I want a man who loves Jesus Christ more than he loves me.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Taien Jamir Amen 🙏🏾

@NANash-ct4ix

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!! 🙏🏽

@medleyedition1866

4 жыл бұрын

facts

@mariachildofgod542

4 жыл бұрын

Amen , that's always been my favorite quote lol

@jennawright6585

4 жыл бұрын

Keep the faith, God did it for me, he can do it for you 😁

“When You’re Born, You Look Like Your Parents. When You Die, You Look Like Your Choices”🤯🔥

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Elle Jaye Good Word 👌🏾

@nat-natc.8142

4 жыл бұрын

whewww, that shook me up!

@jaelvaldezpropertynerdstv982

4 жыл бұрын

Word 🙌🏼

@ladyshenna967

4 жыл бұрын

Oooooo weeeeeee!!!!!!!!

@omonuwaibizugbe9132

4 жыл бұрын

These is the best word ever. These is really true sister....

My pastor told me “Are YOU the godly person that the godly person YOU are waiting for is looking for?”

@keh-dalia809

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm gonna chew on this.

@user-qg8ff8sb4h

4 жыл бұрын

This is a profound question.

@avalily7354

4 жыл бұрын

powerful... that is why it is so important to understand other perspectives - you can never grow

@redsoxplayer34

4 жыл бұрын

Straight out of Andy Stanley’s book: The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating. Highly recommend

@alleashawatson4648

4 жыл бұрын

That's powerful!

"It's okay to fight for someone who loves you, it's a waste of time to fight for someone TO love you" SIR, I NEED THIS FRAMED🏃🏾‍♀️💨💨💨✨

@ashleyjohnson9693

Жыл бұрын

Love it❤

@kamifearlessoul122

Жыл бұрын

Agree 🙌❤️

@mearaftadewos8508

Жыл бұрын

"if you can't find one, then build one!" ☝Thats a demonic doctrin right there. Run folks, run! Godly marriage is like the marrage of the Church and Jesus Christ. The Man is the head of the house and the head of the man is Jesus Christ. So, if a man doesn't have Jesus Christ his head of life, the way he thinks through and lives through, then Ladies run from him! He needs a godly fix, not your submmistion or intimacy. The only thing a lady can be for such a guy is a prayer mate, an encouraging friend from distance. That is it.

The truth is, he gon get on my nerves anyway. Might as well get on my nerves to the glory of God.

@SistaInTheFaith

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@lauresoro6981

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@KrystalwithaK

4 жыл бұрын

@Dee Cee Did. I. Lie?

@epiphanychild3289

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@CrixusHeart

4 жыл бұрын

😆

“Marriage is for mature audiences only”

@salexander3801

4 жыл бұрын

Chocolate Coated Life that part

@saradividu9504

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@raquelchildofthemosthighgo3546

4 жыл бұрын

Amen, I'm all for it. My marriage is Only making me stronger for the kingdom.

@surgeon2b

4 жыл бұрын

Say👏🏽that👏🏽

@warriorandchildofgod2425

4 жыл бұрын

True indeed.

Knowing that someone is correcting you because they truly want the best for you is much more acceptable than someone leading you from a place of control.

@Jaxmusicgal23

Жыл бұрын

That is the hardest. I truly love and want to see him succeed and I pray like crazy. He doesnt recognize it and hates me ever talking about his flaws and want him to grow. He fights it and ignores every person God sends.

I literally prayed for a godly man & then I got on to a KZread & seen this & watched the video & I STILL WANT A GODLY MAN . 🥺🥺🥺

@audumiracle5104

4 жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

@Mae-rr5ye

3 жыл бұрын

Same ☺️ thankyou Jesus lol

@BmoreBetterNOW

Жыл бұрын

Me too!

@alanokida7586

Жыл бұрын

I hope that’s true…

@venkialapsey4134

Жыл бұрын

Lol facts 💯

"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men". - Frederick Douglass

@jaelvaldezpropertynerdstv982

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏼

@beloved3244

4 жыл бұрын

🤔🤔Proverbs 25:24 - It's better to stay outside on the roof of your house than to live inside with a nagging wife. 🧐🧐

@jb0mb95

4 жыл бұрын

Darryl 😂 petty...but true

@Humblethyself656

4 жыл бұрын

I have this on my bumper sticker❤️

@viva2pk

4 жыл бұрын

AS Wow...excellent 👏😊 Thanks for sharing.

“It’s okay to fight for someone who loves you. It’s a waste of time to fight for someone to love you.” 🔥 🔥🔥🔥 👀👀👀 That’s a fight you will never win.

@Pastorlifekennedyprayerministr

4 жыл бұрын

So true

@ladennayoung2939

4 жыл бұрын

TRUE

@lionelluva

4 жыл бұрын

Ruthie Waters that line 🔥

@israelolorundare6140

4 жыл бұрын

True

@Jasmyne444

4 жыл бұрын

Woorrrddddddd

Am I the only one that went “ooh dang” every few seconds. 😂

@amichelle0370

4 жыл бұрын

😆😆 nope me too!

“Do you meet the expectations that you require?” ...Looks like I’ll be single for a long, long time.

Wow... this made me feel somewhat uncomfortable... that could only mean that God & I need to do some serious talking before I even attempt to step back out into the dating scene 😳

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

DRideaux87 Not a bad idea. Thankfully today you have a world of resources 😉

@salexander3801

4 жыл бұрын

DRideaux87 shouldn’t even be dating-you need to build up discernment because 90%+ people that come your way (could be 99% and that one is your husband if He wills) are not sent by God. Keep seeking Truth and his Word to have a clear picture of first your purpose, and to weed out the many fakes; this ain’t an overnight thing.

@joelmalacara80

4 жыл бұрын

Sis don’t even try dating!! It’s a mess!!! Stay single and secure a bag!!✨✨✨✨

@leahthesoulflwr2990

4 жыл бұрын

Same !

@tiffaniedavis1019

4 жыл бұрын

@joelmalacara80 Ik you mean well but we as Christians biggest accomplishment is to serve christ and enter the kingdom and have everlasting life with him in heaven. Most don’t really need to worry about money to much because we know Jesus has us. But I get you mean well I was just stating my opinion. God bless you I love you very much and I hope the best for you💗💗💗💗💗

Words of hope.Whoever is reading this i pray for restoration in whatever you had lost whether it's relationships, health, marriage and finances . Blessings

@mt7712

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@mt7712

4 жыл бұрын

God bless you richly!

@8adassa

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@kaoshi_kutie

4 жыл бұрын

Amen! ❤️🙋🏽‍♀️

@rochelle1199

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

When he said "how's your prayer life now, who do you represent?" That hit hard!!! I'm done slacking.

"Bc he (Godly man) knows that every CHOICE is pregnant with the potential to give birth to a season!" Whew!!!! Speak Brotha!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Glorrrrraaayyyyy!!

@joamacnalie

Жыл бұрын

This one 🔥🔥🔥

“God doesn’t give us next instructions because we haven’t had now obedience”...bruh lol🙃

@Keesha_Hardy

4 жыл бұрын

Yep I felt one too.

@CarissaJenkins

4 жыл бұрын

had to write that one down 😭

@yeira_rose_helen

4 жыл бұрын

God will ONLY give us HIS next instructions IF (the condition is if we are willing to do) what He puts in our paths. We have to learn how to be obedient, and learn how to listen and do. When we humble ourselves toward God, He becomes #1. That’s what God wants. He wants us to put Him first when we wake up (thank You LORD for waking me up today. Please teach me in everything I do LORD, and let it be for You). And when we are on the way (at lunch time, give the LORD THANKSGIVING, even if you are having a rough day, give Him praise, and acknowledge the LORD). And when we lay our heads down to sleep (give praise and thanksgiving again to the LORD for the day HE has given you. Ask Him to forgive you of any sins you may have not known you have done against Him or anyone else. And ask for Him to give you peace while guiding your spirit as your body rests). Believe it or not, you are constantly learning and training from God even when you sleep. So, when we follow these easy and simple steps: humble yourself, listen to God’s voice, and do what He says. Then we are on the right path with God. Amen.

@adibee3346

4 жыл бұрын

My sentiments exactly!! My Lord!!🔥🔥

That's good!! So if a woman wants a Godly man, she has to first be a Godly woman because she will already know what to expect when "He" finds "Her"..

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Tina Calloway Amen 👌🏾

@salexander3801

4 жыл бұрын

Tina Calloway 🔥 they ain’t hear that

@CoolGent87

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!! That is well said

@no1_raisondetre542

4 жыл бұрын

Ecclesiasticus 26:23 A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord

@yeira_rose_helen

4 жыл бұрын

OR God will betroth you to that specific person HIMSELF, and it will be good. And it will be done. That’s what happened to me and my husband of 18 years. We are still walking together in HIS light, ups and downs, good and bad, but it is for God’s glory, amen! He has blessed us with 6 children, and we are teaching our children everything the LORD has taught us. To all, I say, put God first, and He will answer your deepest desires of your heart, so long as you keep HIM first and last (morning and night), of each day. God will teach you everything you need to know to be apart of His greater purpose, which is HIS will and not your own. Amen and amen!

"You can be compatible with a demon but kingdom love stretches you." Sir! That bar just helped so many of us with these cycles 🤯🔥 Thank you for this heart check.

as a 16 year old Christian i know i want to say "Yes" to every one of these questions, but as much as I want too I hesitated in some of the things you said and that's how I know I am not ready. Yet, I feel God convicting me of these things. I want a Godly man, but I am not ready for one yet.

@ruthie28

Жыл бұрын

I'm 27 and in the same spot. Don't be discouraged, God will help!

@jprest13

Жыл бұрын

This gives me hope for tomorrow.

@makaylahahn8319

Жыл бұрын

Update: God have me one this past year. Met him at 18❤️ I grew and changed so much and God knew exactly when I was ready!

@ninividal6908

Жыл бұрын

@@makaylahahn8319 I love this for you 🥹

"Is he supposed to support how you feel or is he supposed to help you respond like a virtuous woman?" This is deep!

@Miranda9Bella

4 жыл бұрын

Yea that was a gut punch right there!🤪

@Chocolate.barbie444

4 жыл бұрын

Wheeeeeeeew

@Mae-rr5ye

3 жыл бұрын

🔥

@noahbenice7375

Жыл бұрын

It’s honestly deep but not difficult to grasp

If men don't allow God to close some things up in their lives, they'll never have a wife, they'll have a nurse and will keep bleeding on her........ NOW THAT WAS A WORD!

@Miranda9Bella

4 жыл бұрын

Lol he actually preaches on that very illustration in one of his recent messages as well, and even gives an excellent visual demonstration at the end of the message on the various types of heart conditions

@godhascalled

4 жыл бұрын

asianiis Yes! That was the word, makes me realize I’ve been bled on so many times in the past 🤦🏾‍♀️

@keiyamcmorris9271

4 жыл бұрын

I was like wow!

@amam007

4 жыл бұрын

Miranda Bella hello there! Can you please the title of the message please. I would love to hear it. Thank you 😊

@Miranda9Bella

4 жыл бұрын

@@amam007 ☺️No prob! The message is about 42 mins, he starts the heart illustration around 33 minutes..be blessed! kzread.info/dash/bejne/YoCE2KWSoMnJeMo.html

"Do you meet the expectations you require?" That one hit me right in my soul

"Do you pray before you make decisions?" Well....

Yeah I’m 25 now and been single all my life and a Virgin. Definitely still waiting for that Godly man. I rather wait and be patient than run into a relationship blind without God’s anointing or blessing over it. I also learned that I am still not the women I need to be for my godly man. God is still doing work in me. So I know this season is of growth and learning how to be a Godly woman. I don’t want no ordinary relationship. I want God to put me in a godly relationship that will make the enemy tremble because He knows we will do great things for the kingdom and only glorify our God ♥️

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Curvy Good Vibes A man you are on the right track. Stay in his well and he will answer your prayers 🙏🏾

@bloom.withgrace

4 жыл бұрын

You Can Talk Your Way to Healthier Relationships Amen amén sister 🙏🏻

@janaeg2698

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I am in the EXACT same situation as you! It’s all in Gods timing🙌🏽

@zira413

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@angel_lizgaturu1330

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

😆 my husband and I are this. We are constantly pushing each other and reminding each other who and Whose we are. Christ centered marriage is so not for the faint of heart.

@tamandanikagulula5834

3 жыл бұрын

@Vidar Gartz exactly

@servantofchrist5085

3 жыл бұрын

Yas sis!! 😍👌🏾👏🏾

@AffirmativeAndrew

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy for you two 🙂. I'm sure it's not easy, but God makes it fulfilling for you both. The peace and love of Christ be with you both!

“… wondering why God doesn’t give us “next’ instructions. Its because we haven’t had “now” obedience.” 😅 took me out, sir. Needed this message this morning! Y’all have a blessed day. 💟

YES! I do. My husband isn't saved (yet) and I pray and cry daily because I feel the hurt in his ways in Jesus's heart 😭 And I cry because I just want someone to pray with me for everything that happens. I want a man that steers our family to God and God only. Who tears down idols in our hearts and makes us spotless.

@sergejromanov4945

Жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for your husband. It is a burden to be married to such a stupid woman.

@CherryCloverBlossom

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely will be praying for your family!!!

@noluthandodlomo6970

Жыл бұрын

I will pray for you

@stephiea3323

8 ай бұрын

I can relate. The only thing is that I am having second thoughts about marrying him because I've wanted a man that leads and steers our relationship to God. He knows God and I believe he's fighting his own battles when it comes to coming to God fully but I wish his focus, and love towards God was shown more through his life. I don't have it in me to lead a man, or force a man into praying with me, or going to church with me. Only hope I'm not judging him so I'll continue praying for him.

I don’t know about anyone else, but I’ve had every other man (not literally), and because I’ve made the choice to live for God, I would rather share my life with a man who lovingly ushers me into the kingdom of God as opposed to ushering me to the gates of hell.

@joellgilbert9588

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!!💯💯💯

@apostleinthemaking

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Takesha Feagin Continue to put His kingdom 1st and He will bless you beyond measure 🙏🏾

@KeianaMonique

4 жыл бұрын

Whewwwww come on sis !

@keejasstyle

4 жыл бұрын

You better say that!! Agreed!!

When you're born you look like your parents, when you die you look like your choices. That's profound, Jerry. I wish my parents would have taught me that.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

SlingsAxes It’s never too late to make good choices 🙏🏾

@mznekam5612

4 жыл бұрын

I was hoping somebody caught that line. ❤️🤯

@samanthac8060

4 жыл бұрын

That was deep🤔

"Are you happy, or are you comfortable?" Woah

Yessssssssss especially us single moms we need to really work on how we're raising our boys

This ain't something I want...this something I NEED 😌🙆🏽‍♀️🙏🏾❣️

@apostleinthemaking

4 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@kimmieboo1413

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Clap it up lol 😏😂 & luv your SN & the fact you got Jesus on your tee 👏🏾👏🏾

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Kimmie Boo God knows your needs. Stay in His will and He will fulfill them 🙏🏾

@apostleinthemaking

4 жыл бұрын

@@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884 Hey whats your ig? Would love to connect with you. Loving your KZread page

@kimmieboo1413

4 жыл бұрын

You can talk your way to... Yes! That's exactly what im continuing to do hon. Choosing his will over mines & allowing him to continue to take lead. Thanks! & God bless

"Marriage is a ministry" and everyone is not called. This speaks to me! I have always had a desire for marriage in my heart but recently I believe God is trying to prepare me for that calling. I have been feeling convictions about my character flaws and I believe God is showing me things i need to work on. Lord if this is the ministry you have for me let me be humble and obedient in receiving wise council. Amen

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

SimplyShan Amen Lord hear her prayers 🙏🏾

@tiddaeng9959

4 жыл бұрын

I'm there with you sis!

@kingdommanmatthew633

4 жыл бұрын

It's the Holy Spirit beginning to Move now that God sees you're in a Place of Humbleness and Brokenness. God will Grant you the Desires of your Heart. Be careful of the Words you Speak. Could change your whole destiny. That's a Tatic of Satan and so Many Believers Fall for it. Repent and Renounce it. Let the Potter Mold you as you Transform into the Help Mete he has called you to be in Jesus Name Amen!!! Be Encouraged.

@gr8fullynatural

4 жыл бұрын

God is faithful woman of God. Don’t lose hope with trusting God for a husband. He won’t leave His daughters or sons without. If your desire is to be married, believe that God gave you that desire.

@chidochashencube508

4 жыл бұрын

Amen. Never have l ever related to someone's post like l just did. l am also at that point in my life where God is revealing me to me..where He is showing me my past and telling me 'Deal With this!!!' I never knew how toxic l can be, how disgusting some of my traits can be until God ushered me into this season. Just continue opening yourself up to heavenly counsel l guarantee you, you will not go wrong. Take it as a period of preparation, just as how Esther, Ruth and all the other women in the Bible were prepared. I pray all goes well with you...

I cried watching this, I was feeling upset over some petty stuff with my boyfriend and stumbled onto this video and cried myself silly. He is ALL of these things and more in the best way and I know that through all the pain is growth and change in likeness to the lords grace and glory and I am truly thankful to be so blessed by God to have this man in my life. Thank you so much for this video brother 🥺❤️🙏

Men and women who put God first will be tested and tried. Christians will have to learn to be patient, humble and kind. Remember after passing the test you'll be greatly rewarded. Love to all my brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ.

“Admit that you got spots, blemishes, and wrinkles and present them to him so he can wash them” Wow. You’re spot on with the wisdom! My perspective has definitely changed on what it means to be kept accountable. Thank you for this!

@apostleinthemaking

4 жыл бұрын

Amen that's what marriage is when a man of God takes the lead

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

IAm SamanthaSpeaks Excellent wisdom! We all have to keep each other encouraged 🙏🏾

@ngreat4390

4 жыл бұрын

Yes I have spots. I had to realise that I needed to be washed.

Naw. I know I want a Godly Man because even though my conviction comes from God, i still want a partner that will call me out on my crap, whether I want to hear it or not, so I can continue to walk the path God has for me. Correct me!! Convict me!! Make me wait!! Ima let it hurt and get over it, cause ima get over it and accept the truth.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

LaNaarai Wilder Amen you have the right mindset 🙏🏾

@LL-ew2hz

4 жыл бұрын

Do you sit under a ministry where the PASTOR corrects, rebukes, and chastises by the Holy Spirit ? if you can receive that, you can recieve from a Godly husband...cause he'll love you like Christ loves his church. HOWEVER, if you attend a seeker friendly church,...where leadership don't .... well just keep seeking and preparing ❤❤❤

@lanaaraiwildernae9073

4 жыл бұрын

@@LL-ew2hz I don't attend a follower seeking church. I attend a church and watch a lot of other pastors who are open about how God changes and chastises them. They admit when they have been wrong and how they work on themselves, more like allow God to. And tbh, the other day I was sitting and thinking that if i can allow God to do that to and for me and i actually believe that the man He has for me is a Godly man, sent by Him, i would be able to handle being called out and being led because i know that it would ultimately be coming from God. Period. I wouldn't have room to doubt or be cross with him too long with the understanding that God is leading us both.

@LL-ew2hz

4 жыл бұрын

@@lanaaraiwildernae9073 , do those pastors do as the word says " them that sin rebuke before all" You'll never know what that feels like until your sins are constantly called out before the whole congregation, then you' REALLY get to see what's in you... You don't hear that type of preaching too much anymore The Bible says the heart is deceitful and desperately wicked and who can know it. so God allows things to take place to let you see what's in the heart, is easy to say what we think we can go through until we are faced with certain things , .. God's word is true ❤❤ So continue to prepare don't relax and think you can do it without continual preparation from the Holy Spirit in Jesus name ve .

@marytylermoore517

4 жыл бұрын

C n This is not Biblical.

When praying for my future spouse, after praying that he is strong in Christ and ask for him to a strong Christian man, I ask God that I will be a strong Christian woman. You need to ask yourself. If your future spouse is praying for you to be everything you're praying for him to be, are you all of those things?

It took ten years before we got to a place where my wife and I were both happy. We were equally yolked in sin, and now we are perfectly balanced with God. We had to receive the entire gospel, not just the ones that justify our feelings. I pray if you walk in faith, you endure, until god decides to make your life complete. When you see his faithfulness to his words and you, the world will reveal it self to you as well. God Bless you all. There aint not luck. Just Grace.

Amen, marriage is not for everyone

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Kay Pavagas when it’s not for you; you don’t even seek it. Live the life God is calling you to live and there you will find your joy 🙏🏾

@yeira_rose_helen

4 жыл бұрын

Marriage is for those who can walk and be one with God together. Marriage is also for THOSE GOD PUTS TOGETHER HIMSELF. Read the word. You will see God’s hand in all marriages. God has His will for everyone who follows. Watch Him work in your life and give Him praise. NOTHING is impossible for God to accomplish. If God can: create the world with HIS breath, make one barren or unbarren, make one great or bring one low, take one out and bring back to life, and cause even weapons of mass destruction to turn back on its own to the enemy. Tell everyone that if marriage isn’t for everyone. Then why did God bless man and tell them to multiply? God will have HIS ways. No one can stop HIM. If God brings about a child out of wedlock, then that is God’s Glory yet to be fulfilled. But when we enter into His court presenting Him with marriage, we better hold on to a great testing of faith with HIM and with each other. In marriage, you enter into a formal agreement with the LORD to walk in HIS ways, and to teach your children to do the same. God may hate divorce but, He will separate what HE feels will not benefit you in your spiritual walk with Him. Then HE will turn to your children and work in their lives to make sure HIS glory will be fulfilled. Amen?

@yeira_rose_helen

4 жыл бұрын

BUT, if you ask Him for help He will help you so long as you listen to Him. If you don’t listen, HE won’t listen. But He is compassionate unto the thousandth generation who loves Him. So, call on Him for help, ask away all the questions of your heart. Talk with Him and HE will talk with you. Invite Him and He will come. Present your cases and He will find justice for your case. “Marriage isn’t for everyone” is a humanly excuse to not be ONE with God. When you decide not to marry and base all of your previous experiences on your past relationships. How could you even think of marrying? Marriage is for those who want to gain a closer relationship with the LORD. It is in fact GOD who ordains everything. Marriage is sacred and holy to the LORD. If you date then pray to God your desires of the relationship you would like to have. And be specific. If your aren’t specific with God, He will find you someone without your desired specifics. If you ask with specifics, God will find you that one in whom HE FEELS is best and right for you.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Yeira D Amen 🙏🏾 Well said 👌🏾

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Yeira D I agree 👌🏾

This stings, but is timely and accurate. I actually got called out today and it felt like judgement at the time, but I later realized it was a godly rebuke. It is intended to sharpen. I have an area that needs work and it’s okay.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Minimal Assembly We all do! This is a healthy space to get sharpened. Be encouraged 🙏🏾

@SoldierOfGodKJV

4 жыл бұрын

Repent, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Acts 2:38

@minimalassembly7893

4 жыл бұрын

Paul, I’m already a Christian, but I’m sure there are others out there that could use your message. Thanks.

@SoldierOfGodKJV

4 жыл бұрын

@@minimalassembly7893 Have you received the Holy Ghost since you believed? And how were you baptized?

@MsTaLaiah

4 жыл бұрын

I am so curious about the persons delivery who called you out. You knew that it was coming from a good place and that they weren’t actually judging you. Other times ppl call you out to prove a point or to be right while you’re wrong. I’m wondering how you knew they meant well and I’m glad they want what’s best for you.

Omg this is my husband always pushing me to reach my full potential 😭🙏thank you Jesus ❤️

“ Kingdom love stretches you “ * share, share, share * this needs to be heard in the church !

"When your born you look like your parents. When you die you look like your choices." *snaps fingers*

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Jermaine Brown Amen 🙏🏾

1:08-1:41 Men healing generational wounds is a whole sermon

@apostleinthemaking

4 жыл бұрын

Definitely is

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Marsha Creary It most definitely is 👌🏾

Man! This video is so powerful and it just had me sobbing because this is the real reason my wife and I are separated right now. She kept on saying that she felt she couldn’t do nothing right in my eyes, and I always told her: I’m gonna push her every day, even harder because I want her not just to walk in her potential,but to walk in her reality. I told her I see/want the better version of herself that she’s giving to me and to herself, but she still felt she wasn’t good enough for me, and truth is she was Perfect for me, I wasn’t gonna let her settle😭🖤

@AliasPhex

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your pain right now. I hope you’re back together. I think the hard thing is even when we (women) want to be encouraged, we are still creatures with emotions. If the push-push-push isn’t coupled with love, with grace, hugs, kindness and words of affirmation, if we are in a weak, vulnerable place, it feels like being pushed off a cliff instead of pushing us to fly. We do need breaks and we need to know we are loved or it just feels like being criticized even when that was never intended at all. We can get overwhelmed. “He remembers that we are but dust.” Love should be foremost or everyone will get emotionally/spiritually/mentally dislocated and disoriented. I don’t know you and know what you do, but sometimes it’s the male-versus-female language in HOW we come across that breaks down how something is coming across. Not a Christian book, and an older one but a goodie, but “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” is beneficial for communication. We are created by God both but we are quite different, and meant to be. Maybe something could have come across differently than what was intended. Anyway, I broke a rule: don’t give unsolicited advice-that spans both genders. See? Good intent can fail quite easily if we have a goal/point to make but lose sight of why we do it. Anyway, I certainly hope you two made up and healed whatever was going on between you. ❤

@Encouragementishere

Жыл бұрын

Go get your wife !!!. God bless your union

@jax4936

Жыл бұрын

@@AliasPhex yes i agree with what you are saying.. we woman are so emotional! I hope you two are working things out! May God restore your marriage and may he protect it in the name of Jesus 🙏❤

@vihrigapozax4592

Жыл бұрын

I don't think our gender is the main key here at all. Everybody needs their emotions validated, instead of only pushing. And pushing someone to be better somehow is not love, it is just a tiny part of it, and we all need grace, caring, listening, understanding etc with that. And also, no matter how close he/she is, sometimes we think we are doing good but we don't know the real reasons of the other person. We should always, always, listen to each other with acceptance, so that we get to understand them and then know what kind of support they actually need. I'll tell an easy example. I can push my husband with words like "Have you already sent that email, it is important!" and he would feel like I think he is a child, and he cant even send one email. Or, I could have listened to my husband when he told me that he feels bad because of always forgetting important small things like bills or emails, and I could word that out gently: "I am just reminding you about the email you told me about, do it when you want and tell me when you don't want me to remind you anymore. I can check the spelling in it if it helps, just ask." And he feels like I love him, not like I judge him. And if he forgets after all, I accept it and let him know that I don't judge. He probably feels bad about it already (example not based on true story). And we always have to be ready for the other one being just an actual human who may never change like we wanted. That is the person I love, after all. I don't love the imaginary potential but the flawed person. Also true in loving ourselves. :D God loved us when we were sinners, and He let us know that in quite a radical way.

@SuperJoepoop

Жыл бұрын

@@AliasPhex well said. that's the way God loves.

It is honestly so reassuring to see a video on this topic. I have been praying for God to send me a women with this kind of perspective and to watch this really calms my spirit and makes waiting for Him to send her much easier.

@AliasPhex

Жыл бұрын

You have an awesome name!

@muyumyah

Жыл бұрын

@skylan Stephens hope God sent you the desires of your heart

When your whole life has been in the wilderness (literally). Yes, I'm sure I want a Godly Husband.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

T Preston Praying for God to hear your prayers 🙏🏾

@emmanuellamercier1782

4 жыл бұрын

T Preston Prayers for you to come out of wilderness 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@tpreston2179

4 жыл бұрын

@@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884 Thank you!

@tpreston2179

4 жыл бұрын

@@emmanuellamercier1782 Thank you!

@iamabideinitastjohn1567

4 жыл бұрын

AMEN TO THAT @T Preston...likewise I too am sure. If it ain’t Kingdom I don’t want it!!

When I married a Godly man, this is exactly what I experienced and I constantly remind myself I’m not being pushed in the direction opposite of where God wants me. I never thought marrying a Godly man would be as you described in your video but once I did I also had to let my best friend know the tea cus I wouldn’t want anyone of my sisters to push away someone who “annoys” her for all the right reasons.

Wow🙌 Amen. Thank you! "Every CHOICE is pregnant with the potential to give birth to a SEASON, and when your born you look like your parents but when you die you look like your choices." Do you meet the expectations that YOU require?🙌🙌

“When you born ,you look like your parents but when you die ,you look like your choices”

I came across your video cuz I’m one of those women who always say “I need to find me a Godly man.” This really opened my eyes and let me know that I have A LOT of work to do.

@kingdommanmatthew633

4 жыл бұрын

Get that work done. It's some Godly Men Praying for a Godly Wife.

@gamalstewart3681

4 жыл бұрын

Paisley K 😉

"The reason we don't get NEXT instructions is because we do not have NOW obedience" 👏💯✅✅✅

This learned me the lesson that i'm not ready. Not even ready to let any woman close for that matter. I have to build a relationship with Jesus first ❤

Oh my word! I would love a man like that! I get “you’re weird” looks if I suggest praying about something. Please, Lord, bless my godly man, wherever he is. Prepare me for him. Prepare him for me.

Amen 👏🏾 I see women all the time say they want a "Godly man" but they don't display the attributes of a "Godly woman." I 100% agree with this message, it is the truth!

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Jerry Led That it is 🙏🏾 God always reveals the things we need to see. 😉

Keep bringing that smoke Pastor💯💪🏾

@Beredefined

4 жыл бұрын

Jeff Buggs 💪🏾💪🏾

@06181975tcs

4 жыл бұрын

Jeff Buggs indeed! The realest I've seen in a young man in a long time.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Jeff Buggs He’s on fire isn’t he 👌🏾

@salexander3801

4 жыл бұрын

Jeff Buggs he out here preaching and teaching! You talking to us men out here best believe

@kingdomtalk3264

4 жыл бұрын

You Can Talk Your Way to Healthier Relationships yes he is!

call me out !! this is sooo good 🤩🤩🤩🤩

Let me tell you how much you just drove a steamroller right through my house of idealism 🥺😫 and I appreciate you for it

I want a Godly man I’ve been saved I want a man who can lead I put God first in everything I do I have some flaws but I try my best to do everything according to God’s will

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Avigail Daniela Stay in His will and He will answer your prayers 🙏🏾

@Salena03

4 жыл бұрын

You Can Talk Your Way to Healthier Relationships yess thank you sister ❤️🙏🏼

@salexander3801

4 жыл бұрын

Avigail Daniela so you ready for him to get up 3am moments notice to cast out some demons? (true story)

@kimberlyjredeemed6113

4 жыл бұрын

Amen God bless you 💜

@Salena03

4 жыл бұрын

S Alexander yesss I get attacked most times it slowed a bit but I keep the full armor of God on 🙏🏼

Wooow 👏🏾 really needed this because we don’t get taught all this especially for us young girls

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Ciindybabyy It’s good you’re learning early 👏🏾

@alleashawatson4648

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with her. I'm 13, I've grown up in a christian family, but doesn't act that way. Only on Sundays I guess. Sometimes other days too. There are times it pulls me under, and it's difficult to pull myself back up. Last year when I was 12 in March, God got ahold of me. He's been a big impact on my life more than ever. I've been praying alot, and reading God's word. I've been asking for correction, because I want to be the best me I can be. I can't be like anyone else, nor do I wish it. I only wish to be better. That's why I pray and ask for direction, and a good attitude, etc. People tell me so often, how nice I am, and I forget to thank God for making me who I am today. He's answered so many of my prayers, it makes me rejoice. God bless you all.

I saw this video a few years ago and then I wasn’t ready and wasn’t mature enough for a Godly man. But with much refining I believe that I am now. Thank God for growth ! And you’re right if you’re not mature enough to handle a man who is pushing you and leading you to greater it will get on your nerve.

This dude needs to disciple thousands. This fire is so needed. This guy needs people to invest in his ministry and to multiply it! He’s like the black Jordan Peterson. Love this dude. You’re amazing

I want a Godly MOG and he won’t get on my nerves. I want a King pusher!

@robindear5043

4 жыл бұрын

@Iamabideinit St John 15 He's a Man of God, but he's also human😹 I guarantee he will have habits and quirks that will get on your nerves. I LOVE how Brother Flowers asked the question a 2nd time, "Are you SURE you want to marry a Godly man.....When he keeps asking you, 'So, when are you going to write that book?' 'When are you going to apologize to your Mom?' " It will be a challenge, but one well worth it marrying a man of God.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Iamabideinita StJohn15 praying for God to answer your prayers 🙏🏾

@kimberlyjredeemed6113

4 жыл бұрын

The “he won’t get on my nerves” part lol amen sis , won’t he do it 🙌🏾

@adriancornejo2223

4 жыл бұрын

Gotta ask though, do you think you deserve a King? What can you offer a Man of God that he finds you attractive enough to form a relationship with you?

@michelleonuorah7142

4 жыл бұрын

@Adrian, that's actually not the right question. By virtue of the fact that she's a daughter of the most high King, she is deserving of a Kingdom husband. Her identity and what she deserves should never be up for debate, because of who she is in Christ. The real question is if she's ready for her King of a husband.

The real question is, "Are men sure they are ready for a Godly woman?" I find so often that women are faithful to God, serving in church, and are established in their education and finances while many single men are either totally absent from the church or fall short of what God is calling them to be; Leaders.

@godhascalled

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica L. So true. There is such a big gap between women in the church and men in the church.

@jessical.6704

4 жыл бұрын

@@godhascalled Yes, and I say that not out of disregard for men, but because the bible really demands highly of them especially in their duty to love their wife as Christ loved the church. That is a very high responsibility that God places on husbands. I think women will find it easier to accept criticism, instruction, and submit to a man that loves her as Christ loved the church...ijs

@godhascalled

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica L. I 100% agree. That’s the key, love. I’ve experienced men in the church that do a lot of criticizing with no love behind it and it often comes off hypocritical. Love is the 🔑 for both parties.

@jessical.6704

4 жыл бұрын

@@godhascalled Agreed

@catherine8789

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly unfortunately majority don’t want to submit to the Lord they want their cake n some tacos 🌮 then a little ice cream 🍨 too.... I say this as a Christian woman that’s been saved for 10 years and has encountered “Single Godly men” who were having sex with several women while pastoring a church .... they won’t stay still long enough for God to transform and heal them to become those Kings and leave a legacy...

There are not enough godly men for the godly women in this world. That’s just the truth. Wish the church can be honest and upfront about this, so it can be addressed, and women can be given practical advice instead of just “wait on the Lord” for a man who may never come.

Oh my gooooosh. “When you’re born you look like your parents and when you die you look like your choices.” Straight FIRE 🔥 and it really hits! But no cap on anything spoken here. 🙌🏻 Godly men (and women) have to be built by their parents and then refined in God’s wisdom and personal relationship with Him.

I heard "if you can't find them, you build them". So I am here watching this vid. Whew...this about to wreck me.

@thediamondstuddeddoll9254

4 жыл бұрын

Princess Bina Chosen it took me ouuuutttt

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Princess Bina Chosen working on building mine now. Praying for his wife family and wisdom to Lead in Christ daily🙏🏾

@no1_raisondetre542

4 жыл бұрын

Nope.. you wait on TMH to build him ... Isaiah 13:12 I will make a man more precious than fine gold; even a man than the golden wedge of Ophir You thinking that you can build a godly man is in the spirit of a Jezebel.

@giastorm21

4 жыл бұрын

NoBody_ Raison D' Être Thats not what he meant he explained it in the video that mothers should build Godly sons and other men should build up other young boys to be Godly .

... every choice is pregnant with potential to give birth to a season and when you're born you look like your parents but when you die you look like your choices.😳😳 Wow wow. Thank-you for making me understand this Pastor Jerry❤️

So much wisdom in a short time🙌 "a godly man pushes you to be everything God has called you to be" This has answered the questions on my heart lately!

This was good Pastor . I can finally say I’m ready for my Godly Husband, because I’m a Whole Godly Wife. Thank you Lord !!!

I am not married and man oh man did I need to hear this🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Antoinette Namuryango Awesome preparation 👌🏾

I need to continue to level up in my prayer life, before I ask for a Godly man. I’m not ready yet, I would level up for God thought.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Emmanuella Mercier Good for you...Know thy self! A lot of times we don’t want to accept where we really are. Grow in Christ and He’ll get you anywhere you want to go 🙏🏾

@emmanuellamercier1782

4 жыл бұрын

You Can Talk Your Way to Healthier Relationships Thank you 😊 ❤️

@lisaparker7648

4 жыл бұрын

very good focus because it is wise to establish a love with and for God before you can truly love you must be a conduit of God so he can love threw you and a prayerlife with Jesus and allowing him to break you to be his vessel of genuine love so understand love God"s love suffers long pray to love others like he do

This is an ultra important topic that needs to be presented to men and women in every church and spoken about in every pre-marriage counselling session. I wish I heard this before I got married.

How beautiful is it to show the clip of all the brothers getting baptized ❤️

Every time I think I am FOR SURE ready for marriage, here comes brother Jerry reminding me that I still have work to do. I am so thankful for this channel. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.

Man this is good, I pray for a man like you that speaks a Godly language

@kingdommanmatthew633

4 жыл бұрын

Are you really ready to accept it.

About 6 months ago God showed me if i give you my son im giving you the best. So i have to be his best as well. He only gives his best so if im not it he wont intrust me with this type of relationship. I have been lost on what to do. And this showed a few areas i need to focus on. This was a great message pastor! Glory to God!

Whew 😳😳 He stepped on all my lol toes!

Sir, this is the second time in a week that you have shown me that I am not ready for marriage. I still want it...but I have some work to do.

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Tiffini Nikkia praise God for wisdom. Grow in Christ and he will direct your path’s. Be encouraged🙏🏾

I’m completely with this because I’m this way with men around me when it comes to spiritual accountability. 💯

@horseplayinkidd

4 жыл бұрын

Christine N I agree. I would love to have a man to motivate me and hold me accountable to grow. I get happy knowing that we can grow and evolve together in Christ.

@christinen9001

4 жыл бұрын

Shena Walker right?! I would LOVE that too, but frankly, in my years of singleness, I’ve yet to witness a “godly man” who is actually about that life of leading & motivating his lady toward such a lifestyle of spiritual accountability. But when I tell you this IS a lifestyle and character trait I pray about when I pray for him, I mean it, because it’s literally something I find very attractive. I want to be able to grow and be lead while being a helpmate rather than finding roles reversed and adding strain to relationship. And I say strain because it’s been my experience in dating, to pull the weight and it’s just not for me anymore. I need a whole godly man. And that’s that on that, or I’m perfectly fine, single. Lol

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Accountability helps! Even when it doesn’t feel good 👌🏾

@christinen9001

4 жыл бұрын

You Can Talk Your Way to Healthier Relationships - agree! Something I’ve always valued because when someone can do so and also receive, I certainly respect that person more and hold them closer and to a higher esteem 💕

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Christine N Don’t settle for any less than Gods desire for you! You may have to wait a little longer but TRUST the process. Live the life a God is calling you to live and He will send him your way and you will know it right away. Be encouraged 🙏🏾

I want a man that loves the lord with every fiber of his mind, body and soul.

“No wonder you keep entertaining devils, because you could be compatible wit a demon!” Lol 🥵

Only if we’re Godly women.💕 Hebrews 12:2

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Lisa Love Ministries Amen 🙏🏾

@NewCreationInChrist896

4 жыл бұрын

Ok, He done did it. Psalms 91 John 10:27

God fixed my pride issue a long time ago, so I now embrace other people’s’ points a view! I am not afraid to being flexible to another person’s correction if it’s glorifies God’s kingdom!

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Miss Empath Amen 🙏🏾

“Jesus on the cross was the first PDA known to man. Public display of affection. He was showing us what King love looks like.” 👑

Wow! Power! Thank you Holy Spirit for knowing what we need

My feet hurt because you just ran all over them! Thank you for this word!

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Kenyatta Starks Amen 😂

@kenyatte1020

4 жыл бұрын

This is random. But it’s rare I see someone with the same name as me😂

My brother, you are profound and filled with Godly wisdom. One of the best Christian youtuber!

This preacher is spitting truth and all self-proclaimed Christian women need to hear it. Women, if you don’t deserve a godly man, you will hate him, ruin him, or both.

Yes give a Godly man with a praying spirit But I am not into building no one ☝🏾

I want a Godly man. I want someone who wants the best for me. Someone who encourage me to do what I need to do. Someone who is willing and who will help me get to where I need to go and be the person God wants me to be. Someone who knows how to do so without overbearing. One who does it in love.

@kingdommanmatthew633

4 жыл бұрын

You want someone who knows that you are the weaker vessel. That will Love You like Christ Love the CHURCH. You want you a God-Fearing Man. A Priest, Provider, and a Protector. Amen God is able to provide!!!

@jinad9099

4 жыл бұрын

@@kingdommanmatthew633 Amen

@kingdommanmatthew633

4 жыл бұрын

@@jinad9099 I am a Man. I totally understand what you are saying. Thank God for my Sister who told me years ago to get my life right if I wanted a Godly Woman. I can actually have a conversation with you all day long now. To God be the Glory. Saved single and being Patient.

@jinad9099

4 жыл бұрын

@@kingdommanmatthew633 Yes must be patient because He will provide in His timing. Sometimes we want our timing to be His timing but it does not work like that. Im glad you sister gave you good advice that you took action on.

@kingdommanmatthew633

4 жыл бұрын

@@jinad9099 Yeah when I was caught up in wanting to fulfill my lustfull desires. Nothing was ever working out. I Thank God for my Sister and him using her. You have to be tired of being tired. You are so right his timing isn't our timing. God has to clean us up from the inside out. Marriage really is his institution and it's nothing to take lightly. Ephesians 5: 25-33.

My desire is to only have a Godly man he would be all I have room for. I wouldn’t entertain anything else. I would expect him to lead me and “Stretch Me” that’s what a good STRONG godly man does.🙌🏾

@divinechosenlife

4 жыл бұрын

But it's not a easy process trust me

@lovelylady715

4 жыл бұрын

Misty Reed Yes, I can agree with on that one that’s when we depend on God’s Grace to get us through.

@divinechosenlife

4 жыл бұрын

@@lovelylady715Amen you are correct and I made the reply because I'm currently in this situation so we ask for a God fearing man but forget to ask God to prepare us for what we are asking for I wasn't all the way ready so I believe he is showing me ..me... and boy smh lol I'm being challenged

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Make room for Christ because you will need Him 🙏🏾

I want a godly man even more now that I have an idea what he might come with! yay! This was awesome. Thank you for sharing your words!

This is what I needed to hear . Thanks brother ! God bless!!

I wish you could hear me answering these questions Pastor! Lol. #StillWantAGodlyMan!

@Happy78704gal

4 жыл бұрын

@Jessica Harrington Me too!!!

@ntashahall

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica Harrington me too! Lol

@patriciaopio9053

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica Harrington praying for God to hear your prayers ladies! Be encouraged. Gods timing is always perfect 👌🏾

They are definitely going to stretch you to help you become what God wants you to be! 🙏🏾

This spoke to me! Thank you for this!

Amen! Great word! ❤️🙏🏻