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@alshavanattia8773

2 жыл бұрын

Okay! Despite the fact that I don't actually like you and I think you completely full of it just as much as the next bloke down the road and probably been on a diet of bologna sandwiches, Cocoa Puffs and piss and vinegar! Lolol!

@christopherboxford9556

Жыл бұрын

Not to sound concieted but I'm a fairly attractive guy but my teeth are starting to take a rapid decline (meth.. cough) Makes me not want to smile as much. Any suggestions?

@hardiksharma911

Жыл бұрын

"Do I need to be liked? Absolutely not. I like to be liked. I enjoy being liked. I have to be liked. But it's not like this compulsive need to be liked, like my need to be praised."

@IvySnowFillyVideos

Жыл бұрын

Socializing is overrated

@gnostic-foulfilth430

Жыл бұрын

narcissist

Becoming interested makes you interesting and gives you a mysterious aura

@tylersmith-bu5zd

Жыл бұрын

Fr

@irishcheese9575

Жыл бұрын

Interesting

@moonwolf8470

Жыл бұрын

I think the bigger part of being interesting is to face challenges and hardship. People with lot of experience are, what I find, interesting.

@ketsuro72

Жыл бұрын

can you also see aura ?

@sebastian3004

Жыл бұрын

You have to impress her enough for her to appreciate that. Otherwise you are just another dude trying to get to know her. Ain't it?

For the smile tip, you can be genuinely happy by detaching the people your meeting to what you experienced earlier that day. By genuinely being positive, you’ll be a lot happier. Also by being less judge mental too. Just because someone looks weird to you, doesn’t mean that person isn’t valuable and important just because you think they aren’t.

@siriusthestar1763

Жыл бұрын

A lot of people are not valuable/important

@UrMom-xn1bm

Жыл бұрын

Everyone is

@abujunayed

Жыл бұрын

Judgemental is one word, but I'm not judging you

@progfrogg

Жыл бұрын

@@siriusthestar1763 wrong. everyone is important.

@johnbarrett5229

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry but this sentence doesn't make sense to me Stelliphina: "you can be genuinely happy by detaching the people your meeting to what you experienced earlier that day." ???????

1. Become interested, not interesting 2. Say their name (mention 3 times in the first 3 minutes) 3. Smile 4. Begin with praise and honest appreciation

@violdhutmjdogo9unhftgyk76t4

3 ай бұрын

kardesim kiralsın

@shilohonetolove2177

3 ай бұрын

thank you for saving 10 minutes of my life :D

@dannysierra8740

Ай бұрын

😮

@shaggybg

21 күн бұрын

I do these, but I'm not attractive AF :D Attractive AF are people who are confident, assertive, energetic, self-aware, self-assured, honest, with good stance and body posture, authentic and always themselves, to name a few. I'm not some of these, so no matter how "interested" I am, no matter how many times I say their names, no matter how much I smile and praise and appreciate, people won't be interested and attracted to me "AF". ;)

As a female with RBF, I’ve had my fair share of elderly men approach me and tell me to smile. After reading this book, I actually started walking around with a smile regardless of how my day is going. I also have tremendous anxiety surrounding public places and what other people are thinking, so I started making a point of complimenting people I make eye contact with and it has actually helped me to gain clients at work. If I’m already smiling, they just smile back and we don’t necessarily have to interact beyond that, but complimenting them makes me feel better and less anxious and I’ve made someone else smile and saved myself from getting irritated with a stranger. It’s a win/win.

@everettlatimer3036

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I think this is what I need to do 😊

@-mouse

Жыл бұрын

that's cool

@wjeczkoo

Жыл бұрын

Feeling exactly the same! Making an effort to genuinely compliment someone just makes you feel good about yourself and stops all these negative thoughts that you have in your head.

@isiseloise7286

Жыл бұрын

Dude, I work in retail and so many men walk up and say for me to smile, not women, just men…

@phenex5190

Жыл бұрын

That... I'm going to try that. Maybe not 100% or all the time, but complimenting someone you made eye contact with sounds like something that, over time, would make you better able to adapt.

The one thing I learned and used the most throughout life is the listening part. I had noticed that unless directly asked about something specific, most people don't care about anything you have to say about yourself, they are just waiting for a turn to talk about themselves as well, and if you're honest with yourself you may admit that you don't care much about what they're saying either. If you want people to like you, let them talk and don't interrupt, just do little follow up questions or a nod at the right time to let them know you're listening. Absolutely everyone loves that.

@sassy098

Жыл бұрын

well for me people say that I'm quiet if I do that I gotta TALK to prove to people that I actually talk uk

@samuelchambers5761

Жыл бұрын

My only worry is that if I always do that, then it will become an expectation and others will use me a bit. So guess it’s a balance overall

@lsen01928

Жыл бұрын

What if you're perceived as a boring unintelligent person who can't hold a conversation

@skateordie9628

Жыл бұрын

@@lsen01928 all the more reason to stay quiet. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

@lsen01928

Жыл бұрын

@@skateordie9628 I'm asking if that is how you'll be perceived if you don't speak and mostly keep listening to the other person

Authenticity is key 🔑 Grateful for the shared knowledge and of course no commercials This is the way 🙏

@RichiChapman

2 жыл бұрын

So good.

@jessicajoyce9334

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems..

@sahilgoel3534

Жыл бұрын

🗿🗿🗿

@fatwp6345

Жыл бұрын

If you want to be genuinely happy it is. But as this video explains, being fully authentic doesn't quite pay off in the social world. You have to put on a face as if everything is peaches and cream in your life rather than being able to relax your face and be as you normally would lol.

Be interested Say their name more often Smile Put effort into the conversation Start with a honest praise

@mahamudhashaikh5006

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@ipotatoyou8954

Жыл бұрын

saved me 10 minutes worth of sleep on exam night thanks bro

@behealthywithme9178

Жыл бұрын

I do all this but still alone af and there’s ppl who don’t like it. 😉

@vadergrd

Жыл бұрын

@@behealthywithme9178 you should get feedback why they don t.

@behealthywithme9178

Жыл бұрын

@@vadergrd ahh this sentence 😅.. I love it. Nobody’s perfect. And other ppl are also not perfect. It’s about what kind of ppl you like. There’s ppl who love just the way you look and theres ppl who love your personality. We are all individual. Im smiling a lot, I’m calm ( I need no nosense attention), I’m empathic, I’m honest, i Listen to ppl, I accept everything I’m not discussing, I put a lot of effort in conversation, I’m sharing my food or money, I look good and I smell always good. I asked a lot why ppl distancing themselves from it. Not everyone but most of them love toxic ppl and you can see it how they get attracted by them. I know being good gets u used. No matter how attractive or interesting u r. Time by time they feel bored.

BRILLIANT ❣️ Especially, "Give people a fine reputation to live up to". Thank you, Clark. I thoroughly enjoyed the video, Clark.😁 (I really did like it!)

I have always appreciated your videos, but this one has taken my appreciation of your content to another level. Thank u for sharing yourself with us

Thank you for the recap. I read this book a few months back and needed a reminder of the principles. Will use them next week when I'm going out :)

I LOVE your videos Clark! Thank you for sharing your passion! 🤣 at “giving 1/2 expenditure of a calorie to learn your name!” I’ve found that in the same line of making someone feel important, if you’re late for a meeting with someone can also send a message that “they aren’t important”. But when you’re early or on time with a smile on your face, that shows you’re excited to be present with them and can also make them feel important and sends signals high vibrations💕😁

That was an excellent, well thought out and practical synopsis of Dale Carnegie’s book. Loved how you presented it, and even, at times, showed us what a particular technique looked like by role playing it. Subscribed. You have a gift. Thank you!

Clark, I love how you're comfortable shooting with only an empty background and at a close-up angle. Makes you feel authentic talking about this topic. (Just a random thought I had while watching the video.) First time for me here in your channel, but I can see you've been doing this for a while and putting in a lot of effort to be good at it. 🙌

What I love to do is remember specific things about each person I talk to, and then bring it up next time I meet them. It works especially well with stories and shows that you really do pay attention

Thank you, Clark!! I appreciate your edutainment videos. They're always fun and enjoyable to watch. 😁

Bro i wasnt expecting such a real video. This is real af, you gave geniune, soulful ways of looking at socialising. Respect!

@danherrick5785

Жыл бұрын

Someone learned quickly - showoff!

My buddy told me about 6 years back that he respected how I go after what I want and achieve that. To this day that’s stuck with me. That’s how powerful words can be!

I’m like a minute in and I know I will watch you for a long time to come. The humility and humour tie it together wonderfully

"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you" 🔥🔥

Introverts should be careful with "become interested, not interesting." As an introvert, I had a much harder time connecting with people before I started working on myself. Don't be obnoxious about it-read the room-but have something to share, because relationships are a two-way street: giving (interesting) and receiving (interested). Otherwise you're just a reporter, watching and asking questions.

@mm-cm6kc

Жыл бұрын

This is true. And then you're gonna be left alone as the "listener". I noticed people like to talk so I listen, but they also just talk about themselves, not giving any chance for you to share something about yourself. So when I notice that it's a one way conversation, I try to open something about myself so I feel good and initiated/hinted that I should also be involved in the talking and not here to just listen. But there are people who talk and ask, these are the people I like to talk to

@Maximus5775

Жыл бұрын

@@mm-cm6kcyeah the people who only care about themselves I just walk away from the conversation it’s a waste of time

You know what I appreciate about you Clark? Although your videos are short they never waste my time! I laugh AND I learn. Thank you ☺️

@ViralVideos-pr2oi

Жыл бұрын

10 minutes is long

@afm-unpluggedunderground8270

Жыл бұрын

@@ViralVideos-pr2oi how is that long? Lol

@jessitabonita

Жыл бұрын

@@ViralVideos-pr2oi 😂 10 mins is long? For life-changing quality content? Try listening all the way through a 4 hour video by The Rational Male. THAT will change your life.

Thank you for posting this video. I just recently finished this book. Gained a lot from its content. Grateful as always. Thank you for continuing your work

@jessicajoyce9334

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems..

i have been unconsciously practicing some of these already but it's so nice to learn about a few more things. thank you. great video!

Man, I just started watching you and you have massively changed my energy. I feel a lot more calm now. Especially after watching your letting go videos.

@MichelleBrayden352

Жыл бұрын

Hello

so interesting! What i can tell by my own experience (get complimented for it as well) is the power of keeping eye contact when it’s needed. it’s important to loosen it up from time to time (again the ‚not trying to come over creepy’ aspect) but keeping eye contact makes building a connection between two people that much easier and more real. And it also helps making the being interested part more authentic. if it’s hard for you maybe try practicing it in front of a mirror or with a person you trust (especially while talking as well). it makes someone want to open up more towards you and give you trust

Invaluable. Ive been living this since learning it my early 20s, but its good to hear it again. This is pure gold.

You know Clark, I really appreciate that the ad is at the end of the video really helps me focus on the video and enjoy it.

Self sponsor. No ads. Really noticed that until you mentioned it. Love how genuine you are. Thanks a lot man

Hey Clark , you're a new face on my feed. Right before you mentioned your brand I was thinking to myself this guy should be a health coach and it turns out you are some kind of coach. Well I just want to say i appreciate your video and I love little psychological tips we can use to enhance ourselves, our lives and our relationships.

@backbonebandit4722

Жыл бұрын

U took the advice and used his name😂

Thanks, Clark, as always, you made my day and LIFE better with this video!

@jessicajoyce9334

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems..

Very good advice! Your videos always have just the right amount of humor and it lifts my mood. Thank you! 😊

What an absolute force. That was so elegantly delivered! Thank you!

I listened to that book (audiobook) twice, and I have noticed a massive difference in how people treat me. If I had to guess, I’m a more likable person now. It’s so essential to get genuinely curious about people. I listen more than talk, and it’s made all the difference! I am thrilled to have found someone else sharing tips from the book I have been basing my interactions on for the past two months! New sub! 😊

@aaronclarke1434

Жыл бұрын

4 months now. Still working?

This is amazing. I actually find people super interesting so it's awesome to be genuinely interested- and it's true everyone loves it hehe 💗

@aarongaffney6466

Жыл бұрын

So much easier! I am more innie of ambiversion, so it’s natural for me to love listening more. :)

You definitely know what you are doing in your videos. Very informative, to the point and entertaining

Good to see you Clark. I'm so thankful that you just made me realize how bad I'm at social interactions. I'll try to be better. And i must say that your voice is so lovely. Have a nice day Clark. Let me go through your channel. 🤗✌

The biggest takeaway is that for any of this to work you HAVE to be open to change. You can't just watch the video and get excited then carry on. You have to practice and form new habits. But the rewards will be worth it. Plant the seed, water it, and watch it grow.

Thank you for this! It came at the perfect time! I have to have a talk today with my housemates that could go either really badly, or really well, depending bon how I negotiate things with them! This gave me some really good tips on how to negotiate with them both now and in the future so that things go well! Definitely very much appreciated!

@jessicajoyce9334

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems..

No idea how I found this dude but what a breath of fresh air. Full of wisdom and genuine advice thats applicable to anyone no matter their circumstance. Think I found a new subscribe. Thanks for the video, Clark.

I like you ❤️ Your videos are so informative. I wish you well and hope you continue to spread light.

I thought this would be some weird dating coach thing but actually these are really good tips lol thank you im glad i clicked

I'm sharing this as a tip for those who find it hard to be interested in the person you're talking to. Being interested is also learning about the person and what could you take away from their stories. Acknowledging that each person have different emotions, experiences, and circumstances makes it all the more reason why it is interesting to hear about people's stories. Even when I talk to people who have similar experience that I had, it interests me to know about their story on how they handled it emotionally or mentally. A rare advice which I believe I have only read twice in the internet. You wanting to talk to the person is already a good enough reason. No other reasons needed, your self wanting the conversation is enough.

This is so authentic, Clark. I just subscribed, Clark. Just kidding... Seriously this is gold and I resonate with what you said about identity and that our 2.0 version is not something we need to acquire but it's already waiting to be rediscovered within by shedding the layers of our false identities.

Love brother 🙏🤘.... This helped a LOT...you make it very understandable for a person who struggles with this stuff.... 💯

This gem popped up in my recommendations, I must say I really needed this bad. My social skills are trash, was never good at socializing with individuals but with these 4 tips it’ll help me make more friends and nurture friendships/relationships. Thank you Clark!

@mrgordy1980

Жыл бұрын

What a cool humble comment. Admitting is the first step, you’re going to be fine

@niothakid

Жыл бұрын

@@mrgordy1980 I hope so bro I appreciate the support

@lastyear2239

Жыл бұрын

What happened brother..... Any improvements on your confidence level around peoples?

@niothakid

Жыл бұрын

@@lastyear2239 I’m too shy bro whenever I try and talk to people I make it awkward and sometimes stumble across my words. I made some improvements by talking more slowly and stepping out of my comfort zone. Not try too hard during conversations

@lastyear2239

Жыл бұрын

@@niothakid great..... Also don't forget to maintain a Good Posture especially while interacting with others ☺

Hey Clark, I hope your day is well Clark. These videos you make are incredible, it shows that you put effort in them. I myself tried making videos as well, and appreciate the difficulty of making amazing content. Keep up the good work Clark.

@penguinman1000

4 ай бұрын

It sounds like you are trying too hard.

I resonate with you. I was hesitant bro. But the no ads helped a ton.

I'm actually working on manifestation and the exercises you recommended, Clark.. And it kinda works.. I'll do this one too.. And thank you again

@jessicajoyce9334

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems..

What I like about this video is he puts it in a gentle matter that we women can actually read your mind/you think you're invisible you're not we have already seen you what goes through our mind is who is this person and what do they want with me which I think that is almost anybody men or woman! So thank you for making this video

Love this kind of people on the KZread, please continue with this! Also can you give us more books for self improvement and social skills?

I never realized how impactful something as simple as remembering names could be until watching this. Thanks for sharing such practical and easy-to-implement advice!

That book changed my life, I went from no one caring or remembering who I was at work to the person that people will go slightly out of their way in the morning to greet. It's all about effort and being genuine, the principles written in that book have become habits I do on a daily basis, subconsciously. I studied the book, took notes and wrote on a journal, and I often review my notes and the book from time to time.

@amyk9813

Жыл бұрын

What's the biggest point your took from the book? The one that changed everything?

it's the first self-help book I read and it changed my perspective on interacting with other people. Remembering names is still a challenge for me though. I tried to use that trick he mentions, but honestly there were cases where I'd forget by the time I want to repeat it. If its a group I'll wait to see if someone else says their name and that helps. Great video though!

@shanemassey8398

Жыл бұрын

I'm the same! Recently I've expressed that "I already forgot your name, sorry!" And laugh. They appreciate the honesty and will happily tell you their name. Also, I've begun saying their name three times in front of them, to let them know I'm trying. They appreciate it! Finally, you can challenge them to say your name. Many times they don't either. It's a quick way to bond.

@bonhamcarter4488

Жыл бұрын

What's the name of the book

@DirectaBeMakinAScene

Жыл бұрын

Try rhyming it....Jack in the back wearing black

Great point about the RBF Clark! I have that same problem, and have been trying to smile more especially at the gym or social events. People often say I look like I'm pissed off and I'm just being normal ha! Awesome video!

@carpe996

Жыл бұрын

Tbey probably think you are busy 😅

Thanks for the upload Clark!

I wouldn't mind seeing sponsors in your videos! If you still provide such an amazing value and get paid for it, I'm all for it!

You are an extremely great advisor. Very wise words. I love your content

Clark, thank you. You've got the entertainment and education in this video. Great and motivating!!!

I have been watching charisma improvement videos for about 2 months now and you have been my favorite one out of all of them it’s something about the way it’s presented it’s just more relatable

Clark! I love your videos Clark. They are done super well and I’m grateful and appreciative… Clark. 😁. Trying out your tips AND written in complete sincerity… Clark. (Ok, that last Clark was just creepy humor lol)

Also one thing that maybe sounds weird, but has helped me alot in making new friends: Give People the opportunity to prove their trustworthiness, dont shy away from telling them something personal about you, when the opportunity presents itself. Most People have alot more fun talking to new People when theyre instantly treated with not only respect, but with trust (Both to a certain degree of course). And something to also keep in mind 8/10 people are perfectly fine decent Human beings, who will not let you down if you let them in.

You’re way too cool man, thanks for everything and keep up the awesome work Clark!

Thank you Clark! To give men more compliments that I will try to do more )

All these tips are super helpful but I think it's what's on the inside that makes the biggest difference, as you clark says people pick up on your intentions. The signals you send off supercede remembering someone's name or any of that stuff by a mile in the long run so perhaps you have a bit of social anxiety and feel a bit uncomfortable around others and it's hard to apply these tips, or you have depression and even faking a smile takes effort in a social situation. The true and sustainable answer is to reprogram the mind and that starts by developing presence and learning how to expand the frequencies of the heart through special practices that are easy and make a big difference in how others respond to you since after all everything is energy and we mirror each other. Best of fortune to you

@hoodiewrld7832

Жыл бұрын

Special practices like what?

@ranielvincecabarrubias6118

Жыл бұрын

wtf you saying?

@biggibbs4678

Жыл бұрын

Some people can pick up on "what's inside" but most people actually can't as long as you know how to act. We meet 1 person who can magically see through everyone's facade, and think everyone can. But most people can't it actually just comes down to basic social skills that can be learned

@fatwp6345

Жыл бұрын

@@biggibbs4678 I feel both of your comments. I suffer from depression and I feel like as soon as Im not smiling and just being netural, people look at me as if there's something majorly wrong. Equally, when I'm able to fake my way through it, people mostly don't notice a thing.

LOL Love your personality. Great tips!

You’re a great playlist to listen to from San Diego to La 🚗💨! Great videos!

This channel is unbelievable high value in exchange for our time 😊 thank you so much!

As a casino dealer, I can confirm that the things mentioned in this video will actually increase your tips. I was told towards the beginning of dealing poker “you should smile more, you look grumpy” by a player (a.k.a. Resting b*tch face). They were right. As I was new to dealing, I was concentrating and nervous which made me had a serious expression. Now when I approach the table to come in as the new dealer, I be sure to have a very slight smile (not a frown at least). Then when I sit down, I quickly glance for a split second at each player. If I make eye contact, I’ll give the slightest nod (almost like of recognition). If I do know their names, I will acknowledge them with a “hi John”. If someone has a cool shirt, hat, watch or luckily poker “charm” I’ll give them a “nice shirt!” nod. Last week a guy had a Motörhead shirt and I acknowledged it and then quietly sang a a line from “Ace of Spades” (one of their biggest songs). He laughed and said “great tune”. He ended up being my biggest tipper that round. People just want some sort of connection. Once they feel that, they are MUCH more generous when they have the chance to be.

One trick I have, inspired by Carnegie, is to remember people's problems. Like if last time we talked their new job wasn't going well, or they'd hurt their leg, I like to check up on that quickly. Not dwell on it, and not try to solve it if there's nothing I can do, but just remembering it seems to go a long way.

Short and straight to the point. Thank you ❣️

This is one the best video I have watched today, a wonderful channel .

As someone with ADHD, I've always struggled with getting out of my own head. Unfortunately. I'm also very stubborn so I refused to accept it was adhd. Now that I'm 24 and friendless.. something has to be done. Videos like these truly help. Thank you.

@shashankthapa659

6 ай бұрын

Better to have no friends than fake friend's. Hope you have a great day.

@Mogwai88

6 ай бұрын

Start meditating. Seriously, it changed everything for me. And it's free.

@Yourubeei

5 ай бұрын

ADHD has nothing to do with it, stop putting labels on things that don’t need labels, man up and take responsibility

Still there are times when I want people to not ask me many questions within the first five minutes of meeting. I believe we still have to develop the art of asking questions or discern what to ask or what not to ask. I dislike when people ask me, “where are you originally from?” because it has nothing to do with the moment other than them being interested on letting me know that I am not from the United States, according to them. I believe the most important thing is to offer people comfort with your presence: sometimes through what you say and at times without saying anything. Anything you say or do shall enrich what the person you are connecting with is saying or doing. Avoid asking extremely personal questions. People will tell you more information when they trust you and feel comfortable and decide to tell you.

Awesome video , your energy alone is contagious ……… keep up the good work

Crazy... as I watched this video I realized everything I did right last weekend at the bar. I met this girl, was introduced through friends, got her name and a few minutes later I called her by her name and asked her a question about herself. Then I backed off for a little while. Then I called her by her name again and asked another question in which we found a commonality from. Then we kept talking about things with different questions. I wasn't trying to be overly nice or flirty but I was genuinely enjoying the conversation. Towards the end of the night, I complimented her on her music type. Then, right before the bars closed, she asked me if I remembered her name. which I said "of course, its x. What's my name?" Immediately challenging her with the same question to see if she had the same level of interest. After this, we ended up going home together. Nothing was weird, we had real conversation that night and it was genuine and natural. Girls don't want you to try, they want you to put forth effort. there's a difference.

Remember: Do not compare yourself with others. If you are happy with what you have with your hardwork then you are successful…. Our habit of comparing ourselves with others will really damage ourselves ( I had gone through it and gained nothing)… Concentrate on your hobbies and work; this will simply make you “Attractive”.

@earth-air-water-fire-aether

Жыл бұрын

And then people will have another problem of I'm attractive, why aren't I getting some, it's the same mentality of having hope, hope has no action first-hand.

@apsarasgaming1663

11 ай бұрын

Meanwhile me don't care i being like or not,i just being myself kek 🤪(please people just waste time lel)

@apsarasgaming1663

11 ай бұрын

Also people now a day so judgemental that's why either they like me or not idc tbh , at least i already treat them the way i treat myself 🙈

@zubinmehta1282

11 ай бұрын

@@earth-air-water-fire-aether let them be with their mentality bro…you just need to keep going straight…Good Luck😉

Finally some advice that makes sense... Thank you so much!!

Clark you’re an excellent salesman. I love your initiative.

This was an interesting watch because I've always generally faked interest in people and their interests in order to be friendly and curteous to them when they have something to say, which I've noticed has gotten many of my coworkers and acquaintances throughout the years to like and trust me. I always thought of it as just having good manners. Anyways, my problem is that as I grow older I've come to genuinely dislike people and have stopped faking interest due to the fact that [in my experience] relationships with others based on lies and faked interest can lead you down paths you wouldn't normally take which leads to time wasted on objectives which aren't your true goals and dont reflect your values. The lesson here is: Be yourself, unapologetically. Don't fake your life to appease others. Stop worrying. This is YOUR life, so live it how you want to.

@anusha2465

9 ай бұрын

Same girl. I had stopped people pleasing and people at work started respecting me more. I might have less friends now, but people know I am no doormat.

Those who are meant to be in your life will be in your life. Trust the process 💖

@RichiChapman

2 жыл бұрын

Totally!

@jessicajoyce9334

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems..

Wow, beautiful video Clark! ❤️

First video I’ve watched of yours, subscribed immediately. Thank you for your dedication in being so inspirational. I’ll be watching more for sure! Do you have a podcast?

"a bunch of people sitting around complaining, who wants that" - I literally started laughing because I have seen this exact scenario anyway these are great tips!

Tip guys don’t everrrrr let nobody step over you nor disrespected , respect should be payed with genuine respect .Once you let someone disrespect you in anyway you devalued yourself it doesn’t mean talk shit or fight back but stand for what’s right and moved on from friends relationships strangers or even family sometimes. We are all individuals . Happy come within do what you love regardless of what it is .

@fatwp6345

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I'm seeing comments where people are being told to smile by others as if they owe them that. You are only giving that person power of you if you feel like you have to be a certain way to please them.

Thank you for this video, I came across it at the right time for me, and have now ordered this book, as I look to improve myself in life. I have also subscribed to hear me from you're channel.

Great effective advice, Clark! 👍

Yeah, but what we all want is a relationship that gives us everything we desire. How much are we willing to give? Learning how to put someone else's needs over our own can be difficult acted out throughout the course of a long term relationship, even if you're in love. We only have to be attractive to the right person that sees us and then join along side them for the ride of a lifetime.

Damn the first 20 seconds resonate so much with me! I just want to really be charismatic so that people like talk to me more And yes! I just overthought every single action even like standing up

@jessicajoyce9334

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems..

@kamehameha9160

2 жыл бұрын

No thanks!

@Halo4beatsB02

Жыл бұрын

lol

i was pretty bad in social situations and was kinda shy and unpopular in school, but now i've improved myself, my buddy even said "i was probably the first one in college to be in a group of people and haveing friends"... which i can see, cuz i actually kinda talk with everyone and some friends are like "wait, who was [name] again" after i mentioned a name. i've learned to just not think much and just listen and talk whats going thru my mind, dont overthink, just be yourself and smile! my resting face has a slight smile, so people always view me as a happy person, which makes me actually happy

"What I am is good enough if I would only be it openly." -Carl Rogers

The self-sponsor got me. I subbed. I think the tips or secrets are awesome.

Thank you for this video! It helped a lot especially people that have social issues in the first place and or disabilities.

Although I've read pretty carefully and completely Dale Cargegie's book and follow these advices, I don't think that to be interested is enough to create really good social interactions. Active listening is important, but it's only one side of the picture. Another part is still to be interesting. Think of the parties you've been to and there's always a so called "life of the party" person. And all people are listening and having fun with them, because they are good at keeping the attention and telling jokes, stories, etc. So I think that to be an interesting person, know storytelling and leading engaging converstations, to "give" so to say is also a skill that should be learned.

@biggibbs4678

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely not, they're the life of the party because they talk a lot, aren't afraid to express themselves, and they have the ability to be "on" all the time.

1- Be interested, not interesting 2- Say they're names 3- Smile 4- Stay honest, give out small compliments BONUS - Eye contact ;)

Nice job with this one, couldn't agree more with you.

Thanks! This video was very helpful.

Getting tips from Ben Affleck's nonalcoholic younger brother was pretty cool. Right from the start, every tip was awesome. Thanks for taking the time to make the video. I will work on being genuine in using them. Like you said, this is about being honestly more interested in others.

Although I’m insanely shy and rarely socialise, i find whenever I’m at an event a sudden confidence I never have usually comes over me. But i swear this only happens when I’m forced to be at events and parties 😹

@adgepeterb

Жыл бұрын

Wow interesting. Tell me more. That sounds sooO cool. Uh-huh, Uh-huh, mm-hmm. So how do you get to these events do you drive? And why do you feel shy is it because people like me have to pretend were interested in what you say?

@anusha2465

9 ай бұрын

This is so me!! I became overconfident as hell in parties or get-togethers, but I tone down these days as I realised confidence bring a lot of enemies. Generally I am shy af.

What a beautiful video🙌. It almost feels like we’re actually sitting together and you’re talking to me. You can make yourself feel close even from a screen. I think thats the point😅 great job