Are there any mindset habits that help you create a healthier or happier headspace? If you feel therapy could be a support, visit betterhelp.com/pickuplimes ✨

@hedyen1655

2 жыл бұрын

Love you ❤

@khalilahd.

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Practicing gratitude is the best way for me to recenter and refocus 💜

@piyarawat9566

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much i really needed this ❣️🥺

@deadarchur

2 жыл бұрын

Upset to see the better help plug and sponsorship. They market themselves well but they rip people off.

@emmie1176

2 жыл бұрын

Yea they're kinda problematic

“Beware of destination addiction” wow I absolutely needed to hear this. Remember that 99 perfect of getting to the goal is the journey. This is such a beautiful way of thinking and in a world obsessed with hustle culture it’s a great way to recenter the mind and enjoy the small moments 💜

@Pepper10693

2 жыл бұрын

Hi! I couldn't help but notice you also left a comment on a Kevin Jubbal video! I'm a fan of his and Pick up Limes as well. I hope you and everyone a great success and journey on your endeavours. We got this!

@Justjustice546

2 жыл бұрын

Definitley refreshing to hear this. Keep your eye on the prize but enjoy the journey!

@okiedokey3106

2 жыл бұрын

you are here too lol

@robbindiciacco8037

2 жыл бұрын

I was just discussing this with a friend tonight. Being grateful for where we are and our moments of joy is so important. Why do we sabotage by thinking we could be somewhere else doing xyz.

@Safa-nx7kf

Жыл бұрын

@@okiedokey3106 Haha, I was going to say this too. Good on her.

I watched this video last night and already forgot what the 5 habits were so I'm back to rewatch and make a note for myself. 1. Enjoy the journey - we spend more time climbing up during the hike than we do enjoying the view at the top so why not enjoy the entire journey. 2. Mind your response in situations, it is the only thing you can control to influence the outcome of things. - perception determines how we feel 3. Swap out words with negative meanings to words with positive meanings. The words you use can influence how you feel. We tend to vent about our frustrations and use negative words in the process. Then when we are alone, those same word choices are made, the effect can compound. Get in the habit of expressing things with more positivity, gratitude, hope, excitement, etc. 4. Comparison is the thief of joy. Comparison seems to be a natural human response so don't feel bad about doing it, just be mindful of it. Remember that we know 100% of our own lives, all the good and all the bad but we only see what other people want us to see about theirs. 5. Tend to your emotional wounds as much as you would a physical wound.

@LoveYourFamily2

Жыл бұрын

♥️ Thank you

@arelirose

Жыл бұрын

Writing this on my journal. Thanks for summing it up

@sribat1871

Жыл бұрын

hehe, same here! thanks for your notes.

@cletadsouza3910

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤️

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for that. You are wonderful

Connecting with nature, reading books, meditating, and being in the present moment. I guess I am ready to choose happiness in every moment. In every way

@sadaafatima

2 жыл бұрын

I am on a similar journey. glad to know there are others moving towards living with more presence.

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

Great , I hope I can overcome my personal problems like you

When my mother was alive, I would stay with her two evenings a week while the sibling who lived with her worked. If a friend asked if I'd like to go out on one of those evenings, my response would be, "I have to watch my mother." I am beyond grateful that I finally caught on to how I was phrasing my answer, and changed it to, "I get to spend time with my mom that evening." I loved her, and I was talking as though spending time with her was a burden. She died a couple of years ago and I long for the times when I was able to spend time with her.

@farahwork2552

2 жыл бұрын

Aww I hope yall spend time together in your dreams and in a new life 🥰

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

I am so sad to hear that 😥😥😥😥

That first one I really relate to. Always feeling like there's someplace to be. I've been working on that, practicing to relinquish the need to control and "maximize" every moment. Focusing on what's in front of me, vs what's next, and just letting things happen. Thanks for sharing.

@kulsoomali5041

2 жыл бұрын

One of my fave youtubers commenting on another favorite channel?!?! This is awesome!!!

"There's nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so." - That is so truee, it all starts with ourselves and our own perceptions of things.

@GS-lq2is

2 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t disagree more. Losing a loved one, for example, is bad-that’s not the fault of your perception. Life involves some crappy stuff sometimes.

@KateViko

2 жыл бұрын

​@@GS-lq2is Sorry if you are experiencing something like that in your life right now. Unfortunately there're a lot of things we can't control, but what we can control is our mind.

@Ella.L.

2 жыл бұрын

Idk... that mindset seems kinda toxic to me. Sure, not everything is black or white. But things like war, hunger, rape, etc.? These are entirely bad things, no matter how much you try to think otherwise. Is that really what you want to say to people who experienced such things, to simply change their perspective on things? That's BS.

@GS-lq2is

2 жыл бұрын

@@KateViko Thanks, I’m not at the moment. My issue is with the concept-for example, do you think that Jews in concentration camps should just have changed their perspective and then everything would have been fine? I’m not trying to argue with you per se, but I believe this is a pernicious attitude in western culture. I admit I haven’t read it yet, but Barbara Ehrenrich’s book, Bright-Sided, apparently explores this subject quite a bit.

@GS-lq2is

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ella.L. Exactly.

Love this video and the tips, Sadia! It can be so hard to be ambitious and strive for success on the one hand and to feel truly at peace and content on the other hand. Thanks for sharing the 99% concept ❤️

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

True. By the way, your videos are excellent. You are so succesful. I hope I can be succesful in my channel like you

@johnsonjo8454

7 ай бұрын

Hi💋🤎

I love how mindful and empathetic you are, Sadia. Truly a role model. Finding you on KZread was a gift to myself ❤️

Another helpful thought pattern shift is saying "I could" or "I get to" instead of "I have to." I think it was mentioned in another PUL video. "I have to do laundry" vs. "I could do laundry" and "I have to exercise" vs. "I get to exercise" have made a world of a difference in my life.

@subinyoon207

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, that is a mindblower. These days I have been feeling soo guilty because I did not exercise even though I "had" to. But today, I think I will get to exercise. Even reading this reply made me feel better about myself. Thank you.

@blueshoes915

2 жыл бұрын

Hello, I just wanted to add to this great advice. I replace it with, “I can”. Little tip from my therapist; saying, “I can” instead of “have to”, “need to”, “should” helps empower you. My mother is abusive and made me feel incapable of things so I struggle with that. Saying I can do something makes me sound capable of doing it and more likely to do things and feel good about it. It also helps with low motivation. The more you do the more capable you feel and therefore the more capable and confident you become. Thank you for sharing your tips!

I'm going through some difficult stuff in my life and my mind is so tired and exhausted, this video is blessing from above, thank you for your energy and calm vibes😇 I really needed that today, so i can go on and have a great week ahead 😊❤️

@PickUpLimes

2 жыл бұрын

I hope whatever it is resolves itself soon, Elena. Sending hugs and love from afar 💛

@hurts4everfan

2 жыл бұрын

@@PickUpLimes Sending you love and a biiiiig hug! :) xx

@shreyaachaudhuri6568

2 жыл бұрын

Good wishes for you mental health. 🦋

Sadia, I just wanted to tell you that it's amazing that you are open about your anxiety, I think more people can relate to it than we would have initially thought!

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

@a.g.4843

Жыл бұрын

Well, she is fake and every video is staged. So maybe you are quite naive

@ak2944

Жыл бұрын

@@a.g.4843 Yeah right, says the mysterious youtube account

Ever been in a situation where you tell the universe what you need and it’s provided to you? This video was it. I’m going through grief and trauma and not only did your words help, your sponsor now has a new client (I kept saying this past week I wanted to find a therapist to work through my stuff). Thanks, Sadia ❤️

@susanhaunch138

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sure you will find peace in your life. Sending you love.

I was getting into a not very happy place and this just set my thoughts straight and I know things are going to get better! Thank you for the reminder :)

@sripradhaiyengar9980

2 жыл бұрын

Sending you good thoughts!

@rupin_kale

2 жыл бұрын

Love and light to you my friend 🙌

@Taka-ix4vc

2 жыл бұрын

Happy for you

The way you talk with us is just an life giving therapy.♥

@PickUpLimes

2 жыл бұрын

💛

Relatable, warm, encouraging. I really appreciate what you share!

Sometimes we get so caught up in reaching the milestones we forget to enjoy the process of getting there, letting each day pass us by. This was such a lovely video, thank you 💛

This is so very true, not only do our thoughts impact how we are feeling, they also create our beliefs which in turn create the way we perceive life. So just changing the way that we think can literally change our entire life by changing how we perceive it. Thanks for sharing these great tips to help with that 😊

I’m so glad you’ve started making these types of videos again, they’ve definately been missed

So calming to hear you share your own struggle with anxiety, Sadia. Helped me connect with you more and relate, as I have lived with similar challenges too. Also felt awesome to see someone I adore use Betterhelp like I did! I'm considering signing up again 😊💚

Every time I feel low and am about to reboot my schedule and living pattern you come up with your amazing content that really really helps me. You, the vibes through your content, your voice, what you speak every little thing is soothing and therapeutic ❤

@PickUpLimes

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that so much, Renuka, thank you 😊

I love all the details, imagery, and love you put into your videos. It's a joy to watch.

This is so great and the timing is impeccable! I've deemed April to be my "month if new habits", to take the next few weeks to focus on creating healthy and positive habits to benefit my life! So this video couldn't have come at a better time

Sadia this video just came at the right time!!! Sometimes i am just thinking about the future and worrying, while it really affects my mood and causes anxiety 🥺 but I am willing to try the idea of changing my response on daily situations to feel better 🙏 thank you a lot ❤️ PUL is really my happy and safe place 🌸

Thankyou for taking time to share.Very timely,I was in depression and anxiety lately...such a great help!Please continue sprinkle love wherever you go.

I really needed this video today! I've been wondering these same questions for the last few weeks. I've been feeling lots of autocriticism, lost, and somehow aimless. "Beware of destination addiction". Thank you for your positive mindset, and making me feel less alone in this journey. Greetings from Spain!!

What a blessing to hear! I especially liked the one about emotional hygiene and tending to emotional wounds right away.

this video just touched me a lot as i was comparing myself to someone else at the point that I was doubting myself, feeling insecure. Deep from my heart, thank you Sadia for such inspirational video ❤️

I really needed to hear this, especially about E + R = O since it's most often this pattern that changes my mood to something negative. Perfect timing! And thank YOU for sharing about your own anxiety ❤🧡💛

I'm dealing with the loss of my lovely ex boyfriend,who lost his life due to a tragic motorcycle accident at 24 years old. I am really trying to cope with this sadness and trying not to let it take my spark and my daily happiness away. Thank you for this beautiful video! I hope everyone in here will try to make their days shinier and take care of their selves ❤️

@TheSkitzogemini

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope each day gets easier. Wishing you all the love and light 🤎

This is what I needed today. I felt unsettled yesterday and all I needed to hear this perspective. All of these are wonderful things to practice in life.

SO. GOOD. Love how you are simply asking others to bring awareness to their perspective and mindset of life. 🌅

I needed to hear all of it!! Thanks a lot for your wise words Sadia, bless your heart and household. 🙏🏽❤️

Thank you for diversifying your contents! I love your intakes on mental health and healthy (mindful) living ! I look forward to more diverse and wholesome content! Hopefully I'll get a small part of PUL's wholesome positivity!

The way in which you speak, the sounds and all the atmosphere which come out from your videos, it is all so peaceful. I always find myself smiling in relaxation. Your contents are a warm cloth in these hard days!

Your channel truly deserves more attention. Lots of love ! ❣️ Great work as always. I haven't watched the full video yet but will do so soon in my free time. So far... It seems great as usual. 💗

Essentialism is definitely key for me, I try to cut out as much as I can so I can think more deeply about and focus harder on what really matters. Much less stress, more focused, decrease in waste, increase in meaningful productivity, and leaves me more time for passions and what not as well...key to happiness for me.

I work in youth development and I instantly thought of my high schoolers and middle schoolers with many of these points. I’m going to share this with them at our next group discussion. Your simple explanation and breakdown makes these important mental shifts accessible to multiple age groups.

Sadia talking about health is my religion, thank you for another wonderful video! As someone who also has anxiety, it was powerful to know that you, a person I look up to for the bits that you choose to share online, deals with it too and still manages to be so admirable and inspiring! Therapy can be really important and I am glad I had the means to start and continue

Sadia, your videos are always such a treat! They are a big help - I especially liked that you talked about therapy. This topic and how helpful it is, really needs to be more talked about. Thank you for putting so much love and effort in your work. ❤️ Lots of love from Hamburg!

I simply love the style of your videos, we get to feel like were sitting down talking to you while we also get visuals!!! love love LOVE

I have to appreciate how you put an effort to create such an incredible simple video..... I didn't get distracted or opened comment section while watching this video. I really enjoyed and felt like good therapy session while watching. More love and support to you ❤️❤️

One reason I love watching your videos is the greenery in the background. It feels so healthy.

@theresesilvawalker8407

2 ай бұрын

Marvellous green curtains! Verdant and vibrant.

There's nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it. Thank you for this video!

Thank you Sadia for sharing the importance of emotional hygiene. Currently resetting my life and as someone that also has anxiety it is easy to worry and have us motivating self talk, but I like the way of choosing more optimistic word choices that can also help us to give ourselves grace in what we do.

Thank you Sadia for this video. You have no idea how much I needed this right now. I've been struggling with anxiety and very negative thoughts about myself in the past weeks because of an upcoming exam that is very important to me. This video made me realize how important our mindset is whenever we face challenges. I'm not sure how you do it, but you always seem to upload such videos when I need them the most. Thank you for this important message. I'm beyond grateful for your hard work. Much love❤❤❤

I was going though a hard time recently.. and then I saw Guy Winch’s ted talk and also some of your old motivational videos along with it and now what a coincidence that you talked about Guy Winch in this video as well! Thanks for the video❤️❤️

You are so wise… you don’t know how much I learn from your videos. Putting in practice your many tips thru your videos have made a huge difference in my outlook of life.

What a great video in all aspects! Thank you for breaking down these points so well and explaining what we can do as alternatives.

Thank you for being so open& honest about your anxiety 💖

These are the perspective through which one should approach difficulties and hardship. Thank you Sadia, for making us live life the right way.

I love that you came back to these themes!

The Power of Now & The Four Agreements are good reading materials to help those needing to be mindful/staying in the moment and to let go of the negative thoughts and spiraling over what could’ve been or what could be. Thank you for this share. I was just speaking with someone about this topic a few hours ago. Definitely resonates with me.

Love to see you back on these talks. Thank you!

I was so ready for this video to be a “drink water, journal, meditate” type of video and you totally caught me by surprise. Such valuable advice that is realistic and sustainable. I also adore all these quotes, they were so nice to hear. Thank you for this!

I really loved the way you talked about ‘Rephrasing’ the situation. Thank you so much for making incredible videos.

Yes!! Thank you!!! I’m usually rushing on hikes, or when I travel somewhere, I find myself not present in the moment, your video was such a good reminder!! 💜

I love your content, it’s so full of positivity. Thank you♥️🤍

I love therapists that challenge you. At first I usually get really frustrated because I feel like she doesn't get what I'm feeling, but after the sessions I reflect the things she says and whether she might be right in some points

I love your work! Thank you for your content and thoughtfulness in every video post :)

I love your videos the aspects of self-healing, preservation and love they emanate is amazing.

We usually get emotionally involved in every aspect of our life.. but unlike our physical well-being, we kind of ignore the signs of our state of mind.. we aren't aware of how to take care of our emotional hygiene.. Thank you for this.. listening to your words make me feel better.. sending you lots of love.. 💜

You are a rare and amazing person! Your channel is so inclusive and with a variety of different subjects I honestly can't see why the whole world doesn't watch it. You should be a health coach, your definitely talented for it. Much love for you and yours.!!!

Thank you so much for talking about how we are often too focused on the destination. I am reminded now to reflect on my journeys in the past and be proud of where I am now. Today we are often so focused on these fleeting moments of success and then those moments go away. I forget that my past self would be thrilled to see where I am now!!!

Thank you Sadia for blessing us with this video. This is exactly what I needed this week. I appreciate you and better help. For the better health of our mental health 💓. Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦

I love watching your videos Sadia, I've been seeing such a progress, not just physically, mentally and emotionally, just know that you're making everyone's day a lot better, Keep up the good work!!❤️👍🏻

@PickUpLimes

2 жыл бұрын

❤️🙏

I am so grateful for your Channel! It’s helped me immensely the last couple of months…thanks for everything 💕

Absolutely love this video, and it came at just the right season in life 💛 Thank you!

I love when you make this kind of videos,, the way you explain things you make me really think differently about things

I just love the way u break down things ......into so simple topics n explain it.....I had recently started following ur bulletin pattern n it has helped me a lot....thanku soo soo much...lots of love from india❤

I needed this today. Thank you, Sadia!

Thank you for doing those kinds of videos. I've been having a hard time and I decided to do a spring cleaning of my mind this year, not just a spring cleaning of my apartment. I've been making a list of daily things I can do to take care of my mind and body, and ways to add more daily joy in my life. I appreciate this video!

Your smile and videos have a great calming positive vibes which is in itself is a therapy . I like the way you define minimalism in some of your videos. Thank you for making such amazing videos.

Thank you, I needed to hear that. And your soothing voice and charisma makes it feels even better.

As a social worker, I really appreciate what you are doing. Thank you so much.

I usual put your videos while I'm cooking or doing some house work like a podcast cause I find your voice really soothing. And as I was today, I zoned out for a bit *comparing myself to a colleague at work* when I hear you say to stop comparing ourselves to people... I simply smiled. Thank you for making anxiety look so serene and mental hygiene feel so attainable. Sending you love from Morocco. ❤ I'd love to start creating content for moroccan people inspired by you, I'll just have to build up the courage for that.

This was so needed today .Thank you ❤

I finished this semester with two term papers and a very important application. It felt utterly amazing being done with it. But then I asked myself: what now? The 99% of getting to this short moment of joy were stressful and only filled with the thought "I have to get this done." Thank you for those wonderful messages :) Pick Up Limes has never been a recipe bank for me only, but a comforting place to both calm down and challenge my views. You're the best!

I'm so glad I found your video just now. I've been looking to make changes in my life and as I'm working towards those changes I'm also feeling so much anxiety, fear, and doubt. I even wondered if I should just stay put where I'm at even though it's been making me so sad and frustrated. But your video has helped me realized that I am doing the right thing for myself and I just need to continue with my journey and not be afraid. Thank you ❤

Your smile is so contagious... I just see you talking... And even though I am not listening you properly, It feels good. It's your vibe that makes the video so affirming and calming

Your videos are medicine for my thoughts, it incrediblly raise my mood and give me some directions to move toward. So thank you so much for constantly creating these.

your videos are wonderful and soothing. I love that you've shifted into educating your audience about mental health because you have a wonderful habit of providing well researched information. Thank you!

This was such a beautiful video put together. The topic was powerful and the style of how you present it was very calming and effective. I have been watching your videos for a while and I am absolutely proud of you. ❤️

Your cooking videos have been so inspiring and helpful for me so listening to speak about self care is even more encouraging 💕 Loving your amazing content

Amazing content, it was definitely so helpful ❤️ thanks for being so positive and honest always!

Omg ! The E+R=O is such a good way for a positive thinking....just today I had this feeling of being unlikable ..... perfect timing 🍃

THANK YOU SO MUCH miss sadia!!!!!!! idk bout anyone else but after watching ur videos (like this one from past) i've started becoming more mindful about my decisions and the thoughts that cross my mind and i can't begin to tell u how much impacting that was for me in the past couple of months. i seriously cant thank u enough for making such videos and influencing people and spreading such positivity. YOU are doing a great job and i want u to know how much it means to us, ur followers, when u upload. ly to the pluto and back, sincerely your viewer ❤

So greatful to have uplofting media such as yours. Im glad you take a step off the usual self engrandment side of sm and show your human/ vulnerable side 😀

I really needed this today! Thanks again, PUL, for making me happier.

Sadia, thank you so much for sharing. This is exactly what I needed to hear. I truly appreciate it. I love your channel.

Thank you so much for this video PUL team. I really needed it 🤍

Thankyou Sadia! Really needed this video today.

out of billion youtube videos, I got really excited whenever your videos pop up on my phone notification, Thank you so much Pick Up Limes ❤️

I really appreciate these types of videos.

Needed this! Love your channel so much ☺️

Absolutely amazing!! Ur genuiness shines thru!!

I love how your words moved me,thank you for this video,please keeping doing what you do,i love it❤️

I mentally cheer you on all of the time. Thank you for putting so many good things out into the world.

@PickUpLimes

2 жыл бұрын

Aw you're the best, Julie - thank you! 🥰 🤗

So many great nudgets and reminders in this one! For me it’s time in nature, playing with my little one or just watching him to play… kids are such a great reminder of what life is actually about

First of all watching your videos is therapy. Your home, the plants and your calm voice relaxes my mind. Thank u for your videos