores. Your voice is so soul calming. I love your work because you talk deep and long. I feel there is a significant percentage of population who wants content like yours. Your voice is like a therapy. By all means you start new thing but plz keep posting video. Once in 2 week will also do.
I am so inspired by both the wisdom here and the honesty about where you're at and how you're giving yourself the space to evolve and follow your curiosities. So much respect to you for listening to your inner guidance and showing us the way as you do.
I totally agree with everything you said about short - form content. Tik tok affected my concentration for reals. I deactivated it a while ago to see if things will improve, and yes I've noticed a difference already. I'd love for you to cover topics regarding manifestation and spirituality (such as tarot)
I enjoy the female spiritual talks about your podcast. It's like girls hanging out together. I'm not excluding males but I got that sort of vibe from you recently. Also you travelling (not just new countries)and sharing can be good idea according to me💞
@lavendaire
4 ай бұрын
Aw thank you 🙏🏼
this is the exact style of video I wanna see, just another person with another perspective going through life because I think no one has the answers but if we can just see someone and be like hey they cool thing maybe I can do that too then I think we're on the right path
Yup my entire life up to mid 30s on one path and suddenly I realize it doesn’t fulfill me anymore. It’s time to change paths or integrate it with my previous career in a new way. I needed this reminder, so thank you.
I love your morning affirmations videos!
Loads of love from India 🇮🇳
Thank you for all you do and continued inspiration!
i just got lay off and had a big change this year, i got a new job in the meantime knowing i have other plans in the future. But hearing you say "often life is pushing us to change it's pushing us to evolve. it's like once you thought you knew what you wanted and you go for it and things were going well then life starts guiding you to a new direction." It's just so so true. Love to see your video and i also love the casual ones like these💖
I am going through a change right now and it feels scary. Thanks for this video ❤ And you always deliver the message that the universe wants to convey 😊
I love this! your voice is so calm and soothing❤️
Love this!! Best of luck in this exciting transition time 🙂
Wow, I really needed this. Thank you so much🩶
I appreciate this so much. As a viewer, I prefer the more meaningful content that is naturally longer and gives you something to actually absorb, rather than the quick bullet points that are less memorable, as you mentioned. I'm definitely in a phase of life of following breadcrumbs, so this resonates. 🖤
Thank you for this video, I really needed it❤❤
This video is just want I needed!❤Thank you for sharing.
Omg ,I really needed to hear this today. Thank you for sharing 🎉🙏
❤ thank you for this video it was much needed
I adoreeeee your positive affirmation and manifestation meditations🎉
I would love you to talk about mental health and also maybe do some slow day vlogs .My energy was not resonating with me this month but yeah now I know that I can figure it out. Lots of love!
I needed to hear this thank you ! After finding out i have to move out of my dream nyc apartment im trying to accept that the universe is challenging me to grow and somewhere somehow theres something better out there for me
@MagicalMindsByAmra
Ай бұрын
"Some changes look negative on the surface, but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge" [Eckhart Tolle] 🙏🥰
This is a sign for a change ❤ love you
So lovely❤keep shinning everyone♡
Thanks so much for this truly needed. 💗 Yes please 🙏🏽 more videos about your journey and economics 😁
being able to recognize that you need change is the first step. you are doing the right thing. and the short videos like tiktoks and stuff aren't really good for us.
Thanks for this video. This was a reminder of my theme year 2024. I really like the videos about routines to improve, journal, and reflect on life in general.
Your contribution is inspiring n motivating in great way💐
This video is so helpful. Thank you❤ Please continue to share such ‘deep dive’ videos. Much love❤
thank you so much for this video and for sharing your thoughts with us ✨ can't explain how well the timing of this video was! it was so calming and I definitely needed to hear this 🤍
thank you so so souch. your videos are like lovely big sweater and a fresh breathe at the same time. i'm so grateful to you, aileen
Thank you so much Lavendaire🩶🎇
Your videos helped me a lot. I come back to look at old videos sometimes. 😊 good luck with your change this year!!
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us all. This was exactly what I needed to hear today and is helping give me clarity ❤
Thank you for uploading just right on time. I really love watching your vlogs. Fan since 2021. ❤🎉 love you!
I definitely needed these reminders right now! I appreciate your vulnerability & your helpfulness with these important topics. I have been questioning things on my own path. Thank you! ☁️🤩☁️
Love all the videos of yours, so healing. It's like you know and understand all the fear in my life, love you. If you have a podcast I will listen to your voice everyday❤
I love you❤❤❤, I appreciate all of your videos, they always help me when I am stressed or don't know what to do, thank you so much
You are doing great. Thank you very much Aileen .It is a great n wonderful way you help people across the globe 🙏🏻🍫
I needed this video so much! I could watch and listen to this over and over again. Nothing like a sit down and heart to heart talk. Totally agree about the quality of short form videos in tiktok nowadays. You are so brave for voicing it out and it made me feel less alone. You are such a light to this world Aileen thank you.
this video helped more than you know, ive been in a spiral over pushing myself to accept and get comfortable with change but hearing this helped me feel okay with and so much more grounded. thank you
You have no idea how much you helped me! Please never stop posting 😯 I love you ♥️ Your fan from Morocco 🤗
I feel better every day because of your videos. Thank you! much love from PH :)
You don't know how timely this is, Aileen. Thank you for making this video. 🥺
Thank you for sharing your thoughts & perspectives on change. I am doing my monthly recap and this was really refreshing, especially because I am starting my Saturn return next month so change is coming! 🙈
Firstly I was so excited when I saw you made a video as it's been ages since watching KZread but secondly, thank you! This video came at the right time of need and has helped me regain that bit of motivation and clarity that I have been seeking
thanks a lot! hope u have a good day, love 🫶🏻
Thank you so much for videos ❤ I have no words to say but thanks .... u helped me alot 🥺
Ur videos r answers of all my doubted questions. Thanks a lot for making these videos😊❤
I've been feeling like this, so this is timely. 😊
This video warms my heart, can watch this kind of content all day 🤩
It feels great to grow with you in this channel. As you keep the things that you value but adapt to change it feels like natural growth. Thank you!! ❤
This resonates with me so much, absolutely love your content and I'm exactly the same kind of person..I love deep, slow, steady, sustainable
Gosh I am so glad you said it, because I really didn’t want to keep up with these social media trends etc I feel like I belong in long form and the short form just makes me feel so drained like I want people to be less quick but I almost feel like it’s my excuse to be lazy about things but now that I hear you feeling the same I don’t feel so terrible about it!
Continue with your videos, however long your community will watch and cherish... So true about shorts and all that is too short to enjoy... Btw love your friday posts too.. Thank you Dear Aileen for all your efforts❤❤❤❤
I’ve been following you for years ❤ and I love everything you do, you inspire! I understand what you told about quick content and I don’t like it too! Please share your thoughts on anything, everything you talk about is interesting 😍
You make me fall in love with life again and that everything is possible ❤ Sending you lots of light and love. Thank you for creating inspirational content it always feels great watching you whenever I need to have some mindful company other than my friends...❤❤
You’re highly intelligent, insightful & intuitive; that’s why the new ultra fast/short versions of social media don’t resonate with you. You also want to help enable true positive change and that will never happen in a short or mini video. Follow your path wherever it may lead because people of all ages need mentors like you 🌸🌟.
I love you so much ❤ These videos have brought a calmness and positive outlook to my life that I wouldn’t otherwise have. I’ve been escaping abuse. Getting out is genuinely so much harder than I expected. But I’m going to be okay. Thanks for being a calming, positive person I can count on to just ground me. I appreciate you so much ❤
This was like a conversation with a friend. I like how casual, chill but deep this video is.
Thank you 🤍🤍🤍🥺
Thanks to you my life feels more alive than ever❤ always grateful to your channel.
Wow! You're such an articulate young lady! You describe how one feels very well!
I feel that it's time for a change for me too, thanks for your video
I LOVE THIS TYPE OF VIDEO AILEEN ❤ i actually watched the whole 19 minutes. Love ur vibe . Calming, introspective, kind. LOVE YOU❤
Love this video the topic is really fir this very moment of mine. I also enjoyed this chill vibe sharing video.
Thank you for this video. Watching this made me feel like I am not alone - especially when you talked about the new type of content creation.
i resonated a lot almost same with even details ☺ You allow to do changes 🎀
Dear Lavendaire, I’m totaly your side on this! I also don’t feel energized while listening to those short/ not deep videos. We adore your content and keep doing the great work without any pressure🙏🏻❤️
I'm excited to see your channel evolving with you!! I think an interesting topic/video idea would be like day in the life videos? Or moments where you bring us along and just chat about life? Anyways, love you! Thanks for all the hard work you put into these videos ❤
This video gives me energy. Thankyouu Aileen for sharing this!!
@lavendaire
4 ай бұрын
thank you ✨✨
Like this chatting Video so inspiring and and give me the clue for my next step, thank you❤
Regarding the new trends of short videos, I personnaly like to watch your videos on youtube. I learn through your videos but it feels good, not fast paced with maybe half informations. So I wouls say that now it is a power to don't fall into this. Thank you for your work !
@lavendaire
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Your videos helped a lot in believing in self ,living a dream life and to stay in my present job..thank you ❤
Friend, you're awesome! Follow what you need, We'll be here for you Please continue flowing with your energy as the beautiful being you are. We love you! Blessed be ❤
Your videos and tips saved my life. , And you are an authentic influencer in people's life 🌱❤
I love that! ❤As an artist, I also realized that I did not want to make short form content to create my community because I feel drained myself watching them😂. I had this idea of coming back to create a magazine subscription where I would put all the inspiration I would usually put on media in a form that is physical and feels exciting to receive by mail. ✨🌙
Thank you for this video it feels like you're talking to me and giving me a motivation to do something im afraid of which is CHANGE 😭 I have social anxiety disorder for 20 years even going out side of the house is a big challenge to me😭
I am part of that slow community- staying off of social media. I’ve been writing and reading books. I completely agree with you and there has to be more of us out there ❤❤❤❤
@lavendaire
3 ай бұрын
wow writing books that's amazing! so happy for you💝
i feel so much love and gratitude for you and this channel 💗
@lavendaire
3 ай бұрын
i feel so much love and gratitude for you too 💜
I couldn't agree with you more on everything you touched on.
May God recompense you for all the good you do. You have gifted me with new words of inspiration. I hug my "Artist of Life" book. Thank you for your courage and your story! I 💜 you!