Summary 1 posture / body language 2 keep smiling (positivity) 3 speak slowly and in controled manner 4 walk confidently 5 eye contact

@rahmanrzayev797

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@tamizhi2598

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

@ramaraju4621

3 жыл бұрын

So Become Putin...

@TomJerry-bp9ig

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh..u saved me from torcher😒

@ChandanKumar-wn2em

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you cheete 🐆

Timestamps: 2:01 1. Posture 3:10 2. Smile more 3:46 3. Speak slowly and clearly 4:14 4. Walk with confidence 5:14 5. Eye contact

@m_sharif

Жыл бұрын

Thanks.

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰🥰😊😊

@gouravpatel7407

Жыл бұрын

saved my time... thanks

@upsc3526

Жыл бұрын

People in India who speak loudly are called confident 🤣

@adityakumargupta6641

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

One more way I'd like to add is to learn more & gain knowledge as much as you can. Knowledge boosts our confidence & gives us the strength to outsmart people who talk shit or poses smarter than other. When you're full of knowledge, it restores confidence in you then you won't feel afraid in standing anywhere whether it's a group or a crowd. I have practiced it & now I'm so much more confident about myself.

@FatoumataBa-tg4sk

10 ай бұрын

For sure

@PinupSticknerd

4 ай бұрын

Yup. Quite restorative

Confidence, it's a feeling. You feel it and it shows all around naturally, without any particular projection or effort. If you don't feel it, perhaps for a while you can bluff with some or the other projection, but eventually people see through your nervousness.

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you, my friend

@powerplay6864

Жыл бұрын

But I think what she is trying to convey that looking confident is equally important

@HameedKhan-cs6cy

Жыл бұрын

Fake it,till you make it.

@rachitpatel3189

6 ай бұрын

Well said 👏

Today is the 1st day I seen in you ever in KZread- my 1st thought is “This is an angel” Thank you for the service you do into Earth ❤️

Looking confident: 1)Neck straight and shoulders relaxed 2)Keep smiling 3)Speak slowly in a controlled manner 4)Walk confidently 5)Keep eye contact

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for that. I am so gratitude for that

I really need this, pandemics really has been decreasing my social skills 🤣

@ioftendontreplybacktoidiot5251

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr It's even worse when you are an extrovert or wait when you WAS an extrovert💀

@asinazeez4014

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@phillyfan-182

2 жыл бұрын

Me too!!! On the up and up again!!!

@lawrencefox563

Жыл бұрын

Berry nice

@muhammadbinmomin5752

Жыл бұрын

The same is true for me, really !

1. Speak slowly 2. Walk confine 3. Eye contact 4. Smile 5. posture That's enough for me. I will keep the rule. Thank you so much

Confidence first rule is to accept whatever you are.be ok with ur looks and don't care of others thoughts as u can't change them at all. then confidence will itself run towards u

@sum5687

Жыл бұрын

Im confident from inside but i hv below average looking face so my face doesn't look confidnt n that's y im stil not successful n depressed frm last 7 yrs n now ovr 30 n still struggling

@rachitpatel3189

6 ай бұрын

Wow, good point 👍

@OrganizationXIII

5 ай бұрын

This

When you're dolled up like Shàde Zehrai, you will be confident

The self-confident is the most important thing for myself because I really reach my goals just with my self-confidence. Thank you for this episode Shade!

Shoulders back, stomach in, chest out. Learn it, know it, live it.❤

And here's why the Dunning-Kruger Effect causes most organizations to lose their edge over time.

I tried walking more upright and looking straight ahead while I walk at work, to see if it made any difference. I was shocked at the difference it made in how senior coworkers interacted with me and the respect I felt! Definately worth it!

@vaidyanathanrs6109

16 күн бұрын

Shade quite inspiring confidence listening to you. Only your fast american accent a bit unnatiral as it sounds is msking it difficult to follow. Hopefully will come up with Clsrity. I ❤U.

Ma'am, your speech clarity reflects the hard yards you had put over the years to strive for perfection. I want to do the same and hopefully this video can inspire me to begin it ☺️

In my opinion the more honest and hardworking a person is, the more confident he/She will appear, but thank you so much for your very important points in this regard...Watching from Kashmir India...

Wow, Shadé! These are very helpful. I've heard, "fake it till you make it." When I was in high school, I stood by a wall and straightened my back, balanced a book on my head and started walking. Today I'm 63 but I feel confident like a 63-year-old. At heart, ❤ I feel 23.

@AntySsy

Ай бұрын

Juat wow❤

Confidence is extremely important for any human being! I find that the more I am an expert in a field I am trying to be confident in the easier it is to be, for example, you wanna be confident in your dancing! then practice! Improve yourself! By improving yourself you are improving your confidence. From one creator to another great WORK! Love your videos!

The way you express yourself on different topics is really amazing. Your guidelines are of great importance for learners.

Yes, I actually want to be confident in public speaking. Confident also reflect our personality. Awesome strategies.Thank you so much.

THE PERSON WHO DISLIKED THIS VIDEO SHOULD BE FROM PARALLEL UNIVERSE WHERE CONFIDENCE IS BAD HABIT 😂 LOVED THIS VIDEO & LOVE SHADE ZAHRAI❤️

I can see , you have gone through pain. But that , has made you , a much , stronger person. Kudos

Perfectly agreed to all the points. Pandemic and bad company hindered my growth in confidence. It definitely is a task to conquer. I would also like to add that confidence grows better with increased subjective knowledge and experience.

I remember watching these videos a few years back and there would be around a thousand views. Now im seeing this video and it has 1.4 million views, so happy to see this and the level of success that youve achieved, very much deserved.

🤔 Even the initial seconds of this episode elevated my confidence. Gratitude!

I am so happy to find this. I am a massage therpist and corrective exercise specialist with focus in posture for musculoskeletal health. But I also teach clients to create energy by standing open and tall, keep eyes ahead and looking a bit foward, and activate toes while walking. It's an instant energy booster. This intrisincly increases confidence internally and your confidence will be recognized quickly by others. I advocate the use of body management in order to support the mind. Stand tall and activated and the mind will follow.

I really love her powerful teaching

I really happy ur teaching style

I just can't skip your videos by half watching. Thanks lot for sharing such kind of videos which are always require in our everyday life.

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you, my friend. They are so useful for everyone

and Be Kind to Yourself . Accept yourself as you are in the present. Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses without judgment. ☘☘🌟

Absolutely , it's very necessary

Superb as always! Amazing tips backed by strong research. Thank you so much for this efforts! Wish I could attend your seminars! I am sure it will have an amazing energy and positivity. 👍

Thank you for sharing valuable information❤

coming here after watching your Tiktok videos....love your content...keep motivating cheers

A soft spoken person can be confident, it's all about past experiences and learnings

this is the true western definition of being smart!

the voice..... man o man...... Your voice is just too good to be true...

Confidence is the righteously giving gratitude .....

No person on this planet was born with a talent, It is either perspective or hard work. Everything or anything could be learned.

The self confident is the most important thing for my self because I really reach my goals just with my self confidence thank you for this episode❤❤❤❤

We want to confident in my life. We have to a lot of knowledge about any field. Confidence- proficiency- success !

Confidence is really incredible skill

She's Glowing bright ✨

Thank you Shade. Love the short videos!

Love from India..👍👍🥰🥰 I saw ur Videos on regular way..& they give me too much Benifits in daily life..👻👻

In addition to the time-tested qualities of the ways you are recommending, the vedio production is of a high quality and soothing in and of itself. Thank you Shade, you rock!

Thank you for sharing these outstanding tips regarding confidence... May God Bless You 👍👍👍

This message is so instructive and covers many realm of Life!! Thanks a lot dear Ma

@deutschmitpurple2918

Жыл бұрын

❤❤👍👍

I dig this gals message and delivery. I have a short conversation with her and she listens and delivers. Good stuff

Regarding walking, I think having a straight but relaxed posture with shoulders back makes you feel (and project) more confident. In the west people walk a lot faster than in say Latin America where they have a totally different concept of time, but this often means that people are in a rush all the time when they don't really need to be. If you look rushed and stressed then this can make you appear less approachable. You can still walk slowly and appear confident. Think of people like Hank Moody from the TV show Californication, or producer Mark Ronson. Both are confident people, but very relaxed and are not rushing around..

Absolutely loved this video, Shade Zahrai! 😊 Your tips on boosting confidence are pure gold. It's incredible how you've broken down the process into 5 simple yet impactful steps. The way you emphasize the power of body language and self-expression truly resonates. Your insights are not just about looking confident, but about feeling it from within. Thank you for sharing such practical advice that anyone can apply in their daily lives. Keep shining your positivity and wisdom! Can't wait to put these tips into action. 💪🌟

You are Amazing... and so confident!

I absolutely love listening to you & find the content very useful and practical. I really appreciate all the information that you pass along.

@user-dl4hn6um1d

9 ай бұрын

Hi sweet gf

Due to social skills being the nuts and bolts of social interaction, your tips are gonna be really worthwhile.

Thank you Shadé for sharing these valuable insights

I love this more Shadé. All your tips was very helpful 😍😍💖💖💞💞 confidence is the skills that can be learn . Yayyyyy .

You confidently speak on the topic of confidence and body posture! :-)

Thank you! Shade, I really love this video.

Just love this woman 💗

Great advice! Now I know how to seem more confident!

Amo suas aulas prof ❤

It's not about looking confident. You have to feel confident. That's important

@ShadeZahrai

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. That is the aim. 👍🏽

@mbs0710

2 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai noted :)

@nazopedia6577

Жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai just fell in love what you said. immediately subscribed to your channel. would you please give advice how can i improve my English Speaking like you?

Great,thanks for sharing so valuable tips.

I wish I could return my confidence back. Really struggling to find a job, my qualifications can’t helping me. Very respect you and love your every video. Wish you the best of luck. This video is very helpful 👍

Something worth paid offered free and this is a most useful video

Thank you very much for given information

Thanks you are discussing topics concerned with today's world and lifestyle and giving proper advice to improve.😀🌹

Summary: Walk with a confident stride, speak slowly & clearly with great posture, smile & effective eye contact

In situations such as interviews, presentations and even just regular conversations, appearing poised and assured can make a real impact on how you portray yourself. In these instances, a lack of confidence can make you seem unsure of what you are saying, which in turn can make you seem less credible

Hello Mam, I really admire your videos.😊I have a request if you can make a video on "how to convey our thoughts to people without being rude especially to our seniors and elders who believe they know more than anybody".

Showing this video to my class.

Confidence isn't a skill, its a trait of your personality. It can't be cultivated overnight. It can't be like that you decide "oh let's look confident tomorrow". It doesn't work that way. You can't fake confidence. Confidence is consequence of hard work, honesty & consistency over a prolonged period. This way it is build up organically as an extension of your personality & it oozes out naturally from you without any need to project it artificially.

@salmasl5339

Жыл бұрын

But we can fake it till we make it .why not .tbh I'm not confident but I try my best to be confident i usually fake confidence . Yeah its working very well .

@umeshmehta5132

Жыл бұрын

@@salmasl5339 may be you can fake it & it will work at times but this habit will never let you develop the real confidence one that is extension of your personality. Remember in the time of crisis or real test fake confidence will fall flat & only confidence which has developed organically over a long period of time will take you places.

@howmathematicianscreatemat9226

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. What most people didn’t know is that not even bod language is necessary to convey it. There becomes a light from within visible, a mystical energy, when one is core confident. It’s the energy which introduces us before we even show our bodies. So, all the guys pumping up their shoulders don’t know they just make themselves look quite unnatural and ridiculous. Women feel their energy without even needing to look at them. They call it „charismatic masculine energy“ which is, as you say, impossible to fake

@hsd2002123

Жыл бұрын

@@salmasl5339 Then you'll cultivate your personality/reputation as a fake person. I learned from experts that, you need to be humble even though you are the smartest person on the planet😏

Upped the ante with this episode. Very useful Shadè Zahrai

All great points, worth inculcating in day to day life

Thank you for all advices

Wow. I’m more confident after this video ❤️

Awesome Shades! Thanks for the lovely help I think u r doing a great work. Keep it up..

So amazing! A woman knows so much! 😉

I love your confidence Shadé!

Thank you very much 😊 👍

Ooh man@ Watching n listening this lady is something more than anything.❤❤❤

Thnkew elder sister I will do it.

Thank you so much for amazing and concrete content Zahrai!

Amo suas aulas prof ❤❤❤ very thank you ❤❤❤

I knew all these Thanks for revision

My confidence comes from Shade and her regular advice. (Brad) from Maine

You are the example of what you saying,i like it.💓🙏

Good on you for explaining, great video for men and woman..

Belíssima amo suas aulas ❤❤❤❤❤

Being student for 17 long years and then being employee for 16 long years, I came to know only one thing, I am a subject to stress and strain for these 33 long years. I am not confident enough to face people in office. Then I read book RICH DAD POOR DAD, I changed my mind set and now I am living freely. You are not born to rot in anybody's office work. Thank You.

Thanks for sharing the important information

Thank you so much for valuable Information 👍

amazing everything you explain ma'am

You are simply amazing. The best

Addicted to your videos, extremely helpful - thank you:)

Like the way you talk about things and explain their nature!! ❤️

Fantastic presentation...Thanks.

Best nurtured oratory skills Always work smart 💯

You're doing a fantastic job .Thank you