I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone. (Source: Robin Williams)

@Chris-en1ym

Жыл бұрын

Bro, check your source, RIP robin williams

@scruffyIII

Жыл бұрын

@@Chris-en1ym ....Bro, please feel free to correct my source if I am wrong.

@Chris-en1ym

Жыл бұрын

No, I mean with respect to robin williams, he did commit suicide right, so probably not the best guy for wisdom on loneliness.

@joshuasmith7775

Жыл бұрын

🤔 I acknowledge that Mr. Williams's contribution to our lives and his legacy far exceeds his closing act.

@johnm2871

Жыл бұрын

​@@Chris-en1ymit wasn't loneliness, he was ill..

There was a time when I thought that I had lots of friends. That was until I was diagnosed with a terminal illness and spent six months in hospital. No visits, phone calls, not even a card. Once I was out of hospital the common excuse was "I hate hospitals". Yeah well try staying in one for a length of time. It made me realise that these weren't true friends, just those who hang on for the benefits of someone who's always there for them. No thanks. Now my best friend is my German Shepherd. He has a terrible history of abuse and neglect. He never had a friend who cared for him. Now he does and he appreciates me. My only hope is that I outlive him. The thought of abandoning him is too much to bear.

@poollife777

11 ай бұрын

I get it. Before the pandemic everyone wanted me to come to their events and take photos for the newspaper. I got sick from long covid and have become a hermit for 3 years and none of them have checked on me. I am finally able to get help and after my next surgery I should be able to walk better. And I know I will never go out of my way for most people and spend more time with my pets and at home. I pray for you.

@TheTruthFadeswithTime28

11 ай бұрын

I was in a mental institution for months and only got one call from my brother

@judithmcvey63

11 ай бұрын

However rare true love is, true friendship is rarer.

@partheniat.9557

11 ай бұрын

@@TheTruthFadeswithTime28 now that is sad. But that's ok whether you realized it or not God was right there with you every step of the way. HE SAYS; "I WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU"! "I AM" SAID IT!

@luciannelarosa6472

11 ай бұрын

I hear you. I can relate 200%

To have one true friend is far more valuable then having a thousand false friends

@zboradenis9291

6 ай бұрын

True, and everyone who calls Jesus in their life can have that true friend who will absolutely never disappoint.

@Sunshine-mf6pd

6 ай бұрын

​@@zboradenis9291Amen! ✝️

@margaretconnors5879

6 ай бұрын

For certain. HAL'LELUYAH

@fredcorona787

6 ай бұрын

Amen

@karlakrack2667

5 ай бұрын

I feel I have none my very best friend died 17 years ago…😢❤😢

Here’s what I heard not long ago. “The more people I get to know, the more I love my dog”. Truthful to me and my solitary life with my dog. Age 70.

@keepitreal1547

6 ай бұрын

Love that & very apt, thanks for sharing.

@vampirehunt63

5 ай бұрын

I too live alone with my pet dog... Age 31..and living peacefully

@LightHouse_222

5 ай бұрын

❤

@Renee-ge5nt

5 ай бұрын

I never, ever add comments for anything on the internet. But I'm compelled with knowing I am not alone! I love my dogs 🐕 more than most people!!

@user-bk7wo5uw5t

5 ай бұрын

❤

The hardest lesson Ive learned in life is that there are people who get great joy out of hurting others.

@spartjovic

Жыл бұрын

Sadists...should look into the Dark Triad of Personality (narcissism, Machiavelism, psychopathy). Unfortunately it's frequent these days.

@fernando3061

Жыл бұрын

Yea I agree, that's probably the toughest one.

@mikejohn0088

Жыл бұрын

I had a best friend since I was about 7 yrs. old....like a brother to me (so I thought). I went thru a divorce in my mid-30s and I used to call him almost everyday, often in the middle of the night for solace (he lived in another state). He was always there for me getting out of bed at 2am to listen to my mental anguish. He died at 43 yrs. old about 4 yrs. after my divorce and his death took me to my knees once again. Time moved on and many years after I began to put complicated pieces of the puzzle together, piece by piece and I then saw it all. He was a instrumental in "orchestrating circumstances" that resulted in the divorce --I never saw it or conceived of that possibility at the time. He answered my distress calls because he was loving to hear the pain and sucking up the negative energy---he fed off it. He was a Freemason which meant nothing to me at the time but opened the door to reality once I learned of the "brotherhood." In retrospect he actually did me favors. His lies separated me from a narcissistic wife and his death liberated me from "medicated pain."

@ericmcarthur1975

Жыл бұрын

Bollox to those people, it's all just part of your own personal development you end up a more complete and contented person through hardship and disappointments expect nothing but always be kind to people we all have our crosses to bare ; )

@ancientsalt4291

Жыл бұрын

Because like their father, the devil, they do as he does. A murderer from the beginning. They seek to steal, kill, and destroy. "Cast not your pearls before swine, lest they trample them, and turn again and rend you."

Been hurt too many times by so called "friends"--it's best to be alone. My anxiety in life & betrayal from others has left me too exhausted to bother with "friends' anymore.

@LavaWave666

Жыл бұрын

I sympathize with that I used to be think having friends and being popular was fun in the past (I never had a lot of friends nor was ever popular) I got over that within years and saw it's better to have few real friends over many fake ones In social media having friends is a popularity contest 😢

@laura2372

Жыл бұрын

@@LavaWave666 Agree.

@clownman9404

Жыл бұрын

If you are logical and you say the truth you won't be popular. I know.

@wikitoriasmith1713

Жыл бұрын

Clown man Truth! I too have very few friends.

@bz93sa52

Жыл бұрын

Don't loose hope, everything has its ups n downs

Sometimes a person CHOOSES to be alone because they are done with gossips, rude, thoughtless and self serving people. 😊

@xdrazormon454

4 ай бұрын

It's sad, but people have betrayed me and disappointed me so much that I would also rather be alone

@amycaprari9951

4 ай бұрын

@@xdrazormon454 😔

@cynthiahotieno146

4 ай бұрын

I just realised also some people decide to be alone because it's not sweet feeling to realise that that you cannot blame your friends for what's happening in your life except yourself

@amycaprari9951

4 ай бұрын

@@cynthiahotieno146 Exactly!

@LadyDragonfly8460

4 ай бұрын

@@xdrazormon454 Same. The people I thought were my friends ended up not being friends at all. I have acquaintances, but no real friends - and I'm okay with that. The more I'm around people in general, the less I like them (family included).

A true friend is someone who knows everything about you and still likes you.

@grayguy3619

6 ай бұрын

Sharing everything about yourself with anyone is FOOLISH!

@shaneashby5890

6 ай бұрын

@@grayguy3619 That one comment tells me everything I need to know about you as a man.

@donaldmickunas8552

6 ай бұрын

For me, a true friend is much more than someone who likes me. I’ve had people who liked me for what I could do for them. When they no longer needed my help, they dumped me. Would you call such a person a true friend?

@edie4321

6 ай бұрын

@@donaldmickunas8552< no, but sadly, that is how it often is, and with family too.

@donaldmickunas8552

6 ай бұрын

@@edie4321 indeed.

Solitude is golden and not to be confused with loneliness.

@warthogA10

7 ай бұрын

It's so bizarre the number of people who are concerned that I'm "lonely" They're so concerned that they insist I'm lonely and just won't admit it, or I'm in denial. They'll say they feel so sad for me, knowing I'm alone 🤔 This is due to the constant brainwashing of the general population that they have to be constantly socializing, around people etc. There are even studies and "scientific documents" stating that humans are social by nature. All to the point where those who prefer to be alone are viewed as odd, or someone to be suspicious or wary of... "What's their deal?" It is labeled as a "social disorder"... The reality behind this, is that people who are a true introvert, or who aren't easily brainwashed, manipulated and controlled on a social level, tend to think independently, and clearer than others who are drawn into the trap, and the fog of constant propaganda. and propaganda isn't just about or related to only politics, it can be used to create a desired society for elitist types. a society which is easily mass manipulated and controlled. We're basically potentially dangerous to the overall program, which is why we have to be placed.in and categorized in a certain way which makes others feel uneasy and untrusting of us. If anyone reads all this, most will view it all as "crazy talk", because that's what they're programmed to think. The entire subject is all about creating an easily manipulated and controllable general population... regardless of how long it takes, the goal is set, and those involved want to be a part of the group which succeeded in that accomplishment. It is part of the driving force in their lives.

@lhu6971

6 ай бұрын

HALLELUYAH.AMEN. I KEEP TELLING THIS TO FOLK'S. NOT MY FAULT IF THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND ME😮🎉

@opticalman6417

6 ай бұрын

living in solitude is my way of life how ever people think i am like this as a result of lacking soical skills which isnt truth its has more to do with the fact i dont crave other peoples company and been subjected to alot of abuse has made me value peace over people

@warthogA10

6 ай бұрын

@@opticalman6417 exactly, it's not a "social disorder"... it's a solution and a reaction to an ever degrading society. I'm right there with you. My solitude is the result of much time and thoughts about what I am, and am not willing to deal with from others around me. General society is where the real disorders exist.

@why-jw3od

5 ай бұрын

contentment is the goal. Have learned many people have double lives.

When you have nothing to offer you’ll find out who your true friends are .

@XxReavius217xX

6 ай бұрын

Pure facts

@bibibomba4515

6 ай бұрын

Nobody😊

@mimif1604

6 ай бұрын

You're definitely right!

@Hoggar3

6 ай бұрын

Facts

@angelaharlow8790

6 ай бұрын

Soooo very true

I will NEVER be "alone". I ALWAYS have Jesus with me. He will never deceive me, never LIE to me, NEVER forsake me, will ALWAYS LOVE ME and be with me!

@5pointview717

6 ай бұрын

Believers in any religion will always have God with them ie Allah swt has been my safety net, my shoulder to cry on etc he knows what we cannot express in words but flows through tears & causes pain.

@mikeferry3391

6 ай бұрын

Then your friend is imaginary. What you need to be is comfortable with yourself and who you are as a piece of life. You are joy. You contain the source of creation within you not outside of you.

@dragonmama9088

6 ай бұрын

Are you saying that God is "imaginary"?!

@bekita3386

6 ай бұрын

​​@@mikeferry3391you are imaginary too Mr perfect people choose to belive who they believe in. I can tell from you're response that you are the reason you dont have friends soo judgmental and not accepting of others.

@mikeferry3391

6 ай бұрын

@@bekita3386 i love others. We are a miracle. Consciousness is universal. Belief is divisive. Your response is proof. I seek what we all share not something I made up for myself.

The miracle is not to have a hundred friends but it is to have one friend that would stand with you when the hundred is against you.

@user-lf5oh7um7y

6 ай бұрын

His name is the Lord Jesus Christ. He will never leave me nor forsake me. He sticks closer than a brother. His faithfulness is my shield and rampart.

@hughmcwilliams1509

5 ай бұрын

​@@user-lf5oh7um7y amen my friend. Jesus christ our EVERTHING

@BoMalki737

5 ай бұрын

​@@user-lf5oh7um7yGlory HalleluYah!!!😊

@ChildrensRightsFirst947

5 ай бұрын

Yep. I agree with the quote "True friends are like diamonds - precious and rare. False friends are like leaves, found everywhere."

@ChildrensRightsFirst947

5 ай бұрын

@@user-lf5oh7um7y Unfortunately there's no proof Jesus is real. People need human friends, too.

Not having friends can also mean you are ok being on your own,it's more peaceful.

@niqk8712

Жыл бұрын

no offense but this sounds like cope, isnt it like a basic human instinct/desire to want to socialize? Edit: y’all are disagreeing with me so I feel like ur not understanding. For those of u who have been outcast or put down by “friends” in the past, grow up, life throws shit at u, just get up and keep walking, if u have had bad experiences with trying to have friends that doesn’t mean u should give up on trying to make friends. Finding the right friend group that’s filled with quality friends is only a matter of how hard u try. Having real friends does not make your life less peaceful, and if that’s the case, they’re not your real friends, don’t be content on being a loner just because no one wants to be your friend. Having true friends is one of the most beautiful things in life, and yes it’s hard to achieve that, but don’t let the difficulty discourage you from trying to make friends, it is very possible to have perfect friends, just look in the right places, and in some cases, own up to the fact that maybe you are the reason your friends of the past dropped u, everyone has issues and if your issues caused u to lose friends, then you should work to solve your problems rather than just saying you’re okay with being alone, because no one likes loneliness, and whoever says that they are fine with being lonely clearly hasn’t experienced loneliness.

@Necroionutwiz

Жыл бұрын

​@@niqk8712t really but people forget that while we're built for social interaction we're not bound to it also as she mentioned it's not the quantity friends that matter but the quality... And I'm sorry to inform you but as stated in this video these people are very rare...

@juan-miguelavilesgarcia5951

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@eMegMBea

Жыл бұрын

​​@@niqk8712 I was extremely social all my life until I got to my 30s. Then I began craving the peace of just being home alone. I really actually enjoy being by myself, and I believe quite a lot of other people do to. Once you go to work and are forced to interact with people, or go to appointments or meetings or whatever, it's a wonderful feeling to come home and just be peaceful and quiet. You're only your absolute true self when you're alone. But, I do know people who need much more social interaction. Seems exhausting to me! 😂

@demeter7011

Жыл бұрын

@@niqk8712 you haven’t been burnt out by many. It takes a while to heal.

Like mark twain said, if you die with only 1 best real friend, you were the luckiest person in the world.

@tripeeblonde8309

Жыл бұрын

I wonder what he experienced that made him say that?

@bento7963

Жыл бұрын

Wasn't he the one who preferred the company of a dog to a person?

@frenzalrhomb6919

Жыл бұрын

@@bento7963 If he hadn't any personality, and the Dog no teeth, then yes, that's the same Mark Twain. But Mark Twain had personality, in spades and ALL Dogs, even the old ones, still have teeth, so maybe it's not Mark Twain

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

Maybe he got betrayed by his “friends “ before?

@injanhoi1

Жыл бұрын

I don't have a lot of friends but I have 3 real friends! I rather that than 50 fake friends!

I am 58. with many acquaintances. The more I learn of humans, the more I love my Dog.

@11xHeavenx11

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 facts

@nilsgroters2494

3 ай бұрын

Mark Twain?

@dandesrochers363

3 ай бұрын

Me too

@breannanance116

2 ай бұрын

i agree!!!!!!!

@user-ky5dy5hl4d

Ай бұрын

With a capital D.

i totally agree with this tale. Over the years I have helped many people, it's in my nature, but when I've needed help in return, "I am told, sorry, can't help" Of course, I do still help people who need help, but i am very careful now. In fact, counting your true friends doesn't take long. One finger should do it.

@5pointview717

6 ай бұрын

Not even one finger is needed for me. I am the same as you - be it family or 'friends' or colleagues when they needed me I was there, when I needed someone - nobody wanted to. I now have the True Friend - My Creator God Almighty, All Knowing, The Provider. God has temporarily brought people into my life for short periods to help and teach me a lesson until they suddenly 'ghosted' me as is the normal way people leave me.

@TacticalTomatoe

6 ай бұрын

I have also been through this took me a long time to learn my lesson. Peace and blessings upon both of you.

@donaldmickunas8552

6 ай бұрын

Me too. Funny how time changes people. Anyway, I don’t have any true friends left except Jesus Christ.

@jt2473

6 ай бұрын

WELL SAID!

@iamministry8287

6 ай бұрын

It's called codependency. I'm codependent and have literally sacrificed myself for the happiness of others. I have helped enough people for a lifetime. But, now I only help me. Look up codependency.

Betrayal from friends is a horrible feeling.

@natasharichter7694

8 ай бұрын

Tighten your shoe strings or slip on some slippers either or your boxing boots or your workbooks, slippers I say , for more than a day...and grief n loss may have their nature way... happy days are if we genuinely enjoy a goodnight sleep😊

@leanderrowe2800

8 ай бұрын

Yes, but worse is betrayed by one's spouse. A friend's loyalty has boundaries unlike a spouse who has sworn his/her loyalty in sickness and in health.

@larryw.c.4544

7 ай бұрын

Betrayal by a brother hitting on your wife is even worse.

@warthogA10

7 ай бұрын

Not when you realize they were never a friend to begin with.

@jacquelinegreen7796

7 ай бұрын

It's their problem though, not yours. OK, you trusted them and got hurt but they've got to live with that meanness, nastiness, evilness even in my case. But I'm still gonna trust, still believe because the next person who comes along does not deserve me being negative, withdrawn, cynical. I'm nearly 60, and been hurt many times. But I've also been loved too, I am loved. And I love myself but I'm not going to change myself just because someone else isn't whole within their own self. That's not my problem. I'll move on, find new people, have fun and be me. Merry Christmas everyone. Xxx

Being alone is powerful. Most people can't be alone. It's better to be alone than to be with people who make you feel alone

@melodyal3357

9 ай бұрын

that´s what I am saying too. :)

@joshuatree1886

8 ай бұрын

I love being alone. I enjoy my own company without ever being bored or lonely. If I want to be around people there is the library, senior center, etc. Or I can call any of my friends whom are always glad to hear from me.

@lynic-0091

7 ай бұрын

Exactly! I'd much rather be alone (not lonely, BIG DIFFERENCE). I can focus all my energy and time on the things I want, without having to play mind games with "friends". The older I get, the more I realise most people deep down don't give a shit about you. There will be some people who do, those people I absolutely keep in my life. But it's VERY RARE. If you ever have a bad feeling in your stomach about your friends, it's probably true. Listen to that gut feeling people. I should've done it sooner, so many times, with so many people. Learn to enjoy life on your own, if you can pull that off, like I finally have, NOTHING can fucking stop you. 💙

@aprilpayne788

7 ай бұрын

Hate always feeling alone even when I'm surrounded by people

@datdankdj8264

7 ай бұрын

@@joshuatree1886lucky bastard. I have no one I can call friend and loathe myself more than those who consider me an enemy

“It’s far better to be alone, than to be bad company.” George Washington

Pets/ animals are the only true friends❤

@Brenda45167

4 күн бұрын

💯

My mother used to tell me that if a person had one true friend at the end of their life that they should consider themselves lucky. I used to think she was negative. But now having lived a good part of my life, I realize she was right. And wise.

@joesmith9216

10 ай бұрын

it's funny how boomers are the only ones who even have true friends, my parents are boomers and they still talk with friends they had in college, even high school, me? HA, I can't even stand my one best friend from high school, boomers were just so much more normal.

@tcbcmoto4895

9 ай бұрын

There both wise women God bless us 🙏❤

@melodyal3357

9 ай бұрын

Same here. This is so SO TRUE!!

@ronwinkles2601

9 ай бұрын

If you have more than one friend count yourself blessed by God.

@galabond2588

8 ай бұрын

So very true .....

It's painful to make friends in a narcissistic world.

@MariamArt_

10 ай бұрын

They say misery loves company…” Those who are miserable are afraid to keep pushing. They are tired of being strong.

@joesmith9216

10 ай бұрын

a right! a feminist world!

@idk-zi3gw

8 ай бұрын

​@@joesmith9216This isn't a feminist world the feminist world is where both genders have equal rights

@ysbryd9779

8 ай бұрын

​@@idk-zi3gw try telling that to some of the feminists. Some of them would prefer men be wiped of the face of the earth

@idk-zi3gw

8 ай бұрын

@@user-nw2fp7nu5x feminist means equal rights since women in *MOST* AREAS in the world women had less rights. feminism fought for equal rights. But today In some parts of the world women have more rights then women.

I thought I had friends and family, until I started saying "no". Then the real people appeared.

A lack of friends can be very beneficial for personal growth.

@elonever.2.071

4 ай бұрын

Like everything else friends have evolved...into frienemies

Being alone doesn't mean you're unwanted; it's a sign that you're patient enough to wait for the right relationships that truly value and understand you

@jeannemeiring30

10 ай бұрын

Really🥺Because I've been feeling unwanted all this time

@Quiz-Titans

10 ай бұрын

​@@jeannemeiring30 I'm sorry to hear you're feeling this way. It's important to remember that feelings of being unwanted are often just feelings. This can be easily influenced by current circumstances and not necessarily an accurate reflection of reality or our worth. Everyone at some point will experience moments of self-doubt and feelings of not being valued. But remember this: your value does not decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth!!! We all have intrinsic value, and sometimes it takes time for the right people to come into our lives who can truly appreciate us. Use this time to explore and understand your own worth, develop self-love and self-respect, pursue the things you are passionate about, surround yourself with positivity, and do what makes you feel happy. And always remember, it's okay to ask for help if you're feeling particularly low. Reach out to someone you trust and let them know what you're going through, it could make a huge difference! Good luck and stay strong!❤

@Ms.Jamieh297

10 ай бұрын

Words of power and wisdom 💜 Beautifully written 😍

@jeanmitchell5834

10 ай бұрын

Interesting comment

@glennis-dankuwel6020

10 ай бұрын

Exactly!

I’m 31. Literally every friend I have made and become close to has disappointed me. It seems if you let your guard down enough people will always find a way to step on you.

@roboparks

Жыл бұрын

I'm sure you have done the same thing?

@RexDavis415

Жыл бұрын

The older you get, the less people you need in your life.

@OceanLover805

Жыл бұрын

Yes 😔

@dennismattord1554

Жыл бұрын

I'm 69, expecting more from others than from yourself, is your first mistake. Maybe you should reflect on what you have done that may have disappointed those friends. People have a habit of looking outward instead of inside. Judge your own works first.

@mikewillett5076

Жыл бұрын

Almost every "friend" in my case too. Some were very surprising, never thought they'd drift away like that. However, on the other end, almost all of the few people who keep in contact with me are very annoying. They always run away with and dominate conversations before I get 5 words in. I don't even want to try to have conversations with them anymore.

I absolutely agree with this. I'm a 64 year old guy who decided more than 10 years ago that I was better off without friends. If I happen to find anyone who has as much integrity and honorable loyalty etc as me, I will reconsider but I'm not holding my breath. Most people take advantage of friends in a very dishonest and unfair way.

@dianebannister4591

5 ай бұрын

Yep. I agree with you.

@BeverleyMiller_

5 ай бұрын

I also agree, most ppl are more interested in their own needs🫣 Better to be alone than wishing you were...

@williama9418

5 ай бұрын

Sounds like you think you’re perfect and better than anyone else. Anyone who says they have perfect integrity, loyalty and honor is clearly full of pride and probably extremely self absorbed. Now I don’t know you, and I can’t judge you but I’d encourage you, instead of judging people, to look at yourself. Are you being a good friend or are you just expecting others to kiss your boots?

@user-ym3fg6bg2r

4 ай бұрын

You gotta befriend the old men in this comment section 50-70 You guys need to make a group online and become buddies til the end fr I mean you all share the same issue so it should be a good bonding start

@suraiyamansoor9740

4 ай бұрын

Shame. Sad but REALITY. Bad ppl in world

Betrayal is the worst. Being betrayed doesn’t make you stupid. It means your trust in others was used against you. When you don’t trust in others anymore you won’t be betrayed.

Being alone doesn't mean you feel lonely. I love being alone.

@jennifermorton8332

Жыл бұрын

I am there! I love my own company over anyone else's for sure!

@hicknopunk

Жыл бұрын

@@jennifermorton8332 yeah. Different strokes for different folks.

@Earthy-Artist

Жыл бұрын

Yup, and I'm never bored or lonely. It's very peaceful.

@carolynmerritt7100

Жыл бұрын

Its great being able to enjoy your own company. However, there will come a time in life than a true and honest and available friend will be appreciated. So, enjoy it while you are young. It doesn't get easier.

@eveevolution1607

Жыл бұрын

Same! I need my alone time! I absolutely crave it

If a person can find ONE person that they can depend on to be a true friend, that person is extremely fortunate.

@lorigulfnoldor2162

11 ай бұрын

But then there's the question: do you need a friend on whom you can depend to be friendly and supportive in the emotional sense, but who can confer you no tangible benefit at all, no "apples", no "branches", no nothing - a friend who is poor themself but IS still a good friend? A friend like that could only hug you and offers words of sympathy when you need money, or house, or a boat - but nothing to help you with your woes. If you WANT to have such a friend still, that would mean that you YOURSELF may be a (potentially) good friend...

@SilosNogatte

11 ай бұрын

@@lorigulfnoldor2162 Yes, because a friend is not a bank, nor someone who is there to physically help you through your problems all the time. You might some times need it but considering someone a friend because of material belongings is shallow.

@lorigulfnoldor2162

11 ай бұрын

@@SilosNogatte can you stop yourself from beating yourself and blaming yourself for being unable to help a friend in a genuine need, when you have no resources to, though? i sometimes think that things like "friendship" evolved in human society when people were much more equal in their access to resources, so it was "either you can count on your friend, or you're in such a trouble that no one could help you anyway." If you are beaten by bandits, a friend can oil your wounds and help you get to place of healing. If a crocodile bit off both of your legs, your friend can hardly help you - but so hardly can anyone else. Nowadays it seems natural to either feel your own guilt, or anger at a society, when your friend is in need, buy you are empty-handed. Dealing with that sort of guilt, it's... not easy.

@kathydaubs7829

11 ай бұрын

I had that with my husband and best friend that both are now gone. I miss them dearly they kept me grounded

@bethfallis3997

11 ай бұрын

@@kathydaubs7829 You have my sympathy.

Before you make friends with others - Make friends with yourself.

"I don't hate people , I just feel better when they're not around. " Charles Bukowski

I'm an introvert so being alone is fine with me, and I learned at a very young age that most people cannot be depended on. I have very few friends but get along with most everyone. The ones that I can't, I avoid because I can't stand their negative energy. Being raised in an abusive family I'm very picky. I live out in the middle of nowhere with my animals and I love it

@ericmcarthur1975

Жыл бұрын

Whatever feels right for you and makes you comfortable and happy is right, why wouldn't it be there is no right and wrong way in one's own personal journey if it feels natural thats all that matters we are all our own people, sorry to hear you had a bad start but that's their fault, not yours.

@kristandagley7089

Жыл бұрын

Both of you are making me tear up. Dawn, you sound like me, and your comment caught my eye. My heart goes to you with understanding....Eric, that was a beautiful and heartwarming thing to say. You're souls are both amazing 🖤🥺

@kristandagley7089

Жыл бұрын

​@@ericmcarthur1975 My comment before was for you too. Never forget your heart is amazing, pouring with empathy.

@reahallu

Жыл бұрын

i hope to live in the middle of nowhere with animals some day too - people are awful

@jobes4525

Жыл бұрын

Can't fault you. Wishing you well from one introvert to another. 😊

I had a friend like this. Called him my best friend and so did he. I helped him through the death of his mom, an always lingering drug addiction, talked him out of psychosis more times then I care to remember, made him a bed, renovated his house, .... He never did anything for me, but I didn't mind, always thought it wasn't necessary. He needed peptalk after peptalk and I was there. Gave him good solid usable advice to get his life in order. He always went back to his old ways after promising he d follow the advice on his mom, dad, life,... After years I finally admitted to myself that he was completely self centered, bit crazy even. He lied all the time, believing his own lies. I cut him out of my life. He was using so much of my energy my own life fell apart. If you want, take my advice: act sooner.

@tracydriver1680

Жыл бұрын

Your friend has a narcissistic personality disorder that is exactly what they do excel every bit of your energy until you die, and they won't batter an eye lid. NPD for short.

@janicecrose376

Жыл бұрын

Wow, unfortunately it sounded like you had a narcissist there that cared only about himself. No one deserves that kind of abuse.

@mikejohn0088

Жыл бұрын

@@janicecrose376 --It's the norm not the exception given time and circumstances.

@Gohigher-

Жыл бұрын

Exact same situation

@pretinha718

Жыл бұрын

same thing happened with me. I'm done letting ppl drain me. F* friends!!!

Friends are just a dash away from being your enemy.

I have been a apple tree since childhood and now i am 61yrs old Unmarried and Fatherless, being the youngest of 8 children i am the poorest Relation with a loving heart and a open mind set. My Parents died 45yrs ago and i have no true friends, but my inner strength and resolve in dealing with disappointments has made me Content. I am a Sigma male with great knowing observing those around me who seem lost and unhappy with life.

@SectionHikingTheAT

6 ай бұрын

Agreed. But it definitely takes a strong person to be alone. My decisions to put myself first will be felt this Christmas day when I spend it alone.

@kathycooper8824

6 ай бұрын

Maybe we expect too much from others? I remember what Dr. Phil said. Don't expect something from someone that they don't have! (Think about that)😊

@donaldmickunas8552

6 ай бұрын

I’m 69 and alone. Time makes the holidays less painful. When I drove truck, I made sure to drive at least five hours on the holiday. This made it just another work day.

@elonever.2.071

4 ай бұрын

@@kathycooper8824 Then don't say you are a friend if you cannot be a friend.

Betrayal doesn't come from enemies but from friends and your inner circle. It hurts so much that the person you are willing to take the bullet for is the one behind the trigger.

@Lindsey578

Жыл бұрын

it always seems those are ones who end up taking the shot, i remember somehwere in the book 48 laws of power they say that you are better off with an open enemy than you are with a friend, because one friend that turns on you, or secretly harbors resentment can do more damage than several enemies who are open, it even suggests your better off working with an enemy in some situations and i unfortunately have to say i can agree with that statement. ( that was a very rough paraphrase of what i vaguely remember from reading it probably 3 or 4 years ago , sad thats what stood out most).

@legionsarecoming4-u371

Жыл бұрын

BAMMM! UNDERATED COMMENT! I SO APPRECIATE YOU!❤🙏🏾

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

Sadly that is so true.

@rosemarynaples756

Жыл бұрын

Or family

@Lindsey578

Жыл бұрын

@@legionsarecoming4-u371 lmao my screen name for this used to be they call me legion for we are many lol ....unfortunately i lost the password and ya----

Someone wrote in my autograph book at school many years ago.... 'True friends are like diamonds, Precious and rare; False friends are like autumn leaves, scattered everywhere.'

@HarryOsirian

8 ай бұрын

That's the truth. I hope you are still in touch with whoever wrote that beautiful piece of text

@lifesagamesobeawinner

6 ай бұрын

That's very beautiful.

@Shirar2000

5 ай бұрын

How many people here are INFJs, by chance?

@HarryOsirian

5 ай бұрын

@@Shirar2000 what's that?

@Shirar2000

Ай бұрын

@@HarryOsirian Personality type (old-fashioned Meyers-Briggs assessment)

My mother always. said , "if you have one good friend & true then you have more than your fair share " Life has shown me she was right .Most are but acquaintances .

Friends are like diamonds, precious and rare....False friends are like Autumn Leaves... found everywhere.🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

A friend is someone who knows everything about you and still likes you.

@RobRobertson

Жыл бұрын

Right.

@underdoggys5415

Жыл бұрын

😊👍

@djvenusflytrap

Жыл бұрын

No one will ever know everything about me... until the day comes when we're all telepathic.

@mikejohn0088

Жыл бұрын

YES---they are nonexistent.

@mikejohn0088

Жыл бұрын

He likes your pain.

It’s very hard to trust anyone anymore, even family.

@brandyjan14

Жыл бұрын

... especially family.

@Solscapes.

Жыл бұрын

@@brandyjan14 you beat me to it.

@Elaynebrant

Жыл бұрын

Family is the worst because it hurts that much more.

@abdulrahim8446

Жыл бұрын

Take people as they come

@mikejohn0088

Жыл бұрын

@@abdulrahim8446 ---across the border or in your house?

I’m almost 64 and I have one real friend in this world for almost 51 years he’s been there for me thru thick and thin thank you John Goldstein for being a true friend

After all the dust has settled, and after all is said and done, I was the friend I always wanted to have.

@Chris-en1ym

11 ай бұрын

Same, except my hand was the only one I wanted to date 🤣

@partheniat.9557

11 ай бұрын

@@Chris-en1ym well I don't want to shake hands with you to often! 😄🤗👎

@partheniat.9557

11 ай бұрын

@@jacksquat4140 yeah especially his hand.😫

@partheniat.9557

11 ай бұрын

@@jacksquat4140 😄😄😄😄

@Chris-en1ym

11 ай бұрын

@@partheniat.9557 Imagine how many hands you do shake though, I don’t wanna shake hands with you either for all the secondary residue 🤣🤣 Now you have something to think about when meeting people haha, your welcome.

People tend to like physically attractive, charismatic, confident people. They care less about good deeds. Sad, but true.

@vuhuongly3884

Жыл бұрын

Physicall attractive, charismatic... people are used, too. Look at Johnny Depp, he is a well known example. I think people who have learned and know how to detect toxic people are the ones who win in the end.

@brendaleverick3655

Жыл бұрын

@@vuhuongly3884 I don't believe Johnny was used. I think he used Amber Heard.

@dream_on_sammi

Жыл бұрын

In other words people are shallow af. This is truth unfortunately.

@casualcookin3893

Жыл бұрын

@@brendaleverick3655 Whatever the case there was,they were both attractive and famous and rich

@deveshdikshit90

Жыл бұрын

Good deeds make gud fortune this is karma phal siddhant =Deeds result principal.

When you learn to be your own best friend you'll be a much more happy and content individual

I was emotionally neglected from day one. I did not learn any kind of social skills and so became a pariah. As an adult I managed to find love and even marriage, but when a child was inside me, my spouse disappeared. I lived a decent life, making a good living from the skills I do have, and raised my child. Now he is grown and leaving soon, and I am alone again. And I am very, very sad.

@metognissefolly1105

6 ай бұрын

I am sorry to hear that.... Don't be sad, for you are not alone. God is with you always... he is the best friend

@alfredvenegas972

6 ай бұрын

Only The Lord Jesus Christ can fill that void

@auntymammalia9384

6 ай бұрын

@@alfredvenegas972 Archangels Michael and Gabriel have guided me, as have other beings as well as Jesus, who is within us all.

@roslyncerro1263

6 ай бұрын

Many of us didn't expect to be alone yet Solitude offers so much growth. God bless you.❣️

@justsomeguy1671

6 ай бұрын

Reach out, it's hard to be connected nowadays...it's not you it's just the world now

When my grandfather died at age 82, I was surprised to see so many young people at his funeral. Curious, I asked several young people how they knew my grandfather. They said they would often stop by to see him on their way to and from school. Even when they were young boys and girls at the time, they said he always treated them like adults and honestly listened to their concerns. He always gave them good advice from tips on playing baseball to explaining how to be and have good friends.

@craftypaton4195

8 ай бұрын

❤

@Nina-vv3ev

8 ай бұрын

🥹

@LeriaTheClown

7 ай бұрын

What a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing ⭐️🥲

@johnhough7738

7 ай бұрын

Dammit ... I qualify except I haven't a clue about baseball. Or cricket. Or any so-called 'team' so called 'games'. The mis-named 'team spirit' is another word for unleashed but legal Nasty. But I treat all people, young and/or old, as if they were me. It seems to work. No need to be nasty, even to the nasty; there's often a reason for their nastiness ... gently popping the bubble and letting the nasty out often reveals the nice behind the persona.

@perrywhite734

6 ай бұрын

When I was younger I had so many friends that I think I took to many for granted. They all seemed to be genuine and Real. Looking back I think that I should have been a more caring and tolerant of them. Now that I'm in my early 60s I live alone with my 18 plus year old Cairns terrier.i have a handful of ( Friends) but when I think about it do. Any of them really care about me. I lost my very best friend on August 6th 2018. My Mom, I know she cared since she passed I haven't spoken to my younger brother, or sister. Tried to make amends with my younger brother a couple of years ago, I told him I'd like to let bygones be bygones and I love him couse he's my brother. He looked at me and walked away without saying a word. They reason he won't talk to me is , when we were at the funeral I got really drunk and said that I would pay for everything casket, plot, headstone etc. when she passed away, my little brother jumped on a plane and flew down to fla . While my older brother and I drove down. Gee I wonder why he wanted to get there so quickly. My mom left both him and I enough money to cover all the funeral costs. When we returned home I started thinking about how caniving he is . I know my mom gave him a conversation van. Well he turned around and sold it to me for 10,000. Dollars . When I asked him to at least pay for the headstone that I put on my credit card. He refused . So I told him I would cancel the Stone. Of course I wouldn't have. But he didn't know that. He had me meet him at a bank and fill out paperwork saying he payed the twenty five hundred dollars. Out of the money that she left for her final expenses. He wanted to pocket the whole amount. Unbelievable! He won't talk to me because of that. What a piece of work. The funniest part is that I love him because he's my brother , but I don't even like him as a person. He's an asshole. What a clown. Back to the friend thing. I have one friend, and two sorter friends. But like I said I lost my only real friend when I lost my mom . Dam I miss that woman. Well I guess that's all I can say about that.

I live by this -- the less people in your life,the less drama!

@bibekjung7404

Жыл бұрын

ALMIGHTY God KABIR++🙏🙏🙏++

@user-yk1ew4hj5m

Жыл бұрын

❤ u are so right

@user-yk1ew4hj5m

Жыл бұрын

❤

@user-yk1ew4hj5m

Жыл бұрын

😮😅

@user-yk1ew4hj5m

Жыл бұрын

🎉

Friendship is earned not just given.

Friendship is just an illusion. For those still living it, they just haven't yet experienced the specific circumstances that blow away the illusion. Given enough time, they will.

There are hardly any people left in this society worth calling a friend.

@8188jlpc

10 ай бұрын

🎯

@metalbelles3662

9 ай бұрын

Absolutely unfortunately

@froggylegspeople

8 ай бұрын

There’s a thing about friendship…… I’m going to look at myself…… what kind of friend am I myself?

@8188jlpc

8 ай бұрын

sounds like victim-speak@@froggylegspeople

@froggylegspeople

8 ай бұрын

@@8188jlpc That’s how you see it, I don’t 😄

"Better alone than in bad company"☺️🔶

@partheniat.9557

Жыл бұрын

You got that right!☺️

@eavymuturuh3717

Жыл бұрын

Yep and I enjoy

@DeadInside-ew8qb

Жыл бұрын

What if you’re both?

@pam8962

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@partheniat.9557

Жыл бұрын

@@DeadInside-ew8qb explain!

The comments are vert true, when people you called friend turn on you, it's vary hard to trust, when this happens many times in your life and even family can hurt you to the bone, you start to think what is wrong with me, what have I done that was so bad to make these people hate you so much, In life I look back and think I never ment to hurt anyone,I was always there if they needed help in any way. A friend woke me up many years ago and was desperate to visit her dads grave we went she a good cry, I lived in this town for 4yrs. On leaving the town I found out that her and my husband were having an affair. That does shatter a person faith in people. This experience and many more like this happen all the time, its not just me. So I understand how hard it is to trust again. stay safe, enjoy Chrissy and the New year

@porshprix4286

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience and sorry that happened to you.

A long, close friendship is as valuable and rare as a great love...

Some people choose to have no friends because it's far more better to be alone than to be in bad company!

@grayguy3619

6 ай бұрын

Good one and true!

@Lotusfan11

5 ай бұрын

THIS IS ME. Live for yourself and you only. People are people. To have friends youd have to buy with things.

@gloriaholloway6282

2 ай бұрын

You Are Better Off. No Drama

The saddest thing is when you think you have a few good friends, and then they are not there when times are tough for you, and you need them the most.

@johnnyblazey

6 ай бұрын

yoU are never alone on this Earth, as All Life will help Life, regardless of Life!

@harrybond1485

6 ай бұрын

@@johnnyblazey Huh?

@Sunny25611

5 ай бұрын

Fact

@christinacastell-ott6811

5 ай бұрын

​@johnnyblazey I have never heard it put that way before. I think you just might be onto something. Thank you,!!

@johnnyblazey

5 ай бұрын

@@christinacastell-ott6811 ty for your kind words and yoU are welcome! There is/are a vast amount of specie Life, outside of the hUman world but not All are disttacted. Those in concern, just need a hUg from the Understanding and trUe meaning (defaUlt - start point of a semi-coherent/ coherent Self via Awareness of Self, Awareness of surrounding, and Awareness of Self in surrounding) of what one's Life means to Self and what Life (in it's entirety) means itself. We hUmans are very delicate to influences outside of Self but still completely precioUs, always.

This is all so true in life. The one and only true friends are your pets I've learnt they never desert you long you care for them whatever happens.

Friends will always cost you money.

@suraiyamansoor9740

4 ай бұрын

So hv dinner and a😂 wt them if you hv money.

When you cut out the toxic relationships and lose the intertwined drama, life is much more peaceful. I quit chasing after unhealthy, disappointing connections (which was usually the end result) and chose to keep more to myself. I've been called anti-social or a hermit, but all I know is I'm happier as a hermit. 🤷‍♀️

@Raebrained

Жыл бұрын

#HappyHermits 😂

@kristinloucks2084

Жыл бұрын

Let me guess... You're a Virgo

@kimbennett3014

Жыл бұрын

@@kristinloucks2084 Lol. No. Go fish. (And no, I'm not a Pisces. 😄)

@kristinloucks2084

Жыл бұрын

@@kimbennett3014 Cancer then lol

@kimbennett3014

Жыл бұрын

@Raebrained Perfection. We need our own group... that we participate in mostly independently, with minimal interaction, of course... 😉😶‍🌫️

Trusting people never fails to bring disappointment.

@Earthy-Artist

Жыл бұрын

Yup.

@rojan7737

Жыл бұрын

Your are expecting not trusting. If you trust then the results doesnt matter

@brokenangel2224

Жыл бұрын

Never!!

@tien7742

Жыл бұрын

Instead of putting trust in others, be wiser to put that trust in yourself .. Period..

@karenk2409

Жыл бұрын

That is not true. You need to learn how to determine trustworthy people, and how to be one yourself. It's a two-way street, a relationship built over time.

That's a very sad story with alot of meaning to it. People should remember this when they do have a friend who is loyal to them and stands by them. Just because you make new friends and live a good life doesn't mean you should forget the ones who were there for you during sad times. That's called loyalty and is an integral part of a friendship.

Been alone my whole life and it's my nature because of the way I was raised and the experiences I was subjected to in my early years.. 71 years old and still going just not as strong but that's life. Not everybody feels the necessity to let others get close..

@noralohan6140

4 ай бұрын

Fair play to that 71yr old person. I thought l was the only one. I fully understand what you mean by the way you were raised and early experiences. I went through the same thing and by the age of 8yrs, it was all over for me and I didn't start school until I was 6yrs. Between the madness and the bullying at school I was just an outcast but I live away in my own world. I'm a woman and nothing rises me more than a click of women together, (all stories about everybody and whispering). I could never take that. Thank God I'm alone and you too Sir. Mind yourself. May God watch over the weak. The Holy Spirit is the even spirit of truth. That's what the Bible calls him in the book of John. So true, I've experienced it in my own life since I became a Born Again Christian. The Holy Spirit never lies and he speaks to my heart by thought.

I ❤ this. I'm 60 years old no brothers or sisters no husband no kids or grandchildren no nieces or nephews my parents are gone. Had to set boundaries with the few friends I had. So just me and my dog 🐕. No drama or BS. It's good considering 🤔 people and their motives😊❤

@patriciaclark7342

Жыл бұрын

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

That was why my late parents had so many of us. They were worried that once they are gone that if any of us were an only child then we would be all alone.

@briangenereux2202

Жыл бұрын

I agree with your wisdom and also put alot of thought into how and why life actually works. About 15 years ago I wrote a small book about what really drives life here in this world. My conclusion is that everything here is driven by the engine of Karma. Relationships included! If one doesn't have many friends or relationships, one should think of themselves as lucky because they also don't have too much Karma debt. Looked at closer, there is alot of stress, responsibility, loss of freedom, financial weight, etc in Relationships, especially marriages. Be happy you don't have to deal with all that stuff and enjoy aloneness. If one can do that, then "loneliness" will never show up. Two different birds!

@princetonleo7440

Жыл бұрын

It's like looking in mirror

@vidaacheampong2563

Жыл бұрын

Ya but what about when u get older and u have nobody?

Loneliness is the price you pay for finding your inner self

@JACOPO.OFFICIEL

Ай бұрын

Worth every penny then.

@ubongosahihi

Ай бұрын

Thank you ❤❤❤ ❤❤❤🙇🏽‍♀️🙇🏽‍♀️👏🏾

@whatnowok

23 күн бұрын

And straight

A person of faith is Never alone, Jeremiah " before you were conceived in the womb I knew YOU"may this comfort you as it did me.. AMEN

@Amanda-kd3cm

4 ай бұрын

Amen🙏❤️🇦🇺

To have a true friend you have to be a true friend

"When people show you who they are, believe them the first time." ~Maya Angelou

@8188jlpc

10 ай бұрын

exactly

@MariamArt_

10 ай бұрын

“I rather eat pasta and drink wine than to be a size zero.” - Sophia Loren

@kidjetrecon7153

10 ай бұрын

Amen.

@Ilias24.

9 ай бұрын

yes man trust me let them go forever

@KM-oy5yh

7 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉

A lack of friends is a wonderful indication that a person is to real & genuine! # for me it is! I prefer the solitude over fake people!😊

@Freshadventures_

8 ай бұрын

Same here. I really enjoy the peace and quiet of being alone. Don't have to deal with any b.s.

@johnathanwilliamleonnorth2040

8 ай бұрын

@@Freshadventures_ Well the self is found in the solitude but happiness in a mutual bond!

@srvntlilly

7 ай бұрын

Well, I don't know that it's a *wonderful* indication, but it's absolutely true. I know, cuz I'm the one who's too real and genuine. People don't know how to take me, cuz there so few people who have the courage to be themselves anymore.

@johnathanwilliamleonnorth2040

7 ай бұрын

@@srvntlilly Well one must learn to be all one needs which is found in the solitude!

@heybra8941

6 ай бұрын

My kids and I are the same, acquaintances...not many friends tho

Thank you for posting this wise, kind story. It helps me hav more compassion for myself and others than I would otherwise have.

"Absolutely captivated by this video's unique perspective on having fewer friends. It's a deep dive into self-reliance and meaningful connections. Did this change anyone else's view on friendships?"

I heard last week that you should not tell anyone about your problems or how you are feeling because 80% of people don’t care and the other 20% are glad you have problems.

@t-bonena3609

6 ай бұрын

I agree.

@one4320

6 ай бұрын

True

@ljones98391

6 ай бұрын

I have found most don't care to know anything at all about me, neither my joy's or sorrows. Makes it difficult to talk to them as I abhor superficial conversation.

@amethystrosemaclaren5853

6 ай бұрын

That's so true!

@shashwatpriyadarshi972

6 ай бұрын

Actually it is the other way round 20 percent don't care 80 percent are glad that you have them.

I've only ever had two true friends in my life. One of them passed away several years ago. One of them I'm still blessed to have. A true friend is very rare

@annahadher

Жыл бұрын

U can say.that again!!!

@juliebraunschweig2108

Жыл бұрын

Same story here, Nancy.

@shelanjaypreston2072

Жыл бұрын

Me too Nancy . Quality over quantity every time.

@mikejohn0088

Жыл бұрын

Watch your back.

@pieterniemandt1098

Жыл бұрын

My bestie died of cancer in 2018.

If you walk with Our Lord Jesus Christ you are never alone.

@AndeH7

6 ай бұрын

@margaretlovings6354 Amen! He is a friend who sticks closer than a brother! Proverbs 18:24 Jesus has been so faithful and His love has never failed me. I literally wouldn't be alive if it wasn't for Him.

I can relate to this. I would have given the world for people I thought would be my friend. Now, I discriminate very discerningly who might be worthy.

@Alvin-ue8vz

4 ай бұрын

My whole twenties has taught me this.

The value of a “true” friend is immeasurable.

@patriciaclark7342

Жыл бұрын

BOTH ARE IN HEAVEN!

@kaoskronostyche9939

Жыл бұрын

Wouldn't know - never had one.

@alexsmith240

Жыл бұрын

define truth as truth is only what we perceive it to be its only a lie if we dont believe it

@claudeculver4076

Жыл бұрын

​@@patriciaclark7342Amen Brother

@mikejohn0088

Жыл бұрын

Find one and report back in 20 yrs.

Being alone, and being lonely are worlds apart, of each other.

It's gets hard to sleep with so many "knives in your back" from "friends".

Never expect too much from people and you'll never be disappointed.

@KerryLeighBrett

8 ай бұрын

True but dont associate with people like that in the first place. Its like getting a bad exchange rate on your dollar bill

@galabond2588

8 ай бұрын

That is so true !

@melaninqueen2413

8 ай бұрын

It still hurts either way. Trust me.

@patriciafaithfull6360

8 ай бұрын

why do u have expectations of others? who are you to make such demands?

@tettehpriscilla1045

7 ай бұрын

There is no need for friendship for me personally

Cutting ties with toxic so called friends was the biggest weight lifted off my shoulder. I’ve become a much clear thinking person. My confidence level went extremely high. Because I no longer associate with peers who feels the need to bring you down.

@tanishasharma5869

3 ай бұрын

Agreed 👍

I had one true friend. He was killed in a car accident... nobody has ever compared. Everyone else is fake and now I'm just going to die with no friends.

Someone very smart once said - 'hell is people' I've come to realise this to be true.

It really sucks when you think you know someone but realize you never even met them

@deborahburroughs8905

Жыл бұрын

I hear you.

@maxpower92

11 ай бұрын

Imagine if you were married to that same person for 16 years. It sucked...

@GoblinIntheGroto

11 ай бұрын

Damn that just hited hard..i was seeing a girl and we had something but we didnt know each other at all..we rain into things ways toi fast and yet again im alone. I miss her And i hope she misses me too.

@Chris-en1ym

11 ай бұрын

Dang bro 16 years, what did you walk in on?

@MusiciansWithVision

11 ай бұрын

@@maxpower92 The realisation you've spent 16 years with someone who was faking it all along!

Reaching the threshold of old age I learned that the least attached you are to anyone or anything the least pain you will suffer in your life.

@carolynwebb9775

11 ай бұрын

That is so very true

@inagordan4589

11 ай бұрын

so true. I'm definatelly agree

@stephenpain9236

11 ай бұрын

Buddha teaches that half of human unhappiness comes from too much attachment to the things that we like. The other half comes from too much aversion to the things that we don't like.

@MusiciansWithVision

11 ай бұрын

Loneliness does hurt, but yes, attachments can hurt even more!

@JAM661

11 ай бұрын

That is like saying I am never going to get a dog to avoid the pain when they die. Meanwhile you missed years of experience, enjoyment and memories. Does not sound like much of a life. I would rather just not place expectations of others and let myself just be surprised by decent people. I find good people around all the time.

I love being on my own. As an artist I never feel alone. I don’t feel I need company.

@Tam-zg6iz

9 күн бұрын

I never feel alone while , I do my art work , it's freeing of the mind , and I find myself to feel peaceful.

True friends are a blessing, people that hang around you trying to use you or get something out of you are a hassle.

If a person has two REAL friends in life, that is a true blessing.

@user-pp7jn7gy3n

9 ай бұрын

Two, who has that many 🧐 ?

@KM-oy5yh

7 ай бұрын

​@@user-pp7jn7gy3nAMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

@user-pp7jn7gy3n

5 ай бұрын

Outside my family, the only people I know mostly involve money, both men and women.

I am 83 and have had 2 friends for 60 years who are loyal. Another friend that I've had for 40 years is still close and loyal. Along the way, I have made and lost a number of friends who didn't turn out well, but I consider myself very lucky to have those 3.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

You are lucky. I still have 1-2 close friends now. I had a best friend that passed away and lost 2 close friends along the way. But having 1-2 close friends is good enough for me.

@patriciaclark7342

Жыл бұрын

U R!

@777Ryank

Жыл бұрын

You're blessed on many levels.. Best to you and your friends

@JayEnlightenedtitan369

Жыл бұрын

Bless you sir you are a wealthy man to of had 3 friends for 60 year's 🤔❤

@pam8962

Жыл бұрын

You are blessed 🙌 😇

A friend is a future enemy in most cases

There are friends, who only view you, as an asset or benefit to them. The less your circle are, the less drama, you will have to entertain.

I find people always let me down or betray me or never put any effort, but I acknowledge that I need to have social connections because I am healthier and happier, so instead of friends I started volunteering in our community, it’s a great group of like minded people enjoying a common goal. Then I go home feel happy and get on with my hobbies and no need for fake friends. It’s a win, win for everyone.

@mrtim5363

Жыл бұрын

Thank You... One of the things I tell people suffering from loneliness & depression is to volunteer to help those less fortunate. One day a week helping the homeless & those without food to eat changes your perspective on life. & You're socializing with no expectation of a relationship.

@robr.830

Жыл бұрын

Great idea!

@SpaceCowboyFun

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome! Build your treasures in Heaven!!

@sherburck

Жыл бұрын

Great idea

@KatT-qr6fi

Жыл бұрын

Great idea🎉

I have been an apple tree to many people already and the only thing that I get out of it is betrayals, disappointments, insincerity, etc. I can totally understand how the apple tree in this story feels.

@wa1ufo

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@cynthiamatlock6925

Жыл бұрын

Our creator is a jealous God and we truly should only seek satisfaction in His provision.

@Chris-en1ym

Жыл бұрын

It’s funny how everybody only worries about who they were an apple tree to, but never think about who was an apple tree to them

@rebekahhamilton6146

Жыл бұрын

I have always been the tree and have never had a tree to pull from 😢 this hits home on so many levels

@courtneyfisher3331

Жыл бұрын

@@rebekahhamilton6146 😢

I was friends with a band mate for 25 years, we toured the world in several bands. During his divorce I helped coach him through it. I even invited him to the Philippines to tour with me with my growing music career there. My friend got there, got jealous of my success, and quietly started planning his own career with other bands there. During this time , he talked bad about me behind my back. I warned him about prostitutes there also . In the end, he betrayed me for a prostitute. Lesson learned. She ended up cheating on him, getting pregnant, and using him for money. My mom once told me that everyone you think is your friend isn't. Real fact. - Chicago Blues musician/ Nurse

I'm a middle aged women and I'm that apple tree. I no longer trust and want to be friends with anyone. I know a lot of people have lots of negative opinions about me for not having and not wanting to make friends. But I have a few breaths left in my body, and I want to live what remaining life I've in peace and happy with my angel daughter, without whom life has no meaning. God spare me from those devil who comes as friends and rips my soul and wounds me. Help me.

I agree that friendship is like a rare diamond,its precious.Everyone is'nt on the same level with you.

Pets & plants are prettier than most people now a days.

@georgevavoulis4758

6 ай бұрын

So sad but TRUE 👍

@mobyneclasic9764

6 ай бұрын

Funny, but this statement is void of understanding, people are like plants and people are also like pets the real question is what kind of plants or pets are they. Friendship is all about complimentation and compact ability. How about this. Am making a proposal to becoming your friend. We could get to know ourselves better

i LOOOOOVE being alone!!!! People are untrustworthy, unreliable, have hidden agenda’s, and just flat out suck!!!!

@Kirkee7

Жыл бұрын

Are you trustworthy, reliable, without hidden agendas......etc ?

@rickmorgan1441

Жыл бұрын

lol

@rosannecole4992

Жыл бұрын

There should be no jealousy between real friends but that's how we loose them ..!

@bryonwatkins1432

Жыл бұрын

@@Kirkee7 YES!!!! THAT’S what pisses me the fuck off about people!!!! When i deduced that it appears most (90%) of the world 🌎 are the opposite, that’s when i became a recluse for the most part!!!!

@marysadnick6854

Жыл бұрын

So called friends cut your throat as soon as you turn your back! My husband is my only friend! I am good with that!

I watch this video at times when I feel hurt to remind myself self-isolation is a defense mechanism and my belief in the good of people cannot change. It helps ground me so I don't ruminate, thank you.

Wow I needed to see this and grateful for the peace I feel ❤

You can be your own best friend and never be lonely. It doesn’t mean you avoid people, you enjoy them for what they are and enjoy their company more because you don’t need it. To do this, you have to begin to look for your worth in your reflection in the mirror, not your reflection in other people’s eyes.

@sethradcliff4042

11 ай бұрын

Very well put! 👍

@betsyveritas1055

11 ай бұрын

So true.

@paulgrey8028

11 ай бұрын

There's a big difference between being lonely and being alone. If one likes ones own company then ones never lonely.

@deborahburroughs8905

11 ай бұрын

That is absolutely true! Well said my friend.

@enlightenedone7141

11 ай бұрын

Underrated comment!!!