My life would be perfect if I didn't get nervous talking to people

@DavinderSingh-bq8tq

3 жыл бұрын

Me too bro

@juliasvetlana3289

2 жыл бұрын

Oh yes my social anxiety …feel you..

@babypink6893

2 жыл бұрын

That’s exactly why i watched this vid 🤦🏼‍♀️

@leila1705

2 жыл бұрын

Same. I begin my Sophomore year at a new school in 15 days. Kinda nervous.

@haitembutheopo1199

2 жыл бұрын

Am with you, am always nervous☹️

Thank you so much for this opportunity! xx

@ceejay8046

5 жыл бұрын

You were wonderful. I'm going to start on the steps now!

@teliciada

5 жыл бұрын

👑👑👑

@gataylor100

5 жыл бұрын

👑👑👑

@whitneygordon6055

5 жыл бұрын

CeCe Olisa this was amazing! Thank you!

@Girlforaction

5 жыл бұрын

Very powerful. Thank you.

"Dont wait on your weight to live the life you want"! That pulled me right in & she's right, if you can begin to build your confidence while not being where you wanna be just yet, then just imagine when you get there!!

@MalloryMay

4 жыл бұрын

Such a POWERFUL statement!

@Mcberth-

8 ай бұрын

❤

@sammi2918

3 ай бұрын

Tell me about it!!!!

For me it's 1.Exercise ( more is better but also little is better than nothing) 2.Meditate once a day(for me at least 3 min) 3. At the end of the day write what you are thankful for 4. Write down your fears and when they occur and why you think they do 5. Go outside often 6.socialise 7.Only believe the profecies that empower you 8. Do what you are afraid of on a regular basis.

@CS-os7ks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

@alexgallion8112

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing

Not sure how to apply these steps to me or if my issue is a perceived obstacle. I just want to be more confident in general. I visualize myself being free of my mind and overthinking so I can be open, friendly, confident and not care what others think. I want to be able to be funny, kind and outspoken to all people I meet. Instead of limiting myself based on how I imagine others perceptions of me. And also not let others comments impact me

@hopefulk3563

2 жыл бұрын

^^^ This is exactly what I’m going through and what I want.

@beetrix312

2 жыл бұрын

me too tho, i know u posted this a year ago so if you’ve grown or anything…tips?

@paulpasadena

2 жыл бұрын

Hmmm... where is a good place to find videos that can help you with your confidence and social skills? If only there was a site with free videos where you could get information like "How to overcome anxiety" "How to have great conversations" "How to build your confidence" "How to overcome approach anxiety" "How to ask better questions" "How to learn to dicipher body language" "How to quickly build rapport". If only there was a free video site like that on the web, then you'd have your problem licked in no time!

@radhasurya9403

2 жыл бұрын

I (used to ) have the same problem write down what you want Meditate or hypnosis (i fear recommending but this worked for me ) and visualise ( there are videos available on youtube you can use them) gain more knowledge about the pain you suffer see yourself grow.. must be consistent

@nourghalab4547

2 жыл бұрын

@@radhasurya9403 hey can you tell me where can I find this videos at?

When she said..." scale before soul" , " looking good before feeling good" that really touched me. It is so sad how we tend to focus on what is expected of us than what we really want.

The line in the beginning “don’t wait on your weight to live the life you want” instantly blew me out of the water, that’s exactly why I haven’t put myself out there and do all the things I dream of. This will be the phrase I tell myself everyday until I stop seeing my weight as a indicator of my worth.

@shr3970

Жыл бұрын

a channel named glowersity also has really good confidence tips

@emilyellisrichards9144

9 ай бұрын

Same for me

My life would be perfect if.... Step 1 Identify your perceived obstacle Step 2 Imagine what your life would look like if your perceived obstacle disappeared Step 3 Address your perceived obstacle Step 4 Choose to live the life you imagined today This is priceless, CeCe. Thank you!

One of the most beautiful people I’ve ever seen

@YOURS-NURSELY

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much... quite inspiring... starting my journey immediately

@n0nshelant444

3 жыл бұрын

Isn't she ?!?!?!?!?

kelly rowland

@DrMocha87

5 жыл бұрын

i thought so too!!

@serafinaobi

5 жыл бұрын

@@DrMocha87 THANK YOU.

@Injoytravel

5 жыл бұрын

Me too!!! As soon as I saw her I thought she looks so much like Kelly!! Beautiful and excellent presentation!!!!

@tiffanybritt163

5 жыл бұрын

For sure. She also reminds me of Gladys Knight. Beautiful spirit.

@amymooney9248

5 жыл бұрын

stainthegemini FIRST THOUGHT!!!!!!!!!!!

My life would be perfect if I didn’t compare myself to others girls online

@macypwilliams

2 жыл бұрын

Hi! I also used to really struggle with this and I wanted to share what helped me. Everytime I caught my self comparing I would say one of these two (whichever applied): 1. Another girls beauty is not at the expense of my own. 2. Another person success is not at the expense of my own. Repeat it to yourself when you firm yourself comparing. Start to see other women as beautiful individuals not competition.

@coachphil52

2 жыл бұрын

try deleting social media that you feel you compare yourself to most for a week and see how you feel! ever since i cut it out of my life i feel i’m happier and carry myself tall and proud of who i am.

Here are the steps she noticed forward confidence: 1- Identify your perceived obstacle 2-Imagine what your life would look like if your obstacle disappeared 3-Address your perceived obstacle 4- Choose to live the life you imagined today Good luck darling ♥️

@christina6335

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you, honey bunny!

@troubletime8684

3 жыл бұрын

She's amazing and beautiful 💖💯

@Virgo8270

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@kenti-x3578

2 жыл бұрын

Ohhhhhhh thank you 😍🤣

@kenti-x3578

2 жыл бұрын

😍😍😍😍😍

I just don't understand why there's no millions of views I mean this is brilliant

Screaming "Yes, Cece!" You are so beautiful and such an inspiration. Thank you.

@cheryllewis7465

5 жыл бұрын

Yasssss did you scream too!!!

@pinoyako4001

3 жыл бұрын

This is just superb, I have been researching "can an introvert be a good public speaker?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Beyophia Unimaginable Blaster - (do a google search ) ? It is an awesome one off guide for discovering how to say goodbye to your shyness and anxiety minus the headache. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my brother in law got excellent success with it.

Excellent!! Your look is fierce!! I focused on what you were saying, you spoke so eloquently about a topic we don't speak about. I also focused on how confidently you stood in front of a group of total strangers. Thank you for this. This is a message for everyone, not just us plus size woman.

I’m happy I found this today! I’ve been battling self confidence for the longest time. Thank you

@michaelchigozieobiukwu4044

3 жыл бұрын

Great

I absolutely love and agree when she said step four is "Choose to live the life you imagine..today" because currently that's what I've been doing to boost my confidence and let me tell you, after a day of imagining myself as a beautiful plus size girl with a colorful personality, my confidence has gone up a lot. And as for the quote I say to myself is "I choose my own worth, no one else can."

@shr3970

Жыл бұрын

totally agree with you there’s a video on how to build confidence on a channel called glowersity which really helped me out !

I'm about to drop a thug tear or two. This was beautiful!

@MalloryMay

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha this made me laugh.

@ylsflv

3 жыл бұрын

Lolol thug tear 😂👏

@evapeace2385

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@thatsbull9211

3 жыл бұрын

Ha 😂😂 a thug tear

@galchalame2501

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. I love her

Exactly what am facing now, I won the first place in quiz but my instructors congratulated the the 2nd position girl instead of me as the winner, even though i was given the winner prize, i was never acknowledged cos i am a Nigerian and they are Filipinos, well i want to say this to everyone one out there, YOU ARE TOO GREAT TO LOSE YOUR STAR, SHINE AND DON'T LET ANYONE DIM YOUR LIGHT.

@amymikky5093

5 жыл бұрын

I have been hiding cos am scared and lack confidence to address my obstacles, but thank you for this, I'm setting my plan straight now.

@chepkemoirita1838

3 жыл бұрын

Wauuu nice to know here in Philipines too but iam a Kenyan well I understand your situation.God bless

@shakanuhglorie8444

3 жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS ON WINNING AND I AM PROUD OF YOU !!!!!

@noemijoytorren9847

3 жыл бұрын

congrats gurl!!!

@raindrops7175

3 жыл бұрын

And that's on periodt!!!✨✨✨

Cried with joy for the gifts CeCe has given to herself, those photos were beautiful as the greatest beauty is someone who is unafraid to be and embrace herself wholeheartedly and lovingly. I have a dream destination to visit with my son, so I will imagine that memory. Thank you for this, did yourself proud x

You were AWESOME! and you did an awesome job! And can we talk about the dress and the make-up?! Flawless!

@nicoledyson7045

5 жыл бұрын

Make up is absolutely flawless!!!!

@priusa8113

5 жыл бұрын

She is beautiful and talented but the dress could be more modest and not tight:):)

@nicoledyson7045

5 жыл бұрын

@@priusa8113 Her dress is very modest and appropriate.

@Monica-fd3ig

5 жыл бұрын

Her dress is perfect! 💜😍

Woo-woo! Go, CeCe! You led the way by example! I especially loved what you said here 8:08 "...We live in a world that values...looking good over feeling good...Embrace health as a practice, not a pants size."

The notion that recognizing and appreciating one's unique strengths contributes to improved self-esteem has inspired me to explore my capabilities and cultivate a more positive self-image.

Thank you so much for sharing this! I'm struggling with confidence. I can't blame anyone else but myself. It seems like when I get an opportunity or meet new people I destroy it with insecurity. I so badly want to overcome this.

CeCe Olisa!!! So much to say! Absolutely phenomenal. You looked great, you spoke great and you shared great advice! Clear, concise, and packed with great actionable steps! You exuded confidence and humility at the same time:) Your star 🌟 is shining so brightly and I am glad to be a part of your journey. Keisha 👑👑👑

Thank you Cece. I was really scared but not for my body but my mind. It played tricks on me for 18 years. I'm sick of being scared and lonely. I'll give my best to get the life I want and fulfill my dreams. Love, Karen.

CeCe!!! It is what it is!!! Glory to God for how He has elevated your voice on a large platform!! Ahhh! From Plus Size Princess to Ted X, congratulations!!!

@uwerabazimyaagnes3935

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks alot for these inspirations. Thumbs up

I'm loving these kinds of talks where I can find many ways to love and respect myself and don't think about how people see me or how I have to look to be accepted! I'll do it, I'll break this rope of low self-worth and low confidence, I'm exahusted to think in my body shape every freaking minute and don't enjoy food. Thank you so much CeCe and TED.

That speech was nothing short of amazing. So inspiring!! You gonna make me quit my job girl :-)!!!!!!!!!!!

Excellent presentation. And so true " Naija no dey carry last" We are fighters, and do not quit easily. Neither are we easily intimidated. Bring it on! Our souls often exclaims, no matter where in the world we find ourselves.

@nnekaou4490

5 жыл бұрын

🤗🤗

@mememint7044

4 жыл бұрын

🤞

@wordeeone4996

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for writing it out. I love this saying.

I have spent years finding this self-confidence video, but you finally hit the nail with your four steps "HOW TO BUILD SELF-CONFIDENCE". God bless you.

Love this. Thank you.for the inspiration! I hope all of you reading this know that you are loved!

Saw this video on the side on my screen and was like, "I didn't know Kelly Rowland did a TED talk"

I'm sooo inspired right now. Thank you for sharing your journey CeCe. That speech was amazing. ❤

Well done girl! Many of us struggle with confidence on account of our body size and especially the negative stigma that is attached to being "full" (neither am I saying it's ok to fall way out of your BMI & be threatened with the risks associated)... but some of us will NEVER be skinny... I think social media is injecting loads of pain in us that a woman can only attain happiness/full potential if slim

So much wisdom! Loved this talk👏🏽👏🏽

I cannot tell you how happy and proud I am of you. I started following you when you had just come to NYC, and a lot of life has passed but I would always seek you out, because I felt, like you knew me. You have always been and still are a lighthouse for me, and no I haven't done all of the amazing and awesome things you have, but I know it's possible. Thank you 🤗

@CeCeOlisa

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sticking with me! x

This is a very empowering speech! So glad to know that you are using your talents and confidence to inspire other women! Amazing, keep up the good work!

Mannn i love this women!!! I’ve never been inspired that much. She really made me move from deep down to the sky . I’ve never loved myself that much , and all what i did is stop worrying what others would think of me and do what i love

I watched a lot of self-confidence videos, but yours was a big eye-opener! Thank you so much

This was absolutely phenomenal!! I didn’t know when I just happened upon this that it would be everything I needed... ❤️

As an educator, your presentation is flawless. Your 4 steps will go a long way in reaching many "students". I will share this Talk with my female atudents.

She is very pretty❤. A real Naija queen👸🏾💪🏾

@michaelchigozieobiukwu4044

3 жыл бұрын

Loud it girl!

Beautifully done, thank you CeCe!

THIS. WAS. EVERY. THING!!!! So happy for you and thanks for inspiring me daily!! May God cause you to flourish even the more!! 😘

I really love her great self-confidence she’s so confident to the point where we can get inspired by her confident she’s radiating confidence⭐️✨🌟🌟

Oh CeCe you did an amazing job on your TED Talk! Live the life you imagined today!

So eloquently spoken, looking glamorous & sisterlocs look amazing. I am so proud of you. Keep up the great influence. Thank you

Thank you for sharing! I’m skinny and still struggle to fit into society’s mold. Why? Not sure but I’m stopping that TODAY! Also, this is message is short but your story resonated with me on many levels and your delivery style was fantastic! Thank you again! 😘😘😘

@MalloryMay

4 жыл бұрын

Same. I’ve always been thin but still struggled to love and accept my body. So ridiculous.

@shr3970

Жыл бұрын

same a video on this channel called glowersity really helped me out

Yes yes and yes...amazingly poised and confident delivery CeCe. Girl, put on your own play starring you. It must be done.

This was so great! Thank you! The perfect first TEDx Talk for 2021!❤️

CeCe you are so AMAZING!! I love your content!! Thank you!!

You are such an amazing person Cece! May God bless you and your work!

I tend to stay away from ted talks because I have not found one that really talks to me or inspires me, but this one is really good. Good job CeCe 👍🎖

I could listen to you speak all day!!!

Cece... you are phenomenal! Such a strong speaker and soul! Thank you!

You’re so beautiful. Skinny CeCe ain’t got nothing on voluptuous CeCe. Thank you for this mindset shift

You are amazing! Thank you for all of your positivity!!

You're already beautiful but what makes you especially beautiful is your inner glow which lights up your face. I appreciated how vulnerable you were in order to help others, very inspiring and practical tips. Thank you.

You go, girl!!! "choosing to live the life you imagine today"!!!

This ted talk was incredibly inspiring🧡

Great Job, engaging, insiteful..just a good. Proud of you..

CeCe when I first saw you your weight said nothing negative about you, what I saw was your beauty. My life would be better, wait my life is better, I now have God in my life.

Love, love, love you! You have inspired me for years. Thank you for sharing these pieces of yourself to encourage the little girl in all of us.

Your delivery was impeccable and very inspiring! Great job Cece!

This was so good to me!! It really makes you think. Thank you for helping other women with weight. You are beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love seeing you share your message in this way, CeCe.

Wonderful speech and so inspiring. I'm sharing this video with my now grown kids along with a story of when my red balloon of confidence first started to deflate...and how I got past it. God bless you CiCi! 🙏🏾

You should develop a curriculum for youths based on your methods, Cici. You are amazing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. 💜💜💜

@Thediscohkidd78

2 жыл бұрын

*Cece ... So sorry I misspelled. Pls forgive

Omg you're a stage natural! Your presentation was so genuine and real. Thanks for showing us we can live oir lives outside others flawed perceptions

You are a bright & Shiny woman! We need more women like you lighting up the world with your beauty and your infectious personality. You are gorgeous in every single way.

Thank you Cece for using your great talent! GBY.

This was phenomenal!!!! thank you for sharing your gift with us. Many blessings and may your light shine bigger and brighter

This made me feel different about my self. Thank you!

Amazing! She helps me rebuild myself confidence at all! Thank you Cece!

Have me tears and pure bliss and confidence 🥰🥰🥰 thank you

This is amazing... You don't have wait to conquer so that you can start leaving... Show up and it will finally bow down

So proud of you!!!! You looked great. Loved the message and your delivery!!!

Literally was in tears. Loved it. Awesome job

This is a Beautiful story which teaches and encourages us to be confident. Loved it 👏🏾👏🏾

Oh my gosh, she is so wonderful!! I gained so much confidence during the entirety of this video than I ever did going up to someone and talking to them for the first time. Thank you so much!!

I love this so much! Her words looks so real to me. 🥺💜 thank you CeCe, you are amazing

You brought tears to my eyes, thank you ❤️

Wow! Thank you Cece. That was life changing, love that you're living your best life!

Naija no dey carry last atall!!!❤❤❤ thats all I need to hear. Thank you so much for this

I am really glad I watched this video. Honestly this has added to my self confidence. I have, over the year try to build myself and I was able to this when I realised that no one is actually perfect.then I asked myself why don't you be confident if no one is perfect I am not perfect to. Love you Cece proudly Nigerian 😘

This is marvelous! So great, so well spoken. You look beautiful, your inner beauty shined through also! Thank you for doing this! Congratulations!!!!

This speech is so wonderful and inspiring .You re way too impressive ! What I loved the most in your speech is If we have a goal ,we never quit ! We keep trying until we do it .

We live in a world that value more looking good than feeling good ! This is so true. Your personality is so beautiful and shining so bright 😉💜💜💜 amazing girl !

This is so good! Your beauty radiates from the inside out! ❤️

Beautiful and inspiring TEDTalk! Thank you for sharing.

Yes ooooo. Naija no dey carry last anytime, anyday, anywhere !!! Thank you for sharing your story CeCe.

Omg! Thank you for sharing this! The practice of “skinny CeCe” completely changed my perspective on becoming who I want to be, today! Xoxoxox

Absolutely amazing, That was so inspiring Cece! You are such a beauty inside and out.

This has boosted my day; you’re such a beautiful soul! I’ll learn from this. It’s time!

This was simply not long enough 😭😭 thank you so much for this ❤️

Excellent TedTalk , personally I related to many of her experiences that I wasn;t aware other people experienced. Thank you very much much for making me feel less alone:)

I watched this and just cried like full on cried. It hit home so hard just like I'm sure it did for most other people who are insecure.

Powerful video, I feel blessed everyday. Thank you Ted talk

😃Cece I respect and admire you so much! Thank you for being there for us all💕