"I ain't following no man who don't know where he leading me" Jesus help me have discernment in this season!!

@alleashawatson4648

4 жыл бұрын

Me too Lord! Help me to wait! Wait until Your timing! And fall for the right man!

@honeymoney23

Жыл бұрын

Add me to the prayer sis!

“When you catch feelings, STOP, and get clarity”🙌🏾🔥

@mdrenewed

4 жыл бұрын

Soooo good

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑

@grouson11

4 жыл бұрын

The best advice!!!

@scwright108

3 жыл бұрын

THIS🙌🏾RIGHT🙌🏾HERE🙌🏾!!!!!!

@marlonmagonjo

3 жыл бұрын

It hit hard❤️

I’m never an option, I’m always a privilege. 🙌🏾 🙌🏾

@DaveSmith-vi7lz

4 жыл бұрын

That a girl👍

@AFatherToTheFatherless

4 жыл бұрын

Pride comes before the fall

@christopherthompson6595

4 жыл бұрын

Don't flatter yourself.

@meaganpayne6531

4 жыл бұрын

Amen girl!

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

@@AFatherToTheFatherless 💀💀💀

Dont make a permanent decision on a temporarily feeling

@soeg5674

4 жыл бұрын

Been there, done that. No more! In the name of Jesus, amen.

"When you fast, you're strenghtening your no and clearing your why" ....

@anciboi

4 жыл бұрын

Ah nice one Ene Ali, I saw the no as know.....either one works 🙋🏽‍♀️🙏🏽

@redia8264

4 жыл бұрын

Wow

@angeliaxx

4 жыл бұрын

I have been fasting the last 2 weeks.... Not intentionally but have had more clarity

@monicagill2942

4 жыл бұрын

@@angeliaxx sis you do realise we are not supposed to tell people when we fast, Jesus speaks of this in Matthew 6. Blessings

@angeliaxx

4 жыл бұрын

It's just because I haven't really had any food. It was not intentional. It was just very busy at work at I didn't end up eating breakfast and would have a late lunch :(

You spoke a Whole sermon in 10mins

@trueabby1162

4 жыл бұрын

4 real

@trueabby1162

4 жыл бұрын

I was like wow lol

@p.r.9982

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@natashajohnoson2286

4 жыл бұрын

Yes he did

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

🎯🎯🎯

*_Compatibility is NOT similar disfunctions_* True words

@bigche5859

4 жыл бұрын

So true..

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

Sadly many friendships are formed on that basis too.. 😕😕😕

“I want your will lord just make sure they look attractive” 😀Amen claiming this one !!won’t HE do it!🙏🏽♥️

@ThePreetyvgurl

4 жыл бұрын

Muñeka Hernandez Amen to that 😁🙌🏽

@jemeisha2013

4 жыл бұрын

This made me holler, when he said that 😂🙌🏾

@BH-dk7cn

4 жыл бұрын

Sandina Joseph 😂 me too girl

@BH-dk7cn

4 жыл бұрын

Priscilla Vera 🙌🏽😀

@Sindi63084

4 жыл бұрын

Beauty is in the eyed of the beholder, if he's the one for you he'll look attractive to you

“Heaven conceived or heart deceived” ❤️

@sunshinehicks1503

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾

What a lot of people call "compatibility" is really similar dysfunctions. Ouuuu that hit me.

@triciabrown5263

4 жыл бұрын

Davida A. Me too!! sigh 😔 But God..🙏🏽

There's nothing worse than wanting Kingdom benefits but following culture counsel. All that's gonna do is have you go in the wrong direction expecting to arrive at the right destination. 🔥🔥👏🏾

@khallid81

4 жыл бұрын

Repost👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@Godsgoodgriefministry

4 жыл бұрын

That part👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@kayegordon861

4 жыл бұрын

That's so correct. Want the correct result, put in the right work.

@rayebaldwin9086

4 жыл бұрын

This here!!!!

@royaltyblue1m.932

4 жыл бұрын

A preached word for the people

The hardest fight is between what you know and how you feel. Big Facts

@triciabrown5263

4 жыл бұрын

Haley Stanley yep👍👍so true 🙏🏽

I used to marry my exes in my head and heart a lot. Big mistake.

@betht7591

4 жыл бұрын

Hope things change

@queenesther743

4 жыл бұрын

Does this mean you forced yourself to see them in that light? I am asking because my own husband I didn’t see him as my husband or I didn’t let my walls fall for him until about four months before he left me. We were together for a total of five years, married three and half, then I had another relationship for almost 9 years and now that’s over and I never saw him as my husband.

@savannaghkeeleychase7481

4 жыл бұрын

I recommend taking a minute to take back every vow. The times you said 'I will love you forever' or anything you said, ultimately your subconscious mind doesn't know you didn't really mean that..secondly it gives the demonic right to carry out those words. Cancel them all. Take it all back, speak new life and freedom in agreement with Jesus will for your life. It changes things.

@meaganpayne6531

4 жыл бұрын

Same here...you are not alone!!

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

Exes..? Crushes here.. 💀💀💀

"A breakup is a heart divorce" 🤤 This entire message spoke to me! Preach preach

@Kiyaboo214

4 жыл бұрын

MY MY MY!! I can dig it!

"The desired relational goal should be to want to marry sombody who helps you advance heaven's agenda, terrifies hell, and breaks generational cycles off both of y'all's bloodlines." #Yes #truerelationshipgoals

@minez3217

4 жыл бұрын

Amen praise this right here

I was in love and I thought the man i loved was from God...after sometime I wasn't feeling the love reciprocated so I said out loud...jesus if this relationship isn't from you please shut it down ....omg within 24 hours he was gone forever ive never seen him since ...trust god always amen x

"Don't follow your heart." You can say that again!

@kemarrobinson1912

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

God will give us the desires of our hearts. However, It has to be in His will. So Ive prayed that if its from Him let the feelings remain, if its not from Him to remove it. Absolutely nothing shall stop the ways of the Lord in me, in Jesus Name.

@nikhefe16

4 жыл бұрын

Ooo powerful prayer point! I need to add this to my prayer arsenal😍🙌🏾

@lornaswasey4687

4 жыл бұрын

Amen,when in doubt pray

@Sindi63084

4 жыл бұрын

I'll never pray like that. Not as long as am in this body 😉

@20plusstrong41

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@dr.chelseatheroyalpriestes2786

4 жыл бұрын

so true have done that prayer and God Answered ,like the next day.

When ur ex is no longer ur type 💯🚶‍♀️and that's where I'm at now God took my ex out of my heart it was hard 4 me too do on my own but God did it and I'm so glad 🙇🏽‍♀️ let it die Amen

Boy you better bring that heat! 🔥 sick of toxicity. No more distorted views

"Entertaining someone who traffics in deception." 😯😶👏🏾

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

!!!!!!!

@minez3217

4 жыл бұрын

This literally made me weak cuz it’s difficult to know that they trafficking in deception when it’s so easily done

@Godsgoodgriefministry

4 жыл бұрын

@@minez3217 Exactly!!

You came into my house, sat on the couch and told me about myself. I must admit that there is a part of me that still inclined to desire of being with him, hoping that he will genuinely give his life to GOD and finally recognize what he has. Unfortunately reality is that it’s not happening. I am trusting God for my Godly spouse and finally realize why my previous relationships never worked🙏

@MissD0829

4 жыл бұрын

Tyesha Williams Amen 🙏

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

💣💣💣

@lizlolli5598

4 жыл бұрын

That's EXACTLY what happened to me! It was so discouraging and left me questioning to much. I just want Gods will and if a man is a part of that then Amen!! But right now I'm in a renewal process Psalms 51

@bellag2864

4 жыл бұрын

😭

I had to watch three times so I could make sure I heard everything you said...

@jayec.2845

4 жыл бұрын

Gurl me too I watched it three times I need to keep hearing this a couple of times !!

@kemarrobinson1912

4 жыл бұрын

😏

@keamohetswemohale8680

4 жыл бұрын

Girl that's so me

@meaganpayne6531

4 жыл бұрын

AND take notes...like literally, write them down!!

I needed to hear this My heart married someone without me being aware Im fighting for him Fighting him when he's drinking, not coming home at night He threatened me when i ddnt want to have sex with him He asked me if i want him to text other girls and ask them to see them I said no then ended up doing it Im on my process of divorcing him and knowing my worth Im drained by this relationship, i almost lost myself but God opened my eyes Praise God

@laries9648

4 жыл бұрын

pholy hun 🙏🏽

@juanica_lee

4 жыл бұрын

Oh sister, how are you now??

@virtuosityll7116

4 жыл бұрын

GirL I'm Sooo Glad You Woke Up & Smelt, "Smelled" The Coffee 👃 LOL

@faithobedient9388

4 жыл бұрын

What you do get a divorce, cause he’s committing adultery

@crystalharing3914

4 жыл бұрын

Sending prayers. Hopefully you're doing well.

“My mind’s telling me no....” 😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@joylaoshe2481

4 жыл бұрын

But my body... My body is telling me yes lol

@Shamoy_Dougallsingh

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂

This is what you call a “soul tie”

@ThePreetyvgurl

4 жыл бұрын

Glen coco yessss that’s exactly what it is. Should ties are dangerous when made with the wrong person.

@majessl

4 жыл бұрын

What happens when you marry an ungodly soul tie?

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

@@majessl bondage.. 🙈🙈🙈

@ThePreetyvgurl

4 жыл бұрын

majessl well there’s nothing impossible for God. So if you both give your lives to God he’ll direct your paths.

@latishatolbert1723

4 жыл бұрын

I mentioned this today that i dont want no more soultie connected to me because im still getting to know who i am in christ.

Most people don't have a relationship with God as father/ Lord, that's why they end up in all these situationships! Also great video! Thanks

@queenesther743

4 жыл бұрын

Lisa T as opposed to Husband or wife?

@anchoredfaith5404

4 жыл бұрын

@@queenesther743 As opposed to a distant being who you know of but don't truly know His heart.

@queenesther743

4 жыл бұрын

Ok thank you for clarifying

@lisat1640

4 жыл бұрын

@Glen CoCo Wow....lol Smh .. Absolutely not however, I am unshamed and unapologetically living redeemed and free because of Jesus who is perfect! (Matthew 5:48) Blessings to you too.

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

@Glen CoCo 💀💀💀💀💀

Needed to hear this 10 years ago, but to God be the glory I got out

@triciabrown5263

4 жыл бұрын

E Smith ...me 20 years ago!!! Sigh. But yes to God be the glory!

@rayebaldwin9086

4 жыл бұрын

@@triciabrown5263 Same here! Sheesh!!!

This is a must hear for all single Christians. Let us not be scared to let go what doesn't belong to us. I love this..."When you catch feelings, ask God if it is from the Kingdom or from your heart or the enemy." This is powerful

Before beginning my relationship with my significant other, that’s LITERALLY what I prayed. “Lord, if she’s not for me, please don’t let this work!” Almost every time I prayed that, I get a text from her during or after the prayer. We’ve been together almost 3 years now

@joyricherson4570

4 жыл бұрын

You guys are married now?

Who are you? Where did you come from? I want to throw my phone! But I just upgraded it! God sent! Keep sharing!

I am in a relationship with a kind, loving, amazing guy and we’ve been dating for a year and a half. We’re both young and honestly didn’t think we’d date for this long so I didn’t make it a big deal that he isn’t a Christian. But now it’s coming up. We just had a very honest conversation about this and might be breaking up soon. My heart is completely shattered right now because I had already planned a future in my head and my heart with him. This somehow feels worse than ending a toxic relationship, because he’s such a good guy and a huge part of me feels like it’s a mistake to let him go.

@minez3217

4 жыл бұрын

Prayers for you Sarah P.

You mean “when your heart gets married without God‘s permission”

@bridgetgullison8848

4 жыл бұрын

Emerdine Lennon that’s not what he said

@emerdinelennon3916

4 жыл бұрын

Bridget Gullison I know, this is what I’m saying...

@Savageryx90

4 жыл бұрын

da baby- babysitter 👎

@Alceste-Resister

4 жыл бұрын

@Emerdine Lennon exaclty, our Father

@shirleysaint-remy7115

4 жыл бұрын

Teriosity LL You have selective hearing. I hear God and the name of Jesus all over as a focal point for guidance away from allowing our hearts to deceive us and from the plot of enemy snaring us into relationships and marriages with the wrong person. Also, most importantly the message emphasizes our responsibility in part to take action on how to fight by using the techniques described. At the end of the day, we have a choice even if the Lord does chooses our mates. I’m speaking from experience.

I’ve been avoiding this video on my feed for the last 4 days only to watch it and realize I’m in the “heart under construction” phase 😫😩😫🤦🏾‍♀️ 7 months gone and wasted and here I am trying to pick up the pieces and heal. Thank you for this Word!! I so needed it! 🙌🏾🤗❤️

@triciabrown5263

4 жыл бұрын

GDaEssence 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

I have prayed this type of prayer a few times and He's never failed in showing me that the person was not right for me so I haven't built with the wrong person.

“I just want Your will. Just make him cute!” 😂 Definitely the story of my life! My heart just married someone without my permission and seeing that everything I was led to do fasting, getting off social media, etc., is everything described in this video is confirmation. I want to always be spirit led!

“I just want your will Lord but please make them cute!”

@Jolutayi

4 жыл бұрын

LASH4Lash 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

😅😂😅

@mileycyrus201198

4 жыл бұрын

lmao

@virtuosityll7116

4 жыл бұрын

Pretty Sure God WiLL Not Put You With SomeOne that You're Not Attractive Too, Lol His Not A Cruel God Lol

Find out if this is heaven-conceived or heart-deceived🙊🙊🙊...I ate that!!!😲😲😲

@Jasmyne444

4 жыл бұрын

keisha2shoes same!! 💕💕

Amen!! Love my husband of 30 years next year on my birthday May 15🙌🏾

@gelleh.5456

4 жыл бұрын

Rena Madison Blessed.

"You can't break-up RIGHT if you don't know your self Value". Amazing👍🏾

"And breaks generational cycles" [curses] "of both y'all blood lines...now that's relationship goals" said staring straight into camera

@minez3217

4 жыл бұрын

Amen and Amen those are relationship goals

I needed to hear this right now... I’m in this situation right now

@electricred91

4 жыл бұрын

Yes sis

@InTheRecoveryRoom

4 жыл бұрын

Tunisha Lajoy Nemons ... we are all praying with you that you decide to ... Learn your value Desire peace and clarity Fast to strengthen your “ no” .....and refresh YOUR HEART in HIM!!! My beautiful sister.. YOU CAN ... more than conquer🙏🏾

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

Politely & gracefully decline, and run..!

Just had to comment twice, it's that good. You helping me Sir, you helping me!!

Wow this is good and much needed for my ears. This is my clarity. My heart married someone now I have to divorce him We are spiritually polar opposites. I will pray that prayer Thank you

Where was this 30 years ago 😂 This is the 2nd video the Lord led me to with the same lessons. Guarding my heart and fasting. Thank you Jesus for you making this!

Love this video! My hearts been married a few times😣😣😣... I got to stop this pattern!🙏

_Y'all just share the same dysfunctions and call that compatibility, that is NOT compatibility._

There's TRULY an ANOINTING on you!!! I've watched plenty of relationships advice video's... Gotta say, no one delivers such a realistic, loaded, neatly packaged, transformative, unheard of, BLESSED video's like YOU🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. You're speaking WISDOM... True WISDOM!!! That can ONLY come from GOD. Thank you, it's an HONOR and a BLESSING.

@LDR411

Жыл бұрын

I definitely agree!

“If he ain’t following Jesus ain’t no telling where he’ll leave me”

This just changed my life... 😊

My heart married someone without my permission and I couldn't understand why it was so wrong to love someone, I couldn't understand how that it was wrong to show someone love. The problem is that the heart is deceitful. Thank you! I really had no idea until I watched this.

"I'm running my feelings through the filter of my trust for you..." PREACH!!!

@minez3217

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

The timing of this video! I needed to hear this! This is so needed! "Never an option always a privilege. "

The Lord sent me to watch this video at perfect timing. He knows my struggle with these prolonged feelings. Thank you Lord for everything I can not thank you enough😇🤗

This video being “very necessary” is an understatement

Man... I could listen to you all day....men NEED to listen and learn from you... I know I'm on the right path and have the right mindset concerning my desire to marry a man that listens to God as I do.... I live my life like I'm married....to God... I know my worth in God ...and I ask God to guide me.,..had to let go of family and friends.... sometimes they are not in accord with God....and hinder your elevation.,.you are a wise and humorous man of God... Thanks for the video.🙏😇🙏😇🙏😇

C'mon, Pastor Flowers!! 🔥🔥🔥 In other words, #IfItAintKingdomIDontWantIt!!

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I felt like you were talking about my story exactly. Thank you for making this.

@pablerprice5757

4 жыл бұрын

Amen! Amen! I just sent my daughter a text and had I seen this yesterday I would have sent it! But, I sent it today. Hoping that she will take heed. Amen to the sister who said that she "needed to hear that " and another who said " I knew that but needed to admit it". Be bold and stand for your self value. I did over 30+ years ago. I told him that I didn't want to wait until he was ready. He didn't want to give me the ring and I left. Never looked back. God gave me the strength to maintain my trust snd confidence in Him. Well, he never married and of the 3 baby's mommas. Died at a young age. I have now been married for over 33y to a wonderful Man of God. So, maintain your faith in God. He will never fail you!!!!

“You know you’re growing when your ex is no longer your type.” Wheewww!!

“Are we compatible or do we share the same dysfunction” WOWWWWW 😮😮😮

Never clicked on a video . So. FAST!!!! We've been waiting for y'all!! :D #NotificationSquad

@Beredefined

4 жыл бұрын

haha we love it

@barbarabrown9600

4 жыл бұрын

So have I, been waiting patiently!

@MsSingingCricket

4 жыл бұрын

I follow him in IG as well!!

@empresserica

4 жыл бұрын

Sure have!

My bf isn’t invested in me like I am with him and it hurts.

Oooouuuuweeee, I made this big mistake with my ex-husband!!!! I am so happy to see this video 👍❤. ***I am never an OPTION, Always a PRIVILEGE!!! HALLELUJAH!

“Don’t follow your heart. There’s nothing worse than wanting kingdom benefits but then following cultural counsel.” Let the church say Amen. 👏🏽🙏🏽♥️

I'm not something you can try on take off and go to the next. "Amen" No Thirst Zone in this season

Whyyyyyyy can’t I like this more than once!!!! A whole word that I just made sure I sent to my Best Girls. 💛

When you catch feelings get clarity. Keep clapping 👏🏾 amen

I run into my Ex, 8 yrs together, a few days ago & it made me very thankful to God for saving me from that one. 🙏🙏👍🌈🦅🕊❤️👑🔥

One of the best video’s ever. Compassionately raw TRUTH!

High five. That's wisdom. I needed this confirmation. I'm in this process and God clarified it. Old dude is mad.

A heart is truly only married when it is filled with divine love. Not emotions . Spiritual love not feelings. Unconditional love.

“God if its not you let it die, if its you let it grow. I only want your will” I AM UNDER CONSTRUCTION! I fill a block anointing coming on!

That’s so funny. That is my prayer. “Lord I just want your will but make him talk and fine please 🤗”

Pleeeeeease do a snake webisode! Part 1 2 3 however many videos it takes for us to see, gain knowledge and call out the enemy

@purpleroses4398

4 жыл бұрын

Yesss

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

💣💣💣

WoW! This was powerful word. This is conformation to something, I asked God about just few days ago. This person from my past got intouch with me, and they want me to respond to them. I said to myself, I'm not going reach out to this person just yet, unless I hear from God. I'm seeking him to give me the green light, because Im not going be anxious I won't allow myself, to be led by my emotions. Thanks Redefine for this awesome topic its just what i needed to hear. May Lord continues bless you family and utube channel.

I've heard this message a few times but each time I listen, it hits differently every time! Love, love, love this! Glory!!! I will trust the Lord at all times!

Pastor Jerry you and your wife have been a blessing to me in this season of my life. I found clarity listening to your sermons. May the Lord continue to bless your lives. Thank you! Most of all Thank God!

Powerful🌹 I definitely know my worth and listening to this makes me laugh at the silly excuses I used to make 😳😳😂 Restoration!! Transitioning!!

I was having this EXACT conversation with my friends the other day. This IS GOD.

It's the "You know your growing, when your ex is no longer your type..." for me! 🙌🏾

So much wisdom! Teach us!🙌🏾

I had to pause. This was biting me lol ouch. Thank you. This video literally answers 1,000 questions I’ve been asking myself this week

I just prayed and cried because I love someone who I know isn’t the one but I want to be the one and I can’t get over and this just came up. Thank you for this video so much, it’s making sense of something I felt I couldn’t make sense of.

That's the same prayer I made and I fasted too. He is God's gift to me.

This message was right on time 🙏🏾

This is so eye opening. Lord heal me right!

Come on I’m the room with this servant and message Jesus!!! Glory ! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🧎🏾‍♀️

What we call compatibility is just similar dysfunction 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾!!! The truth in this statement!!!!

On point as always! I won’t downgrade! I wasn’t clear about a few brothers pursuing me.. and blocked and deleted them ALL. Shut it all down- and F A S T E D ! ! That was incredible answer to my questions! He just took away the chaos, lust, confusion, and said, “No!” And I felt an awesome “Yes, Father!” You can obey and hear better when your flesh is dead. Trust God - he is the coach of the winning team that knows how to beat us into submission and V I C T O R Y ! Unless we want to keep losing over and over and over and over........ 3 days is all it took!

@BlackandIndi

4 жыл бұрын

Mom Amigo That is a Powerful Testimony!!!!!

@rayebaldwin9086

4 жыл бұрын

So many of us have gotten away from Fasting. It is part of our spiritual journey but this church age has turned away from it yet Jesus did this from time to time and even said fast and pray when there were situations of demonic strongholds.

@tanyasmith183

4 жыл бұрын

Lbut

This message is so timely. Thank you and may God continue to bless you and your wife as you advance His Kingdom!

Amen brother, Lord knows this was just my prayer needed to hear this clarity 💪🙏🙏🙏

Thank you! This is the exact video I didn’t know I needed! Be blessed.

Man I needed this!!!!

Amen when i first read the title the scripture came in my thoughts first...the heart is wicked

Right message at the right time! Thank you 🙏🏽

that was spot on what i needed to hear. So convicting yet so true! Thank you so much for this!

Welcome Back 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 this was Straight Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I definitely took notes 🙌🏽 Rejection just means Protection🛡

I needed this, and the video came up in my notificarions at a time I was overwhelmed and wondering why I felt the way I did..thank you foe your obedience

You said a mouthful king!!! Thank you for sharing!

Had to listen twice!! So many gems!! Thank you