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@stanserilla9077

11 ай бұрын

Hi baby

Also, stop trying to force a “connection” with everyone! Be kind and genuine. If you’re desperately trying to find something in common, it’s really obvious and not attractive. Especially to anyone who has read the book that all of this advice came from.

@Pbcvl

Жыл бұрын

book name?

@dream-nz9yb

Жыл бұрын

@@Pbcvl how to win friends & influence people

@Virvepaulina

Жыл бұрын

Yess!! Find your own peeps 🧡

@railanna

Жыл бұрын

@@dream-nz9yb omg this book it's amazing

@miracles424

11 ай бұрын

This guy teaching how to get people addicted to you and to like you and im in 20 seconds in the video and I hate him and hate his mouth and his teeth and his eyes are annoying 😫😫😫😫🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ this guy in the video is not attractive asf and I’m blocking him bye

Drawing attention to similarities between you and the other person is a big one for strengthening connection. Also, having your own hobbies/fun things you enjoy doing, and then talking about those things makes you so much more interesting of a person to talk with. You come off energized and like you are actually awake in life, not just going through the motions of work/eat/sleep.

@happisakshappiplace.6588

10 ай бұрын

Interesing point.

Being authentic is always the best thing to do in any scenario

@lebronejhames7265

Жыл бұрын

Lol maybe 8/10 times 🤷‍♂️ gl tho

@loadapish

9 ай бұрын

Until you realise nobody likes who you really are. Then what

@takla2129

9 ай бұрын

@@loadapishfuck their opinion on me, care only about what God thinks of me

@augustgirl2905

9 ай бұрын

@@loadapishit isnt possible that nobody like who you REALLY are unless you are just an ahole, maybe your reputation is damaged, we like what is desired. Change spaces, an undervalued item can be a fan favorite in another market. Talk to people who values you and the rest will follow.

@lofisky4355

9 ай бұрын

@@loadapish8 billion people and no one likes you?

“The eyes chico, they never lie”

@ukulele-covergirl

Жыл бұрын

You sure about that? 🌺

First time watching you Clark, and I must say that you are a great storyteller! Love how you talk about examples happening in your real life or something that you came across which captures our interest, to then later on connect that with a social skill. Keep it up brodie👊

I really like the 1st tip. I have a lot of anxiety around talking with people at work when it comes to confronting them about work issues. My thoughts take over, and I chicken out of communicating what is important to me. Thanks, Clark, for putting it in perspective for me 😊👍

@DanielleAlbright-ew1zo

Жыл бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢🎉🎉🎉🎉

Great video as always!! Thanks for the help 🤗

Here are 5 secrets to enhance your social skills and make yourself more attractive to others. These techniques will help you to connect with people in a genuine way, without resorting to manipulation or insincerity. Charisma and likability are skills that can be learned, just like any other skill. Unfortunately, most people are not taught these skills, which is why so many struggle in this area. By incorporating these tips into your daily life, you can improve your interactions with everyone you meet and even climb the ladder at work. While there are dozens of tips and techniques,

Needed this! I started noticing the past month that I don’t make much eye contact I look past someone or around the room. It was because I was more anxious. I’m now aware and have been trying to look at the eyes more . The only way I noticed this in myself was bc I was talking to someone who wouldn’t make eye contact and then it hit me I was the same .

I've always had problems with keeping eye contact. But then someone told me "Look at their eye color, notice if there's a difference between the eyes". It gives the mind something to do, it's not just staring... Works for me :)

@dream-nz9yb

Жыл бұрын

I’m going to try this! Thanks for sharing

@lasvegasplease

Жыл бұрын

Vinnie Jones, of all people said, that if you look at one eye and not both of them, it makes it easier.

GREAT CONTENT! THANKS, CLARK!

Another great video! Can’t wait for the next one

I have been trying to find a mentor for quite sometime now and man did you hit on everything I need to hear! thank you man.

This is so helpful for me personally, but also for my next story. There’s been something missing with one of my characters and your first tip is perfect! 😊

Our experience with tip number 4 really resonates with me, and I can relate to the struggle of accepting compliments and the realization that my "humility" was, in a way, a form of backward arrogance. It's interesting how sometimes what we perceive as humility can actually be a mask for insecurity or a fear of vulnerability. When I started forcing myself to accept compliments genuinely and simply say "thank you," I, too, felt exposed and vulnerable. It made me confront my ego and the discomfort of being seen and appreciated for my strengths. However, just like you, I recognized that this discomfort indicated an area for personal growth, much like a form of shadow work.

True talk, you seem real to me and relatable. It's one of the reasons I like ya.

Regarding tip number 4. I used to be one of those people; in many ways I still am. But at one point I realized that my "humility" was being a sort of backwards arrogance: i found myself having a much harder time grappling with my ego when I started forcing myself to just... Accept the compliments. I realized that just accepting, and genuinely just saying "thank You" was making me feel vulnerable and somewhat "exposed", so I started forcing myself to doing it more and more. I though "Wow, if it is feeling so hard to do, then it must mean learning how to do it it's good for me.". Kinda like a shadow work thing, If that makes sense

Very empowering content, thank you!

Another good tip is active listening in conversation. For instance when someone talks about something they like even though you may not be on the same page, mention it in your response and ask intentional questions about the subject that point to the interest and the person your talking it. It shows you really care what they are talking about and want to know more about them rather than saying “that’s cool and than moving on to another subject.” Also be sensitive to the conversation. Share the conversation. Don’t take over and do most the talking. Don’t dominate the conversation. Make it fair, share some of your thought and also leave room for them to share there thoughts. And most importantly ask questions. If they don’t ask back on your thoughts than I highly recommend you make room in your response with your thoughts so than you don’t feel drained. Not everyone has these social skills or awareness so don’t be a stranger to advocate for yourself by including your thoughts in your response just in case you talk to someone who lacks that social grace.

I had an appraisal today with the head boss, made lots of eye contact while engaging the other interviewer. Nailed it !

Good advice here. Having good social skills are definitely a must have in life and I know so many people that would benefit from this. A lot of people don’t even know that information like this is out there!

the biggest thing in communicating is sometimes having a goal to reach through the conversation good video:)

thank you for all the information, you are really helping a lot of people🙏

This was great, thanks!

These videos are so good. Great information.

Really helpful, thanks! Might incorporate this video into my English classes. 😍

It's basically about the dream life of people with social anxiety. Thanks for spreading those tips!

Have a great week clark

Always fun informative videos to watch! Love it! Also.....your eye contact lol.

It doesn't matter if they like you or not...you do need them to respect you for sure

Very very very good video!!!

Just " don't care "; it's refreshing and the freedom you feel makes you standout.

Solitude, self love is the key to many love 😊❤️

I quite like that first one. I'm guilty of spending way too much time in my head, and as a result, it does take me away from the social aspect. I'll try to remember this.

The art of caring less remains priceless.

Great video!

Clark. MY MAN always on point inspired by you. GAVIN FROM SOUTH AFRICA

Also exercise and drink coffee. My confidence has been sky-rocketing ever since!

Loving your vibes...❤thanx again for another winner 🏆 🥇 🏅 👏 😉🙏🏻💯 💙

Everytime I watch your videos I leave having learned something.

Thanks for sharing us this video. It really helps out a lot in self improvement.

This is awesome! 😊

U deliver great content - glad I found u. Plus you’re easy to look at 😉

Great informative video

Really good job

Excellent video

- [00:00] 🤝 Five social secrets to make people like you without being fake or manipulative. - [01:01] 🧠 Win the inner game: Overcoming self-doubt and internal chatter is key to better social interactions. - [02:38] 👁 Eye contact: Maintaining appropriate eye contact conveys confidence and engagement. - [04:28] 🤝 Highlight similarities: People are drawn to others with shared interests and experiences. - [05:47] 🙌 Accept compliments graciously to boost self-confidence and improve social interactions. - [07:10] 💖 Authenticity: Sharing authentic and vulnerable moments helps build trust and connections.

Great vid thanks.

Bro got the vibe subscribed ✅

Glad to see you still have the Mustang :)

Nice advice bud!

thank you for your tips i agree with you

This is great!

Yaayy Clark new vdo...❤

Clark, you don't need to mess up twice. Most people will not notice if you mess up once, unless it's really bad. If I mess up and mention it when I come off stage, usually people will say, "really, I did notice."

Clark’s voice is so comforting

Your content is a 10/10 awesome 👍👍

Unfortunately eye contact for Autistics and neurodivergent individuals is a major difficulty- I can *do* it but then all my focus goes into dealing with the eye contact and I have almost no ability to process what the individual is saying. Autistic culture, like the d/Deaf culture, has a whole different swathe of social and interactive cues.

It took me forever! To get used to taking compliments. I was always - yea thanks but it can still look better…..etc. Just say thank you. Return it with a likewise compliment. Extra brownie points.

I really love, "mess up twice."

Man i love how literally going into public has become not only overly complicated, but a legit market for coaching 😂

@aquila1993

9 ай бұрын

lol I had the same thought

Also when someone complements you you can tag on thank you for noticing (blank). And boomerang it back to them. This is what worked for me

You had me at "borderline drinking problem"

Never thought i'd see Superman open a KZread channel!

Do you have a podcast? I would defenitly listen to you for hours

I absolutely adore your videos 🤍🤍

Dude you're so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You have me cracking up at every other words you say you are something else I love it 🕺🕺🎉🎉🎉

Be KIND & GENEROUS. Everything will follow❤😊

Thank you...

This is great

Thank You for this information like 👍👍

Thank you

I’ve never been able to maintain eye contact. It has held me back all my life and has prohibited me from forming relationships.

6:50 is so spot on.

not saying it everything was groundbreaking and new to hear but i agreed with all points

You keep bringing up hollow earth in your videos and it's one of my friend's special observation. And he is truly one of the most interesting person I know 😂

Be real to win the heart not just the game ❤

My mom used to say learn to laugh at yourself. So if you have an embarrassing moment most times I just laugh with every one else. I don't feel they are judging me. More like saying ooh my! I've done that before.

As an alien lifeform trying to pass as human, this was really helpful

Nice video👍

cool video, but as a non-native what I'm really grateful for it's the phrase "snooze fest" 😁 thx man

Great advice! Also, I can't put my finger on it but this guy reminds me of some celebrity

Your a wise dude Ben Affleck.

@falcons9659

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Man your perspective 😊❤just woww

Hello nice guy am listening your lecture .# the thing is am cooking my launch to tomorrow on work or job this great hunting much stuff

Was with ya till you said that’s why celebrities share personal vulnerabilities. I see all celebrities as fake and figured they knew sharing vulnerability was a way to connect but that for them there is some sort of motive, agenda or manipulative programming going on. Perhaps I need therapy…or perhaps I’m right 🤓

Genius person

I was a hairdresser for many years. I always kept the conversation on them. Asking about pets is a good one.

@wintersun398

Жыл бұрын

do you have a good memory? If they told you they have a cat called whiskers, would you recall that the next time you cut their hair?

@WheelerRanch

Жыл бұрын

@@wintersun398 I would, remembered a lot of details about my customer base,especially their pets

@tammybrantley6262

Жыл бұрын

@@wintersun398 I do make notes on clients. Keeps the conversation flowing and they think I remember!

I agree, Apple Store staff are very polite and friendly im a way your willingness to buy something increases

Lol 😂 ‘ Just so you know I have a borderline drinking problem’ I love how you occasionally throw funny scenarios.

The 'mess up twice' technique failed me! I was playing drum set in jazz combo and dropped both of my sticks. Not at the same time, but within the span of about 5 seconds. Dropped my right one, picked it up and recovered, then dropped the left one

@GenRN

Жыл бұрын

If you only knew how to juggle.

Good vid

Eye contact is a tough one for me. I need to do it more beucase I get a ton of anxiety with eye contact. Need to get over it.

This guy's a genius

thanks

Thanks

Love u friend ❤

I'm 55, and for whatever reason, at crucial (and non crucial) times, I've had off eye contact. It weakens that connection, and so I have been doing a "Michael Caine", where he said, "you stare at one eye, and do not blink, until you need: the power of maintaining that kind of eye contact is visible in film."

@ashandwit

11 ай бұрын

Not verbatim, btw.

Ty 👍