“When nobody else celebrates you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It’s not up to other people to keep you encouraged. It’s up to you. Encouragement should come from the inside.” - Jay Shetty ✨

@aryankawa2068

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, i needed this

@joewallace9030

Жыл бұрын

She did a good job of that when nobody congratulated her for being the FiRsT FeMaLe manager of a major baseball team (for almost twenty yearshh), but she thanked them for their encouragement nevertheless. Ahh, confidence. :]

@MoMatOfficial

Жыл бұрын

Wow. I like this a lot

@wawa0775

Жыл бұрын

Which video did you get this from? I’d like to watch it 😀

@cheeteng5739

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, this helps me a lot

1. Count yourself in with “3,2,1 go” and ask yourself the question “Who Am I?” You are a person who is not too shy to back away from a challenge. Counting gets you started. 2. Give yourself 20 seconds of courage. That’s all it takes. 3. Take a seat at the table - literally. Don’t wait around, actually get started with this one simple action. 4. Cheer for other peoples success. Confident people celebrate the success of others rather than feeling threatened. Quote: “Good for her, not for me” by Amy Poller. Confident people support those around them. 5. Boost your confidence with an activity you are already great at. What is something that is easier today than one year ago? What is your most proud accomplishment? Think about these questions because confidence is born in what we have already achieved. “Use your prior success to propel yourself forward.” 6. Celebrate constantly. Celebrate all goals, past and present. Know and honour your proudest accomplishments. Do something nice for yourself when you reach your goals. It doesn’t matter HOW you celebrate it matters that you DO celebrate. What could you do if you were 10x more confident? Date: 26th June 2023

@kanupriyajain592

10 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@lindasummerville4431

10 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@heriheri5985

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for your summary

@okuturebecca7227

10 ай бұрын

Thanks

@rashijaimani

8 ай бұрын

Thank you! This is so helpful:)

Taking risks and going out of comfort zone is the key to self-confidence

@itisnotmimi

Жыл бұрын

Totally!

@Arena204

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@shashidharhiremath5600

Жыл бұрын

I'm in tht right now...

@Arena204

Жыл бұрын

@@shashidharhiremath5600keep that up (:

@omprakashpander6378

Жыл бұрын

जोखिम लेना और कम्फर्ट जोन से बाहर निकलना ही आत्मविश्वास की कुंजी है

Stop judging other people is a great one. The way you think becomes a built in pattern. So if you're overly judgemental of others, you'll be overly judgemental of yourself too. For example people who really judge others for their looks are often the most insecure about how they look.

@ezralikepie

Жыл бұрын

Great point! I like to look at people more like children that just grown up🤷🏾‍♂️ it makes them seem less intimidating to me and more human like myself (which they are!)

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you. We must believe ourselves. This is the most important thing in this world

@rosanavasc

Жыл бұрын

Great 👏🏻👏🏻

@rogerfournier3284

Жыл бұрын

On point: exemplary comment.

@leensalocin

Жыл бұрын

Reminds me of my sister..

3:20 number one : count yourself in (3,2,1, do it). 4:56 number two : be brave just for 20 seconds. 5:47 number three : taking a seat at the table (literally). 6:27 number four : cheer for other people's success. (confident people celebrate the success of others rather than feeling threatened. 7:25 I think that is Emily's life story (congratulation Emily). 7:51 number five : bolster your confidence for a new activity through your already great performance in another. (confidence is born in all we've already done and already achieved). Use your prior success to propel yourself forward. 8:49 number six : celebrate constantly. goal : 10 times more confident. Thank you Emily.

@sumitprafulljena5697

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for time'stamps

@viveksharma3627

Жыл бұрын

Thanks man ❤️

@abaez7484

Жыл бұрын

My favorite it number six. I think the world is always moving fast that we don't stop and celebrate the present!

@icantthinkrn

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing 🥰🥰❤❤

I attest of number 5.I wrote all my accomplishments before a job interview. I really wanted that role, so was already confident when I got to the interview. Didn’t just secure the role, they gave me a role that is higher than what I applied. Remember your accomplishments, remember your testimonies. They will keep you grateful and going😊

@jenniferkenneally5386

Жыл бұрын

what if you dont have any

@boiseraise

Жыл бұрын

@@jenniferkenneally5386 you have accomplished something. Believe me. Just that we tend to downplay our accomplishments. Some of my accomplishments were to attend a conference that was accepting graduate students while I was still undergraduate. Did I produce outstanding work..nope. I was just chosen to attend. Solving problems, minor or big is still an accomplishment.

@sarvinozasobirjonova5885

Жыл бұрын

Congrats

1. count yourself in 2. give yourself 20 second to be brave (you just need an start ) 3. take a seat at the table 4. cheers other people's success 5. bost your confidence in a new activity 6. celebrate yourself consistently ( find ways to celebrate yourself)

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰🥰❤❤

@edwinngowi727

Жыл бұрын

🎉🎉

@halmoalextoby728

Жыл бұрын

made it easy

@singerreja

Жыл бұрын

Thanks 🥰

That was a really good Ted talk. She spoke very clearly and wasn’t to loud or to quiet. I loved her outfit as well.

@KICK839

Жыл бұрын

Honestly

It's such a useful speech. It not only helps me study English but also teaches me how to gain confidence in life!!!

@FatmaGasim1

Жыл бұрын

Can you please share with me your way in studying English? how do you do .. do you stop the video and write down the new words or how?

@FatmaGasim1

Жыл бұрын

l've listened to this video but my understanding was only 50% .. there was no one or two new words for me, it was half of the video.

@giangchau1033

Жыл бұрын

@@FatmaGasim1 Hey, I came across your comment and maybe some of my suggestions coulb be useful to you. First, vocabulary is key. You couldn't understand what she is saying nor what I wrote in English if you don't know the meaning of the words or the context right? So expand your vocabulary, classify them into different topics and use them often. One more thing, watch videos with bilingual subtitles. The video above only has English subtitle, find one has both Eng sub and translation. When watching, you can follow the content of the video and understand its meaning at once. By doing that, you will get used to listening in English and at the same time understanding what they are saying.

@visionlol4769

Жыл бұрын

@@FatmaGasim1 yes you can definitely do this! someone else replied to your comment giving you very good advice. The way it looks your English is pretty good right now. You can also use language apps to help you gain more knowledge

@FatmaGasim1

Жыл бұрын

@@giangchau1033 thank you so much.. very good advice ❤️

Always have the courage to be yourself!!! So many people these days want to put you down, make you average, or lead you to feeling your below them…Be yourself and you’ll always be successful. We are extraordinary people!!!

The way she delivered the speech proves that what she said really works.

The speech was really something I needed, I am exactly the same person, as she described herself at the beginning of the speech. I need the confidence, 3,2,1 go…

Thank you Emily! My wife Debi passed away a couple of months ago from cancer. Your confidence and charisma remind me of her. Debi would have liked your talk. She loved baseball so much too. Thanks for inspiring.

Thank you Emily for sharing six behavior to increase our confidence 😊. When I found this interesting talk I am overjoyed. Thank you again.

Her smile on face throughout the talk is what makes me more confident about what she's saying.. Loved that conversation

The best motivation talk I heard. 1. Count yourself in even makes me confidently write this comment over here. Thanks for the nice talk.

I love the “have 20 seconds of courage” tip. That’s a great one

I really love her enthusiasm and vigorous speech. Most of all she has such a beautiful smile ...

Great meeting Emily 😊 What a wonderful light in our community.

Great Video! Confidence is developed by learning to step out of your comfort zone on a daily basis.. As stated in the video acting confident will eventually create confidence from the inside out. One successful experience builds on the previous one. Trust the PROCESS, it will develop as one intentionally faces their fears head on. One of most important confidence building in my life was joining Toast Masters and overcoming the fear of public speaking. Learning to overcome the fear of what others think about us is a game changer. Building confidence is not a quick fix, although can definitely be developed for those willing to do the hard work.

An amazing ted talk yet again 🎊 short and sweet and to the point!!! Loved it ❤️

I agree that behavior matters more than attitude to gain self confidence. The way we behave gradually increases the level of confidence. And consistently maintain the same as it would keep you reaching great heights. Let your eyes speak to the level of confidence you have!

Thank you, Emily! 🫂🫂🫂 And thank you for sharing your past with us. That openness was brave.

This gave me chills, thank you! This was right on time!

Love her so much. Confident people support those around them. Bolster your confidence for a new activity through your already great performance in another. Love, love, LOVE these. Confidence is born through all that we’ve already done and achieved. 💗

I just finished watching this video and what a great message to build my confidence. I've experienced this low confidence in myself and tried to compare myself to others and feel bad. This is so inspiring! Confidence is the key and it starts today.

@ayodaramola5874

Жыл бұрын

Oh that's great and good to know. Listening for the first time

@Tonysuriano

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! I use to be so shy I would often mumble. Curious, what confidence goals do you have?

@jutta2177

Жыл бұрын

Hi! I am very happy for you that you have become more confident after applying these tips. I recognise myself very much in what you quote. Number six was one of the most special ones for me! It sounded crazy to me at first when I heard that you have to celebrate yourself consistently. When I was listening to the examples that were given, and thinking for a moment what this means for myself, I was sure I am definitely going to be able to work with it! It becomes more and more clear how you can boost your confidence. The message Emily Jaenson is trying to get across, has definitely come across. I hope I will be able to handle these six behaviours in the future, but I have no doubt about that! Which tip is most important to you and why? I really enjoy reading that this speech inspired you, because it did the same for me. I hope you are already feeling much better and more confident! Greetings and have a nice day!

It's always worth it to conquer the insecurities within and to rise and be the person who you want to be regardless of the opinions of others and so true confidence shines

@m44235

Жыл бұрын

Underrated comment! It all lies within.

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you. Thanks for sharing this beautiful message

@LunawillWilliam

8 ай бұрын

I agree with you guys

I am also a shy person when I entered high school before. But I realized lots of things and practice my ways that helps to improve my skill and character. Now, I am a Senior in High School and I continue to face my fear and have confidence in front of my classmates, teachers, batch mates, especially in front of my fellow students when I do public speaking.

@realworldlearnin

Жыл бұрын

😜

As a fitness enthusiast, I appreciate the emphasis on overall well-being. Confidence isn't just about appearance; it's about feeling good inside and out. Great video!

I'm blessed to have come across this just when I needed it the most. Thanks for such an inspiring talk, Emily.

"Wins are so much better when celebrated together". Join in,cheer someone up ✨🙂

@taiyabhamid8036

25 күн бұрын

Nice words ❤

Your confidence is shining through, your speech is really beautiful!

Pls if you are reading this, know that a few years of grinding can produce a lifetime of freedom.. So be patient.. The lord is by your side. Amen.

@wesleyjeurissen544

Жыл бұрын

First part: totally in. Second part of your comment: not so much

@ibrahimibrahim-jn3dw

Жыл бұрын

what god you talk about? you jesus or allah or zious or budhaa ?

@DivyanshuChauhan-fs9zz

Ай бұрын

​@@ibrahimibrahim-jn3dw god has no religion we humans divided everyone

@StoicNature444

Ай бұрын

Thank you. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.

@StoicNature444

Ай бұрын

@@DivyanshuChauhan-fs9zzJesus breathed life into every cell of your body.

Excellent speech!! Have confidence. It shows in our body language.

I set mind free to hear this great speech after a long time! Thq for inspiring words!🙏

I am very confident at speaking to strangers on general topics. But, when it comes seeking help or asking for an opportunity I act like mute. Suddenly my super introverted nature kicks in. But, now I know how to act confidently at work. Thanks Emily ❤

This was excellent! I really enjoyed this! Great job Emily!!

Counting will get you started and momentum will keep you going Give yourself 20 seconds of courage Take a seat at the table Cheer for others Boost your confidence by your proud moments and doing those tasks again Celebrate for your mini wins too

I would like to comment on this video’s six behaviors to increase confidence coming from a medical student. Counting yourself in; this is a very good starting point, one of the first things you learn quickly in medical school is the amount of work and dedication one has to commit every week just to survive. Lessons on ethics talks about imposter syndrome and the phases many medical students face when arriving to medical school. It is very different than undergraduate school as you are now competing with your peers for residency spots and you look around and realize that everybody next to you is very intelligent. This causes the thoughts of “Maybe they made a mistake… I do not belong here… I am not smart enough…” For those students who got straight A’s, now getting a passing score feels just as great. Another phase of imposter syndrome is the “we are all in this together” feeling, when you have survived the first semester and think to yourself, “wow I am not the only one who feels this way.” You start to make new friends and we support each other, share notes, share strategies because we are all in this together. By counting yourself in, it is essentially acknowledging that you have put in tremendous work to get into medical school, believe that you belong and start learning! 20 seconds of courage: I have not tried this, but I would love to incorporate it in my life to see if it works for me. In medical school, you quickly get thrown in to practice talking to real patients, even if they are actors (they are grading you) during the first two years. You have to learn to give presentations to your peers, and a lot of extracurricular activities such as volunteering for that amount of “free time” that you do have. Take a seat at the table: This can be very helpful because there are many positions students take during medical school. For example, there are student government positions, peer mentor/tutoring that one does to learn leadership skills. Attending conferences in those specialties we are interested in, networking and meeting new people with hopes of building relationships for your future. Cheer for other peoples success: You learn to cheer for your peers successes very quickly. Medical school takes a mental toll on people. Talking to your peers and seeing that they passed the course they struggled with on the first exam and seeing how happy they are after passing is a great feeling. Getting that support feels just as great. Bolster your already confidence: Practice makes perfect. With time, talking to patients comes easier and easier. Learning your strengths at test taking and improving in anyway you can. Celebrate constantly: Every medical student knows this. Every day can be celebrated as long as you get through your lectures! Passing an exam, having time to work out, talk with family, and staying on top of things are things I celebrate every day. When I don’t complete lectures, that’s okay too, some lectures take longer to learn than others, we adapt and we give it our best shot. Great video, I wanted to add a little perspective from a medical student’s point of view.

@ritika716

Жыл бұрын

Where r u from!?

@sofiyahaider

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful speech mam

@ZahidKhan-ts6bv

10 ай бұрын

Great...✨ Being a medical student, I can relate it. You explained very well

@user-oj3ce6so9i

4 ай бұрын

I'm a nursing student and have difficulty going to clinical because I have to talk to patients. This is a great video and your post crowned it. Thank you!

You do an open interview with yourself whenever possible. It is the best way to see you as another person. ❤️

Such a great video on improving one's confidence! These six behaviours that I learnt would be a great contributor in increasing my confidence.

Exactly what I needed to remind myself. Thanks TEdTalks.

I love how she presents with so much enthusiasm!

Thanks for the inspiring sharing! I was very inconvenient when I was small and until last year, especially in my study background, languages (Eng). “Practice being brave and have courage” is one of the good way for becoming more confident:D I will keep watching this speech when I’m sad or frustrated

This speech motivated me to achieve my goals without hesitation I mean without thinking about whether am I deserve this or not thank you so much this speech is incredible

I worked in a science agency for years. Many attention-shy technical professionals hated speaking to others. I learned once you tapped into their passion for their work, buckle up, because they will command a stage with more enthusiasm and light than you might think. It’s a beautiful thing.

This is a true eye opener that we all need to see. Put an end to limiting possibilities with these wrong perceptions of what we can or cannot do.

Loved her energy. Loved this one.

These are all great notes will def. apply this more often in my life! Thanks for making this!

A beautiful speech, Emily! ❤

I am now trying to follow what she said. All six things are hard but especially cheering for other people's success was difficult. I think that it's natural for human being jealousy to other people's success and not celebrate them. However trying to cheer it, I was proud of myself overcome jealousy, one of the most powerful feelings. I felt I become a more confident person and I recommend this method!

Thank You Emily. Loved your TED Talk. Keep on inspiring us.

such confidence even in speaking publicly really inspiring.

This is one of my favorite TED talks. Thank you.

This was a great Ted Talk with 6 great tips. Thx for sharing your story and tips, much appreciated. Numbers 1 & 2 reign supreme for us.

I love this so much! Sharing with co-workers and friends.

listening to this speech is the first step to really boosts your confidence

😍 Found one such video by Prince EA many years back, that changed my life - Now, today suddenly this will be the 2nd one that's gonna change my life again - 6 Behaviours to Increase your Confidence 😍

Yo confidence is really built. We build confidence and I thought the techniques she presented are tools you can keep in your back pocket. GG my dude

such great and practical tips. I am grateful for these. Thank you.

I love this talk so much. Thank you.

Cheer for the success of others. Be happy for them! Thanks so much.❤️

I def need confidence booster. This came handy. Thanks for sharing.

A video about living life, saving life. Great woman 💞

She did great Feel the fear and do it anyway Be brave for 20 seconds Being up people with you Celebrate your success

Celebrating a success and not just moving on to the next really hit hard with me. I grew up with the "well what are you doing next" attitudes around me...

@bF-es3qp

Жыл бұрын

I'm Japanese and feeling the same. I hadn't realize the magnitude of taking a moment to reflect back what I've done until I finished watching it

Excellent words of encouragement 👏, I am a public spkg.instructor...great tips, I always motivate our student with these two words..ie the 2Cs, be Confident & Competant. Thx.for sharing!

Very good talk 🤗 love her personality and way of talking.

i really agree with the celebration part together, it's a very good feeling to see people are being happy and nice to you, Nice speach

This was a fantastic ted talk. Thank you so much for sharing!!

@realworldlearnin

Жыл бұрын

👍

I actually really like this talk, Emily is such aspirational human being, even though this is the first time I listen to her

"Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It's quite simple, really: Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn't at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, so go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because remember that's where you will find success." -- Thomas J. Watson..

Kudos Emily! Keep On inspiring ! Thank You! 🍀🌸🎀🦋🦅

That yes at the LAST!!! Brilliant!

I SO NEEDED THIS TALK

You are really great person Emily. I am so happy to watch your video. Thank you for all 🥰🥰❤❤

Very helpful thank you Emily ❤

Take a sit at the table...How nice n inspiring...very true..thankyou mme .

I personally loved the content. It felt very energetic and I'm sure to incorporate these things in my life.

I think it's a good message to start behaving more confidence than earlier because it's my the weakest side. I feel my life and career are ruining because of my insecurity. I don't know how but recently I got a really good position in cool company and now have an opportunity to prod myself into career path but it's so scary even think of what will happen forward not to mention about conversation with others. I agree with the staytment that the confidence is key but I still have to get this confidance somehow

Love this talk, very inspiring. 👍

This is a very useful talk, thank you for deliver it.

Thank you so much Emily. Powerful Nuggets shared.

Hi, thank you for your great motivational speech. You are awesome.

I thing that's what I need! Thank you, Emily

Awesome storytelling. I love it!👏

I've actually been using this technics without even knowing that they exist,Glad to know that it was not only me who needs to turn into a whole new person to achieve what they wanted.

Great lessons learnt here!! God bless everyone😇

I’m not a sports fan, but I found this talk super helpful and inspiring. It’s kinda incredible that so many women are showing up with the credentials and skills to hold roles typically held by males and ain’t she a pretty woman of authority. I utilize some of the techniques she mentioned, but not all. Counting, a 20 sec spurt of bravery, show up, celebrate others victories, grab confidence from what ur already good at, and Celebrate your wins. I can do that. Can’t wait to apply it. I was motivated to find this video, of my own accord, as suggested by my app, Finch: self-care widget. Thanks for the TED Talk

@soundariyasai2521

Жыл бұрын

Is there any application available for Ted talk alone?

she shared that how to be we make ourself confident. fist of all u have to find yourself it is very important how to u behave? and what u want to achieve and to achieve you need more confidence. so, she shared 6 things 1. find your self say it's my life I can do this 2. give yourself 20 sec. 3. take sit on table 4. cheer for other people success 5. transfer your confidence in new activity

Learning about the power of positive habits and their role in self-esteem has led me to adopt habits that contribute positively to my self-image, creating a consistent uplift in my confidence.

One of my favorite channels💝

Bravo!!! 👏👏👏 Congratulations from a woman who used to be shy and keeps going forward. Thank you for the tips and greetings from Costa Rica❣🙌🏼 🇨🇷

That pause before people clapped, when she said she was the became the first female GM of a AAA baseball team in 20years was very telling . She should and many others be a GM of a MLB team.

@iiromutanen5719

Жыл бұрын

Well yes, but something about her tone made it seem like she was expecting applause. She sounded kind of arrogant in announcing it, and it would have been overly proud even if it was a man saying it.

@maibritton2882

Жыл бұрын

@@iiromutanen5719 and why wouldn't she expect a applause? Her job is still VERY much a "man's world"

I am cheering for the sports exec' success...Inspiring to be in so many professions outside of medicine too..!

Wow, what an amazing video. From the words of the speaker, we must make a decision to be more confident in achieving what we want. 6 How to become more confident is expected of all, especially in ourselves. Most of us feel that we are stuck in the present moment because of a lack of confidence that impacts on behavior relating to our goals. As it turns out, it's the little things that make us more confident. The one thing that I like about the speaker's words is that we have to count ourselves before we start. I experienced a great deal of embarrassment when I was about to do something, especially being shy and reticent. I will try things said by the speaker and will share again what I feel next time in this comment. I think you should also try it.

Motivating and Positive Speech on Confidence. Loved the "Celebrate Others Success", "[Literally] Take a Seat at The Table", and "Celebrate [Your Milestones and Success] CONSTANTLY'. My Language!!! Thanks For Sharing.

Thanks for this so inspirational message ma'am Emily❤

The #1 trait I look for in someone is transparency and integrity which none of you have so kick rox.

love when she waited and expected an applause yet nobody was clapping until she basically prompted them to lol

@darcy8687

16 күн бұрын

It was awkward 😂