Some people grow up... others grow old...

@rodneygibson3014

4 жыл бұрын

legacyns1 I live by this same slogan, it always applies!!!

@lovinthis02

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I'm sending this to my 18 year old son. This is another perspective of what I've been teaching him.

Thank God for the men in my life straightening me out. My mommy issues were messing me up. I let that shit go.

@jeffu3248

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing but the truth here, Working mines out too 👏🏾👏🏾

Facts, I’m 20 and this is common sense.

@omegawicked1

4 жыл бұрын

Sure is

YEAH!!!!! Love it sista!! We as men need this truth. Most brothas aren't taught how to deal with life because they haven't had real grown men to look up to. This is real truth! Time for our grow up! Be a man brotha and handle your business!! ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

Good points ✔✔ I really like your delivery, Sara. You're not condescending toward men or trying to put them down. A lot of female youtubers could be much more effective if they weren't so disrespectful. It cancels out the whole message.

@fiberisacarb9877

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Everyone on both sides could benefit from this perspective. Uplift, STOP putting down.

If said it many times, there's a difference between age and maturity

@williamharmon3076

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed maturity is the key and how one is raised, and by whom, and possibly where ,there are other factors that play a role such as education and social economic, religious beliefs, but in the end age maturity , play a large role as far as overall character. Just my 2 cents.

Your channel is a breath of fresh air 💛

Damn this vid made me realize I'm a grown male and not a grown man. Say what u want but bet I'm the only one here man enough to admit that (see what I just did there?)

@LoudVapors

4 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Quincy you are checking yourself, being accountable for your life, you have taken the first step.✊🏿👍🏿🤴🏿

Grown man is brutally blunt no matter the cost and it will cost you even if you lie; so pay the honest price

@dmcyoungyoung638

4 жыл бұрын

HumbleWolf brutally blunt is a bit much. It sounds as if he has to make his point in an aggressive and forceful fashion. What if a man just states his case clearly, assuredly, and stands by his convictions.

🤨Stop wearing those skinny jeans and blouses Man up💪

@SaraLena

4 жыл бұрын

MR Goode Indeed!

@mrgoode1647

4 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena 🧡

@mrgoode1647

4 жыл бұрын

@Enki_of_Erie 💪

@flashylights

3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget the pearls

@mrgoode1647

3 жыл бұрын

@@flashylights lol 😂😂

Sara Lena you are a gift and truly socially in tune. The things you've said are facts and needed to be said to both energies. Your king is also on point. Ya'll keep doing what you are gifted to do!

@SaraLena

4 жыл бұрын

Juan Taylor Yes Sir! Thank You!

I'm still working as consistently because in my life I've been in a lot of foster homes broken homes moving back and forth to different family homes in now I have my own family so I'm still working on that and I've been doing what I have to do to stay that way but it's not easy and just trying to badass sometimes making choices but I got better over time so I'm kind of proud of myself I'm still working at it though

Sista Sera Lena, once again you've come through dropping jewels. I'm proud as hell of you sis. You hit each and every nail on the head. I could not have said ANY of that better myself. I especially was impressed by your knowledge of men instilling principles, morals, and values unto young men and how those "rights of passage" are missing so much in todays community. That it is those values, principals and morals that, when taught, are the lamp that guides nearly every decision that a "grown man" makes... (whew, alot of dust in this room)... I salute you sis. PS- let the "grown males" come. I got smoke all day for dem candy assess. -Shalom fam

@SaraLena

4 жыл бұрын

Jahdiel Ben Yisrael 🙏🏾 I appreciate you so much!

The tone that you're speaking in makes the truth that you're speaking come off as less harsh as you think it sounds. I admit there are things i need to work on to become a better man. Thank you Ms. Sara Lena

@Itsme_1648

4 жыл бұрын

Marlin Manendez Respect

You have given a great message in this delivery young sis.

One of the dopest videos (especially for us "black folk" on youtube). I can think of three people off top im sharing this with. Thank you. And i appreciate your king protecting u (his queen], especially from the adult males that will be offended. I would make some comments but im at work. But thank u both! One love!

@SaraLena

4 жыл бұрын

majestyrockmics Much Love!!🙏🏾

You have every right to say what you said. Also you did it respectfully. I took notes to share with others. I especially like the parts about a man being better able to commit when he knows what direction he is headed and women and children feeling safe rather than intimidated in the presence is a man.

I hear ya queen.Speak that truth.Us Grown Men and Grown Males need to hear this.

True sister, grown males stay looking like they did 15 years ago, and not talking about face wise.

Man, you have this Man/Male concept down pack.. You are so right.. The Man operates from spiritual ideals, but the Male operate from the cornal nature... I know King have to be so proud of you😇👍😊.. Blessings to you and King!

5 minutes in, and I love this already... Great job sis!

@SaraLena

4 жыл бұрын

J. Wellington Thank You Brother!🙏🏾

So basically, mature vs immature

Some women will not respect you no matter what you do and at times is envious of you.

@TurtlEfrmdaManor

4 жыл бұрын

I've been with two envious women! They're worst then your worst enemy.!!

@vensonj

4 жыл бұрын

Yep it’s terrible

@totw41

4 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@pure1769

4 жыл бұрын

And there are times when it's the other way around. I have known of men who are envious of a woman, and that is one of the saddest things I have ever seen.

@robertgray320

4 жыл бұрын

I agree........you can be the greatest example of what a man is, considerate, kind, confident, God fearing, grown in every way and its still not enough.

I was about to ask "what kind of man would be offended by this video after you made an identical one for the women?" Now I know...grown "males".

Thank you for breaking this down, never would of thought about it this way with several of topics 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I can't lie. I doubted you could deliver. Well done sister. You are on 🔥🔥🔥.

Love it Sis!!! The only negative comments are from grown males. Keep it coming sis!!! I loved the one for us women too.❤❤❤

Great Content Sis! Spot on with this topic. I used this one as a mirror this morning.

I appreciate your channel. Not only do you help women, but you, alongside other content creators, has helped me grow personally to be my best self for my woman.

Sister I thank you and your king for the continuing effort to spread wisdom and truth. Stay blessed

Sound advice. Look like I got some growing up to do. Bless Queen.

Grown males not only tell their business, but everyone else's too.

@totw41

4 жыл бұрын

I CANT STAND MEN/ MALES WHO GOSSIP

On that last point you are correct. Being in my children's life has brought a joy in my children and my life. A daughter in a non toxic marriage, a daughter in college, another daughter as a author and in college. Showed them that grown males are like a common cold to stir clear of them. There's no future with them, just pain. Found your channel two days ago Subscribe today. Love the information and your delivery Thank you so much🌹🌹🌹💕😄💕

Great video

Some good stuff and hard reflections on short comings and things that need to be improved and worked on. I had never really thought about being a role model for anyone.

RESPECT QUEEN... Just for the record, you are Glowing... The Melanin, the Jewelry, the Locks... The Sweaters is dope... your Vibe and your Message almost uncracked my screen LOL

🕓 THANK YOU! 💯💯💯💯 This is very SiMPLE & CLEAR! Extremely NORMAL.... THANK YOU!

Saw this title an had to tune in cause i surely use the term males females instead of calling childish adults who constantly display a child like mentality. So coming to see what u talking bout ✌💙💡🙏

@wisesavedone2721

4 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

Thank you sister Sara!

Sis I've been feeling some kind of way lately & you just made me feel like a 👑king... Keep up the good work. Shalawam to you & your family.

This video had nuggets of wisdom. One Love family

Excellent content !!! Thankyou for gracefully making this appealing for the men that need to hear it.

Well done. You got some gems in there

Thank you for these guidelines. 🙏

Your knowledge and insight into life is amazing. Your wisdom is real! Much respect!

I had to subscribe, I really do appreciate the time you put into explaining these subjects. I think if both men & women listen to this, they'll be much happier. Awesome!!!

Great message 💯👌🏾👍🏾

I can’t argue with you. Thank you for sharing.

Thank you Queen. Made my day

I really appreciate this knowledge, being a man of 35 constantly around students in school, to hear I'm influencing another generation even though I'm more reserved than I wish makes it worthwhile and somewhat noble to know these intentional choices are appreciated. And I can feel more confident knowing this that I'm being a public steward rather than a nuisance.

You are absoulutely truthful with this sister. I was actual relieved to hear this from a sister, it gave me clarity that I operate as a Grown Man. I belive you and your king are really helping to make our men and women whole again. Thank you for your Great Work sis!

@rodneygibson3014

4 жыл бұрын

Jah El ISLAM

@carribeproductions

4 жыл бұрын

@@rodneygibson3014 ISLAM family

I agree with you my sister. 👍🏾✊🏾

Thank you for your honesty 📝

Great video. Feels good to have the confirmation. Grown men stand up. Keep the videos coming.

Thanks for sharing this, Sara Lena. :-) Very valuable. And it's true. If we'd like it or not.

Very good points, I enjoyed this very much

All of these personality traits apply to men and women at some point in their life. I believe that we as people find growth and maturity when life provides certain obstacles that we can't overcome; unless we change some areas of our lives.

I truly enjoy your videos!!!

@SaraLena

4 жыл бұрын

56M views I truly appreciate your support!

Strongly agree with you.

I like hearing you just to hear your opinion about us or whom. It's very nice to see bright black women and beautiful.

You're so right !

Great content! Good stuff

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 great advice, great details 👸🏽

@SaraLena

4 жыл бұрын

BlkWallStreet ADOS lineage Generational wealth Thank You Family!✊🏾

Well said Young Lady!👏👏👏

This was eye opening. gonna Have to improve on a few things

I love you what you are doing, Great Job .

I respect your opinion and I agree with you thanks for the knowledge

Still Learning SiSt✨R! Thank you!!

Thank you for the insight. Although I know I'm a Grown Man I still see some of these grown male traits in my behavior that I need to work on.

Damn. You are amazing.. Your mind and insight❤❤❤

You say nothing wrong and you Have standing in my eyes. Blessings Isreal..

You are so Awesome!

Excellent work!

I was raised by and around grown MEN, and they still are the backbone of my circle ... I always thank God for them and even more so after hearing this, for having been presented this standard all my life -- THANK YOU!

New subscriber! Love your videos and your input on relationship dynamics :)

Good tips to look for.

Such a myopic point of view!

Got my sub 👏🏽

No even though U hit some points that hurt men,and exposes the games.men play I'm glad U did it was the Greatest I have ever heard on men or males. U was not bias in either or of your episodes. Sister your good at what U do and keep it up PEACE

Thank you spiritual Teachers peace and 💘 yin and yang ♓🔱

So keep up the good work.

We love you too Queen and shout outs and respect to your king

I needed this I am a grown male than knows what he wants but needs to step into that grown man mentality the crazy part is I have a father in my life but women in my life have always been my teachers in life

Hey do you think you can make a video on the importance of accountability I feel like it'll be powerful for people to learn keep it up I appreciate your knowledge

Wao wao wao wao thank you

Solid💪🏿

Excellent

This is pure truth

Im thumbing this up so i can come back whenever i need this growth again. I want to be a mans man and a damn good one. Thank you for this knowledge

grown males gone dislike this video

@bigDrob

4 жыл бұрын

7 so far

@darksydelycan85

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahahahaha 1000%

She is describing my baby father 😂👏🏾 should I send this to him

You just became my KZread mother because I didn't get the female teachings from my biological because she doesn't know how to be a mother or my father but I got a lot of my male teachings in discipline from my grandfather before he passed away.

Couldn't agree more

Wise woman 🖤💪🏾🖤

All facts!!

Interesting

Sister You speak the truth I have no problem listening to you you hit it right on the nail on all your videos now we all are in perfect.. But the truth is the truth a real man is born with the truth boys or not you can be taught but that doesn't mean you gonna listen and vice versa to a woman that is a girl.. Everyone can change

I actually like this video, you made some good points but I don’t like the grown man and male labels. I think men who self actualized vs non self actualized men are more fitting labels for what you’re describing.

Yeah I was being a male not a man. But now I'm becoming a man. Thanks for the video I truly appreciate it.