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For me, I stopped trying to find ”my passion and purpose” and embraced the idea that my purpose is to live in the present moment with whatever I do. So if I’m at dinner with my son, my purpose is to eat with my son and be his mother in that moment. If I’m working on an important project at work, my purpose is to be focused and try my best to get it done in that moment. I have multiple purposes and it makes life so much easier.

@lavendaire

Жыл бұрын

love that

@MoratweMasima

Жыл бұрын

This is amazing ❤

@lamyaelhakouni1887

Жыл бұрын

A love that

@libragem

Жыл бұрын

Most likely nobody has just one purpose or role. And relationships are important, especially a parent-child one when you have a huge influence on a minor's life! Legally, a child could "divorce" their parent from a certain age (at least in the US), and parents could abandon children. But even when children are old enough to choose their own lives, from what I've seen, they never really forget their parents (or if they never met a parent, the fact that their parents must've existed at some point in time). In my opinion it takes up a substantial portion of their psyche. So thank you for being present for your child 🥺 To all parents, teachers etc taking care of younger ones, let's not blame ourselves for every little imperfection. Those of us who decided not to play a role as (pseudo) parents, you're still connected to others. We all have connections, and we all matter to each other (my personal belief).

@charlimarie3047

Жыл бұрын

i think my why is very similar to yours. i hate working a full time job in restaurants, it isn’t fulfilling in any way and i feel like it is just takes up all of my time. i already know an office job wouldn’t be any better. it took me so long to realize i don’t have to have any crazy talents in order to be successful. i learned i can use my simple hobby (houseplants;) as a CAREER. i want to travel the world and i simply can’t waste any more time working for others, so restricted in so many ways. right now i am still working in a restaurant until i make more profit from my business

I saw something on Pintrest and it said, "I don't think your life has to have a purpose, or you a grand ambition; I think its okay to just wander through life finding interesting things until you die." and honestly it hits.

@esem3511

Жыл бұрын

I saw this to and now I stick to this. I think if there is a purpose, it will come to us.

I manifested this video. I literally this morning decided to take a break from social media and find out who I am because I'm always looking at what others are doing, I've become lost. Like many others I should imagine. ❤️

@annakononova888

Жыл бұрын

Lol I had the same thoughts yesterday evening 🙈🙈🙈

@johnsonjo8454

Жыл бұрын

Jiffner hi 💋

@harmanminhas3587

Жыл бұрын

WTF same

@meaow248

Жыл бұрын

I MANIFESTED THIS VIDEO !!!!!!!!!!!!

@moonta9190

Жыл бұрын

Same

As a 20-year-old girl, I want to pursue the activities that bring me joy. I want to go with joy. Living joyfully is what I consider to be successful in life. That's why, even though I'm battling uncertainty, I always grin at myself in front of the mirror every time I get up in the morning. Early in the morning, I have a habit of telling myself things like, "I'm glad to see dawn." That means I have the chance to attempt. Anyway , I admire you a lot.❤❤❤

we're all a bit lost, aren't we? Thank you for the kind reminder to keep looking inward and asking those crucial questions

@David_Robert_1

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋 How are you doing?

Thank you so much for mentioning that FAMILY can be you why & your purpose! Everyone is so career and money driven. It uplifted me to hear you say that it’s fine & great for family to be a priority over money. After 15 years in corporate banking - I quit to stay home and work a remote job part time. I’ve never been happier. Yes we had to give up some luxuries- less shopping and eating out etc (strict budgeting). but it’s sooo worth it 💝. You provided some needed validation 🙏🏽

@lavendaire

Жыл бұрын

yes! that's beautiful that you know what you value 💜 bc everything feels worth it when you prioritize what you care about most

OK I know I'm a little late but I have to say this You ACTUALLY changed my life I was in the most depressing mood I used to hate myself and I had no purpose in life no physical energy to do anything During this time (that I watch your videos) i love MYSELF I study more I do more and my life is meaningful I learned to do not care what others think and now I'm at a point where I'm proud of myself and I'm doing my best to get better It's all because of YOU You're my HERO 💜🌻

@lavendaire

Жыл бұрын

Wow that’s amazing 💗 happy for you!!

As a 30 year old, I never thought I'd still have to be looking for my purpose/life path. But this is exactly how I've been feeling lately! I hit all the marks of what I expected my life to be when I was in my 20s. I now live in a different country and my whole world got flipped where I'm basically starting over again, navigating a new cultures/language and I don't know where to even begin! I feel like I lost my self/sense of purpose while trying to integrate.

@kimayaz_writes

Жыл бұрын

Don't worry you will get what u r destined for ur calling will find you just pe patient

@simsim876

Жыл бұрын

So brave you can do anything you put your mind too :) x

@taynaracarvalho4896

Жыл бұрын

You can do it girl What language you're learning?

@agnieszkar4040

Жыл бұрын

I'm 38 years old and still feel that I'm stuck. I still didn't achieve anything. So don't worry you have time!

@AllisonBorden

Жыл бұрын

@@taynaracarvalho4896 German 😵‍💫 It's a tough language haha

I'm learning English with my sister, but the main purpose of watching your videos is not only just improve our listening, but also to change our lifestyle and being fulfillment in our life (Of course, it is due to you) Keep giving us useful advice, we love you🥰🥰🥰

@David_Robert_1

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋 How are you doing?

Thank you for this video Aileen! 💕 I’m 26, 27 in few months and I feel so lost in life, I know what I want but it’s been a struggle, I feel like I’ve wasted my 20’s trying to “fit in” and dreaming of a good life rather than take action! I guess it’s a journey and only now I’m learning about myself and what I really want ❤

@thatswhatisaid8908

Жыл бұрын

Most of us spend our 20s learning, experiencing, and making mistakes. It sounds to me like you are in a great place to start working toward what you want. And even if you feel like you aren't, you still have plenty of time. Good luck!

Hello Aileen! I use the lined pages in your Artist of Life Workbook for: 1. Book list (Books I've read last year, and current year) 2. Wishlist (Things I want to buy, or will reward myself with if I achieve my goals) 3. Good Investments (New things I have bought that were good investments and/or use often) 4. Favorite Quotes (any new quotes I read/hear that impacts my mindset) 5. Things I've learned about myself (for building self-awareness) 6. Hacks/Tip (any new info/tricks I learn for each category: Fitness, Health (sleep, diet), Chores, Budgeting, Personal growth, etc...) 7. Deaths (people who have died that year...I know that's morbid, but I like to keep records of that) I have used one of the dotted pages for a Period tracker, and a period review (to describe what each menstrual cycle was like and all of the symptoms I felt, to compare each cycle and find patterns) Have you ever thought of adding a "NEEDS" category to your weekly journal so people can list all of the things they "need" for the week like grocery or supplies? I add it to mines to make sure I buy things I ACTUALLY need instead of want. It helps me stick to the budget...I also add a food diary, and health section (in a daily journal) to track what I eat to see if any foods may be causing any ailments I feel....just throwing ideas out there 🙂

@sabrinahy0324

Жыл бұрын

Hello Daniella!👋🏻 I think your ideas are great! You should design your own workbook

@lavendaire

Жыл бұрын

nice!! wow thanks for sharing

@inhabitantofearth

Жыл бұрын

@@sabrinahy0324 Maybe one day 🙂

@harryetbuyani4011

Жыл бұрын

This is so insightful. Thanks so much❤️

I think a lot of us put so much pressure on finding our purpose or meaning in life and seeking others to help us to organize or structure our own lives…when we can flow in acceptance and in mindfulness with gratitude. I believe life has its moments but it’s lessons behind them. I stopped dreaming so much because I only disappointed myself. I tried being creative but lived the harsh reality of it financially and career-wise too so I now realize it’s better to be safe than sorry. I’m sad and depressed but financial independence and stability is all now that I dream of.

*I love that you gave us permission to change our why as we grow and evolve :-) that's really important! we don't stay stagnant as evolving human beings, and neither should our goals.*

Im in my early 30s and still don't know what I want in life and what I want to prioritize in life but I want to be financially free, get my own car, travel like 3-4x a year and be with my parents since they are in their senior but the process of getting those goals is kind of terrifying to me. thank you for this video! Thanks for the validation that our "whys" can change.

@thatswhatisaid8908

Жыл бұрын

Our goals and even our values can change, as well as our why's. You're ambitions are sensible, moderate and totally achievable! But remember, nothing happens overnight. Just keep working towards what you want.

My why is travel. Travel excites me. Yes I work to pay bills but long term I want the freedom to just pick up and go. I’ve always wanted to go to Europe so I planned a European cruise for next year and I’m so happy. That’s my motivation now.

I love the way you think. Very inspirational, ty for sharing this and who you are! 🙏🏼✨

I also want to note that your MBTI / personality may change over time as you're living it and getting clearer on who you are & want to be. That's, like you said, the beauty of change. In my early 20s, I was an ENFP, in my mid to late 20s I was an ENFJ, and now I'm an INFJ. Just because I'm more introverted now it doesn't mean I'm anxious or shy. Introversion has very little to do with anxiety, being quiet, or shy. It really comes down to your values. Introverted is more so I value my alone time. I love doing things alone. I have a safe space. I need alone time to recharge. I love being alone it's not lonely, it's comforting. I was terribly shy, timid, and quiet at a teen, and I didn't want to be that way. I consciously changed so I can be more open and able to speak, have confidence, etc which led me to eventually be extroverted. I valued that for a period of time, but now I can take a step back because now I have different values thanks to growth. Now I value having a small circle of friends and my alone time, etc.

@lavendaire

Жыл бұрын

that makes sense! i also think it's growth when you learn to balance out and understand what doesn't come natural to you-like an introvert learning to be more extroverted, or extroverted learning to embrace introversion with age.

@thatswhatisaid8908

Жыл бұрын

Well done, to understand that so young!

I feel many positive energy and loving energy from you ❤️ Thank you so much 💜

Thank you so much for this video😊❤️ I am so grateful for I came across your channel.. thank you so much for the amount of positivity and clarity you bring to my life❤️ Thank you❤️✨

A fan of your channel since 10 years ago (or more) I even can’t remember how many years I have been watching your videos and was inspired, was healed, had been taught by you. Thank you so much Aileen 🥰 love from Vietnam. May you be happy, may you be healthy, may you be at peace ❤.

Your videos are my escape place where i feel not only inspired and motivated but I also feel your warmth and love direct from your heart 🤗❤ I hope that you know that you are so worthy of everything good, you mean alot for all of us laviloves 😘

my why is to find joy in the present moment. that doesn't mean i don't have goals or dreams. that just mean i don't wanna spend this moment worrying or feeling anxious about life. life is already happening. right here. right now. 🖤 loved the video!

You’re always on point! Thank you so much for this!🤍✨

Thanks Aileen!!! ❤️❤️The impact that you make in my life is huge. Not only i have learned from my mistakes but all the breakdowns you have gone through and shared all the ups and downs and yet finding and giving life it's meaning and purpose. I'm so glad you have came so far lovely! Thanks for inspiring ❤️🙏

Thanks Aileen, I'm so blessed for finding ur channel. it really boost my mood & passion. ♥ God bless 😊

Thank you so much for making this video

Thank you for this video! It's nice to know that I'm not alone in this way of thinking. My friends and family doesn't quite understand it, but I know that if I don't do it now, I'll have to do it later anyways. I've been struggling with clarifying exactly what I am to do and am grateful to have come across your video and tips. Much love and blessings to you! 💕

Loved these points . I am at that place where i am doing what i love. But sometimes you wander off and you need guidance that you are doing right. Thank you for this video . Really needed to hear this 💜💜

hi Lavendair. I have watch your youtube since 5 years ago and i like you so much. Really impressed with your life,your mindset and your video. today i bought your artist work book and felt really excited and inspired . Thank you for your vlog. if i got a chance to America, i really hope could meet you one day~

Thank you Lavendaire, for always inspire mee ❤❤💖✨

Thank you so much for this video! I've been way too focused on the How and not letting the universe lead the way, leaning back and trusting that everything happens in divine timing, and I get to take aligned action - but it can only be aligned if I'm clear on the Why! Thank you thank you for this reminder 💖

I always find what I came for in your videos thank you ♥️

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This is such a powerful message and also a great video, Aileen, thank u so much🥰😍❤

I love your content, but your voice is also so calming and charming. I love to listen to your video's like podcasts cause your voice is so calming

You literally have the best timing. I'm starting out trying to actually love and nurture myself and your channel is quite literally saving me right now. This was the next step for me and of course you gift me with another video specifically on what I need. Thank you so much for saving my life.

I really wanted a new video from you and I knew it would be a good one! Thankyou so much, this is the video I needed!

I really like how you brought up that some people prefer service over money! ❤ So many KZreadrs talk about getting “richer” in money and honestly to me that is not very important; so it’s refreshing to listen to people that talk about things that truly matter in life which is family and service.

@lavendaire

Жыл бұрын

yes :) it's all about values & everyone is entitled to their own values. it's okay and beautiful that we want different things.

I was needing this video. Thank you! 🤍

Perfect timing for me!!! Thank I you

This video. Lately I've been really thinking about changing A LOT because I don't like where I am currently in life and I don't know who this person is in the mirror and I've been letting my emotions take over more than I'd like so my why right now is finding me. I also want to journal more so I may end up getting one of the Artist of Life journals soon. Thank you for doing what you do! I need to watch your channel more because it helps! 😊

I have a chronic illness (autoimmune) and I have such a hard time thinking up a dreamlife without thinking of "Oh, but I can't do that because of my problem." Anyone been through something similar? I'd love to hear tips on how to defeat this mindset. ☹️

@libragem

4 ай бұрын

Maybe not similar, but I went through cancer, surgery, treatments in 2017 (treatments ended 2018). What helped me through my physical challenges were .. the loving relationships I had with people close to me. Focusing on what you do have that you love is what I recommend (even something superficial, like your face, hands, feet, nails, idk, purse or fancy house keys? to your talents, inner strengths, knowledge, artistic sense, interests.. really anything) 🥰 To not get dragged down by negative self talk, it might help to remind yourself of the small "wins" you've had till now, as a Lavendaire video suggested (years ago.. I'll go look it up and try to edit this). Please be proud of having dealt with a medical challenge and having persevered till now, and your desire to make your life and everything connected to it better and happier! (Now I'm remembering how one shot gave me nausea for 2 weeks and headaches for 30 days straight😵) I hope someone with a condition or past experience similar to yours will find your comment and reply 🤍🍵

This video is super necessary for the phase I’m currently in in my life. I’m a university student and I love what I’m studying but I fear that I’m studying just to do study. But I love to do what I’m doing right now, so these practices really help me build my path to a clear present and a bright future 😊

Very well summarized what is it that can drive you! For me personally - the purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience, to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, and last but not least to help others. Great video Aileen!

I’ve been watching your videos since 2018 and I’m about to get my third artist of life workbook !!! I’m 22 now and I’m so grateful that I have someone like you to get inspiration and make my 20s more fulfilling 💓

@lavendaire

Жыл бұрын

that's amazing!! it's so beautiful that you get to start young 😘

My WHY is helping people its so good to hear someone saying thank you with a smile on there face it kinda gives me peace i feel like this is my purpose and this gives me joy but as a teenager that purpose can change but i really hope if that should happened i feel the same joy thank you for helping me discover my purpose💕💕💕💕

Perfect timing with my personal musings 💛🌿

I will use this as a guide the next time I write on my journal. I don't have a why atm because there's more reason for me to disappear than to find my purpose. Thank you for giving me reason to keep on moving forward.

I feel like we are the same. I resigned from my 9-6 job because I want to change my life. I don't want my day to be controlled by my job. I want to do what I want to do which is also anything creative. I want to be free and to enjoy my work, a work that I really care about. But sadly, it's hard to start if all you have is passion. It feels like I'm about to go back to the routinary life cause it's easier than to start fresh. I hope I can be motivated to take risks.

Thank you for this! 🥺

My why has been a constant! I will be creative, and all my endeavors will be the result of open-ended questions. I never stop wondering what’s next. Life is FUN❤

Your videos are my motivation 🫶🏽 thank you!

Thank you so much for this video! It really inspired me! ❤

Dearest Aileen, I relate so much. I also don't like the fact that I'm being limited to a location and time for a work that doesn't really excite me... I have a LOT of ambition, and I have faith that if I stay on this lovely path of light and progress and self development that you very much helped me build, then I can achieve everything my heart desires ♥

Yes inner peace and joy is what we should aim for at this point in time. Success esp work-related is important but of course comes with its own level of stress and can bring temporary happiness only.

I feel like everyone has very similar whys, freedom, joy/happiness/fufillment/ lack of sufffering and inner peace(Later on after you have achieved the first 2). Thx alot for this video, keep up the amazing work c:

Really needed this ❤️❤️❤️

hi aileen

Your channel is gem 💎

Needed needed needed this right now! Thank you🥰

I am excited. I filled out the artist of life 2022...some things were wild card ideas that came through. Some I will try to do this year. I ended up ordering also the daily planner....card deck...planning pads and 5 min journal and I'm using it all for my wedding vow renewal planning. Looking forward to planning

This video gives me so much motivation to get my life back on track 😊

Thank you for this ✨

that color looks amazing on you, i also really like the farbric! also thanks for this inspiring video🌸✨️

Thank you so much sis, you are so pretty.. God Bless you always.❤ U...

Honestly, the channel I like to watch the most is LAVENDAIRE. You make creative content that helps our mental as well as physical health. I love that, love your voice too.

Love this video. Thank you!❣️

Hola hermosa, gracias por tus consejos, te escucho desde 2020 en medio de una crisis existencial y quiero darte las gracias porque tus mensajes me motivan y animan a ser mejor el día de hoy. Un abrazo 🙌😘

Thank you✨keep it up I love you 💕

I love that you included that everyone's path is different, and that some of us have to sacrifice (for now) a 9-5 until we can finally do what we want for financial freedom. I'm currently trying to get my finances in order to gain financial freedom. I recently purchased your 2023 artist of life book (5th year for me) . would love to see the planner change in the future as it seems to stay the same every year...maybe adding a mini-astrology themes for the year that you put out the planner for would be nice to see as to orientate our year (when filling out the planner) to what the astro-themes are for the upcoming months.

Love everything about this Thank you! I was like OMG everything your saying is what I want, YOU just made my life easier lol Thank you TWINSIE ❤

Absolutely on your page in terms of FREEDOM! I left my corporate job end of August 2022, after working for the past 2 years towards my Project Freedom! I cannot explain the PEACE I am experiencing now and now I am going to fight to retain that freedom and mental peace. Like always love your content and you are such an inspiration. Sending you lots of love❤.

Every time I watch your videos, I always get motivation from you.Thank you 😘😘.By the way, I am an English learner so I often watch your videos because your English sound is clear in addition I mostly understand all of your words. Therefor, I really wanna say that thank you and love you💛💛💛

Thank you, Aileen. You inspire me to make that change. I'm turning 48 and feeling old enough. I decided not to wait till I retire or turn 50 to get what I want out of life. I did get lost because of ambition. Now, I realize that my ultimate Why is my family. I want to be available for them without work interfering. Thank you so much for this advice. You have so much wisdom to share.

Thank you so much for this video, I needed this today ❤️ feeling overwhelmed and discouraged lately so this will help me get back on my feet. I find creativity very valuable for me, and want to do something i love for a living. I am currently working on growing my KZread channel centered around my art and writing journey. I am editing my standalone novel now and planning for it to be published in early 2023.

You have no idea how thankful I am for your videos, Aileen! ♥️ I have a job and I'm thankful for it but deep inside I know that it doesn't give me sense of fulfillment. Just thinking that I have to do it until I get older makes me feel sad and unsatisfied already. I can't quit tho because I need to earn and I just don't know yet what is it exactly that I want to do or what I'm good at. When I was younger, I've always been good at and drawn to arts and music but as I got older and got busy in univ (to pursue my dream back then and my career now), I feel like my talents back then went down the drain. Now I feel like I've stressed over and wasted my energy when I was younger in pursuing this career that doesn't even make me happy now.

Your voice is soo healing 💜💜

Thank you for your video ~ I think we have the same values I knew it before intuitively but today you helped me to verbalize it ☺️🥰

Thanks for sharing, My family is my why for getting up every day and doing my best. Thanks for the amazing content. Looking forward to new videos.

I always put the "why" behind my actions. It helps me feel like I'm in control of my life and destiny. If there isn't a clear goal behind it, it's not for me. Why am I prioritizing my physical, mental, and spiritual health? So I can enjoy the best that this life can offer with minimal worry and fear. Why am I choosing to eat well and exercise? To support this goal to the best of my ability. Why do I need a proper sleep schedule? To support my brain and to support this goal. Why am I exercising? Again...to support this goal. Who am I doing it for? For me and the people I love. When I am at my best, others benefit too. We're all worth it. I want to live in a world where everyone's light is on, and it starts with me doing my part and turning mine on. We think so so similarly, it's crazy. Peace and love.🦋

Artist, cafe, making KZread videos, making music, dance, travel, art teacher, sketchbook always in hand, affirmations, inspiration,

Found your videos accidentally and now i am watching all. Omg !!!! So aesthetic house you have . I wish i could have this same

Hello my love 😊 love that opening. So I am a 50+ year old woman and I stumbled upon your videos while searching for affirmations. I am so glad I found you! I am always feeling like there has to be more than my corporate job, yet I don’t know what that means nor how to get there. While I’ve always made a good salary raising 3 kids as a single mom, I don’t have a college degree and always felt unseen or not good enough / smart enough because of that. I guess I wanted to just reach out to thank you for sharing your journey and that one is never too old to learn from the younger crowd that create such amazing content!! I’m going to start the planning process based on your suggestions. 🙏💕 thank you!

This is so inspiring and timely to me. I was always about “okay, what’s my purpose in life? What am I supposed to do?” And I think that’s normal for someone in her early 20’s. I am slowly but surely figuring things out like what I want and need. I used to not know what I want because I always focused on what I don’t know even though I always try new things.

Just want to say, "Thank you!"

Thank you for being such an inspiration :)

Oh my God.... i've been overthinking about my life career... I am a home baker, I love it so much, but people around me keep on persuading me to get a 9-5 job instead... but being someone creative and so much like you (all the things u prioritize somehow are EXACTLY the same as mine) after watching this, i'm convinced! Home baking is my path. Thank you so much for this video ! Much love from indonesia

Aww,you are looking so pretty💜

Happy belated birthday Aileen , I know I am late but I was on a social media detox since the past few days

1.my personal why 1. I want to do that that make me happy 2.i want to do some meaningful things 3. My time freedom , location freedom ,creative freedom financial freedom

To you video so inspiring for me ❤️

Freedom of fields ( exploring career with different posts) Respect Discipline are my why's of my lifepath .

Long-term goals nd focus on your life. ✌️

Y'all she is better than therapy .....✨ Tysm for the vid 😇💫

Thank you for creating this very inspiring & insightful video ! !

@johngomes8874

Жыл бұрын

Merry Christmas 🎄 lovely Aileen !

Thank you Aileen

Way back 2020, it is really my dream to live simply and help people. Away from city and other earthly things. Just this evening after watching your video, I realized I am living my dream right now (2022). I am currently in a convent aspiring to be an O.carm Sister (religious sister) which focuses on Prayer, Solitude and contemplation, and attending to the needs of the community. I AM ALWAYS IN DOUBT IF THIS IS REALLY FOR ME BUT TODAY I'VE KNOWN MY PURPOSE. THANK YOU SO MUCH! 💞

thank you so much for your motavition videos the are so motavited me and to learn english with you>love you

I wish I had learned this when I was younger. I know it’s never too late but so much time has passed. I’m late but I can do this