What Is This Relationship Doing To Me
There is no such thing as neutral relationships.
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After my breakup I’ve been binge watching and falling asleep to your videos every night. It’s literally the only thing that’s comforting me and shifting my focus on the King. God bless you.
@amandabee5138
2 жыл бұрын
Me right now!!
@LeyLeyPisces
2 жыл бұрын
I just got divorced and same. Besides I don't fall asleep but I listen to him all day long. His knowledge and learning more about Jesus and what He wants yes the only thing to bring comfort. You posted this a yea ago, I hope you've healed and moved on💜
@HandsofGlory1
Жыл бұрын
Y'all also should watch videos on how to heal from trauma bonds
When he said God will never bless what disconnects you from him--wheeeww!! I got chills! #PreachBrotha #ItWasntforMeSoILetITGo
@billking3923
3 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@angelafayesims1563
3 жыл бұрын
#FACTUAL!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏
"A distraction is not when you CAN'T focus, its a MISMANAGEMENT of your focus. You're focused, but you're just focused on the wrong thing...youre pulled in several directions [Hebrew definition]...it takes your eyez off of what you should be focused on this season." My God... With what's going on today and the things to come, may I submit to you that this is NOT the season to be distracted. Wait on God & He WILL reveal All things.
@keyshellsmith4673
4 жыл бұрын
You are sooo right!
@popstargirl79
4 жыл бұрын
You can get an amen! 🙏
@MsChapman
4 жыл бұрын
That was my favorite segment too!!! Had to text that one to BFF for tracking lol.
You need to be spiritually, financially , emotionally , relationally, physically whole before you enter in another relationship, or you just attract someone with the same dysfunction as you .
@jasminecarter8998
4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Oprea Love this!! ❤️❤️❤️
@renishaporter4132
4 жыл бұрын
Yessssss!
@empresserica
4 жыл бұрын
So far I only have 3 out of the 5 things you mentioned. So glad God is patient and kind. And I still deserve to be loved even though I'm a work in progress.
@rebeccaoprea9917
4 жыл бұрын
empressericaL you are a working progress and complete at the same time !
@misss7758
4 жыл бұрын
So you have to be perfect before you enter a relationship. Yet biblically the main reason given for marriage was to prevent imorality. Mary certainly did not wait she got married in her teens. Alot of christian women will end up alone for life. They will sit there for years and decades working on making themselves qualified for marriage.
"If an individual is running from their issues, what makes you think they'll be mature enough to handle our relationship issues" Loooorrrrrrtttt, I felt that in my soul 🙌🏾
It's not just all about compatibility.... it's about SUITABILITY. A straight word.
“God will never bless what disconnects you from Him” !! Come on somebody 🗣 that’s so good 🙌🏾
@angelafayesims1563
3 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah!!!🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤💪💪💪🙏🙏🙏
“You’ll never get to the foreign peace, if you don’t let go of the familiar place.” Ooooo Lord I am EXCITED TO GET TO FOREIGN PEACE!!!! 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Wow. " in relationships that are over but have not ended."
@nlewis4196
4 жыл бұрын
That's word is🔥!
Was in the MOST abusive relationship you could ever imagine and got pregnant. I lost my baby girl but GAINED my relationship with God. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 he will NEVER bless what takes you from him! That’s just my testimony..keep dropping gems Brother Flowers lol
@earlonaweary9155
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your testimony🙏. God bless you in Jesus' name, sis☺
@jasminecarter8998
4 жыл бұрын
Earlona Weary God bless you as well 🙏🏽
@danypooh1617
4 жыл бұрын
Now I understand why I had two miscarriages with the person I was involved with! He was not a Godsend
@gabriellejones6451
4 жыл бұрын
Hi I just wanted to bring clarity hopefully...I’m not sure why you God allowed your miscarriages but there are Godly couples in Kingdom marriages that also have endured miscarriages so that’s necessarily a sign of God punishing you or taking something from you because of sin( you can refer to the word on that). I’m not saying we should sin Recklessly and abuse grace but God is merciful and if we are repentant he does give beauty for ashes and redeems!!! I have a child from a relationship that was not Kingdom or God ordained and God has blessed me my child and my child’s father TREMENDOUSLY. My child is beyond everything I could imagine or ever pray for. God used even my faults to draw me closer to Him because I went to him with a contrite heart...Sin does separate us from him and there always consequences but God still makes all Things new!! Hope this encourages/clarified . God bless you ABUNDANTLY!!!!
”Our Ishmael mistake doesn't take us away from our Isaac promise.” Man, that hit different. That's exactly what I needed to hear… thank you Lord Jesus 🙌
1. It is better for you to be single in a cold bed, than be warmed by a real devil, there are a lot of people that are entertaining by the devil (wrong one) just for status and image * Focus and distraction* 2. Deceiving relationships due to a. Lack of prayer life b. Anxiety 3. Not allowing time (time is your friend)
@misss7758
4 жыл бұрын
Well its much better to be in bed with someone who loves you than to be in a cold empty bed by yourself.. Let's not compare singleness with bad relationships. Anything is better than being with a demon. Singleness sucks and the longer you are single the worse it gets. You lose stuff. Like youth, fertility, good times.
I almost threw my phone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@jessicahanson2331
4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@empresserica
4 жыл бұрын
Lol. Me too!
Our Ishmael mistake doesn't disqualify us from our promised Isaac. A WORDDDD
Please hear this brother for he is telling you the truth.Listen !!!
@karensimmons4560
4 жыл бұрын
Heavenly advice, never heard it articulated this way, I have to get to work, thank you and your wife so much!!! One thing I've learned, maturity is not defined by age, but, life experience.
@empresserica
4 жыл бұрын
Listening ! Bless
"Because you could be compatible with a demon." I don't know how that made me laugh so hard! It's sadly true though!
@CharleneNicole67
4 жыл бұрын
Ellie Reilly I laughed too! Lol But smh facts !
@rosembimo
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 me too but scary though
Distracting Relationships Deceiving Relationships Paralyzing Relationships_ not all about Compatibility but Suitability Poisoning Relationships Evolving and Divine Relationships_ This helps you grow
Distracting relationship, deceiving relationship, paralyzing relationship, poisoning relationship, evolving relationship , and divine relationship
Yeah I had to let go of my ex. Because it was all about image. It wasn't real love, peace, or joy. I was miserable and depressed all of the time.
@roseroyaltyy
4 жыл бұрын
Me too. Just broke up with him last week and it was hard 😔
I wish I knew this b4 I committed to my ex. Just gave birth to our child and he has told me I'm no longer what he's looking for. I ignored all red flags for the sake of a family I never had. Heart is hurting but working my way through. Pls pray for my strength. Doing some surgery on my heart and mind to be better.
“It wasn’t for me so I let it go” MY GOD!!!!
#ItWasntForMeSoILetItGo
“God will never bless what disconnects you from Him.” This just released me from my debilitating false hope of my 3 year relationship that just failed to somehow be fixed. Amen
It’s dangerous to be around people that like you but don’t grow you.Woahhhhhh I felt that 🙌🏾
This can apply to friendships as well
That’s one of the most important and truth filled messages I’ve ever heard. That you brother Jerry. Keep telling the truth. It is much needed in this sick, sin saturated world!!
God will never bless what disconnects you from him, that spoke to me. You're smiling, but something is missing. . . that is so my relationship right now.
This was good and much needed! Let go of Familiar misery and grasp foreign joy...
@songbirdnESQUIRE
4 жыл бұрын
#andDID!
"It wasnt for me, so i let it go..." Wow Pastor Flowers. You dropped so much knowledge in this video im getting ready to watch it at least 2 more times. Powerful truths ! Bless you.
This just validates the uneasiness I've been feeling in my relationship. I've got some real soul searching to do😢
I think low self-esteem makes us push those red flags to the back.
Its better to be in a cold bed single than be comforted in warmth with the devil. 💯
Seek Gods will early daily.💕Love Him with all your heart and strength, learn His word and help others.💕 1 John 4:18
This is so applicable for all things relational.... friendships, relationships, and etc.
Sin is the deadliest thing to our souls... Amen.
Please tell me there will be a part 2. This is exactly what I needed after being in a toxic/ poisonous relationship!!! You are really giving sound truth and advice.
@torij1822
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!! Definitely need a part 2 on toxic relationships! Just got out of one myself!
Wow, God guided me too you through a dream, I knew he wanted to give me a message regarding a relationship. Thank you , you are truly anointed 🙏🏾
This came at the right time, I fell in love with the poison and God Let it go because He knew I wouldn’t..I will be watching this Again..and..Again..and..Again 😔🙏🏾😔
That's why i walked away from my ex i got tried for it to many red flags no consistency, to many excuses to many broken words and promises. i prayed and asked God to show me who he was he did and i had to walk away. God know who best for me. Im happy and blessed. Thank you God for everything. Thank you Jerry good message. God bless everyone.
At this point l will just sit and enjoy other peoples relationships.
We need to talk about our own red flags
This man is truly wise. Thank you for being so blunt and true brother:)) I really appreciate it.
My my my. What a lesson. Thank you!
Thank You Jesus !! I Needed!! This!!! Teaching!!!
Jerry ! you really spoke to me in this one, i need to leave my poisoning, toxic, unhealthy relationship
Thank you for this powerful message. Confirming the last two plus years of my soaking in His Divine Presence😭I am believing The Father for good gifts, as always❤️🙏🏿 #itwasntformesoiletitgo
Suitability v. Compatibility....next video
@luyandagama5608
4 жыл бұрын
Natalie Waterman yaas
@Shamoy_Dougallsingh
4 жыл бұрын
They did one already. Here is it 👉👉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYul18xxosyTYag.html
@nataliewaterman6114
4 жыл бұрын
@@Shamoy_Dougallsingh Thanks!
@Shamoy_Dougallsingh
4 жыл бұрын
@@nataliewaterman6114 Your most welcome.
This was spiritually informative. I am divorced and this session was an eye opener
*Our Ishmael mistake doesn't disqualify us from our Isaac promise*... Chei🙆.. that got to me and I was like my God my God.. Hallelujah 🙌🔥💃
can the enemy plant anxiety to try to keep a purposeful relationship to happen?
Amen! No dealing with their own, so definitely not mature enough to handle our relationship issues.
Ouch...mannnn that’s good!
ALRIGHT NOW HALLELUYAH BREAK IT ALL THE WAY DOWN!!!!
2 years later and the words couldn’t be more true LORD THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS BEING ON TIME!
Good word. I settled for good instead of kingdom. Now what?definitely praying....🙏
I'm yelling at the screen... you better preach,teach,and speak life filled truth!! My God my God!!🙌 🙌
“You will never see the Foreign Peace if you don’t let go of the Formula place! This wasn’t the relationship for me so I Let It Go!” #Word 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Confirmation Thank You Jesus
MAAAAANNNNNN!!!! You betta PREACH!!!!!
Familiar misery versus foreign joy that was a word all by itself.
Yesssss! I had to block him! Dammm! I pray that god keep me strong 💪 to never look back! I know what I deserve!!!
God bless you all. You are very anointed/gifted to teach on relationships. You said everything that needed to be said in a short amount of time.
@lovemariehobbs7222
4 жыл бұрын
Yeees He did
The timing is impeccable. You just spoke to me. Thank you for this word.
Exactly! Mismanagement of Focus!
YOU ARE MESSING ME UP MAN!!!!! I’m right here right now!!!
Familiar Place vs. Foreign Peace 💯
This was my confirmation. God used this man of God today!!! This was what I've been praying about and you just answered my prayers🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌
@amandavil
4 жыл бұрын
Right!
I'll be watching that brother in time of loss, pressure, & anger.
Say again for the people in the back👏🏽👏🏽! This season I have distanced myself from unhealthy relationships because they were not growing me but draining me. And I could not focus at all, on me, my goals and Christ because of the people I was choosing to be around!
That Foreign Joy comment is everything. I thank you for always imparting so much into us.
Painful comfort will always numb us from God's best.
He that has an Ear to Hear!!!
You are getting at me! Lol I hear it and receive it! 💗
Solid truth speak Holy Spirit. Thank you Lord.....
Wow, I’m so happy I’ve watched this. This has spoken to me. I am in this situation I can not leave this poison relationship its so hard but listing to this video has showed me so much and your right I’m always happy for a moment then I’m upset or I’m wanting more and I never receive it and it’s because the peace of God wasn’t inside of them the peace of God was not in the relationship. Wow thank You God 🙌🏾
All i can say is AMEN!!! 🔥
WHEN IS THE BOOK COMING OUT!!!! I WOULD LOVE TO PRE-ORDER.
I don't even know what to say.. You touched every single thing that is happening to me.. it hurts so much! thank you for doing this video.
Ohh. My friend, you are a huge blessing... As always this is awesome. Thanks for sharing
This msg here was a blessing I needed to hear at this moment❤
I feel personal attact by this message
Thank you!!! Now I just need to get this message from my head to my heart....lawd I need prayer...
Jehovah Jiro! Abba Father! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
PREACH FLOWERS!!!
I am truly happy that I found your channel, God bless you
#PREACH! THIS MESSAGE FED MY SPIRIT!
#letitgo “#Theforeignpeaceforthefamiliarplace“. It wasn’t for me so I let it go. Come on Jesus that’s awesome brother Jerry!🙌🏼👍🏼🤗thank you. You preaching a whole lot right there.
@hairandmakeupbypealar7627
4 жыл бұрын
This word is so Rich and so necessary. There are so many great nuggets in the webisode.. thank you Brother Flowers!!!💃🏼🤗👍🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼
I am sitting in this space right now. Thank God for the message and the ability to move on!
Preach!!!!!! Thank you!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Brother, as usual, Preach!!!!!!!
So good🙌🏾 thank you Lord for you word!
This was so boss!!!! Go ahead brother. Speak that life! Glory to God.
WOW 😳You have an special gift I say that bcuz how you express yourself. It like I know I need the push without being judge.. Greatly needed and appreciated ❤️
Preacher Flowers: Wow! This was 🎯 targeted directly to me--man I wish this video was a year ago!!! Literally!!! Distractions; Anxiety, having MRI tics until now. Help me! #wasntformesoihadtoletitgo
It wasn't for me. Let it go!
OMG!!! Thank you so much.. praise God for this message! Because of my loneliness and anxiety I have participated in a distracting, deceiving, poisonous situation ship (the Blood of Jesus is an anti venom though). Because of a bond I share with a co worker @ work which is familiar it's paralyzing me.. I'm not going or growing in God...my prayers are few and seasoned with Grace and and I'm a disappointment to God 😔. I felt so alone and trapped in this mess... Until this vid popped up on my alerts ..and the Holy Spirit used you to help me to repent- evolve, and realized my Divine connection is thru the tribulation @ work. Whew🙌🏻. Thank you for Your ministry and letting God move you!!! 🤗. Thank you God for this message 🙏. God I heard your messenger, Please help me get back to You.. I love you God Amen ❤️
This was deff a necessary info 🔥🔥🔥
This is truth! And it doesn’t expire. This is just as true at 48 as it is at 16.
Anointed man of God!
🔥🔥Pure fire, thank you for this!!
I needed this!