Signs of a Fake Masculine Man | Requested Video!

Requested Video! 10 Signs that man is operating from a Fake Masculine Energy.
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Timecodes:
0:00 - Intro
1:18 - Rules
3:54 - Feelings
5:59 - Pretty
7:35 - Scar
9:19 - Yell
11:52 - Roles
14:40 - Women
17:25 - Butt
20:05 - Reciprocation
24:10 - Role Model

Пікірлер: 412

  • @mrcead
    @mrcead3 жыл бұрын

    I always thought that a guy who insulted his girl in front of me was disrespectful and childish because why would you disrespect your queen in front of me, that just makes it awkward to be there and why you with her if you not proud to have her?

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Men showing off for other men, by disrespecting women is childish and somewhat suspect.

  • @les907

    @les907

    3 жыл бұрын

    That title of queen is truly interesting. So, by proxy, that man is her king? And if his behavior threatens the his title, then does that invalidate the title for either of their behavior jeopardize their status and therefore makes the title subjective?

  • @TheFriendlyPsychopath

    @TheFriendlyPsychopath

    Жыл бұрын

    If your a male who pedestalize women and is a woman worshipper thinks a woman is his queen is a idiot, if a queen chose and married a man or whatever does not make him a King, he's just the queens man/husband.

  • @infamous1ao
    @infamous1ao3 жыл бұрын

    Very easy real masculine men don't have to tell you they are...end of story.

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like this comment!

  • @atuanyaalpheusthememeparod9246

    @atuanyaalpheusthememeparod9246

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena I like it too you should do a video on these so called Alpha males claiming to be masculine m

  • @twebster179

    @twebster179

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@atuanyaalpheusthememeparod9246 she's a homophobe.

  • @anthonysumter5855
    @anthonysumter58553 жыл бұрын

    I’ve learned that a woman will submit to a man when she trust his ability to make decisions for himself and for the betterment of their relationship. She’ll submit if he’s solid and is aware of his own stability.

  • @jeannisadorseylionessofthe3835

    @jeannisadorseylionessofthe3835

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is facts

  • @Aerie40

    @Aerie40

    Жыл бұрын

    100%. A woman being led properly will naturally submit. Period.

  • @HisGraceIsSufficient555

    @HisGraceIsSufficient555

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes sir, that is correct. And add in there a man who is kind to his woman... to that man a woman (healed and whole) will give him everything he desires from her and more.

  • @reggiesaidit513
    @reggiesaidit5133 жыл бұрын

    This might trigger some of my brothers but deep down in their heart, they know that she is correct .

  • @ScriptedSagas790

    @ScriptedSagas790

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @rustyshield

    @rustyshield

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @tambwekazubangakani5389

    @tambwekazubangakani5389

    3 жыл бұрын

    There is no such thing as a fake masculinity, it is or you are one or you are not

  • @the_beast_among_sheep

    @the_beast_among_sheep

    Жыл бұрын

    All in all, these are all coming from a females point of view.

  • @the_beast_among_sheep

    @the_beast_among_sheep

    Жыл бұрын

    Some of the points are true, but everything is relative. What a female says she wants, and what she biologically needs are two completely different things. I love women. I hate rejection, which is why I wait for the slightest hint that she's flirting before I go in for the kill

  • @solomonthorpe8236
    @solomonthorpe82363 жыл бұрын

    Your segment about feelings were extremely accurate, recognizing principles and values are incredibly important

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏾🖤

  • @SomeBaldDude
    @SomeBaldDude3 жыл бұрын

    Submit to a Man that is capable of Professing, Protecting, and Providing...

  • @anthonybacon8711

    @anthonybacon8711

    3 жыл бұрын

    They can provide for they self here where I'm from we don't give these women a dime

  • @kimberlypettway9692

    @kimberlypettway9692

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg this is it in a nutshell. And I believe when it comes to protecting, that encompasses my mind body and spirit. I love this💕💕💕

  • @prudenceezu9113
    @prudenceezu91133 жыл бұрын

    The point that you made about a man that is aggressive hits home My dad is aggressive and he thinks that we "respect" him but in actual fact we afraid of him

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    When people use fear as a method to gain respect, they don’t realize they’re also causing people to build resentment towards them and eventually rebel once they’re no longer afraid. Like, how Tina did Ike in the Limo.

  • @prudenceezu9113

    @prudenceezu9113

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena so true Miss Sara Thank you so much for your response

  • @jenimichelle

    @jenimichelle

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena it’s interesting you said this. My mother is masculine & aggressive and I always feared her growing up. And that’s exactly what I did was rebel the first chance I got. Because of the disconnect we’ve always had my young adult years were a compete downward spiral. A lot of the poor decisions I made were made out of rebellion, but also because I simply didn’t have that mother figure (compassion, understanding) to go to. I’m just soaking up all this free game so I can pass down the knowledge to my 20 yr old daughter. I refuse to have her be anything like me, or my mother.

  • @prudenceezu9113

    @prudenceezu9113

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jenimichelle I guess parents' actions can really scar a child

  • @jenimichelle

    @jenimichelle

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@prudenceezu9113 They really do. It messes with your head a lot. I’m always second guessing myself

  • @taewil2838
    @taewil28383 жыл бұрын

    Can we nominate you for some type of award you would win easily you deserve it. Your doing alot for the black community it should be recognized

  • @hansolo5420

    @hansolo5420

    2 жыл бұрын

    He's right what your doing is needed to combat these negative allgerythmes.

  • @duanedobson302
    @duanedobson3023 жыл бұрын

    Respectfully, in response to the inquiry, I think that the role of submission depends on the situation. You can’t have two leaders at once. Generally the mans role is to provide and protect . However she can look out for him in ways as well. She may for example see something in a situation that her partner overlooked or missed completely. She may be more developed in certain areas where he on the other hand isn’t. In this case , it may be appropriate for her to take the wheel. Personally, I’m not in a relationship, but if I were , I think that would be the type of person I would prefer to be with.

  • @hipking23

    @hipking23

    3 жыл бұрын

    Definitely agree with you 💯 👏🏾

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s very seldom that you find a man that will say something like this in the KZread world nowadays! I really appreciate you taking the time to respond to my question! I pray, when you’re ready, you find a wife that respects, loves, complements you well.

  • @ezekielisrael2168

    @ezekielisrael2168

    3 жыл бұрын

    This my brother is called delegation and it is very necessary for those who recognize that they have strengths and weaknesses. Only a fool would let pride stand in the way of the best choice of action

  • @rozwilliams5954

    @rozwilliams5954

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly..... Agree 1000%!! My husband an I have been together for 36 years and he always says that's why we've lasted so long. We both know each others strengths and weaknesses and we work TOGETHER to accomplish whatever it is life throws our way.

  • @calikeisha365

    @calikeisha365

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow very astute to understand that one person isn’t the holder of all wisdom.

  • @eddieepicmedia
    @eddieepicmedia3 жыл бұрын

    Always appreciate your unbiased love towards your community. The brothers and the sisters appreciate you.

  • @jnealone
    @jnealone3 жыл бұрын

    The feelings thing was me in a nutshell. Always expected woman to know how i wanted them to act. Many regrets over that fellas. When I finally changed it saved my marriage. 1st 5-7 years I just suffered in silence, was miserable and would have went on for years cause I am not one to quit. But the last 15 years have been great when I finally set some rules.

  • @boogieap3617

    @boogieap3617

    2 жыл бұрын

    When rules you set big Jon ?

  • @Kris-ym2zr
    @Kris-ym2zr3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for posting this here and not on your other channel. Great points, you really expressed it well. The way you put it will help a lot of men level up. Your point about giving son's responsibilty by 6 or 7 was a great one.

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Comments like these inspire me to keep making videos. It’s nice to know you’re appreciated.

  • @oORegularKevOo
    @oORegularKevOo3 жыл бұрын

    Be assertive and respectful of yourself and others... Simple... All men should aim to be Superman but walk around as Clark Kent... Build yourself up to be the best, most competent, strongest and versatile version of yourself... Have the confidence to know that you can take on any challenge and or destroy anything that comes in your way but only use that power to uplift and protect those around you...

  • @eric8841
    @eric88413 жыл бұрын

    Hello, that was a perfect description of feminine energy!! Lol Peace and wholeness fam

  • @lawaleeso9281
    @lawaleeso92813 жыл бұрын

    Sara can express herself freely about men, not because she taps into her compassion which is perfect balance to logic. Therefore, she is comes of really insightful, wise & caring to the logical mind... An oracle in the making!

  • @blkwallstreetfbalineagegen4698
    @blkwallstreetfbalineagegen46983 жыл бұрын

    I can’t wait hear this one! 😄 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @dontaewhitfield9127
    @dontaewhitfield91273 жыл бұрын

    Sara can lowkey sing the Major Payne reference was epic LOL !

  • @boomarang3186
    @boomarang31863 жыл бұрын

    Very good points. To hear these from a woman is so good. I always learn something from you. 😎🙏🏿

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching!🙏🏾

  • @deedeetrpl8
    @deedeetrpl8 Жыл бұрын

    Major Payne insert was awesome!

  • @greggdubwilliams9810
    @greggdubwilliams98103 жыл бұрын

    Shoutout to the queen I humbly take heed to this and willing to grow in my masculine energy 🙏🏿

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Although this video was more so advice for the ladies, I still appreciate you not undermining me.

  • @greggdubwilliams9810

    @greggdubwilliams9810

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena I feel it, I still had to peep cause although it was mainly for women if I did have some fake masculine traits; now I know to critique where I’m falling short. Definitely still helpful for the fellas keep edifying sis 💪🏿💪🏿

  • @cj2style1
    @cj2style13 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely Brilliant example you used with scar and mufasa!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯

  • @aziz-kashifmustafaaii5101
    @aziz-kashifmustafaaii51013 жыл бұрын

    As Salaam Alaikum. You have good solid information drizzled with humor 😆. Good Job, Ms Sara Lena.

  • @michaels3067
    @michaels30673 жыл бұрын

    Nice video. Well thought out You really put some work into this, and it shows.

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank You very much!!

  • @jenimichelle
    @jenimichelle3 жыл бұрын

    I am SOOOO glad I found your channel. I’ve been binge watching Red Pill content for about a year now and it’s refreshing to see things from a woman’s perspective that share my same views on so many things. The Lions Den (Red Pill content) can get a bit much when you’re a feminine woman and a lot of the comments & thoughts of some men just simply don’t apply to you. It’s good to have a balance of both.

  • @Wonderwoman79G

    @Wonderwoman79G

    3 жыл бұрын

    Btw why do you watch red pill content? Most of the content is very toxic to women. It can be quite draining to listen to. Do you also listen to femininity channels?

  • @jenimichelle

    @jenimichelle

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Wonderwoman79G I watch red pill so there’s a balance. I’ve always been the type to want to understand both sides of a situation. When men speak to me, it’s sugar coated to spare my feelings. So I like to watch to get the raw truth. But you are right, some of it is toxic, you kind of have to sift through the bs to get to the actual point. I watch femininity channels as well. It’s all about balance.

  • @Wonderwoman79G

    @Wonderwoman79G

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jenimichelle I do the same.

  • @Wonderwoman79G

    @Wonderwoman79G

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Gtjsn There are some great femininity channels, seek them out. Please stay off the migtow/red pill/ manosphere channels. They like to drag any woman over the age of 26.I have met women who have met, married and had children in their 30s , so please ignore the channels.

  • @danielwong5378

    @danielwong5378

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Wonderwoman79G Truth is Toxic??? Explain how that works.

  • @ezekielisrael2168
    @ezekielisrael21683 жыл бұрын

    You are 100% right on all points. But to your question about submission the answer is no. A mature woman needs something to submit to like a man that has goals and isn’t a hypocrite in order to build a solid family unit. A boy in a mans body (pookie aka ray ray) can’t lead any body except towards disaster. I love your videos sis keep posting

  • @navigatingel6104
    @navigatingel61043 жыл бұрын

    WOW big facts right on point

  • @donovanhijodeolodumare8648
    @donovanhijodeolodumare86483 жыл бұрын

    Using scar and mufasa to describe true masculinity versus toxic masculinity was perfect!!

  • @Quack_special_prosecutor
    @Quack_special_prosecutor3 жыл бұрын

    Looks and common sense are two different things. If you come across both in one person then that’s luck.

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you??

  • @supremec2476
    @supremec24763 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Build as Always Queen

  • @JC_The-conqueror
    @JC_The-conqueror3 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn’t want my daughter to submit to a pookie or ray ray .. HELL NO .. he need to be productive

  • @BrothersatPeace
    @BrothersatPeace3 жыл бұрын

    I totally appreciate this point of view.

  • @yannmondon9821
    @yannmondon9821 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome video sis

  • @yomarzz1696
    @yomarzz16963 жыл бұрын

    Love the content queen, to answer your question in my opinion a woman should submit to a man who has himself together internally and externally. One who can hold himself accountable day in and day out. So nah it can’t just be anybody lol

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your response Brother! Much Love and Respect!🙏🏾

  • @landonprice5656

    @landonprice5656

    3 жыл бұрын

    Rim Wills

  • @1mic513
    @1mic5133 жыл бұрын

    May your family be Blessed sis

  • @Truthpillthadon
    @Truthpillthadon3 жыл бұрын

    Sis you on fire, I share all your videos on my page.

  • @johnnyblaze2257

    @johnnyblaze2257

    3 жыл бұрын

    What page?

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank You Brother!!!

  • @jasmine2278
    @jasmine22783 жыл бұрын

    This was very good- thank you!!

  • @cdub7373
    @cdub73733 жыл бұрын

    Never watched any content from this channel before so when I read the title I clicked to see if this lady would troll. So far I’m 4:18 through it & im loving her so far

  • @marcosalazar8797
    @marcosalazar87973 жыл бұрын

    Grand rising young sistah! Great content. I appreciate how you drop them from both sides. To your question: I don’t believe women should submit to any type of men. The results of that are quite clear, especially in the black community. I’m going to go out on a limb here and provide some common sense insight on what it should look like: Healthy feminine women should submit ONLY to healthy masculine men. If you paired any healthy fruit or vegetable with an unhealthy fruit or vegetable, we all know what would happen to the healthy fruit. This human experience that we all are having is nothing more than an intense calibration of individual internal balance within our selves, and then when we interact with one another, balancing that interaction through our own internal balance, and then our balanced interaction among each other should be balanced with our ecology (the surrounding environment we live in) and this is what the infinity of the universe can be summed up to. Anyone who thinks that a woman should submit to any man just because is lacking some form of balance or just being willfully ignorant (or both). Nothing good will ever come out of that relationship. Keep them coming sis!✊🏾

  • @Wonderwoman79G
    @Wonderwoman79G3 жыл бұрын

    Excellent, honest post.

  • @mikecole405
    @mikecole40511 ай бұрын

    Nailed it!

  • @princecharles757
    @princecharles7573 жыл бұрын

    A female will submit to the guy who she views as high value. This is based on her social class. Pookie and Ray Ray are viewed as high value within the working poor and sometimes the working class. A naturally submissive female will not choose a Pookie or a Ray Ray, atleast in terms of a relationship.

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU so much for breaking this down for me. I appreciate your response!🙏🏾

  • @princecharles757

    @princecharles757

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena My pleasure, keep delivering the fine content.

  • @marishajames3581
    @marishajames35813 жыл бұрын

    I have no problem with a man that keeps himself up and makes an effort to take care of his skin and his overall image. Gotta match my fly. Can't be out here looking rough. Can't stand men with rough skin and black toe nails. Take pride in your image men. Some of us appreciate that.

  • @oORegularKevOo
    @oORegularKevOo3 жыл бұрын

    This video is 100 percent on point...

  • @furydj2311
    @furydj23113 жыл бұрын

    Very good video queen.

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank You!🙏🏾

  • @triadholisticliving2369
    @triadholisticliving23693 жыл бұрын

    Another great one!! ❤️!

  • @architectonthejob
    @architectonthejob3 жыл бұрын

    Can't thumbs up fast enough!

  • @n.Lenice
    @n.Lenice3 жыл бұрын

    All of this was gold sis! Right at @22:58 🎯 You explained that perfectly. Woman shouldn't be in agreement with just any type of man just because he is male. That makes her any type of woman, right?? I don't think that logic is fully understood. Are you submissive? I've had men who are strangers to me, literally, ask this and they want to hear an unadulterated "yes". It's like, do you let anyone that can and do knock on your front door in your house? 🤦🏾‍♀️ My hope is that this spreads far and wide. Great video!

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    It doesn’t make sense.😩 Women that choose poorly are criticized for doing so, then are told they aren’t feminine if they don’t just submit to men. 🤷🏾‍♀️When I ask “what type of men?” some brothers get offended. We need to be accountable on both sides. It seems many of us want the best version of someone else without first being the best version of ourselves. Doesn’t work that way...

  • @n.Lenice

    @n.Lenice

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena Where's the super like button at??? ♥️♥️♥️ Exactly. Same here. I've been met with sudden and much hostility and "oh, you trying to be funny?", when I've responded with "depends on the man." Absolutely right!!!! Too many men and women have yet to realize that two half people can't develop a whole healthy relationship. I'm looking forward to your May series on your 2nd channel😊

  • @tariq_6164
    @tariq_61643 жыл бұрын

    That was good, thank you!

  • @trizzysmeez3698
    @trizzysmeez36983 жыл бұрын

    Nipsey Hussle masculinity was refreshing honestly. You don't really see collected people like that anymore.

  • @diamondunicorn2421

    @diamondunicorn2421

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree ☝🏽. He was cut from a cloth they no longer make.

  • @relly793

    @relly793

    3 жыл бұрын

    nipsey wasnt a good example..... nipseys feelings is what got him killed. he got emotional with a snitch , the snitch was just more emotional than him and killed him. rappers are the worse example of masculinity more than often they are just chaotic men

  • @Frankoshack

    @Frankoshack

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@relly793 of course he wasn't perfect. But how he conducted himself in interviews was a great example of how to hold masculine frame

  • @relly793

    @relly793

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Frankoshack thats literally, the lowest piece of evidence to how a person is. when you go to interviews .... are you truly yourself? not shitting on nipsey but we gotta start looking up to better men

  • @Shado965
    @Shado9653 жыл бұрын

    You are an point once again my sister keep up the good work

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate you always Brother!

  • @antoniobynum8317
    @antoniobynum8317 Жыл бұрын

    I truly appreciate this. I was worried at first that this was going to really apply to me. I would have major self improvement to make about myself. But I knew that raising my voice and getting frustrated with my wife when she gets mad was an no no. I glad that got a different perspective on this

  • @jahleeleli3280
    @jahleeleli32803 жыл бұрын

    Dr. Sara!! 100%! 👍👍👍

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    🖤

  • @MarvelousMarleyMar
    @MarvelousMarleyMar3 жыл бұрын

    She's 100% correct

  • @Frainkey
    @Frainkey2 жыл бұрын

    There's a very delicate balance with this in general. Generally, this is a very decent gauge on the subject. I could knit pick at some points to a degree but that'd just be being petty. This advice is a good start for most.

  • @CAHPlay-ne9ci
    @CAHPlay-ne9ci3 жыл бұрын

    A woman shouldn't follow just any Man...because when one of us( a Real Gentleman) meets her down the line, we are thoroughly disappointed. Pick and choose wisely, Queens!!!

  • @roimanning6867
    @roimanning68673 жыл бұрын

    You on point blessing 🙌

  • @ShaunTheNavigator
    @ShaunTheNavigator3 жыл бұрын

    Nice singing voice arguing the 14:30 mark.

  • @KentuckyBlue502
    @KentuckyBlue5023 жыл бұрын

    2:23 Facts! Thank you...as a father of a daughter I definitely can't be with a woman who can't teach and show her how to be virtuous and carry herself with dignity/shamefacedness

  • @jahleeleli3280
    @jahleeleli32803 жыл бұрын

    Dr. Sara Lena: I would like to see if you would address the much-needed topic on the persistent attacks (physically, mentally & spiritually) on black men (particularly alpha males) in this American society & how these constant attacks impact & affect how black women view black men (both the alpha & beta male prototypes: one more favorable than the other in American society) & how the character assassination against black men impacts black male/female relationships. You are the only sister out there that I can see that has the unbiased capacity to tackle the topic with a proper balance.

  • @gabeseifden6043
    @gabeseifden60433 жыл бұрын

    God almighty bless you Sara Lena 🎬🎬🎬💯💯

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bless you Brother!🙏🏾

  • @thescepterofjudah12
    @thescepterofjudah123 жыл бұрын

    Really appreciate this for men who don’t know anything about being a leader and a man of God. If I may, can I please request a video topic? Could you please do a video about dating a Momma’s girl/woman? Independent women who don’t make for good relationship partners because they spend so much time with their mothers and do more for their sorry and controlling mothers who are married with a husband at home! Independent women who will give more time to their mother and do things for their mother that their mother’s husband should do for them. I just recently ended a 5 year relationship with a woman who would not submit, and would rather spend weekends with her mother shopping, being a hen, and going to the casino than spending time with me. She would also go and pick her mother up from work every night when that’s the job of her mother’s husband. She would not submit, and was a very stiffneck woman. It was a major reality check realizing that I was dating a “Momma’s girl!” I have searched KZread, and there was only one video about dating a Momma’s girl, but that video did not touch on the topics I named. Dating a Momma’s boy is a running joke, and those men don’t make for good relationships, but men have been demonized enough. This woman I was dating was scared to leave her mother behind and start a life with me. So she bought a house on her own, and then asked me would I change my plans and stay with her in a city that was not working for me! She put her job and her mother above our relationship, so I left and am starting my life anew. I think this is a topic that men (and women) have no knowledge about. Any information you can provide on this topic would be a big help. Thank you!

  • @thescepterofjudah12

    @thescepterofjudah12

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Tango Salsa Incorrect! A woman submits before a man commits! This is why woman can’t find a good man, because of that attitude right there. A man doesn’t just jump into a relationship with a stubborn woman, and then marries her, that’s a recipe for an unhappy long term relationship. If a woman withholds in a relationship, then she will withhold even more when she’s married. The Bible tells a man about a stubborn stiffneck woman, so like the woman... he should choose wisely. Plus I don’t do the ring thing anyway!

  • @thescepterofjudah12

    @thescepterofjudah12

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Morgan Taylor If you know this, why are you responding to me? Did I say that a woman should just submit to any swinging dick!? You women go way overboard with the word submit! If you’re involved in a relationship with a man, you have a DUTY! If you’re worth committing to, then a GOOD man will marry you! Choose wisely, and you won’t have to worry about defending “against” the word submit. Thanks for responding.

  • @thescepterofjudah12

    @thescepterofjudah12

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Morgan Taylor I respect that and I wasn’t offended, but the comment in the context in which you made it wasn’t necessary. My point was that a GOOD man deserves a submissive woman that gives no harsh words and headaches. If you’re a good woman, then you have no worries because you should a be character of judgment. Peace.

  • @thescepterofjudah12

    @thescepterofjudah12

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Morgan Taylor Thank you, you as well! And thanks for responding.

  • @cdub7373
    @cdub73733 жыл бұрын

    Finished the whole video, even reminded a couple times. Any man disagreeing with this woman fits these characteristics & just don’t wanna work on em. All the real men n my life taught me these things, even my elders now

  • @stopcensorship7365
    @stopcensorship73653 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate all your videos sister

  • @iyube217
    @iyube2173 жыл бұрын

    This is on point.....even though I write poetry and notes lol.

  • @malloobasi1611
    @malloobasi16113 жыл бұрын

    “But he writes you a poem or something” damn Sara I am a spoken word Poet 😂 Just kidding ; I’m a man of principle first , artist second. Love your content , keep it up !!!

  • @malloobasi1611

    @malloobasi1611

    3 жыл бұрын

    The “ Girls just wanna have fun “ reference was a bar by the way, you dropped 💎 s

  • @JT-ef2qy
    @JT-ef2qy3 жыл бұрын

    Re-watch reciprocation brothers and sisters she spitting real game!

  • @jacques3456
    @jacques34563 жыл бұрын

    Great explanation and I passed 💯 thanks lol

  • @jamesdean7841
    @jamesdean78413 жыл бұрын

    I like you so much, and really enjoy your videos

  • @Gatornationchuckt
    @Gatornationchuckt3 жыл бұрын

    The caliber of woman and man determined levels of submission and dominance... It’s literally a case by case situation.. until one feels truly superior to the other for not obvious reasons it usually works naturally ... yet societal standard take priority now a days....

  • @cruisecontroltvdlcgraphixs4545
    @cruisecontroltvdlcgraphixs45453 жыл бұрын

    Love u sis‼️‼️

  • @calvinbrown8344
    @calvinbrown83443 жыл бұрын

    That was so good. I used to listen to a guy on KZread and he always putting down women. So one day I deleted him and I wouldn't ever listen to him again.

  • @just.the.tip.podcast
    @just.the.tip.podcast3 жыл бұрын

    I love your channel. I agree with most of this. The main part i don't agree with is the women section. There is a phase they talk about in the monsphere called red pill rage. That's when men start to realize all their images and conditioning of women was all lies and they are dating a lot of the fake feminine women you described in the other video. Quite often at that time you will find straight men who don't want to be around or deal with women while they work through that or they will spill out all this negativity stemming from their new realizations, previous hurt, or they need to get in therapy and do work on themselves. I think its dangerous to insinuate that ALL of those men gay or on the DL or something. Dealing with more women when a man is in that phase is going to cause more harm than good.

  • @Shado965
    @Shado9653 жыл бұрын

    A man needs respect for himself. In order for a lady to submits for him..be a leader

  • @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
    @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm713 жыл бұрын

    One more Romans 1:18-32 this is very powerful and prophetic. We see examples of this scripture everyday.

  • @gelato3299
    @gelato32992 жыл бұрын

    She a real one

  • @GregXHunterz
    @GregXHunterz3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Sara. I love this video, it clearly breaks down what fake masculinity looks like from mature masculinity. It's all still the same old masculinity, but there's masculinity in its undeveloped and masculinity in its most mature and developed form, so thanks to this video I have a deeper understanding of this. I have a question. You mention in the role reversal section that men complain about "I don't want to have to improve myself, I shouldn't have to protect women because now they have an education so they can take care of themselves." My interpretation of that is that men do need to step into the role where they have to protect her when the situation calls for it. But this leads me to my question. In what situation does a man need to step in and protect his woman apart from the obvious physical threats of other men, and in what situation does a man decides "okay, this is her battle that she's going to have to sort out herself if she wants things to get better, I'll help her along the way in order to make it easy and what not?" I ask this because there could be confusion here and men could end up white knighting in situations where she might not possibly want it. it could lead to guys misreading a situation between a woman and some other guy and start a confrontation out of nowhere "yo that's my girl you're talking to", or a woman not being able to take people criticizing her or insulting her in order to try and hurt her (I point this out because me personally, if someone name calls me I usually ignore it as it's natural and that doesn't even effect me as I can shrug it off and do my thing, but people will hold onto it and get angry over that so it ruins their day.), or a man tries to protect her in a situation that may not even need his protecting of her (due to her getting herself into that situation or it's a situation where it's best handled by her and not by you.) I ask these because there are times where a woman's man may not always be around to protect her in that moment, and something would've happened to her after the fact. It could also get men to be protective of women who somehow attract trouble and drama in their lives, as they're always the damsels in these situations. Any clarification on that could certainly help out here.

  • @stephisking1992
    @stephisking19923 жыл бұрын

    Interesting video

  • @latroy_x.
    @latroy_x.2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @HoodsGlobal
    @HoodsGlobal3 жыл бұрын

    If pookies and Ray rays are who you attract, you are in their class.

  • @Ev_89
    @Ev_892 жыл бұрын

    @ECT LLC You need to hear this, you and your man.

  • @sexyblackcharlery
    @sexyblackcharlery3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you xxx

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re Welcome!🖤

  • @the_beast_among_sheep
    @the_beast_among_sheep Жыл бұрын

    I had many bands through out my life and tried making it my career. There was nothing fun about it. It was a job. Not a good paying job, but a job none the less. Now I'm starting over in the work force, from the bottom at 39 yrs. old, and it sucks but life is a lesson, and all of us, no matter the personality, will learn or die (metaphorically). That's life.

  • @bisquit48
    @bisquit483 жыл бұрын

    Great point about some.men just being single and having nothing to do with mgtow. You may not remember sister but we had a dialog about that a few years ago and dudes were crazy other that and fortunately your king did. Video with you after that very good to see because your channel.became infested

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    I remember. Much Love and Respect to you!

  • @bisquit48

    @bisquit48

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena much respect to you and yours sister

  • @devonlendsey9858
    @devonlendsey98583 жыл бұрын

    First, as always your analysis of the topic is superb. Regarding female submission to males as a general expectation, one must be careful not to over simplify. Masculine and Feminine interpersonal dynamics is exactly that... dynamic. So, it is naive to suppose that a "submissive women" will or should submit to any male. That would be counterintuitive to her own survival priorities and dangerous. Yet, there are maladaptive females that submit to low quality males. Females are equipped with a bounty of testing regimes that they use to ferret out the wheat from the chaff. However, many women's ability to filter for a good man is broken, typically stemming from trauma. The qualities of a Authentically Masculine man require her to submit and many women simply do not want to. So, they get Pookies and Ray Ray's (fake Masculine) so that they can live life without boundaries, present their bodies in public in a sexually aggressive way, dominate the tone and tenor of the relationship, etc. Instead, a healthy adaptive (authentic) Feminine women will submit to her healthy adaptive (authentic) Masculine counterpart if she deems him worthy... which she will periodically test just to make sure he is authentic and remains so.

  • @cahokia33
    @cahokia333 жыл бұрын

    If she chooses to be ONE with a "pokie and rayray" then yes. Because she's Cleary at his level to be with him in the first place. Its reflective on both of them. Their attracted to each other. Both are hard headed 😪

  • @mr.fantastic1485

    @mr.fantastic1485

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cahokia33 but if she's with a (lame) or a (square) she'll run over him because he's a decile type ninja. Squares and lames usually don't have mature nor masculine enegry

  • @cjgamble7645
    @cjgamble76453 жыл бұрын

    Lol she got a problem with waves... I'm getting ready to bring mines back

  • @oneperson1461
    @oneperson14613 жыл бұрын

    To answer your question about submitting to a Ray Ray, I think it’s best to break it down to what it actually is. If u are in committed serious relationship yes u should submit, but if u are dealing with a RayRay as u said this is a real relationship and you should not be investing your time and energy into this relationship. It’s the same concept of trying to make a hoe a housewife. You have your fun and move on. A guy shouldn’t have to force u to submit it should come natural when dealing with a decent man. In other words enter with the intentions to submit but leave when if u find he isn’t worth being with.

  • @greecegun501
    @greecegun5013 жыл бұрын

    If you tie sara’s hands together, she wont be able to talk.🤣

  • @awmy3109

    @awmy3109

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, she's talking from within. As real as possible 😀

  • @SaraLena

    @SaraLena

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭It helps me get my ideas out!😩

  • @bbarns6431

    @bbarns6431

    3 жыл бұрын

    When I see her I feel her energy thru the screen. She's talking about feminine energy & giving it to you right here. Listen to a woman with your eyes, ears and mind.

  • @greecegun501

    @greecegun501

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SaraLena do your thing queen, i’m just being a clown over here! 😂

  • @richk320

    @richk320

    3 жыл бұрын

    😆😆😆

  • @wilmars9146
    @wilmars91462 жыл бұрын

    The question you asked at the end of your video you basically answered it in the question. I think a woman will submit to a man who inspires her submission. Like everything else there's levels to this. As you stated there are silly immature women who will deal with the pookies and ray rays , then there's women such as yourself who won't deal with those cats because of the standards you set and carry yourself in such way to attract a true man.

  • @DomisWorld
    @DomisWorld3 жыл бұрын

    “No, the song doesn’t go like that” 😂

  • @mdnoy40estuchae
    @mdnoy40estuchae3 жыл бұрын

    Facts!!!

  • @the_beast_among_sheep
    @the_beast_among_sheep Жыл бұрын

    You make some great points in this video. I think the only reason it triggered me is because of the B.S. going on in my life right now.

  • @bentleyjames4617
    @bentleyjames46173 жыл бұрын

    I agree with this video

  • @JOSHUA8CS
    @JOSHUA8CS3 жыл бұрын

    To your should a woman submit to a man just because he is a male. The answer is obvious in who and what type of men women naturally submit to. My go to teaching movie on the subject is King Arthur starring Clive Owen. His signature leadership move with men was the classic round table. Where he presented that all members on the team are equal. But those men chose him to be their leader. Same with his wife Queen Guinevere, a true warrior Queen in her own right before marrying him. Stood on her own but chose him because of his leadership skills. One of my favorite scenes and their are many is when he rescued her. He saw one of her hands was injured, he explained to her he had to hurt her to heal for her hand to heal. Post that moment they really got to know each other, fought some major battles together, built their friendship foundation needed to become soulmates. Then they married. Respect is EARNED!!!! You have an awesome presentation here my friend, keep up the amazing work. God Bless

  • @shwayanstv2607
    @shwayanstv26073 жыл бұрын

    Typically when the subject of pookie and ray ray comes up, it's usually to contrast the "nice guy". Most men "with or without father's" have been sold the disney fantasy of being prince charming.

  • @thecreater3030
    @thecreater3030 Жыл бұрын

    Ok I take that back... It's obvious you know what your talking about 😉

  • @Fluff87
    @Fluff87 Жыл бұрын

    How did you and your husband meet? What do you personally think about women approaching men?

  • @kingjay6009
    @kingjay60093 жыл бұрын

    To answer the question you asked sista, No, a woman shouldn't submit to just any man, first off it should be a strong "real" masculine brotha. He should be able to prove that he has mature kingly leadership qualities for any woman to submit. For example it took me showing my wife that I was a real masculine man worthy of respect and submission for her to finally submit to me, (not through force) and that took a little while to do since she's never been raised to be a submissive woman, but in time she learned how to be. So fellas, take your time and continue to stay in you masculine energy. Even when you're in a heated argument with a woman. She will learn in time that she has no choice but to submit to a righteous man. Just be the king that the most high made you to be, and she will naturally desire to be your queen. One love brothas and one love beautiful sistas.

  • @jamesdean7841
    @jamesdean78413 жыл бұрын

    To be honest with you I agree with everything you said in the video, however I do have a friend who always complains about women and it seems like he has a hatred for women but not in a homosexual way, but from more of a bitterness standpoint and feels like women are supposed to submit to men, but he doesn't take on the responsibility, or doesn't feel the need to earn that

  • @morgan-gx1ho

    @morgan-gx1ho

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well he will be bitter and lonely. No woman will submit to a powerless man. He either needs to get out his own way or pay prostitutes to give him sex

  • @Bran416
    @Bran4163 жыл бұрын

    Taking notes...